Kinship Podcast

#67: Confession and Vulnerability *LIVE* Oct 14, 2022

Kinship LIVE! In August, Bethany Baptist Church had its first women's conference. It was a joy to be present among women that wanted to be open and kill sin so that they aren't overtaken by it. We did our first live episode in front of a live audience. Also, we had more than two listeners!

Show notes:
Doctrine of Repentance- Thomas WatsonLife Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community- Dietrich Bonhoeffer

#66: Talking About Sex with Our Kids Sep 30, 2022

Many would agree that having "the talk" or bringing up "the birds and the bees" with our children gives us a lump in our throat! How can we better tackle this necessary conversation and be faithfully discipling our children? Join us as we stumble through this topic.

Show notes:God's Design for Sex series 4 Principles for Talking to Your Kids About Sex Kids, Let's Talk About Sex- TGC

#65: Introverts Sep 09, 2022

What's it like to be around others and get drained? Introverts know that feeling all too well! There are blessings of being an introvert but cons too. Since data shows there are more extroverts in society sometimes introverts can feel the struggle of keeping up with the the group. Join us as we talk about who's an introvert among us and what it looks like.

4 Lies About Introverts- TGCHow Do Introverts Guard Against Selfishness?- Desiring God The Christian Introvert- Tim Challies

#64: Extroverts Aug 12, 2022

What's it like to be around others and get re-energized? Extroverts know that feeling all too well! There are blessings of being an extrovert but cons too. According to data there are more extroverts in society than introverts. Join us as we talk about who's an extrovert among us and what it looks like.

Stree-Free Small Talk

#63: Listening Jun 30, 2022

Listening to people comes easy to some and difficult for others but essential to healthy relationships. How can we listen well to people in order to love them well? Listen in as we discuss how we struggle and we lean on Christ for help in order to listen well.

Six Lessons in Good Listening-Desiring God Stress-Free Small Talk

#62: Insecurity Jun 03, 2022

We were asked by one of our sisters to talk about insecurity and the struggles (and blessings) that come with it. Join us as we feel insecure even about the topic!

Lay Aside the Weight of Insecurity- Jon Bloom

#61: Busyness May 20, 2022

Busyness is part of the American life. How about the church? Can believers balance being genuinely busy and able to make room for more? Come join us as we chat about how busy or non busy we are!

Crazy Busy- Kevin DeYoung Busyness Is Not the Problem- Desiring God

#60: Pastor's Wives Apr 29, 2022

The pastor of the church is usually well connected but what about his wife? In many local churches there are many ideas of what the pastor's wife should do or be but are they encouraging to the body or hurtful? Join us after a LONG hiatus as we talk about our experience with being a pastor's wife.

Thank you to our two listeners for hanging with us :)

#59: Resolving Conflict Sep 10, 2021

The dreaded talk that we have to have with someone. We've all felt that at some point. How can we think about conflict in a helpful way? Join us as we compare notes and discuss our imperfect conflict resolutions.

Resources:Resolving Everyday Conflict by Ken Sande Your Family, God's Way: Developing and Sustaining Relationships in the Home Difficult Friendships Are Good for You

#58: Friends with Unbelievers Aug 20, 2021

Being friends with like minded people is easy but God has also called us to live in a hostile world. Our family and friends might oppose God so then how should we engage them? Join us as we talk about loving others with Gospel truth.

*technical difficulties for the first 7 mins*
Tim Chester B.L.E.S.S The Simplest Way to Change the World: Biblical Hospitality as a Way of Life by Dustin Willis and Brandon Clements
Saturate Jeff by Vanderstelt The Gospel Comes with a House Key by Rosario Butterfield Wisdom in Friendships with Non-Christians- Desiring God

#57: Friendship with Guys Aug 04, 2021

In this episode we discuss male and female relationships. In our local churches we are called to be in covenant with our sisters and brothers but what does that look like? Maybe you feel uncomfortable around the opposite sex but want to grow in fellowship with brothers. How should you think about it? Or should you? Join us as we talk about our local church and friendships.

