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On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi gives an overview of the 8 domains of wellness, which she recommends you think through as you are considering your own well-being. These dimensions intertwine and come together to manifest your overall well-being, but it is helpful to go through the exercise of thinking through each one individually as well.
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Kimi has returned from her unplanned but very necessary sabbatical! And she talks on this episode about why she had to take some time away and how to know if you need to step away from something in your own life. This message has been very prevalent since the 2020 Summer Olympics (in July-August 2021) when Simone Biles chose not to compete in several gymnastics events due to mental health challenges and other things going on in her life.
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The topic of this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is stepping out on faith. Whether you are religious or not, you have likely encountered a time in your life when you could choose to stay where you are or step out in faith that something bigger is ahead. By choosing to get out of your comfort zone and entrust the results to a higher power, you have to potential to achieve great goals. Here are a few of Kimi’s tips for stepping out on faith: 1. Learn to face fear – While you might still have questions and insecurities about the end result, facing your fears will build character and open up your potential for achieving great things. 2. Acknowledge unsettling feelings – Starting something new or committing to stop a habit is uncomfortable, and admitting that to yourself will make it seem less scary or unnatural. 3. Trust that there is good out there – Perhaps you have asked yourself “Is this really all there is?” The answer is no, there are bigger and better things in store for those who step out on faith. 4. Remember that you deserve good – Sure, you believe that other people deserve for good things to happen to them, but what about you? It is ok to be discontent with your current circumstances and want better things to happen. Believe that you deserve good and affirm those beliefs often. 5. Know that there will be challenges – Nothing good comes easily, so expect challenges and don’t be discouraged. 6. Affirm that you are equipped to handle those challenges – Recognize that all of your previous challenges have prepared you for the ones ahead, so accept them when they come and be confident that you can overcome. Topics Covered in this Episode: • Stepping out on faith • Accepting challenges • Achieving your goals • Reaching for more • Trusting the process
During the process of goal activation, you are sure to run into discouragements and obstacles, and maybe these cause you to feel like you aren’t making progress towards your goals. But you may be surprised how much progress you really are making, even when you don’t see it. Tracking your progress towards your goals is an excellent way to stay motivated and on track along the way. Here are the Early Accountability Podcast tips for tracking your progress: 1. Break large tasks down into smaller tasks – While you may want to lose 100 pounds in 2 years, the thought of that drastic transformation is daunting and may seem impossible. However, focusing on losing 5 or 10 pounds in a month is much easier to comprehend, and it is easier to see what choices you need to make on a daily basis to lose those 5 or 10 pounds. Then you can move on to the next 5 or 10 pounds. 2. Celebrate small victories – These don’t have to be extravagant celebrations, but they should be something out of the norm to reward yourself for accomplishing your recent milestone towards your goal. Binge watch a show, go out with friends, give yourself extra time on social media, or get your nails done – these are all great ways to celebrate. 3. Set daily goals – By tracking your progress daily, you have the opportunity to intentionally choose what tasks to do towards your goal and then look back at the end of the day and take stock of how you did and what needs to be done next. 4. Create deadlines/reminders – Take ownership of your time and foster healthy and productive habits by setting alarms, reminders, or timers to keep you on task and doing what you want to be doing. You may also find that writing yourself notes or using a visual map can help you maintain the right perspective. 5. Practice mindfulness frequently – Stilling your mind and focusing on the present moment has a way of keeping you grounded and affirming your goals and methods amidst the busy-ness of daily life. Find the right modality for you, such as yoga, journaling, exercising, or meditation. 6. Look for accountability – Research and reach out to accountability groups and networks in your geographical area and your area of need – there are plenty of groups out there if you will just look for them. Accountability partners can help you stay motivated, provide support, help you with problem solving based on their own experiences, and maintain your progress after reaching your goal. Topics Covered in this Episode: • Tracking your progress • Staying focused on your goals • Maintaining the right perspective • Reaching out for accountability support • Mindfulness
