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Learning How to Be Awesome When Life Hits You With Circumstances with Faydra Koenig Oct 22, 2024

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I’m a firm believer that life is always going to throw circumstances your way, especially when you say (or think) you’re ready to handle them.

Circumstances can look like a fender bender, a letter from the IRS, a pet needing to go to the vet, and pretty much whatever other not-sought-after experience that you can think of.

Enter Faydra Koenig, a woman who has been through her fair share of circumstances!

I was inspired to connect with Faydra after watching a personal and candid video on the circumstances that she has experienced in her life.

When we sat down, Faydra was an open book. And having listened to her podcast and spent time on her website, I didn’t expect anything less.

In our conversation Faydra and I talk about circumstances and how to not only survive them, but thrive!

What you’ll learn in this episode:

The Law Of Gestation
2 types of accountability groups (and which ignites powerful results)
How to thrive when life throw’s you circumstances

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Moving Through Hell and Rising Above Circumstances with Colleen Crain Oct 17, 2024

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We’ve all been through situations that, at the time, felt never ending.

Time crawls by. Our bodies respond to the tension. Our minds race from present to future to past.

Going through hell feels like going through hell.

But if you’re reading this, if you’re here right now, then that means you made it through hell.You survived!

Because when you walk through hot coals, your feet get tougher and more resilient.

Colleen Crain knows that is like. A traumatic event as a child left her physically impaired fora time, and emotionally shaken.

But she also know, first hand, that rising above circumstances is what we are designed todo.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

How to relate powerfully to circumstances
How to thank fear for showing up
Colleen’s personal story of dealing with circumstances

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How Do I Make Sure I’m “On Path” To My Greatest Self? Oct 10, 2024

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What is simultaneously the most significant factor and biggest barrier to becoming your greatest self?

Without this thing, airplanes would not make it to their final destination, corporate managers would have less work to do, and you would reach a ceiling with your potential.

It's something that confronts the ego so directly that many people shy away from it at any cost. Yet, it is a powerful tool for self realization, growth and transformation.

Any ideas yet?!?

What you’ll learn in this episode:

The one thing that can accelerate you on your path to greatness (or stop you in your tracks)
How to ensure you’re growing and moving in the most powerful direction for YOU in life
My personal mission statement for my life right now

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A Story of Dreams, Perseverance, and Taking the Road Less Traveled with Mike Mills Oct 02, 2024

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This powerful conversation stemmed from a tip a friend gave me, “Matthew, you have got to interview this guy!”

The guy I was being encouraged to speak with was Mike Mills.

Mike is an exceptionally unique guy. He has what I call the Small “s” success and Big “S” Success. Mike is the owner and operator of the Buffalo Outdoor Center, a lodging and outfitting resort sitting on the historic Buffalo River in Ponca, Arkansas.

The Small “s” success is the thriving business that Mike has built over the past 40 years.

The Big “S” Success is the way that Mike describes his experience of life: Heaven.

In this conversation, Mike shares his story of growing up paddling the Buffalo River, learning discipline from his father and the Marines, jumping into entrepreneurship with little money and even less business experience, and growing a world renowned outfitting resort that attracts heads of state, National Geographic photographers, and thousands of nature seekers each year.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

How a letter from his father became the biggest challenge in Mike’s life
Why society doesn’t encourage the pursuit of dreams
A common trait all world-changing entrepreneurs possess

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FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?

Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent

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WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?

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How Aware Are You of Your Influence on Others? Sep 26, 2024

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We are all influencers.

Everyday we influence, without fail, we influence three groups: our Selves, Others and Life.

However, many of us go through life unaware of just how much we influence these groups, and unconscious of the power of influence we really have.

Yet, despite this lack of awareness and intention, we are still wielding this power of influence in many ways, some more responsibly than others.

In today’s episode I share a powerful story of influence and ask you to ponder a question that will change how you look at your ability to influence your Self, Others and Life.

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Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent

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How to JUMP Into the Life You Truly Want to Live Sep 19, 2024

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Love and Fear.

It's what all decisions in our lives can be boiled down to.

Fear can be one heck of a beast!

We all know because we all can recall times when we let fear overpower our ability to make clear decisions.

I lived much of my life in fear and can vividly remember making choices from a place a fear since early on.

And I also remember the feeling after those choices. The feeling of having to sit with myself knowing that I choose a lesser path.

This past weekend I faced a different kind of fear: the fear of physical death.

I JUMPED out of a plane, and in that choice I connected with so many other choices I had made throughout my life that illuminated the fact that when it boils down to the essence we always have a choice between FEAR and LOVE.

What you'll learn in this episode:

Why jumping is always the precursor to living
Why you will probably choose fear again and again
How to break the fear cycle

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How to Create the Biggest Shifts in Your Wellbeing - Dr. Michelle Robin Sep 12, 2024

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How do you define "wellbeing"?

How about breaking down the word into it's two parts -- WELL and BEING -- what do those words mean to you?

My guest in today's conversation is clear on what those words mean to her, and is on a mission to spread her message of whole wellbeing.

Dr. Michelle Robin is a chiropractor by trade, but has expanded herself into an author, speaker, and podcaster.

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The Massive Difference Between Big "S" Success and Small "s" Success Sep 04, 2024

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You have been lied to about success.

Like most of us, we've been told that success is determined by factors "out there".

Achievements, accolades, possessions, titles, certifications, promotions - you know the deal.

But you've also been told that success is simply a mindset. You are successful if you feel successful.

But I'm introducing a new concept to the mix. The concept of little "s" success and big "S" Success.

We may all define success in our own unique ways. But the big "S" and little "s" concepts are universal.

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Igniting Your “Guttural Brushfire”: The Impact of Mission Statements, Powerful Words, and Unconditional Love with Sandy Chambers Aug 28, 2024

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What would your life look like if you were fully engaged? If you were living your life to the max? If you were experiencing a "guttural brushfire"?

That’s the question that my guest today has been meditating on.

Sandy Chambers is very close persona friend of mine and one of the most consciously mature people I know. She devours books, videos, podcasts -- anything that she can get her hands on that will elevate her consciousness. She has read and re-read the works of authors like David R Hawkins, Eckhart Tolle, and Marianne Williamson. She has studied and applied and surrendered to the processes that the sages and gurus have given us to follow. And every single time I have the chance to go in with Sandy on a conversation, I walk away feeling like I need to download all of the information I’ve just taken in, or else my brain might overload.

Now, Sandy wanted my help in crystallizing her passion -- she has been doing some deep and critical thinking on what her true passion is -- which is why we scheduled this call. But as you’ll hear, we end up going in on so many other crucial topics, like personal mission statements, the power of words, subconscious scripting, and much more.

Sit back and prepare yourself because this conversation is a powerful one.

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How to Use Discontent to Create Your Finest Moments with Dianne Crampton Aug 21, 2024

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Have you experienced true discontent in your life?

That’s totally a rhetorical question because if you’re alive then that means you’ve been in situations that you haven’t liked. The real question is, how did you handle those situations?

My guest in today’s conversation is Dianne Crampton, and she would guess that you did one of three things: blamed someone else, ignored it all together, or asked yourself “What is this here to teach me?”

Dianne has spent most of her life asking herself “What is this here to teach me?”, and that has led her to many amazing realizations and experiences.

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FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?

Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent

https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/

WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?

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