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    How to Love Your Body: The Official UNdiet Online Podcast

    Along with your hosts Lauren McAulay and Jenna Free (co founders of UNdiet Online), build a healthy relationship with food and your body by learning from the non diet experts on UNdiet Online. Learn more about UNdiet Online here – www.undietonline.com.

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    Ep 151 - How to Handle Intuitive Eating Burnout Mar 23, 2021
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    Welcome to How to Love Your Body - on this week’s episode we are talking about Intuitive Eating Burnout. How to handle it. And what to do if you are feeling the overload.

    Let’s first start off by discussing what Intuitive Eating burnout is- this is when you feel like your life feels consumed by trying to listen to your hunger signals, figure out if the diet mentality is talking or if it’s truly your intuition. It’s listening to every IE podcast, reading every book, and ingesting as much IE content as possible to “fix” yourself.

    Although it’s not dieting it may just feel like another obsession - although it may feel much better than dieting and constantly trying to lose weight - it still keeps your mind really busy, like it’s now the only thing you can think of - you still aren’t free.

    When you feel this - you may think - well, I better read ANOTHER book, listen to ANOTHER podcast, focus even more acutely on my hunger signals- do anything and everything to learn, learn, learn in the hopes of finally “fixing” the issue.

    Okay SO - if you feel this way - we get it, And guess what - it’s “normal” to feel this way. This doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you and you’ll never ever really truly embody IE. Not the case at all -

    What this does mean….

    That instead of loading on more content and education - it may just mean that you need to take a break, take a step back, and start to trust your body that it knows more than you think it does.

    Yes, this may mean to stop forcing it and to let yourself be.

    If

    -listening to another podcast

    -reading another book

    -taking on every IE tip you read on IG

    -following more and more coaches/ counselors

    -focusing even harder on the 10 IE principles

    -doing that free IE challenge someone is promoting

    … sounds exhausting and like it’s gobbling you up. It’s perfectly okay to STOP. To take a break and not put anything more on your plate.

    You may not need more. You may just need to turn off your brain and simplify things. To finally let your body have the chance to do it’s thing without constant thinking - we want to quiet the mind and let the feelings in our body take the lead.

    We aren’t suggesting to give up all support, all the community groups, all the books and podcasts you love. No, not at all. Those things are very much important to support you in your process - you’re listening to our podcast right now - and of course we want you to keep listening.

    But just like you are going to let your body signals do their thing - you can also listen to how your body responds to content - if it feels effortless, energizing, and inviting to continue to read the book you’re reading or listen to the podcasts, or do whatever IE work you’re doing by all means KEEP DOING IT.

    If it feels forced, draining, and overwhelming - STOP. Take a step back. Only continue to engage in the things that feel helpful and like you want to do it.

    And if every single thing you feels like a SHOULD here are the things you can do ---

    -Allow all food
    -Listen to what sounds good to your body
    -EAT
    -Move on

    No overthinking, feeling guilty, or regretful.

    The only thing you are doing is listening to your body and eating the food - no more, no less.

    Give yourself space to just be in the flow of letting your body lead you and turning off your mind.

    Move through life with feelings not thoughts.

    This doesn’t mean you will never turn back on the thoughts or read another book or listen to another podcast or do the Intuitive Eating challenge or take the IE course -

    It just means you are taking a break to let your body lead - so you don’t have to take this all on by yourself - you don’t need to try so hard to make this IE thing work. You most likely just need to BE more - and things will start to feel natural and second nature instead of another obsession around food (even if it’s Intuitive Eating, any type of obsessive thinking is not an ideal way to live).

    Whatever happens - just let it happen. Surrender to your body signals and just honor them. When you feel recharged - and like you are energized to get more into the thought process of this work - then great! You may need a day to recharge, a week, a month, or longer. However long, that’s perfectly fine. This is your process.

    If you are feeling burnt out on Intuitive Eating - then the best thing to do is give yourself time to just BE.

    And most importantly, when you take this time for your brain to settle, it comes without judgement. Taking a break but judging yourself for it will be counterproductive. It’s the combining the rest period with no judgement that will actually move you through this process feeling much more deliberate and intentional. It will feel good.

    As mentioned, this may just need a short break - this is not a forever sentence. It’s whatever comes forth for you.
    Allow, listen, quiet the mind, move on.

    This episode was all about taking a break - so please honor your process - and we would also like to share that The UnDiet Collective Membership App will be opening for 48 hours in the next couple of weeks. If you are looking for simplified support in IE/ Body Image/ Mindset work - you can get Daily action steps, weekly live coaching, community support, monthly bonuses, IE resources and more - all in one spot so you don’t need to find all things IE in a bunch of different directions.

    You can get on the waitlist at www.thebodylovesociety.com/app

    See you next week!


    Ep 150 - Post Pandemic Weight Gain Worries Mar 16, 2021
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    Welcome to this week’s episode of How to Love Your Body.

    Today we are discussing the worry so many people are having about going back into the world as the pandemic restrictions begin to ease in many places.

    Firstly, don’t feel guilty if you’re feeling uneasy about getting back into the world because you’ve gained weight, because we’ve all been taught to think this way our whole lives BUT isn’t that horrible, that our society is so fatphobic that we are more worried about surviving a pandemic and being seen instead of celebrating that we made it this far?

    Regardless, we know that people are worried and we want to support you to get back into the world feeling a little better than you might be feeling right now.

    You can download our free Post Pandemic Body Image Workbook at bit.ly/pandemicworkbook

    How to Overcome Pandemic Weight Gain Negative Thoughts: #1. Acceptance and appreciation

    It’s important to appreciate any coping mechanisms you had, saying thank you and moving forward .

    Don’t try to “fix” anything that you feel needs “fixing” – this never ends well.

    What you can do is bring yourself back to center and ask yourself, what can I do right now to feel good? What will feel good in my body right now? And just take that next small step.

    No need to do anything other than the next tiny step to do something that feels good – mentally, physically, and/or emotionally.

    This is about giving yourself a break – Hello!! We have been in a pandemic for over a year now. This is something that most of us have never experienced. We thought the world was closing for 2 weeks, we would stay at home, and life would go back to normal — and here we are a year later.

    We have all been in survival mode – so however you got through this past year, it’s nothing to judge. It was what got you through. Nothing is good or bad or right or wrong. It just is – and you did a wonderful job getting through some really tough times – and that’s life. It will always ebb and flow and you will do the best you can in the situation you are in.

    So this is your reminder to be gentle with yourself, accept reality, and appreciate the things you had to cope with to get where you are now.

    #2. Put your own opinion and experience of life above others opinions.

    Even though we were all in the same pandemic, we have all experienced it in our own way and have been living our own life that others truly know nothing about.

    You know you more than anyone, you know the person you are, you know what you have lived – no one gets to define you, no one gets to make you feel inferior because of the way your body looks (or for any other reason), no one gets to take your power with their judgments or comments.

