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187. The Honeydew Me Guide To Asking For What You Want Oct 30, 2024

After 4 years of interviewing experts, we’re sharing EVERYTHING we’ve learned about asking for what you want in the bedroom (and beyond). We chat through how to ask for what you want, and tools to help you advocate for yourself from start to 💦finish💦. We cover:

Common obstacles and how to overcome them
How to figure out what you want
What to do if you’re feeling insecure about your desires
Tools to make asking easier
How to deal with rejection (and gracefully reject someone else)
Examples of how to negotiate and discuss sexual interests with a partner
How to navigate *in the moment* requests
How to give (and receive) post-sex feedback

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186. Stop Feeling Embarrassed About Erectile Dysfunction: Why It Happens, What To Do About It & Ditching The Shame For Good Oct 23, 2024

We're chatting all things ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION with Melissa Hadley Barrett, a Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist from Western Australia who specializes in treating ED. We unpack the causes of ED, the many treatment options, and how to start working through any shame or embarrassment you or your partner may be experiencing. We also cover:

How COMMON erectile dysfunction is and why you really don't need to feel ashamed
Reasons why you may be experiencing ED
What to say to a partner who's experiencing ED
What's considered NORMAL when it comes to erections (frequency, duration etc.)
How to access treatment for ED
Lifestyle changes that may help your ED
Things you can do IN THE MOMENT to help your erection (position changes etc.)
The deal with penis pumps... because it turns out they're kinda cool

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185. How To Prioritize Pleasure: Change Your Life, Stress Less & Have Better Sex Oct 16, 2024

Danielle Savory, a pleasure coach, is here to help us redefine wtf PLEASURE means and how to start prioritizing it. You deserve to be PLEASURED and SATISFIED both in the bedroom and beyond. Luckily Danielle is giving us all the necessary steps to make that a reality. We cover:

What pleasure does to your brain
Why we need to be prioritizing pleasure (HINT: it'll improve your life and help you achieve your goals)
How to find your personal "why" for prioritizing pleasure
How to prioritize pleasure even if you're super busy
How to prioritize pleasure during sex
The difference between pursuing pleasure vs pursuing happiness
How to program your brain to look for the good
How stress impacts your experience of pleasure and how to start stressing less

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184. Dating Reimagined: How To Ditch the Apps, Meet IRL & Bring Joy Back To Your Dates Oct 09, 2024

Did you know that dating can actually be JOYFUL? That you don't HAVE to be on the apps to meet people? We sure didn't. Thank the good lord for Lily Womble, creator of Date Brazen and author of "Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love." In this episode, Lily covers:

Why the current state of dating sucks so much... it's not just you and there's real cognitive reasons why it feels so awful
How to start centering IRL dating and get off the apps
How to stop feeling behind and embrace your singleness
A step-by-step plan to take your dating life from *bleh* to FULL OF JOY
How to embrace the awkwardness and messiness of dating
What the phrase "Thank You, More Please" means and how to start using it to create the life you want
How to build a date that brings you joy

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183. Processing Grief: The Unexpected Ways It Shows Up & How The F*ck To Deal Oct 02, 2024

We’re talking all things GRIEF with our favorite therapists: Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT aka Shrink Chicks. We dive into what grief ACTUALLY is, how it shows up in our lives, and how tf to deal with it. We also cover:

How to identify when you’re feeling grief
The unexpected ways grief shows up in our lives
Grieving when things don’t go the way you expected
How control and expectations play into grief
How resilience actually makes you cooler, braver and stronger
Why having a specific timeline for your life sets you up for failure
The ways you’re probably invalidating your own grief and how to stop
Additional ways to process grief

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182. Our Wildest Emails + Sex Facts To Make You Feel Good About Yourself Sep 25, 2024

This week we’re catching up by diving into our inbox and sharing some of our wildest emails. We’re also sharing some of our favorite sex facts that are pretty much guaranteed to make you feel good about yourself. We cover:

The spicy (and unwanted) invitations we've received via email
What research has to say about unsolicited dick pics
Q+A: How to deal when you want to try something new in the bedroom and your partner DOES NOT aka managing rejecting
We dive into the data to find out:
Are people actually having that much sex?
How many sexual partners is considered "normal"?
How confident people actually feel in the bedroom?
What's the deal with sex dreams?
What are people doing with their pubes?

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181. An Intuitive Guide’s Advice For Living Your Most Authentic & Fulfilling Life + An Intuitive Reading Just For YOU Sep 18, 2024

Need a little guidance? Us too. That's why we turned to Aja Vines, an intuitive reader and guide who just GETS IT. She's sharing her best tips for living your most authentic, fulfilling life and if you're anything like us, it's EXACTLY what you've been needing to hear. We cover:

What it ACTUALLY means to live an authentic life
How to know what's authentic to YOU
Steps you can take to build self-trust
How to comfort yourself instead and STOP beating yourself up
What to do when you're feeling behind in life
What your intuition is and how to get in touch with it
How to start using tarot/oracle cards
A VERY SPECIAL INTUITIVE READING just for our Honeys

The oracle deck Aja used for our reading is linked HERE!

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180. Everything You NEED To Know About Vaginas, Periods & Birth… But Probably Don’t Sep 11, 2024

April Davis of Haus of Vagina, a sex and menstrual educator, is BACK to tell us everything we need to know (but definitely don’t) about vaginas, periods, and birth. We cover:

Labiaplasty- what’s the deal, why people get them, what the potential side effects are, and questions to ask if you’re considering getting one
What happens to your vagina after you give birth
Postpartum sex and why it’s not as scary or bad as they say it will be
Questions to ask your OB or gynecologist
The importance of caring for your pelvic floor
How cycle syncing (aka living your life according to which part of the menstrual cycle you’re in) will help you fall in lovewith your period and life in general
How to cycle sync if you have an IUD
Rethinking the language we use when talking about sex and vaginas

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179. Here's How To Navigate Change & Life Transitions + Your Sexy Summer Stories & What We've Been Dewin Sep 04, 2024

We're starting off our new season by learning how to navigate change and life transitions with our bestie Victoria Albina, NP, MPH. Victoria is a coach who helps people overcome their codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing thinking and she's also our go-to whenever we're ready to feel SEEN, heard, and have our worlds absolutely rocked.

In this episode, Victoria covers:

The very primal reasons why change can be TERRIFYING
Finding safety in yourself so you can be confident navigating change
How to find your truth and also know when it's time for change
Why your desire to keep other people happy gives you a false sense of safety
What to do when the people in your life don't like, acknowledge, or support your changes
Why it's not ~always~ a bad thing to care what others think
How to stop fighting and let other people have their experience (spoiler: we don't have to control everything and maybe it isn't all that serious anyway)

Before the interview, we also chat about:

Your sexy summer stories
The changes we've been going through
What you can expect from Honeydew Me this season

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Summer Rewind: How To Break Up With Anyone Aug 28, 2024

This week, we’re learning how to breakup with ANYONE (yes, anyone) with Jamye Waxman, a sex therapist and author. We cover:

The types of breakups we experience (friends, family, romantic partners)
WHY breakups are so damn hard
HOW to breakup with someone
What to avoid when breaking up with someone
What’s a “good enough reason” to breakup with someone
How to start feeling better

[Episode 122 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: 8 Ways To Talk Dirty Aug 21, 2024

Hey ya filthy sl*t... let's learn how to talk dirty. Dr. Tara is back on the pod with TONS of examples and expert advice. We chat about:

How ANYONE can be good at dirty talk (even if you're awkward)
Dynamic dirty talk
8 types of dirty talk and examples for each
Directing vs narrating
Beginner to intermediate examples
Alternatives to "daddy"
Our favorite words to refer to a penis

[Episode 123 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: Finding Your Normal: Navigating Low & Mismatched Libidos Aug 14, 2024

We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about:

What libido is and isn't
The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire
What a "normal" libido looks like
Why low libido isn't inherently bad
How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship
Common libido myths
What can negatively impact your libido

[Episode 138 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: Watch Porn For Hotter Sex & Deeper Intimacy Aug 07, 2024

This week we're pressing play ON PORN and learning all the ways it can make our sex lives hotter and our relationships better. Rachel Wright, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a Master's in clinical psychology joins us to chat about:

How porn can BENEFIT your relationship
Fun ways to incorporate porn into partnered sex
Jealousy and porn: "why do they watch porn if they have me?!" and "what if my partner is jealous that I watch porn?"
Is watching porn cheating?
Feeling insecure about the type of porn you watch
What to do if the type of porn your partner watches makes you uncomfy
How much is TOO MUCH porn?

[Episode 113 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: Sex On Drugs: Antidepressants, Anxiety & Stress... OH MY! Jul 31, 2024

Okay Honey, it’s time we talk about sex and antidepressants (but also anxiety, stress, and depression). Sex on drugs aint easy, which is why we’re talking with Dr. Jordan Rullo and getting ALL the tips on how to deal. We cover the basic science behind it all, changes in sex drive and sexual function, fight or flight during sex, and a whole lot more. In addition to actionable steps, we talk through mourning your sexual self, reframing your sexual experiences, and how to support a partner who is struggling with these changes.

[Episode 96 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: Abortion Resources Post Roe v. Wade Jul 24, 2024

Michelle Hope, sexologist, activist and Director of Social Impact and Strategic Communications at SIECUS, joins us to talk post-Roe action items and resources. We discuss:

What Roe v. Wade is, what happened, and how we actually got here
The role of comprehensive sex education
Resources for states that have lost access to abortion
Getting involved in your community

Resources:

https://www.threeforfreedom.com/

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Summer Rewind: Toxic Masculinity & Sex Shame Jul 17, 2024

We’re breaking down toxic masculinity and sex shame with Zachary Zane, author of "Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto". We cover:

What toxic masculinity is and how it manifests
How toxic masculinity impacts our sex lives and leads to sexual shame
How sexual shame limits and negatively impacts us
Zachary's personal experience with sexual shame and being bi
Labels in life and social media
What queerbaiting actually means

[Episode 137 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: How To Quit Purity Culture Jul 10, 2024

We are finally talkin' PURITY CULTURE and, perhaps more importantly, we're talkin' all about how to ditch that bitch. Erica Smith, the creator of Purity Culture Dropout TM, is here to share all the dirty deets. We chat about…

What purity culture is
How purity culture impacts our sex lives
Concrete steps for quitting
Concept of virginity & "body count"
Post-sex guilt

[Episode 83 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: Birth Control 101: Know Your Options & Ditch The Myths Jul 03, 2024

THE Dr. Jennifer Lincoln is on the pod and ready to talk ALL things birth control. We chat about:

Common myths and misconceptions (i.e. infertility, negative health impacts etc)
Whether "hormone balancing" is legit and if "hormone imbalances" are the cause of all your issues
WHY we tend to demonize birth control
Types of birth control methods (hormonal vs non hormonal)
Plan B: what it is, how to use it & when to use it
What actually is an abortion and what are the types of abortions
FREE RESOURCES

[Episode 108 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: The Secret To FUN Guilt Free Hookups Jun 26, 2024

THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN… and by “this” we mean sex, hookups, dating, ALL OF IT. Cue Myisha Battle, a sex and dating coach who quite literally wrote the book on finding the fun in all of it. We decided to deep dive into hookups (obvs) and chatted about…

Deciding what we want from sex
Finding your sexual values
How to find hookups (both on the apps and off)
What’s the deal with “chemistry”?
The benefits of hookups
How to make hookups as fun as possible
“I’m not that into you, but damn I wanna bang…”
How to say what you’re into AND what you want in the moment

Get Myisha's book HERE!

[Episode 126 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: How To Have Mind Blowing Solo Sex Jun 19, 2024

We’re talking all things MASTURBATION with one of our favorite sex and pleasure educators, Luna Matatas. We cover:

New positions to try
How to make your hands feel JUST as good as a toy
How to finger yourself
What to do if you get nervous while *exploring*
How often we should masturbate
How to start fantasizing during solo play
Dirty chat rooms
How long a solo sesh should be
Taking masturbation OUTSIDE the bedroom (legally)

Connect with Luna:

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[Episode 129 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: You're Not Too Needy: Find Your Needs, Get Them Met & Death To The "Chill Girl" Jun 12, 2024

When did being NEEDY become a bad thing? We have NEEDS (a lot of 'em) and those needs deserve to be met whether they're in the bedroom or beyond it. That's why we're talking with Mara Glatzel, MSW an intuitive coach and author of the Book "Needy: How To Advocate For Your Needs and Claim Your Sovereignty". We chat about:

What it ACTUALLY means to be needy
Why we should ditch the "chill girl/person" mentality
What happens when we neglect our needs
How ignoring our needs impacts our sex lives
How to figure out what you need AND how to ask for it
Is there such a thing as TOO needy?
What to do when your partner doesn't or can't meet your needs
Giving up your role as a "mindreader" (aka when you think you always know what other people need)

Get Mara's book HERE!

[Episode 131 on Youtube]

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Summer Rewind: The Power Of PDA: How To Get It On In Public & Give Zero F*cks Jun 05, 2024

Let's get it on... IN PUBLIC. We're talking PDA with Dr. Tara and breaking through ALL the shame. We we chat about:

What Power PDA is
Critique and support for PDA
What if there's a discrepancy between what you and your partner want?
Giving NO f*cks
Who decided affection needed to be kept private?
Should there be goal with PDA?
How far is TOO far in public?
How healthy displays of affection are GOOD
How to start engaging in PDA if you're new to it

Connect with Dr. Tara

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[Episode 116 on Youtube]

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178. How To Set Up The Perfect Summer Date May 22, 2024

Alright Honeys, we're juuuussst about ready to send you into your summer of hook-ups but can't let you go without a little help and advice for our girl, Abigail Jensen. In this episode, we dive into girl chat about what makes for a PERFECT date. We chat about:

How to practice being confident
Key ingredients for setting up a great date
Where to take your dates to ensure good vibes
Questions we should be asking to get to know your date
Common dating mistakes
LTR dating tips

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177. How To Give An Erotic Massage: Benefits, Positions & Stroke For Both Giver And Receiver May 15, 2024

Get your hands nice and warmed up because we'll be puttin' them to WORK. This week we talk to Barbara Carrellas, erotic massage pro, about how to give and receive pleasure through massage. 🙌 Barbara holds nothing back when it comes to pleasure and this episode delivers tips, tricks, and erotic puppets???