#56: Infertility Jul 09, 2021

The local church is filled with mothers of all sorts. But what about those women who haven't been able to bear children biologically? Infertility is lonely and painful. The local church can walk alongside these women and carry this burden. Join us and listen as we talk about the deep struggle of infertility.

Resources:Care for Couples Struggling with Infertility Infertility in the Arms of the Church The Silent Struggle of Childlessness

#55: When You Don't Have Kinship Jun 10, 2021

Finding deep friendships in the local church can be a challenge. What can you do to cultivate those type of relationships? Whatever advice is given is easier said than done but something needs to happen in order to grow your relationships. Join us as we talk about not having deep friendships in the church.

#54: Children in the Gathering Apr 30, 2021

Gathering with church family includes chilren. We know children are a blessing because God says so but how do we intentionally incorporate these "blessings" into our Sunday gathering? Join us as we talk about our kids and our local church.

Show notes:Should Children Sit Through 'Big Church'?Our Home is Like a Little Church Family Driven Faith: Doing What It Takes to Raise Sons and Daughters Who Walk with God 10 Lessons on Parenting Big(ger) Kids

#53: Engagement Mar 26, 2021

It's been awhile but we are back! In this episode we talk about our engagement stories and things we learned--or didn't learn-- about this special season in dating/courting. It's good to be back.

Show notes:Questions to Ask When Preparing for Marriage- John Piper Dating for God's Glory part 1 of 3- PJ Tibayan Gospel Centered Marriage- Tim Chester A premarital curriculum

#52: New Motherhood Dec 17, 2020

Being a new mom is hard! There's tons of blessings embedded in motherhood too and seeing through the trials to enjoy Jesus Christ is essential. Join us as we take a stroll down memory lane and talk about our motherhood journey.

#51: The First Year Nov 20, 2020

For those married, what would you want to tell yourself in your first year of marriage? If you're not married but want to be, listen to us talk about some foolish struggles we had and learn from our failures! Join us at the table of life struggles.

#50: Politics Oct 23, 2020

With the upcoming election, things seem tense. How about in our church? Is the church able to have conversations about politics? As difficult as it is we should be able to express our thoughts and feelings but with love and clarity. Join us as we unpack what politics looks like for us as we engage our local church.

Show Notes:

Prophetic Politics Podcast

#49: Family Vacation vs. Family Trip Oct 09, 2020

Are we there yet? That's a familiar question when traveling to your family's planned "oasis." But will it be an oasis when everyone's already on edge? Despite it not being summer vacation anymore we thought it still would be helpful no matter the season! In this episode, we talk about the differences between a family vacation and a family trip.

Show notes:The Disciple-Making Parent podcast: Thoughts for the Summer

#48: Losing a Loved One Sep 25, 2020

In this episode, we discuss losing a loved one. Grieving is part of a process that looks different for everybody. As we grieve, we can lean on the local church family to help support and give us a place where we can mourn.

#47: Season 3, Cliques Sep 04, 2020

We're back! Welcome to season 3! In this episode of Kinship Podcast, we think about cliques in the church. How do Christians keep close friendships and yet not leave people out? That's a hard balance. Join us as we discuss this common church issue.

Show notes:John Piper- When the "Want To" and "Ought To" Don't Match

#46: Hospitality Apr 07, 2020

This isn't the best time to practice hospitality but when things settle down (Lord willing!) and we get more answers concerning Covid-19 we'll all be itching to be around others. Despite the social distancng, it's still a good topic to talk about and prepare for once confinement is over. It's been a while but hopefully we'll be back with more episodes in the near future.

