Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

137. Bad Bunny in PR, Queer Drama & Our 2026 Travel Plans! Aug 27, 2025

In this episode, Dayra shares her full experience at Bad Bunny’s residency concert in Puerto Rico from the fun pool parties and curated gift bags to the unforgettable concert, making new friends, and partying through a literal hurricane at the after-party.

Then we shift gears to break down the queer relationships unfolding in the Netflix series The Hunter Wives there’s a lot to unpack, and we’re getting into all of it.

To close things out, we’re announcing our 2026 vacation destinations with TrovaTrip: we’re headed to Brazil and Costa Rica. We’ll share how you can sign up to get all the info and be first in line to book your spot.

Costa Rica Trip: https://trovatrip.com/trip/central-america/costa-rica/costa-rica-with-jojo-dayra-les-chat-podcast-aug-2026 - BOOKING GOES LIVE 8/28 @ 12PM EST

Brazil Trip: https://trovatrip.com/trip/south-america/brazil/brazil-with-jojo-dayra-les-chat-podcast-nov-2026 - BOOKING GOES LIVE 8/28 @ 12PM EST

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136. Queer Ultimatum S2: We Have Thoughts.. Aug 13, 2025

In this episode of Les Chat, we’re diving deep into the messy, dramatic, sometimes sweet chaos that is The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. From long-term couples to one-and-a-half-year situationships, we break down all the pairings — and yes, we have opinions. 👀

Plus: Can someone explain why Reba’s JoAnna Garcia Swisher is still hosting this? We have a better list of queer icons who should take the mic next — from Niecy Nash to the L Word’s OGs. 🧼🎤

🎬 Also this episode:

Reality show pitches you didn’t know you needed: "Third Time’s the Charm" (polyamory throuples) & "Queer in the Dark" (voice-only dating meets chaotic reveals).
👩‍⚖️ Kim Davis is back and trying (again) to overturn gay marriage… we explain what it means in simple terms.
✈️ TROVA TRIP survey update + how to get a discount for our next queer adventure.
💌 Family Meeting: One listener asks if it's OK to stay friends with an ex they used to hook up with — even if it makes their current partner uncomfortable. We weigh in.
📅 Catch-Up: See y’all at Bad Bunny on Aug 16th! 🐰💃

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135. Thailand with the Crew: Island Hopping & Ping Pong Shows Aug 06, 2025

We’re back with Part 2 of our unforgettable Southeast Asia adventure and this time, we’re taking you to PHUKET, THAILAND 🇹🇭🌴

After an incredible week in Bali, we hopped over to Thailand with our crew of 12 queer baddies for the second leg of our epic girls trip. From ping pong shows, to island hopping in crystal-clear waters 🚤, pool parties that went way too late 🍹, to catching the most chaotic drag show of our lives 💃🏽 this week was pure magic.

Whether you were with us IRL or living through the pics and stories, come relive the laughter, chaos, and love that made Phuket one for the books.

🎙️ Missed Part 1 (Bali)? Go listen now!

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134. Bali with the Crew: Monkeys, Temples & Jungle Swings Jul 30, 2025

We’re back and kicking off a two-part series from our epic two-week adventure in Southeast Asia! In this episode, we’re diving into the first leg of the journey: Bali, Indonesia 🇮🇩

We spent a week in Ubud and Sanur in Bali with 19 of our amazing listeners, exploring the Sacred Monkey Forest 🐒, getting blessed at ancient temples 🛕, screaming (just a little) on the Bali Swing 🌄, and soaking up the culture, chaos, and beauty of island life. From spiritual moments to spontaneous laughs and matching tattoos, we’re unpacking what made this part of the trip unforgettable (we probably missed a few stories).

Whether you joined us or followed along from afar, this one’s for you.

🎙️ Part 2 (Thailand!) drops next week.

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133: From Love Island to Polyamory? Jun 25, 2025

NYC PRIDE is coming in hot! 🌈 Pull up to PRIDEANDFRIENDS.NYC for the Brooklyn Day Party on Saturday, June 28th, 2–9PM.

This Week’s Catch-Up:
🎬 We’re watching Love Island USA Season 7 — and yes, we have thoughts.
📽️ The Travis Scott: Astroworld documentary — heavy stuff.
💍 The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 is finally here — two years later, and we’re ready for the drama.

Also… we're heading to Bali and Thailand soon! If you’ve been, comment your best tips, hidden gems, or must-avoid mistakes 🙏🏽

Family Meeting Time 🧠💔
One listener is in a long-distance relationship that began as polyamorous but turned exclusive, or so they thought. After a betrayal involving an ex from the original poly dynamic, they're wondering:

“Am I wrong for asking my partner to cut off contact with her ex if we’re going to make this work?”

We break it all down:

What polyamory actually means (and how it differs from open relationships)
Why emotional and physical boundaries still matter after shifting to monogamy
What to do when trust is broken and accountability is missing
The hard truth: Love isn't enough without respect, clarity, and shared values

Plus, we highlight a past podcast gem: “The Contract to My Polyamory” ft. Jerrie Johnson — a powerful conversation on redefining relationship structures and setting intentional agreements. (Go queue it up after this!)

And if you're curious about how real-life poly families make it work, we’re also talking about the show Polyfamily on HBO Max, messy, beautiful, and so worth discussing.

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132. Queer Chaos & Pride Recap Jun 11, 2025

This week, we’re unpacking A LOT.

First up: the ICE raids in LA. We’re spreading the word, sharing where to donate, and why staying informed matters more than ever. (resources below)

Then, Fletcher? JoJo Siwa? Billie Eilish? All dating men during Pride Month?! Feels homophobic, honestly.

We also give you the rundown on our Philly & DC Pride adventures, queer joy, wild moments, and a few hangovers.

And in our Family Meeting, we hear from a listener who’s four years into a relationship and still wildly thirsty for her fine-ass masc girlfriend, but is starting to wonder if the passion is mutual. We’ve got thoughts (and experience 👀).

Make a difference during Los Angeles ICE raids.

Donate food, hygiene supplies and household goods to Raíces Con Voz to provide to undocumented families. - LINK

Operation Healthy Hearts has a slideshow of suggestions for how to provide mutual aid support to undocumented immigrants. - LINK

If you know someone who is arrested at a protest

Share the phone number for Jail Support LA: 424-610-3020. The grassroots organization aims to provide support for people who have been arrested — especially protesters — at every step of the legal process. This includes monitoring detentions, bail and paperwork.Jail Support LA is also looking for volunteers to monitor arrests made during LA’s protests against ICE. People can also donate to the organization.

You can also donate to Jail Support LA’s bail fund

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131. What Does "Making Gay Your Personality" Mean? May 28, 2025

We’re catching up on all things Pride, from Philly to DC! Join us June 6–7 as we host Havana Nights with TASTE Takeover, celebrate queer Latina joy, and ride the DC Pride float to see Cynthia Erivo headlining!

Then we dig into the hot topic: What does it mean to “make being gay your personality”? We unpack why it’s celebrated, why it’s judged, and why authenticity is what really matters.

And in this week’s Family Meeting: What if you’re ready to travel the world but your partner isn’t moving with you (literally or financially)? Is that a deal breaker?

🎧 Note: We’re now an audio-only podcast going forward!

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130. Lavender Marriages & "Mixed Orientation Marriages" May 14, 2025

We dive into our weekend celebration for Lilly's birthday (who's been on the podcast twice!) We then quickly chat about the encounter at Boston’s Liberty Hotel where a cisgender woman was asked to prove her gender in a bathroom, shedding light on the ongoing challenges of gender identity and public perception.

We also dive into the evolving concept of lavender marriages which was once used to hide LGBTQ+ identities and now transforming into modern mixed-orientation relationships. From Hollywood cover-ups to genuine soul connections like Samantha and Jacob’s, we explore why more people are embracing unconventional partnerships, the shifting meaning of gender in relationships, and how love is being redefined beyond labels.

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Family Meeting: "I’ve been with my girl for 3 years. It’s been an awesome 3 years. The issue is that she wants to live outside the US for a few years and I don’t see that for me."

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129. Unhinged Dating Stories May 07, 2025

We're catching you up on everything going on the past few weeks, life, drama, healing, and a little oversharing (as usual). We then dive into some truly unhinged lesbian stories that will leave you gasping, laughing, and possibly texting your ex (don’t do it). Let’s get unhinged.

Family Meeting

"My wife asked for a divorce after 10 years together, saying we're no longer compatible and that life feels overwhelming. Now she says we can 'date' after selling the house and moving out."

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128. Lesbian Love Languages Apr 23, 2025

In this episode, we reference Dr. Lynda, the Lesbian Couples Coach, and explore how love languages can be uniquely expressed in lesbian relationships. From quality time in nature and playful moments to affirming words and cozy cuddles, we dive into what real connection looks like and how to love each other more intentionally.

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127. Raw Convos: Beyond Small Talk Apr 09, 2025

In this episode, we explore how to go beyond the usual "How's work?" and ask deeper questions like, “What are you learning about yourself right now?” to build more meaningful connections.

We also dive into key questions for new relationships, inspired by therapist Jeff Gunther. What counts as cheating? How do we handle privacy, exes, and boundaries? Tune in for insights on fostering communication, trust, and understanding in any relationship.

List of Questions:

https://www.instagram.com/experienceonsite/p/C3LE9EjLSB9/

QUESTIONS TO ASK SOMEONE AT THE START OF A RELATIONSHIP

What counts as cheating?
Are there certain things we mutually agree to NOT tell eachother? What if an ex texts me? What if my friend doesn’t like you? Do you wanna know or should I handle it privately?
Are there things in our relationship that are just for us, is it okay if I share everything with my therapist, family or friends? Where is the line for privacy?
Do you need to know if I have hooked up or dated any of my friends? Would you feel weird or upset with meeting someone I had a past with?
How do we feel about staying in touch with an ex partner?
How do you feel about me being close with the gender or genders I'm attracted to? Does it bother you, do you want to meet them?

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126. Baby Gays & Late Bloomers: Queer Drama & Lesbian LOVE Apr 02, 2025

In today’s episode, we dive into the latest lesbian dating drama (TikTok Reference LINK with Beeca Moore & Shannon B.) and what it's really like navigating relationships in the queer community. We also talk about our Les Chat NYC meetup!

Talking Points:

Boundaries with Same-Sex vs. Opposite Sex: Why we tolerate different things from women than from men.
Long-Distance Love: Why long-distance is so common in the LGBTQ+ community and how it really works.
Besties with Exes: Why it’s a lesbian tradition to stay friends with exes.
Nail Lengths & Lesbian Hands: A fun chat on the unspoken rules of nail length in lesbian culture.
Lesbian Time: How relationships can feel like they’re moving at lightning speed.
The L Word: Why this iconic show is a lesbian must-watch.
U-Haul Syndrome: Moving in too fast? Let’s talk about the infamous U-Haul phenomenon.

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125. Dating Red Flags, Doechii Drama & Decision Fatigue Mar 19, 2025

In this AUDIO only episode of Les Chat, we’re catching up on everything from the progress of our 75 Soft challenge (46 days to go!) to some exciting updates on our upcoming Thailand and Bali trip (don’t forget, it's the last month to sign up for the payment plan). Plus, we’re thinking about NEW merch drop, with a focus on queer pride gear just in time for Pride Month!

We dive into the Doechii controversy (the Grammy-winning bisexual rap artist) From her viral dating red flag comment to the controversy surrounding an old video with her ex.

Also, we’re discussing the ongoing issue of “preferences” in dating. Are straight people crashing out over bisexuality, or is there something deeper happening? And what about red flags in relationships, jealousy, disrespect, and love bombing?

Family Meeting:we talk about Decision Fatigue. After 5.5 years at her current job, one listener is feeling the stress of decision-making overload. Can you really stop the anxiety from constant choices? We share tips and strategies from Mel Robbins' podcast episode, "Get back on track: 5 evening habits to wake up focused, recharged, and in control".

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124. Heteroflexible, Queer Choices & WNBA Drama Mar 12, 2025

In this episode, we talk about the WNBA drama between DiJonai Carrington and NaLyssa Smith, explore what it means to be "heteroflexible," and discuss the complexities of being queer. We dive into why labels matter and how being queer is more than just a choice.

LINK TO WNBA PODCAST VIDEO CLIP
BEING QUEER IS A CHOICE VIDEO

FAMILY MEETING

“I’ve been in a 1.5-year relationship, and recently, my partner has been hanging out with her guy friends more often. When I mention it, she says I’m being controlling. She works part-time and has a lot of free time, while I work full-time and take care of the house and pets in my free time. Am I wrong for wanting her to help with the home and pets before hanging out?”