We chat about:

What makes a massage ✨erotic✨
The benefits of an erotic massage
How to get present in the moment
Best positions to give a massage
Massage prep
How to incorporate ALL our parts

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176. How To Be The Best Kisser & Leave Them Begging For More May 08, 2024

There is nothing more make-or-break than kissing chemistry, so as we head into our summer of hook-ups, let's refresh ourselves shall we?! This week, we chat with the one and only, Luna Matatas all about the art of lip-locking. In this episode, we cover:

Mistakes we make while kissing
How to practice your technique
What cues to pick up on from a partner
What to do with your lips
How to french
How to communicate with your partner about what you want more or less of

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175. How to Date Selfishly, F*ck Casually & Build Your Summer Roster May 01, 2024

Dating casually never seemed so easy after this convo with Talia Koren. As the host of Dating Intentionally podcast, and a HIGHLY experienced casual dater, Talia knows a thing or two about putting yourself out there to get what you want and have fun while dating. In this episode, we cover:

Getting clear on what you want out of dating
Tapping into your own desirability
Benefits of casually dating
How to be selfish (in a GREAT way)
Creating your roster
Rules of Casual Dating

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174. Teasing Your Naughty Bits: Nipple-gasms, Anal Play & Tips for Talking Dirty Apr 17, 2024

We believe that every last BIT of you deserves maximum pleasure so we brought back Dr. Tara to teach us a thing or two (or 12) about how to tease, play and talk dirty to ALL of our naughty bits. In this episode, we cover:

Breast and Nipple play
Nipple-gasms for ALL
How to play with the booty cheeks
How to relax during anal play
What to do with the balls
Dirty talk tips

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173. Blowjob Fundamentals: How To Shake Off Performance Anxiety & Feel Confident As The Giver Apr 10, 2024

Get ready to be BLOWN away this week as we cover the fundamentals of giving a Bl*wjob worthy of a standing (laying, sitting) O with Dr. Jenni Skyler. 👏

We also cover:

How to feel safe and comfortable
How to make a bl*wjob romantic
How to ask your partner if they're in the mood
Positions for both givers and receivers
Finishing tips

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172: How To Create A Healing, Sensual & FUN Masturbation Practice Apr 03, 2024

Azaria is one magical (p*ssy) fairy and she shares her wisdom by dishing out some of the BEST, yummiest, most healing tips and tricks for masturbating with a vulva & vagina. She'll heal your soul, and help you reach your maximum O. We also cover:

The definition of self-pleasure
How to use your masturbation practice to heal
How to build a sustainable self-care routine
Ways to get creative with touch
Dual sensory activation

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171. Oral Sex: Tips For Going Down On A Vulva, Maximizing Pleasure & Feeling Confident As The Giver or Receiver Mar 27, 2024

Annabelle Knight, a sex and relationship expert, is here to walk us through her top tips for oral sex on a vulva. We cover:

How to initiate going down (or any type of intimate play)
Non verbal pleasure cues to watch out for
How to communicate what you want as the receiver
Positions
Specific ways to orally pleasure a vulva
A method that reportedly helps people ✨finish✨in 3 minutes or less
How to feel confident and sexy as the giver or receiver

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170. Vaginal Health: How To Care For Your Bits, Perform Self Checks & Advocate For Yourself Mar 20, 2024

YOUR VAGINA IS BEAUTIFUL and deserves to be taken care of. That's why we're diving into all things vaginal health with April Davis, from discharge, to pubes, and everything in between. April Davis is the creator of Haus of Vagina, a community that combines her extensive background in birth work and passion for sex education to empower vagina owners everywhere! In this episode, we cover:

What to look out for when it comes to vaginal health
The regular self checks we need to be doing
Common signs of infection and when to call the doctor
How to work through shame and embarrassment around vaginal health and going to the doctor
How to advocate for yourself at the doctor
Common things we do that negatively impact our vaginal health
Trying new period products to find what works for YOUR body
Whether pubic hair matters for maintaining your vaginal health

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169. Master The Art of The Handjob Mar 13, 2024

This week we're rediscovering the power of the humble handjob with relationship and intimacy coach, Keeley Rankin, MA. We cover:

WHY handjobs are worth including in your sexual toolkit
Common mistakes we make when giving handjobs
Ways to tease and seduce your partner
Navigating the different parts of the penis
Different movements to try
How to play with the balls
Cleaning up after someone cums
The mental roadblocks that can get in the way of us feeling sexy and having fun

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168. Master The Art of The Pussy Massage Mar 06, 2024

Ready to put those hands to WORK?! Ashley Manta, a sex and relationship coach, is here to teach us the art of pussy massage (aka fingering/hand sex). We cover:

Why we’re ditching “finger banging” in favor of ✨pussy massage✨
Common mistakes people make when fingering
The most pleasurable ways to touch a vulva or vagina
The best positions for hand sex
Getting involved as the receiver
How to incorporate toys
Why you might want to try adding in some butt stuff

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167. Infidelity: How To Recover After Someone Cheats Feb 28, 2024

Ever wondered why people cheat? If it's possible for a relationship to TRULY heal after someone's strayed? Cue Rebecca Stone, LCSW, a therapist who specializes in helping couples recover after infidelity. In this episode, we cover:

How Rebecca defines cheating & why it's SO important to define it within your relationship
WHY people cheat
The role attachment styles play in infidelity
How to disclose to your partner that you cheated
Whether recovery is possible and if "once a cheater, always a cheater" holds true
The necessary ingredients for repairing your relationship post-infidelity
The stigma and shame that betrayed partners experience when they choose to stay

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166. New Relationships: Common Mistakes, What To Watch Out For & How To Make The Most Of Your Budding Romance Feb 21, 2024

Whether you're dating around, ready to find your person, or loving it up in the honeymoon phase, knowing how to navigate the highs and lows of a new relationship is pivotal. Catherine Drysdale, a sex and relationship coach, is here to help us understand what we tend to mess up, what we need to look out for, and how to make the most of a brand new relash. We cover:

Common mistakes we make when starting a new relationship
How to reframe the dating process so you can feel CONFIDENT and in control
Why you SHOULD be asking the hard questions early on
Why a smaller dating pool is actually a good thing
Red and green flags to watch out for
How to work through anxiety and insecurity while on a date

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165. How To Fight Fair Feb 14, 2024

HOT RELATIONSHIP TIP: fighting isn’t a bad thing… but you do need to learn how to fight fair. Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks are back and this time they’re sharing their expert tips on how to fight. We cover:

Why fighting is actually a part of a healthy relationship
How to fight fair
How to regulate your emotions during a fight
Scripts for expressing your feelings and apologizing
What resentment can look like and how it manifests in our relationships
The grief that comes along with committing to a long term relationship

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164. How to Cultivate & Maintain A Healthy Relationship Feb 07, 2024

This month we're all about RELATIONSHIPS and who better to start us off than Victoria Albina, NP, MPH? As a coach for codependent folks who want to stop feeling anxious and overwhelmed, Victoria is the perfect person to walk us through how to maintain the long term relationships we're in. We cover:

What a healthy relationship looks like
How codependent thinking and emotional outsourcing impact our relationships
What happens when we rely on a partner for joy
How to start assuming positive intent
How consent and boundaries will help you prevent resentment
How to approach a partner when starting a conversation

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163. Positions For Discreet & Outdoor Sex Jan 24, 2024

Whether you're trying to keep things discreet or wanting a romp in the great outdoors, we've done the research and found all the tips, tricks, and positions you need to make it a pleasurable experience. Got a roommate you don't want to disturb? Trying to sneak in an orgasm while on a hike? No prob, because we cover:

How to prepare for discreet sex
Positions for discreet sex
Public/outdoor sex trends
Locations for outdoor sex (from beginner to more adventurous)
Positions for outdoor sex

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162. Quickies: The Unsung Relationship Hero For Emotional & Physical Connection Jan 17, 2024

Short on time? No worries, we're talking quickies with sex and relationship expert, Dr. Tara, and learning all the ways to start using quick sex sessions to our advantage. We cover:

What a "quickie" actually is
The benefits of quickies
Types of quickies (there's probably more than you're thinking...)
Positions for quickies
The importance of incorporating "play" into your relationship
Using quickies to try out something new

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On her website

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161. Sex Positions For The Lazy Lover Jan 10, 2024

Calling all lazy lovers... this episode was made especially for you. We're looking for minimum effort and maximum pleasure, which is exactly why we're talking with Ginny Hogan, a stand-up comedian and author of the book "Sex for Lazy People: 50 Effortless Positions So You Can Do It Without Overdoing It." We cover:

Why sex doesn't have to be high-energy or high-effort
How to make sex as low effort or lazy as possible
Positions for when you just want to chill
Releasing the pressure aka letting sex be good without forcing it to be amazing
Lazy masturbation tips

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160. Sex Positions For When You're Feeling Insecure Jan 03, 2024

This week we are getting into position to have the best sex ever, even when we're not feeling our best. It's hard to remember that we deserve pleasure when we're feeling hot, but especially when we're feeling VERY NOT. In this episode, we chat with Sarah Watson a certified sex therapist and sex educator about how to have great and pleasurable sex even when our insecurities are making an unwanted debut. We cover:

How to approach sex when you're feeling insecure
How to communicate your insecurities to a partner
Asking for validation
KNOWING that you deserve pleasurable sex
Positions that'll help keep you focused on the present
The importance of solo pleasure

Connect with Sarah Watson:

Simplesexeducation.com
@Swsxtherapy on Instagram
Flow Extreme podcast

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159. Set Your Sexy New Year's Intentions Dec 27, 2023

If there’s one thing we’ve learned about having good sex, it’s that you need to be INTENTIONAL. So that’s what we’re doing for 2024, setting sexual intentions to get us closer to having the BEST DAMN SEX we can. In this episode, we’re chatting about:

Our personal intentions for the new year and how we plan on implementing them (i.e. masturbation practices, embracing our buttholes etc.)
Sexual resolutions/intentions submitted by YOU (our listeners)
Advice for implementing your intentions based on EXPERT tips from previous episodes

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158. A Simple Bitch's Guide To Connecting With Your Cycle, Resting When You're Tired & Nourishing Your Hot Bod Dec 20, 2023

Here at Honeydew Me, we are first and foremost ✨simple bitches✨. So when we're connecting with our bodies, we're looking for simple, no bullshit tips. That's why we're talking with Usha Anandi, a holistic nutritionist, herbalist, yoga teacher and founder of Womben Wellness, WHO JUST GETS IT. We cover:

Realistic practices for connecting with your body and your cycle (aka you don't have to overhaul your entire life)
Why you should definitely give a fuck about connecting with your body
Why rest is SO important and how to stop feeling guilty about it
Ways to nourish and move your body while supporting your womb
Where to start without getting overwhelmed

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157. How To Have Psychedelic Sex Dec 13, 2023

We hope you're PSYCHED for this episode, because we sure as hell are. Jessica Alfaqih, a Psychedelic Sensual Empowerment Coach, is here to teach us the ins and outs of having psychedelic sex (both sober and with the help of some plant friends). We cover:

What psychedelics are and how they impact your mind and body
How psychedelics can be used to enhance your sexual experiences
How to have the same psychedelic sex WITHOUT using psychedelics (aka sober)
Where to start if you're a newbie
Visualization techniques for getting into a psychedelic state
Conditioning yourself to be kinder to yourself
The importance of integration

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156. Somatics: How To Feel Your Feelings, Trust Yourself & Make Friends With Your Body Dec 06, 2023

This month at Honeydew Me we’re learning how to connect with our bodies and there’s no one better to start us off than THE Victoria Albina, NP, MPH. Victoria is a coach for codependent folks who want to stop feeling anxious, exhausted and overwhelmed... and, hawt damn, is she INCREDIBLE at it. In this episode, we cover:

What it actually means to FEEL your feelings and HOW to do it
WTF somatics means and why it’s so important
Sex and somatics
Making friends with your body
Getting present and dropping into your body
Self awareness and self trust

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155. Speed Dating, Hookups & Casual Flings Nov 29, 2023

We pussed ourselves out there ALL MONTH LONG and now we're ready to share the dirty deets with YOU. From speed dating, to Hinge dates, to hot hookups, we're chatting through it all and sharing our biggest takeaways. We cover:

What it's like to go to a speed dating event
Navigating casual dating for the first time
Hooking up with strangers
Ending a fling

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154. Find Your Flirt Style & Feel Confident AF Nov 22, 2023

This week we're learning how to flirt and feel confident AF while we do it. Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach, is here to spill all his flirting secrets and give us the actionable tips we've been waiting for. We cover:

A CLEAR definition of what flirting is
The 4 main flirty styles and how to find your personal flirting style
What we're getting WRONG when it comes to flirting
What to do if you're shy or awkward
Benjamin's flirting framework
How to enhance your verbal flirting game
Using your body to flirt

Connect with Benjamin:

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153. Owning Your Slut Era Nov 15, 2023

This week we're putting our sluttiest foot forward and pussing ourselves OUT THERE by learning how to be hot sluts. Lucky for us, Zachary Zane aka The Boyslut, is here to teach us how. Zach is a sex expert, advice columnist, and author who is here to help you embrace your inner slut. We cover:

What it means to be a slut (it's empowering af)
Finding your slutty confidence
Zachary's journey to becoming a slut
Slutty mantras to live by
What if you want to be a slut but you also catch feelings?
How to embrace your slutiness and feel into it ALL DAY LONG

Connect with Zach:

Buy his book "Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto" HERE!
Visit his website HERE

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152. How To Puss Yourself Out There & Get What You Want Nov 08, 2023

Ready to put your self OUT THERE? We thought so. Cue Amy and April, hosts of Shameless Sex Podcast and authors of the upcoming book "Shameless Sex: Choose Your Own Pleasure Path". We're unpacking HOW to puss yourself out there and get what you want both in the bedroom and beyond. We cover:

What it means to put yourself out there and how to get started
How to put yourself out there when you're single AND in a long term relationship
Where to find people to date or just bang
Pick up lines and initiating flirtatious conversations
Navigating and accepting rejection
Bringing back the spice to a long term relationship
Small ways to put yourself out there throughout the day

Connect with Amy & April:

On their website
Get their book HERE'

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151. Entitled & Indulgent Foreplay Nov 01, 2023

This month at Honeydew Me, we're learning how to put ourselves out there or, as we like to say, how to PUSS ourselves out there. We're starting off with the juiciest lesson on foreplay and initiation with none other than Haylin Belay. Haylin is a sexual health educator, bodyworker, and pleasure witch who is ready to CHANGE YOUR DAMN LIFE. We cover:

Expanding your definition of foreplay
How to turn yourself ON
Understanding the phases of sexual arousal and USING that to your advantage
How to feel ENTITLED to your needs
How to make communication feel ✨sexy✨
Low-stakes ways to initiate sex
How to engage in foreplay ALL DAY

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On her website

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150. Pet Play: Using Role Play To Unleash Your Wild Side Oct 25, 2023

