Honeydew Me

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189. Stop Falling Into The Orgasm Trap: Why You Need To Quit Prioritizing Orgasms To Start Having More Fun Nov 13, 2024

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We're diving into ORGASMS with Keeley Rankin, MA, a sex & relationship coach who is ready to redefine how you think about sex. We cover:

What an orgasm ACTUALLY is
How most vagina owners reach orgasm
Orgasm comparison aka feeling like your orgasms are less than because you can't orgasm in a particular way (internally, cliterally etc.)
What gets in the way of finding your orgasm
THE ORGASM TRAP... what is it and how do we get out of it?!
Why we NEED to depriotritze orgasms in order to MAXIMIZE our pleasure
Why we fake orgasms and how to stop
How our orgasms change as we age

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188. Ditch The Good Girl Behavior: How To Stop People Pleasing, Get Comfortable Disappointing Them & Quit Over Apologizing Nov 06, 2024

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We're chatting with Sara Fisk, host of the Ex Good Girl podcast and coach for people who want to stop people pleasing. We cover:

What it means to be "a good girl" and how it's RUINING your life both in and outside the bedroom
The "Good Girl Rules" we need to start breaking in order to live our most authentic, fulfilling lives
WHY we people please and how to know when we're doing it
A step by step plan for eliminating people pleasing from your life
How to disappoint people (and why you should start doing it)
How to navigate difficult conversations
How to stop apologizing SO. F***ING. MUCH.

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187. The Honeydew Me Guide To Asking For What You Want Oct 30, 2024

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After 4 years of interviewing experts, we’re sharing EVERYTHING we’ve learned about asking for what you want in the bedroom (and beyond). We chat through how to ask for what you want, and tools to help you advocate for yourself from start to 💦finish💦. We cover:

Common obstacles and how to overcome them
How to figure out what you want
What to do if you’re feeling insecure about your desires
Tools to make asking easier
How to deal with rejection (and gracefully reject someone else)
Examples of how to negotiate and discuss sexual interests with a partner
How to navigate *in the moment* requests
How to give (and receive) post-sex feedback

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186. Stop Feeling Embarrassed About Erectile Dysfunction: Why It Happens, What To Do About It & Ditching The Shame For Good Oct 23, 2024

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We're chatting all things ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION with Melissa Hadley Barrett, a Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist from Western Australia who specializes in treating ED. We unpack the causes of ED, the many treatment options, and how to start working through any shame or embarrassment you or your partner may be experiencing. We also cover:

How COMMON erectile dysfunction is and why you really don't need to feel ashamed
Reasons why you may be experiencing ED
What to say to a partner who's experiencing ED
What's considered NORMAL when it comes to erections (frequency, duration etc.)
How to access treatment for ED
Lifestyle changes that may help your ED
Things you can do IN THE MOMENT to help your erection (position changes etc.)
The deal with penis pumps... because it turns out they're kinda cool

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185. How To Prioritize Pleasure: Change Your Life, Stress Less & Have Better Sex Oct 16, 2024

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Danielle Savory, a pleasure coach, is here to help us redefine wtf PLEASURE means and how to start prioritizing it. You deserve to be PLEASURED and SATISFIED both in the bedroom and beyond. Luckily Danielle is giving us all the necessary steps to make that a reality. We cover:

What pleasure does to your brain
Why we need to be prioritizing pleasure (HINT: it'll improve your life and help you achieve your goals)
How to find your personal "why" for prioritizing pleasure
How to prioritize pleasure even if you're super busy
How to prioritize pleasure during sex
The difference between pursuing pleasure vs pursuing happiness
How to program your brain to look for the good
How stress impacts your experience of pleasure and how to start stressing less

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184. Dating Reimagined: How To Ditch the Apps, Meet IRL & Bring Joy Back To Your Dates Oct 09, 2024

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Did you know that dating can actually be JOYFUL? That you don't HAVE to be on the apps to meet people? We sure didn't. Thank the good lord for Lily Womble, creator of Date Brazen and author of "Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love." In this episode, Lily covers:

Why the current state of dating sucks so much... it's not just you and there's real cognitive reasons why it feels so awful
How to start centering IRL dating and get off the apps
How to stop feeling behind and embrace your singleness
A step-by-step plan to take your dating life from *bleh* to FULL OF JOY
How to embrace the awkwardness and messiness of dating
What the phrase "Thank You, More Please" means and how to start using it to create the life you want
How to build a date that brings you joy

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183. Processing Grief: The Unexpected Ways It Shows Up & How The F*ck To Deal Oct 02, 2024

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We’re talking all things GRIEF with our favorite therapists: Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT aka Shrink Chicks. We dive into what grief ACTUALLY is, how it shows up in our lives, and how tf to deal with it. We also cover:

How to identify when you’re feeling grief
The unexpected ways grief shows up in our lives
Grieving when things don’t go the way you expected
How control and expectations play into grief
How resilience actually makes you cooler, braver and stronger
Why having a specific timeline for your life sets you up for failure
The ways you’re probably invalidating your own grief and how to stop
Additional ways to process grief

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182. Our Wildest Emails + Sex Facts To Make You Feel Good About Yourself Sep 25, 2024

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This week we’re catching up by diving into our inbox and sharing some of our wildest emails. We’re also sharing some of our favorite sex facts that are pretty much guaranteed to make you feel good about yourself. We cover:

The spicy (and unwanted) invitations we've received via email
What research has to say about unsolicited dick pics
Q+A: How to deal when you want to try something new in the bedroom and your partner DOES NOT aka managing rejecting
We dive into the data to find out:
Are people actually having that much sex?
How many sexual partners is considered "normal"?
How confident people actually feel in the bedroom?
What's the deal with sex dreams?
What are people doing with their pubes?

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181. An Intuitive Guide’s Advice For Living Your Most Authentic & Fulfilling Life + An Intuitive Reading Just For YOU Sep 18, 2024

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Need a little guidance? Us too. That's why we turned to Aja Vines, an intuitive reader and guide who just GETS IT. She's sharing her best tips for living your most authentic, fulfilling life and if you're anything like us, it's EXACTLY what you've been needing to hear. We cover:

What it ACTUALLY means to live an authentic life
How to know what's authentic to YOU
Steps you can take to build self-trust
How to comfort yourself instead and STOP beating yourself up
What to do when you're feeling behind in life
What your intuition is and how to get in touch with it
How to start using tarot/oracle cards
A VERY SPECIAL INTUITIVE READING just for our Honeys

The oracle deck Aja used for our reading is linked HERE!

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180. Everything You NEED To Know About Vaginas, Periods & Birth… But Probably Don’t Sep 11, 2024

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April Davis of Haus of Vagina, a sex and menstrual educator, is BACK to tell us everything we need to know (but definitely don’t) about vaginas, periods, and birth. We cover:

Labiaplasty- what’s the deal, why people get them, what the potential side effects are, and questions to ask if you’re considering getting one
What happens to your vagina after you give birth
Postpartum sex and why it’s not as scary or bad as they say it will be
Questions to ask your OB or gynecologist
The importance of caring for your pelvic floor
How cycle syncing (aka living your life according to which part of the menstrual cycle you’re in) will help you fall in lovewith your period and life in general
How to cycle sync if you have an IUD
Rethinking the language we use when talking about sex and vaginas

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