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123. Raw Convos: Why Love is Blind is Lowkey Gay Mar 05, 2025

Is Love is Blind secretly a lesbian reality show for straight people? We break it down and give you our raw, unfiltered thoughts

Welcome to Raw Conversations with Les Chat Podcast (the audio version only), your bi-weekly Wednesday deep dive into all things personal growth, relationships, and any random thoughts we have!

In this episode, we’re sharing an update on our 75 Soft Challenge, we have 59 days to go, and we’re reflecting on the 16 days we’ve already conquered!

Then, we dive into Love is Blind Season 8 and unravel all the drama. Is everyone secretly a little gay? We’re unpacking the idea that marriage and LGBTQ+ relationships might not always mix with traditional views? Was Sara’s “push” on LGBTQ+ issues portrayed unfairly, or was Netflix just trying to make her look annoying?

We wrap up with a Q&A session answering some of your questions. "As a masc and fem presenting couple, do we make new friends with the opposite type? Jojo with fems, and Dayra with masc, what does that dynamic look like in real life?"

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122. Lesbian Dating Myths & Realities Feb 26, 2025

In this episode, we dive into some common myths about lesbian identities and relationships. We tackle misconceptions like the idea that being attracted to women means rejecting men, that lesbian relationships are always full of drama, or that all lesbians want kids.

FAMILY MEETING

“I need advice. I broke up with my ex of 3 years after she chose her 'friend' over our relationship.”

Source: https://www.teenvogue.com/story/lesbian-myths-debunked

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121. Raw Convo's: Right Person Wrong Time Feb 19, 2025

Is it possible to be with the right person at the wrong time when fear of judgment and not being out holds you back from fully embracing the relationship?

Family Meeting:

"I’ve been dating a girl for the past year and everything has been wonderful but I’m not out yet. I come from a very religious family and I’m also a people pleaser and unfortunately care what people think. She is the woman of my dreams but I don’t know if we can have a relationship if I’m not out the closet yet."

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120. Welcome Back Feb 12, 2025

We’re back after an 8 week break! Ahhhhhhh!! There is SO much to catch up on but we can’t fit it all in one episode. Dayra shares insights from her recent NYC LGBTQ+ speech, and we give updates on work and new home life. Finally, we share 23 ideas for celebrating Valentine's Day as a single, from binge-watching your favorite series to planning an out-of-town getaway, enjoying a parent-child date, or even hosting a singles dinner with friends.

FAMILY MEETING

“My wife/partner of 10+ wants an open marriage and says we want different things because we’re in different places in our life.”

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119. Graduations, Holidays & Anniversary Vibes Dec 16, 2024

In this episode, we’re catching up on everything—JoJo just graduated from her academy (finally a secret revealed!), Dayra shares her experience pledging in college, and we chat about how crazy the holidays can be. We also celebrate our 4-year anniversary by skipping gifts and focusing on experiences. Plus, we answer your questions about the habits we've noticed since living together. Tune in for all the updates and good vibes!

Family Meeting: "Was in a LTR with a man for 8 years, started dating girls last year, part of me wants to explore but I also don’t want to fumble the girl I met because she is amazing"⁠

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118. Dear Younger Self Dec 02, 2024

In this episode, we reflect on the pressures of marriage, kids, and career milestones. We talk about what we've accomplished so far, and how those societal expectations shape our lives.

We also dive into the movie My Old Ass, where an 18-year-old meets her 39-year-old self during a mushroom trip, offering life advice about love, family, and choices. Dayra shares why this scenario would be her worst nightmare, and we wrap up by discussing the things we wish we could tell our younger selves.

Tune in for a mix of humor, honesty, and reflections on the wisdom that comes with age.

Ashlynn Harris Wide Open Episode - LINK

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Family Meeting:

1. "I have a serious mental illness that I’ve been dealing with for over 10 years. I’ve always taken my meds and I’ve always been fine. If I don’t have any issues managing my diagnosis there really is no reason to disclose this. Am I in the wrong if I’m in a relationship with someone for a few months or 1 year & disclose this?"

2. "I went on a date and I immediately knew I didn’t want to see her again which is why I decided to “practice” telling someone about my mental illness. "

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117. Mental Health Challenges Nov 18, 2024

In this episode, we talk about the mental health challenges LGBTQ+ Latinas face, including cultural stigma and the pressure of balancing multiple identities. We also discuss the difficulties of finding mental health care that understands both cultural and LGBTQ+ needs, and how we can break the stigma around mental health in these communities. Tune in for an honest conversation about healing, support, and the importance of visibility in both Latinx and LGBTQ+ spaces.

Family Meeting Question

1. "I met this girl recently and when we met I instantly felt a vibe. The day we met I added her on IG and saw she has a gf. We have met up a few times because I give her private boxing lessons. I have a crush, what is your opinion of why she never mentions her gf?"

2. "I was a part of a Christian group at 21 and experienced religious trauma from conversion therapy. I left that group and came out officially at 28. I went through therapy and now at 31 I’m in a place to start dating. I met a girl and she’s great.. Should I get wifed up or keep my options open?"

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116. Les Chat Q&A Nov 04, 2024

In this episode of our Q&A podcast, we catch up after a brief hiatus—Dayra just returned from her trip to Colombia! Join us as we dive into your questions, share travel stories, and discuss how life has been keeping us on our toes. & DON'T REMEMBER TO VOTE!!

Family Meeting Questions

“My gf lied to me about having two abortions…”
“I’ve been dating this girl for 4 years but her child is so challenging & disrespectful”

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115. Ex Girlfriend Drama Oct 14, 2024

Join us this week as we recap Dayra's unforgettable birthday festivities and celebrate the WNBA's hot season. We’ll also share highlights from our family meeting questions and end with a fun “Who’s Most Likely To” segment. Tune in for laughs, our regular complaints and some insights.

FAMILY MEETING

“Me and my girlfriend WERE together for almost 6 years, she broke up with me 3 weeks after my father passed away”
“My gf of 3 years recently broke up with me to try things out with her ex, a man”

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114. September Recap Sep 30, 2024

Join us in this catch up episode as we talk about what we’ve been up to, we celebrated JoJo’s birthday in style, we share our unforgettable experiences at a WNBA game (where we spotted Ashlyn Harris) and recount our thrilling helicopter ride over the NYC skyline.

In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, we dive into the rich cultural contributions of LGBTQ+ Latinas who have paved the way for representation in the media. From trailblazers to modern icons, we quickly highlight their impact and discuss how they've used their platforms to uplift the visibility of LGBTQ+ Latinxs.

FAMILY MEETING

“About 5y ago I met my wife through TikTok . She slid in my dms and it was history after that. So I moved in and a year later we moved out of where she was and got married. Things were good until we hit 3 years”
“I recently broke up with my GF of almost two years. On our first date, I found out she was still legally married to her ex wife.”

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113. Falling For Your Friends Sep 09, 2024

In this week’s episode, Jojo and Dayra dive into the nuanced experience of falling for a friend—or having friends express romantic feelings towards them. Through candid personal stories, they explore the emotional rollercoaster of navigating these complex situations.

Family Meeting:

"My girlfriend and I were dating for a year . She recently found out that when we took a break I cheated on her with my baby’s father..."
"Can we talk about how racism doesn't only apply to white people but also other races? "

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112. Understanding PDA & LGBTQ+ Challenges Aug 26, 2024

In this episode, we explore Public Displays of Affection (PDA) from personal and societal perspectives. We start by discussing our own experiences with PDA growing up and how our views have changed over time.

Then, we focus on the challenges LGBTQ+ couples face when showing affection in public. A 2021 study reveals that these couples often face discrimination and violence, which can make them hesitant to express their love openly. We share stories of real-life attacks on LGBTQ+ couples, including incidents in London, Germany, and the US.

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“I have slept with a few of my friends and I am still friends with them, when should I tell this to the girl I dated?”
“My friend jokes around about being poly, do you think she’s hinting towards actually wanting to be poly w/ us?”

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111. Single Vs. Relationship You Aug 12, 2024

It is human nature to want love. To find someone you can connect and build with. Learning how to express, give, and receive love is a big part of our journey. However, when is the right time to find or build that love with someone?

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Family Meeting:

1. "My gf & I are going on 8 months. First 6 months were long distance... She left her ipad home one day, found sexual deleted messages w/ a guy…a guy she was hanging with when we were long distance. "

2. "As a newly gay woman, how do you date women?"

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110. Long vs. Short Term Relationships Jul 29, 2024

Are long-term relationships really the best? This episode explores why some people find short-term relationships more impactful and fulfilling. • Follow @https://www.instagram.com/p/C20DZv6upQy/?igsh=YnZxMThkdTMwdGxz&img_index=2 on Instagram. Family Meeting • "After a yr and half of officially being together, she broke up with me, without a real explanation 'why', she just said its probably best we stay friends, we haven't spoke since that day" • " Met this girl, 2 months later & I’m very in love with her and we’re inseparable and I feel like we’re flirting and our friends are also saying that.. I used to think that she's straight, but now i’m very confused" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: • IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ • TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc • YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ • Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat • Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ GO OUT & VOTE • Am I registered? https://voter.svrs.nj.gov/registration-check • Make sure you are active & not inactive • Register to vote link: https://vote.gov/

109. Would You Stay With Me?? Jul 22, 2024

Les Chat family is going to BALI!!!! This week's episode we started of with shout outs to those that book their spot for our group 2025 Bali trip! Then we jump into to some hypothetical couple questions from Therapyjeff's IG page.

Would you stay with me if:

1. I changed my political affiliation to the other side?

2. I wanted to be physically intimate with you 50% less often? How about 75% less often?

3. I had to move somewhere 3000 miles away for a year, which meant we’d be in a long-distance relationship?

4. I changed my mind about having kids with you, wanting the opposite of what we originally planned.

5. I told you that I cheated on you once at the start of the relationship but never did it again because I felt horrible.

6. I either became devoutly religious or devoutly atheist.

7. I decided to stop using social media and get rid of my smartphone. In fact, I’m only going to use a dumb phone, and I need you to do the same, or I won’t stay with you.

8. I decided to quit my job, take out a huge loan, go back to school, and pursue a PhD that would take five years to complete.

9. I wanted to become a social media influencer and podcaster, sharing personal stories that often come from our relationship and time together.

10. I became really good friends with someone you hated. Like your arch nemesis or something.

Family Meeting:

I'm in a relationship with a bi woman from Peru who has come out to her friends, colleagues and a small part of her family (siblings, cousins). Her parents, however, are very catholic and not supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. They think we are only friends. I'm okay with my gf not coming out to them, but since she has a close relationship with her parents, I don't know if our relationship should be a secret in the long-term. On the other hand, I'm afraid that revealing our relationship will bring hardships to her and destroy her relationship with her parents. Do you have any advice or experience with this?
So I’ve been dating this girl for almost 2 years. Everything has been great except one little thing, sometimes girls grab her butt and she doesn't say anything because she said she’s not the type of girl to talk back. Girls flirt with her & grab her collar shirt and she doesn't tell them anything because she doesn’t want to be mean. I’m a baby gay and she’s been out since she was 14 and currently she’s 25 and I’m 22. She keeps mentioning marriage but I don’t know what to do or how to feel because of those situations. I’ve tried talking to her but she just doesn’t listen and ends up getting angry and shuts me down, I'm just scared to get hurt again I don’t know what to do anymore…

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108. Fem VS Femme Jul 15, 2024

Bali 2025: Sign up for updates - https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec Class Pass Gym App: Link https://classpass.com/refer/871VN3U08 In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ+ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc". We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBTQ+ spaces, and its diverse subcategories, such as High Femme, Hard Femme, Femme Top, and Stone Femme. Family Meeting 1. “I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years officially but romantically 5 years. She told me it’s hard to see the future meaning marriage because of her parents…” 2. “I slept w/a guy & now I’m 4 months pregnant” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

107. Post Pride Month Jul 08, 2024

Pride Festivities & Scandals! In this episode we catch up on NYC Pride Weekend festivities and dive into jaw-dropping internet stories. Brace yourself for a shocking Reddit tale of family drama involving an affair between a mom and her son's wife.

Family Meeting

“Is it wrong to hate my mother in law? I have been working with my monster in law for over 2 years”

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106. "I Kissed A Girl & I Liked It" FT Lilly Jun 24, 2024

This week's episode we welcome a returning guest Lilly! Join us in this fun convo with Lily as she shares her “coming out story” ..

In our discussion, we explore the nuances of dating and relationships for Lily, comparing her experiences with men to those with women. We touch upon the challenges and unique aspects of same-sex relationships, shedding light on the differences Lily has discovered along her journey.