Ever been curious about role-play? Wanted to explore your wild side? Lucky you, because we're closing out kink month by exploring pet play. Tyomi Morgan, a sexpert and intimacy coach, is BACK on Honeydew Me to break down one of her favorite kinky activities. We cover:

What pet play (aka a type of animal role play) is and why it's a kink
How Tyomi engages in pet play and her pet persona
The dom/sub dynamic and what pet/handler relationships can look like
Props and accessories
Communication while role-playing
Dealing with the awkward and WTF moments that can arise during role-play

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On her website

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149. Bondage & Restraints Oct 18, 2023

This episode has us all tied up and we couldn't be more excited. Midori, a sex educator and coach, is here to share all her tips for bringing bondage and restraints into the bedroom. We cover:

Midori's definition of BDSM (IT'S SO GOOD)
Why being bound is so erotic
How to get started in bondage
Types of restraints (including household items, luxury restraints & more)
Body parts to restrain and body parts to avoid
Dominance and rope games

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On her website
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148. How To Ask For Rough Sex Oct 11, 2023

You deserve to have all your kinky little needs met, so in this episode, we're learning how to talk the talk and ask for what we want. Stella Harris, an intimacy educator, coach, mediator, and author of "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is here to help us dig into the nitty gritty and develop our sexy communication skills. We cover:

Sexual communication basics
How to introduce and negotiate your kinky desires
Navigating shame around sexual interests
How to control your own "yuck" so you don't shame a partner
How to tell a partner you didn't like something you tried
How to make these conversations more fun

Connect with Stella:

On her website

Get her books

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147. Dominate the Bedroom: How To Build Confidence, Work Through Embarrassment & Dominate Like A Pro Oct 04, 2023

It's officially kink month at Honeydew Me and we're kicking things off with a SPICY lesson on how to be more dominant. We're joined by Eva Oh, a Professional Dominatrix with ALL the tips we've been waiting for. We cover:

What makes a good domme both privately and professionally
What gets in the way of us embracing our dominant sides
Setting containers and boundaries
How to build confidence
How to work through shame and embarrassment when being dominant
How to recover when you make a mistake or say something "stupid" in the bedroom
What a session with Eva looks like

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146. Come With Us To A Sex Club Sep 27, 2023

We're closing out non-monogamy month with a BANG... or lots of banging. We went to a sex club as total newbies and now we're reporting back to tell you everything you need to know. We cover:

Getting in, getting a tour, and first impressions
All the rules and why we LOVED them
The set up of the club
What we saw and what we DID
Major takeaways and tips for other first timers

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145. Cuckolding 101 Sep 20, 2023

WTF is cuckolding? Why are people into it? Is it something I might be into? These are the questions we set out to answer when talking with Jen Meyer, a licensed therapist and sex educator who specializes in kink and consensual non-monogamy. In this episode, we cover:

What cuckolding is and how it all works
Why it's a turn-on
The different roles in a cuckolding scene
How shame and jealousy play into cuckolding
Figuring out if cuckolding is for you
How to navigate opening your relationship

Connect with Jen:

jenmeyertherapy.com

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144. Guide To Threesomes & Sex Parties Sep 13, 2023

Susan Bratton, THE intimacy expert to millions, is back and this time she's breaking down two of her favorite nonmonogamous activities... THREESOMES AND SEX PARTIES. Here's what you can expect:

Susan sells us on threesomes and explains WHY she loves them
Positions for threesomes
What to do when you're feeling left out
IT WILL BE CLUNKY... we cover how to work through that
What it feels like to be double-penetrated
Finding a third
Why you NEED to be making "offers" and examples of how to do it
Navigating sex parties
Being a "good" slut

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susanbratton.com
On Instagram

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143. Polyamory: How To Elevate Your Sex, Relationships, & Life By Unlocking Your Slutty Heart Sep 06, 2023

First up in our non-monogamy series we’re covering POLYAMORY… because WTF is it and would you ever be into it? That’s what we’re exploring in this episode with sex educator and therapist, Dr. Liz Powell. We cover:

What polyamory is and what it isn’t (aka all the things we get wrong when we think about polyamory)
Why we need to be examining the “relationship scripts” we’re given to figure out what we actually want
What the BENEFITS of polyamory are
What polyamorous relationships can look like
How sex can work in polyamorous relationships
Boundaries, rules and COMMUNICATION

Connect with Dr. Liz:

Their website
Their Instagram

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Summer Rewind: Catch Up with Cass & Em Aug 16, 2023

One last catch up and we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled programming. We cover what’s next for Honeydew Me, what we’ve been up to this summer, and reflect a little on the past (but like, in a fun way) 😘

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Summer Rewind: Turn Ons & Mid-Sex Name Slips Aug 09, 2023

For our last rewind of the summer, we’re revisiting turn ons with sex educator, Cassandra Corrado. We cover:

How to figure out what turns you on
How to ask for what you want
Giving ✨constructive✨ criticism to a partner
What to do when someone kills the mood
When you accidentally say the wrong name

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Summer Rewind: Squirting Aug 02, 2023

It’s the last month of our Summer Rewind and we’re starting off by revisiting an audience favorite: SQUIRTING. Sex educator, Shea Alexander joins us to share the ins and outs of the elusive juices (lol sorry). We cover:

What squirting ACTUALLY is
How to do it
G-Spot basics
Clean up
Talking with a partner about squirting

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Summer Rewind: Catch Up with Cass & Em Jul 19, 2023

Another check in with Cass & Em cummin right atcha. We’re chatting through some of our most TRANSFORMATIVE sexual experiences and our major takeaways. If you’re looking for a little encouragement to take up space and get what you want in the bedroom, we’ve got you covered 😘

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Summer Rewind: Going Down Jul 12, 2023

This week, we’re heading ✨down south✨ and revisiting cunnilingus with sex educator Luna Matatas. Whether you’re the giver or the receiver, this episode is overflowing with all the juicy tips you need to have a great time when eating out. We cover:

Working through shame (aka how to stop worrying about how you look, taste, and smell)
How to move your tongue
How to incorporate fingers
Positions
How to engage as the receiver
AND SO MUCH MORE

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Summer Rewind: Body Neutrality for Better Sex Jul 05, 2023

Summer can bring up ALL SORTS of insecurities when it comes to our bodies, so we're revisiting one of our favorite episodes with Brenna O'Malley. Brenna, a non-diet dietician, takes us on a deep dive of body neutrality and teaches us how to navigate the crunchy feelings that tend to arise when we start unpacking our relationships with our bodies. We cover:

How to navigate vulnerable body image moments
Whether or not affirmations work
Brenna's top tip for fueling an amazing sex life
Food in the context of dating
Diet culture and diet talk

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Summer Rewind: Catch Up with Cass & Em Jun 21, 2023

Craving a cozy convo with your besties? Us too. So press play and join us for a quickie 😘 We're talking sex, we're talking marriage, we're talking LIFE CHANGES, honey.

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Summer Rewind: Fingering Jun 14, 2023

Fingering is an art, that when done right, is *chef’s kiss*. That’s why we’re revisiting fingering with Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101 and a true va-genius. We cover:

What fingering is and how to make it a MAIN COURSE
Pleasure anatomy and technical basics
How to touch the outside (aka the vulva)
How to ✨enter✨ and what to do once you’re in
Positions
How to add in oral

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Summer Rewind: Doggy Style Jun 07, 2023

We’re gettin on all fours and revisiting a fan favorite… DOGGY STYLE. August McLaughlin of Girl Boner Radio joins us to share all the dirty deets. We cover:

What doggy style is and its many variations
Making the position work for YOU and YOUR BODY
How to make doggy feel more intimate
Finding the G spot during doggy
Stroke tips and tricks
What you can do as the receiver

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142. How To Explore Your Fantasies & Level Up Your Partnered and Solo Sex May 31, 2023

We’re diving HEAD first into fantasies with Gina Gutierrez, the Chief Creative Officer and Co-Founder of Dipsea (aka our fav audio erotica app)! We chat about:

How to start incorporating fantasy into your sex life
Navigating fantasies wile you’re in a relationship
What to do if fantasizing doesn’t come easily to you
What to do when something you DON’T like pops into your fantasy (and why this happens)
What people typically fantasize about (according to the data)
Where our fantasies come from
The tools and benefits we gain from fantasizing
Our favorite Dipsea stories

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141. Degrade Me But In A Hot Way May 24, 2023

Hey you dirty little slut… Dr. Liz Powell is BACK and this time they’re helping us break down degradation and humiliation play. We chat about:

What degradation play is
WHY degradation and humiliation can be turn ons
How sex and shame are connected in our brains
Indicators that this type of play might be for YOU
Boundaries and safe words
Examples of how to engage in this type of play
Aftercare and dealing with feelings of guilt/shame

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140. You're Not Too Emotional: How To Embrace "Negative" Emotions & Ditch The Need To Be Taken Seriously May 17, 2023

Our QUEEN, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, has returned, and this time she's breaking down the concept of "negative" or "bad" emotions. We chat about:

Victoria's thoughts on "negative" emotions
Allowing all emotions to be FELT
Being labeled as the emotions we allow ourselves to feel (sad, angry etc.)
Wanting to more ✨elegantly✨ express your emotions
Being taken seriously when you're upset
Is there such a thing as "too emotional"?

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139. The Sex Ed You Never Got: Masturbation, Plan B, & Porn May 10, 2023

We’re chatting with sex educator Danielle Bezalel and closing some BIG OL’ knowledge gaps (courtesy of the shitty sex ed we got growing up). We cover:

If using vibrators makes it harder to orgasm without one
How much masturbation is TOO MUCH
How early people typically start masturbating and when to start talking about masturbation with kids
Emergency contraceptive 101
Can you take TOO MANY Plan B’s?
Navigating porn use in a relationship
Feeling in competition with porn
If sex should EVER hurt and reasons why it does
De-centering penetration in partnered sex

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138. Finding Your Normal: Navigating Low & Mismatched Libidos May 03, 2023

We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about:

What libido is and isn't
The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire
What a "normal" libido looks like
Why low libido isn't inherently bad
How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship
Common libido myths
What can negatively impact your libido

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137. Toxic Masculinity & Sex Shame Apr 26, 2023

We’re breaking down toxic masculinity and sex shame with Zachary Zane, author of “Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto”. We chat about:

What toxic masculinity is and how it manifests
How toxic masculinity impacts our sex lives and leads to sexual shame
How sexual shame limits and negatively impacts us
Zachary's personal experience with sexual shame and being bi
Labels in life and social media
What queerbaiting actually means

Get Zachary's book HERE!

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136. Play With Your Butt: Tips, Techniques, & Positions for Anal Masturbation Apr 19, 2023

We’re headed BACK to your backdoor and talking all things anal masturbation with Dr. Heather Bartos. We cover:

WHY your butt is such an epicenter of pleasure (even when you don’t have a prostate)
Prep and precautions
Techniques for playing with your butt
Internal and external methods
Positions
Toys and other props to try

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135. You Don’t Have To Love Your Body To Feel Sexy and Get Off Apr 05, 2023

Ever wondered what the most "flattering" positions are? What about the ideal hairdo for ✨down there✨? Us too, but it turns out that "flattering" sex might not be a worthwhile goal. That's why we're talking with sex educator and author of “Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life”, Elle Chase. Elle is here to help us unpack the oh-so complex relationship between sex and body image by chatting about...

How body image impacts partnered and solo sex
How to work through negative self talk/thoughts
How to navigate sex after your body has gone through a change
Whether sex should be "flattering"
Accommodating insecurities and finding RELIEF
What's the deal with body hair and how much should we care

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134. How To Cut Out Comparison & Navigate Insecurities In Your Relationship Mar 29, 2023

We're diving head first (and balls deep) into some listener questions with Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, a magical human who specializes in helping people work through emotional outsourcing (AKA people pleasing, codependency etc.). In this episode we chat about:

How to "manage" a partner's insecurities
How to navigate boundaries in a relationship and what to do when you don't agree
The difference between being "kind" and "nice"
Being queer while in a hetero relationship
The FOMO trap and how to get out of it
How to stop comparing yourself to a partner's ex
Why talking about our insecurities makes us COOL
How to navigate lack of sexual desire and feeling like an outcast

Check out Victoria's FREE meditations HERE!

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133. The Secret To Missionary Orgasms, Having Sex On A Yoga Ball, & Making A Pillow Your Third Mar 22, 2023

It’s time for a little gab sesh because we miss ya, we’ve learned some things, and we have some updates. This week, we’re talking about:

Techniques for spicing up missionary position
The Coital Alignment Technique (AKA the secret to missionary orgasms)
Having sex on a yoga ball, in the ocean, and with a pillow (not at the same time)
Dating and navigating “the apps”
Period pain and endometriosis
A BIG OL’ UPDATE for Honeydew Me

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132. Uncensored Questions: Foreplay Strategies, BEST Initiation Techniques, & Working With ED Mar 15, 2023

Our UNCENSORED QUEEN, Dr. Tara, is back and ready to answer all your spicy questions. We cover:

Tips and ideas for high quality foreplay
What NOT to say during sex
How to redirect someone during sex WITHOUT hurting their feelings
Mismatched libidos and what to do about it
How to CONFIDENTLY initiate sex
The 4 types of initiation styles and examples for each
How to navigate erectile dysfunction
What to do if your partner won't stop "jackhammering"
Getting your partner to slow down
How to start the pegging conversation
Moving from scheduled sex to spontaneous sex

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131. You're Not Too Needy: Find Your Needs, Get Them Met, Death To The "Chill Girl" Mar 08, 2023

When did being NEEDY become a bad thing? We have NEEDS (a lot of 'em) and those needs deserve to be met whether they're in the bedroom or beyond it. That's why we're talking with Mara Glatzel, MSW an intuitive coach and author of the Book "Needy: How To Advocate For Your Needs and Claim Your Sovereignty". We chat about:

What it ACTUALLY means to be needy
Why we should ditch the "chill girl/person" mentality
What happens when we neglect our needs
How ignoring our needs impacts our sex lives
How to figure out what you need AND how to ask for it
Is there such a thing as TOO needy?
What to do when your partner doesn't or can't meet your needs
Giving up your role as a "mindreader" (aka when you think you always know what other people need)

Get Mara's book HERE!

