Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

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#337: Questions You're Too Embarrassed to Ask About Sex Apr 14, 2022

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To celebrate the life of Dr. Doug Rosenau, we're re-releasing this candid conversation he and Juli had about the difference between having sex and making love, making erotic memories with your spouse, giving language to your sexual desire and mood, and putting the creativity back into your lovemaking.

Dr. Doug entered eternity with Christ on April 10, 2022. We're grateful for his work that impacted so many marriages and tor the lives his legacy will continue to touch.

Guest: Dr. Doug Rosenau

Show notes:

A Celebration of Sex* by Dr. Doug Rosenau
A Celebration of Sex After 50* by Dr. Doug Rosenau
Total Intimacy* by Dr. Doug Rosenau
The Institute for Sexual Wholeness

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#411: The Unlikely Means God Uses To Bring Beauty From Ashes Apr 11, 2022

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Curt Thompson joins Juli to share the unlikely (often unwelcome) means that God uses to heal us. Join them to discover the power of being fully known and seen—you're going to want to listen to this one more than once!

"One of the reasons we want to make the jump from one marriage to another, from one form of sexuality to another, is because we have not had the experience of having our grief be seen."

Guest: Dr. Curt Thompson

Show notes:

Tell us How Do You Take Your Java?
The Soul of Desire by Dr. Curt Thompson*
The Being Known Podcast
God's Healing Stinks (Juli's blog)

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#410: Sexual Abuse in Marriage and How To Help a Hurting Wife Apr 04, 2022

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Sexual abuse in marriage... wait. What? Doesn't the Bible say that a spouse "has authority" over the other's body? Let's talk practically about what sexual abuse in marriage looks like so we can get women (and men) the help they need.

Guest: Darby Strickland

Show notes:

"Is It Abuse?" by Darby Strickland*
Darby's three-part blog series on sexual abuse in marriage
Java #319: Is Good Sex a "Right" in Marriage? (or read the blog)
How Do I Know If I'm in an Abusive Relationship? (Juli's blog)
Introduce the show! Tell us How Do You Take Your Java?

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#409: Divorce & Remarriage (Abuse, Infidelity, Porn & All the Hard Things) Mar 28, 2022

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What exactly does "sexual immorality" include? Am I free to remarry? What about abuse? God's word is clear on marriage; but some of us are a little fuzzy on the divorce and remarriage part. Juli and her guest get practical as they consider the complexity of real-life situations as well as the truth and clarity we find in God's word.

Guest: Mike Winger

Show notes:

Bible Thinker (YouTube Channel)

Divorce & Remarriage: EVERYTHING the Bible says about it. (Mike Winger's video)

6 Thoughts to Help You Discern Truth & Give Grace (Juli's blog)

Java #166: We Are All Sexually Broken

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Introduce the show! How do you take your Java?

#408: Science Offers Kids a Powerful Reason To Say No to Porn Mar 21, 2022

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If teens understood the significant impact of porn on their brains,, would it help them resist? Decades of studies from respected institutions echo God's design: we're made for connection with people, not screens.

Guest: Brian Goins

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"Brain, Heart, World" docuseries*

"When Your Kids Look at Porn" (Juli's blog)

Sexual Discipleship Open House - Invite Your Leader! April 5, 12:30pm EST

Introduce the show! How Do You Take Your Java?

* Any person or family can watch the docuseries "Brain, Heart, World" online for free, but if you want a public license to show at church, school or community, Brian Goins can provide 10% off with the code: CATAPULT.

#407: Masturbation: The No. 1 Question You're Asking Us! Mar 14, 2022

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There's more to the masturbation conversation than simply "right" or "wrong." Could it be an issue of spiritual maturity for some of us—whether married or single? Can it be used in a healthy way in marriage? Join us to have your thinking challenged!

Guest: Hannah Nitz

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Join a Spring online book study!

Masturbation: Is It Wrong? (en Espanol) (Juli's blog)

What's OK in the Bedroom? (Juli's blog)

Is Masturbation a Sin? You May Be Asking the Wrong Question (Juli's blog)

Q&A: How do I talk to my kids about masturbation?

There's More Podcast (connect with Hannah!)

#406: Every Couple Has a Sexual Dance. What Does Yours Say About You? Mar 07, 2022

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Sex therapist Dr. Mike Sytsma says that when a couple tells him how they kiss or how they make love, he can tell them how they interact in other areas too. Every couple has a dance‍‍–we dance around our wounds and insecurities, both inside and outside the bedroom. Don't believe it? Listen in!

Guest: Dr. Michael Sytsma

Show notes:

Sexual Desire in Marriage (teaching series by Dr. Michael Sytsma)

Building Intimate Marriages

5 Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm & Intimacy (Juli's blog)

Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free.

#405: How To Be Broken and Used by God (At the Same Time) Feb 28, 2022

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Juli unpacks what Sexual Discipleship® looks like and Cory Morgan shares how his own brokenness became an opportunity to bring others alongside him on the journey toward sexual integrity.

Co-host: Cory Morgan

Ask Juli your questions at the "Making Sense of God & Sex" webinar and live Q&A. We're giving away 6 books, but you have to participate live!

Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free.

Register for Summer Student Conferences at Summit today! Save $200 when you register before March 31 for any in-person Student Conference. Use code AI22 to receive an additional $100 to use anytime you register for an in-person session during the 2022 season. Go to www.summit.org/authentic

#404: How To Help Your Kids Think About Sex From a Christian Worldview Feb 24, 2022

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The co-author of "Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality" joins Juli for the sixth episode in the "Making Sense of God & Sex" series.

Guest: Hillary Morgan Ferrer

Ask Juli your questions at the Making Sense of God & Sex webinar.

Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free.

"Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality" by Hillary Ferrer & Amy Davison*

mamabearapologetics.com

Register for Summer Student Conferences at Summit Ministries today! Save $200 when you register before March 31 for any in-person Student Conference. Use code AI22 to receive an additional $100 to use anytime you register for an in-person session during the 2022 season. Go to www.summit.org/authentic

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#403: How Do I Reconcile God's Goodness with Sexual Pain & Injustice? Feb 21, 2022

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Join Juli for a conversation about the important roles that sexuality and justice have in shaping this generation's thoughts on God, and how to reconcile the pain of sexual abuse with faith in a loving God.

Guest: Lou Phillips

Ask Juli your questions during the Making Sense of God & Sex webinar.
Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free.
Become an Authentic Intimacy member
Java #352: How Purity Culture & Ravi Zacharias' Abuse of Power Challenge Our Faith (exclusive content)

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