Family Meeting Questions

1. "I’ve been married to a girl for 5 years, we started having marital problems and I reached out to my high school sweetheart "

2. "My wife of 8 months suddenly wants a break from us because she feels she isn’t meant to be in a committed relationship."

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105. Breaking the One-Year Barrier: Lesbian Love Jun 17, 2024

From the blissful honeymoon phase to the real challenges of long-term commitment, we explore it all. Learn how falling in love can impair critical thinking, why we unconsciously pick partners with familiar flaws, and how attachment issues and milestone pressures can impact your relationship.

Discover the importance of tolerating each other's bad habits, overcoming grudges, and negotiating differences without feeling betrayed. We’ll also discuss the swipe-left mentality from dating apps and how to keep the spark alive as familiarity sets in.

Family Meeting

1." Currently going thru a separation with my wife of 7 years, she moved out at the end of 2023 and has recently started dating someone else long distance. "

2. "I have been attracted to women all my life but because of my strict homophobic mexican/latina mother i suppressed those feelings and I tried to make her happy ".

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104. Navigating Queer Dating Apps Jun 10, 2024

In this episode 104, we explore the evolving world of queer dating post-pandemic. Technology has made dating easier, yet it comes with challenges, especially for queer women. We review top lesbian dating apps like Zoe, Lex, and Her, highlighting their unique features.

We also share 10 essential tips for a secure and successful online dating experience, from setting boundaries to avoiding catfishing.

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Family Meeting

1. "I married a liar.."

2. "I recently came out a few months ago but I also moved to Spain FROM the US. I really want to get out and date and meet more women without using dating apps".

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103. Coming Out With PRIDE Jun 03, 2024

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH LES CHAT FAM!!! We show love and support to our community by sharing small queer own businesses. Also Give details on all pride events taking place in the NJ/NYC area for those looking to attend. For all the first time PRIDE event celebrators we share some tips and tricks on how to make the best of your first time!!

Family meeting:

1. “Did you guys hear about the 16yr old high schooler that was not allowed into prom because she was wearing a suite and not a dress? ”

2. "I’ve seen a lot of women call themselves lesbians even though they date trans men. I don’t understand? I know labels are just something society created but if they are claiming that label themselves, then wouldn’t they be pansexual? Bisexual?"

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102. Coming Out At Work May 20, 2024

In ep 102, we dive deep into the experience of coming out at work, whether as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or any other identity within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Join us as we explore personal stories of coming out at work, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs.

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Family Meeting

1. "I was dating this girl, I ended up finding out she was the girlfriend (now ex) to Salice Rose, ( a popular influencer)".

2. "My friends girl came up to me saying she found me very attractive and would try to make a move on me.."

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101. Unraveling Jealousy May 06, 2024

EP: 101 - In this episode, we explore the complexities of jealousy within relationships. We go into common signs like lack of trust, possessiveness, and insecurity, highlighting how these emotions can be especially nuanced in LGBTQ+ dynamics.

Through personal stories we hope you gain understanding of how jealousy can stem from fear of abandonment, past traumas, or attachment styles. We emphasize the importance of healthy communication and setting boundaries to address underlying insecurities.

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Family Meeting Questions:

1. What do you guys feel about one another going to a strip club?!

2. Communicating with a female has been the hardest for me because is this normal?

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100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups Apr 22, 2024

In EP 100, we delve into the complexities of lesbian breakups, exploring why they often hit harder than others. Drawing from an insightful article by "Amelia on Refinery 29", we examine how women tend to deeply enmesh in relationships, blurring lines between partners, friends, and family. Nicholas Rose, a psychotherapist specializing in queer relationships, sheds light on the challenges queer individuals face during breakups, especially when familial support is lacking.

We confront stereotypes surrounding lesbian relationships. Additionally, we share insights on coping with breakups, from embracing emotions to nurturing oneself.

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Family Meeting Questions:

1. " My girlfriend broke up with me and she stated she’s giving her life to God and she doesn’t feel right being gay anymore".

2. "Call me DELUSIONAL but i’m so determined to meet my future wife, i'm taking a flight to Manchester UK"

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99. Six Different Types of Attraction Apr 15, 2024

Join us on episode #99 as we explore the various types of attraction that shape our relationships.

Have you ever found yourself questioning the nature of your attraction towards someone? Our exploration goes into the blend of emotions, whether it's physical desire, intellectual admiration, or emotional resonance.

Sources:

https://www.healthline.com/health/types-of-attraction

WHAT KIND OF ATTRACTION AM I FEELING?

1. "I’m in a situation where I have a long term gf but my best friend recently confessed to me that she is platonically in love with me”.

“I noticed how pretty this girl from the gym is is and now i want to make a move but not sure if she likes girls. What should I do? How should i talk to her?"

cheated on me with a GUY co-worker less than a month into her new role."

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98. Deep Convos & Medellin Adventures Apr 08, 2024

Join us on this episode #98 as we reminisce about our unforgettable family trip to Medellin, Colombia. From exploring, eating and dancing to an unexpected event turned our trip into a rollercoaster ride – one of us ended up in the hospital, not once, but twice!

As we talk about our highs and lows of our Medellin adventure, we delve into deep questions that would be perfect for first dates. Some of them were…

Would you rather spend a day with your younger self or older self?
What advice would you impart to your 10-year-old self if given the chance?
And in the event of memory loss, what would be the first thing you'd say to help regain memories?

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97. Confessions Apr 01, 2024

EP 97: We dive into random questions, confessions, and family meeting topics sent anonymously via Instagram and NGL! Join us as we explore unspoken thoughts and feelings, offering candid insights and humor. From taboo confessions to lesbian drama, we tackle it all, creating a safe space for raw and unfiltered discussions.

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96. Facing Rejection Mar 25, 2024

Rejection has always been the hardest pill for us all to swallow. It bears such a negative weight when we feel as though someone you show such interest in just doesn’t share that same interest in return. We then find ourselves questioning what it is about us that could be wrong. But nothing is wrong with you!! Once we accept the fact that we aren’t for everyone just like everyone isn’t for us.. rejection becomes a lot less personal.

FAMILY MEETING:

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"I took the initiative to inseminate (without telling my partner) - how does this make it any different from getting pregnant by a man in the situation that both of y’all are a couple?"

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95. Questioning My Sexuality Mar 11, 2024

Curiosity is heavy during our teenage years because we’re trying to find our identity. Those are the years where we are introduced to friendships, relationships, sex, and maybe even questioning our sexuality. As we get older we still learn how to navigate through all those things because no matter how old we are we still find ourselves searching for our identities as we continue to grow.

- Is sexuality a spectrum?

- Do you have to limit yourself to a label?

- Is it because of growing up in a heteronormative society?

Family meeting:

1. " I was with a guy/married for 10 years, came out as gay a year ago & left him. Since being out of that relationship, I have realized that he is a huge narcissist and emotionally abused me. He used to say I had saggy boobs to the point I had a breast reduction, big thighs, big arms, etc."

2. "I feel like I am being tested in my life/career. I just graduated with my masters degree & started a new job but I have never felt so lost and alone than I do right now."

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94. Queer Baiting Mar 04, 2024

What do you consider queer bating? In EP 94 we discuss queer baiting which is when someone uses the possibility of a queer relationship or queer representation to get audiences to watch a show/movie, etc... but they never actually follow through with it. We go into different examples (Karol G, Bad Bunny, Harry Styles, etc) as well as the history on queer baiting in the 1940’s-1960’s with the “Lavender Scare”.

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Family Meeting:

“My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me because she believes she is poly.”
“There’s one girl in particular I’ve been hanging out with and have had sex a few times . She said she’s a lesbian when we first met and said she doesn’t sleep with men, and then told me a few days ago she occasionally does sleep with men. Sleeping with men opens up the doors for more STI’s. What should I do?”

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93. Chosen Family Feb 19, 2024

Society has put a lot of pressure on the importance of family. Having loving parents, sharing happy memories with your siblings, feeling safe and protected by the ones you share blood with.. However, that isn’t the version of "family" that everyone gets to experience.

What is a chosen family?
Why is it important to the community?
What to look for when choosing a family?
Where to find people to be a part of my chosen family?

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Family meeting:

1. "I am an 18 year old female and am struggling to be around my family. I'm half Black and half Latino, not to be stereotypical BUT when things happen in the family, we don’t talk about it! We “pray” and “move on ''. Very often they will bring up the topic of LGBTQ and say hateful things to intentionally hurt me(they are all very Christian). "

2. "Do you have lesbian friends that don’t want kids? As a childfree lesbian I feel bombarded by breeders, even in the LGBTQ community."

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92. Major Life Changes Feb 12, 2024

We're back! From what seems to be a long overdue break from the podcast. We talk about how the impact of big life changes in a relationship can be for the best or worse. SORRY FOR THE STATIC SOUND YA'LL :(

Unpacking the U-HAUL:

What our thoughts were prior to moving.
What challenges/stressors we faced in the process.
What helped us adapt to the new environment.

Highland Park therapy article gives

6 ways to navigate your relationship and big life changes

1. Open communication

2. Prioritize self care

3. Lean on your support system

4. Interstate adaptability

5. Prioritize quality time

6. Work with a therapist

https://www.highlandparktherapy.com/blog/2023/5/19/how-to-deal-with-big-life-changes-and-your-relationship

Family Meeting

“My wife’s gaming addiction ruined it for me. We got divorced but recently got remarried. I love her and I don’t want to hurt her but I’m hoping my feelings change so I don’t feel trapped in my choice to make things work between us.”

“We have not had sex in months now even at our new place. I’m concerned that there’s a disconnection sexually. We have been together for 9 years so maybe time has a lot to do with that? Any advice on what I can do or how I can bring up the conversation to her?”

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91. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later Dec 18, 2023

As the new year approaches, we reflect on 2023 and set intentions for the new year. We also share some bittersweet news in this episode.

EP 91: We discuss our biggest accomplishments in the past year, as well as challenges and obstacles we faced. We dive into personal struggles we had in 2023 and how we plan on achieving personal goals and self improvement for the new year.

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Florida News: https://www.instagram.com/p/C06zgEoujKp/

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Family Meeting Questions

My wife & I have been together for 4 years. Over the years, I realized I initiated everything: kisses, dates & sex. In the past 6 months, she has gained 40lbs & refuses to exercise with me or by herself. Between her lack of effort to initiate & her recent weight gain, I’m not as physically or emotionally attracted to her.
My girl told me that she slept in the same bed with her best friend naked because she was hot, this is someone she had se* with, in the past..

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90. Queer Dating Icks FT Brennah Dec 11, 2023

In this week's episode we welcome our friend Brennah back to Les Chat to deep dive into the tragedies of lesbian dating. Brennah shares some details about how her dating journey has been going and we run through a list of dating icks. The best advice Brennah wanted to leave with us is that letting go of expectations could make dating less tragic. You don't need to find you person right away. Have fun and get to know yourself in the process. Family Meeting: 1. Can y'all talk about WHY we have this weird dating trend where people talk for 3/4 months and then never speak again?

2. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months already. I just found out that she has still kept contact with her past fling.

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89. Coming Out To Your Child FT Jynette Dec 04, 2023

Coming out to your kids as “LGBTQ+” can be a hard conversation. In today’s episode we invite our dearest friend/momma to talk about her experience!

We dive into

Can you date someone who’s in the closet?
How to prepare yourself to come out to your kids.Advice for parents who want to come out to their kids but don’t know how.
Do parents need to come out?

Family Meeting Questions

1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years now but I met a girl who’s a coworker and I think I have fallen for this girl.”

2. “I just found out my fiance, who I have been with for 5 years, has been cheating on me for the last 2 months with my step brother.”

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88. From Girlfriend To Wife Nov 20, 2023

Marriage! A popular topic we love to talk about. Same sex marriage became legal in 2015, only 8 years ago. In this episode we dive into our idea of marriage growing up and our point of view on marriage now. We dive into

"What are the main reasons for same sex couples divorcing"?

"Why do you think marriage is so “valued” by society?"

Lastly, we dive into questions to ask before getting married!

QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE GETTING MARRIED
https://www.instagram.com/p/CiAqceaO_fH/?igshid=YjVjNjZkNmFjNg==

Family Meeting Questions

What does it mean, if now your ex wife turns around and gets married when you just divorce not even a year ago?
How can I effectively identify potential lesbian partners and improve my flirting skills at 29?