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130. How To Stay Present During Sex: Embrace Your Pleasure, Regulate Your Nervous System, & Work Through Sexual Trauma Mar 01, 2023

The one and only Victoria Albina, NP, MPH is back and we're going DEEP (as always). We chat about:

What gets in the way of us being PRESENT during sex
Why we deny ourselves pleasure
Blocks against receiving love and care
Tools for nervous system regulation
Mindfulness
How to work towards presence after sexual trauma

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129. How To Have Mind Blowing Solo Sex: Finding Your Fantasy, New Positions & Hot Hand Techniques Feb 22, 2023

We’re talking all things MASTURBATION with one of our favorite sex and pleasure educators, Luna Matatas. We cover:

New positions to try
How to make your hands feel JUST as good as a toy
How to finger yourself
What to do if you get nervous while *exploring*
How often we should masturbate
How to start fantasizing during solo play
Dirty chat rooms
How long a solo sesh should be
Taking masturbation OUTSIDE the bedroom (legally)

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128. Fisting: The Key To Deeper, Fuller Pleasure Feb 15, 2023

We're diving (fist first) into FISTING with Dr. Liz Powell and you simply CANNOT miss this one. We chat about:

What fisting is
WHY it's worth trying out
How to ease into fisting
Prep... because there's a lot of prep
HOW to fist a vagina or butt
Fisting yourself
Positions
What to do once you're in there
Pain free removal

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127. 5 Expert Tips For The Hottest Valentine's Day Feb 10, 2023

Oh honey... have we got a treat for YOU! We have five of our favorite tips from past episodes that are sure to give you the sexiest, steamiest, most indulgent Valentine's day EVER. So sit back, relax, and get ready to chat about:

How to sloooow things down and get sensual from EP. 72 with Ev'Yan Whitney
French kissing from EP. 82 with Raquel Savage
How to *sexily* take your clothes off and set the scene from EP. 44 with Ari Antwine
Bringing food into the bedroom (get your chocolate sauce and frosting ready...) from EP. 86 with Shae Alexander
A little surprise to end the day 😉 from EP. 57 with Dr. Evan Goldstein

Sponsors:

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126. The Secret To FUN Guilt Free Hookups Feb 01, 2023

THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN… and by “this” we mean sex, hookups, dating, ALL OF IT. Cue Myisha Battle, a sex and dating coach who quite literally wrote the book on finding the fun in all of it. We decided to deep dive into hookups (obvs) and chatted about…

Deciding what we want from sex
Finding your sexual values
How to find hookups (both on the apps and off)
What’s the deal with “chemistry”?
The benefits of hookups
How to make hookups as fun as possible
“I’m not that into you, but damn I wanna bang…”
How to say what you’re into AND what you want in the moment

Get Myisha's book HERE!

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125. Understand Your Hormones & Have Great Sex Your Entire Life Jan 25, 2023

Ready to understand what’s happenin hormonally in that beautiful body of yours? What about how to have AMAZING sex your entire life? Well get ready ‘cuz this week we’re talking menopause… HOLD ON DON’T GO ANYWHERE. This is CRITICAL info for anyone with a vagina and if you want to keep smushin’ puss til your six feet deep, you’re gonna want to listen in. So, buckle up and get ready to meet Dr. Shyama Mathews an OB/GYN and Menopause Specialist. We’re chatting about:

What menopause actually is and why you need to care NOW
What age we tend to go through menopause (think mid 40’s…)
Symptoms of menopause and what it actually FEELS like
What’s going on with your hormones
Sex before, during and after menopause
Ways to make your menopausal experience ✨better✨
If there’s anything you can do RIGHT NOW to prepare
How we gaslight menopausal people and make the experience 1000x worse (and how to stop)

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124. What Your Attachment Style Says About You & Your Relationship Jan 18, 2023

Victoria Albina, NP, MPH (you know, our favorite human who LITERALLY changes our lives every time she she speaks) is back and this time we’re breaking down ✨ATTACHMENT STYLES✨. We chat about…

What attachment styles ARE and how we LEARN them
Anxious vs avoidant vs secure attachment
How our attachment style impacts our romantic relationships
The ways that anxious and avoidant attachments SHOW UP in our lives
What secure attachment looks and FEELS like
Steps for moving towards secure attachment

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123. Here's 8 Ways To Talk Dirty Jan 11, 2023

Hey ya filthy sl*t... let's learn how to talk dirty. Dr. Tara is back on the pod with TONS of examples and expert advice. We chat about...

How ANYONE can be good at dirty talk (even if you're awkward)
Dynamic dirty talk
8 types of dirty talk and examples for each
Directing vs narrating
Beginner to intermediate examples
Alternatives to "daddy"
Our favorite words to refer to a penis

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122. How To Break Up With Anyone Jan 04, 2023

This week, we’re learning how to breakup with ANYONE (yes, anyone) with Jamye Waxman, a sex therapist and author. We cover:

The types of breakups we experience (friends, family, romantic partners)
WHY breakups are so damn hard
HOW to breakup with someone
What to avoid when breaking up with someone
What’s a “good enough reason” to breakup with someone
How to start feeling better

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121. 6 Tips For Better Sex In 2023 (Part 2) Dec 28, 2022

We're rounding out the year with some of our FAVORITE advice we've gotten in 2022. We've had INCREDIBLE guests, LIFE CHANGING tips, and whole lotta laughs so let's just dive right in and chat about...

Blow jobs
What to do when you’re working with a small mouth or tired jaw
Making things work FOR YOU
Why you don’t need to be healed to have sex or be worthy of PLEASURE
When the sex is bad
Leaving room for things to just BE BAD and not something you need to “work on”
Ethereal orgasms

Episodes mentioned:

EP. 74 Blowjobs 101: How To Give The Best Performance of Your Life with Luna Matatas

EP. 97 Sex & Mental Health: Struggling with Arousal, Getting Your Needs Met, & Worthiness Wounds with Nicoletta Heidegger

EP. 101 What If The Sex Is Bad? With Kate Moyle

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120. 6 Tips For Better Sex in 2023 (Part 1) Dec 21, 2022

We're rounding out the year with some of our FAVORITE advice we've gotten in 2022. We've had INCREDIBLE guests, LIFE CHANGING tips, and whole lotta laughs so let's just dive right in and chat about...

The POWER in being single
De-centering romantic relationships
Confidence and seduction
How to feel sexy
Thinking your "better"
Letting yourself be WRONG
Somehow it always comes back to COMMUNICATION

Episodes mentioned:

EP. 84 The Art of Seduction: How to Walk, Talk, & Touch Like A Bad Bitch with Danica Darling

EP. 87 A Shame Free Guide To Living Your Best Single Life with Shani Silver

EP. 115 You're Toxic, Now What? with Shrink Chicks

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119. Save A Horse, Ride A Face: Positions, Confidence And Getting Your O Dec 14, 2022

In this episode we’re SITTING DOWN (lol) with Laydee Vee and Dee Black and getting a crash course in face sitting. We chat about:

What face sitting is
Who can be the sitter (HINT: it’s not just vulva owners)
Four different face sitting positions
How to get INTO the positions (and not feel awkward)
What to do once you’re up there
How to sit with CONFIDENCE

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118. Modern Love Languages: Discovering What You Need To Feel Loved Dec 07, 2022

We’re talking with Anne Hodder-Shipp, an award winning sex educator and coach, about MODERN LOVE LANGUAGES and learning all the ways to love and be loved (because there’s like waaaay more than 5). We cover:

What a love language is and WHY they matter
The classic 5 love languages and their (very shitty) origin
What Modern Love Languages are and how they help us EXPAND our understanding of love
How to determine YOUR love language(s)
Specific examples of how to give and receive love based on your language
Why you DO NOT need to be in a romantic relationship to experience love
Meeting your own love language needs

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117. Labia, Sexual World Records, & Being A Dirty Wh*re Nov 30, 2022

We’re feeling CHATTY, so let’s get into it. We’re talking:

Labia and labia lumps
“Innie vs. outie” labia
Labiaplasties
Edging during masturbation
Letting someone spit in your mouth (and LOVING it)
Sexual World Records (including longest masturbation sesh, farthest ejaculation and MORE)
Craigslist Missed Connections
Some of our toxic little tendencies (and some of yours)
Red Flag or Deal Breaker

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116. The Power Of PDA: How to Make Out In Public and Give Zero F*cks Nov 23, 2022

Let's get it on... IN PUBLIC. We're talking PDA with Dr. Tara and breaking through ALL the shame. We we chat about:

What Power PDA is
Critique and support for PDA
What if there's a discrepancy between what you and your partner want?
Giving NO f*cks
Who decided affection needed to be kept private?
Should there be goal with PDA?
How far is TOO far in public?
How healthy displays of affection are GOOD
How to start engaging in PDA if you're new to it

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115. You're Toxic, Now What? Nov 16, 2022

This interview CHANGED OUR LIVES and our relationships because it turns out… we might be a little toxic (yep, that means you too). So let’s talk about it with Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks. We’re unpacking and working through a whole lot, including:

What it actually means to be “toxic”
Common ways that we're toxic but might not realize it
Anti-relational and dysfunctional behaviors
Expecting your partner to KNOW what you need
Feeling like your “better” at relationships than your partner
What if your partner "shuts down" during fights or discussions
Exit language during a fight and what to say instead
Taking accountability aka “what part do I play in this?”
When you secretly love feeling like the victim

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114. Friends & Sex: How Our Friendships Impact Intimacy, Sex, & Everything Else Nov 09, 2022

Here at Honeydew Me, we came to the realization that our friendships have DEEPLY impacted our sex lives... so let's talk about it. One of our absolute favorite humans, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, is back on the pod and we are DIVING into the relationship between friends and sex. We chat about...

How friendship and sex are related
Emotional outsourcing
Intimacy in relationships
Getting your friends' opinions: good or bad idea?
Gossip vs well-intentioned sharing
Is there such a thing as sharing TOO MUCH?
When your partner doesn't want you sharing ✨intimate✨ details
Do you need strong friendships to have strong relationships?
Having sex WITH your friends
How to find friends

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113. Watch Porn For Hotter Sex & Deeper Intimacy Nov 02, 2022

This week we're pressing play ON PORN and learning all the ways it can make our sex lives hotter and our relationships better. Rachel Wright, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a Master's in clinical psychology joins us to chat about:

How porn can BENEFIT your relationship
Fun ways to incorporate porn into partnered sex
Jealousy and porn: "why do they watch porn if they have me?!" and "what if my partner is jealous that I watch porn?"
Is watching porn cheating?
Feeling insecure about the type of porn you watch
What to do if the type of porn your partner watches makes you uncomfy
How much is TOO MUCH porn?

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112. Your Shameless Guide To Role Play Oct 26, 2022

Halloween is fast approaching and this year we are ON THEME. We're revisiting role play and diving even deeper with expert tips, personal stories, LOTS of research, and input from our lovely listeners. We chat about:

What role play is
Judging your fantasies and desires
Benefits of role play
Working through embarrassment, nervousness, or shame
Planning and set up
Talking with your partner
Specific scenarios

Experts Featured:

Kait Scalisi, @passionbykait

Lala Loves, @lalasbedtimetales

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111. Initiating Sex: How To Do It, Take Off The Pressure, & Get Past The Hard Stuff Oct 19, 2022

It’s time for INITIATION… but like the consensual, fun, sex kind. If you’ve ever wondered how to initiate sex, struggled with a fear of rejection, or are looking for long term initiation tips, this episode is for you! We chat with some of our favorite experts AND share our own struggles to bring you one hell of a guide… We cover:

Obstacles to initiating sex
Fear of rejection
How to take the pressure of off initiation
Fun, indirect ways to initiate sex
Sexy and very direct ways to initiate sex
Finding the right words
Initiating while in a long term relationship

Experts Featured:

Jessie Fresh, Intimacy & Relationship Coach, @jessiefresh
Lisa Welsh, Sex & Pleasure Educator, @inbedwithlisa
Ari Antwine, Sexologist & Bisexuality Coach, @sensualle.education
Vanessa and Xander Marin, Sex Therapist & Husband, @vanessamarintherapy

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110. Your Guide To Choking & Breath Play Oct 12, 2022

DISCLAIMER: there is NO completely SAFE way to engage in choking/breath play, this episode will discuss safety measures, better practices, and consent, but is only an introduction. We encourage you to take part in further education alongside an expert BEFORE engaging in the practices discussed.

Hope you’re ready for an episode that’ll ✨take your breath away✨. Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire are on the pod and talking all thinking breath play, including choking. We cover:

What breath play is (because it’s a lot more than you think)
Precautions and safety
Finding your MOAN
Breathing patterns
How to *properly* engage in choking
Finding the right partner to engage in breath play with
Face sitting

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109. Playing With Balls: Tea Bagging, Handies, & Going For The Taint Oct 05, 2022

We're getting ✨ballsy✨ and chatting all things testicle play with Jake Mossop, a Registered Nurse! We talk about:

Why it's enjoyable to play with testicles
Types of touch (pressure, squeezing etc.)
The importance of lube
When to include testicle play and how to combine with other types of play
What tea bagging is
Positioning
Using your mouth
Taint play
Incorporating toys

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BONUS EPISODE: Abortion Resources Post Roe v. Wade Sep 30, 2022

Michelle Hope, sexologist, activist and Director of Social Impact and Strategic Communications at SIECUS, joins us to talk post-Roe action items and resources. We discuss:

What Roe v. Wade is, what happened, and how we actually got here
The role of comprehensive sex education
Resources for states that have lost access to abortion
Getting involved in your community

Resources:

Three For Freedom

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108. Birth Control 101: Know Your Options & Ditch The Myths Sep 28, 2022

THE Dr. Jennifer Lincoln is on the pod and ready to talk ALL things birth control. We chat about:

Common myths and misconceptions (i.e. infertility, negative health impacts etc)
Whether "hormone balancing" is legit and if "hormone imbalances" are the cause of all your issues
WHY we tend to demonize birth control
Types of birth control methods (hormonal vs non hormonal)
Plan B: what it is, how to use it & when to use it
What actually is an abortion and what are the types of abortions
REALLY COOL FREE RESOURCES like Bedsider and a very special little giveaway we're doing with them 👀

✨GIVEAWAY INSTRUCTIONS✨ Bedsider gifted us a big 'ol box of swag, so obviously we're doing a giveaway. All you have to do is share THIS episode to your Instagram story (or grid) and TAG US (@honeydewmepodcast). Giveaway closes October 7th 2022. Can only ship within the US.