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi discusses the main reasons why people do not reach their goals. Setting goals is important for personal and professional inspiration and motivation and provides the tools needed to overcome adversity. 1. Setting the wrong goals for the wrong reasons. It is critical for you to recognize your “why” and analyze if you have the right motivations in your goal setting. If you set a goal based on pleasing others, fitting in, or having a “social media ideal” life, you will not be personally satisfied or fulfilled, so you should start out by setting goals for the right reasons. 2. Lacking accountability. When you set long-term and short-term goals, you should build in some checkpoints along the way that will allow you to gauge your progress and make any necessary adjustments. A great way to do this is by talking with your goals with a coach, trainer, accountability partner, or group that will check in with you and help you stay on track. Additionally, blocking off time on your calendar to commit to your various goals and assigning deadlines to the items on your to-do lists will create an element of passive accountability and make your goals seem more achievable. 3. You don’t like to be uncomfortable. Good goals will challenge you to get outside your comfort zone, because that is where you can truly grow. The more you step out and choose to be uncomfortable, the more confident you will be and the less you will listen to those around you who intentionally or unintentionally discourage you as you strive towards your goals. Establishing a mindfulness practice such as meditation, exercise, journaling, or spiritual activities will help you keep your emotions in check as you change internally. Topics Covered in this Episode: • The main reasons why people don’t reach their goals • Setting the right goals for the right reasons • Establishing an accountability system • Overcoming discomfort to grow, change, and achieve • Activating your goals
EAP 177: Celebrating Wins With Caution by Kimi Walker
With Memorial Day signaling the unofficial start of summer, it can be easy to shift to “vacation mode” and start coming up short on your personal and professional goals. On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi gives listeners 4 strategies for enjoying summer while being productive. 1. Define your work-life balance – Understand your personal, professional, and family roles and goals. Think through your desires and what works best for you and those around you during this season and then define what and when your breaks are going to be. 2. Plan, plan, plan – Consult with the stakeholders in your various roles to make plans and then commit to them. Write them down, set reminders, create alarms on your phone, and use timers when you need to stay on track and hold yourself accountable. 3. Set contingencies for yourself – If you have something coming up that you are looking forward to, come up with productivity milestones along the way where you get to reward yourself with as aspect of the upcoming event. For instance, when you finish this thing on your to-do list, you can book your flight, etc. Not only does this build up the anticipation of the trip, but it helps you spur on your productivity ahead of time, so you can truly enjoy yourself without feeling stressed about the work that you didn’t get done. 4. Intertwine work and fun – When possible, add on a few days of vacation to a work trip or schedule a meeting with a client if you are going to be in their area for vacation. Double-duty trips like this are cost-effective and beneficial because you are able to check a professional box and a personal box at the same time. Get out there and enjoy your summer and use these tips to maximize your time and productivity! Topics Covered in this Episode: • Productivity maximization • Intentional planning • Work-life balance • Time blocking • Self-awareness and motivation
EAP 174: Mental Health Matters - Stabilize With Selfless Self-Care by Kimi Walker
Our topic on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is the 3 ways your mind causes self-sabotage. It is important to be aware of these pitfalls because so much of what you worry about never happens, and even when those things do happen, you almost always handle them better than expected. This knowledge can help you get out of thinking traps and shift your mindset to more beneficial processes. 1.Taking things personally – Without context or clarity, it is impossible to know why people say or do the things they do. As such, personalizing and allowing yourself to draw conclusions based on your limited understanding of why that person cut you off on the highway can lead to self-sabotage. 2.Black and white thinking – Recognizing that multiple truths can exist in the same situation for different people is essential to healthy interactions. Sometimes it is not clear cut, so you need to be flexible and open to hearing other perspectives before you jump to conclusions. 3.Minimizing success – Laser focusing on failures is not only bad for your own wellbeing, but it has negative impacts on those around you. When you are caught in a cycle of minimizing your successes, you are not able to genuinely accept praise or compliments and eventually people will stop giving them. This doesn’t mean that you should become narcistic, but work to find a good balance between humility and pride in your accomplishments and strengths. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Mental Health Awareness month •Self-sabotage •Mindset shifts •Thinking traps Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this Mental Health Awareness month episode, Kimi provides listeners with 3 practical tips for adapting to big changes. A change is defined as an intensely different life event or circumstance, and support is the key to navigating the uncertainty that comes with change. 1.Accept what you can and can’t control – Sit down and process what is going on, either by journaling or talking with someone else, so you can recognize the power you have in the situation as opposed to the things that you need to accept as givens. 2.Take care of yourself – Eating healthy and prioritizing exercise can improve your overall wellbeing and give you the space to pause and reflect. 3.Look at the bright side – Be intentional about getting grounded and adopting the right perspective on the changes around you. Choose to see the best in the situation and use the change as an opportunity. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Mental Health Awareness month •Adapting to big changes •Perspective •Finding support Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
EAP 171: Mental Health Awareness Month 2021 by Kimi Walker