    Here are some journal prompts that you can start thinking about – they will be in your workbook so no need to write it down.

    • What is it that makes you feel safe at home to be in the body you have but not out in the world where people can see you? What has changed? How can you embody the feelings you’ve had at home and take them with you out into the world?
    • What are three things you are proud of yourself for in this past year?
    • If your body was how it looked at the start of the pandemic how would your life be different? Would you have a different life? Would you have eternal happiness? Would this past year have been easier? And if your answer is yes – what does this show you about your own beliefs? That looks matter more than true wellness, than the ability to survive this harrowing year, that its the most important thing?
    #3. Here are some tangible things you can do as you start to enter into the world (when it’s safe/ vaccines etc).
    • Get clothes that fit – Allow yourself to get clothes that fit your body you have today that feel comfortable. One of the most triggering things is to have uncomfortable clothing on – it can really spiral you into a body body image day and your mind is full of intruding thoughts – it’s vital to respect your body and yourself to have clothes that give you the space that feels good.

    This isn’t something to feel shame for – the reality is, you are giving your body enough cloth to cover yourself in a way that feels good on your body. No morality in this!

    How can you think of clothing in a way that gives meaning that feels good to you/ or a neutral meaning? We know this can be a frustrating and emotional topic which is why we are going to have a bonus in The UnDiet Collective next month that covers the topic of clothing, fashion, and how to process the emotions of it all – (Add more details if Josie is a go).

    • Write yourself a reminder and read it – “I survived a Pandemic. It’s safe to go out into the world and be in the body I’m in today. It’s normal for bodies to change!!!”
    • Commit to not making body comments
      Make a pact with yourself that you won’t comment on anyone else’s body or your own body (our egos have a tendency to want to overexplain ourselves, like preemptively commenting that you’ve gained weight so others dont but practicing just BEING without explaining is a really powerful practice in not worrying what others think as much).

    – and to stop someone in their tracks from commenting on your body.

    Ex. “I’m doing this thing – post pandemic, that I committed to not comment on anyones body including my own. I’m focusing on how relieved I am the pandemic is declining instead of worrying about anyone’s body changing.”

    What value do you see in committing to this?

    • Refrain from diet talk/ avoid engaging in any diet conversations
    • Don’t apologize or feel the need to explain yourself for your body- if you find yourself trying to explain to someone why your body is a different size, remind yourself that you do not have to apologize for taking up space! You don’t need to give any explanations to why your body is ever the size it is.
    4 – You are not alone with pandemic weight gain worries. Realizing it’s not just YOU — most people feel uneasy as things open up and nervous about being seen after time away during a really hard year.

    ALSO – it always feels scary to do something that we have not done in a long time. Not only that, our brains makes up worst case scenarios that also make it feel even more anxiety producing.

    So it’s important to remind yourself that what you are saying in your head about what’s going to happen when the world opens up and people see you more often, is not actually happening right this second. It’s a made up reality. Let’s create a version of this story that feels good.

    You could quite possibly be worrying about something that will never happen or something that may just fall short –

    Ex. You’re so nervous to go back to work and you think everyone is going to look at you and make comments etc and once you show up, no one actually cares or notices how you look and everyone is just happy to feel connected again.

    Or you finally get to meet up with girlfriends for brunch or a wine night and you get it in your head that all they will think about is the way you look but then you end up meeting up with friends and what actually happens is how fun you all had and missed being together.

    This could very much be your reality too.

    Here are some action steps to take:

    Let’s do some “What if” Turn Arounds:

    Start with the ones that scare you the most – make a list of 3 or more

    What if they say I’ve gained weight?

    What if someone looks at me and I can tell they are judging me?

    What if some people around me lost weight?

    What if no one even notices my body and moves on with their day?

    What if everyone around you was also worried about being judged?

    What if others have gained weight? Will you judge them?

    1. You have your own best advice – It’s soooo much easier to give advice/ support someone rather than take our own advice. We know that. But with this exercise we hope that you can see your own wisdom. Even if it feels challenging – you know that this wisdom is within you and you know the truth of what you truly believe. You can practice and remind yourself of how you would speak to a friend or loved one going through the same feelings and treat yourself with the same love and respect.
    • If your best friend/ or someone you love came to you and said they are really nervous about going back to work/ school/ a social outing – what advice would you give them? How would you soothe them?

    We know that even when you work through this it may still feel challenging and that’s okay – it’s okay to feel nervous, you are doing amazing work to support yourself through this by listening to this podcast, going through the workbook we have provided for you, and anything else you are doing.

    This will take some time to get used to — you may realize that it felt easier than you thought and you may realize the complete opposite or anywhere in between. Whatever your experience, it’s your experience – we hope we can help support you in making it just a bit easier – or a lot!

    Lastly we would like to recognize that even with all the work in the world in this area. The systemic injustices of weight stigma and fatphobia are real and this is why we are here in the first place.

    No one would feel nervous about being seen by their peers, family, or co-workers if it didn’t exist. This is the issue we are advocating against. Everytime you show up and say, hey this is my body, I belong here, and I’m allowed to be me and take up space ! You are breaking down the social stigma around weight and taking your power back.

    We will continue to do this work and strive to make change along with the other amazing people out there making waves — for now you continue to take care of yourself and do your best to celebrate the current body you are in!!

    In the next couple of weeks we will be opening The UnDiet Collective App for 48 hours. We are excited for our Clothing bonus in April… We will be having an expert come in to share about how to clear out your closet, do the emotional work of letting clothes go that maybe fit pre pandemic but no longer do and how to find clothes (on a budget) that fit you now and how to feel your best in your current body. You can get on the waitlist at bit.ly/tblsapp.


    Ep 149 - How to Stop Caring What People Think Mar 09, 2021
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    Welcome to how to love your body, today we are talking about how to stop caring what people think.

    This is a big part of what keeps people stuck in the diet cycle - worrying about what other people think can really fuel the fire.

    People will say, I’m doing this for me, it’s not about what others think but since we live in a culture that is so obsessed with thinness and looks it’s almost impossible to untangle what YOU really want from what our society has taught us we are meant to want.

    Firstly let’s tackle this idea that “i just want to lose weight for myself”

    -cannot remove yourself from diet culture

    -its too engrained

    -external validation

    -cannot escape the deep core message that we are accepted by our body size

    -yes of course you want external validation - 100s of years ago that’s how we survived - but now we are evolved enough to think critically about that and shift that way of thinking.

    This is just to say - question your thoughts and beliefs when you think “It’s not about what others think, I just want this for me”. Can that really be true?

    Now moving onto when we KNOW we care what people think (again, which is so normal and it’s only human, but when it rules how we live, it’s something we can work on).