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107. Emma & Cass Dew Spicy Home Videos Sep 21, 2022

Emma and Cass thought it high time to break out the video cameras and record something spicy. Now it’s time to share all the dirty deets and unpack how it went. We chat about:

Planning for your sex tape (vibes, roleplay, positions etc.)
Setting up your physical space (camera angles, lighting, background music etc.)
Options for when you are NOT ready to record yourself
What went wrong…
Finding what feels authentic and pleasurable to YOU
Alternatives to the “up close and personal” recording style

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106. Audio Erotica: Enhance Your Sex Life, Improve Your Dirty Talk & Explore Your Fantasies Sep 14, 2022

Lala, creator of Lala’s Bedtime Tales, is here to chat about all things AUDIO EROTICA. We discuss:

What audio erotica is and what makes for GOOD audio erotica
Why fans of ASMR are going to LOVE audio erotica
Improving your dirty talk
Using audio erotica alone and with a partner
How to discuss audio erotica with a partner
Benefits of listening to audio erotica
Using audio erotica to explore your fantasies and different types of sex
Finding ways to make safety and prep SEXY

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105. Answering Your Questions: People Pleasing, Toxic Traits, & Fear Of Cheating Sep 07, 2022

Victoria Albina, NP, MPH is BACK and this time she’s answering YOUR questions about codependency, relationships, and sex. We discuss:

Mismatched libidos
Having your own back & showing up for your needs
What to do if you’re partner isn’t following through
People pleasing
Understanding what your intuition is telling you
Fear of being cheated on
Supporting a partner with depression, while supporting yourself
Trying to justify a partner’s toxic behavior
The “why don’t we just break up then” come back during fights

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104. Life's Too Short For Boring Sex: Sexy Games, Confidence & Quickies Aug 31, 2022

In this episode we’re chatting with Lisa Welsh, a sex and pleasure educator who’s dedicated to helping you build self-worth and banish boring sex. We discuss:

Lisa’s playful approach to sexuality
What we’re doing that makes sex feel boring, subpar, or “meh”
How to work through shame
How to actually check in with yourself during sex
Fun sex games to play in the bedroom
Body mapping
Having sex when you’re in a rush (aka a quickie)
Is there such a thing as too silly or goofy when it comes to sex?

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103. How To Build A Kick Ass Relationship: Overcoming Commitment Issues & Breaking Relationship Patterns Aug 24, 2022

In this episode we're chatting with Alicia Davon, a relationship and romance expert, about what it takes to build a successful relationship. We discuss:

What a "successful" and "unsuccessful" relationship looks like (hint: success doesn't necessarily mean long term or headed towards marriage)
How commitment is actually a type of freedom
Working through commitment issues
Romanticizing the messy parts of life and relationships
Whether you can move from incompatibility to compatibility
Relationship patterns and what YOUR pattern says about you
How to do this work if your single
A VERY special offer from Alicia to attend her upcoming course for FREE 👀

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102. Uncensored Questions: Footjobs, Micropenises, & F*cking Your Ex Aug 17, 2022

Cat is BACK and so are her answers to your UNCENSORED questions. This time we’re getting even spicier and diving into foot fetishes, f*cking your ex, how to pleasure a smaller peen, and SO MUCH MORE. Cat walks us through the “what are we” conversation, the “I need you to get better at fingering” conundrum, and some sure fire ways to keep the heat in your long distance relationship. Tune in now for some hot takes, killer advice, and a very good time.

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101. What If The Sex Is Bad? Aug 10, 2022

What do you do if the sex is bad? Try and fix it? Let it work itself out? Or walk away and never look back? We’re exploring all these options (and more) with Psychosexual Therapist, Kate Moyle. She breaks down why sex can be bad (even if you really like the person you’re doing it with), how to start a conversation about it, and quick tips for in the moment corrections. We also unpack the shame that comes with “being bad in bed,” what to do if you think you’re the one that’s bad at sex, and how to deal with critical feedback.

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100. Dominance, Period Sex & Threesomes WOO! Aug 03, 2022

ONE HUNDRED EPISODES OF PURE UNADULTERATED PLEASURE... or at the very least, advice to help get you there. We have officially entered the triple digits which means it's high time we check in on the WILD (lol) sex lives of your hosts. We're chatting about our current obsession with dominance, including dirty talk, being told what to do, and letting our submissive sides shine. We also dive into period sex to discuss our thoughts, hold ups, and past experiences. Lastly, we're getting curious about threesomes and chatting about guidelines, positions, and whether we're diggity down to try one.

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99. Sex As A (Highly) Sensitive Badass Jul 27, 2022

SURPRISE... we're sensitive AF (lol not a surprise at all). But how do you bang when you're such a sensitive B? Jessie Fresh, a Sexuality & Intimacy Coach, is ready to break it all down for us. We chat about triggers, sensory issues, setting yourself up for success, and using your sensitivity to your advantage. YES, you read that right, TO YOUR DAMN ADVANTAGE, because being sensitive is also a superpower.

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98. Revamp Your Relationship & Get Off On Jealousy Jul 20, 2022

This week we are reframing relationships AND jealousy with Dr. Joli Hamilton, a psychologist and sex educator who helps people custom build their relationships. We dive into the concept of “creative monogamy” and learn how to build a relationship based on our wants and needs, rather than “shoulds” and “have to’s”. We also explore jealousy and find ways to work with it, learn from it, and even GET OFF from it.

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97. Sex & Mental Health: Struggling With Arousal, Getting Your Needs Met & Worthiness Wounds Jul 13, 2022

This week we’re exploring the link between sex and mental health and OH HONEY… have we got some “aha” moments waiting for you! Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, is walking us through arousal, desire, worthiness, and giving us ALL the actionable tips and no BS advice we’ve been craving. We also tackle the concept of whether you need to be “whole” or “healed” in order to be in relationship or receive pleasure and you might be surprised by Nicoletta’s answer 👀

As if that wasn’t enough, we also discuss:

Sex magic
ADHD and sex
Sex in sensory deprivation tanks

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96. Sex On Drugs: Antidepressants, Anxiety & Stress... OH MY! Jul 06, 2022

Okay Honey, it’s time we talk about sex and antidepressants (but also anxiety, stress, and depression). Sex on drugs aint easy, which is why we’re talking with Dr. Jordan Rullo and getting ALL the tips on how to deal. We cover the basic science behind it all, changes in sex drive and sexual function, fight or flight during sex, and a whole lot more. In addition to actionable steps, we talk through mourning your sexual self, reframing your sexual experiences, and how to support a partner who is struggling with these changes.

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95. The Secret To Hot Sex In A Long Term Relationship Jun 29, 2022

Everyone’s heard of “The Honeymoon Phase,” but what comes after that? Do you CUM after that?! Irene Fehr, a sex and intimacy coach, is here to talk us through the many stages of sex in a long term relationship, including all the lulls, dips, and highs. We cover the death of sex, the roommate phase, how to keep it spicy, and the secret to having good sex ALL THE DAMN TIME. We also dive into mismatched libidos and how to support your relationship when you’re in a lull.

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94. How Codependence Is Affecting Your Sex Life Jun 22, 2022

Hope you’re ready for a LIFE CHANGING episode because you’re about to hit play on one. Victoria Albina (aka our new favorite human) is breaking down how codependence impacts us both inside the bedroom and out. We chat people pleasing, outsourcing validation, not being present and how ALL of that impacts the sex we’re having. And if you’re like “yeah that’s me… now what?” we also cover how to start working towards interdependence (NOT radical independence) including simple, accessible exercises to get you there.

ALSO, Victoria (the sweet angel that she is) is giving all of us a free gift, so click the link below to access some of her bomb ass meditations:

https://victoriaalbina.com/honeydewme/

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93. How To Talk About Sex With A Partner: Faking Orgasms, Flaccid Penises, & Asking For Validation Jun 15, 2022

Let's TALK baby... about sex of course. Gigi Engle is here to give us the low down on everything sexual communication. Whether you've been faking O's or just need a little validation, we've got ya. We also cover how to tell a partner you DON'T like something, what to do if you or your partner can't seem to stay hard, and oh so much more. This episode is sure to give you the confidence boost you need to talk the talk before you walk the walk (and by walk we mean BANG).

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92. How To F*ck Like A Bridgerton: Tantra For Connected, Passionate Sex Jun 08, 2022

Okay honeys... if you're anything like us you got a liiittle carried away when it came to the sex scenes of Bridgerton season 2. Don't get us wrong, we love season 1, but something about those PASSIONATE, CONNECTED moments just hits different. And now, WE WANT IT TOO! Cue Devi Ward Erickson, a Tantra expert who's here to give us all the tools we need to f*ck like a Bridgerton. From breathing techniques, to grounding, to touching, to eye contact we cover all the bases and learn how Tantra is both very accessible and practical.

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91. Uncensored Questions: Spicy Cum, Circumcision, & Gym Sex Jun 01, 2022

Something’s burning and it’s NOT my asshole… it’s YOUR uncensored questions. You asked and Cat, the sex and pleasure educator behind UNGIRL, is here to answer. Whether it’s spicy cum questions or curiosities around circumcision, we’re ready to go BALLS DEEP!

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90. Emma & Cass Dew (Mutual) Masturbation May May 25, 2022

Ever felt curious but absolutely TERRIFIED at the thought of mutual masturbation? Yeah, us too... but we DEWED it and now we're ready to tell you all about it. Emma details how she navigated mutual masturbation solo (she got creative and let's just say IT WORKED), while Cass walks through her experience masturbating with her partner right along side her. From insecurities and nervousness, to mind bowling orgasms and HUGE takeaways, we cover it all, folks.

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89. How Toys Will Transform Your Sex Life May 18, 2022

Dirty Lola is on the pod to give us the low down on all things sex toys. We chat about how to find your perfect toy, toys for penises, how to use a dildo, working through shame and so much more. Whether you’re lookin to boost your solo sesh or spice up your partnered play, we’ve got you covered.

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88. Stroke 101: How To Use Your Penis (Or Strap On) To Give Life Changing Pleasure May 11, 2022

Tyomi Morgan is BACK and this time we're talkin' stroke (aka penetration with a penis or strap on). Penetrative sex CAN be just as pleasurable as all the other sex acts we know and love, it just takes a little practice. From speed, to rhythm, to depth, there is so much to know when it comes to stroke (and don't worry, we cover it all). We also learn how to move your hips, where to aim during penetration, and how to make yourself queef (you'll understand it once you listen lol).

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87. A Shame-Free Guide To Living Your Best Single Life May 04, 2022

You are single and you are SUFFICIENT and if anyone makes you feel otherwise they can F*CK OFF. Shani Silver (aka the coolest person you’ll ever meet) is on the pod today to talk all about how awesome single hood can and SHOULD be, despite what society tells us. Your life deserves to be about so much more than finding “the one” and Shani will walk you through how to start living like it. We also talk about working through shame, what to do if you have little or no experience (spoiler alert: you’re perfect and don’t need to do anything), and so much more, so buckle up and listen in.

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86. Food Play: How To Have Extra Delicious Sex Apr 27, 2022

Hope your hungry... because this episode is a mouthful. We're talking food play with the one and only Shae Alexander and trust us when we say that there is so much more to food play than chocolate sauce and whipped cream (but don't worry, we cover that too). From food-gasms, to sexy food games, to yummy foreplay, this episode is sure to leave your tummy rumblin' ands your pussy quiverin'. Shae goes over some of the SEXIEST moves imaginable (real panty droppers if we do say so ourselves) and teaches us all how to embrace the damn mess.

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85. Your Complete Guide To Cum Shots Apr 20, 2022

We are coming in HOT with your complete guide to cum shots. We always ask the embarrassing questions, but now we’re ready to ruin our search histories and gather all the info you need to get cummed on (or cum on someone else). From positions, to dirty talk, to what to do as the receiver, we’ve got you covered the whole way through. We also share some of YOUR (our beloved listeners) thoughts on facials, alongside the advice of some of our favorite sex educators. Gear up and get ready to get wet, cuz you’re entering the splash zone baby.

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84. The Art of Seduction: How to Walk, Talk, & Touch Like A Bad Bitch Apr 13, 2022

Hey you sexy, seductive beast... it's time you hone in on your powers and start taking the world by storm. Danica Darling, a sex worker, exotic dancer, and lecturer, is here to help us do just that by teaching us the ins and outs of seduction. Whether it's a sexy walk, a powerful stance, or a mysterious gaze, this episode will give you detailed instructions on how to claim your confidence and make yourself irresistible. We also cover flirting, touching, and finding the balls to risk rejection.

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83. How To Quit Purity Culture Apr 06, 2022

We are finally talkin' PURITY CULTURE and, perhaps more importantly, we're talkin' all about how to ditch that bitch. Erica Smith, the creator of Purity Culture Dropout TM, is here to share all the dirty deets on what purity culture is, how it impacts our sex lives, and concrete steps for quitting. Whether it's the concept of virginity, your "body count", that gross/guilty feeling you get after sex, or the deep religious messaging you received as a child, purity culture has impacted the shit out of us and it's time to move the frick on to bigger and better things (orgasms... we mean orgasms).

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82. The Art of French Kissing Mar 30, 2022

We all know the power of a good kiss, but when you add in tongues the stakes raise even higher. How do you start? What rhythm do you use? How much is too much tongue? What about saliva? These are all questions we answer with our expert guest Raquel Savage. Raquel is a sex therapist and sex worker who bridges her experience in each area to give INCREDIBLE sex advice and education. Tune in so you can give the best damn kisses around.

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81. How To Transform Your Sex Life and Get What You Want Every Time Mar 23, 2022

This week we're learning how to build our ideal sex lives from the bottom up. Alexa Bowditch (aka That Sex Chick) is walking us through the whole process, from start to finish (and yes, you will be finishing). From figuring out WHAT you want, to finding WHO you want, to keeping it spicy once you've got it all, we cover the whole shabang. You deserve the best, so why not start creating it for yourself?!

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80. Butt Plugs: Level Up Your Ass Play, Find Your Perfect Fit & Overcome The Awkward Mar 16, 2022

Alicia Sinclair, the founder and CEO of COTR, Inc (aka the parent company to B-vibe, Le WAND, and The Cowgirl) is here to give us ALL her best tips on butt plugs. From finding your PERFECT fit (whether that's textured, vibrating, thrusting, rimming or adorned with a tail), to inserting that sucker right in your behind, this episode is sure to hold your hand the whole way through. And if you're a little nervous, no need to worry because we also walk through common mishaps and how to expertly avoid them.

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79. Doing It With Herpes... Because You Probably Will Mar 09, 2022

Ella Dawson, a sex and culture critic, is here to help us break down the stigma around doing it with herpes… because the thing is, you probably will. Over two thirds of the population is herpes positive (PSA: cold sores are herpes), but we aren’t talking about it, we rarely test for it (it isn’t included in a standard STI panel), and it can start to feel like a big, scary, faceless thing. We’re here to tell you that IT’S NOT A BIG DEAL, it’s totally manageable, and that everyone with a positive diagnosis can still have amazing sex. No matter who you are or what diagnosis you do or don't have, we highly recommend tuning in, learning up, and giving yourself ALL the well-deserved pleasure.