DIVORCE RATES: ⁠https://www.rgfamilylaw.com/blog/2022/june/statistics-on-same-sex-marriages-divorce/⁠

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87. Queer Holiday Survival Guide Nov 13, 2023

The holidays can be a little intimidating, especially for queer people who may or may NOT feel safe in places or with people (family) they are going to visit. We’re gonna chat about how you can make the most out of this holiday season to keep your sanity!

1. "Lesbian relationships and being friends with an ex. I feel this is more common among lesbian relationships and it’s not really talked about."

2. "I’ve been together with my girlfriend for 4/5 months, she’s met my family and friends, has been over to my home etc but I haven’t met any of her family yet nor friends. Seems like she’s waiting for the “right time”, I’m starting to feel like I’m being kept a secret for some strange reason."

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86. Being An Ally Nov 06, 2023

The coming out process isn’t always a positive experience for a lot of LGBTQ+ people. Not only do they struggle with the process of figuring themselves out but they also bear the weight of all the negativity they may face when sharing their truth with family and friends. So as an ally, how do you provide a safe space for those to disclose to you their sexuality/ gender identity without fear of judgment.

Family Meeting Questions

1. “I caught my having sex with her coworker (a man) and he claimed he's her boyfriend”

2. "My wife and I had been married for two years but recently I found out she cheated on me a few months before we moved to another state".

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Sources

Do's & Dont's LINK
Being An Ally LINK
Ways To Be An Ally LINK

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84. Should We Take A Break? Oct 23, 2023

Relationship breaks are perceived as a negative and selfish act. How can you claim to love your partner but want a break from your relationship? Most times one partner wants to take a break while the other partner doesn’t because it is viewed as one foot out the door to a break up. Taking a break in a relationship has a negative stigma because their purpose is never used in a positive way. In this episode we give reasons to why relationship breaks do not work, we share our personal experiences with breaks, and 5 rules to a healthy relationship break.

Family Meeting:

1. "How can I get past putting other people's sexual pleasure before my own? I just want someone who wants to please me as much as I want to please them."

2. "I'm in a relationship with an amazing man. However, I'm confused and struggling with my sexuality."

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83. Six Relationship Check-In Questions To Ask Your Partner Oct 09, 2023

We say that communication is the key to a successful relationship but what does that look like in practice? Dayra shares some questions that help practice monthly check-ins with your partner. Dayra also mentions the new found research behind lab grown babies and how IVG could transform reproduction.

Questions to ask your partner:

What is something I have done this month that made you feel loved and cared for?
Do you feel there’s anything we need to improve in our relationship?
Is there anything you need that I haven't been giving you?
When was the last time I hurt your feelings and you decided not to speak about it?
Do you feel like you still have enough time for your friends and interests?
What’s one thing you’d want to change/try out for the next month?

Family Meeting Questions:

1. "Is it normal to not have any serious romantic experiences at 21 years old?"

2. "What are your thoughts on being ghosted?"

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82. Emotional Safety Oct 02, 2023

What is emotional safety? It basically means being able to be vulnerable with your partner. Jojo goes into 7 ways to create emotional safety in a relationship. Jojo & Dayra both discuss what it means to feel “emotionally safe” and they talk about a previous “discussion” they had where Dayra didn’t feel safe at the moment. Read Article for more on emotional safety: https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-do-you-create-emotional-safety-in-your-relationships Family Meeting Questions “I had been dating this girl for about 2 years, but I started liking her friend…” “My girlfriend does not feel emotionally safe with me” “My partner and I have been in a relationship for almost two years, we go months without any sort of physical intimacy, including hugs and kisses” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

81. TV Lesbianships Sep 25, 2023

We love to see LOVE on the big screen, especially WLW relationships. In this episode, Jojo shares some of her favorite TV lesbian relationships that she just can’t get enough of, as well as a list of other queer related TV shows for you to check out. To end on a juicy note, Dayra brings out the new couples question card game called pillow talk and let’s get naked from the “open up”.

Card game link: https://theopenup.com/

List of WLW Tv shows: https://sesamebutdifferent.com/blogs/chia-poppys-corner/hottest-lesbianships-of-all-time-on-tv-plus-where-to-watch-them

Family Meeting Questions

“I caught my wife emotionally cheating on me with her new friend”
“My girlfriend is still married to her ex. She told me she’d get divorced as soon as possible in the beginning of our relationship but it’s been 5 years now.”

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80. Lesbian Couples Therapy Sep 18, 2023

In this episode we go over The Top Mistakes Most Couples Make⁠ according to a lesbian relationship expert, Dr. Ruth L. Schwartz. We go over the following..

“What are some of the most common mistakes you see lesbian couples making? Both at the start of a relationship or in a more established one?”
"Do you think all couples would benefit from couples counseling/therapy or ONLY those with relationship struggles/issues?"
"Is the U-Haul joke/rumor true and what do you advise couples who move quickly in a relationship do? Should they follow their hearts or put the brakes on things?"

Family Meeting Questions

"My gf tells me her baby father is disrespectful to her and I’ve seen it as well, I gave her my opinion on child support & because of my opinion she says that she can no longer trust me and that I don’t understand her logic."
"I’m currently married to a man, we’ve been together for 14 years & have 2 beautiful toddlers. I recently discovered that I am a lesbian."

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79. Relationship Non-negotiables Sep 11, 2023

Having non-negotiables allows you to set boundaries for people to respect the things that you value most in life. It’s like a promise you make to yourself to not let anyone bend the rules or change your mind on what you want most. You hold yourself and them accountable when it comes to those boundaries by sticking to your word. So let us share our personal non-negotiables that we set for dating/relationships as well as 10 general examples for all couples.

Family meeting:

1. How do i get my virgo girlfriend back?

2. I saw my girlfriends DM's with a guy she went on a date with but she doesn't know that I know. How do I bring it up to her?

Read more about non-negotiables:

https://hellorelish.com/articles/relationship-non-negotiables.html

https://goodthingsaregonnacome.com/why-are-non-negotiables-important-and-how-to-create-them/#:~:text=By%20setting%20non%2Dnegotiables%20and,live%20a%20more%20fulfilling%20life.&text=Non%2Dnegotiables%20are%20personal%20vows,what's%20important%20in%20your%20life.

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78. Hypothetically Speaking Aug 28, 2023

There’s a current trend going around where people are asking their parents hypothetical questions just to see how they would respond/react in situations that most strict parents would overreact.

In episode 78, we’re now following this trend by asking each other how we would react in certain scenarios where most lesbian couples would probably OVERREACT! Dayra asks Jojo “What if I were to go out with my friends and I tell you that a guy was buying my friends and I drinks ALL night?”... And Jojo asked Dayra “What if I told you that I did not like your outfit and told you that you needed to change your outfit?”.

Family Meeting Questions

“I identify as a lesbian, I used to be so passionate about my identity and would always talk/think about it, now, I feel like I could care less. I have less desire to partake in discourse or consume queer media. Even when pride came around this year I just didn't get all that excited about it. Is it wrong to feel this way?
“My partner and I have a very flexible and *healthy* relationship, but sometimes I feel like I haven't enjoyed my young adult life being single, and that's making me nervous…”

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77. Lesbian Slang Aug 21, 2023

Has someone ever asked you if you listened to “girl in red”? If so, they basically asked you if you’re gay. Everyday we’re coming up with new lesbian terminology! In this episode we go over some of the popular terms and what they mean. We also go over what it means to be "sapphic" and what is the difference between being a lesbian and being sapphic?

Read more about Lesbian Slang: https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide (https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide)

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Family Meeting Questions:

💖 “Is it strange that my current girlfriend is currently living with a friend that she has previously dated?”

❤️ “14 years together, married 3 years. My wife left in Feb, she said she loved me but wasn't in love with me.“

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76. Flirting Styles Aug 14, 2023

We’re often asked to give tips on how to flirt whether you’re out in public or on social media. Flirting is supposed to be fun. It’s not meant to be hard or done with the intention of finding the love of your life. So we share 5 types of flirting styles we learned to help you find your groove. You can stick to the style you’re most confident with or learn a new one to master!

Flirting Styles: http://news.ku.edu/2013/09/11/new-book-outlines-five-types-flirting-styles

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1. "I've been dating a woman for a month and a half. From the first moment we exchanged messages in an app, I felt a connection. When should the title of girlfriend be used?"

2. "I’m 23 years old and still live with my strict sister and her family. I don’t want to lose the girl I’m talking to but my sister also never tries to understand my point of view when I talk about how I shouldn’t have to be asking her for permission to go out" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

75. Before I Came Out Aug 07, 2023

What was life like before coming out for us? Since Dayra came out later in life she had a lot to say about this, comparing gay dating vs straight dating, how we dressed compared to now, and even finding ourselves in welcoming spaces with people who make us feel comfortable to be ourselves.

FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS

1. "I came out when I was 18 and have only had one brief relationship and an series of hookups and situationships with women. I’m sick and TIRED of dating apps and want to meet someone organically but don’t know how?!"

2. "My straight best friend for 3 years is giving gay vibes, I don't see her as more than a friend but I still feel kinda awkward around her. Do you think it's just girls being girls or something else?"

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74. Does My Girlfriend Hate Me?! Jul 31, 2023

“Does my partner hate me?” Has this thought ever crossed your mind? why does everything you say upset your partner? This could be because your partner is stuck in negative sentiment override. In this episode we dive into feeling disconnected with your partner emotionally and tips/questions on how to reconnect with your partner. We also talk about our experience and recent discussions when feeling disconnected. Links: https://celebrateagain.org/feeling-disconnected-from-your-partner/ https://www.regain.us/advice/general/how-to-recognize-emotional-disconnect-in-your-relationship-and-what-to-do-to-reconnect/ Questions to ask your partner to reconnect 1. Is there anything I used to do that you loved that I don’t do anymore? 2. What’s the number one cause of tension or disconnection in our relationship right now? 3. How can I be a better partner? 4. What dream of yours could I support you with, and what would that support look like? 5. What kind of date night activities could we plan to experience more joy in our relationship?

Family Meeting Questions

💖 “Met my wife on tiktok. Everything moved fast and we got married in less than a year, but things have quickly changed”

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73. The Best Of Breakups Jul 17, 2023

In today’s episode, we talk about the good things that come after breakups. Breaking up can be quite devastating, especially for the person who doesn’t expect it, but believe it or not, it's not as awful once we redirect our energy into the things that make us feel whole again. Family Meeting: 1. "I have a friend and we’ve been flirting and everything, now her family is in the way ….so i’m confused idk what to think what should i do?" 2. "I've been in the closet for 30 years! And I’ve finally started dating..."

3. "I’ve had the same best friend for over 20 years but I don’t like her current partner..."

Sources:

https://markmanson.net/how-to-break-up-with-someone
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-psychology-relationships/202203/breakup-doesn-t-have-leave-you-broken

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72. Lesbian Dating & Relationships Jul 10, 2023

In this week's episode we answer some relationship questions submitted by our fellow listeners..

1. Being loved bombed by partners that aren’t ready to commit.

2. “Partners” that aren’t ready to commit but want you to meet their friends and do things for you.

3. Talking to other people while also figuring out your dating goals with the person you’re talking to.
4. Why do partners feel the need to overspend on you fresh out the gate?

Family meeting:

1. "I've been talking to a girl for 6 months but she isn't ready for a relationship. Should I wait for her?"

2. "How do I continue to grow with the person I'm talking to when I always feel second to their deceased ex?"

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71. Sibling Relationships Jul 03, 2023

As adults we get busy with life and we tend to grow apart from those we love. If you’re a loyal listener you know we focus on lgbtq+ topics, however, in this episode we talk a little bit about family. We dive into the following…

Describing our relationship with our siblings
How we came out to our siblings and how that relationship was like after coming out
Sibling drama/fighting for our parents attention/favoritism, etc!

We also dive into why siblings grow apart over time.

Family Meeting Questions

“I was talking to a married lesbian for 2 months and her wife found out”
“My girlfriend has an ex who has a son and my gf is very attached to him, not sure what to do”.