With so many unknowns in the world, it can be easy to doubt yourself, others, your higher power, and the path you’ve chosen. On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi discusses 3 ways that you can diminish these doubts with discipline and push past them to inspired action. 1.Practice patience and positivity – You might find it helpful to write in a gratitude or prayer journal to reflect on the things you are thankful for, but it is also important for high-achievers to reflect on past accomplishments. Allowing yourself this pause to see how far you have come in one way of demonstrating patience with yourself. 2.Tackle toxic talk – When you find yourself thinking negatively, replace the thought. Move from a fixed mindset of “I am not good at this…” to a growth mindset of “I will continue to work on this…” 3.Faith is stronger than fear and failure – In order to push past fear and failure, believing in a higher power is essential. This sense of being a part of something bigger than yourself also means that everything will work together for your greater good in the end as a result of the things you have overcome. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Push past doubt •Diminish doubt with discipline •Make patience and positivity a routine •Replace negative thoughts •Recognize the bigger victory available Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi gives listeners some tips for sparking motivation despite everything that is still going on in the world and all of the pressures that are so persistent. It is hard to stay focused on your goals or even just your daily tasks, but hopefully these ideas will help: 1.Switch things up – Try working in a new location (even if it is just a different room in your house or with your desk pointed a different direction), a different time of day, or using a new system. 2.Look for connections with others – It is especially important to be intentional about spending time with peers who are working towards the same goals as you are. This can be a source of inspiration and a boost to your morale, giving you a sense of purpose. 3.Find time to unplug – Take screen breaks throughout the day and move your body. Schedule these breaks for yourself and you will undoubtedly see that your productivity actually increases once you commit to unplugging for a few minutes. 4.Find time to do things you enjoy – Even if it looks different than “normal”, give yourself space to do and be. Working on or preparing for your hobbies and favorite activities can provide you with the inspiration you were lacking and give you the push to get to your next mental milestone. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Ignite motivation •Spark innovation •Recognize that this is still a stressful time •You are under a lot of pressure Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
Our topic on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is how to know when it is time to add a new goal or adjust your existing goals. When you feel yourself coasting along and struggling to stay engaged, this episode is for you. Here are a few ways to know if you might be ready to add a new goal to the mix: 1.If things feel mundane – A new goal can help you get motivated and push you in the right direction if you currently feel like you’re just going through the motions. 2.If you don’t have focus – Perhaps you have a big long-term goal on the horizon, but you are having trouble getting there or seeing it as attainable. Setting up milestones or smaller goals along the way can be a big help. 3.If you are not seeing your desired results – It could be that you have a good goal, but you just need to try a different approach to get there. 4.If you are backsliding – You achieved your big long-term goal, but now you are struggling to sustain those results. A new class, group, accountability structure, or app could be what you need. 5.If you feel like you don’t want the next level – A great example of this is working at a dead-end job with no growth opportunities. Eventually, you are going to feel stagnant or frustrated by being stuck in that rut and a new goal or opportunity will open up the way. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Doing more than coasting •Staying engaged •Feeling stuck •Adding a new goal Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
This episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is for the listeners out there who sometimes find themselves taking on too many goals or responsibilities, which is a very common occurrence for high-achievers. With spring now in full swing and COVID-19 restrictions easing up in various parts of the US, many people are taking up new hobbies and projects. Additionally, many activities that had transitioned online over the past year have started offering in-person options, so people have those decisions to make as well. So how do you know if you have taken on too much? If you’re experiencing goal overload? If now is not the time to take on new goals? Here are Kimi’s signs that you’re overloaded and you likely need to take a step back: 1.You are feeling stress, burnout, and overwhelm – This means that you need to take a look at your calendar and your obligations and figure out what really needs to stay. Prioritize self-care and try to strike a balance in your roles. 2.You are doing things for external reasons – If you are only doing things because people have told you that you are good at them and not because you truly enjoy them, this misalignment will catch up with you before long. 3.You see a recurring pattern of goal failure – Not setting specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time-bound goals could lead to not hitting the milestones you’ve set out for yourself. Get grounded and see what goals are realistic right now and don’t feel disappointed that you have limitations. 4.You start forgetting things – If you notice that you are uncharacteristically forgetful, late, and inconsistent, it is not because you aren’t capable. It is because you are human and your mind and body might be telling you to slow down. Be smart with your energy and don’t take on more than is good for you. Evaluate how you’re doing before committing to more obligations. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Goal overload •Being purposeful •Knowing when you’re overloaded •Being smart with your energy Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
