Heavy Conversation

What‘s New for Fall 2021 Big & Tall Style? Aug 31, 2021

Fall is almost here and it's time to think about what you're going to wear. The guys talk about how they're approaching their big & tall fall looks, what they're wearing and where they're getting it. Beer this week: Jody: Pale from the Crypt, by Liquid Gravity Brewing Company, San Luis Obispo, CA Bruce: Burst, by Mikkeller Brewing, San Diego, CA

Back to Life, Back to Reality Jul 20, 2021

The guys talk about what it's like getting back out into the world now that restrictions are loosening in most areas. We talk about the new Chubstr photo shoot for Fanatics, what's happening at Bear Skn, what we're watching and about the new Ivy Park Big & Tall collection.

155: On Fatness and Vulnerability Jul 06, 2021

In the last few weeks, two big men have publicly shared their stories about how the world looks at (or overlooks) them because of their size. We've been told for decades that being vulnerable and talking about emotional pain is a weakness. These guys push back against that. In this episode, Bruce and Jody discuss that changing dynamic.

Summer Style 2021 Jun 22, 2021

Talking Big & Tall Summer Style Summer is here and we're getting back out there into the world. What are you going to wear to get through the hottest season? We share our favorite brands and trends that you need to know about. Bruce's Beer: Citrus Situation from Old Town Brewing Jody's Beer: Fresh Haze IPA from Deschutes Brewery

Epidose 153: 3 Years of Heavy Conversation Jun 08, 2021

We're back from a month-long vacation just in time to celebrate 3 years of the Heavy Conversation Podcast. We're talking about what we did on our break, a new big & tall swimwear brand, and what's new from both Bear Skn and Chubstr. Bruce's Beer: Deeply Unserious, Sasquatch Brewing Co. Jody's Beer: Rainbows & Unicorns, Breakside Brewery

Follow These People for Some Plus Size Active Inspiration Apr 20, 2021

Don't believe big & tall or plus size people are getting out there and living active lives? We're talking about a few of our favorite athletes, influencers, and accounts that spotlight people bucking the stereotypes that say big folks aren't getting out there and being active.

Vaccines, Vacations, and Big Guys on Bikes Apr 13, 2021

This week we're talking about getting the COVID vaccine, Jody's vacation extravaganza, and being made fun of for being a big guy on a bike. Listen in for this wide-ranging discussion!

What's On Your Post-Pandemic Wishlist? Apr 06, 2021

There's a light at the end of the pandemic-laden trail, and in the somewhat near future, we're going to be able to get back out into the world again. This week, Bruce and Jody talk about the things they want to do post-pandemic.

Why do so many Big & Tall Brands fail? Mar 30, 2021

Over the years, we've seen a lot of big and tall brands launch to great success. We've also seen more than a few crash and burn. Why do so many big & tall brands fail? This week, we talk about the reasons a lot of brands fail, and what up and coming brands need to avoid. Beer

Jody: Breathing Conversations - Finback Brewery
Bruce: All Malt Premium Lager - Maccabee

It's Time to Take a Staycation! Mar 23, 2021

If you're like us, you've been stuck in the house for the last 12 months and you're ready for a change. While we wait for vaccines to get out, consider taking a staycation! Bruce & Jody share staycation tips and ways you can have fun without going too far away from home. stay local, go to hotel, air bnb - camping - good for your mental health

Chubstr's 10 Year Anniversary Mar 16, 2021

This week marks the 10 year anniversary of Chubstr.com. We're talking about what the big & tall industry was like back when Bruce started the site, how the industry has changed, and what the we think the future holds.

What a Shirtless Jonah Hill Tells Us About Male Body Image Mar 09, 2021

Recently, Jonah Hill was photographed drying off shirtless on the beach after surfing, and the photos made it into a UK paper. Hill responded with a smart, powerful response that shared his own path to self-love and positive body image. This week, we talk about the state of male body image in media, pop culture, and the world at large.

