Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

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Revisiting Eps 320: Alternatives to Punishment Part 3 Apr 06, 2023

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This week’s show is a solo show- the third of six in a series where Casey will dive deep into alternatives to punishment. We get into kindness and firmness and explore an experiential activity that invites listeners into their teen's shoes.

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Eps 375: Intentional communication with Cynthia Kane Apr 03, 2023

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My guest today is Cynthia Kane.

This week is all about communication! Cynthia shares all kinds of advice and help for intentional communication including: the four pillars of right speech and accessing the space (or the pause) to choose how to engage. We pull out some metaphors - why the teen years are a river & behavior as an iceberg. Cynthia and I talk on the importance of authenticity with your teen, what authenticity means, & how to get better at it. Cynthia ends by sharing two concrete strategies for sitting with sensation.

Takeaways from the show

The four pillars of right speech
The pause/the space
The teen years as a river
Choosing & getting better at authenticity
Sitting with sensation

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Revisiting Eps 319: ALTERNATIVES TO PUNISHMENT PART 2 Mar 30, 2023

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This week’s show is a solo show- the second of six in a series where Casey will dive deep into alternatives to punishment.

Takeaways from the show

Reviewing the “why” of this series
Natural consequences
Personal awareness
Nurturing relationship
Becoming your most conscious self
Getting curious around what’s behind behavior
Powerful opportunities to grow relationship
Having no agenda but curiosity
Punishment is a short term tool

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Eps 374: Parental anxiety with Dr. Dana Dorfman Mar 27, 2023

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Dr. Dana Dorfman is here today, and we’re talking all about parental anxiety. We talk on how it’s ingrained in us that education, achievement, and productivity are so important, which makes us anxious parents. We talk about how adolescents are dealing with a lot of stuff we didn’t - active shooter drills, the pandemic, constant social media & news. The pressure on our teens is real and accelerated, but there’s also some hope & inspiration there. Dr. Dorfman shares about her 8 parent anxiety reaction types and how we can use that info to do better.

Takeaways from the show

Dr. Dana Dorfman’s new book: When Worry Works
Parental anxiety
Generational divides & what adolescents are dealing with today
Not letting our narrative get in the way of our teen’s path
Achievement pressure
8 parent anxiety reaction types
When & how our anxiety can be helpful
Defining your values

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Revisiting Eps 318: Alternatives to Punishment Part 1 Mar 23, 2023

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Excited to be revisiting this limited series on alternatives to punishment! Part one explores allow for things to unfold for our teens, validating feelings and offering support if needed/asked for.

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Eps 373: The Parent Compass through the teen years with Cindy Muchnick Mar 20, 2023

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My guest today is Cindy Muchnick.

Listen in this week as Cindy and I talk about “The Parent Compass” book & movement, a guide for parents on how to pull back & let go through the teen years. Moving from managing everything for your little kids to pulling back & giving your teens the reins can be really hard, but we have to do it. Cindy shares some tips for inviting feedback from your adolescent and why, sometimes, we do want our kids to struggle. I ask Cindy about how to talk to teens and stay solution-focused when they don’t seem to be a good fit or interested in a typical, four-year college path. We end by sharing thoughts on over-tutoring, letter grades, monitoring your teen’s grades, & picking colleges.

Takeaways from the show

“The Parent Compass” book & movement
Moving from manager to consultant during the teen years
Inviting feedback from your teen
Staying “fiercely committed & lovingly detached”
Building resiliency by doing hard things
Gap years & options outside of four-year colleges
Conversations when your teen is struggling with academics
What does “do your best” really mean?
Over-tutoring, letter grades, & choosing colleges

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EPS 372: SOLO What it means to pass on the energetic responsibility to our teens Mar 16, 2023

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Today's podcast is a solo show with your host, Casey O'Roarty.

Today the content comes straight from the Joyful Courage for Parents of Teens Facebook group. I talk a lot with my clients and here on the pod about "energetic responsibility" and a mama posted a question asking me to go deeper. The result is this podcast!

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Eps 371: Mutual respect with DJ Johnson Mar 13, 2023

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My guest today is someone who is a friend to the JC pod, DeAntwann “DJ” Johnson.

This episode is all about mutual respect. Casey and DJ start by talking about how the idea of respect has changed from the 1950’s to today, and how kids & teens today are asking to & expecting to be respected. We teach respect by being respectful. They dig into whether or not kids need to earn their dignity, our respect, and our love (spoiler: they don’t). DJ points out that the way we treat our children at home is the basis for what they expect from other adults outside of the home, and Casey explains how kids being disrespected in their home can show up as defiance & disconnection. DJ shares stepping stones you can use when young people are disrespectful, a bit about how teenage brain development plays in, and how to be a leader from a place of service for your teen. Casey finishes up by touching on the power of“and” - teaching & expecting kids to respect themselves AND the person in front of them.

Takeaways from the show:

Showing up respectfully and modeling respect for our teens
The difference between respect and being nice
Cultivating and teaching respect by being respectful, not by demanding it
Kids deserve respect, dignity, & love - they don’t need to earn it
Disrespect in the home showing up as defiance and disconnect
Softening, respecting, and loving your kids regardless of how they’re showing up
Leading from a place of service
Teaching teens to respect themselves AND the person in front of them

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Eps 370: SOLO SHOW Deep diving into encouragement Mar 09, 2023

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This week's show is a solo show with your host, Casey O'Roarty.

It's you and me, babe! You. And. Me. Another solo show for diving into work of parenting teens and rolling around in it together. Today I am talking about how encouragement can be a tool for relationship, skill building and showing up as our best. I share language and thoughts about how to uplevel the encouragement in YOUR home so that your teens are more likely to step into cooperation and collaboration.

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Eps 369: Rachel Macy Stafford teaches us how to Soul Shift Mar 06, 2023

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My guest today is Rachel Macy Stafford.

Rachel joins Casey today to share about her new book, “Soul Shift,” and how to find joy and get back to yourself. Rachel shares the painful truth that started her journey. Casey and Rachel connect over the challenges that raising teens can bring, and how we can be present, relationship-focused, and connected with them during the tough times. Rachel shares a beautiful story about how being human and vulnerable with your teens allows them to be authentic with you, too. They touch on the messiness of teens and how we need to deeply know our children so we can best support them. Rachel shares some of her best practices to find self-worth & growth, like speaking to yourself compassionately and taking time for yourself.

Takeaways from the show

Cultivating the practice of presence
Asking yourself and owning why you do what you do
Finding time to nurture yourself
Uncovering and responding to one’s deepest truths
Connecting with your teen through presence
Being real, authentic, & vulnerable with your teen
Presence as a door opener for your teen
Letting go of distractions and prioritizing connection
Finding your self-worth
Being in your experience vs. observing the experience

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