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Diamond Jack | Is Love Really Blind? | Girl Stop Playin' Podcast-Episode 12 Apr 26, 2022

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Diamond Jack, a Chicago native, had dreams in Season 1 of Love is Blind to fall in love blindly. After a rough dating season, she decided to try something new. She paused her NBA Dance career to take a chance at love and was introduced to a roller coaster of events through her viral moment. Since the show she has goals of beginning an acting career and her entrepreneurial journey.

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EPISODE BREAKDOWN

[2:13] This or That…

[3:59] What is ”Love is Blind”about?

[5:26] What made you try the show?

[6:51] What was the casting process like?

[8:06] Was it real?

[10:35] How deep did they go with matching?

[12:14] What was the timeline of the show?

[14:35] Did you have any dating non-negotiables?

[17:21] What are some of the lessons you took from the experience?

[18:19] Did you blame the producers?

[21:19] Are you open to a man’s sexual past?

[25:02] How has this affected your dating life post show?

[27:06] How did the pay work?

[29:01] How did you keep the secret for 2 years?

[30:35] How did the internet receive you after the show?

[33:13] Did any of the backlash affect you?

[34:37] What did your family and friends think?

[36:24] Live Questions: What’s new with Diamond and who are you dating?

[38:36] Live Questions: Do you regret going on the show and would you do it again?

[38:51] Live Questions: Are you still friends with your castmates?

[39:44] Where can the people find you?

[40:31] Diamond, Stop Playing

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Koereyelle is a former 3rd-grade teacher who turned her $32,000 salary into a million-dollar digital brand. She's been featured by Forbes, Black Enterprise, NBC, Fox, and Essence as an International Speaker & Multi-Media Personality for her service to women around the world.

She's the Host of The Girl Stop Playin' Podcast where she encourages women to stop playing with their potential and start working for what they want in life and in love. Koe is passionate about helping women make the money + get the honey!

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Karli Harvey-Raymond | What's Your Worth? | Girl Stop Playin' Podcast- Episode 11 Apr 22, 2022

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Wife, Mother, Entrepreneur, International Public Speaker and Host, Karli Raymond is the daughter of mogul Steve Harvey but also a mogul in her own right. She shares her life stories that have helped her hold herself to a higher standard.

"I was never hungry for food but I was starving for attention."

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EPISODE BREAKDOWN:

[2:39] Never have I ever

[5:57] How did being the daughter of Steve Harvey affect you meeting men?

[8:52] Story of Meeting Ben Raymond

[13:28] How did he not get friend zoned?

[16:00] Did you apply the 90 Steve Harvey rule?

[17:47] Living Together Advice

[19:24] Long Distance Advice

[20:35] The Wait Advice

[26:20] Do you think you have to be perfect because of who you are?

[31:35] How do you be present for yourself and your family

[40:05] How did you deal with the back to back challenges of marriage and motherhood?

[44:52] Did you ever experience postpartum?

[50:25] How do you discipline your child?

[53:03] What do you say to encourage the next woman?

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Mind of a Man: What Women Secretly Want to Know | Kendrick Mallard | Girl Stop Playin' Podcast- Episode 10 Apr 15, 2022

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Mind of a Man is a very special series that will help the black community build up black families with needed conversations! This first stop of the series features Koe's husband Kendrick who answers all of your questions.

"A man needs respect in the world.. especially a black man. If a woman doesn’t respect a man it’s only a matter of time for that relationship to end.”

-Kendrick

EPISODE BREAKDOWN:

[1:45] Why do men take so long to realize they want to be with the person they’ve been dealing with?

[3:00] How do you show that you’re a wife without showing up as a wife?

[5:51] What’s one thing that would stop a man from committing to a woman that they are attracted to that they could see as a life partner?

[8:17] Do men friend zone?

[10:18] What to men value more love or respect?

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The Modern Therapist | Is Imposter Syndrome Ruining Your Life? | Girl Stop Playin Podcast- Episode 9 Apr 08, 2022

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Take a deep breath… in 1 2 3 out 1 2 3. Now tap in with a therapist that gets you, looks like you and isn’t afraid to tell you what she feels. Precious Avorkliyah, the modern therapist is an author, meditation instructor, motivational streaker and is ready to see you help you! In this episode we have THE talk that no one wants to has, press play to hear tips, get resources and improve your life. It’s time for mental wellness!

“We are never one thing always… we will greet ourselves several times across our life span. We are ever evolving” -The Modern Therapist

EPISODE BREAKDOWN:

[3:24] Why is there a stigma of black people not wanting therapy?

[4:44] Mental Illness vs Mental Wellness

[7:03]Psychotherapist vs Psychologist vs Psychiatrist

[9:40] Are there resources that aren’t therapy for those who are anxious about therapy?

[12:41] The Truth Behind Stress

[16:26] Where can people find (your) good therapist?

[18:41] You deserve having an outlet

[20:00] Definition of Imposter Syndrome

[25:06] How do you know it’s imposter syndrome?

[25:28] Do you think therapy should be a prerequisite for a relationship?

[28:12] How do you tell your significant other they need therapy?

[30:31] How do you tell a friend?

[36:13] What is your advice for a woman who may be carrying too much weight?

[39:09] How does the therapist deal with pressure?

[40:31] How do you give no judgement advice?

