Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Episode 252: It’s Literally Just… Not That Deep Mar 22, 2023

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Feelings are valid, but feelings are liars. How can we separate our partner’s actual behavior from the stories it tells to us? What if being late didn’t mean disrespecting your time, or only grabbing their own towel wasn’t seen as an act of malice? (But also, c’mon…) Realizing it’s not that deep is a good start, but radically accepting our partner is better.

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Episode 251: Grab a Bucket & Get to Work Mar 20, 2023

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Being in relationship with a grieving partner is HARD—even harder than grieving yourself. But you can’t be the only bailing out water. Something has to change, whether you stop and let the boat sink or they start helping. How can you acknowledge their depression AND your isolation while you slowly work your back to the relationship you had?

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Episode 250: The Plot of Every “L Word” Episode Ever Mar 17, 2023

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You can’t carve trust out of your partner’s deceit. If they’ve shown you a pattern, it’s best to believe it. And while it’s hard to let go of a relationship you fought so long for, it’s worse to stay in an unsafe, unsatisfying one. Even Sam might leave Peter over this many lies (and that’s saying a LOT).

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Episode 249: Hormonal Hell? I Own A Timeshare There Mar 15, 2023

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You’re not just “full of hormones,” you are FULL OF HORMONES! Your pregnant feelings are valid, but instead of blaming your partner for the bad ones, tell them you need more—more patience, support, sharing of the mental load (and more Indian food, dammit!). Once you properly mourn the relationship you had, you can open yourself to a stronger, deeper one.

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Episode 248: Big City Woman Changes Her Mind Mar 13, 2023

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You’re not bound to the thing you thought you wanted. If you want more (or less, or different), let them know. You can’t avoid revealing feelings and risking rejection, but it’s never as scary as you think—and it can be so worth it. If it doesn’t work, you can always go back to your hoe phase. That’s eternal. (Be warned: y’all asked for tangents, and we delivered.)

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Episode 247: You’re Not Bridezilla, You’re Very, Very Human Mar 10, 2023

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Someone saying your worst fear is true doesn’t mean it is; it means they knew your worst fear and used it against you. And that will always say more about them than it does about you. Look to the people who really know you for affirmation, and try to cut the cords to external validation, as destabilizing as it might be. And if you haven’t already, f***ing watch The Last Of Us (Sierra insists).

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Episode 246: Tropes Are Easy, But They Aren’t Our Truths Mar 08, 2023

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Yes, white supremacy poisons everything. No, that doesn’t mean the kind, self-aware white man you’re dating is going to do you harm. Without worst-case-scenario-ing yourself to death, try to prepare for the difficult things that are likely to happen if you do commit to this interracial relationship. (And if the worst case does happen, you can just break up!)

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Episode 245: Seasons of Figuring It Out Mar 06, 2023

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Compatibility isn’t being the same, it’s finding someone whose differences fit yours. Instead of thinking you might one day “fix” your more inactive, laidback partner, see if you can accept that you have different lifestyles (and that productivity and rest are equally valuable, capitalism be damned).

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Episode 244: Swimming Against the Undercurrent of Gender Mar 03, 2023

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As a non-binary parent in our Incredibly Gendered World, you WILL have awkward conversations and tense moments, but in the bubble of family, you can affirm and honor your identity. Outside that bubble, it’s up to you who you correct and who you leave in ignorance; when it matters and when sacrificing your peace isn’t worth it.

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Episode 243: Stop the Resentment Snowball In Its Tracks Mar 01, 2023

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It’s only natural to feel abandoned by a partner who leaves for months-long work trips (especially if you’re stuck in upstate New York…). Remember that they’re not the villain—the situation just isn’t working. Figure out what you need from the relationship and approach the problem as a TEAM.

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