#45: Confronting Sin Jul 26, 2019

Taking the log out of your eye while removing the speck out of your brother's eye is a tall order. Who can rebuke well all the time? In this episode, we discuss confronting sin and the lessons we have learned and continue to learn.
Resources: The Lion King Reframing Foster Care Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands Them-Why We Hate Each Other-and How to Heal Politics According to the Bible
When Should You Confront Someone About Their Sin? The Peacemaker The Beginner's Guide to Conflict Resolution

#44: Public School Jul 05, 2019

We like how Tim Challies explains it, "the family goes to public school" as opposed to "sending your children to public school." In this episode, we have a familiar guest back to discuss why her family chooses to go public.
Resources: 10 Lessons from 10 Years of Public Schooling Going Public Book Review-Going Public Interview with Jen Wilkin

#43: Date Nights Jun 26, 2019

What do married couples do to increase connection? There are lots to do but one thing we've enjoyed is dating our husbands. In this episode, we discuss what gets in the way of connecting in this way to what makes it quality time together.
Resources: A Marriage Checklist Date Your Wife Don't Put Your Hope in Date Night Sex, Romance, and the Glory of God You Don't Need a Date Night

#42: Worker in the Home vs Worker Outside the Home May 30, 2019

This episode might offend some, encourage others and discourage a few, we are not sure hoe it will fall on our friend's ears but this is an honest conversation among us women who vary in seasons of life, love our families, the Bible and strive to seek Christ first and His Kingdom. Join us as we tackle this sensitive topic.
is it better for moms to stay at home? will you still work when the baby is born? Christian subculture and the stay-at-home-mom what should a wife's priorities be?

#41: Finances May 02, 2019

"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." These biblical words offer great guidance as we handle money. In this episode, join us as we discuss how we manage our finances and think about them.
Resources: Money, Possessions, and Eternity Financial Peace University Debt Is Not a Money Problem A Letter to Younger Me About Money The Treasure Principle: Unlocking the Secret of Joyful Giving

#40: Bible Reading With Others Apr 11, 2019

On this episode, we talk about reading the Bible with various people. We briefly talk about our experiences and the blessing they have been.
Resources: Six Questions to Ask When Studying the Bible in a Group Faith Hacking: The Swedish Method The Bible Project Read the Bible with Someone Else: Four Benefits of Studying in Community One-to-One Bible Reading

#39: Sexual Abuse Pt2 Mar 28, 2019

*Warning: contains sensitive topics not suitable for children. In episode 39, we discuss sexual abuse within the local church. The recently published Houston Chronicle article brought to light horrific data concerning sexual abuse and the churches cover up. The #MeToo Movement has ignited a fire of courage in women who have been kept silent. The Kinship ladies talk through these sensitive topics.
Southern Baptist Their #MeToo Movement How Can the Church Minister to Victims of Sexual Abuse? On Guard: Preventing and Responding to Child Abuse-Deepa Reju Houston Chronicle: Abuse of Faith

#38: Sexual Abuse Pt1 Mar 07, 2019

*WARNING: contains sensitive topics not suitable for children. In episode 38, we discuss Frances' sexual abuse story. We pray this topic can help other women deal with the repercussions of sexual abuse within their local church.
Recovering from Child Abuse: Healing and Hope for Victims Sexual Abuse-CCEF Shame Interrupted: How God Lifts the Pain of Worthlessness and Rejection God Hates What Happened to You Dating and Marriage for the Victims of Past Abuse

#37: Meet Our New Kinship Member! Feb 21, 2019

With happy hearts, we're proud to introduce our newest member to Kinship. We are now officially back to "four church sisters..." She even got Kelly's blessing. We hope you enjoy getting to know her. She's such a sweet blessing to us and we can't wait to share her with you all.

#36: Singleness Feb 07, 2019

All the single ladies (All the single ladies) All the single ladies (All the single ladies). In this episode, we talk about being single and ready to mingle. No, we don't. We talk about the local church body and singleness. How does the local church serve and encourage our singles? Come along with us as we chat with our guest speaker Hannah.
To the Church on Valentine's Day Singleness: A Personal Testimony Sick of Singleness and Satisfied in Christ 5 Misconceptions About Singleness Love Thy Neighborhood-Where the Gospel Meets Singleness
Not Yet Married: The Pursuit of Joy in Singleness and Dating