    Here are three things you can do to begin putting what other people think lower on your priority list:

    1. Get logical about it.

    This is something you can journal on:

    Imagine a scenario with someone who you are worried about seeing - play it out. You’re walking down the street, you see Claire, she says hi, you ask how her mom is, she asks about your partner, and you both go on your way. What she thought about you really had no effect on this situation.

    It’s more about what WE think they’re thinking than what they’re actually thinking.

    Most of the time you will never know what people are thinking.

    And yes of course there will be insensitive people who say rude things but do we want to spend all of our days to change ourselves so that Aunt Jane doesn’t make a rude comment at Thanksgiving dinner? The cost/ benefit just doesn’t line up.

    2. It’s really about what WE think of ourselves that gets us worried.

    When you are worrying that someone is thinking X about you, it’s really a worry that someone is ALSO thinking X about you. It starts with us.

    If you got your hair done and loved it you wouldn’t be worried that people won’t like it because YOU like it, if you got your hair done the same way but hated it, you would worry that other people didn’t like it.

    Our insecurities about what people think COME from our own insecurities.

    The good news is that when you have the self awareness about worrying what other people think, you can then look inward and reflect on your own beliefs and then you have somewhere to go from there.

    We cannot control what other people think but we can work on our own mindset!

    3. Never caring what anyone thinks is unlikely to ever happen, instead focus on the people who you respect and love.

    Do you worry about what Simone from high school is going to think? Maybe not worth your time. Are you worried what your partner is going to think? Maybe something worth looking at because you are going to be affected by that.

    HOWEVER, this never means someone else’s opinion is ever more important than your own.

    This can at least make you be more selective about WHO you worry about.

    This is a big part of the work but it is something you can get better with.

    Freedom does require lessening the importance of what others think and increasing the value of YOUR opinion.

    If you find the podcast helpful please rate and review, it helps a lot.

    See you next week!


    Ep 148 - 3 worst diets disguising themselves as intuitive eating in 2021 Mar 02, 2021
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    Today we are rating and reviewing the 3 worst diets disguised as intuitive eating in 2021.

    Lets dive right in because we have lots to discuss:

    Coming in third place:

    • 2B Mindset

    This is a diet (yes a diet) from Beachbody.

    The creator has her own weight loss story and uses this to sell the program.

    A lot of the messaging does sound so appealing – never be hungry and still lose weight, live your life and still lose weight, it sounds so good. Honestly even when I read it I have a moment of hope. But then the truth comes crashing in.

    Here are some other things that it says:

    • What to eat first at every meal to lose weight
    • What to order first at a restaurant to lose weight
    • “Dozens of my proven weight loss secrets” , if anyone ever promotes their weight loss program or tips as secrets – they lying. Anything that actually worked would be such big news it would not be a secret.
    • Then it says “results may vary based on starting point, effort and following Beachbody’s exercise and healthy eating plan” – okay soooo a diet.
    • Then it says it again – get my secrets to results that last a lifetime. If its a secret its a lie.
    • Then as we go into the website you see that she also has packages that include the beachbody shakes – it gets more diety the deeper you dig.

    And this is all to say: WE KNOW this sounds appealing for many, this is the problem. Diets disguise themselves as not diets, as something different and this is what leads people down the road an extra 5 years thinking – oh maybe this ones the answer, maybe this one….

    It’s really harmful.

    We want to confirm that this is a diet and pursuing weight loss leads to the same results no matter the name of it.

    Runner up is:

    Intuitive Fasting

    It is advertised as: “A clear but flexible, four week plan combining intuitive eating with intermittent fasting and Ketotarian foods. It’s designed to optimize our wellbeing and set us up to feel our best for all the other weeks to come. This is not a book of dogma. It will not punish you or restrict you. “

    You’ll notice these are ALL buzz words and this description doesn’t really say anything.

    Dr. Will Cole, the author of this book (who is not a medical doctor by the way, he is a quote “leader in functional medicine – his bio on instagram says intuitive fasting + ketotarian + inflammation spectrum (the buzz words that mean nothing.. honestly).

    The contradictions here are astounding:

    Dr. Will Cole says – Not everyone is created equal- The realization that everyone is created differently. There is not a one-size-fits-all approach to getting well. What works for one person can flare other’s triggers. To treat symptoms and ailments, functional medicine uses herbal botanical medicine, lifestyle modifications, supplements and medications when needed to regain health.

    Yet I have written a 4 week plan that you should all BUY!

    There is no such thing as intuitive fasting. This is like saying be a vegetarian and eat meat – nope not possible. No matter how hard you sell it.

    The word intuitive is used here because they know that intuitive eating is on the rise in popularity and strict diets are on the outs.

    What it actually is:

    This program is actually just 3 of the more popular ways of eating right now, intermittent fasting, intuitive eating and keto (obviously one of these things is not like the other) – and smashing them together to sell something.

    This program is nothing new, there is nothing intuitive about it and it’s in fact very harmful.

    Diets suck. We know that.

    AND the reason these specific diets are the most harmful is because they are a wolf in sheep’s clothing. People who are embarking on the journey to become an intuitive eater often still want to lose weight – so someone coming along and saying Hey, don’t worry you can be intuitive-ish and still fast and eat keto, don’t worry. You can be intuitive AND lose weight.

    This is predatory and honestly really scary.

    The key issue here is knowing how to determine if something is legitimately IE or not – ANYTHING with any food rules (including when you can eat) it is not authentic to this work.

    I think sometimes we almost WISH that it was real – I can find food freedom AND embark on a quest to manipulate my food intake and my body? It’s safe, it’s what we know, but it just won’t get you to where you want to go.

    The winner of the worst diet disguising itself as intuitive eating is …

    • Noom

    Why is this the winner?

    It’s the sneakiest one AND the most successful. Noom is a HUGE company at this point.

    Founded in 2008 by two engineers (yes, engineers, not psychologists like its advertised) , Saeju Jeong and Artem Petakov, Noom is a personalized health coaching company with its own app.

    Noom has over 50 million members and has raised over $114 million in investment capitol.

    And what’s so great about it? Why is it so successful?

    The reason Noom has done so well is because of it’s marketing, it claims to be a psychology based approach to losing weight for good and don’t forget its not a diet (WINK). One of their slogans is “Don’t go on a diet, go on Noom.”

    The app claims to help you to learn to eat mindfully and that using psychology you will lose the weight once and for all.

    There are 2 options you can take when starting Noom – they are, lose weight for good and Get fit for good, note that for the Get fit for good option you still have to choose a weight loss goal soooo not sure how these are different.

    Luckily you cannot enter a goal weight that when calculated with your height is not considered underweight however for many people the lowest weight they can reach while still being considered in the “healthy weight” range according to BMI can still be a weight that is unhealthy for that person so although these parameters are in place it just isn’t enough to keep people safe.