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78. Aftercare: F*ck Me Hard, Then Tell Me You Love Me Mar 02, 2022

POV: You just got railed and aren't sure if you should just go about your day or cuddle or... Well, we've got answers and pretty much all of them are AFTERCARE. Aftercare might not sound like the sexiest thing, but trust us when we say it will CHANGE YOUR SEX LIFE. Violet C is here to share all the best tips and tricks for creating a bomb ass aftercare routine. Turns out, aftercare is RIDICULOUSLY important when it comes to building the pleasurable and satisfying sex life you deserve. And if you're someone who's thinking "but I don't want to seem too needy," we've got you covered because here at Honeydew Me we firmly believe that having needs is SUPER F*CKING COOL. So press play and get to lovin' on yourself.

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77. Subbing 101: Praise Kinks, Brat Play and Restraints Feb 23, 2022

This week we're talking all about subbing (aka being the submissive) with Lina Dune of Ask A Sub. Whether you're looking to let go, find a new role play, or figure out if you're a brat in the bedroom, we've got all the answers comin your way. We also chat about praise kinks, dirty talk, sub toys and post coital dysphoria (aka the post sex blues). Go ahead and press play babe... that's an order ;)

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76. Car Sex: Unexpected Positions, Bomb Ass Foreplay, & Sexy Road Trip Games Feb 16, 2022

Buckle up honeys, we're hittin the road and the GPS is set to ORGASMS. Dr. Donna is here to give us all the tips and tricks we need to have AMAZING car sex. She breaks down positions, prep, solo sex, and even shares a few of her favorite sexy road trip games (and they are SOOOO much better than the license plate game...)

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Legality... there's some things to consider
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75. Why Your Puss Needs A Spa Day: Put A Stop To Random Itching, Smells, Ingrown Hairs, and Vulva Acne Feb 09, 2022

It’s time to give your sensitives a spa day and who better to lead us through than Therese Clark, the founder and CEO of Lady Suite. Turns out there’s a whole lot to know about vulva SKIN, including how to curate a routine that clears up the ingrowns, acne, random itches, and sweaty smells. Therese breaks down what we’re doing that’s attacking our skin barrier, while giving us alternatives to pamper the puss (or booty, or balls, or penis etc.)

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74. Blowjobs 101: How To Give The Best Performance Of Your Life Feb 02, 2022

Luna Matatas is BACK and this time we're talkin slob knobbin (lol). We're covering all the best tips and tricks for kissing that dirty D and we promise your life will never be the same. You'll learn where to focus, how to move your tongue, deep throating and how to make the sexiest eye contact of your life. If you're ready to rethink BJs and give the best performance of your life, THIS is the episode for you.

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73. Emma & Cass Dew Sex Toys Jan 26, 2022

We’re back and this time we’re dewin sex toys. From vibrating butt plugs, to bathtub attachments, we’re giving you the intimate details of what worked, what didn’t, and what we’ll definitely be trying again. Whether you’re looking for the most sensual night of your life or a toy that’ll get you there in 30 seconds, we’ve got you babe.

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72. How To Use Sensuality To Have The Best Sex Of Your Life Jan 19, 2022

It's time for a little SENSUAL seduction... but here's the thing, sensuality probably doesn't mean what you think it does. In this episode we're talking with sexuality doula, sex educator, and sensualist Ev'Yan Whitney and when we say that this is the kind of stuff that can change your life WE FREAKIN MEAN IT. Your solo sex sesh will never be the same after Ev'Yan walks us through how to tap into our sensuality; even while using sex toys. We also cover partnered play and how you can take steps towards creating an AMAZING sex life while watching Netflix on the couch (sounds too good to be true right?! It's not.)

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WHY you should tap into your sensuality
Concrete steps for connecting to your sensuality
Slowing down (it's v important and Ev'Yan breaks it down SO WELL)
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71. Nipplegasms 101: Everything You Need To Know To Play with Your Nips Jan 12, 2022

If you aren’t playing with your nips, you better get ready to start because Dr. Heather Bartos is here and she has ALL the tips we never knew we needed. We start out with some normalization, because YOUR NIPS ARE NORMAL, before diving into all the very specific ways to start stimulating your lovely little lumps. From mouth stuff, to hand stuff, we’ve got ya covered and let’s just say a nipple orgasm could definitely be in your future.

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How people of ALL genders can have nipple orgasms
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70. How To Love ‘Em & Leave ‘Em: The Secret To Having Casual Sex Without Heartbreak Jan 05, 2022

Think you’re “too emotional” for casual sex? That it can’t be empowering or that it’s just for men? Think again, because Lia Holmgren, a sex and relationship coach and author of the book “Hookup without Heartbreak” is here to give us all advice we need to have casual sex while feeling powerful as fuck. From finding the right partners, to advocating for your needs, to navigating the complicated feelings that can arise, Lia walks us through from start to finish… because YES, you will be finishing. Working through subconscious shame and messages Dealing with the “no” Clear communication (with examples) Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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69. Vulvas & Vaginas: Everything You Need To Know As A Haver, Lover, Or Grubber Dec 29, 2021

We would say this week is a time to review… but let’s be honest, we never actually got all the info we needed when it comes to our vulvas and vaginas (other than they’re “super complicated” *eye roll*). So, we brought on Janelle King an RN with a background in public health who has all the answers to ALL the questions we should have gotten answered YEARS AGO. We’re talkin smell, taste, look, bleached undies, pubic hair and everything else that has to do with that taco betwixt your legs. Gear up honey because in order to access your pleasure, you gotta know what you’re working with first. Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com OhMiBod | Get 10% off with code HONEYDEW10 at ohmibod.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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68. Bring Back Dry Humping Dec 22, 2021

We’re bringing back dry humping because let’s be honest… IT’S AWESOME and we never should have stopped. Samia Burton is here to give us the how-to, along with the WHY (aka the many benefits and uses). We cover what to wear, how to position yourself when to dry hump, and a whole lot more. We don’t love New Year’s Resolutions here at Honeydew Me, but we’re all for more dry humping in 2022. Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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67. How to Fingerbang Like a Pro Dec 15, 2021

It’s time to get handsy… or at least finger-y? Allison Moon, a sex educator and author of the book Girl Sex 101, is here to give us all the tips and tricks we need to become fingerbanging experts. We chat about technique, positions, strokes, misconceptions AND SO MUCH MORE. You can expect to get a good grasp on the basics, along with a few intermediate and advanced moves to really up your (or your partner’s) fingering game. We also chat about: Anatomy (you gotta know what you’re touching in order to touch it well) Incorporating oral What it feels like to finger someone Fingering for people with scrotums (aka muffing) Get Girl Sex 101 HERE! Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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66. Kink For Nice People Like You Dec 01, 2021

This week we’re redefining kink with Anne More, a Conscious Kink Coach, Somatic Sexologist, and all-around SUPERSTAR. Turns out you don't need a bunch of fancy toys or the confidence to act out a complicated scenario; Anne is here to give us all the deets on what we can do instead. You can expect ACCESSIBLE, APPROACHABLE, and SPICY ways to start exploring your kinky side. We cover a bunch of ways to get kinky (as always you can expect specific examples) AND spend some extra time diving into bondage and rope play. We also chat about: Finding toys around the house (AKA "pervertibles") Alternatives to dom/sub dynamic Container setting Kink myths Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Honeydew Me Merch: Click here for The Honey Tee Click here for Sweatshirts & Long Sleeves Connect with Anne: yesannemore.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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65. Kiss Cramps & PMS Goodbye Nov 24, 2021

Who was gonna tell us that sucky PMS and period pain aren't NORMAL?! They may be common, but Berrion Berry, AKA your new period-loving bestie, is here to give us all the deets on why they aren't "just a part of having your period." Get ready for a crash course in all things menstruation, including the lifestyle changes that'll get you in "flow," a little anatomy lesson, and of course period sex. We also chat about: What IS normal Food and movement Period pain relief Resources from the episode: Free Grocery List Free Recipes from Berri's eBook Cervical Mucus Image Cervix Placement Moody Girl Chocolate Semaine (plant-based period pain relief) use code BERRI20 Berri's period tea Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Aurelia | Get 10% off with code DEWME at aureliabox.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with Berri: Berri's podcast Berri's IG Optimize Your Flo IG Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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64. Let's Talk Dirty with Susan Bratton Nov 17, 2021

Susan Bratton is BACK and this time she's sharing her best tips for talking dirty. From VERY specific examples (Susan doesn't hold back and we love her for it), to easy to use formulas, this episode has EVERYTHING you need to start getting naughty with your words. Resources: Dirty Talk Book The Sexual Soulmate Pact Expand Her Orgasm Tonight Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Want more Susan? Us too... betterlover.com personallifemedia.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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63. Stop "Shoulding" On Yourself And F*ck The Way You Want To Nov 10, 2021

Here's what we're not gonna do... "should" on ourselves when it comes to sex. Your pleasure is LIMITLESS, so it's high time to stop limiting ourselves. Rae McDaniels, a therapist and gender coach who specializes in working with trans and non-binary folks, is here to give us all the juicy deets on how. From degendering sex acts, to finding pleasure in a body we want to change, this episode is FULL of shame-busting secrets for any and everyone. We also chat about: Gender freedom, scripts, and deconstructing gender norms Sex toys for sexual affirmation Body neutrality Feminine and masculine energies... what's the real deal? Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Aurelia | Get 10% off with code DEWME at aureliabox.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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62. Emma and Cass Dew Kink Nov 03, 2021

We got kinky and we're ready to tell you ALL about it. From bed restraints, to impact play, to a lil hot wax, we dove headfirst into the world of kink. We cover what worked, what definitely didn't, and what we're dying to try again. We cover: Blindfolds Handcuffs & bed restraints Wax play & temperature play Paddles Pain play Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Aurelia | Get 10% off with code DEWME at aureliabox.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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61. Eat Your Way to Better Sex Oct 27, 2021

From lubrication to sensitivity, it turns out the food we eat has a HUGE impact on the kind of sex we’re having. Christine DeLozier, an acupuncturist, herbalist and author of the book Diet For Great Sex, is here to drop the delicious deets on how to eat for better sex. We cover all the foods you can start incorporating to increase your libido, up your arousal, and intensify your orgasms. We also dive into aphrodisiacs and how to utilize them for both IMMEDIATE and long-term results. We also chat about: Hormone imbalance (testosterone, estrogen, stress, dopamine etc.) Blood flow Nerve pathways Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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60. Is Ice the Secret to Multiple Orgasms? Oct 20, 2021

We’re adding some spice by adding in some…ice? Yep, you read that right, and believe us when we tell you that it is a POWERFUL tool to have in your sexual toolbox. Dr. Lanae St. John, a Sexologist and Educator, is here to drop all the chilly deets on how to use ice to enhance your pleasure. Then we’re putting Lanae’s tips to the test by adding in a little Emma & Cass Dew and giving you the full rundown of how using ice went for ya girls. Let’s just say the orgasms were PLENTIFUL 😏 We also chat about: Safety concerns Incorporating toys Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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59. The Blueprint To Your Best Sex Life Oct 13, 2021

Ever heard of Erotic BlueprintsTM ? Turns out they’re the KEY to accessing your best sex life ever. Ally Jewel, an intimacy and Certified Erotic BlueprintTM Coach, is here to break down each of the five blueprints (The Energetic, The Sensual, The Sexual, The Kink, or The Shapeshifter) and as a result, get us all one (or a million) steps closer to having INCREDIBLE sex. It’s kinda like your astrological sign, so by the end of the episode, you’ll have clear actionable steps and a roadmap to YOUR personal pleasure town. We also chat about: Key turn-ons for each blueprint The "superpower" and "shadow" of each blueprint Sexual acts/experiences for each blueprint Take the Erotic BlueprintTM Quiz HERE! Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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58. Let That Shit Go: Body Neutrality for Better Sex Oct 05, 2021

Brenna O’Malley, a non-diet dietitian, is here to help us navigate the crunchy feelings that tend to arise when we start unpacking our relationships with our bodies. We take a deep dive into what it means to be body neutral, whether or not affirmations are total BS, and how to navigate the more vulnerable body image moments (like when you’re in the middle of having sex…) We finish off with Brenna’s top tip for fueling an amazing sex life and it’s VERY IMPORTANT, so be sure to stick around. We also cover: External and internal boundaries Food in the context of dating Diet culture Diet talk Sponsors & Partners: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Connect with us: via TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube via honeydewmepodcast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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57. Eat Ass the Right Way with Dr. Evan Goldstein Sep 29, 2021

Who's ready to eat some ass?! Not so sure? Yeah, us either. Luckily, Dr. Evan Goldstein is here to give us all a crash course on how to do it properly. We also cover anal fingering techniques, prostate massage, anal toys, and even butthole botox. From toots, to poop, to getting yourself prepped, there's a lot that goes into analingus (aka the fancy way to say eating ass) ... so press play and get ready for a deep dive into your behind. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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56. Role-Play: Take Your Sex Life To The Next Level Sep 22, 2021

All aboard honeys, we’re headed to imagination station. Kait Scalisi is here and we’re talking ROLE-PLAY. Whether you’re working through intimidation (aka the thought of role-play makes you v nervy) or you’re struggling to find a scenario that feels “authentic” to you, this episode has your back bb. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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55. Six Sexy Tips You Can't Live Without Sep 15, 2021

It's been a hell of a year here at Honeydew Me and we're in the mood for a little reflection. From butt stuff, to handies, to doin it doggy style, we're diving into some of the juiciest tips we've gotten over the past year. These are the GAME CHANGERS, the life-altering pieces of advice that we simply CANNOT live without. Oh and to top it all off, we've got a few super special surprises sprinkled throughout. Press play to start celebrating the Birthday Bitch herself, Honeydew Me! Connect with us on: Instagram Youtube Submissions Email: hdmsubmissions@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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54. Finding Your Turn Ons, Asking To Be F*cked, and Name Slips Sep 08, 2021

Cassandra Corrado is here to talk turn-ons and trust us when we tell you that this episode DELIVERS. From figuring out what flips your switch, to telling your partner they killed the mood, we’ve got ya covered. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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53. Scheduling Sex, Keeping It Hot, and Overcuming Sex Problems Sep 01, 2021

Vanessa and Xander Marin (she's a psychotherapist and he's just a regular guy) join us to discuss sex in the context of long-term relationships. We talk about how to keep it spicy (spoiler: it won't always be and that's OKAY), how to navigate sex-related issues, and whether or not it's cool to schedule sex. It's basically the sex therapy session we've all been waiting for. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | Get 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Foria | Get 20% off with code HONEYDEWME20 at foriawellness.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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52. The Secret to Stronger Orgasms and Lasting Longer in Bed Aug 25, 2021