Big & Tall Spring Style Picks for 2021 Mar 02, 2021

This week, we’re talking big and tall spring style trends. Find out what you need in your closet this spring.

Best of Heavy Conversation: Ultimate Date Night Ideas Feb 23, 2021

We’re sharing the best date night ideas in this listener's favorite episode of Heavy Conversation. Whether you’re looking for ideas for a fun date night at home, or something creative outside, this list will offer a little inspiration.

The Best of Heavy Conversation: Plus Size Sex Positions 101 Feb 16, 2021

We're looking back on listeners' favorite episode: Plus Size Sex Positions 101. Get our tips to help you make the most of sexy time! New episodes begin again next week.

The Best Sex Toys for Plus Size People Feb 09, 2021

Guess what? Plus-size people have sex! This week, we're talking about ways to spice up your sex life with the best toys for bigger people. Our list features products that can help you out, whether you're alone or with a partner.

Dating and Hookups in the Time of Covid Feb 02, 2021

Over the last year, Covid-19 has changed just about everything people are used to doing, even dating. This week, Bruce and Jody talk about what dating and hookups look like as people navigate their way through the pandemic.

The Best Big & Tall Winter Essentials Jan 26, 2021

This week, we're talking about the best big & tall clothes for winter. This season is different from most, but there are still some essentials you need to have in your closet. Find out what's on our list!

How to Stay Politically Involved in 2021 Without Going Crazy Jan 19, 2021

Joe Biden becomes the 46th president of the U.S. this week, but it's not time to forget about politics. How do we stay involved in politics without going crazy? Bruce and Jody share the ways they're doing it and a few ideas that could work for you.

How Do You Manage Anxiety and Depression During a Pandemic? Jan 12, 2021

With everything happening in the world today, it's no surprise that we're seeing an increase in depression and anxiety. This week, the guys share how they manage both of these things and talk about strategies that might just work for you.

Don't Make Resolutions Part of Your 2021 Plans Jan 05, 2021

We made it to 2021! Did you know 80% of the resolutions people make in a new year have been broken by February? This week, the guys help you skip the resolutions and do something MUCH more productive instead.

Is it Really Possible to Make a Best of 2020 list? Dec 29, 2020

2020 was most definitely a dumpster fire of a year. That said, there were still a few good things that happened over the last 12 months. Bruce and Jody share their picks for some of the best from TV, movies, music, games, news, podcasts, and more.

Best Beers, The Prom...and Boba Fatt? Dec 22, 2020

This week we're talking about James Corden in The Prom, Boba Fett's dad bod on The Mandalorian, and Untappd's Beer in Review for 2020.

We Found the Best Big & Tall Ugly Holiday Sweaters Dec 15, 2020

We break out the Ugliest of the Big & Tall ugly holiday sweaters and show you where you can get one in your size! Whether you want a sweater, t-shirt, or an entire suit, we've got you covered. Listen in and find out more!

The Best Gifts for Plus Size People (and Everybody Else) Dec 08, 2020

This week we're offering up a few gift ideas that are perfect for plus size people. Find out what's on our lists and what you should be gifting this season!

Best of: Here Are the Most Fat Friendly U.S. Cities Dec 01, 2020

It's a Best Of Heavy Conversation throwback episode! We take a closer look at the most fat-friendly cities in the U.S. Find out what city you need to visit next!

Here Are The Best Black Friday Big & Tall Deals Nov 24, 2020

Black Friday week is upon us, and that means everyone and their brother are running sales right now. Bruce & Jody talk about their favorite deals on big & tall clothing, shoes, and more!

Is Instagram Fatphobic? Nov 17, 2020

For years, individuals and businesses promoting plus-size products have seen social networks like Instagram remove their photos while similar pictures of smaller models are allowed to stay up. Is there a double-standard? The guys discuss.

Legalized Drugs, Extreme Grooming, & 2020 Holiday Shopping Nov 10, 2020

Bruce and Jody talk about Oregon's decriminalization of drugs, when to consider shaving off your beard, and what holiday shopping is going to look like this season.