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70. Is It Cheating? Queer Women Edition Jun 26, 2023

Les Chat about cheating again! There are no “universal rules” around cheating, what is cheating and what is not cheating is up to you and your partner. In this episode we go over this TikTok video where she goes over “cheating” scenarios (video link: https://www.tiktok.com/@kristy.ca/video/7239822376970587398 - for queer couples) and we go over it in this episode. If you would like to listen to our last cheating episode (The Cheater & The Cheated) tune into episode 8. Below are some questions we go over.. IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner still listens to a playlist that their ex made them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner STILL hangs out with an ex that still has feelings for them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner uses a strap that used to belong to them and their ex Family Meeting Story “My gf cheated on me emotionally..” “I cheated on my BF and I am GAY AF." PRECIOSA NIGHT TICKETS: https://www.preciosanight.com/tix Please rate, review, and subscribe to or follow the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com

69. The Ultimatum: Queer Love Jun 19, 2023

We couldn't let pride month go by without out deep diving into the most popular Netflix queer reality series "THE ULTIMATUM: QUEER LOVE"!! Yes, we FINALLY discuss our thoughts on the original 5 couples, the trail couples, and the all the drama in between up until the reunion. DISCLAIMER this episode is a huge spoiler alert so if you have not yet watched or finished watching this series we suggest you do that first and tune back into this episode. Also, if you're looking to close out this pride month with a night to remember then come join us in NYC for the very last pride month celebration!! Click the link below for details on the NYC Pride Event!

Link to NYC Pride Party: CLICK HERE

Family meeting:

1. "I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years but we haven't be sexually intimate".

2. "My girlfriend recently told me that she want to experiment with other people and that she may never want to come out".

Please rate, review, and subscribe to or follow the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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68. What's happening during PRIDE MONTH?! Jun 05, 2023

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!! This episode was short and sweet where we talk about what’s going on this month, what events we will be attending as well as some events YOU should attend as well!

Below are some events happening in NJ/Philly/NYC and LA!

6/6/23 - 6/11/23 - LA - 7 Exclusive Events For Women Who Love Women @taste.ent @tasteofficial_

6/9/23 - Haddon Township Pride @haddontownshipequityinitiative

6/10/23 - Sip City Queer Prom @sipcitymixer (Tickets can be found here: https://linktr.ee/leschat - use promo code "leschatpodcast"

6/10/23 - Queer Mixer in Jersey City with @jerseycityconnects

6/10/23 - Philly Pride Run @phillypriderun

6/10/23 - Brooklyn Pride @brooklyn_pride

6/10/23 - Montclair, NJ Pride @outmontclair

6/10/23 - Red Bank, NJ Pride In The Park @redbank_nj

6/10/23 - LA HoodRave @hoodravela

6/11/23 - LA Pride Village Parade @hollywoodpartnership

6/11/23 - Drag Brunch Canopy in NJ @jerseycitypride

6/15/23 - Trans Pride in Philly @sipcitymixer

6/17, 6/24 & 6/25 - Pride Party Cruise: Sparkle in the Dark @eventcruises_nyc

6/21/23 - NYC Yankees Pride Night @nycpride

6/22/23 - 6/24/23 NYC Party with @edennycpride

6/23/23 - 6/24/23 - NYC Pride Drag Brunch Cruise @eventcruises_nyc

6/24/23 - Pride 5K

6/25/23 NYC Pride Grand Finale @slateny with @nydreamgyrl

6/25/23 - NY Pride Island @brooklynarmyterminal

6/23/23 - NYC Pride

NJ Drag Queen Entertainment Shows @dragqueenentertainment

Jersey City Drag Shows on Fridays & Saturdays with @six26_lounge

Family Meeting Questions

“I’ve fallen for a straight girl!”
"What would you choose? you find a girl you have an out of this world emotional connection, but zero physical attraction OR you have another girl that connects with you on every sexual level, but you can't show your true self outside the bedroom.”
“I’m 21 and I’m dating a 26 year old, but I wasn’t being honest with myself”

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67. Dating Within Your Friend Group May 29, 2023

It's no secret that in lesbian culture we find ourselves befriending exes or maybe even getting involved with close friends! While it seems cool and convenient at first, it can be quite the MESS. Sharing a friend group with your partner can be ideal for many reasons..

For example, you understand the friendship dynamic, you share most of the same interests, you reciprocate one another's energy, and have the same ideas of what boundaries are. However, dating someone in your friend group or befriending an ex can also be weird and create instability in your shared friend group.

We share some tips on dating someone in your friend group and tips on what to if you breakup with someone who has the same friend group as you.

Family Meeting Q&A:

1. "Can you be friends with an EX?"

2. "My girlfriend won't tell me why she stopped talking to her "bestie"."

3. "My girlfriend went out and broke my trust."

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66. 7 First Date Conversation Starters & Date Ideas May 15, 2023

Instagram is full of insightful post that we can all relate to so this week’s episode we leave the topic of discussion to instagram. We chose 2 popular IG post “7 questions to ask on a first date” and “7 first date ideas” to share along with our own thoughts about them.

Family Meeting Story

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65. Stigma's About The LGBTQ+ Community May 08, 2023

Why are there so many stigmas towards the LGBTQ+ community? I’m sure we’ve all heard the following statements...

“Homosexuality is a choice”
“You can’t be queer and religious”
“All bisexuals are promiscuous”

And many more! Before the 1970s, most stereotypes about the LGBTQ+ community were extremely negative, doctors believed if you were gay, you suffered from a mental disorder. In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality as a mental disorder, but then replaced it with "sexual orientation disturbance." Then in 1987, the (DSM) Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders removed homosexuality from their list.

We also dive into stigmas regarding HIV. For as long as HIV has existed in the public eye, it has been associated with the LGBTQ+ community. We are excited to share that we are partnering up with The Black Aids Institute.

The Black Aids institute is dedicated to ending the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the Black community. Some of you may be thinking to yourself “HIV doesn’t affect me because I’m a lesbian who dates women only”. However, today there are more than 1.1 million people living with HIV in the U.S and 23% of them are women.

HIV affects women of color, especially black women. This is an important reminder to get tested and to get that HIV vaccine once it comes out, we’re manifesting it will be very soon!

Family Meeting Q&A

“I can’t get over my ex-girlfriend”.
“How long would you be willing to wait for a marriage proposal before calling it quits?”

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64. Our Legacy May 01, 2023

You don't have to be famous or be known by the world to leave behind a legacy that will live beyond our existence. We all play a part in the impact and influence we have on one another's lives. It’s up to you on what you want to be remembered for.

In this episode we talk about the people we looked up to that have shaped us into who we've become leading up to adulthood. We dive into how in creating this platform, we'll leave that legacy behind us and how we want to be remembered as a couple as well as an individual.

Family Meeting

“I’m straight but I think I’m in love with my BFF”

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63. A Queer Baecation Apr 24, 2023

A vacation is good for the soul and for the relationship. In episode #63 we dive into BAECATIONS! Listen, WE NEED A BAECATION so we’re just gonna reminisce but we also want to talk about our travel experience as a queer couple and everything you need to know before booking that baecation. We dive into our traveling personality, when it’s too early to book that baecation, how often couples should go on vacation, as well as. Safe places to travel for LGBTQ couples - Link The worst places to travel for LGBTQ couples (There are 64 countries that have laws that criminalize homosexuality, and nearly half of these are in Africa. - link) Family Meeting Q&A’s Christianity/Religion & being LGBTQ+: My partner feels as if she cannot be bisexual and also a Christian. Are we breaking up? “Lately I’ve been feeling like I want to break up with my girlfriend”. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ .GAY Domain Link The #DotGayDomain is on a mission to support LGBTQ+ communities by donating 20% of each domain name registration to grassroots organizations and banning hateful sites. Head over to www.LesChatPodcast.gay and grab your FREE .gay domain and join us in creating an internet where everyone can be themselves proudly! 🏳️‍🌈✨

61. Adult Friendships Apr 10, 2023

When we were younger, making new friends was easy and having a larger group of friends was normal. However, as we get older having only two or three close friends becomes the norm because life just seems to get in the way. In this episode we talk about how work, parenting, home chores, relationships and even the pandemic made friendships harder to maintain as an adult. We also dive into how friendships look after coming out and what it's like to be the only gay friend in the group. Family meeting: 1. My GF and I work for the same company she’s a HR manger and i’m a supervisor but we work in different buildings.The issue is that when i am venting to her about work or some gossip it always turns into a argument because her HR comes out but i have to remind her that I am venting to my GF not HR. 2. I’ve been with my girl for a year and half. She has a daughter who has ADHD. This wasn’t told to me upfront and it has caused some difficulties in the relationship. We’re good overall, but the child is an issue due to lack of respect. How do you find a middle ground or do you walk away? IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

PRECIOSA NIGHT/LGBTQ BROOKLYN PARTY ON 05/13 - TICKETS

SipCity Mixer (Philly)
Melamixin Sip City (Philly)
Philly Gay Girls
SipCitySouthJersey
TheHouseOfQueers
Geneva APP
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60. Relationship Fighting Styles Apr 03, 2023

What’s your fight style? Similar to “love languages” we also have “fighting styles”. Relationships are often associated with the idea of love and happiness.. How do I keep my partner happy? How do I show them I care and understand? How can we “fight” without it turning into a screaming match? There are SO many different online articles and online quizzes on fight styles but we focused on the top 3 by Jay Shetty, “Venting, Hiding, or Exploding”. We also dive into other popular fighting styles/languages and how you can find neutrality and peace. Family Meeting: ”I’m an 18 year old fem lesbian and she’s a 21 year old bi fem, is the age difference an issue?” "Hello,I’m a closeted bisexual and really want to come out. But I’m afraid that my friends will look differently at me. “ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ FIGHT STYLES QUIZ https://what-is-your-fight-style.scoreapp.com/?fbclid=PAAaZ4Nd872HcXNhv0xj6WBRQsJmTP4oUdDqlMbYPUP4Tv_G5qv-y7El4dmN4 SOURCES https://www.yourtango.com/love/six-fight-languages https://www.thehealthjournals.com/5-anger-languages/ TOPIC ON NASHVILLE SHOOTING https://www.reuters.com/world/us/after-school-shooting-some-trans-tennesseans-face-backlash-2023-03-31/ https://www.instagram.com/teachingisintellectual/?hl=en

59. Pronouns With Teacher Robi Mar 27, 2023

Nairobi, also known as Robi is a middle school art teacher who has gone viral on TikTok for the way they manage their classroom, funny conversations with students, tiktok dances, outfit of the day and more!

Pronouns are not something we’ve touched on in this podcast because we wanted someone to come in and educate us and talk about their experience. Robi identifies as non-binary and goes by they/them. So what are pronouns?! It’s what you use to address other people when you’re not using names. The most common pronouns are she/her/hers, they/them/theirs, and he/him/his.

It’s important to respect pronouns because you wouldn’t call someone a different name other than the one they have. In this episode we dive into

💜Robi’s teaching experience/why they became a teacher

💛What students address them as and how Robi corrects them or doesn’t correct them when they say the wrong pronoun, such as “Ms Robi”

💗And more!

Family Meeting:

We don’t have any family meeting/Q&A in this episode.

Robi’s Social Media Handles

https://linktr.ee/robigotsoles

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58. Embracing Our Journey Mar 20, 2023

This episode was a little different, we introduced our "Love without limits" merch and the journey it took to get to this point. While it is still Women's History Month we talked about queer Hispanic history and some badass queer women we should all know about. Also, played one our favorite card games, “We’re not really strangers” where we both answer relationship and couple questions. Special Announcement: Merch goes on SALE to Patreon members on Monday, March 20th and everyone else can shop on Tuesday, March 21st at 12PM EST. Family Meeting: “I have a gf I love her to death but when she's going through something she pushes me away “ “How can I deal with my gf when it’s that time of the month?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/⁠⁠ TIKTOK: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠⁠ YOUTUBE: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/⁠⁠ PATREON: ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod⁠⁠ Our website: ⁠⁠https://leschatpod.com/⁠⁠ Link tree: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/leschat⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.luckyskivvies.com/⁠ - ⁠PROMO CODE: LES10 LES CHAT MERCH: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ QUEEN V: https://amzn.to/3ZQugjx

57. Dating Co-Workers Mar 13, 2023

Most of our daily time is spent at work with fellow coworkers, more than we see our loved ones. Our co-workers are the people who relate the most to us because they work side by side for hours throughout the week. It's unrealistic to think that we won’t ever create a bond or develop potential feelings for at least one co-worker. Whether those feelings are on a romantic level or just a pure deep friendship connection you’ll find it hard to keep the vibes as just “business”. So what are the pro’s and con’s of dating someone within your workplace? Jojo and Dayra run through those pros and cons as well as some "DO'S and DON'TS" in the event that you DO decide to cross that line.

Family Meeting:

1. "My wife got super close with a male coworker. They are texting/calling each other constantly. I told her that it’s too much but she told me that I can’t tell her what to do. "

2. "So my girlfriend has been lying to me about her ex..."

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56. Green Flags Mar 06, 2023

Red flags are the signs telling us to proceed with caution and that we're playing at our own risk. Sometimes those red flags are actually telling us that it maybe it’s time to let the relationship go.