#35: Homeschooling Dec 13, 2018

To homeschool, or not to homeschool, that is the question. In this episode, we have a disclaimer towards homeschooling yet, we tease out both sides...at least as best we could!
Homeschool Will Not Save Them 3 Reasons Not to Homeschool Why I Do Not Homeschool (Part1) The Great Vision of Christian Education How to Create a Gospel-Centered Homeschool

#34: The Lord's Day Dec 04, 2018

The Scriptures remind us to consider how to stir each other up in love and good deeds. What and how should we be thinking in regards to Sunday morning as we gather with our local church family. Dive into the conversation with us as we sift through ideas.
How Should Christians View Sunday? Why Do Christians Worship Together on Sundays? What Does It Mean Practically to Keep the Sabbath Holy? Spring Sports and Sunday Church

#33: Sermon Application Nov 08, 2018

Sunday after Sunday we hear God's word preached and walk away either applying the text to our lives or forgetting what the point of the text was and how it applies to our lives. In this episode, we discuss not being hearers only but doers.
Resources 7 Ways to Become a Better Sermon Listener Take Care How You Listen (free e-book) How to Listen to an Expository Sermon How To Listen To An (Expository?) Sermon

#32: Providing Hope for the Hurting Oct 25, 2018

"Pure and undefiled religion before God the Father is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself unstained from the world." James 1:27
Our very own church sister Linda joins us as we discuss something dear to her heart. She pulls on our heartstrings and asks God to move in us and our churches to love the orphans. Get ready for some life changes people!
Koinonia Family Services Olive Crest Services Foster LA Kids Jason Johnson Blog Foster Care as the Way of Christ- article Adopted for Life- book An Adoption Story

#31: Leaving Your Church Oct 11, 2018

Our beloved Kelly returns to help us discuss how to leave a church. She shares the process they are currently in and the deciding factor. We were so thankful Kelly joined the conversation and for the short reunion. We pray this episode can be helpful for the local church.
Resources: How to Leave Your Church Well If You're Thinking About Leaving a Church 7 Bad Reasons to Leave a Church When Should I Leave My Church? What to Say to Church Members Leaving for Bad Reasons What Should I Look For In a Church? #7: Church Membership- Kinship Podcast When a Member Wants to Leave the Church- Shepherd LA

#30: Social Media Sep 27, 2018

In this episode, we walk a tightrope as we balance social media. Join us as we handle this tough topic. This can be a touchy issue to deal with individually and within your local church family.
Show notes: A Social Media Heart Check How Has Social Media Changed Bible Reading The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness by Timothy Keller The Liturgists Podcast (we don't necessarily agree doctrinally but a good episode)
There are more resources about this topic, so read up and be encouraged!
Kinship's social media accounts :) Twitter Instagram Facebook

#29: Season 2, We're Back! Sep 13, 2018

Summer's over in our neck of the woods and that means it's time to get down to business. We begin with quick updates and talk about the new season ahead. Join us as we begin Season 2 of Kinship!

#28: Joyful Submission Jun 14, 2018

In episode 28, we share our experiences and struggles with learning how to live in joyful submission in our marriages.
This is our final podcast before our summer break, so stay tuned for SEASON 2 coming in September! We want to thank you for all the support we have received throughout Season 1, and we hope you spend the summer in good conversation and fellowship with your church family!
6 Things Submission is Not What Women Want and What Obedience Gets I'm a Better Leader A Godly Unsubmissiveness Seeing Jesus on the Stage of Marriage Defining Submission and Headship within Marriage
Happily Ever After 50 Crucial Questions About Manhood and Womanhood

#27: Women and Sexual Sin Jun 07, 2018

* WARNING: contains sensitive topics not suitable for children.
In episode 27, we discuss the trend of pornography addiction amongst women in the church and other sexual sins. We share our own struggles, experiences and think through how to relate to one another as we fight sexual sin together.
15 Ways to Fight Lust with the Sword of the Spirit Top 10 Books On Fighting Porn Statistics: Christian Women and Porn Addiction Heart of Man- documentary Covenant Eyes Breaking Porngraphy Addiction
The Pain of Porn

#26: From Dating to Marriage May 31, 2018

In this episode, we discuss the progression of a dating relationship towards marriage. As a couple moves towards matrimony, things will evidently change. Time management, communication, and spiritual intimacy differ in each stage. Join us as we seek to unravel this topic.
Back in episodes 3, 5, and 6 we delved into dating boundaries and marriage. Take a listen if you missed those episodes!