    They claim to not be a restrictive diet but once you enter the program you are allotted a certain amount of calories based on how much weight you want to lose and how fast you want to lose it.

    They also market themselves as being something you only have to do for 10 minutes a day…. Okay maybe you’re only on the app for 10 minutes a day but when you count up all the meals you make, the meals you track, the workouts you do, the workouts you track and then on top of that dealing with food preoccupation and always thinking about the weight loss, what is the actual time this takes?

    If you are a dieter or used to be a dieter you know it’s not that simple.

    Again the danger in this program is that IT DOES look so good. As you go through the process of signing up and answering questions it has a graphic that shows your goal weight getting closer and closer (it did this no matter how I answered the questions). It makes it seem like, it’s so close, this is so possible for me.

    Here is some conflicting messaging that shows that this whole “not a diet” thing is just very smart marketing.

    “We all fall off the wagon sometimes. We’ll help you get back on track” – if this isn’t a diet, how can there be a wagon?

    They share some great information on why restrictive dieting is bad:

    Why restrictive diets fail – (the “Yo-Yo” effect)

    Columbia University reports that 73% of dieters experience at least one weight cycling episode

    The Mayo Clinic reports more “Yo-Yo” cycles increases diabetes risk and amounts of belly fat

    But then THEY are a restrictive diet – with calorie allotments, meal tracking and red, green and yellow foods, saying which foods are good, ok and bad BUT since they ALLOW all the foods it’s not restrictive. But if you put a bad label on a food and limit the calories how are you meant to include these foods into this program?

    This is restriction- both mental and physical.

    This information was provided by someone who has done the program: (No we were not going to do this program or pay Noom for this episode, that would be self harm and would also fund a company that we do not believe in).

    Here are the things that show that this is just another diet:

    SEE images HERE

    They also have articles and discussions about mindset which is great (and the thing that they say makes this program about psychology and not restriction) but they really miss the mark on these things.- for instance they say to work on all or nothing thinking, amazing! We say this too but their version looks like this. They say progress can come in all forms not just weight loss.

    These so called markers of progress are so steeped in diet culture it’s astounding.

    THIS IS NOT psychology – this is a twist on diet culture and calling it something else.

    And that is the thing to be aware of in today’s diet market.

    It’s not the obvious diets, those are out there and you can find one on every corner of the internet – we don’t take any time to talk about those because for people who are at all aware of this work, they are not as dangerous.

    What’s dangerous are the diets disguising themselves as IE, as wellness and as something different.

    These things are powerful though, even me being on this website – I had a couple moments of ugh I remember that fun feeling of starting a new plan and thinking this was the first day of the rest of my life. It’s a high. It’s fun, it’s hopeful, it’s exciting. How do we NOT get sucked back into this crap all the time?

    So please, do not feel bad if these programs have roped you in before? It’s human nature BUT we can learn from this.

    We can learn to not walk through the door, we can learn to identify diets quickly and move along.

    How to identify a diet:

    1. Weight loss is a focus. No matter what they say after this, if the point is to lose weight, it’s a diet. Yes, everytime.

    2. There are ANY restrictions or classifications of foods. For instance labeling foods red, yellow and green.

    3. There are restrictions on why or how you should eat – for instance, fasting windows.

    Pretty much, if it isn’t IE or someone teaching you how to trust your own body, it’s a diet.

    Much love and if you have found this podcast helpful on your journey please rate and review, it helps the movement and helps new people find this work.

    Thank you so much.


    Ep 147 – But what if losing weight would help my knee pain/ blood work? Feb 23, 2021
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    Welcome to How to Love Your Body - on today’s episode we are going to be talking about “weight loss for health / weight loss to relieve physical pain.” We get this question a lot - It seems as though people want to justify their weight loss if it’s for health - so let’s talk about this.

    No matter what the reason is for wanting to lose weight - dieting/ pursuing weight loss doesn’t work for 80-95% of the population.

    This means that if you are focusing on weight loss to improve blood work or reduce knee pain you have the same chance of losing weight and keeping it off as you do if you were pursuing weight loss to change your body size.

    Your body can't tell the difference if you are dieting to get a smaller waistline or dieting for health.

    Even though this is the case about the pursuit of weight loss - we want to share 3 points on why pursuing weight loss isn't the answer but what you can do instead.

    1. No one is saying weight loss wouldn’t help BUT how will you do that?

    Just because we aren’t in favor of PURSUING weight loss doesn’t mean we don’t think it could be helpful - maybe some weight loss could help bloodwork? Who knows ? Maybe weight loss could reduce knee pain? Who knows? THE POINT - even if weight loss may help - how are you going to pursue weight loss, keep it off, and live a sustainable life with a healthy mindset around food and your body? Because from the looks of it - our past is a pretty good indicator that diets don’t work and most of the time - we end up heavier after we pursue a diet. In this situation, trying to lose weight for health reasons doesn’t really justify pursuing weight loss this time around. You’ll find yourself obsessing over food, feeling restricted, and in a constant battle with your mind. Do you see how pursuing weight loss will actually backfire? Do you see how it will actually do the opposite of what your intention was to begin with - which was to improve your health. But all of that doesn’t not seem good for your health. Agree? We aren’t being negative Nancies over here - we just want to give it to you straight - in our next point we will share what you CAN do to improve health without the pursuit of weight loss and rigid dieting.

    2. Losing fat doesn’t improve blood work, it’s not the weight loss, it's the behaviors that come with the weight loss - moving your body, eating nourishing foods may have you see health improvements, but it’s short term!! It doesn’t work long term and there are so many negative side effects to rigid dieting.

    SO without the focus on weight loss here are positive health behaviors that can help - strengthening your muscles, stretching, moving your body in ways you enjoy, adding/ eating nourishing foods AND not restricting any other foods, enjoying life (having fun, connecting with friends/ family) , de-stressing, sleeping more, prioritizing your mental health, going to physical therapy, meditating, working on positive self-talk, going to regular doctor visits (advocating for yourself ie. asking to not be weighed if you don’t want to be, working with doctors that support IE/ HAES (or at least are open to it). You are not limited to this list - there are so many other ways to focus on your true genuine health without the focus on weight loss).

    3. If you have been told by your doctor to lose weight to improve x health issues - Ask your doctor about what else you can do other than focus on weight.

    If weight loss were the “fix” to all health issues - people who do lose weight / people who live in thinner bodies wouldn’t have health issues - but as we know that’s far from the truth - you can lose weight and be in a thinner body and have any health risk/ issues a person in a larger body has and vice versa.

    A couple of amazing doctors to follow on Instagram who are aligned with this message is @fatdoctorUK and @drjoshuawolrich. There are doctors that stand for HAES, there are alternatives to focusing on weight. It’s breaking down the belief systems that we have been taught from diet culture and knowing there is another way to actually care for our health and there are professionals who stand behind it all! It’s not just us sharing our opinion - it’s backed up by legitimate experts and the science proves it too.

