It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

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Latest Episodes:

SOLO AMA: Robert Irwin's Logies Joke, Burnout, and Beauty Standards Aug 17, 2026

Show notes

It's time for an AMA!!! Abbie's been asked to unpack what happened on the Logies, as well as an update on her mental health, her thoughts on current beauty standards and more!!

LINKS

Stream the new Peking Duk album!! https://pekingduk.komi.io/
Ecomind, climate mental health charity mentioned by Amy: https://www.ecomind.au/
Read the Jia Tolentino article about plastic surgery: https://www.newyorker.com/culture/the-weekend-essay/our-plastic-surgery-nightmare
Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
Check out @itsalotpod on IG
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CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

CHLOE MIRA'S NMF: "Just Kiss Each Other" Aug 13, 2026

Show notes

Chloe thought her Nightmare Fuel wasn't up to scratch... our reactions would prove otherwise. Tashi Duncan eat your heart out.

LINKS

Follow Annie Knight on IG @anniekknight
Follow Chloe Mira on IG @chloemiraa
Watch Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money only on Stan
Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more:https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
Check out@itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
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CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guests: Annie Knight @anniekknight & Chloe Mira @chloemiraa

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are Stunt Creators Bad For OnlyFans? Ft. Annie Knight & Chloe Mira Aug 12, 2026

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Where's the line between engagement and exploitation? So-called 'stunt creators' on OnlyFans have stirred up a lot of controversy in the last few years, with some creators targeting teenagers at Schoolies, or attempting to break records for having sex with the most people. These stunts have led to rule changes on the platform, and debate within the sex work community and more broadly about their impact. Abbie has a lot of thoughts about 'stunt creators' but needs to hear more... So, the stars of Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money Annie Knight and Chloe Mira are here to share their perspectives.

LINKS

Follow Annie Knight on IG @anniekknight
Follow Chloe Mira on IG @chloemiraa
Watch Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money only on Stan
Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more:https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
Check out@itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guests: Annie Knight @anniekknight & Chloe Mira @chloemiraa

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

DR JENI HAYNES: How Her 2,681 Personalities Helped Her Find Justice Aug 10, 2026

Show notes

CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains discussion of child sexual abuse. Help is available from the National Sexual Assault, Domestic Family Violence Counselling Service on 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) and Lifeline on 13 11 14.

Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly Multiple Personality Disorder) has long been misrepresented and misunderstood, but Dr Jeni Haynes is here to change that. In 2019, she made international headlines when she testified against her father, who was the perpetrator of years of sexual, physical and psychological abuse upon her. It was the first time in the Australian legal system to accept testimony from alters within a person living with DID was accepted as evidence in a criminal prosecution. Since her landmark case, Jeni has co-authored a memoir, and is the subject of a new feature-length documentary 'We Are Jeni'. Abbie sits down with Dr Jeni to discuss why she still identifies with the term MPD (but disagrees with the disorder part), how her alters make decisions, and her journey from not being believed to finding justice.

LINKS:

‘We Are Jeni' is available to stream now on SBS On Demand.
Follow Jeni on Instagram @drjenihaynes
Follow Jeni on Facebook @jenihaynesarmy
Buy Jeni's memoir The Girl In The Green Dress
Find out more about We Are Jeni: https://www.wearejeni.com/
Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Dr Jeni Haynes@drjenihaynes

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

MICHELLE BRASIER'S NMF: "I'm Laying An Egg In Newark Airport!" Aug 06, 2026

Show notes

We are so blessed to have one of the funniest (and smallest) women in the country on the pod for a NMF - it's MICHELLE BRASIER!!! Seat backs and tray tables up for an all-time tale that has to be heard to be believed!

LINKS

Vote 1 Michelle Brasier for the Silver Logie!! https://vote.tvweeklogies.com.au/
Follow Michelle on Instagram @michellebrasier
Follow Michelle on TikTok @michellebrasier
Buy Michelle's book: My Brother's Ashes Are In A Sandwich Bag
Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
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Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Michelle Brasier @michellebrasier

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

SOLO: Nara Smith Was Never A 'Tradwife' Aug 03, 2026

Show notes

UPDATE FROM ABBIE: "Please note I've gotten two new pieces of information since publishing this episode; The first is that I had seen screenshots of Nara Smith using #tradwife, but I have since been told they were not real thanks to a follower! Any references to this have now been edited out of the episode. I have also found out that she has previously posted videos of herself drinking raw milk while pregnant." (It is illegal to sell raw/unpasteurised milk for human consumption in Australia)

Nara Smith's appearance on Call Her Daddy caused some arguments online about what she does or doesn't stand for. Abbie unpacks why Nara never was a trad-wife, why some women are rejecting the title, and talks about the real dangers that these videos cause. Abbie also introduces us to a new woman in the tradwife space she's obsessed with, but first, Abbie has had some epiphs about the weirdo men in the comments of Adam's videos...

LINKS

Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

NMF: Trouble In The P*ssy Palace Jul 30, 2026

Show notes

We were screaming SO loud at this NMF that Mr Walter got up to check we were okay #ally

LINKS

Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

LILY SCHUBERT: "I Spent Six Years Totally Bedbound" Jul 27, 2026

Show notes

CW: This episode contains discussions of mental ill-health, chronic illness, and suicidality. If this raises any issues for you help is available 24/7 via Lifeline at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14, as well as Beyond Blue at 1300 224 636 or https://www.beyondblue.org.au.

At just 16 years old Lily Schubert got sick, eventually receiving a diagnosis of Myalgic Encephalomyelitis. She was forced to drop out of school and was bedbound for six years. Her condition worsened to the point that even small exposures to light, sound, or touch would cause severe crashes. As her symptoms started to improve, she started documenting her life on TikTok, with videos of her 'firsts' reaching millions of people around the world. Lily sits down with Abbie to talk about the reality of living with ME, what helped her get through her darkest days, and why she doesn't subscribe to the 'gratitude' narrative.

LINKS

Follow Lily on TikTok @lilygschubert
Follow Lily on Instagram @lilygschubert
Lily's website http://lilyschubert.com/
Read Lily's Substack https://substack.com/@lilyschubert
See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Lily Schubert @lilygschubert

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

#AnklesOutForAndrew Jul 26, 2026

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Andrew and Tristan Tate were arrested in Florida last week, and are facing extradition to the UK to face 38 additional charges. The Tate brothers deny any wrongdoing. Abbie and Amy are breaking down what happens next, but not before a big long rant about why the discourse around reactions to the arrest is so cooked.

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