#25: Mental Health Awareness Month May 10, 2018

Since 1949, May is Mental Health Awareness Month. In honor of it, we invited our sister Sally to come and share her story. The mental health stigma harms our culture and our churches. The fear of not knowing how to help overwhelms the church family. Being known as a person with a mental disorder is a heavy burden. The truth of the gospel combats displaced identity and encourages hope.
My Name is "Beloved": Finding Identity in Mental Illness The Root of Mental Health Nami (a secular organization) Biblical Counseling- ACBC blog Truth in Love Podcast Christian Counseling & Education Foundation (CCEF) Podcast A Theology of Biblical Counseling The Biblical Counseling Guide for Women Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands

#24: Gossip May 03, 2018

In Episode 24 we discuss the "tasty" sin of gossip, and how to help one another avoid falling into this easy and harmful trap. We hope that sharing our struggle with this sin and discussing ways to fight it, is as helpful and encouraging to you as it was to us.
Resources: Questions to Ask Before We Gossip How Can I Share Conflicts with My Spouse Without Gossiping? What Gossip Says About God Slander- Worse Than You Think (sermon)

#23: Response to Husbands and Lust Apr 19, 2018

In episode 23, us wives recap the previous discussion between our husbands on lust. We discuss how we, as their spouses, help to fight it and how to navigate confession, forgiveness, and reconciliation. Caution: blatant language regarding sexual topics is used in this episode.

#22: Husbands and Lust Apr 12, 2018

In episode 22, the Kinship husband's come in to lend their perspective on the topic of lust. They discuss the sin of lust and how to fight it as married men and as Christian brothers. Caution: blatant language regarding sexual topics is used in this episode.
Resources: 15 Ways to Fight Lust with the Sword of the Spirit 3 Biblical Strategies for Fighting Lust Self-Centered Sex part 1 Self-Centered Sex part 2 Sex, Romance, and the Glory of God Sex and the Supremacy of Christ

#21: Making Decisions Apr 05, 2018

In episode 21, we discuss the difficulty of making hard decisions. As we all try to decide what is best, many things come into play. How do we as believers think through tough choices? How can we keep from being crippled over every decision? We hope this encourages your journey with your local church.
Resources: Why Making Decisions Is So Hard How Do I Make Decisions That Please God? A Prayer for Wisdom and Peace How Much of My Decision-Making is Emotional? Knowing God's Will-Recommended Resources
Just Do Something: A Liberating Approach to Finding God's Will Finding God's Will-J.I. Packer Guidance-Capitol Hill Baptist Church, Core Seminar

#20: Ladies Dinners Mar 29, 2018

In this episode, we speak loosely about the idea of getting your church ladies together for the purpose of fellowship and eating good food. For some of us, food HAS to be involved. Sometimes the plan will fail, other times it'll succeed, either way, the effort is not lost if there's a simple goal in mind. How do we plan ahead to get together with other ladies we'd normally not feel gravitated towards? Or set time aside despite our busy schedule? Join us as we share our ideas and get your juices flowing for your local church unity.

#19: Anxiety Mar 15, 2018

In episode 19 we answer questions from listeners, cast our own movies, and talk through the issue of anxiety in our own lives and broader culture as a whole. What does anxiety look like? How can we as Christians support brothers and sisters who struggle? What even is the Kinship email address anyway? All this and more coming your way, enjoy!
(articles) Fear & Anxiety Some Things You Should Know About Christians Who Struggle With Anxiety Anxiety: My Thorn in My Flesh From Anxiety to Peace
(books) Blame It On the Brain Anger, Anxiety and Fear: A Biblical Perspective The Biblical Counseling Guide for Women Running Scared
(podcasts) The Bible and Anxiety-Association of Certified Biblical Counselors Christians and Psychiatric Medication various topics-Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation

