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Failing Motherhood

If you’re riddled with mom guilt, your temper scares you, you’re terrified you’re screwing up your kids and are afraid to admit any of those things out loud….this podcast is for you. Hosted by Danielle Bettmann, parenting coach for families with 1-10-year-old strong-willed kids, Failing Motherhood is where shame-free vulnerability meets breakthroughs.
Every other week is a storytelling interview about one mom’s raw and honest experience of growth that leads to new perspectives and practical strategies and every other week solo episodes focus on actionable insight into parenting your deeply feeling, highly sensitive, *spicy* child.
Here, we normalize the struggle, share openly about our insecurities, and rally around small wins and truths. We hope to convince you you’re not alone and YOU are the parent your kids need. We hope you see yourself, hear your story, and find hope and healing.
Welcome to Failing Motherhood. You belong here!

UPDATE: 08/2026 – Applications are no longer accepted for Wholeheartedly CALM.

Copyright: © 2023 Failing Motherhood

Latest Episodes:

118. Break the Cycle (Not the One You're Thinking Of) Aug 15, 2023

Show notes

While you may be breaking generational cycles, today I'm going to open your eyes to a new cycle you might not even know you're perpetuating.
I've been taking ferocious notes during a new favorite show and I've compiled the key takeaways for you here!

IN THIS EPISODE, I SHARED...

How you may be inadvertently encouraging your child's negative behavior (it's NOT by being permissive!)
The messages behind attention-seeking and power-seeking behaviors
Ways to break free of the vicious cycle and eliminate problem behaviors for good

DON'T MISS:

How lessons from "the dog whisperer" would help you support your "anxious aggressive Chihuahua" :)

// MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE //
Watch on Disney Plus: Cesar Millan: Better Human, Better Dog

// CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //
Website: parentingwholeheartedly.com
IG: @parent_wholeheartedly
APPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/apply
FREE CONSULT: wholeheartedly.as.me/call

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Support the show

START HERE:
CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS
Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells
*FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

117. Canaries Among Us: Preventing Bullying, Cultivating Kindness and the Costs of Advocacy with Kayla Taylor Aug 08, 2023

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Do you feel equipped to prevent your child from being a bystander, victim or bully?
Kayla Taylor is a best-selling author, researcher, advocate and parent. She recently published "Canaries Among Us", an important expose that blends poignant storytelling and groundbreaking scientific research to empower those caring for the millions of kids challenged by learning differences, bullying and anxiety.
In this episode, Kayla shares openly about her family's journey coping with the bullying her daughter endured despite a caring teacher and ongoing conversations with administrators.
If your child doesn't fit society's definition of "normal", you might have this fear as well. Tune into this deep dive into all things bullying prevention, powerful advocacy, working with the school, and raising kind humans.
IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVERED...

The qualifications for something to be considered bullying
What's been proven to help prevent it (it starts at home)
The skills you need to be a powerful advocate for victims

DON'T MISS-

The challenges Kayla did not anticipate while fighting for change
Ways to create a deeply rooted culture of kindness and inclusion from a young age in your home

// MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE //
Book: A Day in the Life of Marlon Bundo
// CONNECT WITH KAYLA TAYLOR //
kaylataylorwrites.com
Book: Canaries Among Us: A Mother's Quest to Honor Her Child's Individuality in a Culture Determined to Negate It (link supports Independent Bookstores)
I believe in you + I'm cheering you on.
Come say hi! I'm @parent_wholeheartedly on Insta.
Schedule your FREE Consultation: wholeheartedly.as.me/call

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Support the show

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CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS
Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells
*FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

116. Is My Child Strong-Willed? Spirited? Highly Sensitive? Spicy? Deeply Feeling? ADHD? Who Knows?! Aug 01, 2023

Show notes

Unfortunately, your child did not come home stamped from the hospital with the care instructions they need based on their particular temperament.
"Throwing spaghetti at the wall and seeing what sticks" likely feels more accurate!
If you've been struggling with your child and traditional discipline approaches just aren't landing... you feel like there's something different about them than their siblings or friends, but it feels like you're nearly the only one who sees it... today's episode is going to finally make all of that make sense!

IN THIS EPISODE, I SHARED...

The 10 most common characteristics of tiny humans with this temperament
How to make sense of the different terms out there
Why it feels like you need Dramamine to ride the emotional rollercoasters!