Although it's usually easier to notice all the negative things that we experience, sometimes we just have to remind ourselves of all the positive things too. In this episode Dayra and Jojo tap into that positivity by discussing "Green Flags" when it comes to dating/relationships. They give examples of what they seek as green flags when dating someone such as good family connections, self awareness, acceptance of presentation, respectful of pronouns etc.

Family Meeting:

1. “I caught my girlfriend sexting another girl.”

2. “How do I get over the fear of approaching my crush?”

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55. Am I A Lesbian? The Master Doc Feb 27, 2023

The “Lesbian Masterdoc” is a google document that asks you to consider if you are a lesbian. This is the same master doc that Kehlani read that made her realize she may be a lesbian. It’s written like a blog post and it goes through bullet points to help you understand the difference between heterosexuality and compulsory heterosexuality which is the idea that heterosexuality is assumed and forced upon women, which may make women feel forced into being attracted to men, even when they might not be. You may not relate OR you may REALLY connect with this google doc.

We review a few sections from the chapter and discuss our thoughts on “Am I Lesbian?”, such as…

Having such high standards that literally no guy meets them – and feeling no spark of attraction to any guy who doesn’t meet them
You’re far more certain about being attracted to women than you are about being attracted to men
Only/mostly being into guys who are gender nonconforming or feminine in some way.

Family Meeting Questions

1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months and I still haven't seen her n@ked or haven't gotten to really be intimate with her. "

2. “I have heard Dayra say that she has a few health problems related to IBS. I’ve been going through similar issues and feel like there are no answers for what is truly wrong with my health."

Copy of “Am I A Lesbian Google Doc” -

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BONUS: Bad Dates Sneak Preview Feb 22, 2023

In this bonus episode we talk about our BAD dates stories! Join our Patreon Family! On Patreon we want to connect with our audience on a deeper level by providing more bonus content, vlogs, behind the scenes, monthly zoom meetings, discord chats, live advice, merch discounts, and more! patreon.com/leschatpod We currently have 2 membership tiers, the BABY GAYS for $6 which includes EXCLUSIVE COMMUNITY: Take part in Patreons community, polls, posts, Q&A’s, etc. LES CHAT GROUP CHAT: Join our private Discord group chat. 2x BONUS CONTENT: (Two minimum monthly Les Chat extended episodes, behind the scenes, OR vlogs) Q&A FAM MEETING: We’ll answer your family meeting questions in 48 hours via DISCORD. IG CLOSE FRIENDS: More content from us from our Instagram page. VOTES: Give us feedback on future topics, merch & contribute to future episode topics. MEETUPS: NJ/Philly/NYC meetups And our MOST popular one, LES CHAT FAMILY, which includes Everything in the previous tier AND + 4x BONUS CONTENT: (Four minimum monthly Les Chat extended episodes including live zoom audio, behind the scenes, OR vlogs) LIVE ZOOM & CHILL: Monthly zoom meetings where we’ll play games, talk shit & bring on your FAV GUESTS! LIVE FAM MEETING QUESTIONS: We’ll chat about your personal questions! MERCH: Get merch discount!

54. Muralist Artist goes on Reality TV - FT Melanie Posner Feb 20, 2023

In today’s episode we have Melanie Posner, muralist and artist. Her name rings a bell because she was part of the reality tv show Tampa Baes from Amazon Prime Video. The show was inspired by The Real L Word! In this episode we talk about.

The REALITY of filming a reality show
Melanie’s dating life during the show
How Melanie got into art/becoming an artist/muralist

Tiktok Reference:https://www.tiktok.com/@therealmelpoz/video/7133654642830953770

Unfortunately, we did not answer any family meeting questions in this episode!

Melanie's Instagram
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Tampa Bae's Trailer

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53. Queer Dating Struggles & Tips Feb 13, 2023

In EP 53 we dive into lesbian dating and the struggles of dating when it comes to

Dating apps
Cat fishes
Being ghosted
Finding time to date and more!

We also get into

How do I initiate a conversation with a girl? OR What if I’m awkward or have anxiety?
How do I talk to girls on dating apps?
I'm fem presenting and I’m into fems, how do I flirt with a girl?
How do you know if she likes girls?
Is she flirting or being friendly?
What if you are not receiving the same love you’re giving?

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Family Meeting Questions

“How can I pass the feeling of being scared of having seggs with my s/o?”
“My relationships have mostly been with non-Latinas who I never feel a true connection with.. but I’m too insecure to pursue who I want”

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52. That First Healthy Relationship Feb 06, 2023

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It's ideal to want to build a healthy relationship between you and your significant other. However, no one tells you how HARD maintaining a HEALTHY relationship is! Jojo and Dayra dive into the reality of how they transitioned into building a healthy relationship together. Also, how to continue maintaining a healthy relationship by always being intentional and learning new ways to communicate on the same level. Including 5 examples of healthy characteristics/ signs to leading a healthy relationship as well as 4 foundations to maintaining it.

Family Meeting Questions

“Dating a 34 year-old female who’s living at home with her parents and she is not out to them. I love her but it is becoming a turn off”
“Where can I find fems that are into fems?

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51. 10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out Jan 30, 2023

In EP 51 we talk about 10 things we wish we knew before coming out of the closet! We get into coming out to your family and friends, as well as bisexuality, straight girls, and more!

As always, in each episode, we answer questions from our regular listeners.

FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS

1. "I’ve NEVER been on a date or been with anyone and I don’t know where to start. Any tips?"

2. "I think I'm polyamorous and I have a crush on two girls who happen to be sisters"

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50. Meeting Her Parents: Gay Edition Jan 23, 2023

We all want to be accepted into our partner's family, especially when in a QUEER relationship. In this episode we discuss how important it is to try to have a rapport with your partner's family.

We also talk about the following

How we met each other's parents/family members.
Past experiences when meeting our partner's family.
Uncomfortable situations when meeting family.
Setting boundaries with our family in order to make our partner feel safe and comfortable.
& Steps to getting along with their family (if you’re an awkward person).

Family Meeting Questions

What are your thoughts on girls who refuse to eat out their partners?
“I’m still in love with my ex”
“I came out as a lesbian 3 or 4 years ago and haven’t started dating yet. I'm 19 so I can’t go to bars, any tips on meeting women?”

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48. Tales Of A Lesbian Long Distance Relationship Jan 09, 2023

HAPPY NEW YEAR LES CHAT FAMILY! Can you believe we almost make a year since we started Les Chat? We started our podcast back on January 24th of 2022 and we’re so grateful for all of you!

We are BACK like we never left with Season 2 of Les Chat Podcast and we’re coming in with new segments! This podcast episode is a little different from previous episodes. In this episode, Dayra reads a story submitted by a listener. The story gets JUICY, we talk about

Long-distance relationships
Sharing passwords with your partner
Checking your partners location
Cheating

Let us know what you think about this format, if you like this, we can start sharing more stories in our podcast episodes.

FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS:

No question in this episode because we have a full story!

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47. OUR 2022 RECAP Dec 26, 2022

THE START OF 2022: Our vision/purpose of this podcast: - Create a platform for those who didn’t feel represented - “Be the person you needed” for those in the community who didn't have the necessary support - Share personal experiences to help those in similar situations gain other perspectives Things we discuss: - What have we accomplished? - What have we learned from the struggle? - What have we improved on the most? - What moments were our most/less favorites? - What do we plan to achieve in the upcoming year? - What we want to leave behind - What we would like to take with us into the new year. FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS: 1. “I’m dating a new girl and it’s great, but I’m concerned because we don’t have sex as much as we did in the beginning” 2. “My girlfriend’s best friend is her male ex” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Our website: https://leschatpod.com/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

46. Soft Girl Era Dec 19, 2022

Jojo and Dayra get real RAW in this episode and have some difficult conversations. We show the reality of relationship issues and common disagreements between couples. We dive into the "soft girl era" and the following topics,

What IS the "soft girl era"?
Who started the "soft girl era" trend?
Why are people changing their lifestyles to this "soft girl era"?
Do you think it's hard to be in your "soft girl" era as a Latina?
What is the first step to enter your soft girl era in a relationship where you're both "hard"?

We finish off with how we will personally go into our "soft girl era" and how we will hold ourselves accountable in 2023!

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FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS:

Can you be friends with an ex?
“My teacher kissed me…”

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Soft Girl Era Link: https://www.glam.com/1090415/heres-why-black-girls-on-tiktok-are-entering-a-soft-girl-era/

45. Society's Beauty Standards Dec 12, 2022

40 percent of America’s lgbtq+ community say they've been rejected by family members or close friends at some point in their lives due to their sexual orientation or gender identity. In this weeks episode we get into beauty and how we see ourselves. We also dive into… - Plastic surgery - Influence culture and how social media affects our idea of beauty. - Self esteem/confidence

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44. Creative Living Ft Toushai Dec 05, 2022

We invite Shaina Negron aka Toushai, a tattoo artist, painter and singer who displays her artwork to more than 200,000 followers on her social media. We talk about how her creative career started, what body painting is like and what inspired her to write her newest song “Tu no me amas”. We also talk about false narratives the internet has about Toushai and her dating “standards.” Dayra mentions a “gay icon” towards the end and we get the scoop on the reality of dating a celebrity. Toushai’s Tiktok 1900’s Video Reference: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR45Ykgc/ FOLLOW TOUSHAI ON SOCIAL MEDIA: https://www.instagram.com/toushai/?hl=en @shaishaikoolaid @toushaink @toushaiart linktr.ee/toushai FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS I was in a situationship where I was putting in more effort than them. How should I move forward w/this person? I caught my girlfriend cheating on me with someone who I thought was my friend. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON! https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ TROVATRIP LINK: https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023 https://linktr.ee/leschat

43. Life Under Pressure Nov 28, 2022

Dayra and Jojo dive into the pressures they face in life from society, work, & even family. Society has taught us that as women, not only are we held to a specific standard but we also have to work a thousand times harder than the norm just to be “good enough” in the work field.

While trying to fight through society’s barriers, our families remind us daily that coming from a cultured background means nothing in life is meant to be easy for us. No matter how much we think we’ve succeeded we’ll always have to keep working harder and be held at the highest standards.

Family Meeting Questions

“I’ve been with my gf almost 2 years we started off very sexually active but this last year NOTHING, she gets mad at me for bringing it up…”
“So I just recently got broken up with and I’m having trouble moving on. We met online and the girl was living with her husband...”

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42. Latina Mami Nov 21, 2022

The holidays are coming and we need to talk about our hispanic culture! In this episode Jojo & Dayra talk about what it means to be hispanic and gay. We talk about our relationships with our parents and grandparents. We also talk about what it’s like being a child of immigrant parents and being the only hispanic woman in a room full white people.

Family Meeting Questions

“Is it okay to walk past an ex? Baby gay, dated 1st gf for 2 yrs & broke up with her. I don’t hate her, I want to be respectful and I hope she’s been okay but I don’t want to be friends tbh.”
“I love my GF and we have been together for 15 yrs, we are planning to get married in the near future, however I just found out she wants to be a trans.”

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41. Serial Lover Nov 14, 2022

Dating around is necessary in the early stages when trying to figure out what you want in a partner. Although people don’t find “dating around” fun, there are some who actually love the idea of the dating stages. Jojo & Dayra define what a serial dater is as well as some potential signs to look for in a serial dater.. For those who love the idea of love and romantic relationships we introduced “serial monogamy” & the signs of those who can’t just stay single.

Family Meeting Questions

So I’ve already asked you guys the question about a strap on your last video but to follow that up what if she did like it in the past from other people and she has told you about it but still won’t do that with you ?
I was talking to someone & I really liked her but then she made a r@pe joke so I cut her off. I have only known her for 2 months. It hurt me to stop talking to her but I felt it was a boundary I had to set. Would you have cut someone off for that?

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40. Queen Of The Switch Up FT Ke'Alohilani Nov 07, 2022

Jojo and Dayra welcome Ke'Alohilani AKA the viral queen of switch ups and transitions on Tiktok!! Ke'Alohilani gives us the back story of how she became the queen of switching her look between fem/masc. Although, finding it difficult in her earlier stages to find a happy medium in presenting both masc and fem (due to past relationships experiences) Ke'Alohilani didn't let it discourage her. Choosing to continue her self love journey of owning her style as well as enjoying her time being single by just dating herself. CHECK OUT HER TRANSITIONS HERE: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRxSJk8A/

Ke’Alohilani Social Media

IG: https://instagram.com/kdnaonecarterr?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kdnaonecarter?_t=8X46H4ovNVr&_r=1

Family Meeting Questions

1. I recently got out of a short relationship...Am I wrong for holding expectations for the people I date?

2. I feel like a phase after a 7 year relationship since my ex is now dating men.

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39. Les Trick Or Treat Oct 31, 2022

Happy Halloween friends!! 🎃 Dayra and Jojo welcome two of social media’s favorite lgbtq+ creators! Yes, it’s sexy Lexie & our favorite baby gay from ep.22 Kristin! Dayra sets the tone with a les question card game as an ice breaker to get the juices flowing. Leading the conversations straight into the spicy stuff. Speaking on topics of sex parties, open relationships, dating straight women, spiritual journeys, conquering the fem/masc energy, & how the art of seduction as a dancer can affect potential relationships.

