Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

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109. Would You Stay With Me?? Jul 22, 2024

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Les Chat family is going to BALI!!!! This week's episode we started of with shout outs to those that book their spot for our group 2025 Bali trip! Then we jump into to some hypothetical couple questions from Therapyjeff's IG page.

Would you stay with me if:

1. I changed my political affiliation to the other side?

2. I wanted to be physically intimate with you 50% less often? How about 75% less often?

3. I had to move somewhere 3000 miles away for a year, which meant we’d be in a long-distance relationship?

4. I changed my mind about having kids with you, wanting the opposite of what we originally planned.

5. I told you that I cheated on you once at the start of the relationship but never did it again because I felt horrible.

6. I either became devoutly religious or devoutly atheist.

7. I decided to stop using social media and get rid of my smartphone. In fact, I’m only going to use a dumb phone, and I need you to do the same, or I won’t stay with you.

8. I decided to quit my job, take out a huge loan, go back to school, and pursue a PhD that would take five years to complete.

9. I wanted to become a social media influencer and podcaster, sharing personal stories that often come from our relationship and time together.

10. I became really good friends with someone you hated. Like your arch nemesis or something.

Family Meeting:

I'm in a relationship with a bi woman from Peru who has come out to her friends, colleagues and a small part of her family (siblings, cousins). Her parents, however, are very catholic and not supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. They think we are only friends. I'm okay with my gf not coming out to them, but since she has a close relationship with her parents, I don't know if our relationship should be a secret in the long-term. On the other hand, I'm afraid that revealing our relationship will bring hardships to her and destroy her relationship with her parents. Do you have any advice or experience with this?
So I’ve been dating this girl for almost 2 years. Everything has been great except one little thing, sometimes girls grab her butt and she doesn't say anything because she said she’s not the type of girl to talk back. Girls flirt with her & grab her collar shirt and she doesn't tell them anything because she doesn’t want to be mean. I’m a baby gay and she’s been out since she was 14 and currently she’s 25 and I’m 22. She keeps mentioning marriage but I don’t know what to do or how to feel because of those situations. I’ve tried talking to her but she just doesn’t listen and ends up getting angry and shuts me down, I'm just scared to get hurt again I don’t know what to do anymore…

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108. Fem VS Femme Jul 15, 2024

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Bali 2025: Sign up for updates - https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec Class Pass Gym App: Link https://classpass.com/refer/871VN3U08 In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ+ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc". We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBTQ+ spaces, and its diverse subcategories, such as High Femme, Hard Femme, Femme Top, and Stone Femme. Family Meeting 1. “I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years officially but romantically 5 years. She told me it’s hard to see the future meaning marriage because of her parents…” 2. “I slept w/a guy & now I’m 4 months pregnant” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

107. Post Pride Month Jul 08, 2024

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Pride Festivities & Scandals! In this episode we catch up on NYC Pride Weekend festivities and dive into jaw-dropping internet stories. Brace yourself for a shocking Reddit tale of family drama involving an affair between a mom and her son's wife.

Family Meeting

“Is it wrong to hate my mother in law? I have been working with my monster in law for over 2 years”

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106. "I Kissed A Girl & I Liked It" FT Lilly Jun 24, 2024

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This week's episode we welcome a returning guest Lilly! Join us in this fun convo with Lily as she shares her “coming out story” ..

In our discussion, we explore the nuances of dating and relationships for Lily, comparing her experiences with men to those with women. We touch upon the challenges and unique aspects of same-sex relationships, shedding light on the differences Lily has discovered along her journey.

Family Meeting Questions

1. "I’ve been married to a girl for 5 years, we started having marital problems and I reached out to my high school sweetheart "

2. "My wife of 8 months suddenly wants a break from us because she feels she isn’t meant to be in a committed relationship."

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105. Breaking the One-Year Barrier: Lesbian Love Jun 17, 2024

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From the blissful honeymoon phase to the real challenges of long-term commitment, we explore it all. Learn how falling in love can impair critical thinking, why we unconsciously pick partners with familiar flaws, and how attachment issues and milestone pressures can impact your relationship.

Discover the importance of tolerating each other's bad habits, overcoming grudges, and negotiating differences without feeling betrayed. We’ll also discuss the swipe-left mentality from dating apps and how to keep the spark alive as familiarity sets in.

Family Meeting

1." Currently going thru a separation with my wife of 7 years, she moved out at the end of 2023 and has recently started dating someone else long distance. "

2. "I have been attracted to women all my life but because of my strict homophobic mexican/latina mother i suppressed those feelings and I tried to make her happy ".

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104. Navigating Queer Dating Apps Jun 10, 2024

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In this episode 104, we explore the evolving world of queer dating post-pandemic. Technology has made dating easier, yet it comes with challenges, especially for queer women. We review top lesbian dating apps like Zoe, Lex, and Her, highlighting their unique features.

We also share 10 essential tips for a secure and successful online dating experience, from setting boundaries to avoiding catfishing.

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Family Meeting

1. "I married a liar.."

2. "I recently came out a few months ago but I also moved to Spain FROM the US. I really want to get out and date and meet more women without using dating apps".

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103. Coming Out With PRIDE Jun 03, 2024

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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH LES CHAT FAM!!! We show love and support to our community by sharing small queer own businesses. Also Give details on all pride events taking place in the NJ/NYC area for those looking to attend. For all the first time PRIDE event celebrators we share some tips and tricks on how to make the best of your first time!!

Family meeting:

1. “Did you guys hear about the 16yr old high schooler that was not allowed into prom because she was wearing a suite and not a dress? ”

2. "I’ve seen a lot of women call themselves lesbians even though they date trans men. I don’t understand? I know labels are just something society created but if they are claiming that label themselves, then wouldn’t they be pansexual? Bisexual?"

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102. Coming Out At Work May 20, 2024

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In ep 102, we dive deep into the experience of coming out at work, whether as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or any other identity within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Join us as we explore personal stories of coming out at work, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs.

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Family Meeting

1. "I was dating this girl, I ended up finding out she was the girlfriend (now ex) to Salice Rose, ( a popular influencer)".

2. "My friends girl came up to me saying she found me very attractive and would try to make a move on me.."

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101. Unraveling Jealousy May 06, 2024

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EP: 101 - In this episode, we explore the complexities of jealousy within relationships. We go into common signs like lack of trust, possessiveness, and insecurity, highlighting how these emotions can be especially nuanced in LGBTQ+ dynamics.

Through personal stories we hope you gain understanding of how jealousy can stem from fear of abandonment, past traumas, or attachment styles. We emphasize the importance of healthy communication and setting boundaries to address underlying insecurities.

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Family Meeting Questions:

1. What do you guys feel about one another going to a strip club?!

2. Communicating with a female has been the hardest for me because is this normal?

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100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups Apr 22, 2024

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In EP 100, we delve into the complexities of lesbian breakups, exploring why they often hit harder than others. Drawing from an insightful article by "Amelia on Refinery 29", we examine how women tend to deeply enmesh in relationships, blurring lines between partners, friends, and family. Nicholas Rose, a psychotherapist specializing in queer relationships, sheds light on the challenges queer individuals face during breakups, especially when familial support is lacking.

We confront stereotypes surrounding lesbian relationships. Additionally, we share insights on coping with breakups, from embracing emotions to nurturing oneself.

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Family Meeting Questions:

1. " My girlfriend broke up with me and she stated she’s giving her life to God and she doesn’t feel right being gay anymore".

2. "Call me DELUSIONAL but i’m so determined to meet my future wife, i'm taking a flight to Manchester UK"

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