Our topic on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is very timely since spring break and warmer weather are upon us. Many people are also getting the COVID-19 vaccine and are ready to get back out into the world and to a semblance of normalcy. Kimi takes this opportunity to talk about how these circumstances may lead some people to adopt bulldozer personalities, ready to do what they want to do when they want to do it without putting a whole lot of thought into the repercussions or how those things might fit into or ruin their goals. Most goals are meant to be sustained and they take considerable time and effort to work towards and achieve. It is important during these times to remember that long-term goals involve a lifestyle change where sustained behaviors lead to sustained success. Since this is a journey rather than a destination, keep in mind what this needs to look like on a daily basis as well as how you will sustain your progress once you reach the goal. What will you need to adopt or adapt in order to reach and maintain? Another consideration is how to celebrate your milestones within reason. Kimi is a huge advocate for rewarding yourself once you reach certain milestones, but make sure you do it in a way that will not set you back on the long-term goal. For instance, with the pandemic still going on, going on vacation is a good idea as long as you take the necessary precautions to keep yourself and others safe. Topics Covered in this Episode: •The quickest way to ruin your progress •Bulldozer personality •Sustaining goals •Celebrating milestones •Planning appropriately Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi focuses on another good way to do some spring cleaning – by being intentional about a digital declutter. These days, it seems like everything that needs to be done can be done online or through an app, especially since COVID-19 pushed so many things to go virtual. This can lead to digital clutter and unnecessary overwhelm, so take this as your sign that you need to follow this list and bring back some clarity to your life. 1.Unhoard – You know that iPhone 4 and your laptop from 10 years ago that you keep in that closet in the hall? You aren’t going to need them, but perhaps someone else can. Do some research in your area about technology donation and recycling programs to take that weight off of your mind. 2.Unsubscribe – Check out your latest bank statement or account summary to see what subscriptions you are paying for every month or every year – chances are, you will find a few things that you aren’t using and you can stop paying for. The same goes for your email – don’t be afraid to unsubscribe from newsletters and mailing lists that don’t interest you anymore! 3.Uninstall – Comb through the apps that you have on your phone, tablet, or computer and evaluate what you really need to have on there. Getting back to the basics will reduce the number of notifications you receive and the number of apps that can take your time. 4.Unplug – Make space for yourself to just think and be. Kimi recommends setting a “wind down” timer on your phone so you can turn off your screens or start using a blue light filter to get your mind ready to go to sleep. You could also consider completely unplugging for a few hours or a weekend as long as people know where you are and that you are safe. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Spring cleaning •Digital declutter •Getting into a better flow •Create space for yourself Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
Our topic on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is the positive changes you can make this spring, as you spring forward into more daylight and towards your goals. Spring is a natural time of reflection and refreshment because we can visually see new life springing up around us and it calls new life to spring up within us as well. Kimi provides 3 suggestions for entering this new season: 1.Recalibrate – Prioritize sleep and rest by starting to wind down earlier in the evenings and setting the environment to facilitate rest. Schedule breaks for yourself during the day, during the week, during the month, and beyond to reduce the likelihood of burnout. Track a positive habit that you are doing and you want to keep doing. 2.Spring clean – Look for things you can let go of – material things, emotional things, relationships, responsibilities, and anything else that might be holding you back. This will give you the space to be open to the next level. 3.Plant and grow – Look for what you can nurture – with your health, your time spent with family and friends, your job, or any other goals you have. Claim and be intentional about pursuing them. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Spring forward •Recalibrate, Reflect, and Refresh •Be intentional •Spring cleaning Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this International Women’s Day (Monday, March 8, 2021), Kimi reflects on the meaning and purpose of the day as well as ways listeners can participate in promoting change. The theme of this year’s celebration is “choose to challenge” which aligns well with the Early Accountability mindset of promoting inclusivity, calling out inequalities, and celebrating the achievements of those around you – in particular, women. Here are 5 ways that you can be involved in promoting change, today and every day: 1.Dialogue with others – Have open lines of communication with your family, friends, coworkers, children, and members of groups you are involved with about ways that women are being marginalized. 2.Share information – Encourage yourself and others to learn more about inequality. 3.Highlight the accomplishments of others – Be intentional about lifting up people from marginalized groups and underrepresented fields – Black women in STEM, for instance. 4.Support businesses – Promote positive behavior by patronizing businesses who are working towards change and by holding businesses accountable. 