DON'T MISS:

Why I chose "strong-willed" to identify the families I work with

// CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //
Website: parentingwholeheartedly.com
IG: @parent_wholeheartedly
APPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/apply
FREE CONSULT: wholeheartedly.as.me/call

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Support the show

START HERE:
CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS
Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells
*FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

115. Potty Training Success without the Stress with Allison Jandu Jul 25, 2023

Show notes

Are you on the never-ending potty training struggle bus?
I have good news and bad news. The bad news is there is NO one-size-fits-all way to potty train, especially if you have a strong-willed child. The good news is there is critical insight you can learn today to make it 10X smoother!
After over 5,000 hours of research, my guest today, Allison Jandu created Potty Training Consultant where she has helped 7,000 families potty train. She's created a community where moms can come together without judgment, ask the hard questions, and get evidence-based facts that drive potty success.
IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVERED...

Everything you need to know before you start
Common pitfalls to avoid and misconceptions to debunk
What to do if they're going #1 in the potty but not #2

DON'T MISS-

How to mitigate stress when your potty training has a deadline
Why accidents can be a good thing and a mantra to cling to

// CONNECT WITH ALLISON JANDU //
pottytrainingconsultant.com
Instagram: @pottytrainingconsultant
I believe in you + I'm cheering you on.
Come say hi! I'm @parent_wholeheartedly on Insta.
Schedule your FREE Consultation: wholeheartedly.as.me/call

Send us Fan Mail over Text.

Support the show

START HERE:
CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS
Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells
*FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

114. Your Parenting "Report Card": How to Know if You're *Actually* Failing or Not Jul 18, 2023

Show notes

There are so many reasons to feel insecure, guilt, shame or fear as a parent. How do you know if you're doing okay or if you need to make a change?

If your child’s behavior is not your report card, what is?

In today's episode I share 3 questions to navigate that help you decide for yourself and your family what the right next step is for you. Many times it's simply letting an expectation go, forgetting about that unsolicited advice, and allowing other families to parent differently than you.
Use these questions alongside the day-to-day feedback to stay grounded in the decisions that are best for your kids, and help you truly hear and listen to your gut instinct as their parent.

IN THIS EPISODE, I SHARED...

3 Questions to ask yourself when doubting, questioning or worried about your parenting
A strategic way to address all the "shoulds" in your head
A way to re frame the adversity you face day-to-day

DON'T MISS:

How I use my family's values to know when something needs to change

// MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE //
Family Culture + Values from Mighty + Bright

// CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //
Website: parentingwholeheartedly.com
IG: @parent_wholeheartedly
APPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/apply
FREE CONSULT: wholeheartedly.as.me/call

Send us Fan Mail over Text.

Support the show

START HERE:
CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS
Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells
*FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

113. Do I Homeschool my Neurodiverse Child? with Afsaneh Moradian Jul 11, 2023

Show notes

If your child has autism, ADHD, sensory processing, anxiety, and/or is strong-willed - you’ll resonate with so much of Afsaneh’s journey.
After teaching, writing curriculum and being a huge advocate for public schools (and criticisms of homeschooling), Afsaneh Moradian found herself homeschooling her neurodiverse child. She didn't feel like there was another viable option.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVERED...

The unique challenges to consider when homeschooling a child with different needs
What it really means when your child resists direction (and how to handle it)
How to be their best advocate, supporting who they are and working with it
Indicators that homeschooling isn't working (for you or them)

DON'T MISS-

How Afsaneh's book series encourages gender-less play in preschool
Her experience supporting her non-binary child and their request to use they/them pronouns

// CONNECT WITH AFSANEH MORADIAN //
www.mlccoaching.com
Free Guide: Roadmap to Anti-Resistance
Instagram: @moradian.afsaneh
Book: Jamie is Jamie
Neurodiverse Homeschooling Summit: Empowering Moms to Conquer Homeschooling Challenges and Thrive with Confidence
FREE VIRTUAL EVENT: July 16th - July 31st
www.mlccoaching.com/summit-registration
I believe in you + I'm cheering you on.
Come say hi! I'm @parent_wholeheartedly on Insta.
Schedule your FREE Consultation: wholeheartedly.as.me/call

Send us Fan Mail over Text.

