Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

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#427: Proverbs 31 Is a Picture of Intimacy, Not a To-Do List Aug 08, 2022

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Find out why Proverbs 31 isn't just for married women! The 22-line Hebrew poem is a picture of intimacy between Christ and His Bride (and if you follow Jesus, that's you).

Guests: Hannah Nitz & Robin Luton

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New webinar series! Sex & the Single Christian

Valor: A Messianic Journey Through Proverbs 31 by Robin Luton

Join us over the next two weeks for a special Java series on singleness, dating with purpose, and finding intimacy.

#426: How To Better Understand the Complexities Beneath Gender Dysphoria Aug 01, 2022

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You CAN lean into compassion—and keep your convictions—as you engage with others who are walking through gender dysphoria or gender related struggles.

Guest: Dr. Julia Sadusky

Emerging Gender Identities by Dr. Mark Yarhouse & Dr. Julia Sadusky*

Understanding Gender Dysphoria by Dr. Mark Yarhouse*

#396: Diverse Gender Identities: How to See the Person Behind the Issue

#397: How To Help Families Navigate Questions About Gender Identity

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#425: Bonus! How To Build Community & Friendships with Intention and Grace Jul 28, 2022

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Feeling stuck in your friendships? You're not alone! As seasons of life change, our friendships don't always keep up. If you're looking for practical wisdom to start building meaningful connection with others, this episode is for you!

"Building rooted community is the practice of little, by little, by little..." Bailey Hurley

Follow @authenticintimacy and @bailey.t.hurley on IG and tell us, Which of the four friend types are you? Do you have one of each type in your circle of friends?

Guest: Bailey T. Hurley

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Together Is a Beautiful Place by Bailey T. Hurley*

New online book studies start this fall! Join us to go through one of our Authentic Intimacy books with like-minded men and women.

Pick up a Java Pack and grab some friends. Host a "Pizza & Podcast Party" and listen and/or go through the discussion Qs together. (PS. Read more about a "Pizza & Podcast Party" in Bailey's book!)

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#424: A 54-Year Friendship That Broke Through Cross-Cultural Barriers Jul 25, 2022

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In the South, in the late 60s, these men weren't supposed to be friends. Yet, with Jesus as their common ground, they began to seal up tiny little cracks in the racial divide around them. What if we all did that? Grab your Java. Hear their story.

Guests: Gary Chapman & Clarence Shuler

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Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships by Gary Chapman & Clarence Shuler*

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#263: Experiencing Sexual Pleasure, Part 2 Jul 18, 2022

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In part two of this conversation, you'll hear about the other two legs of the "sexual desire triangle" and go from getting your body ready, to getting your emotions ready! Nurturing an emotional connection with your man (talking, date nights, taking a "sexcation") will create intimacy that spills over into the bedroom.

Guest: Dr. Jennifer Degler

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Listen to part one of this conversation, #262: Experiencing Sexual Pleasure, Part 1
Register today for Reclaim 2022!
Dr. Jennifer's Dare of the Month Newsletter
More from Dr. Jennifer, Q&A: How Do I Get Past Sexual Partners Out of My Head? (video)
More from Dr. Jennifer, Q&A: My Friend is Afraid to Date Because She Has an STD. How Can I Encourage Her? (video)

#262: Experiencing Sexual Pleasure, Pt. 1 Jul 11, 2022

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Unlike most men (who always seem to be in the mood, always climax, and never experience pain), many women are mystified by their own sexual pleasure. Join Dr. Juli Slattery for this two-part conversation about how to prime your body, mind and soul to receive and respond to sexual pleasure.

Guest: Dr. Jennifer Degler

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Get your early bird rate at Reclaim 2022!
Passion Pursuit by Dr. Juli Slattery & Linda Dillow
Dr. Jennifer's Dare of the Month Newsletter
God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery*
Sex and the Single Girl by Dr. Juli Slattery

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#423: How to "Rethink" Issues in Our Church Culture Around Sexuality & Abuse Jul 04, 2022

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We need to be asking some hard questions. In the wake of the SBC investigation, along with the growing tsunami of fallen pastors, spiritual abuse, and marginalized victims, Juli shares how you can be proactive for change.

Co-host: Brian Dahlen

5 Ways the Church Must "Step Up" In Response to Abuse Within It's Walls (Juli's blog)

Rethinking Sexuality by Dr. Juli Slattery

Java #3: Mom, I'm Pregnant

God's Healing Stinks (Juli's blog)

Check out Brian's podcast, The Grandfather Effect

Follow Kate Shellnutt's coverage of the SBC at Christianity Today

#422: How to Care for Both Women and Children in the Wake of the Dobbs Decision Jun 27, 2022

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Do you know that God's heart is for both women AND their unborn children, and can't figure out where you fit in the pro-life/pro-choice divide? Juli's guest offers a third option: "When Jesus was confronted with two conflicting ideas, He always pointed out that neither offered the complete picture and instead gave a third, Kingdom response."

Guest: Angie Weszely, ProGrace

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Visit www.ProGrace.org for more resources on the third option for approaching the abortion debate.
How To Have Tough Conversations (Juli's blog)
How We Love Each Other (Juli's blog)
Introduce the show! Tell us how you take your Java with Juli

#421: "God, Sex, and Your Marriage" Q&A with Juli Slattery Jun 20, 2022

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You're starting to see how sexual intimacy is a reflection of covenant love. But what does that actually look like in your sex life...

When you can't experience orgasm?

When your spouse has no sexual desire?

When your spouse has had an affair?

Juli and Hannah tackle the REAL questions we've received from men and women just like you.

Co-host: Hannah Nitz

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God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery*
Register for our FREE Live Q&A and Book Giveaway!
Hannah's podcast, There's More
Introduce the show! Tell us how you take your Java with Juli

Other recommended resources:

The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex by Cliff & Joyce Penner*
Enjoy! The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women by Cliff & Joyce Penner*

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#420: Bonus! What Redemption and Sexual Intimacy Look Like in Real Life Jun 16, 2022

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Sex was nothing like what they were told it was going to be. She felt pain. He felt guilt. Together, they're on a journey toward wholeness. Join us to hear what redemption and sexual intimacy look like in real life.

Guests: Cory & Keyla Morgan

God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery*
Register for our FREE Live Q&A and Book Giveaway!
Join us at Reclaim 2022!
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