Why Are Some Retailers Dropping Some of Their Big & Tall Sizing? Nov 03, 2020

Men's clothing retailer Bonobos announced plans to discontinue the biggest sizes of their extended size collection, bringing offerings down to 3XL and 48 waist beginning in Spring 2021. We talk about why this change came about and why other companies have stopped selling big & tall altogether.

The Best Beers of Fall 2020 Oct 27, 2020

Fall is here, and that means it's time for our fall beer tasting! From pumpkin beers to Oktoberfest brews, to a freaky neon green concoction - we're covering all the bases.

10 Things You Need for the Perfect Big & Tall Fall Oct 20, 2020

We’re sharing the top 10 things every big guy needs in their wardrobe this fall. Do you have everything on our list? Listen and find out.

How to Manage Social Media Overload in 2020 Oct 13, 2020

Overloading on social media can feel detrimental to your mental wellness. How do you manage your media intake while still staying connected to all the issues that matter to you? We share our strategies.

What's in Walmart's New Stylish Clothing Line for Big Guys? Oct 06, 2020

Walmart just launched Free Assembly, a fashion-forward clothing line with some extended sizes. We talk about what the new line gets right for plus size people, and where it misses the mark.

How to Design and Sell Clothes for Big & Tall Bodies Sep 29, 2020

A lot of brands just upsize clothes for their big and tall or plus lines. This just doesn't work. Here are the things designers need to consider when designing clothes for bigger bodies.

More Plus Size and Fat Positive People You Should Be Following Sep 22, 2020

There are lots of people doing great things in the plus-size and fat positive sphere. This week, we're sharing a few more of our favorites that you need to know about!

Why Don't They Make These Products for Plus Size People? Sep 15, 2020

Most products aren't made with plus-size people in mind. This week, we're talking about what we'd most like to see created to accommodate bigger people. From furniture to theme park rides, to exercise equipment, there's a lot to cover!

Is Body Positivity Anti-Health? Sep 08, 2020

Whenever body positivity or fat acceptance is mentioned in the mainstream, detractors claim the movements promote obesity and bad health. Is this true? Does it matter? This week, we discuss.

Bruce & Jody Make Beer Cocktails Sep 01, 2020

We're taking beverages to the next level with our favorite beer cocktail recipes. Closeout summer and welcome fall with some fun and interesting new concoctions!

Does Fall Fashion Even Matter This Year? Aug 25, 2020

With everything going on this year, seasonal fashion feels pretty low on the priority list. We talk about what kinds of big and tall clothes people are buying for fall and how it's different from years past.

What Big & Tall Retailers Filing for Bankruptcy Means for You Aug 18, 2020

Men's Wearhouse followed in the footsteps of JCPenney and Lane Bryant, filing for bankruptcy with plans to close 500 stores. What does this mean for the customers who shop there? Bruce & Jody discuss the changing landscape of big & tall retail.

Let's Talk Big & Tall Work From Home Style Aug 11, 2020

Working from home? You don't have to wear a 3-piece suit, but should you just lounge around in gym shorts and a tank every day? There's a middle ground and we talk about it!

Here's How to Take Your Beard to the Next Level Aug 04, 2020

How do you manage that majestic beard? Bruce and Jody share beard care tips that will help you get the best-looking beard on the block. Listen to get all our beard grooming tips and tricks.

We've Reached the Point of Streaming Service Overload Jul 28, 2020

So many streaming services, so little time! You can watch literally anything you're interested in - there's probably an online service for it. The guys talk about their favorite services, and the ones they're skipping.

It's Hot Out! Here's How to Handle Chub Rub Jul 21, 2020

Summer is beating down on most of the country and that means heat, sweating, and yes, rashes. Bruce and Jody discuss how to stay cool and deal with chafing and chub rub, something most of us know all too well.