Lexie’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/lexiepeterss/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/peterssperspective/?hl=en

Kristin’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/wheretheroadforks__/?hl=en

Family Meeting Questions

“I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year and she won’t let me use a strap on her but she has with other people”
“Recently decided to go out on the “dating scene”. went out for the 1st time with a girl I met online, she got drunk then ghosted me…”

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38. Do You Remember Your First Time? Oct 24, 2022

Happy Monday! In today’s episode we talk about our first times! Dayra & Jojo talk about the first time they ever kissed someone, first time they had “sexy time” with a woman, and the first time we ever got drunk or high! Dayra talks about her experience when she took an edible and how horrible her trip went. Family Meeting Questions 1. My gf is now working with her ex, how should I feel about this? 2. The person I was dating is not okay with their sexuality. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ TROVATRIP LINK: https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023 https://linktr.ee/leschat

37. Sexuality Is Fluid Oct 17, 2022

Jojo & Dayra welcome Kenny on this week's episode to discuss how sexuality can actually be fluid! For some, labels allow them to be seen & approached by the public with what they self- identity but for others, labels can feel like a box, not flexible enough for growth. Kenny shares with us her coming out stories at a young age, the history of her romantic relationships with women, how therapy helped her to set the boundaries necessary in a way where nothing could hinder her growth, and lastly what encouraged her to be open minded about allowing a male to potentially pursue her romantically.

Family Meeting Questions

I’m not sure if my co-worker is gay, I want to ask her our but I don’t want to make things weird at work.
How do I get over the fear that my bisexual girlfriend is going to leave me for a guy?

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36. Humor Is Oxygen Oct 10, 2022

In this episode we discuss humor.. When asked what you want in a partner the most common answer besides physical attraction is someone that is funny! Most people don't share the same sense of humor or even know their/ partners humor type. Although humor isn’t the sole purpose of laughter, having the same understanding of what brings that sense of joy/ laughter helps to bond couples. We discuss the 9 different types of humor.

We also list some big lesbian comedians and go into why some comedians are depressed and the sad clown paradox.

We dive into..

Is it ever okay to make fun of your partner?
How to get through it when you and your partner have different types of humor.

Family Meeting Questions

My girl and I got a sp3rm donor through a FB group and now he wants rights to the baby.
My girlfriend doesn’t get excited about things I tell them anymore

WHOREible DECISIONS PODCAST w/ LESCHAT

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/WHOREibleDecisions
IG: https://www.instagram.com/whoreible_decisions/?hl=en
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/whoreible-decisions/id1224239045
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71qcFqfm1Y5PAQ6tUonLR3
Our favorite episode: Plan B & Jail: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_WpIgB3J7vU

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35. Things I Wish I Knew Before Dating Women Sep 26, 2022

We hear straight women say quite often "I'm about to start dating women" with the idea that women relationships are easier to handle. Little do most people know lesbian/wlw relationships require much more effort than expected. Dayra and Jojo run down a list of things they wish they knew before dating women that could have potentially helped better prepare them for the types of relationship they had experienced.

34. Lesbian FAQ's Sep 12, 2022

Hii everyone! Happy Virgo Season! We took off Labor Day but we’re BACK! In this episode we go over the MOST frequently asked/ searched questions for the lesbian community.

Here are some of the most common questions.

Are lesbian relationships complicated compared to heterosexual relationships?
Are lesbian breakups harder/worse?
Can lesbians have a baby/get pregnant? How do lesbians have kids??
Why don’t lesbian relationships last?
Why do lesbian relationships move fast?

Family Meeting Questions

I’m in my 1st lesbian relationship but I’m not comfortable with PDA..
As a female who’s attracted to woman and always end up with men, how would you suggest I go about my journey.

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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ - videos are posted on Monday @ 6PM EST

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32.Bi Wife Energy Aug 29, 2022

We introduce our favorite fellow podcast friends/couple Travis and Stephanie from the Westilllikeeachother podcast. In Episode 3 of their podcast, Steph talked about identifying as bisexual and they were open to introducing a third in their relationship but said “it never worked” yet they still had some sexual experiences… we get deep with Travis and Steph asking them the most common yet important questions like...

Why did you introduce a third in your relationship? Was this a “third” as in you wanted it to be a poly relationship or it was just a threesome?
Who brought it up first? How did you communicate that you wanted to bring someone into the bedroom?
What boundaries were set when you brought in a third? Were they allowed to stay the night? Were cuddles allowed?
How do you bring up wanting a threesome? For example, a cis woman and guy want to bring in another girl

https://westilllikeeachother.com/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/westilllikeeachother/

Family Meeting Questions:

I’ve been in a 12 year relationship the love we have for each other is there but her mother has been in control of the relationship since it started….
How do y’all go about splitting bills? I understand the 50/50 but that doesn’t work with my girlfriend and I because I make more than she does.

TROVATRIP LINK:

https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/email/les-chat
How couples can split bills article: https://hermoney.com/connect/love/how-couples-can-split-their-money-to-be-fair/

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31. Interracial Dating FT Brennah Aug 22, 2022

Happy Monday everyone! In this episode we feature Brennah, 25-year-old owner and chef of LesbiVeggies, a Black-owned, LGBTQ+ friendly, all-vegan restaurant in Audubon, NJ! We talk a little bit about her entrepreneur journey but we also get into some interesting topics on dating outside our race, dating stories, zodiac signs, pronouns and lesbian stereotypes!

We also discuss,

- How our home background/environment affected us being comfortable with our sexuality.

- Some differences we learned in dating/being friends with people of other ethnicities/races

- Do lesbian recruit straight women?

- Are most lesbians are vegans?

- Are marcs the better cooks?

Check out this article by Edible Philly on LesbiVeggies! - https://ediblephilly.ediblecommunities.com/eat/brennah-lambert-expanding-vegan-lifestyle-lesbiveggies

https://www.veganrestaurantaudubon.com/

IG: @brennahlambert_

@lesbiveggies

Family Meeting Questions:

"What should I do if I really love my girlfriend but I don’t like eating her out because sometimes I don’t like the way she tastes?"
"I am a baby gay who’s been on many dates with a woman but has never kissed or got sexually involved with a woman. How soon should I share that I’m inexperienced? "

30. Leschat About Boundaries Aug 15, 2022

Leschat about setting boundaries and what makes setting boundaries so difficult? Jojo & Dayra go over examples of how they've had to set boundaries in the past with partners, family, friends, the workplace, etc..

We’ve all been in situations where we find it difficult to set boundaries with a friend because we’re worried about coming off rude or offensive. Dayra is the queen of boundaries!

Setting boundaries is about taking care of your own needs. Setting boundaries might mean you might lose people, most people don't like boundaries because they like having power, give that power back to yourself instead.. Setting boundaries is a form of self respect and you deserve to be respected.

Family Meeting Questions

1. "I have a girlfriend who was in an open relationship with her boyfriend. They broke up and now it’s just us, she lied & ...."

2. "My fiance's family is super catholic and they don’t know she’s gay..."

3. "Is it always this emotional being with a woman? If so, Idk if I want this anymore"

Don't forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe! DM/Email us for any questions or topics discussion you'd like to hear from us.

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29. Attachment Styles Aug 08, 2022

Jojo & Dayra go over the 4 attachment styles and why it’s important to know them and how it may be affecting your relationship. Ask yourself.. ⁃ Do you get too clingy or jealous? ⁃ Or do you always seem to be more involved in the relationship than your partner? ⁃ Or maybe you want to be with someone, but as soon as things get serious, you back off? If any of these relate, you may have an anxious, avoidant, or fearful-avoidant attachment style. We also go over, ⁃ What ways can women's attachment styles interact with their experience of compulsory heterosexuality aka the idea that heterosexuality is the expected norm? We finish the episode with how your attachment style can change with a lot of work, patience and intention. Family Meeting Questions ⁃ “My partners co-worker gave her $100 in singles for her birthday, should I be worried?” ⁃ “My co worker claims she’s straight but she sends me mixed signals.” - TRAVEL SURVEY: https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/survey/les-chat

28. Public VS. Queer Spaces Aug 01, 2022

Public spaces hold more heternomative expectations making it difficult for lgbtq+ to be open or authentic.. What was your first experience in a nightclub or a gay nightclub? Should straight people be allowed in gay clubs? We invite Jasmine to the podcast AGAIN and we talk about our experiences in nightlife. Why are lesbian bars disappearing? Why are queer spaces important? We go into some fun facts based on The Lesbian Bar Project documentary. Lesbian Bars on the East Coast CUBBYHOLE - NYC HENRIETTA HUDSON - NYC GINGER’S - BROOKLYN MY SISTER’S ROOM - ATLANTA A League of Her Own - Washington, DC BABES OF CARYTOWN - RICHMOND, VA Family Meeting Questions 1. I gained weight and my partner told me they are not sexually attracted to me anymore. 2. I was married for 17 years in a straight relationship and now I am newly single and exploring my sexuality but I’m scared of “coming out” 3. How do you make your partner believe that you aren’t going to leave them for a man if you are bisexual. Dont forget to like, comment, share, and rate! DM/Email us for any questions or topics discussion you'd like to hear from us. JoJo's TikTok: @JoDiddy & Instagram @LovePeaceBlissss Dayra's TikTok: @Dear.Dayra & Instagram: @Dear.Dayra Thank you for all the love and support!! FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

26. Coping with Grief Jul 18, 2022

Grief is expressed differently across different cultures. Some people like to be expressive and public with their emotions, while others like to keep grief private. In this episode we talk about our personal experiences with grief and how we coped with it.

We discuss,

- How can grief help/ allow us to grow?

- When should you seek help for your grief?

- How to cope with grief?

Family Meeting Questions

1. When is there a “good time” to ask about grooming habits before we take that step and get intimate- while not offending her or killing the mood.

2.Dating tips and what it's like now to date?

3. Where am I supposed to meet someone special if all the dating apps are just for hooking up?

Dont forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe!

Follow us on instagram and tiktok @Les.ChatPodcast for more content!

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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

25. Lesbians W/ Anxiety FT Jaime Filer Jul 11, 2022

LGBTQ+ individuals are more than twice as likely as heterosexual men and women to have a mental health disorder in their lifetime… In this episode we talk about mental and physical health with personal coach/trainer Jaime Filer who has over 118,000 followers on social media! Jaime helps LGBTQ+ women integrate their physical and mental health to decrease anxiety.. We discuss living with anxiety as an LGBTQ+ person and what we can do to support a loved one who suffers from anxiety. We dive into…

Therapy and our experience with it.
How do you even begin a regimen when you struggle with anxiety?
Books/podcasts Jaime recommends that help with mental health.

You can follow Jaime Filer on IG/Tiktok

IG: @jaim91
Tiktok:@jaimefiler
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/teamjaim91
Jaime’s Personal Website: https://linktr.ee/jaim91

RESOURCES: LGBTQ+ Crisis/Suicide Prevention Hotlines

https://www.hrc.org/resources/mental-health-resources-in-the-lgbtq-community

A Family Meeting YOUTUBE video will be posted this week!