5.Respond when you see things that are wrong – This does not have to be a hostile confrontation. You can stop shopping at certain businesses who are not speaking out about injustices and inequalities. Another way is to question their practices and start a discussion with them about advocating for women’s rights. Topics Covered in this Episode: •International Women’s Day •Choose to challenge •Promote change •Celebrate the achievements of women Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi finishes up her 3-part 3-year anniversary series by sharing the third lesson that she has learned in the past year of podcasting. As you may remember, the first lesson was “do what works for you” and the second lesson was “find your squad.” This third lesson is “know when it is time to level up.” After 3 years of podcasting, Kimi has gotten pretty comfortable behind the mic, interviewing guests and bringing relevant content to you, the listeners. So now she is feeling the pull to expand Early Accountability into more than just a podcast, mainly through the new community and through YouTube content. It isn’t easy to step outside of your comfort zone, but that is the only way you will grow in knowledge, understanding, and experience. Hopefully you will find Kimi’s expansions into the online community and more video content to be helpful to you in connecting with others who are on similar journeys and collaborating to bring about more of the results and goal activation you have been seeking. Topics Covered in this Episode: •3-year anniversary •Leveling up •Stepping out of your comfort zone •Pursuing growth Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
This episode of the Early Accountability Podcast focuses on privilege, the different ways that it manifests, and Kimi’s suggestions for moving past it to practice more empathy. With February being Black History Month and all of the conversations about privilege that have taken place over the past year or so, this seemed like a good time to talk about privilege when it comes to race, culture, preferences, and beliefs. While recording this episode, Kimi is in Colombia. She likes to prioritize immersing herself in other cultures, particularly to help her become fluent in Spanish, and her current trip is making her very aware of the privilege that she has in being a foreigner and particularly an American. It is human nature to feel privilege when you are faced with people or circumstances that are different than you are used to, but it doesn’t have to be your default setting. 1.Have an honest dialogue with yourself – Consider any conscious and unconscious biases you may have and try to see things from the other point of view. 2.Do some research – Look at data regarding inequality, discrimination, and oppression and you will likely have a better understanding. 3.Stay open to having conversations with others – Try to understand rather than to judge. This will give you anecdotal awareness and empathy. 4.Become an ally – If you believe in fair treatment for certain groups of people, speak up and influence change. Especially if you are in the majority group, your voice can reach high places and positively impact the lives of those who have been marginalized. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Moving past privilege •Black History Month •Social concepts and dynamics •Self-awareness •Being open to other points of view Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
We are letting the good times roll over here at Early Accountability Podcast as we continue to celebrate the 3rd anniversary of the show! On the last episode, Kimi talked about her first key takeaway from the show so far: do what works for you and be consistent. Going along with the overall purpose of the podcast, helping others set, achieve, and sustain their goals, the takeaway on this episode is finding your squad. As Kimi mentioned last week, she doesn’t ever relisten to her episodes after recording them, so she knew from day one that she was not going to edit or write show notes for the Early Accountability Podcast. She found Emmy to edit the episodes and he has been consistently editing the podcast for 160 episodes and counting! For show notes, Kimi started out using a service to do show notes and transcription, but she changed gears and found Kelsey to just do show notes a few episodes after launch. At this point, the editing and writing is basically a seamless and automatic process because the team has been working together for so long. Now that Kimi is expanding Early Accountability into a community, she is going to be adding a few more team members as well. When you are thinking about your own goals, take the time to evaluate what you want to do yourself and what would be better for you to outsource to save yourself time and/or stress. Good help is hard to find, but the right help can make all the difference. Topics Covered in this Episode: •3-year anniversary •Find your squad •Outsource to make your life simpler •Collaborate with others •Evaluate where you might need help Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
The Early Accountability Podcast is 3 years old and we are so excited! To mark this special milestone, Kimi is going to do a 3-part mini-series on the purpose of the podcast and her key takeaways from doing a weekly show for the past 159 weeks. Kimi is discussing the first takeaway on this episode: consistency is king. It has taken a lot of intentionality and planning to produce a podcast episode every single week. You can always come up with reasons not to do something, but you have to make sure that your reasons why you should are more important to you and will spur you on to action. For Kimi, it has been crucial to find what works for her and tune out the noise of what other people are saying that could put her off-course. When she first started podcasting, she reached out to a few experienced podcasters to see how they approached their podcasts, but she never took what they said as gospel and she realized the importance of blazing her own trail. Kimi outsources the editing of her podcast to someone who enjoys editing because if she were to have to edit (or even listen to!) her own podcast, it likely would never get published. You can apply those same principles to your own goals: evaluate what people are saying but ultimately do what works best for you. Topics Covered in this Episode: •3-year podcast anniversary •Leveling up •Lessons learned •Consistency is king •Learn how to do you Connect with Kimi: https://kimiwalker.live/squad http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