🎶 [WE'RE] ON THE EDGE OF... orgasms?! 🎶 That's right, the beautiful Lily Lemire is here to give us the lowdown on edging. Like, why THE HECK people even do it, what the benefits are, and how to edge without losing your O. This episode has all the answers, so hit play and get ready for some POWERFUL orgasms. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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51. How to Let Loose and Have the Best Sex of Your Life Aug 18, 2021

Ready to be your wild, authentic self in the bedroom? We thought so. Jeneka Jool is here to give us all the tips and tools we need to have the uninhibited sex we freakin deserve. From working through cringe-worthy moments (aka letting one rip), to discovering who YOU are (a growler, a cryer, a screamer etc.), this episode is sure to get you one step closer to LETTING THE F*CK GO. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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50. Scissoring with Lisa Finn Aug 11, 2021

In this episode, we're scissoring with the incredible Lisa Finn... well not actually, but we are getting all the juicy deets on how. We start out by busting through myths (spoiler alert: scissoring is very real) before jumping into the VERY SPECIFIC how-to's. From positioning to rhythm, to limbering up beforehand, we're taking you all the way from start to finish 💦 Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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49. Emma & Cass Dew Sexting Aug 04, 2021

In this episode, we’re going FULL SEND and talking sexting. From navigating nudes, to finding the words, to incorporating toys, we tried it all and are ready to share every dirty little detail. If oversharing and actionable tips are something your into, go ahead and press play, Honey 😉 Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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48. Flex Your Sex Muscles with MaryEllen Reider Jul 28, 2021

Hope you’re ready to WERK because in this episode we’re diving deep into the pelvic floor and learning how to (properly) flex our sex muscles. We’ve all heard of kegels, but turns out we probably aren’t doing them right and even if we are, they may not be the CORRECT exercise for your specific body. WILD! We know. Luckily MaryEllen Reider, Co-Director of Yarlap, a kegel exercise device company, is here to share all the info we didn’t even know we were missing. Spoiler Alert: We tried Yarlap and we LOVE it. If you want to try it too, use code DEWME for $35 off. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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47. The Swinging Lifestyle with Bella and Jase Jul 21, 2021

Take a seat Honey, because we’re going SWINGING. Bella and Jase are here to walk us through what an ethically non-monogamous relationship can actually look like, as well as the many benefits, necessary tools, and SPICY STORIES they’ve collected along their journey. Whether you’re strictly monogamous or ready to dip your toe into the world of swinging, this episode is sure to give you something to think about 😉 Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Resources from the episode: Use code DEWME for 10% off at 4ourplay.com 30 days free full membership to Kasidie.com: https://www.kasidie.com/?referredby=BellaAndJase 30 days free full membership to SDC.com: https://w3.sdc.com/v1/signup.php?ref=36062 List of swingers clubs in the US: https://www.youngswingers.me/club-listings.html Connect with Bella & Jase: 4OURPLAY Podcast Bella's Instagram Jase's Instagram 4OURPLAY Instagram 4OURPLAY TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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46. Overhaul Your Sex Life with Layla London Jul 14, 2021

If you're ready for some MAJOR changes, then this episode is for you honey bunny. Layla London walks us through the steps she took to completely overhaul her sex life after a 3.5 year celibacy period. If you're feeling bored, uninspired, or just looking for a little more spice, Layla has you covered. So get ready for some sexy stories and actionable steps from a woman who's been there, done that, and is now a total pro. Sponsor: MANSCAPED | GET 20% off and free shipping with code DEWME at manscaped.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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45. Emma & Cass Dew Shower Sex Jul 07, 2021

We went in blind and came out wet. Yep, you guessed it, we tried shower sex and are ready to tell you every last detail. We cover what worked, what didn’t, and all the parts we hope to soon forget.

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44. How to Feel Sexy and Confident in the Bedroom Jun 30, 2021

Have you ever tried to hide part of your body during sex? Or maybe you've gotten so wrapped up in how you look, that you forgot to focus on how you feel? Because honestly, SAME. Lucky for us, Ari Antwine is here to give us a step-by-step guide on how to feel sexy and confident during sex. This episode is a LIFE changer, so gear up honey, because these are tools you can start using TODAY (or tonight 😉)! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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43. How To Be Dominant with Sir Ezra Jun 23, 2021

Ever wanted to take control in the bedroom, but had no idea how? This is the episode for you, Honey. Sir Ezra walks us through finding your authentic dom style (spoiler alert: you don’t have to be scary and stone cold), how to start exploring the dom/sub dynamic, and so much more. If you're a beginner to BDSM or looking for a refresh, you’re in the right place. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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42. How Lube Will Change Your Sex Life Jun 16, 2021

In this episode we’re getting wet n’ wild with Dr. Tanya Bass and bringing you the low down on LUBE. We chat about the different types of lube, when and how to use them, and why it’s so damn important. Lube makes everything better, and HONEY, you deserve better. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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41. Let's Ma$turbate with Rachel Maine Jun 09, 2021

In this episode we’re making sweet sweet love… TO OURSELVES. Sex and pleasure educator Rachel Maine is here to walk us through the ultimate act of self-love, masturbation. We bust through shame, learn how to spice up our stale routines, and even find ways to include a partner. If you’ve got a v or you love someone who does, this episode is sure to change the game! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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40. Your Guide to Sixty-Nine with Carly S. Jun 02, 2021

In this episode, pleasure educator Carly S. covers the logistics of the almighty 69. Whether your overwhelmed by all the moving parts, looking for a less vulnerable modification, or ready to spice it up even more, you’ll find your answers in this very honest guide! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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39. Doing it Doggy Style with August McLaughlin May 26, 2021

August McLaughlin walks us through the logistics of doing it doggy style, including positions, rhythm, and all those potentially embarrassing moments like queefing and slippage. Whether you’re looking to increase the intimacy or add a bit of spice, this episode is sure to help you up your doggy style game. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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38. Unleash Your Conscious Cock with Kristopher Lovestone May 19, 2021

If you’re ready for a rundown on all the things that men should have learned in sex ed, but didn’t, this is the episode for you. Kristopher Lovestone is a sex educator and author of the book Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men. From lasting longer in bed, to prostate health, to grade a communication strategies, this episode has all of the “cock talk” you’ve been missing in your life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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37. Sticking Stuff Up His Butt with Mistress Kay May 12, 2021

Kink educator Mistress Kay walks us through how to start sticking stuff up HIS butt (or really anyone with a penis/prostate). We cover fingers, toys, and even pegging. After this episode, you’ll be fully equipped to knock on someone’s back door. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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36. Electrify Your Sex Life with Sunny Megatron May 05, 2021

Usually, we’re all about adding spice, but this week we’re adding a little lightening to your sex life. Cue sex educator, Sunny Megatron; here to give us the ultimate rundown on all things electricity play. Not sure what that is? No prob, because as always we cover the basics before diving into the how to’s. Electricity play is a form of sensation play and can also be used in BDSM (but don’t worry, you don’t have to enjoy pain to reap the benefits.) In this episode, you’ll learn which toys are worth trying, how to start incorporating them into sexy time, and perhaps most importantly, how to have hands free, solo orgasms…Yep. You read that right. Resources from the episode: Use code SUNNY for 15% off at The Stockroom (aka go get your neon wand!) Connect with Sunny: sunnymegatron.com @sunnymegatron on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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35. Squirting with Shae Alexander Apr 28, 2021

Gear up, Honey…you’re entering THE SPLASH ZONE. In this episode we’re going full force and talking about SQUIRTING. We chat with the lovely Shae Alexander, a sex educator and true expert on the elusive juices. She breaks down the basics (I.e. what the heck squirting even is), before diving into the logistics of how to squirt!Whether you’re a curious kitten or your ready to make you’re splashing debut, this is an episode you do not want to miss. We also talk about: The G-Spot The difference between squirting and orgasms Clean up Talking with your partner about squirting Connect with Shae: @shaeislove on Instagram Talk Sex Education with Shae on Youtube @talksexwithshae on Clubhouse shaedaily.com If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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34. Let's Get Horny with Susan Bratton Apr 21, 2021

Buckle up, Honey, because you are in for a WILD RIDE. Intimacy expert Susan Bratton quite literally had us picking our jaws up off the floor, so when we say this episode is a game changer, we are not fucking kidding. We cover libido, desire, throat orgasms, cock worship, a salad dressing recipe and SO. MUCH. MORE. If you’re ready to revamp your sex life and GET HORNY, go ahead and hit that play button! We also talk about: The difference between libido, desire, and arousal How to care for your libido The Soulmate Embrace (this is our favorite part...) Susan's Resources: sexualsoulmatepact.com soulmateembrace.com threelicks.com betterlover.com Susan's Website: personallifemedia.com Connect with Susan: @susanbratton on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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33. Find Someone You Love (To Bang) with Francesca Hogi Apr 14, 2021

We’ve talked A LOT about sex, but this week we’re doing something a little different and talking about how to find someone to have sex with... AKA dating. Francesca Hogi is a love coach with all the wisdom and advice we wish we had when we were 15, but hey, better late than never. We dive into mindset (spoiler alert it’s v important), red flags, how to know if someone is “the one,” and of course we couldn’t help but talk about our one true love, SEX. If you’re ready to have your world rocked and your dating life reinvigorated, you better hit play because this is a game changer Honey. We also talk about: Franny's Puke Test Dating during COVID How rejection isn't real Connect with Franny: @dearfranny on Instagram francescahogi.com Dear Franny Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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32. Have Fun Giving Blowjobs with Azaria Menezes Apr 07, 2021

PSA: Blow jobs can be pleasurable for EVERYONE involved. Yep, you read that right, even the giver. WHO FRICKIN KNEW?! Lucky for us, sex and relationship coach Azaria Menezes is here to give us all a rundown on how to give a killer blow job and perhaps more importantly, how to enjoy doing it. We cover logistics (i.e. what to do when you're down there), how to add some spice, and SO MUCH MORE. Tune in for an episode that could just change you life (no promises, but like maybe!) We also talk about: BALLS How to feel into your body The power of "fuck YES" Connect with Azaria: azariamenezes.com @azaria.menezes on Instagram Getting Intimate Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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31. Going Down with Luna Matatas Mar 31, 2021

In this episode we take a trip down south with pleasure coach, Luna Matatas (aka going down, eating out, oral sex with a vulva, you get the idea). We start out by busting through ALL. THE. SHAME. Smell? Look? Taste? No worries here, honey, because Luna talks us through all of it. Then we dive head first into the logistics of eating out. You’re gonna learn the best tongue tricks, how to incorporate fingers, what positions you gotta start trying and so much more. Whether you’re the giver or the receiver, this episode is overflowing with all the juicy tips you need to have a great time when you or your partner heads downtown. Connect with Luna: lunamatatas.com @lunamatatas on Instagram Luna's Youtube Channel If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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30. Find Your Fetish with Jet Setting Jasmine Mar 24, 2021

We're taking a deep dive into fetishes this week with Master Fetish Trainer Jet Setting Jasmine. As always, we cover the very basics, like what a fetish even is, before jumping into the big stuff like how to start engaging in your personal fetishes (spoiler alert: you definitely have one). We end the episode by narrowing in on impact play and covering the logistics of it from start to finish. Do NOT deprive yourself of this fun, funky, fetish filled episode! We also talk about: How SEXY consent can be What it's like to be a Master Fetish Trainer Common fetishes Connect with Jasmine: jsjlinks.com @jetsetjasmine on Instagram @jetsetjasmine on Twitter If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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29. Emma and Cass Dew Butt Stuff Mar 17, 2021

Welcome to the first episode of our new segment: Emma & Cass Dew where we take on a sexy subject, try it out, and tell you how it went. In this episode we take a deep dive into butt stuff, only this time, we're getting personal. We took on the mighty task of trying butt stuff for the first time and we're ready to tell you all about it. From anal beads, to butt plugs, to anal sex, we're getting brutally honest and very vulnerable. We're sharing the good, the bad, and the ugly, alongside our top tips for butt stuff beginners. And let's just say, we feel like whole new women... We also chat about: What we would have done differently The biggest "issues" we ran into Our major takeaways If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram @honeydewme.podcast on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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28. Become a Great Kisser with Kody Elsayed Mar 10, 2021

Pucker up, Honey, because this week’s episode is taking you to first base. Kissing. Our guest Kody Elsayed gives us a refresher on the basics before diving into the spicier side of locking lips. We cover how to use your tongue, what to do with your hands, and how to kiss places other than lips. From novice to expert, there’s a little something in this episode for everyone. We also talk about: How to initiate a kiss How to practice kissing without a partner What NOT to do Connect with Kody: @ohhkody on TikTok @ohhkody on Instagram BOY TALK Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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27. Give Life-Changing Hand Jobs with Ashley Manta Mar 03, 2021

PSA: Hand jobs are still cool. In fact, they can change lives. Just ask Ashley Manta, an award winning sex and relationship coach who is said to give the Ferrari of hand jobs. Yep, you read that right, and she came on Honeydew Me to teach us all how to do the same. We cover the basics, like stroke and pressure, all the way up to more advanced positions and tricks that we can’t wait to try out. Tune in if you’re ready to put those hands to good use! We also talk about: What to do with the balls What to do when they...finish Lube and other necessary prep Connect with Ashley: ashleymanta.com @cannasexual on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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26. Have All The Orgasms with Nell Walker Feb 24, 2021

Orgasms, what a gift. AMIRIGHT?! Here at Honeydew Me, we firmly believe that the more orgasms in your life, the better, so we brought on Nell Walker, an orgasm expert and pleasure coach whose life goal is to help every vulva owner GET OFF. Not only does Nell walk us through the basics of what an orgasm actually is, she also gives us the lowdown on how to optimize our sex lives for BIGGER, BETTER (and even MULTIPLE) orgasms. Count. Us. In. We also talk about: Masturbation techniques Types of orgasms (nipples, butt etc) Connect with Nell: nellthepleasurecoach.com @nellthepleasurecoach on Instagram @nellthepleasurecoach on TikTok If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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25. Sexual Fantasies with Dr. Joe Kort Feb 17, 2021

TW: Sexual assault, rape, abuse Want to get to know yourself better? Turns out your sexual fantasies are a great way start. Dr. Joe Kort, psychotherapist and clinical sexologist, joins us to discuss what our sexual fantasies mean, where they might come from, and how incredibly NORMAL they are. If you think your fantasies are "weird" or "wrong", then this is the fun and funky episode for you because SPOILER ALERT... there's no room for shame in the fantasy game (but consent is always required). We also chat about: Common sexual fantasies What to do when you and your partner have mismatched fantasies How to start exploring your fantasies Connect with Dr. Joe Kort: joekort.com @drjoekort on TikTok @drjoekort on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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24. Truth or Drink: A Tipsy Tell-All with Emma & Cass Feb 10, 2021