    So the question for you is- how can you incorporate/ add positive health behaviors into your life and challenge your doctor/ team up with your doctor to create ways in which to honor your health without the diagnoses of weight loss?

    Remember this is about adding to your life!

    Also we have an exciting announcement - Our film is now on YOUTUBE - so you’ll be able to easily share it! You can go here to access the film and share it - at bit.ly/tblsdoc

    Doors close to our app The UnDiet Collective March 1st!

    See you next week!


    Ep 146 - I keep eating past fullness! Feb 16, 2021
    Show notes

    Honoring fullness:

    We get many people who say I can’t seem to honor my fullness, I often go past being full and I just cannot seem to control myself! What is going on?

    These people often are allowing all food, honoring their hunger and they are doing the work so what is going on? Why does this piece feel so difficult?

    There are a few reasons this could be happening and we will go through them today and chat about what you can do to take steps in the direction of being at ease with fullness and having it feel much more simple.

    The top 3 reasons you might not feel like you can honor your fullness is:

    Reason #1: We say this all the time but it is the sneakiest part of this work - mental restriction.

    What does mental restriction sound like:

    It's thoughts like:

    “oh i really shouldnt be eating bread again”

    “I’ll just try to be more intuitive tomorrow”

    “I shouldn’t be hungry already!”

    All of these judgements can lead to overeating because your body reacts almost the same to mental restriction as it does to physical restriction. This is why people can continue to struggle even though they’re allowing “all the foods”.

    So what can happen if you mentally restrict?

    • last suppers (body is still expecting to be restricted at some point)
    • Feeling more urgent with food (eating it all now - EVEN THOUGH you technically know you could eat more tomorrow)
    • Consistently overeating

    How can you begin easing this?

    • Listen to your thoughts - do they contain shoulds? What are these shoulds about? Time (I really shouldn't have to eat for a few hours), types of food (I shouldn't be eating carbs again today), amounts (1 cookie is plenty, I shouldn't have eaten 3!!) or other rules?
    • These are then rules that you want to begin shifting even if they rule is just in your brain. If you think you SHOULD only eat one cookie that’s a rule AND ironically it’s more likely to lead you to eat more than one cookie every time because of the restriction. If you TRULY tuned in and said, I can eat as many cookies as I like, let’s start with 1 and see how I feel, if I want more I can have more. Sometimes maybe 3 is awesome, sometimes 1, sometimes maybe none! When true mental and physical permission is present you can then truly listen to your body and let your intuitive eating muscles get stronger!

    Reason #2: Clean plate club

    You might be familiar with the term and you might feel like a veteran member at this point. People can be a part of the clean plate club for various reasons:

    • They were always told to clear their plate as a kid and now they fear wasting food etc.
    • As dieters we often would plate what we were ALLOWED to have so of course we were going to eat it all, this is all we can have. Now as an UnDieter this tendency may be following you even though you are allowing more food now.
    • You may not be paying attention at all to how you’re feeling when eating and you use the plate being cleared as a signal that you’re done

    It is FINE to clean your plate but if you find yourself with an empty plate and a stuffed stomach at every meal it’s absolutely something you can look into some more.

    How to begin shifting this:

    • Dive into what the motivator is for you. Does your clearing of the plate come from childhood? Were you told to never waste food because other children were starving? Do you feel guilt if you throw food away or “waste” it by not eating it?
    • Are you still feeling a scarcity mindset around food and your body just eats whenever food is available because of this?
    • Are you using an empty plate as a signal that the meal is done?

    Now that you’re more aware of why this is happening you can begin to question your thoughts around this.

    Does it really help anyone if I eat food I don’t want? Will it create less waste? How can I save leftovers even if it’s small amounts? Would this be more enjoyable tomorrow when I am less stuffed?

    Why do I feel like I can’t just finish this later? I could even eat it before bed if I want? - add thoughts of abundance with the foods you overeat, you can LITERALLY eat them anytime of day, yay being a grown up!

    REASON 3: You are always distracted

    Not that you need to pay full attention at every meal and sit in silence but as dieters we often mindlessly stuffed food into our mouths that we thought we really shouldn't be eating. If you don't pay attention then it isn’t happening right?

    When in fact the opposite is what will actually help - TRULY enjoying the foods you are eating particularly if you’re still a little worried about eating them.

    As someone who may be reintroducing foods it can be easy to get stuck in a cycle of technically eating the food but kind of feeling bad about it so you just quickly eat it to get it over with.

    To be able to honor fullness we need to really ENJOY food - savor it and see it for what an amazing thing it is to eat that food, instead of feeling bad about it. If you are going to eat it, eat it with GUSTO! Savor it, relish it, celebrate it! Quit hiding from the foods you’re eating.

    How we often typically assume french people eat, that’s how we want to eat here - no apologies, they eat the real rich versions of food and take long lunches to savor it and really enjoy it.

    Even though it may be a stereotype, I just can’t imagine someone knocking back a couple croissants in the pantry in france - when there is no guilt or worry about food, you can really enjoy it and therefore TUNE IN more when eating it.

    Also if you are savoring the food and being really appreciative of it it's much easier to notice when it stops tasting as good or when you feel satisfied.

    Who wants to ruin a delectable meal but feeling overly stuffed from it (all the time, being overly full now and then is completely normal).

    These are 3 reasons you might be consistently overeating and we hope they give you some insight into what is going on for you and how you can begin shifting it.

    We would love to support you even more in this work in our membership The UnDiet Collective.

    Doors are closing on March 1 so we encourage you to take a look before then if you've been considering it - you can learn more about everything that is included with your membership at thebodylovesociety.com/app

    We would greatly appreciate it if this podcast helps you at all to leave us a rating and review today - it helps others find this work. THANK YOU!


    Ep 145 - Eating at Night When You're Alone Feb 09, 2021
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    Welcome to How to Love Your Body - I’m Lauren and this is Jenna. On today’s episode we are going to be talking about eating at night when you’re alone. We wanted to talk about this because this specific theme has come up a handful of times in our community in The UnDiet Collective Intuitive Eating App.

    We get why eating at night when you’re alone feels like a “habit” you want to stop. Maybe there is even some shame that comes up around night time eating - it might feel secretive and like you’re getting away with something that is “bad” and “wrong.”

    First, it’s not bad, it’s not wrong, and by no means do you need to guilt and shame yourself every single time this scenario happens.

    We want to share ways in which we can help alleviate this situation and make you feel like it’s okay to eat at night but also maybe help you get to the bottom of why this feels like such a problem for you - here are different areas you can explore that you may find helpful.

    1st - What do you make “night time eating” mean? What is the energy around it? What is your experience with it? Most likely it’s coming from a place of “I shouldn't be doing this, it’s bad to eat this at night, why do I do this to myself, I told myself I wasn’t going to feel this sick again” etc - there is not only guilt but a lot of judgement.