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This episode of the Early Accountability Podcast addresses a recent situation that happened to Kimi that turned out to be a good learning experience for listeners of the podcast. As you walk your own path, there will be times that you are confronted by people who don’t catch your vision and who take it upon themselves to give unsolicited advice that might feel abrupt and unnecessary. But rather than letting that push you off course or immediately respond with the wrong tone, Kimi recommends stepping back and considering a few things: 1.Everyone isn’t going to have your best interests at heart 2.People will give you unsolicited advice from time to time 3.The best immediate response is to pause and collect your thoughts – Once you have gotten grounded in who you are and the path you are walking, you can explain to them your motivations and why what they said was not helpful. 4.Remember that you don’t know their journey either – Empathy is often lacking in situations where feelings are hurt, so be careful not to jab back at them to “get even.” 5.Be firm in understanding who you are and what works for you – Don’t feel like you have to justify yourself to anyone. You don’t need to line up with other people’s methods or expectations. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Owning your methods of success •Tuning out the noise •Being unaffected by naysayers •Understanding who you are Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
While a lot of the methods and platforms for reaching goals in 2021 have been altered due to COVID-19, Kimi says that there are 3 non-negotiables that you need to keep in mind as you strive to activate your goals and achieve success. These are things you should put into your own personal “accountability toolkit” that will guide you through the year. 1.Right words – Be clear about your goals. Write them down in a format that works for you. Make sure your goals are realistic and then declare them in a way that will cultivate accountability. 2.Recharge – Especially during 2020 and 2021 when so much of our lives are still based at our homes, it is easy to overlook your own energy level. Make sure you take the time to relax, refresh, and refrain from the things that are draining you. Take care of yourself, providing time to rest, sleep, think, and just be. 3.Relationships – Connection is the cure – not for COVID-19 unfortunately, but for goals that fall flat or fail to launch. Be intentional about nurturing your relationships and seeking out connections with people who are in alignment with your various goals. Seek joy and happiness through relationships rather than trying to achieve. If you stick to these 3 R’s, you will see your resolutions become results and you won’t become a victim of your circumstances. Topics Covered in this Episode: •2021 goals •Activating success •Accountability toolkit •Resolutions into results Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
Perhaps you are already finding yourself struggling to work towards your goals this 2021. On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi talks about the main barrier that could be getting in your way and how to shift your mindset to overcome. Your mind is the one thing that can make or break your progress towards your goals because it can either help or hinder you from getting there. Here are some of the reasons that your mind could be holding you back: 1.Worrying too much about other people – Your mind could get caught up in worrying about what people think or say about you and keep you from moving forward. Instead, work to shelter yourself from their thoughts. Funneling out the noise will help you get back on track and make progress. 2.Thinking that COVID-19 is a barrier – While there may be some changes or restrictions, you can still choose to adapt and be cognitively flexible and work towards your goals despite the effects of the pandemic. There are also opportunities such as virtual networking events, courses, and coaching sessions that you can take advantage of during this time that might not normally be an option for you. 3.Thinking that things need to be perfect – If you are worrying that what you have to say is not good enough for you to put it out there, you are really just procrastinating. Put some time and thought into a system of checks and balances that will help you know what is good enough to put out there and keep you from analysis paralysis. Do what you can with what you have and make the best of your circumstances. You will be stronger for sticking with your goals and overcoming the barriers in your mind. Topics Covered in this Episode: •2021 goals •Crippling thoughts •Overcoming barriers to reaching your goals •COVID-19 •Get out of your head Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
Happy 2021, everyone! While this new year may feel different than all the rest due to the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, new year’s resolutions may be more important now than ever. On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi discusses four tips for coming up with pandemic-proof resolutions that can help keep you moving, give you meaning, and provide some structure to the daily grind. Establishing new resolutions or goals for the new year is a great opportunity for evaluating what things you need to stop, start, or continue, so consider these recommendations as you think through yours: 1.Think long-term – With so many unknowns in the world right now, it could be difficult to set many short-term goals or resolutions. Find one or more things that you want to accomplish in the next 6+ months, recognizing that restrictions may ease up a bit by then, or perhaps not. 2.Find short-term motivators – While you are setting your ultimate sights on a bigger goal, you will likely find it easier to break up that larger goal into milestones which you can check off and celebrate along the way. This helps to keep you motivated and on track to achieve your long-term resolution. 