Staying Happy Through the Pandemic Jul 14, 2020

Being cut off from friends, family, and the outside world for months at a time can take a toll. We discuss ways to foster positive body image, mental and physical health during the pandemic.

Why Don't These Brands Carry Extended Sizes? Jul 07, 2020

The guys put together a list of the brands and retailers they wish carried big and tall clothing but don't...YET! Listen to the episode to hear our wish list.

Back To Work, Back To Reality Jun 30, 2020

We've entered Phase 1 here in Portland, which means that people are (safely, we hope) leaving the house and beginning to get back to work. The guys talk about getting back to work, the future of photoshoots, and drink two brand new beers!

Things You Can Do During This Socially Distanced Summer Jun 23, 2020

The pandemic is making this summer different from any other in our lifetimes. There are still ways you can get out there and safely enjoy it. The guys talk about their socially distanced summer plans and how to stay sane when you're stuck in the house for months at a time.

We Found Big & Tall Swimming Trunks You'll Actually Want to Wear Jun 16, 2020

It's hot outside and the swimming season is here! Bruce and Jody share their list of the best places to find big & tall swim trunks that look great and fit well. This week's beers: McMenamins Terminator Stout and New Belgium Voodoo Ranger 1985 IPA.

Here's Where to Find Big & Tall Pride Gear Jun 09, 2020

You can still celebrate Pride even when you're stuck at home. We put together a list of some of the best places to find big & tall pride clothing, shoes, and accessories, with sizes to 7X.

How You Can Support Protesters and Help Fight Racial Injustice Jun 02, 2020

The murder of George Floyd shows us that we can no longer be silent while people are being killed because of the color of their skin. This week, we’re sharing ways you can support protesters around the country & push back against race-based discrimination and police brutality.

Finding the perfect Big & Tall Suit May 26, 2020

It’s not always easy to find a big & tall suit that fits well and looks good. The guys share their fit tips and talk about the best places to shop for a big & tall suit or tuxedo.

Make Your Home More Plus Size Friendly With These Tips May 19, 2020

You're spending a lot of time at home right now, so why not make it more comfortable? We're sharing tips to help you revamp your living space and talking about the best beds, couches, and chairs for plus size people.

How Often Should You Replace Your Big & Tall Basics? May 12, 2020

We've all got those old ratty shirts or haggard pair of shorts we can't bear to get rid of. What do you actually need in your closet? We talk about when to throw out your old socks and crusty boxers, and what you should replace them with.

Hairy or Hairless? Talking Big Men & Body Hair May 05, 2020

We're talking all things big & tall body hair related. From the hair on your noggin to the hair on your nethers, we're covering it all. Get haircare, grooming tips, and more!

Here's Where to Shop for Big & Tall Shorts Apr 28, 2020

Warmer weather is here and that means it's time for shorts! The guys talk about the best brands of big and tall shorts and where to get them. Find out what they're going to be wearing all season long!

Heavy Conversation's 100 Episode Celebration Apr 21, 2020

It's our 100th episode! Today we're taking a look back at some of our favorite episodes and moments from the past two years. PLUS, we talk about our big 100th episode giveaway. Listen in for all the details!

Play These Games While You're Stuck at Home Apr 14, 2020

Being stuck at home means you can catch up on important gaming time. This week, we share the games we're playing - video games, board games and more.

You Don't Have to Be Productive During the Apocalypse Apr 07, 2020

You're probably hearing everyone talk about how productive and active they're still being while stuck at home. Here's the thing: we're in the middle of a pandemic and you don't HAVE to do anything. Bruce and Jody discuss why.

Where Are All the Young Guys in Big & Tall Modeling? Mar 31, 2020

We're beginning to see more diversity in body size when it comes to big & tall models, but where are the younger guys? We talk about the continuing lack of diversity in the industry and how to fix it.

How We're Getting Through the Pandemic Mar 24, 2020

Like many of you, we're staying in our respective homes to help flatten the curve. This week, we're talking about what we're doing to stay sane while we're stuck at home and sharing some tips while you do the same.