Support the show

START HERE:
CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS
Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells
*FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

112. How to STOP Walking on Eggshells with Jaclyn + Ryan Jun 27, 2023

Show notes

From 3 meltdowns/DAY to 2/WEEK! THAT'S A 90% DECREASE!
Parents of 2 kids ages 3 + under, Jaclyn + Ryan, are SPILLING THE BEANS - sharing all sorts of insider secrets, insight and advice after graduating my program, Wholeheartedly CALM!
I pick their brain, digging for what takeaways stuck with them, how their mindset shifted, and how different life is now, including NO LONGER walking on eggshells.
IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVERED...

The "Game-Changers" they attribute their success to
What they thought it'd be like VS. What it was
The mantras bouncing around in their heads to this day

DON'T MISS:

The term they coined for me! :)

// CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //
Website: parentingwholeheartedly.com
IG: @parent_wholeheartedly
APPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/apply
FREE CONSULT: wholeheartedly.as.me/call

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Support the show

START HERE:
CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS
Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells
*FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

111. Why are they SO ANGRY?! Jun 20, 2023

Show notes

When your child's anger scares you, you often don't know where to turn next.
Where are they learning this MEAN behavior? Do they need a therapist? Do they have ADHD? WHY are they SO angry?!
You've explained "we don't hit" 1,000X, so when aggressive behavior continues past age 4... you have no patience for it (understandably). You end up walking on eggshells, trying to stay ahead of it, never knowing what might set them off next.
IN THIS EPISODE, I SHARE...

Why anger is so BIG in strong-willed kids
3 "red flags" to consider regarding your child's anger
What's ACTUALLY proven to stabilize and diffuse the anger in the strong-willed kids of my clients (typically from 3 outbursts/day to only 2/week!)

DON'T MISS:

My thoughts on whether or not empathy comes "pre-wired"

/ CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //
Website: parentingwholeheartedly.com
IG: @parent_wholeheartedly
APPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/apply
FREE CONSULT: wholeheartedly.as.me/call

Send us Fan Mail over Text.

Support the show

START HERE:
CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS
Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells
*FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

110. Uniting Partners + Bettering the Mental Health of ALL Parents with Kevin Seldon Jun 13, 2023

Show notes

In this Father's Day-inspired episode, Kevin Seldon, host of the DILF (Dad I'd Like to Friend) Podcast, is here to share his journey of navigating infertility, bonding with his baby, staying at home for a year, and working on himself.
He shares insight into creating more equal parenting partnerships by prioritizing opportunities for each partner to establish their own way, holding weekly business meetings, and also having time to reset.
Tune in for a breakdown on how he became a maternal gatekeeper, what he's realized after countless interviews on his own platform, and how we can shift the dynamic of mom VS. dad to everyone getting the support they need and deserve so our kids thrive too.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVERED...

Why it's so important to support BOTH parents postpartum
Updating the idea of co-parenting to being "co-pilots" utilizing principles, trust, and empowering your partner
How to identify and stop maternal gatekeeping in its tracks

DON'T MISS-

How to implement the concept of a "Freedom Shift"
Ways to "pick your battles" in your relationship

// MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE //
Blog Post: Surviving Infertility (a father's journey)
// CONNECT WITH KEVIN SELDON //
Podcast - Dad I'd Like to Friend
Survey - survey.dadidliketofriend.com
Merch - https://shop.dadidliketofriend.com
promo code: MOMLOVE

I believe in you + I'm cheering you on.
Come say hi! I'm @parent_wholeheartedly on Insta.
Schedule your FREE Consultation: wholeheartedly.as.me/call

Send us Fan Mail over Text.

Support the show

START HERE:
CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS
Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells
*FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

109. 10 Things Parents of Strong-Willed Kids Are Afraid to Admit Jun 06, 2023

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Shame lives in the darkness; in the silence - the things unsaid. Freedom is found in honesty, vulnerability, and a round of "me too!"
Parents of strong-willed kids bear a heavy burden when parenting feels exhausting, relenting, challenging, frustrating, and defeating on a daily basis. Today I break down 10 things parents are afraid to admit, and why it's 100% okay for them to feel that way.
IN THIS EPISODE, I SHARE...

Things that feel so cringe to say out loud but are true nonetheless
The paradox felt between the guilt of overreacting and underreacting
What to do if you check every single box

DON'T MISS:

Why you should have more compassion for yourself than you do

// CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //
Website: parentingwholeheartedly.com
IG: @parent_wholeheartedly
APPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/apply
FREE CONSULT: wholeheartedly.as.me/call

Send us Fan Mail over Text.

Support the show

START HERE:
CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS
Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells
*FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

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