3.Remain flexible and open to alternatives – If you normally set your workout schedule based on your next race or competition, you might struggle to commit to a training regimen because of the lack of in-person races right now, but you could look for a virtual race or one in a socially-distanced format that you can set your sights on. You can change your methods and still achieve the same end result. 4.Commit to frequent accountability checks –The important thing is to remain in community with other folks who can encourage and motivate you because it is pretty tempting to just not work towards your goals when you are just at home alone. You may even find that it is easier to be accountable with your partner or group over text or video calls than it would have been in person. Topics Covered in this Episode: •New year’s resolutions •Pandemic-proof resolutions •Making smart resolutions •The importance of goals Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
It is almost 2021, which means it is time to pick your word for the year. On this episode of The Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi explains the purpose behind choosing a word and gives listeners some simple and helpful tips for determining which word will be best for them. You want to choose a word that will inspire you, give you power, guide you, and give you a reference point throughout 2021’s ups and downs, so consider following these steps to figure out your word: 1.Reflect on 2020 – Think about what you were able to accomplish, what did not go as planned, the uncertainties you had to navigate, and the ways you had to be flexible. 2.Visualize 2021 – Think of what you need right now – what you need more of or less of. Ask yourself: Who do I want to be in a year? Where do I want to be in a year? Write your answers down and make your goals specific and realistic. 3.Brainstorm – Come up with a list of words that might work for you in 2021. 4.Pause, then pick – Take a few days to think over your list before you choose the one that you want to use to define the year. Here is Kimi’s list of sample words: consistency, commitment, improve, plan, positivity, connect, alignment, priority, delegate, listen, speak, faith, pray, improve, present, mindful, respect, appreciate, family, love, learn, give, grow, glow, try, vulnerability, discipline, determination, today, less, more, be, passion, purpose, shift, patience, manifest, grounded, simplify, relax, delight, unlimited, fearless, grace, compromise, teach, elevate, devotion, inspire, bravery, free, service, stability, organization, direction, resilience, heal, forgive, peace, tenacity, shameless, bloom, balance, laugh, whole, journey, expansion, change, and finish. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Word for the year •Word for 2021 •Power word •Commitment •Consistency
In conclusion of our conversation from last week, Kimi talks during this episode about what accountability partners and groups are NOT: •They are not a substitute for therapy – Be clear about what you need from your accountability circle and draw the line at things that belong in another environment. This can be difficult if you are working one-on-one with someone on accountability for a certain aspect of your life and you start opening up about other things that are going on. Don’t be afraid to reach out for professional counseling or help. •They are not a dumping ground for all of your problems – Remember that you are not the only one with problems in the group, so don’t monopolize the group’s time complaining or making excuses. Rising above your circumstances and choosing to put in the work to make yourself better is half the battle. •They are not supposed to involve dragging, pleading, or begging others to show up – If you or someone else in the group is not showing up or not putting in the work, this group might not be a good fit. Ultimately, it comes down to personal responsibility and the choice to make time for what is important. •They are not intended to make you feel insecure, small, or guilty – You should be walking alongside one another during this journey, so if anyone in the group makes you feel inferior or like your way is not the right way, evaluate whether this is a healthy space for you. Kimi shares about her personal experience in an accountability circle where comparison was toxic. If you are in an accountability partnership or group that meets these criteria, take a step back and evaluate whether this is the right situation for you to be in. You owe it to yourself to find the best fit that will spur you on to greatness! Topics Covered in this Episode: •Accountability •Understanding accountability groups •What you get out of accountability groups •What not to expect in accountability •Unhealthy expectations
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi expounds on her recent push to be more visible and encourage more of a community atmosphere through Early Accountability. A part of this is an accountability circle that she has been leading, and this episode of the podcast is about what accountability is and what it can look like. An accountability partner or group is: •Formed by people working on a common goal or task – You are likely in a similar stage of life, either personal or professional, and the group provides a place for them to share, discuss, and bounce ideas off of each other. •A way for people to remain committed and connected – You tend to experience similar hiccups and hangups as well as triumphs and wins. •A safe place for reflection – This could be on the good, the bad, or the ugly. •A safe place to brainstorm – Since you are all in similar situations, you can collaborate and give each other new perspectives. •A place for encouragement and affirmation – Sometimes all you need to take the next step is for someone to give you the hope that you can do it. •A place for new perspective – This is especially important if your friends and family don’t quite see your vision and you need someone else who does. •A breeding ground for initiative – Your accountability partner or group should spur you to take action rather than just talking about what you want to do. These groups can require a lot of work, but if you want to experience great change, you have to put in the work! Topics Covered in this Episode: •Visibility •Accountability •Understanding accountability groups •What you get out of accountability groups Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