Spring Style Trends for Big & Tall Guys Mar 17, 2020

Though it's probably the last thing on your mind, spring is almost here. The guys share the latest big & tall style trends and talk about how to make them work for you.

Should Photos of Plus Size Models be Retouched? Mar 09, 2020

Some brands are making a commitment to stop retouching photos of models in their clothing. Are there situations where retouching makes sense? Jody and Bruce discuss the pros and cons.

Is Abercrombie's New Campaign Really So Body Positive? Mar 03, 2020

Abercrombie & Fitch just launched a new inclusive, body positive marketing campaign around Fierce, their well-known fragrance. The campaign features 20+ notable people, including a few plus size folks. Can a campaign around a fragrance do anything for positive body image? We discuss.

Are Some Major Brands Embarrassed to Carry Big & Tall? Feb 25, 2020

Some major brands make extended size clothing but will only sell them through big & tall retailers, not on their own websites or in stores. Why aren't they promoting their own big & tall lines? We take a closer look.

The Plus Size Men's Fashion Show Nobody Knew About Feb 18, 2020

A fashion show featuring plus size male models took place in NYC during fashion week. Is this the beginning of a trend? We talk about the good, the bad, and what we hope to see from future shows.

Talking Jillian Michaels, Concern Trolls, & How to Beat Them Feb 11, 2020

A few weeks ago, Jillian Michaels body shamed Lizzo in the media. She's since doubled down on her comments. We talk about why body shaming and concern trolling is still a lot more common than it should be.

89: Should Obesity Be a Protected Class? Feb 04, 2020

Washington State made obesity a protected class. Is this a law we need nationwide? Let's discuss.

88: Bruce's Birthday Extravaganza Jan 28, 2020

It's Bruce's birthday & we're talking about getting old, the latest big & tall news and plus size parenting with a very special, 7 month old guest.

87: How Do Men Really Feel About Their Bodies? Jan 21, 2020

It's not often discussed, but up to 40% of men are dissatisfied with their bodies. Bruce and Jody talk about their own struggles with body image and how they've handled it over the years

86: Is 2020 the Year for Men's Plus Size Luxury Fashion? Jan 14, 2020

Dolce & Gabbana recently promoted their extended sizes on Instagram - is this the beginning of a trend? Here's what we're hoping for

85: New Year, New Decade, Same Old Resolutions Jan 07, 2020

It's a new year, and that means it's resolution season. The guys came up with a few that have nothing to do with diets or weight loss. See what's on their lists!

84: Best of Heavy Conversation: Plus Size Sex Positions 101 Dec 31, 2019

It's the end of the year and we're bringing back one of our most popular episodes from 2019: Plus Size Sex Positions 101. Get our tips to help you make the most of sexy time! New episodes begin again next week.

83: Listener Q + A & Holiday Beer Tasting Dec 24, 2019

This week, we're taking listener questions and trying a selection of tasty holiday beers. Listen in as we give out advice and enjoy adult beverages! 🎄

82: Has Big & Tall Gotten Better in the Last 10 years Dec 17, 2019

We've seen great advances in culture and technology over the last decade, but what about the big & tall clothing industry? The guys discuss the last 10 years in men's plus size apparel.

81: Travel Horror Stories Dec 10, 2019

We're talking about some of our worst travel experiences, and it's not just the hassle of sitting in the middle seat on the plane. From lodging scams, to cross-country trips in wrecked cars, it's all here.

80: Making Friends as an Adult is Hard Dec 03, 2019

The older you get, the more difficult it becomes to create new, meaningful relationships. We share tips to help you meet people and make some new friends.

79: Here's How Big & Tall Brands Are Failing Their Customers Nov 26, 2019

The rise of brands selling big & tall clothing is a great thing, but there are still some major issues that many of them need to address. We discuss those issues and the best ways to fix them.