#18: Family Worship Mar 08, 2018

In episode 18, we talk through worshiping God in our homes with our families. We discuss the many different ways to incorporate this precious time into family routines and use it to praise the Lord while encouraging our spouses and training our children. We hope you are encouraged by what you hear.
Resources: Leading Family Worship 5 Reasons to Prioritize Family Worship Family Worship- Laying the Foundation for Heart-Centered Parenting
A Baptist Catechism The New City Catechism
The Jesus Storybook Bible The Big Picture Story Bible The Action Bible The Biggest Story Sticky Situations Dangerous Journey: The Story of Pilgrim's Progress Our Home Is Like a Little Church

#17: Lessons From Our Dads Feb 22, 2018

In this episode, we share stories and examples of God's grace to us through our fathers. We recognize that each of our relationships with our fathers is unique and encompass both positive and negative experiences. However, we also recognize that they are used by God to teach us many important lessons. By sharing these lessons with our sisters in Christ, we can grow in understanding of one another as sisters and as people. We hope you enjoy these stories as much as we did.

#16: Lessons From Our Moms Feb 15, 2018

In this episode, we look back on the examples of our mothers and their impacts on our lives. We recognize that each individual mother-child relationship is unique in their ups and downs, but we also recognize that God uses our mothers' strengths and weaknesses to teach us different and valuable lessons. By sharing these lessons we can grow in understanding of one another as sisters and as people. We hope you enjoy these stories as much as we did.
Resources:
The Amazing Calling of Being "Mom" by Trillia Newbell
What Makes a Good Mom? by Abigail Dodds

#15: #MeToo Feb 01, 2018

This week we explore the current issue of sexual assault in our cultural, and the various cultural movements responding to it.
Show Notes:
How Church Leaders Should Respond to Sexual Abuse
Encouragement to #MeToo Victims Inside the Church
4 Lessons For Christians From the Harvey Weinstein Scandal
Art Exhibit Powerfully Answers The Question 'What Were You Wearing?'

#14: Racism Jan 25, 2018

In this episode, we review a sermon addressing racism. This issue is not a political one but a gospel one. It's a weighty and important topic for everyone, but especially for believers. We all felt the weight of the conversation, as there is so much to learn and grow in. Our hope is that the discussion, although not a complete or conclusive one, will bring about the asking of hard questions amongst church family and a growing love for one another through ethnic harmony.
God and Ethnic Harmony Bethany Baptist Church The Table of Nations Are There Many Races, or One? by Voddie Bachaum How Race Works, and Why it Matters For the Church (Powerpoint) by Michael Emerson Symposium by Michael Emerson Divided By Faith by Michael Emerson
On Race Part 1 Pastors' Talk
On Race Part 2 Pastors' Talk

#13: Gospelize Jan 18, 2018

In episode 13 we discuss evangelism, or how our church likes to say it, gospelizing. If you're like us, the fear and anxiety of failure can inhibit you from spreading the Gospel. By God's grace though, we have church sisters to "gospelize" us and encourage each other in boldness and love even as we struggle. We hope you are emboldened and encouraged as well!
Show Notes: Questioning Evangelism by Randy Newman Who Is Jesus? by Greg Gilbert Story Training videos by GCM Collective two ways to live by Matthias media Show Hospitality & Share the Gospel

#12: Modesty Jan 11, 2018

In this episode we wrestled with the important, and confusing, concept of modesty. This topic can be controversial, and for good reason. Although it was intimidating, we enjoyed digging through the messy layers of the heart issues, insecurities, and idolatry that lay at the core of this issue. We hope you do too!
Show Notes:
Desiring God, Modesty Misunderstood
Let's Talk About Modesty- Axis, The Cultural Translator
Girl Talk Modesty Heart Check
6 Marks of Biblical Modesty, Covenant Eyes