    So the first step to this process around night time eating is to see it in a different light - let’s create some new energy around it, gentle, kind, compassionate energy.

    Can you see it as a sacred time for yourself - when you can actually have some time to relax - where you can “turn off” and mentally unload from the day. This is a time to recharge.

    If you love to eat during this time - ALLOW yourself to truly enjoy it. Make an empowered choice rather than an effort in trying to stop this nighttime eating. If you allow yourself and embrace this time - it won’t feel so powerful.

    Instead of telling yourself “I’m NOT eating at night tomorrow” - say to yourself - “I EXPECT to eat at night tomorrow.” - If I want to eat, I will eat - and I will listen to my body and give myself permission to enjoy.

    Here’s a little activity - Get a journal or notebook - write out your old experience with night time eating - talk about the shame, guilt, judgement, whatever comes up for you. Once you are completed with that - rip it up into tiny pieces and throw it away - NEXT - write your new story around night time eating - talk about the allowing, the enjoyment, the sacred time to yourself - write about how compassionate you are for yourself. Create a new loving experience when it comes to night time eating and hold that energy within you..

    Okay now - let’s talk about some practical areas in which we can explore to help you see this night time eating in a new light ---

    What may be going on in your day -

    Are you eating enough during the day? Eating at night is absolutely okay and if you feel like you are eating more than you’d like - this could be that you’re famished because you didn’t eat enough during the day. You may not even realize it but it’s important to ask yourself if you are feeling satisfied and full after your meals during the day without having the feeling of grazing or like you’re still hungry. At night, once all the distractions are gone - like the kids are in bed, your work day is over, and you get some time to yourself to just relax - you feel the desire to eat because you may just be really hungry!! There’s other things that may be going on which is fine and absolutely “normal”- such as emotional eating or maybe just the desire to enjoy some food and watch some tv - but start becoming aware of how you feel during the day and making sure you are eating enough for your body to feel good and satisfied!

    Another question to ask yourself:

    Are you allowing the same food during the day that you eat at night? If you only allow certain foods at a certain time of day/ restrict them at times you want - this could very much be why they feel so powerful at night. The next time you find yourself eating a night and feel guilt about - what food are you eating? Ask yourself if you would be totally fine to eat this food any time of the day whenever you want (without guilt attached) - If there is some fear around eating certain foods during the day - make it a point to purposely have this snack, meal, or dessert not at your typical night time routine - you can ALSO have it at night but let’s start adding it into your day and normalize it for you.

    Do you feel a sense of scarcity with this food you are eating? Do you feel like you can’t eat this food whenever you want when you want? This may give you a sense of scarcity - scarcity is FUEL for bingeing/ eating more than your body desires (no shame in this but we know this isn’t the goal when allowing yourself to eat - you’d rather enjoy this food without bingeing or feeling overly sick). This is why it’s important to come to a place of ABUNDANCE with this food and all food. If you know it’s available whenever you want and there’s no rules or restrictions around it , you may find yourself eating an amount that feels good.

    Another thing - Are you mentally restricting this food even though you are physically allowing it? Sometimes you think, I used to never allow this food, and here I am allowing it but I’m still obsessed. When am I going to get over obsessing? The answer is to stop mentally restricting it. This means that when you eat this food, you have neutral, non judgmental, maybe even loving thoughts around this food. Yes, you are physically allowing yourself to put it in your mouth - the second piece is to mentally tell yourself that you are safe to eat this food and it’s okay to eat this food. You make an empowered choice to eat it and move on while leaving any unwanted thoughts behind. It’s freeing!

    These are not rules, these are areas to explore and get curious about! No judgment - there is no timeline to this - just because you listen to this episode doesn’t mean that if you ever feel sick eating at night by yourself again means you are a failure - NO - there is no failing in this work, only learning and exploring yourself and your body. You are retraining your brain, breaking down old belief systems around diet culture, and relearning body signals.

    So give yourself compassion and just start with awareness and go from there.

    Our Body Image and Intuitive Eating App - The UnDiet Collective has been open for just over a week - and it’s been incredible in there with all the members - lots of support and love vibrating in the community! On Feb 14th at 12pm pacific, we will be raising the prices to The UnDiet Collective - it will never be this price we are offering right now ever again. So if you are wondering about becoming a member, check it out before February 14th at 12pm pacific so you can lock in at this lower price. You can learn all about The Collective at www.thebodylovesociety.com/app - there’s 3 easy steps - go to the link - click on “join the collective” - create an account with an email and password - you’ll get to the homepage on the web version and all you have to do is click on one of the boxes that say “premium” and choose the monthly or annual option - the annual gets you 2.5 months free.

    Also - we do want to share that starting February 15th we have our first monthly bonus which is a 5 Day Self-Love intensive - we’ve also added on a new feature in the intuitive eating app - we have a new support group called “Intuitive Eating meal ideas” - this is a place to share ideas as we know lots of us struggle with what the heck to eat! This isn't about calories or nutrition facts - mainly to share ideas on what people are enjoying. The great part - you can opt in to this group or opt out. Only if you find it helpful!

    Among the community support groups, there is live coaching, monthly bonuses, and much more! Simple, digestible, high value- without the overwhelm!! Go to www.thebodylovesociety.com/app - prices raise February 14th at 12pm pacific.

    See you in the intuitive eating app and see you next week!


    Ep 144 - The UnDiet Collective Intuitive Eating App Feb 02, 2021
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    Welcome to How to Love Your Body - this is Lauren and Jenna - on today’s episode we are going to be talking all about our Body Image and Intuitive Eating App that is officially LIVE as of Feb 1st, 2021 called The UnDiet Collective!

    We want to share the elements of the app and how it will help support you 365 days out of the year.

    There are 4 levels of support.

    1st level - UnDiet Dailies

    2nd level - Community Support groups

    3rd level - Living Coaching

    4th level - Monthly bonuses and guest expert speakers

    We’ll share more about each level so you can get a feel for what this type of support entails.

    1.UnDiet Dailies.

    The intention of the UnDiet Dailies are to give you quick/ simple UnDiet action steps and tips every single day of the week. This is long term work as UnDieters and we want to make it valuable content without the overwhelm. No more feeling “behind” in a course with lots of content to dive through each week. This is about small daily action steps that you can choose to take on or not any day of the week.

    Here is the schedule:

    Mondays - UnDiet Prompts

    Tuesdays- Live Coaching

    Wednesdays- UnDiet Action Step

    Thursdays- Live Coaching

    Fridays- FAQ Video

    Saturdays- Weekly check in

    Sundays- Positive Affirmation

    Everyday of the week you’ll have something different sent right to your phone.

    How does this help?