[43:12] What are your suggestions for including affirmations and meditations in someone’s life

[45:47] Explain Mindfulness

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Ask Koe: Business Edition | Koereyelle | Girl Stop Playin' Podcast- Episode 8 Apr 01, 2022

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We are SO ready for you to stop playing with your potential and start WERKing for what you want in life love AND money! This is another special requested episode for you to ask any and everything you need to know to STOP PLAYING in your business!

“Ya girl is all about you making the money and get the honey”

Watch Full Episode Here: https://youtu.be/rMJdoDZR5To

EPISODE BREAKDOWN:

[1:54] How much time should I give myself to start making money in my business before trying something new?

[4:59] How do I start in the digital product space?

[7:45] Should my first book be physical or an ebook?

[8:55] If you had the start over, what business would you start?

[10:13] #AskKoe Resource

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Save Your Marriage Before it Even Starts | Michael & Larraine Forrester | Girl Stop Playin' Podcast- Episode 7 Mar 25, 2022

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Welcome to the Girl Stop Playin Podcast where we encourage you to stop playing with your potential + start WERKing for what you want in life and love!

This week you get to meet Michael & Larraine Forrester, Founders of A Relationship Ministry where they offer Wedding Officiant Services, Pre-marital Guidance, and Marriage Resolutions. As the officiants and counselors to the Mallard’s this dynamic duo is highly recommended.

Watch Full Episode Here: https://youtu.be/9vxutNQxhRw

EPISODE BREAKDOWN:

[2:23] What is the #1 need of a marriage counselor?

[4:45] Do you typically have high participation from both partners?

[8:41] Importance of Counselor Transparency

[10:42] What are the marriage deal breakers? What did you overcome that may look like other people’s deal breakers?

[13:21] How do you advise the worst deal breaker?

[17:33] When should you walk away?

[18:21] How can we provide positive experiences for our children that don’t negatively affect them later in life?

[20:31] What are the important conversations when looking for a partner?

[22:25] How do we let go of unrealistic expectations?

[23:55] Are roles and responsibilities a challenge in your field? What are the unspoken rules that we can avoid?

[26:59] What can we do about divorce in the black community?

[30:39] Should you stay for the kids?

[32:03] Do people call you when they need you or when it’s too late?

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The Wife Coach: What To Do Before You Say I Do | Lakia Brandenburg | Girl Stop Playin' Podcast-Episode 6 Mar 19, 2022

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Remember you are bride for a day and wife for a lifetime so before you take a stroll down the aisle, take a listen to this episode with the OG Original Wife Coach. Come in with open hearts and minds and be ready to receive the truth on what you need before you say “I Do.”

“Rethinking, Reconditioning, Unlearning, Relearning what you thought about a relationship.” -The Wife Coach

“What’s an EX? That letter doesn’t exist to me." -Koe

Watch Full Episode Here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PS7pdf-pnMQ

EPISODE BREAKDOWN:

[2:31] What is a Wife Coach?

[3:31] What made you want to help other wives

[4:58] Why should a single woman put in the work?

[6:31] The BIG Wedding, is it a waste?

[10:09] Where’s the husband coach?

[12:17] Are there marriage deal breakers?

[14:49] Where do unrealistic expectations of marriage come from and what do we do about it?

[16:43] Not just the marriage example but a GOOD one

[18:26] How TF do you tame your tongue?

[20:07] How to express needs without the nag?

[24:55] How do you grow without outgrowing one another?

[27:45] How do you balance all the hats and be a good wife?

[29:15] Managing unrealistic expectations

[32:51] If you hate your ring, what do you do?

[35:12] If your ring is fake, what do you do?

[37:08] 2 Minute Tweets of the Week

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Ask Koe: 5 Simple Solutions For Single Women | Koereyelle | Girl Stop Playin' Podcast-Episode 5 Mar 13, 2022

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We are SO ready for you to stop playing with your potential and start WERKing for what you want in life AND love! This special requested episode is for you to ask any and everything you need to know to STOP PLAYING!

EPISODE BREAKDOWN:

[1:12] How did you know Kendrick was the one?

[2:47] The Dating Process Explained

[7:19] How do you build a friendship while dating?

[9:02] How often did you bring up marriage? What were your boundaries?

[12:45] What is one thing I should work on before marriage?

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*Audio Exclusive* Episode 4 Breakdown: Red Flags + Hoe Phases Mar 11, 2022

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In this audio exclusive, Koe breaks down some pivotal points from episode 4. From red flags that could've been recognized, to hoe phases and how long to wait to have sex -- we're discussing it all.

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Let's Talk About Sex, Baby! | Ashley Cobb | Girl Stop Playin' Podcast-Episode 4 Mar 04, 2022

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Lets talk about SEX! We all know sex is an important part of dating but unfortuntely straight women are having sex witout the pleasure. Let's talk about why and how we can change it. Ms. Ashley Cobb is a blogger, sex expert and educater who entered the space 6 years ago out of finacial need. She helps married, divorce and single women alike how to communicate to ensure they are "prioritizing pleasure." Ashley drops blogs each Wednesday on Madamenoire giving tips and tricks on how to always be satisfied.

“The foundation is having a partner that prioritizes your needs..”

-Koereyelle

EPISODE BREAKDOWN:

[2:56] How she became @sexwithashley

[3:41] How does she introduce this version of herself?

[5:38] How do women have the sex talk while dating?

[7:27] We're not having 'the talk' but we are seeing the results...why? Are we being productive?

[10:19] When should you have sex?

[13:29] What is the single women's sex struggle?

[18:11] Finding a Partner that values you..and your needs

[20:18] How to have a hoephase..safely

[22:42] Should women be in an undercover hoephase?