Enneagram and Marriage

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Your Internal Enneagram Narratives & An Exercise from the E + M Membership Oct 24, 2022

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You bring your internal narratives to everything you do, and as such, the stories and scripts inside of you not only matter but affect your life more than you may realize. Today's podcast gives you a chance to recognize your inner narratives and offers steps to help you become more grounded as you incorporate an inner Enneagram coaching technique that you can use as you prepare to enter the ups and downs of the holiday season. Before we walk through this exercise together, Christa and Jenn also lead you through an internal E + M discussion about what's on the inner track of the E + M Membership, the Collective. Join Christa and Jenn on the podcast today as they talk about not just weaving a healthier internal and external story, but offering steps for seeing through a healthier lens in life and marriage! Show Links: Our membership will reopen early 2023! Join here now to stay tuned

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E + M Shorts: The Heaven/Idealist Triad - Enneagram 1, 4, and 7 Oct 19, 2022

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Some of us, particularly those who identify with Enneagram 1, 4, and 7, create patterns of idealistic expectations that potentially hinder their quality of life and their love match. Join Christa for a mini-episode on the Harmony groups as we discuss types 1, 4, and 7, and the ways they can bypass the realities and deep connections of marriage, in favor of seeking impossible ideals. Check the last two Wednesday for the other six types in marriage! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 1, 4, 7, and all the types right here! Show Links: Our membership is open only until Nov 2! Join here now for extra podcasts weekly, Zoom meet ups, and your 5 Step Glow Process Course + PDFS! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 3, 6, and 9 and all the types right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

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Setting Boundaries with Extended Family w/Dr. Alison Cook, Enneagram 3 Oct 17, 2022

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Sometimes we do all the right steps and we still don't get the desired results with family and friends around us. Dr. Alison Cook joins us with some profound answers as she invites you to say a healthy "yes" to others even as you set boundaries for yourself. Join Christa and Alison as they discuss not only riveting points from Dr. Cook's book about boundaries in general, but also how to approach in-laws from each and every direction, whatever generation you're currently a part of. This is because we truly want you to be held in every season, and the best of your precious legacy as well. Find Dr. Alison Cook's Book & Social Media at the links below! Dr. Cook's The Best of You is >> right here! > Instagram Join the E + M Collective Membership

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E + M Shorts: The Attachment Triad 3, 6, and 9 in Marriage Oct 12, 2022

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Some of us, particularly those who identify with Enneagram 3, 6, and 9, create patterns of comforting behavior that potentially hinder their quality of life and their love match. Join Christa for a mini-episode on the Harmony groups as we discuss types 3, 6, and 9, and the ways they can bypass deep connection in favor of comfort. Stay tuned for the other types! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 3, 6, 9, and all the types right here! Show Links: Our membership is open only until Nov 2! Join here now for extra podcasts weekly, Zoom meet ups, and your 5 Step Glow Process Course + PDFS! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 3, 6, and 9 and all the types right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

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Working Through Family Ties & In Law Issues w/Hailey Brown, LCMHC, Enneagram 9 Oct 10, 2022

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In-law issues and extended family are enormous contributors to marital discord. Because of the exorbitant stress, one of the best ways to look both inward and outward at this complex dynamic is with an Enneagram 9 therapist and we're doing that on today's episode. Hailey Brown, LCMHC has not only been a counselor for the past decade but is also an Enneagram and Marriage certified coach. We get to not only hear about Hailey's 9-5 marriage story (two withdrawing types, a rare treat on this pod!) and also her perfectly-timed tip with extended family just a bit before we get to holidays. Don't miss these calming and clarifying tips and we walk you through your extended family issues with grace and wisdom today! Find Hailey's Instagram & Sat & Light Counseling and Coaching Services at the link below! https://www.instagram.com/salt.light.therapy.enneagram/ https://www.saltandlightcounselling.com/ >> Join the E + M Collective Membership

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E + M Shorts: The Rejection Triad - Enneagram 2, 5, and 8 Oct 05, 2022