    This work requires consistency and long term engagement. Meaning doing a 6 week course doesn’t cut it. Think of this work as a slow burn instead of a sprint. You want to be consistently reframing your thoughts, questioning your beliefs and learning about your body and how to best care for it in an intuitive way. That’s what these dailies will help you do!

    2. Community Support Groups

    This is a place where the entire Collective can build connections/ friendships and also ask any questions that will be answered by us each day. The best part about these groups is that you don’t have to have a Facebook anymore to be a part of it!

    How does this help?

    It is so important to be in community when you’re doing this work. Why? Because everyone in your real life in likely a dieter and when you’re doing something that no one around you is doing (and that often goes against what mainstream thinks is right) you can get stuck in continually questioning if this work is the right thing to do. When you’re in a community who is doing the same work with counsellors who have expertise in UnDieting and Intuitive eating you can find solace in knowing you’re on the right path.

    3. Live Coaching

    You’ll be able to submit your questions through our intuitive eating app and we will be going live on Tuesdays and Thursdays to answer your questions. They will be housed in a group called “Live Coaching” so if you can’t watch it live you’ll be able to go into this group and have access to all the live recordings - we will have the questions that are being answered in the post and what time they are being answered so if you don’t feel like watching the whole thing you can skip to the questions you do want to watch.


    How does this help?

    Getting your questions answered in real time can be so helpful. Your counsellors are in the group every weekday answering your questions but a typed answer can only provide so much information. When we can interact and talk things through this is when we can share more of the nuance and complexities of this work! Getting this twice a week will be hugely beneficial in moving your forward to being a confident UnDieter.

    4. Monthly Bonuses and Guest Experts

    Every month there will be a unique experience such as a 5 day intensive, Exclusive Workshops, Guest expert speakers, and more! The month of Feb we will be doing a 5 Day Self Love Intensive starting Feb 15th-19th.

    How does this help?

    Diving deeper into 1 specific area of UnDieting every month will give you the depth needed to transform your relationship with food and your body without being overwhelming. We can’t all dedicate hrs every week to this work but once a month you can choose to spend a little more time and attention on a specific workshop, guest speaker or intensive that will give you a boost forward on your journey to becoming an UnDieter.

    The great thing about The UnDiet Collective is that the more it grows, the more value will be added. We will be able to hire more Intuitive Eating Counselors and guest experts to help support you and the entire Collective !

    We can’t wait to work with you and remember there is no commitment in the Collective. You can join monthly and cancel at anytime or join yearly at an even more affordable price.

    Go to thebodylovesociety.com/app for more information on the collective and we will see you in there!


    Ep 143 - Can I still lose weight? Jan 26, 2021
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    Welcome to How to Love Your Body - on today’s episode we are going to be talking about WEIGHT. Yes, a topic that brings up a lot of controversy due to so many intertwined beliefs that have been created from diet culture, self worth, value etc…

    We get why this would be such a tender topic and we also want to address it head on as we had a lot of drama this past week after posting a couple different posts on Instagram on @thebodylovesociety

    We are going to go through 2 common misconceptions around weight and also share how to shift your mindset in order to see weight in a different way and have it all - wellness and freedom.

    Common misconception #1 - Losing weight is an accomplishment

    The reason losing weight, fitting into your “goal weight” pants, and posting a before and after picture on social media are not accomplishments is because it still puts ALL the focus on your body - all the focus on weight loss, all the value as a person into the size of your body. It still focuses on thinner is “better.”

    This could come off as harsh to some but we really advocate to stop making weight loss an “accomplishment” or “compliment” - weight loss is not a good or bad thing - but what is toxic about it is when humans feel the pressure to constantly change their bodies to fit society standards and to feel worthy. You already are worthy no matter what body you live in! No one is better than another due to a body size.

    It’s important to stop making weight loss something to accomplish and instead celebrate all bodies at any size.

    Weight not being an accomplishment doesn’t mean you can’t do all the things you want to do to feel good in your body like - move in ways you enjoy, eat in ways that feel good without restriction - you can still honor your wellness without it being about weight loss - (and yes you could lose weight / or not and that does not matter your body is going to do what it’s going to do) - the focus is how you feel in your body - that can be an accomplishment. The feeling, the positive health behaviors that feel good not forceful, NOT the number on the scale or the size on your pants.

    Striving for a certain number on the scale with strong attachment to the number (and obsessive behaviors that go along with it) is mostly likely a number / size that isn’t sustainable - this means you may work really hard and feel “accomplished” because you lost some weight - and everyone is noticing, complementing, and congratulating you - yes, that may feel great - super validating - why wouldn’t it!? - BUUUT - what if you gain the weight back? What happens to the accomplishment? Compliments? And congratulations? They go away! An accomplishment is not something that can be taken away from you - like graduating from a school, course, or program. - Once you graduate you can't undergraduate - no one is going to say congrats and then take it away in the future - weight loss is conditional to get a congrats - it’s ONLY if the number on the scale goes down and ONLY if you look thinner - if that changes - people get silent.

    What’s the shift: Un-attach yourself from a certain size / number on the scale - What would you like to accomplish without it being about or number or size? What makes you feel good? We aren’t trying to take a sense of accomplishment away from you - we want you to feel accomplished in ways that serve you - such as:

    “I feel so accomplished that I’m not dieting anymore and I’m eating intuitively.”

    “ I feel so accomplished that I made it to the top of the mountain, it felt so enjoyable to hike with my friend and move my body!”

    “I feel so accomplished that I added some veggies into my week with a new recipe I enjoyed.”

    “I feel so accomplished that I ate a delicious scone with my coffee for breakfast and for lunch I naturally craved and wanted a delicious chicken salad with all the things on it.”

    See how this doesn’t have to be about weight AND it can still be about wellness and feeling good - while still enjoying french fries donuts and pizza too of course! THAT is wellness without the obsession. And it doesn’t focus on making the core accomplishment about weight loss. Wellness and freedom!

    Common misconception #2 - Losing weight for health is different than losing weight to be thinner

    We get this a lot - but what if I NEED to lose weight, what if I want to lose weight for health reasons?

    The reason we say that losing weight for health reasons vs because you want to look a certain way doesn't make a difference is because of biology. Whether you are restricting food, working out more and pursuing weight loss because you feel you need to for your health or because you want to look thinner, your body reacts the same. Slowed metabolism, food preoccupation, binge eating etc. Your motivation, however “wholesome” does not change the effectiveness or lack thereof of pursuing weight loss.

    Particularly if you’ve been pursuing weight loss for a long time already - reflect on how that has gone… that’s how it will continue to go if you are focused on the weight.

    Also it is nearly impossible to separate diet culture from your desire to lose weight even if it is for health because we’ve been told our whole lives that weight loss = health which is often not the case.

    This is not to say you cannot work on feeling better and improving aspects of your health! Take on health behaviors that feel enjoyable to you, like adding nourishing foods, moving your body, sleeping more, resting, reducing stress, having more social connection - this can ALL improve your health whether weight loss comes along with it or not.

