Enneagram and Marriage

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Healing Soul Wounds in Marriage with Drs. Bill and Kristi Gaultierre, Types 1 & 2 Nov 12, 2023

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Today we’re joined on the pod by Drs. Bill and Kristin Gaultierre, psychologists and spiritual directors who help us to find one another's gifts amidst the rubble of soul wounds as we learn to offer Christ's compassionate healing to one another. They do this with us with structure but also gentleness and care as a mature 1 & 2 pairing. You won't regret taking the time to dig underneath the anger, shame, and anxiety to journey through the soul with grace and healing from God and one another right here with us. Follow Drs. Drs. Bill and Kristin Gaultierre on Instagram here:https://www.instagram.com/soulshepherding/ Visit their website here (and find their book here!): www.soulsheparding.org

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An E + M Mini: Facing Difficult Conversations Individually & Together Nov 08, 2023

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85% of adults will have experienced a traumatic event by the time they’re 18, which means that virtually all married individuals need good ways to cope with trauma. In today’s brief episode, Christa walks you through five tried-and-true methods for walking through traumatic conversations and situations in marriage, with as much resiliency as possible. She'll share tips for working through your triggers and enduring vulnerabilities, as well as practical, logical steps, and lots of love. Do not miss this episode before the holiday!

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How to Heal Generational Trauma in Your Family w/Courtney J. Burg, 1w9 Nov 06, 2023

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The last thing you want are holiday arguments between you or your extended family to carry forward to future generations and this week's shows are aimed at helping you to process, love, and set the boundaries you need. We welcome expert and author, Courtney J. Burg, author (Thomas Nelson, 12/12/23, Loyal to a Fault: How to Establish New Patterns When Loving Others Has Left You Hurting) to the pod today to help you truly find your way together this season, as we discover how boundaries can become an important bid for healthy connection.

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Special Episode: Marvel Character Typing w/Melody Hardin, Enneagram 9 Oct 31, 2023

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In this episode, join Christa and Melody Hardin, Enneagram Nine as they walk through each Enneagram type through the lens of Marvel characters. Join us as we hack out each type in nuanced detail with some superhero fun typing Iron Man, Black Widow, Loki, Bucky, Roadie, Dr. Strange and more and bring joy but also meaningful insights as we enjoy a lighter moment on this Hallo-week episode!

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Tips To Love Your Spouse or Partner of Each Enneagram Type Oct 30, 2023

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We get scared as humans when we feel our pair bond is threatened and today's episode is designed to empower you to feel both safe and loved together, type by type. Listen to tips for your partner of each type and find not just goals but systems to carefully place these specific tips into actionable steps so you can truly begin thriving more and more together, starting today!

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Finding Your Marriage Mission Together: Part 2 w/Wes Hardin, Enneagram 1 Oct 25, 2023

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To find our truest mission, it's not only important to find our personal gifts, but there's a deeper joy in marriage in finding collective missions, too, not just to be self-serving as a couple. Here in this episode, Christa helps you to find synchronization together with your partner, to encourage growth in one another as well as celebrate one another's gifts and struggles. She brings her husband Wes, Enneagram 1 also on as he helps you to learn to sit with your spouse's gifts and struggles with grace, a lesson we all need in an ongoing way. Tune in here!

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The Top Three Reasons Couples Divorce (and How to Stay Strong Together) Oct 23, 2023

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Though each of us is unique, today on this E + M short, we're talking about the three most common reasons why couples cite divorce and ways to prevent your own relationship from becoming a passive casualty. One of the main ways we will keep this episode hope-filled is that we're also sharing tools for the specific timelines where issues tend to crop up and take down 43-44% of married couples. Don't miss this noteworthy, logical, and encouraging episode that will help you sit up, take note, and move into a healthy direction together today!

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HAVE A QUESTION? Do you have a question about how the Enneagram can help your marriage or any relationship issue at all? Share it here via audio call for Channel Mom Radio and Christa can talk about it on air/the Channel Mom podcast this coming week as well as on the E + M Instagram Live! 303-873-1935 (leave aa question for Christa here for Channel Mom) or visit Christa on Instagram here on Thurs 12 PM EST to ask a question there!

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Authentically Healing In Marriage w/Best-Selling Author Justin Davis, 8 Oct 18, 2023

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When we're not honest with our spouse and with God about what's actually going on inside, we bring that darkness and the layers of hiding to our spouses and families. Whether you're hiding from each other because you feel hopeless, angry, hurt, or believe that being honest will drive you even farther away from your goals of connection, this is a MUST-LISTEN episode guiding you and your relationship back to true intimacy.

Christa is joined by Justin Davis, best-selling USA Today author (Being Authentic is Greater Than Being Perfect: How Transparency Leads to Transformation), Enneagram 8 (8-3 pairing), who joins us to speak of his own marriage and how he increasingly learned the importance of confession, prayer, and bringing secrets from the darkness. If you want a walk closer to humility, authenticity, and integrity, don't miss this episode helping you to draw closer to God and one another in marriage, family, and a healthy community.

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Find Justin and Trisha's Refine Us marriage ministry here, where they help couples all over recover from trauma, including infidelity recovery

Get Christa's new book The Enneagram in Marriage, available now wherever books are sold, or get it at 40% off with free standard shipping when you order from BakerBookHouse.com and use the promo code EMBOOK40. Link: https://bakerbookhouse.com/products/516448

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Finding Your Marriage Mission Together: Part 1 Oct 16, 2023

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Finding your marriage mission just isn’t possible without finding your own authentic God-given gifting, a gift others may have missed in your life. Today Christa intimately weaves her own stories and encouragements for you together on the podcast to give you a lift in finding your authentic self before God. This episode can help you to destabilize shame in your life and find your gifting again with yourself and with God, even amidst church hurt, family of origin wounds, marriage hurt, and more. Listen here or watch on YouTube here!

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Soul Care in Marriage with Executive Editor Stephanie Duncan Smith, Enneagram 4 Oct 11, 2023

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Today we take a peek into the soul of the Enneagram in Marriage book in a heartfelt conversation with Christa and the Baker Books executive editor Christa worked with on the pages of it, Stephanie Duncan Smith (Slant Letter, @stephanieduncansmith on Instagram). Stephanie and Christa discuss not only the heart of the mission of E + M in the pages of the book but also private writing as soul care, and how partners can and must give one another support, liftoff, and a safe place for us to explore our dreams. We hear about Stephanie's 4-8 marriage pairing, her reason for championing Christa's book at the pub board and onward as the book finally gets launch liftoff, and so much more in this interview together!

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