Hope you're ready to get a little fun and funky this week, because your hosts are bringing you that and so. much. more. We asked friends, strangers, and exes (yes…EXES) to give us their cringiest sex questions and then gave ourselves two options: answer OR drink. Spoiler alert…we did a lot of both. From queefing to shower sex to our most embarrassing attempts at role play, this episode covers it all. As per usual, we're very tipsy, extremely honest, and just doin the damn thing. If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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23. Ride 'Em Cowgirl with Tyomi Morgan Feb 03, 2021

Saddle up, Honey, because we're getting ready to ride! Tyomi Morgan, AKA Glamazon Tyomi, is a certified Sexologist, Pleasure Coach, and Cowgirl expert. We start off with the basics of being on top and how to become the confident rider you're destined to be. If this isn't your first rodeo, no worries, we also learn how to take this sex position to the next level and leave your partner (and yourself) *whimpering* for more. Despite the name, cowgirl position is for EVERYONE (including queer couples), so grab your partner and get ready to say "YEEEHAAWW." We also chat about: Becoming d!ck assassins Positions and strokes What about my butthole?! and other common concerns Resources: Sign up for the Cowgirl Workout HERE! Connect with Tyomi: @realglamazontyomi on Instagram glamerotica101.com If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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22. Sex Dreams with Anne Hodder-Shipp Jan 27, 2021

Dream big, Honey, because it turns out your dreams have a lot to tell you. Anne Hodder-Shipp is a sexuality and relationship educator who’s ready to help you change your life, by tapping into your dreams. We talk about what sex dreams really mean, how to start your own dream interpretation practice, and whether or not your “naughty” dreams say anything about the real you. We also talk about: Cheating dreams Nightmares Wet dreams Additional Resources: FREE Meditation to Work Through Nightmares from Anne's Teacher Kezia Vida Interactive Dream Journal Connect with Anne: annehoddershipp.com @theannehodder on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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21. Make Your Sex Life Magic Jan 20, 2021

What if we said that YOUR ORGASMS are MAGIC?! Well, turns out they are. In this episode we talk with Ani Ferlise, a Spiritual and Self-Love coach who's here to remind us all that "home is in your bones." We explore the life changing power of sex magic and the rituals we can all start incorporating to find magic in the (seemingly) mundane. If you're ready to unleash your sexy powers and create the life you've been dreaming of, you've come to the right place! We also chat about: Ani's path to spirituality What it feels like to "come home" to your body Breath work The magic of the menstrual cycle Connect with Ani: @ani_ferlise on Instagram aniferlise.com Link to Ani's FREE Sex Magic Ebook If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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20. Foreplay and Seduction with Marla Renee Stewart Jan 13, 2021

Are you INCREDIBLE at foreplay? A master of seduction? No? Us either… but not to worry, your sex life is about to get a major upgrade with the help of one Marla Renee Stewart. Marla is a sexologist, sex strategist, and pleasure activist with a special talent for communication and seduction. In this episode, we talk about discovering your seduction style, finding spicy ways to initiate sex (because let's be honest "wanna have sex" isn't cutting it anymore), and how to get out of that damn foreplay rut. Hope your ready to become the badass seductress you've always wanted to be, because this episode is your first step! We also talk about… How long foreplay should be Secret sexy code words Overcoming rejection Resources from the episode… Marla's Seduction Style Quiz Marla's Erotic Activity Bucket List Connect with Marla: velvetlips.com @1marlastewart on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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19. Resolutions are Bullsh*t with Aubrey Wall Jan 06, 2021

New Year, New You? We call BULLSH*T, because you're already amazing! The start of a new year does not mean you have to start a new diet, a new exercise plan, or any other new thing that promises you a "bikini body" by June (hint: if you have a body and a bikini, you already have one). This episode is for anyone who has ever set a New Year's resolution to change their body (your hosts sure have). Aubrey Wall, a Body Image and Confidence Coach, is here to walk us through cultivating a positive relationship with fitness and how to rework our resolutions for a truly healthy year. We also talk about… Finding positive motivation How we use diets as our identities Skinny (diarrhea) teas Connect with Aubrey: @aubreywall on Instagram trainingforbodyacceptance.com Bodies in Motion Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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17. Reconnect to Your Body with Maggie Flood Dec 23, 2020

If you're ready to cozy up and *reconnect*, then this is the episode for you! We chat with Maggie Flood, a Chinese Medicine Doctor and Somatic Sex Educator with a knack for helping people release pain and shame. We walk through what it means to be disconnected from your body (hint: most of us are) and how to start the process of reconnecting. And don't worry...we bring it back to the basics, because let's be honest, this kind of stuff can get a little confusing. Connect with Maggie: sacral-spaces.com @sacral_spaces on Instagram Sacral Spaces with Maggie Flood Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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16. Getting Kinky with Dominatrix, Kimi Inch Dec 16, 2020

Get ready for a spicy episode, because this one is coming in HOT. Kimi Inch is a Professional Dominatrix, Kink Expert, and Somatic Healer who knows a thing or two about getting kinky. Lucky for us, she got back to the basics to give us a killer intro to kink. We talk about the life of a Dominatrix, how to know if you're kinky, and what to try first (see Kimi's "Kink Checklist" linked below). Don't be scared, it'll only hurt a little. We also talk about: Kimi's personal journey Finding your kink (Click Here for Kimi's "Kink Checklist") How to be more dominate The beauty of submission Connect with Kimi: kimiinch.com @kimiinch on Instagram @kimiinch on TikTok If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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14. Ditch Body Shame with Summer Innanen Dec 02, 2020

Summer Innanen is a badass body image coach who is ready to help you ACCEPT YOUR DAMN SELF. Summer talks us through ditching diet culture, shedding body shame, and creating a better relationship with that skin suit you're wearing. Get ready for some "aha" moments and actionable steps to start feeling comfortable in your body TODAY. We also talk about: Self-worth How family, friends, and media impact body image How loving your body doesn't have to be the goal Connect with Summer: Eat The Rules Podcast summerinnanen.com @summerinnanen on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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13. Sexting 101: Sending Nudes and Naughty Voice Notes with Eva Bloom Nov 25, 2020

Sexting is the name of the game this week and who better to chat with than a real life sexting researcher! In this episode, Eva Bloom helps us get back to the basics by teaching us all how to find the right (dirty) words, take sexy nudes, and send naughty voice notes. And if that wasn't enough for ya, stay tuned after the interview for some hilarious sexting stories that YOU (our listeners) shared with us. We also talk about: The benefits of sexting Consensual vs non-consensual sexting Sexting *optimization* Connect with Eva: What's My Body Doing on Youtube @whatsmybodydoing on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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12. Fake Nipples: Look Cold, Feel Hot with Molly Borman Nov 20, 2020

In this episode, we chat with Molly Borman, Founder and CEO of Just Nips, a fake nipple company that wants you to look cold and feel hot. We talk all about Molly's creative process, how and when to wear them, and most importantly, how her grandma has managed to single handedly equip every valet in Florida with their very own pair of Nips. Not sure if you're confident enough to keep your headlights on? Tune in, because I bet we can convince you to give it a try! We also talk about: Confidence and sexual expression Just Nips and survivors of breast cancer How there's no such thing as too sexy Connect with Molly: justnipsforall.com @justnipsforall on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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10. Butt Stuff with Tristan Taormino Nov 11, 2020

In this episode, we go deep with Tristan Taormino, sex educator, feminist author, and anal pleasure expert! We talk all about anal play, what you can stick up there (as well as what you can't), and POOP, because let's be real… aren't we all a little nervous about what might come out when something goes in? Tune in if you're curious about "taking the back road" OR if you're ready to learn some new tricks for when you're there! We also talk about: Myths and misconceptions Positions for anal play Butt plugs Prep Connect with Tristan: @tristantaormino on Instagram tristantaormino.com Sex Out Loud Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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9. Find Your Perfect Sex Toy with Ashley Cobb Nov 04, 2020

Dildos, vibrators, and anal beads… OH MY. In this episode we talk with Ashley Cobb, sex educator, sex blogger, and SEX TOY EXPERT. She's a total badass with all the info you've been waiting for. Want to find your *perfect* toy? We've got you covered! Curious about butt plugs? Get Ready! Want to know what electricity play is? YES YOU DO BITCH. Tune in if you're ready for a damn good time. We also talk about: Types of toys Using toys with a partner The WILDEST toys Ashley has seen Connect with Ashley: @sexwithashley on Instagram sexwithashley.com Hoe and Tell Podcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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8. Sexual Communication and Getting What You Need with Dr. Shannon Chavez Oct 28, 2020

Despite how much we talk, your hosts are NOT communication pros, especially when it comes to sex. In this episode, we talk with Dr. Shannon Chavez, a Psychologist, Sex Therapist, and Sexual Health Expert who is ready to help you talk the damn talk. We explore all the sexual communication skills you need in order to have the fun, kinky, and consensual sex you DESERVE. Asking for what you want, exploring new "places," and working through those pesky fears will be a breeze after you've given this episode a listen. Okay, maybe not a *breeze*, but definitely easier! We also talk about: What sex therapy is What to do if you're uncomfortable talking about sex If there's such a thing as being too honest Mutual masturbation… (your hosts were blushing at this point) Connect with Dr. Chavez: drshannonchavez.com @drshannonchavez on Instagram If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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7. Masturbation 101 with Amy Weissfeld Oct 21, 2020

If you want to have amazing sex, it's time you start giving it to YOURSELF. Cue Amy Weissfeld, a Somatic Sex Educator, Sexological Bodyworker, and freaking MASTURBATION COACH. Yes, you read that right, she's the coach you've been waiting for and she has all the tips to help you start a masturbation practice or take your current one to the next level. Tune in if you're ready to get to know yourself a whole lot better! We also talk about: A tool that'll help you MAXIMIZE pleasure The masturbation education you should have gotten Shame and how to bust through it What if I'm in a relationship? Connect with Amy: joyfulselflove.com If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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6. Homework for Honeys with Emma and Cass Oct 14, 2020

Who's ready to turn in their damn homework? Because WE ARE HERE and ready to get a little WEIRD. At the end of every interview, we have a segment called Homework for Honeys, where our guests provide us with one actionable step that we can all take to start integrating what we talked about that day. Well, the due date has arrived and we're ready to talk all about our honey pots (Emma hates when I use food comparisons), our erotic gardens, and the struggle of self-love. Basically, tune in if you want to hear two twenty somethings talk about looking at their vulvas. We cover the following homework: EP. 2 Jordan D'Nelle, PA: Look at your vulva, like REALLY look at it. EP. 3 Dr. Nazanin Moali: Cultivate your erotic garden… AKA get to know your sexual self. EP. 4 Hannah Rachael: Compliment your HOT AS HELL self. EP. 5 Antuanette Gomez: Smoke some cannabis and check out your vulva AGAIN. If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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5. Cannabis and Yoni Magic with Antuanette Gomez Oct 07, 2020

Cannabis, crystals, and yoni steams: just a few of the MAGICAL topics we cover in this episode. Antuanette Gomez, a BADASS GODDESS, is the founder and CEO of Pleasure Peaks, a cannabis company dedicated to improving sexual health and promoting pleasure. We talk about all the ways cannabis can help you have better sex, feel good in your body, and help you connect to that divine, erotic energy you've been missing out on. If you're cannabis curious or simply wanting to dip your toe into alternative health and wellness, then this is your episode, my dear. Antuanette also hosts the Pleasure Talks podcast which we highly recommend if you enjoy this episode…and we're pretty damn sure you will. We also talk about: Maximizing pleasure Chronic pain and some possible solutions Lube, suppositories, and other ways to use cannabis CBD Yoni eggs and yoni steaming ***This episode should not be taken as medical advice. Please engage in practices at your own risk.*** TW: Mention of sexual assault at 29:18-29:28 & 34:45-34:54 Connect with Antuanette: pleasurepeaks.com @pleasure_peaks & @antuanetteg on Instagram Pleasure Talks Podcast ***Use code HONEYDEWME to get 20% off a YONI EGG on pleasurepeaks.com!*** If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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4. You Are Sexy with Hannah Rachael Sep 30, 2020

You want to be on top? *cue America's Next Top Model music* Well this episode could be your first step to feeling confident and sexy as hell. Hannah Rachael, a boudoir and EMPOWERMENT photographer joins us to talk all about her work, the power of feeling sexy, and how to start embracing that beautiful body of yours. If self-love and feeling good in your body are something you struggle with (because your hosts sure do), this is a fun introduction to starting or continuing the work. ***While most of Hannah's clients are women, ANYONE can have a boudoir shoot and the tips in this episode apply to all, which Hannah talks about later in the episode!*** We also talk about: What boudoir/empowerment photography is Embracing your whole self and steps to start Kicking negative self-talk to the curb NUDES and DIY boudoir shoots TikTok censorship and why it SUCKS Connect with Hannah: Boudielove.com @hannah.rachael.photography on Instagram @hannah.rachael on TikTok If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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3. Stress, Sex, and Cultivating a Deep Connection with Dr. Nazanin Moali Sep 23, 2020

Has stress become a major (you know what) block in your sex life? Us too... so trust us when we say you GOTTA check out this episode. Dr. Moali, a clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and TRUE GEM, answers our questions about stress, sex, and how to get through the hard times (aka NOW). Tune in if you could use a little help navigating all the emotions, while still trying to keep things spicy. We also explore: Common relationship issues and their solutions Sexual dysfunction and what to do when it happens Sex drives and how they work Cultivating confidence in the bedroom TW: Mention of sexual assault at 46:49-47:13 Connect with Dr. Moali: sexologypodcast.com @sexologypodcast If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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2. Back to the Basics: Vaginas and Vulvas with Jordan D'Nelle Sep 23, 2020

Need a little refresher on the basics of vaginas and vulvas? Let's be real, most of us do. Cue Jordan D'Nelle: physician assistant, sex educator, and host of the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast. A true EXPERT and a damn dream to talk to. Tune in to get the sex ed lesson you deserve, but never got.

We also explore:

All the parts and what they do: vaginas and vulvas edition
Labia and misconceptions
Juicy details (i.e. ejaculation, discharge, and lubrication)
A little about libido
How to prep for your yearly exam

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1. It's Real, It's Raw, It's Your Hosts Sep 22, 2020

Want to see if you like us? Here's your chance because we put it ALL out there. Emma's awkward phase? Check. Cass' high school journal entry? Check. Stories we've never told and definitely DO NOT WANT OUR FAMILIES TO HEAR? Check. We get OVERLY honest, a little deep, and spend the majority of the episode sharing embarrassing stories. If you're down for that, tune in.

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