#11: Goal Setting Jan 04, 2018

In episode 11, we discuss goals for the New Year. However you say it, "resolutions, "goals, or "changes", the new year is a time that many of us evaluate ourselves and identify areas of growth we would like to see moving forward. Together we discuss how and why we do this and practical ways to help each other succeed. Happy New Years from Kinship!!
Show notes:
Michael Hyatt Your Best Year Ever-5 Step Plan A New Year's Plea-Plan! by John Piper A New Approach to New Year's Resolutions

#10: Motherhood (Discipline) Dec 21, 2017

In episode 10, we discuss the thorny issue of discipline (and spanking). This subject is highly controversial but as parents who seek to disciple their children according to Scripture, it must be carefully considered. Every parent struggles against temper tantrums and defiant attitudes from time to time. Some consider this topic outdated or confusing but God carefully instructs parents on disciplining their kids. Join our conversation and talk about it with your church family.
What the ladies are listening to: 2pm Grown- Korean pop Sam Smith Leslie Odom Jr. Pentatonix- Christmas album The Hobbit soundtrack - Howard Shore Pastor's Talk- podcast
Resources: Shepherding a Child’s Heart, Tedd Tripp’s Shepherding a Child's Heart (audio) Capital Hill Baptist Church, Parenting Core Seminars Don’t make me Count to 3, Ginger Hubbard Gospel Centered Family, Tim Chester Do the Next Thing- Adrian Segal Encouraging Words Young Mothers Need, TGC

#9: Motherhood (Discipleship) Dec 14, 2017

In episode 9, we discuss a few of the many joys, blessings, and challenges that come with motherhood. Whether you’re a mother of one child, multiple children, or have yet to begin growing your family, the idea of motherhood can be both exciting and daunting. From learning how children impact other relationships such as your marriage, church family, and extended family, to learning how to correct your children, (or have them correct you?), we explore how God’s grace is evident through the gift of children. We hope that all mothers or mothers to be that listen are encouraged to seek support from other mothers in their church family, and grow in joy and love for the Lord through loving their children.
Resources: Shepherding a Child’s Heart, Tedd Tripp’s Shepherding a Child's Heart (audio) Capital Hill Baptist Church, Parenting Core Seminars Don’t make me Count to 3, Ginger Hubbard Gospel Centered Family, Tim Chester Do the Next Thing- Adrian Segal Encouraging Words Young Mothers Need, TGC

#8: Transparency And Vulnerability Dec 06, 2017

In episode 8, we discuss the how’s and why’s of transparency and vulnerability. Being open and honest with church family is often appealing in theory, but we understand that sometimes the journey of getting there can be challenging and uncomfortable. Questions such as “how much to share” “who to share with” “how do I even start” can easily become discouraging. That is why in this episode we share practical ways of connecting with and creating a culture of vulnerability with your church family and some of the many ways we have seen the fruit of this in our own lives. Our prayer is that you find this helpful in the future building of beautiful relationships with your church family!
Resources: Helpful Questions Self-examination criteria DG's Pastoral Questionnaire (it's for pastor's but change it up!)
What the ladies listened to or watched:
Chopped (FoodNetwork) The Good Doctor Shark Tank Love Thy Neighborhood More Perfect Walking Dead Longmire

#7: Church Membership Nov 28, 2017

The church can be defined in various ways. As Christians we understand the importance of being connected to a community, but what does it mean to be part of a church? What is a church? In this episode, we discuss the biblical understanding of what a church is and why defining it is equally important. Come along with us as we tackle the big--perhaps controversial, responsibility of the church.
Church Membership Resources: Matthew18:15-18, Hebrews13:17, 1 Corinthians 5:1-12, 1Tim.5:17, and Acts5:12 (to name a few) What Is a Healthy Church Member? Thabiti Anyabwile
Bethany Baptist Church-- Steps to Membership PJ's sermon on membership
A Church Covenant 9Marks (various resources) Short video The Gospel Coalition-Trip Lee
What the ladies have listened to: Love Thy Neighborhood Lauren Daigle This American Life NPR
Relient K