78: Eating Season is Upon Us Nov 19, 2019

Thanksgiving is almost here and that means glorious dishes you probably don't eat any other time of the year. Bruce & Jody talk traditions, food, and what they're looking forward to this year.

77: Need a Refresh? Here's How to Reboot Your Life Nov 12, 2019

Doing the same thing over and over every day gets old. How do you get yourself out of a rut? Whether you're tired of your wardrobe or are thinking about making a bigger life change, these tips can help.

76: How Do You Defeat Your Inner Critic? Nov 05, 2019

Managing your inner critic can be hard. We talk about how we handle that negative voice in our heads and what can happen when you push back against it.

75: To All the Furniture We've Destroyed Before Oct 29, 2019

It can be embarrassing to have a chair other piece of furniture fail when you try to use it. You're not alone. We share our own not-so-great experiences with broken furniture and how we (try to) avoid it.

74: Plus Size Halloween Costume Ideas Oct 22, 2019

What are YOU going to be for Halloween? The guys talk about their best costumes and what they're going to be this year. Listen in for tips and guides to help you find a costume that fits.

73: Make Your Passion Your Full Time Thing Oct 15, 2019

How do you turn your passion into your thing? Bruce and Jody talk about how they got to the point that they were able to do the thing they love, and share tips to help you do the same.

72: Oktoberfest Beer Tasting & Listener Questions Oct 08, 2019

We're trying 6 different Oktoberfest beers and answering YOUR questions about big & tall , lifestyle and shopping!

71: Our Big & Tall Style Picks for Fall Oct 01, 2019

The guys talk big and tall fashion for fall! Hear their favorites and find out what you need in your closet.

70: Do Children Really Need a Weight Loss App? Sep 24, 2019

The guys discuss the new Weight Watchers app for kids, their experiences as bigger children, and how to talk to kids about their (and other people's) size.

69: Why is the Men's Plus Size Fashion Industry So Far Behind? Sep 17, 2019

Another NYFW came and went with a glaring lack of plus size male model representation. Why is that? The guys discuss. Plus, Bruce talks about modeling for DXL!

68: All Our Favorite Apps Sep 10, 2019

We're all attached to our phones pretty much constantly. This week, we're talking about the apps we're obsessed with, what we love and what we don't.

67: How Do You Disconnect? Sep 03, 2019

Life moves pretty quickly - it's important to take time, kick back and relax. Bruce and Jody talk about how they disconnect and enjoy themselves.

66: Movies We Love Aug 27, 2019

This week, we talk about movies! The ones we love, the ones that shape us and our guilty pleasures.

65: Finding That Perfect Work/Life Balance Aug 20, 2019

Finding a balance between is hard. The guys talk about their own struggles with it and share some solutions.

64: Whats On Your Bucket List? Aug 13, 2019

Bruce & Jody talk about the things they’d like to do but have not done yet. Hear whats on their list!

63: Do You Wish You Were Thin? Aug 06, 2019

If you could wave a wand and magically be thin, would you do it? The guys take on the question. Find out what they have to say.

62: Grilling With Bruce & Jody Jul 30, 2019

This episode will make you hungry! The guys talk about their favorite grills, methods of barbecuing and more. Listen in, then go eat some brisket!

61: What's Missing in Big & Tall Fashion? Jul 23, 2019

Though we're seeing progress, there are still a lot of things we'd like to see more of in men's big & tall clothing. Bruce and Jody talk about what's missing and what they hope to see in the future.

60: Hair and Beard Care Basics Jul 16, 2019

One of us has short, fine hair and one has a thick, full mane. This week, we're talking about how to care for a variety of hair types, plus what we do with our beards.

59: Is the Friend Zone Really a Thing? Jul 09, 2019

You've heard of the friend zone, but is it really a thing? The guys give their take on what's the friend zone really means and why it might be you, not them.

58: How to Keep Cool This Summer Jul 02, 2019

It's already hot as hades, so how can you keep cool this summer? Learn all about the products that will help keep you from becoming a sweaty, melty mess this season.

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