    One thing to mention that speaks to this misconception - @haesstudentdoctor shared on her instagram stories the other day that a new CNN article that promotes weight loss which is getting a lot of attention right now -- it was saying that losing weight does improve health (you can read more details on her page), HOWEVER the people who they studied were people in larger bodies and people in smaller bodies - who have always been THIN!! Not people who have lost weight and their health improved. Why don't they study people who have lost weight? Because they cannot find enough people who have lost weight and kept it off. Does this not speak volumes?? Yes higher weight does have correlation with certain health issues but that doesn't mean that all people at a higher weight can lose the weight and then have the same health correlation as someone who has been thin their whole lives.

    The correlation of health issues with higher weight Also does not consider weight cycling, weight stigma and fatphobia which have all been shown to affect health negatively.

    In other words, the science behind weight loss being the answer to health is highly distorted and not something you should hang your hat on.

    Moral of the story: take care of the body you have now and stop focusing on the weight if you want to actually improve your health!!

    To wrap up --- we would love to share about the UnDiet collective because we GET that weight is a really hard part of this journey and in the app we have a specific support group for this. The weight concerns support group is separate from our main community so you can share freely (and respectfully) about your concerns and struggles, get coaching on how to move forward AND if you are not wanting to talk about weight or hear others struggles in this phase of your journey you can opt out of that group. This allows you to do the work you need to do to heal without unnecessary triggers.

    The app is open in less than a week!!

    Be sure to register to get all the details once it’s available at bit.ly/tblsappwaitlist

    See you next week when the app and documentary are up and running! We can’t wait!


    Ep 142 - 4 Barriers blocking you from being an Intuitive Eater Jan 19, 2021
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    4 Common Barriers Preventing You from Becoming an Intuitive Eater

    Hi Welcome to How to love your body. I'm Lauren McAulay and this is Jenna Free and we are intuitive eating counsellors from The Body Love Society and the app The UnDiet Collective.

    This podcast is for you if you are working to take action in becoming an intuitive eater and undieter instead of just constantly learning about it and listening to 100652 interviews.

    This podcast is brought to you by our NEW intuitive eating quiz that you can take at bit.ly/undietquiz

    Take the quick quiz to know what your barrier is in the way that you’re tackling this journey.

    Lets dive in to todays episode.

    We are talking about 4 barriers that can hold people up from finding food and body freedom. We are talking about the WAY that you’re going about it.

    UnDieting is SO different than dieting that we really need to tackle it in a different way and this might not even occur to a dieter because its just the way we think!

    1. The first barrier is:

    Consistency and Longevity

    This is the #1 thing that gets people stuck in limbo, not dieting but not getting to where they want to go (feeling like food is easy and theyre at peace in their bodies).

    Where dieters get stuck:

    We’ve been used to hard sprints and then falling off the wagon. Think 30 day challenges, having a personal trainer for 3 months or starting weight watchers with all your efforts just to quit a month later.

    This is NOT the energy that will work in becoming an intuitive eater.

    The way you need to tackle this work is to truly understand that this is the rest of your life - don’t obsess over this thinking you’re going to crack the code in 2 months, everything will be perfect and you can then stop thinking about it at all.

    It’s a slow burn.

    It’s about daily, small steps forward.

    You NEED the time to explore what works for you, to dive deep into the mindset work and to let time reveal to you where your struggles are and what you still need to work on.

    If you go too hard too fast you will burn out, think - this doesn’t work and move on, probably back to another diet and that is the last thing we want for you.

    So the next time you’re freaking out about this not happening fast enough remember - I’ve got the rest of my life to continue to work on this (of course it gets easier with time and you’ll master certain things but there will always be something you’re working on especially when it comes to mindset).

    Also reflect, am I doing something daily to get me to where I want to go? THIS is a key component of this work.

    2. The second barrier is:

    Community

    This is a lonely road to take. I’m sure you’ve noticed that, everyone around you is counting their points and talking about how they need to be good today --- and you’re pulling your hair out.

    Here’s why this might be holding up your progress.

    When no one around you gets it, and might be actively pushing against or disagreeing with what you’re doing it’s difficult to be confident enough in what you’re doing to move forward. If you keep thinking - am I crazy? Is this not the right thing? Maybe I should be doing that program with my friend, look how good she looks?

    It keeps you in limbo. You need a group that GETS IT. People who can reassure you when it’s tough and celebrate your wins because we KNOW what a win it is to be able to have cookies in the house and not eat them all the first day.

    Community will give you the time and space to build up your conviction enough to be able to set and hold your boundaries with the dieters around you.

    So if you are feeling in limbo or are often questioning what you’re doing look around you - do you have community to reach out to and get support from?

    3. The third barrier is:

    Action (or lack there of)

    Information overload is a HUGE trap that UnDieters can get stuck in. Dieting taught us just learn all the things, know the foods to eat that are good and bad and you will master your body!

    This is not how Intuitive Eating or UnDieting works and it’s why we’ve worked with many clients that have been working at this for a year or more but it’s still not clicking, it’s all just information in their minds. They GET IT and want it but it just isn’t translating to embodying this work and living an intuitive life.

    You need to start taking action and implementing this work into your life. But that can be really hard when you read a 200 page book, love the info but then think - wait, where do I even start??

    If you’ve been at this for a while ask yourself - am I stuck in information overload where it feels like I’m progressing but then when I’m done the book or even listening to a podcast I don’t actually take much action and then I’m back where I started…

    Taking one small action is going to be worth more than ALL the IE knowledge out there.

    4. The last barrier is:

    Affordability

    This one is less in our control and more of a logistical barrier. But hello, one therapy session can be upwards of $200… and one session is amazing as we are strong advocates of therapy but one session isn’t the end of all your healing and transformation.

    If this has been a barrier please know it’s not just you, privilege is a big part of this work. Yeah if you can afford to work with someone privately that’s amazing and is such a big help (but even then it’s usually 50 mins a week, where does your support come from the other 167 hrs a week).

    So if you are working with someone 1:1 that’s so great AND you may be searching for some kind of support on the other 6 days you aren’t with your coach/ therapist.

    If you aren’t working with someone 1:1 / some group program because it’s just too much to invest - that’s okay too - there is something out there for you that will take care of this barrier. Something we are working on!

    This is why we wanted to create this quiz “Find the 1 ingredient you're missing that will make Intuitive Eating easier.” This will help you get to the bottom of what the number one thing is that will help you in your process with Intuitive Eating and UnDieting. Once you take the quiz and get your 1 ingredient, the quiz will give you action steps on how to keep moving forward. You can take the quiz at bit.ly/undietquiz

    Reach out and let us know if you have any q’s- follow us on @theundietcollective if you haven’t yet.

    See you next week!



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