#6: Dating (Boundaries & Accountability) Nov 16, 2017

Dating can seem like a roller coaster. Emotions can run high with no return at the end. In this episode, we face common issues and tackle them with the local church body in mind. Remaining pure, while dating, is a daunting task.What boundaries should you put in place in order to protect yourself and your brother in Christ? How does accountability help those church members who are dating? Accountability with vulnerability is a tool that the Lord has given the church so she flourishes. Let's help our sisters and brothers, who are not yet married, use their singleness for God's glory.
Resources: Not Yet Married:The Pursuit of Joy in Singleness and Dating by Marshall Segal
Dating For God's Glory Part 1 by P.J. Tibayan Dating For God's Glory Part 2 Dating For God's Glory Part 3
Guidelines for Sexual Purity by Randy Alcorn Covenant Eyes The Golden Rule of Christian Dating by Marshall Segal
What the ladies have been listening to (or watching): More Perfect (Marbury v. Madison) This Is Us

#5: Dating (Purpose and Expectations) Nov 07, 2017

In today's episode we tackle the wide world of dating. It's so wide we had to do two episodes and even then there's still so much to talk about. As married women now, we take a look at what dating was for us and how it could be for Christians. The four of us dated differently and that's ok! We all have our ideals and convictions that lead us to speak on the subject, but none of us claim to have THE answer in how to date biblically. We would all agree Christ Jesus must not be ignored and should dictate what parameters to set. It is wisdom issues such as these that make dialogue and encouragement among church women so vital to growth in every area of our lives. Hope you pass it along to your church family.
Resources:
Not Yet Married:The Pursuit of Joy in Singleness and Dating by Marshall Segal
Dating For God's Glory Part 1 by P.J. Tibayan
Dating For God's Glory Part 2
Dating For God's Glory Part 3
What the ladies have been listening to (or watching):
Why the Reformation Still Matters by Michael Reeves and Tim Chester
Albert Mohler: Behind the scenes of "The Briefing"
The Founder
Wonder Woman
Grand Budapest Hotel
Hamilton Documentary

#4: Sex In Marriage Nov 02, 2017

In this episode, we discuss sex in marriage. The excitement of consummating on the wedding day thrills every new married couple. What happens a month or even years later can be tragic. How do we see sex as appropriate and glorious?

Our culture and upbringing plays a role in how we see sex. Is our church community speaking enough on the topic? How does sexual abuse affect our views? Join us as we discuss these topics and more in this episode.
Resources: Sex and the Supremacy of Christ- John Piper Gospel-Centered Marriage- Tim Chester Sex, Romance, and the Glory of God- C.J. Mahaney

#3: Marriage (Arguing and Roles) Oct 24, 2017

In this episode the ladies discuss what arguing looks like in their marriages and how they seek biblical roles.
Tim Chester, "The Meaning of Marriage" Tim Keller, "The Meaning of Marriage"
What the ladies have been listening to: How I Built This Doctrine and Devotion Albert Mohler-The Briefing Patty Shuckla The World and Everything In It- WORLD magazine Hamilton Mixtape

#2: Friendship Oct 17, 2017

In this episode of Kinship, the ladies discuss friendship in the local church.
How do we define friendship?
What are some qualities that you look for in a close friend?
How do we as Christians obey the commandment to love all people? How does this translate into church community?
C.S. Lewis “Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival.”
Frances's article "Difficult Friendship Are Good for You" on Desiring God HERE
Robin Dunbar's layers of friendship HERE

#1: Why Listen to Kinship Podcast Oct 15, 2017

Hi this is Frances with Pam, Bethany and Kelly here for Episode 1 of Kinship. We are taking this time to introduce ourselves and share the heart behind this podcast and the trajectory for where it is going. We hope you enjoy getting to know and learn more about our vision for this podcast moving forward as we discuss relevant life topics as Christian sisters in pursuit of vulnerability and transparency.
In this episode the ladies introduce themselves and share their heart behind the launch of the podcast.
* Why we decided to start this podcast
* What we have to offer
* Community of grace vs. community of performance (Tim Chester)

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