Enneagram & Coffee

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Notes from Therapy: The raw and tender process of grieving. Sep 21, 2023

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In this episode of the Enneagram and Coffee podcast, host Sarajane Case opens up about her personal experience with grief and loss. She discusses supporting her partner, Oby, through the recent passing of his grandmother while also dealing with her own emotions surrounding the loss of a dear friend. Sarajane emphasizes the importance of being gentle with each other during times of grief and allowing space for emotions.

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How can I access my emotions when I feel numb? | Wednesday Q&A Sep 20, 2023

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In this podcast episode, Sarajane Case, host of the Enneagram and Coffee podcast, discusses her personal experience with seeking clarity and direction in life. She shares a recent wave of clarity that has helped her know where to go. A caller asks for advice on accessing their emotions, as they have been feeling numb and unable to process their feelings. Sarajane offers advice based on her own journey, including identifying numbing behaviors, writing down feelings daily, accessing emotions through external sources, and using movement to release and express emotions. She emphasizes the connection between emotions and the body and acknowledges the impact of depression on numbness.

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Create a new routine with me. A guided reflection and planning practice. Sep 19, 2023

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In this episode of the "Enneagram and Coffee" podcast, host Sarajane Case explores the topic of ritual and routine. She shares her personal experiences and highlights the importance of creating supportive routines that align with individual needs and growth. Sarajane provides prompts for listeners to reflect on their current routines and envision their ideal day. She guides them through the process of creating their ideal routine and advises them to focus on one area for improvement.

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The Power of Knowing Your Why | Coffee Chats w/ SJ Sep 18, 2023

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In this podcast episode, Sarajane Case, host of the Enneagram and Coffee podcast, shares three good things bringing joy to her life, including receiving a PR box from Supergoop, lighting candles in her house, and making delicious meals at home. She discusses her tendency as an Enneagram seven to solve problems by adding more things and how this can lead to burnout. Sarajane also talks about her love for in-person collaborations and her plans for the future. She hints at a secret project she's working on and shares her commitment to staying true to her personal goals and values. For the fall season, she focuses on values rather than desired feelings, choosing "interested," "inspired," and "intentional" as her core values.

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Relationship Failure and Friendship Stories with Kat Sleadd Sep 15, 2023

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In this episode, Sarajane Case welcomes Kat Sleadd, trauma-informed coach and author of "How to Be a Bad Friend: The Hidden Life of Failed Relationships." The discussion ranges from the complexities of friendship and friend breakups to exploring how past experiences shape present relational patterns. Kat delves into the concept of a friendship story and emphasizes the importance of open conversations about conflict and the need to embrace authenticity and belonging simultaneously.

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Notes from Therapy: The art of simplifying conflict in relationships. Sep 14, 2023

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In this episode of the Enneagram and Coffee podcast, Sarajane Case discusses how therapy has simplified her understanding of relational conflict. She shares a personal example from her relationship with her partner, Oby, where they experience conflict during their tennis games. Sarajane explains how therapy has taught her to recognize the core issues and fears that each person brings to a conflict, often rooted in their inner child responses. By pausing and reflecting on their inner child needs, they can find practical and less emotionally overwhelming resolutions. Sarajane emphasizes the importance of exploring these needs to simplify relational conflict.

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Enneagram 9 & 8 Relationship Tips | Wednesday Q&A Sep 13, 2023

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In this podcast episode, Sarajane Case offers advice to a caller who is an Enneagram Type Nine Wing One married to an Eight Wing Seven. Sarajane discusses conflict styles, advising Type Eights to seek peace and safety in the relationship instead of constantly seeking intensity, while encouraging Type Nines to express their feelings directly to their partner. She also cautions Type Nines about unintentionally making their partner solely responsible for their life and advises both partners on how to positively influence each other. Lastly, Sarajane emphasizes the importance of taking space and initiating discussions in order to maintain a balanced relationship.

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Exploring the difference between routines and rituals and how they can improve your life. Sep 12, 2023

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In this episode of the Enneagram and Coffee podcast, host Sarajane Case explores the benefits of routines and differentiates them from rituals. She discusses the psychological and physiological advantages of implementing routines, such as reducing decision fatigue and increasing productivity. Case explains that routines are task-oriented and create a sense of order, while rituals are more symbolic and intentional, often tied to emotions or deeper significance. She shares her own morning routine turned ritual and offers tips for establishing and maintaining routines, addressing common barriers. The episode concludes with a reminder that listeners deserve a life of ease.

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Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127

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Plan for Fall With Me | Coffee Chats w/ Sj Sep 11, 2023

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In this podcast episode, Sarajane Case, host of the Enneagram and Coffee podcast, shares various aspects of her life and goals for the upcoming fall season. She begins by recounting a story about seeing a bear in her neighborhood, interpreting it as a symbol of leadership and strength. She then discusses three good things in her life, including her love for connecting with people through direct messages on Instagram. Sarajane moves on to talk about planning for the fall, reflecting on values, creating a cozy home, and her Fall wardrobe plans. She also shares her fall hobbies and career goals. Sarajane concludes by discussing her fall projects and goals, emphasizing self-care, relationships, and personal routines.

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Creating a Harmonious and Productive Work Environment: The Enneagram's Role in Understanding and Engaging Your Team with Kaleigh Newby Sep 08, 2023

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In this podcast episode, Sarajane Case interviews Kaleigh Newby, an Enneagram business consultant, corporate trainer, and coach. They discuss the importance of the Enneagram in organizations and how it can be used to prevent toxic work environments, repair trust, and improve team dynamics. Kaleigh shares her personal experiences in toxic work environments and how the Enneagram resonated with her more deeply than other therapeutic approaches. They also discuss the motivations and characteristics of different Enneagram types in the workplace and how to motivate and support each type. Kaleigh provides insights and recommendations for each type, emphasizing the importance of understanding individual needs and preferences.

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Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127

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