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Ep. 153 WAIT WHAT….You Were Seeing Someone When you Signed up for Married At First Sight?!? Sep 20, 2023

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Jamie and Doug share never-before-heard details of their lives immediately before agreeing to go on Married At First Sight. Who was seeing someone, why did you sign up, what was the casting process like….Jamie and Doug go over everything leading up to Season 1 of the hit reality show, and what the casting process was like. Plus….Doug and Jamie celebrate their very first viral video, which now has over 11 Million views on TikTok, and over 1 Million views on Instagram!!

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Ep. 152 Fertility, Our Near-Divorce Story, and a Peek Inside Married at First Sight; Answering Questions from our Instagram DM’s Sep 13, 2023

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Jamie and Doug take on some very personal questions and comments submitted to them through Instagram. Hear about where they are at on their fertility journey, and Jamie shares her eye-opening Telehealth call with an At-Risk OBGYN. She discusses whether there is still a chance to conceive naturally, or if IVF is their best option for the immediate future. Doug and Jamie also answer for the first time how they were on the verge of divorce while Jamie was 6 1/2 months pregnant with their first child. They also touch on how Jamie finally found her dad by matching with his sister on Ancestry, and how his side of the family took to the news. Doug and Jamie also provide a sneak peek into their time at Married at First Sight, and who in the MAFS family they stay in touch with.

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Ep. 151 How to Find the Light in an Abusive and Seemingly Hopeless Tunnel Sep 06, 2023

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Jamie and Doug are coming off a week that started with their daughter getting the hand foot mouth virus, which got passed to Jamie, and then ended with Hurricane Idalia passing near them. The episode recapped Jamie’s friend Sarah recently passing away at 40 yrs from ovarian cancer, and the profound impact she had on how Jamie now handles anxiety and depression on down to the daily complaints and frustrations. This prompts an emotional and deep conversation about Jamie’s past, and the abuse she went through in her childhood. Jamie then reveals the one constant in her life, which continues to this day, that she says saved her from being trapped in a very dark mindset.

Here are the 2 Apps that Jamie mentioned on this podcast:

Insight Timer we use at bedtime for us and our kids:

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/insight-timer-meditate-sleep/id337472899

Bible app Jamie mentioned:

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/bible/id282935706

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Ep. 150 How a Friend with Terminal Cancer Changed Jamie’s Life Forever Aug 30, 2023

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Jamie and Doug discuss their extremely challenging past week. Jamie found out her Grandmother passed away, which was the first time someone she had known all her life had passed. Jamie talks about their relationship, and we learn more about their family dynamic. She opens up about how her grandmother’s passing has, in a way, helped reconnect Jamie and her mom. Hear about Jamie’s 3-hour phone call with her mother, and how this may have positively impacted her mother’s outlook on life. Jamie also had a girlfriend Sarah pass away a few days later from ovarian cancer. Doug and Jamie reflect on how quickly life can be taken away, and how lucky they are to live. Sarah has made such a profound impact on Jamie’s life, and how she looks at depression, anxiety, and complaining in a whole new light. Sarah knew she was given 2 to 5 years left, and fought every day to stay here on earth, and her one big wish was to see her son off to kindergarten this year. Hear Sarah’s story, and how important it is to advocate for your body, your health, and your family.

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Ep. 149 Most Important Step to Break the Cycle and not Become a Product of your Environment! Aug 23, 2023

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Doug prepared a “Get to Know Jamie” podcast episode, and put together a few very personal questions for her to answer! Hear a few never revealed before answers, like what is the “Biggest misconception about Jamie from their seasons of Married at First Sight?!?!” Things get deep when he asks Jamie about her childhood growing up in a trailer park, and what her best advice would be for someone trying to break the cycle, and get out of a toxic environment….Her answer may surprise you!

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Ep. 148 How to NOT let Shame Control You or Your Behavior & 1 Daily Hack to Elevate your Mood & Depression Aug 16, 2023

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Jamie and Doug discuss the mental burden of hiding a secret and the anticipated shame in exposing your flaws. They also discuss what it means to find a community, and a tribe of people that wholeheartedly support and accept you for being you. Doug talks about not being body-positive, and why it’s taking so long to do something about it. Plus, Jamie reveals a daily Life-Hack that helps with her anxiety & depression.

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Ep. 147 Making Friends as an Adult and Learning to Forgive Yourself for Past Choices Aug 09, 2023

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Jamie brings up the topic of Doug not being more proud of his sobriety, or feeling more of a sense of accomplishment, and Doug shares why he doesn’t feel it is something to celebrate. Plus, their daughter is going to 1st grade this month, and reflect on her past year in kindergarten. They also discuss what it is like moving to a new place with no friends or family, and how they started to make friends. PLUS…an exclusive interview with Jaclyn and Seth Gibson, hosts of the podcast Never TMI, where they talk about everything from pregnancy/postpartum, scheduling sex, and so much more!

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Ep. 146 The Fertility Specialist Results that we were NOT expecting! Is it possible for us to conceive naturally? Aug 02, 2023

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Jamie and Doug go over the long-awaited results from their 3rd fertility specialist appointment, where we learn about Jamie’s blood disorder and Doug’s second sperm analysis….Can they still conceive naturally? Plus, Jamie and Doug talk about the fallout from the last episode about Doug's near-death overdose, and the mixed reaction over the admission. Doug touches on how many people reached out with their own addiction stories, and what it means to share something that would normally be considered “Too Private.”

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Ep. 145 My Husband Almost Died of an Overdose and I’m Just Hearing About This Story Now?!?! Jul 26, 2023

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Doug and Jamie begin to discuss some recent updates with their house, and how Doug is feeling being halfway through his treatment to come off Suboxone completely. They pick a 5 Star Review to share on the episode……which prompts Doug to recall a traumatic event from his past, where he almost overdosed and died. This is the first time Jamie is hearing this story and the first time Doug is sharing this story since it happened over 12 years ago.

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Ep. 144 What NOT to say to someone in recovery…Plus, is it superstition or do you have OCD? Jul 19, 2023

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Jamie and Doug discuss the recent revelation about Doug, and the fear, anxiety, and shame associated with holding on to a secret. Doug also goes into how the overwhelming love and support from you has changed his outlook on life, when it comes to vulnerability and being open. Doug also speaks about the stigma associated with addicts, and addresses his weight issue and body shaming. Jamie provides an update on their home renovation, and where they have Hendrix sleeping while his room is being finished. Later in the episode, Doug shares his superstitions and different rituals to bring him good luck!

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