Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Episode 242: Closure Isn’t Real (But I Still Want Some) Feb 27, 2023

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You don’t owe people who have hurt you anything. If someone disregards your core identity then has the audacity to turn up after FOUR YEARS and invite you to their wedding, you can respond, or not. You can tell the truth, or not. You can open up about how they hurt you, or not. The only thing you should absolutely do is block-block-block immediately after.

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Episode 241: Now’s a Great Time to Take Care of Yourself Feb 24, 2023

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You can give someone your best on a silver platter, and they might not like silver. That tells us nothing about you, except that you weren’t right for them. Be kind to yourself until you find the one who loves precious metals—and don’t even try to be friends with your ex until “I love you” fades to “I’d be fine playing a board game with you then leaving.”

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Episode 240: The Best Revenge is Forgetting Feb 22, 2023

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It’s not wrong to want to hurt the person who hurt you (but it is wrong to take your scathing shower comebacks into the real world). You can’t reason your way out of anger, but you can rely on your circle to build yourself up, let people know how much this experience affected you, and remember that this won’t be this hard forever.

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Episode 239: You're a Catch, a Babe, a Great Time! Feb 20, 2023

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Not having a threesome isn’t an excuse for cheating. And if they did cheat, then you get to decide how the relationship goes from there. Ask yourself: Is it working? Is it worth it? Have they earned their place in your life? Or is the well bone dry, and you’re holding out for trickles? It’s abundant elsewhere if you’re willing to look.

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Episode 238: Their Struggles Don’t Outweigh Your Safety Feb 17, 2023

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Having empathy is not at odds with demanding accountability. You can respond compassionately to someone’s struggles and still advocate for what you need to have a healthy, functioning relationship with them—anywhere from setting a series of small boundaries to cutting them off completely.

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Episode 237: Their New Relationship is Not Your Failure Feb 15, 2023

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Your ex’s new relationship did not rise out of the corpse of your old one. Some people choose to leave us (and in decidedly cruel ways, too). It’s definitely unfair that we’re forced to carry the pain of their actions, but we CAN rightsize our trauma and investigate what’s hiding behind our embarrassment.

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Go To Costco and Get That Candy Feb 14, 2023

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Happy Valentine's Day! Or Not. Whatever, it's just a Tuesday.

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Episode 236: Where’s the Healthy Model for Friendships?! Feb 13, 2023

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Adult friendships are HARD. But they’re worth it, even if every new friend won’t be your BFF (or show you their butt, *cough cough* Sam). By recognizing the extreme diversity in human relationships, we can meet people where they are, enforce our boundaries, and enjoy the connection as is without expecting all friends to fulfill all needs.

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Episode 235: The Universe Is Cruel & Chaotic, As Is Dating Feb 10, 2023

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Dating again after marriage? Welcome to your second adolescence! Be kind to yourself as you learn this new skill, especially if you’re carrying around grief that you don’t know where to put. Start challenging your own preferences as you explore the parameters of your desire—don’t worry, you’re not wasting anyone’s time.

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Episode 234: Love vs. Attraction is Apples vs. Oranges Feb 08, 2023

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Get this lady a horse so that she can ride outta that wedding! If you need more time to make a major life decision, take it. Just make sure the decision is “do I want to marry THIS man, THIS month?” and not “do I want to be with this man or this OTHER man?” (or worse, the IDEA of this other man).

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