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Some of us, particularly those who identify with Enneagram 2, 5, and 8, create patterns of rejecting behavior that potentially hinder their quality of life and their love match. Join Christa for a mini-episode on the Harmony groups as we discuss types 2, 5, and 8, and the ways they can reject nurturing and accidentally bring out something they fear most, rejection from the ones they love. Stay tuned for the other types! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 2, 5, 8, and all the types right here! Make sure you subscribe @ Apple Podcast for our mid-week deeper dive podcast series also, currently on attachment types. Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

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Beyond the Enneagram with Marilyn Vancil, 9, Spiritual Processing in Marriage and Family Issues Oct 03, 2022

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When we're considering how to glow or even relate with a spouse from a different family pattern than us, we are often called to not only marital or personal but spiritual work as we come across our unhealthy inner scripts. It's wonderful to get to process this topic and to do a spiritual exercise to the depths with Marilyn Vancil, 9, Spiritual Director, Author, and Enneagram teacher as she launches her new book, Beyond the Enneagram. Marilyn has not only been studying the Enneagram for over thirty years but she also has been married to her husband Jeff, Enneagram 3 for over fifty years. Marilyn is truly showing us an exhibition of the glow possible across seasons and her passion for helping people to listen to God, experience inner soul restoration, and enjoy a life of freedom and fullness as their true God-gifted self is seen. Marilyn's Books: Self to Lose, Self to Find Beyond the Enneagram Marilyn's Instagram Donate to Hurricane Ian and the Anna and Ryan Herzog fund: https://gofund.me/c2776609 Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

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An E + M Hurricane Ian Crisis & Update Oct 02, 2022

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In today's mini-episode with Christa, we share an extension of gratitude for the kindness and love shown in this time of Hurricane Ian crisis and our current positioning in the midst of it.

Christa also mentions her dear friends Ryan and Anna Herzog and their teen daughter Lily on this episode who lost their home suddenly in Hurricane Ian last Thursday. If you'd like to donate to their GoFundMe page, here is the donation page!

Anna, Ryan, and Lily's Go Fund Me

If you'd like to otherwise help those without a home and food and medical supplies in this time due to Ian, contact the Red Cross Ian relief below:

https://www.redcross.org/donate/donation.html/

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Couples and Addictions with Dr. Deborah Russo, Psy.D Sep 28, 2022

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For many, a marriage or close relationship with addiction is the norm, and yet life with an addicted partner is not only not the ideal, but is often a source of chaos, negativity, emotional upheaval, and worse, sometimes for generations on end. Join Christa in this special episode with Dr. Deborah Russo, Psy.D, who has a specialty in working with couples and addictions. Dr. Russo shares clarified great hope and tips for those walking on this often lonely and misunderstood road.

Show links:

Dr. Russo and Christa's 2-hour addiction training Sat, Oct 1, 2022

Click here for the training: https://connectionsrelationalrecovery.com/crr-workshop-breaking-intergenerational-trauma-together

Addictions Inventory Mentioned:

https://auditscreen.org/check-your-drinking

Spousal Support:

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/

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Healing in the Shadows & Seasons of Change w/Abram, Drew, and Creek of Fathoms Enneagram Podcast Sep 26, 2022

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As we talk about seasons of change, today we are focusing on how to walk through the shadows that often accompany us while remembering we are more than just our Enneagram patterns. Today we are joined by Seth Creekmore (Creek), Drew Moser (The Enneagram of Discernment), and Seth Abram (Abram) of the Fathoms Enneagram Podcast. Join Christa and the Fathoms podcast crew as we talk about about how to walk through our issues across seasons with grace, wellness, and intention.

Fathoms links:

Check out the Fathoms Podcast!

Fathoms Podcast Enneagram Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/integratedenneagram/

https://www.instagram.com/drewmoser/

https://www.instagram.com/typetrailenneagram/

https://www.instagram.com/drewmoser/

Seth Creek: https://www.instagram.com/creekmoremusic/ and https://linktr.ee/ataenneagrampodcast

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