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24. Life Without Rights Jun 27, 2022

As pride month is coming to an end we give a quick recap on all the gay festivities we got into as well as the awesome queer guests we were able to have on the podcast as a pride month special. Following our exciting recap we speak up on the political catastrophe of Roe v. Wade recently passing the ban of abortions. Not only as a woman but women of the LGBTQ+ community & apart of the minority community we express how absolutely destructive it is to have passed this law. The pass of this ban has also brought officials to shed light on potentially reversing the legalization of same sex marriage! Family Meeting 1. My daughter is 28 years old and has been with her gf for 7 years who cheated on her.. 2. As a masc fem I love using $traps but my gf is a Virgin 3. “Should I break up w my girlfriend? I made a friend 3 years into our relationship but she doesn’t like her at all..” Dont forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe! Follow us on instagram and tiktok @Les.ChatPodcast for more content! DM/Email us for any questions or topics discussion you'd like to hear from us. JoJo's TikTok:@JoDiddy & Instagram @LovePeaceBlissss Dayra's TikTok: @Dear.Dayra & Instagram: @Dear.Dayra https://anchor.fm/leschatpodcast1322/... Thank you for all the love and support!! —————————————————————— FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

22. Coming Out Later In Life Ft Kristin Jun 13, 2022

It's never too late to do the things that make you happy even if you have to take a few losses along the way. We invited Kristin Holden on to the podcast to share her experience in what it’s like coming out in her 30's. Although it hasn’t been an easy process with telling family and friends, she still manages to find her peace and courage to live as her truest self. Kristin also shares some super helpful tips on what it take to live life on the road as a van lifer herself! Family Meeting Questions “I guess you can count me as a “baby gay”. I’m starting to date again but it’s been hard. My level of experience puts people off. Do you have any advice on how to overcome this?” “Should I confront my homophobic mother?” https://www.wheretheroadforks.net/ - https://www.wheretheroadforks.net/van-life IG: https://www.instagram.com/wheretheroadforks__/ Tiktok: @wheretheroadforks_ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

21. HAPPY PRIDE MONTH Jun 06, 2022

Pride month is here and in full effect!!! Excited to celebrate an entire month full of gay festivities where we get to be our gayest selves, share an abundant amount of love, meet new fellow queer friends and give all the "YASSS BITCHHH" compliments until our voice is gone. We can't forget the people who fought the fight that got us to this point. In this episode we give a little bit of the story behind pride and how it all started as well as share how pride impacts us today. Family meeting Q&A: 1. “Allowing your partner to heal after a traumatic experience” 2. “Have you guys talked about wanting kids? And if so, who would carry the baby?” 3. “My brother wants my gf, what should I do??” ————————————————————— FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

20. Best/Worst Scenes Of The Original L-Word May 30, 2022

In this episode we talk about THE L-WORD! We focus on some scenes from the Original L-Word (2004-2009). You don’t need to watch the L-Word to understand what we’re talking about in this podcast episode. Is there such a thing as “coming out too late” in life? Listen/watch Phyllis ask Bette if it’s too late for her to come out (she’s an older married woman with kids)... Imagine coming out in front of your Latinx family? Remember when Carmen comes out? Or when Bette goes off on the homophobe or when Kit (the biggest Ally) disagrees with Max’s transgender “decisions”? Family Q&A Do y'all think you can have a successful relationship with someone who is "straight"? In a relationship with a girl who loves and respects me, but her friends have no boundaries and I feel uncomfortable. I can’t get an 0rga$m from p0rn but I can when I watch some tiktoks… How We Stay Updated with the NEWS! BadQueersPod - Podcast ShaunKing IG Impact IG Matt Bernstein IG

19. Types Of Intimacy May 23, 2022

Sex may be the most desirable type of intimacy to share with a partner but it certainly isn’t the only form!! Dayra and I share our top form of intimacy followed by some research on “12 different types of intimacy to experience with you partner”. We also go over the 5 E’s to help improve intimacy in a short time span from Jay Shetty’s Podcast! We discuss our definition of intimacy and how we experience it in our own relationship. We also go over the 3 following family meeting questions! 1. Thoughts on breaking up & making up.. 2. “Feeling lost when it comes to relationships, I haven’t dated anyone in 4 years” 3. “Where do you find queer friends/ queer people to mingle with?! As a fem, how do I signal that I’m gay in public?”

18. Unpacking The U-haul May 16, 2022

Lesbians are known to u-haul in a short time span! However, when is it an appropriate time to move in together?

What are the common problems couples encounter after moving in together? How does living together affect the relationship? In this episode we discuss OUR story of living together. We talk about finances, chores, boundaries, pet peeves, alone time, etc!

We end it with family Q&A’s and would you rather!

“I got married to a woman and my family didn’t congratulate me, they texted me saying I was making the worst mistake of my life by committing this sin.”
“How should someone who had trust issues feel about her girlfriend making ONLY lesbian/bi friends?”
“Have you ever gotten into a situationship with one of your friends and lost the friendship because of it.”
“I am 51 years old & now after 15 years of being with my wife she has decided she’s no longer in love with me and has left.”

16. Unpopular Opinions May 02, 2022

We all have our own personal opinions but we don't always choose to voice them. Sometimes the subject can be a little more touchy so people shy away from those discussions in fear of being judged. However, in this episode we are choosing to STIR the pot and go over some of the most commonly controversial unpopular opinions about relationships. Some are.. is marriage only for business purposes? Do fems run the relationship? Is it okay to go through your partners phone? Is it healthy to argue?

FAMILY Q&A:

1. How do you “come out” as a stemme? I have been femme presenting all my life but I’m having trouble finding my masculine style. I’m also afraid of not attracting stemmes myself if I am dressed masculine.

2. My partner had sex with their best friend in high school, but hangs out with them all the time and walks around half naked. Should that make me mad or should I get over it.

3. What can I do when my gf is frustrated?

4. So my partner of almost 2yrs has a bestfriend that doesn’t like me. Her bestfriend has NEVER met me and she claims that she dislikes me bc my gf is always with me and she’s changed her ways bc of me. Would you be mad at your gf for still talking to her best friend?

15. Gay Gals & Gay Pals Apr 25, 2022

In this episode we chat with Steve and Mateo about the differences and similarities between lesbian couples and gay couples! Steve and Matt are married and share their story on how they met.. We talk a little bit about about what we were afraid of before coming out and what made us wanna come out. What is dating like as a gay man? Do you think you can turn someone straight?…How does gay sex work for gay men, are there tops and bottoms? We educate Steve and Mateo on the lesbian terms like “pillow princess” and “gold stars”.

Steve’s IG - @professorsmm Steve’s Tiktok - @professor_smm

Matt’s IG - @matthhhew Matt’s Tiktok - @matthhhew97

Family Meeting Q&A's "Should couples only talk about their issues with their partners & not ask others for advice about what to do?"

"Should my partner being with guys before bother me as much as it does"?

"She ghosted me & posted her new gf on social media".

14. The Baby Gays Apr 18, 2022

We all remember our "Baby Gay" phase where we were quiet, timid, and full of questions! The most frequently asked question like.. How do I flirt with girls? How do you show that you're gay for girls to know? Where did you find your queer friends? How do you know if someone is just friends or likes you? etc. All of which are normal questions to ask. Dayra & Jojo answer those questions to help shed some light on this journey for our newly queer friends.

Family meeting Q&A: “I’m a virgin baby gay and I don’t know what to do! How can I get over the fear of being bad in bed?” “How do you balance religion and being queer”? “How do you know when your partner is the one?” “What is your opinion on colorism in the LGBTQIA community?” “Can you share some tips on moving out?”

13. In A World Full Of Bullies Apr 11, 2022

Being bullied in grade school is something we all experienced at least once... For our lgbtq+ listeners, how has being gay affected how you navigate through life? We talk about our personal experiences during high school from shaving our latina mustache to our glow up experience. We talk about how WNBA Candice Wiggins was "bullied" in the league for being "straight".. Dayra brings up current events and our thoughts on the "Don't Say Gay" bill. FAMILY MEETING Q&A "What do y’all think about exes commenting under someone you talk to pictures ?" "I’m talking to someone and she is giving me mixed signals.. sometimes she tells me she misses me and sometimes she clearly ignores me. Should I cut her off?" "What does it mean when a females tells you that you are not ready for her?"

12. Shady Business Apr 04, 2022

In a world full of imperfection we know that NO ONE is perfect! Have you ever played or treated someone bad and then felt bad about it after? Has anyone done any shady things to you? In this episode we talk about our experiences and tell your our dirty little *secrets*. Also, WHAT is considered a hoe phase do you think it’s necessary? Dayra says yes it’s essential! Lastly, If you came with a warning label what would it say? Warning labels would save us a lot of time when it comes to the dating scene! FAMILY MEETING Q’s & A’s When did you know you were lesbian? 49:15 (We also talk about this in EP1) Have you ever been with a girl during seggs she says “get me pregnant”, What is your response?” 53:39 "Whats your opinion when a girl with 2 kids is lesbian?” 55:27 (Watch EP2)

11. Life After Heartbreak Mar 28, 2022

To be in love is something we all crave to experience.. but not all love stories have a happy ending. Love isn't meant to be perfect but with the right person it won't always feel so hard. Dayra and I open up about our not so "happily ever after" relationships that ended in heartbreak. We speak on the red flags and signs we noticed leading up to the break ups as well as touch base on how it can negatively affect ones mental health. Although it was a rough journey, down the path of healing, both Dayra and I found the light at the end of the tunnel that lead to our inner happiness and peace followed by a lot of self-love.

10. The Date That Never Ended Mar 21, 2022

“Lesbians fall in love fast” may be the most COMMON stereotype but it isn’t completely wrong. Dayra & I share a lot of personal experiences from coming out, to old relationships, red flags, cheating, stereotypes/preferences & even had the SEX talk… but we haven’t shared the story of how we met! For some, dating during Covid wasn’t at all ideal & for others “quarantine quickies” was all that was needed. However, eager to get back to life as we knew it (before the pandemic) some of us still managed to find our person.

8. The Cheater & The Cheated Mar 07, 2022

In Episode 8 we talk about multiple topics! Have you ever cheated on someone? Has someone ever cheated on you? If so, why do you think people cheat? We give talk about the top 8 reasons why people cheat in relationships. Do you believe in second chances? What is considered cheating to you? What is worse, emotional or physical cheating? Dayra talks about her breakup story, Jojo talks about how she caught her ex cheating, Lily also talks about how she caught her ex cheating! And of course, we talk about the L-Word Generation Q (Spoiler Alert towards the end) Why did Sophie ruin her relationship? Don't forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe!

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Thank you for all the love and support!!

7. Meeting Your Partners Family/Friends Feb 28, 2022

When should your partner meet your friends? Do you introduce all your relationships to your family and friends? Do you get invited to go on your partners “girls” trip or “boys trip” If so, do you go? Does your family have a preference on who you marry? These are all the questions we discuss in this episode! We talk about old relationships and how we navigated it.

6. Love Languages & Astrology: Part 2 from Happy Wife, Happy Life! Feb 23, 2022

In this episode we talk about Love Languages which comes from author Dr. Gary Chapman. We discuss our own love languages and how you can understand your partners love language.

We also discuss Astrology! Lina goes over the “big three” which are your Sun, Moon and Rising as well as what phone apps she uses to learn more about ourselves as well as our loved ones. We discuss the cliche and stereotypes that come with zodiac signs.

5. Happy Wife, Happy Life! Feb 21, 2022

They say "happy wife equals happy life" so lets talk about SAME SEX MARRIAGE! Yes we said it. We invite Lina and Flor to the Les Chat Podcast! They’ve been married for over 2 years and have been together for 5 years. We talk about being married in the military, the u-haul experience, family reactions and advice for newly married couples!

4. Red Flags/Toxic Traits Feb 14, 2022

The dating world for lgbtq+ relationships is very similar to heterosexual couples. In this episode we brought on our friend Jasmine. Together we all discuss toxic traits and red flags. The red flags you ignore in the beginning eventually are the reason why some relationships end or turn toxic. Jasmine shares her thoughts and experiences in this topic. You’ll feel like you’re having a girls night, talking to friends and sippin your wine 🍷

3. Preferences & Stereotypes Feb 07, 2022

From the outside looking in, the LGBTQ+ community is full of stereotypes!! However, what stereotypes are true and which ones are false?! In this episode we cover a few stereotypes people tend to associate with lesbians. Prior to jumping right into the true or false of those stereotypes we discuss how we present ourselves to others. For example, "stud/femme/stem" as well as what our dating preferences are when it comes to how others present themselves to us.

2. Two Moms Are Better Than One Jan 31, 2022

Join us while we welcome our two good friends Joyce and Oceanna to the Les Chat podcast. Oceanna shares her story of not only coming out to her family after meeting her girlfriend Joyce, but also introducting the idea of two moms to her son. Joyce expresses how although she didn't necessarily plan to date someone with a child she couldn't be more grateful to be apart of Oceanna and her son's life. They explain in detail of how being a parent can be quite the hardship in a relationship but with a little adjustment and priorizing it can be done.

Les Chat Introduction Trailer Jan 25, 2022

Listen if you want to know what to expected from this new up and coming LGBTQ+ podcast!!

1. The Coming Out Process Jan 25, 2022

Join us in our very first podcast episode of Les Chat where we focus on LGBTQ+ content! In this episode, host Jojo and co-host Dayra give a brief introduction as well as what pushed us to start this podcast. We dive into the details of our coming out story and how our Latinx family responded.

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