Our topic on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is visibility: why it is difficult to do and why it is so important. Whether you are thinking of starting a podcast, writing a book, starting a blog, teaching a course, or just talking about an important subject, there could be many reasons why you are hesitant to put yourself out there: •Fear – Fear often holds us back. This could be fear of public speaking, fear of ridicule, imposter syndrome, or other obstacles that tell us we are not good enough to put ourselves out there. •Self-consciousness – This ties into fear, but it goes a step beyond to make us feel like there is something wrong with us. During the pandemic, this can manifest in not feeling “presentable enough” to record videos because of the lack of professional help for hair, makeup, photography, etc. and because you might feel like you don’t have a good space in your house to record video content. •You think people already know – Just because you know something doesn’t mean everyone who follows you does. Remember that you have a unique voice and perspective. Even if someone has heard what you have to say many times before, they might need to hear it from you in order to truly grasp it. •False perception of reality – Social media has made comparison far too prevalent. You might feel insufficient to be visible because you don’t think you can say things as well as that person you follow, but they probably feel the same way. Be confident in your message and don’t let anyone bring you down. But Kimi points out the reasons why visibility is important: •Building relationships – As humans, we need connection. We need to see that there are other people who have the same struggles and successes as we do in order to build up perseverance in overcoming adversity. •Increasing self-confidence – The more you do something, the more comfortable you will be doing it. Practice doesn’t make perfect, but practice makes better, and let that be good enough. •Leaving your mark on the world – With all of the technology available to us today, we have the capability to reach audiences far beyond those people we can see face-to-face. Take some time to dream about the mark you want to leave on the world and believe that you have something worth saying. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Visibility •Putting yourself out there •Overcoming fear •Building relationships •Leaving a mark on the world
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Our topic on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is being aware of the impacts that the holidays can have on mental health. This time of year can be characterized by stress, fatigue, expectations, travel exhaustion, financial strains, isolation, grief, and difficult relationships and interactions with loved ones, and the impacts of COVID-19 on our plans this season only escalate these feelings. Now – more than ever – it is important to be self-aware and take proactive steps to keep yourself happy, reduce stress, and take care of your mental health. Kimi outlines 5 things to try this season to make the most of this “different” holiday season: 1.Allow yourself to feel – Give yourself permission to be where you are right now. 2.Resist the temptation to give into social pressures – For the health of yourself and others, say “no” to events and gatherings that you don’t feel comfortable attending. 3.Enjoy the outdoors – Being outside is a great way to spend time with others in a socially distanced setting and to have a chance to unplug and get grounded in the serenity of nature. 4.Take care of your health – Get plenty of rest and exercise and be conscious of your food and beverage consumption. 5.Find new traditions – If you are not able to spend time in person with your loved ones, take advantage of technology that can help you stay connected: Zoom and Facetime, watching a Netflix Party together, and playing a game over the House Party app are great resources! Above all, know yourself and do what you think is best for yourself and others. Know that this season will not be normal, but do your best to make the most of it and check in with those around you to make sure everyone is doing ok. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Feelings around the holidays •Mental health •Isolation •Depression •COVID-19 National Suicide Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
This episode of the Early Accountability Podcast contains the conclusion of Kimi and Tyran’s conversation in which they are going through the Resolutions to Results framework with Tyran’s goals for the next 90 days. We have reached the final stage of the framework: activation and creating a plan. Considering that Tyran’s achievement style is the Juggler, it is even more important that he think through and plan out his next steps towards achieving each of these goals. Regarding his goal of launching a new product for Life Behind the Beard, Kimi and Tyran determined that he can establish which product they are going to launch as well as make some decisions about marketing and potential pre-sales within the next 2 weeks. Within the next 4 weeks, Tyran can have labelling the products taken care of and he will have put some more thought into whether it is worth it to continue to use the marketing agency they have hired. Kimi recommended that Tyran and Gary leverage their social media to increase awareness and build buzz surrounding the launch, perhaps using a virtual assistant to help with these logistics. Tyran’s second goal was to increase the company’s sales and revenue consistently. Kimi’s advice was to work towards a 33% increase, bringing up the lower threshold of their monthly sales from $3,000 per month to $4,000 per month. This would be another good place to utilize a virtual assistant who could help by pulling reports, reviewing analytics, and taking notes during Tyran and Gary’s weekly strategy meetings. Finally, Tyran wants to increase his podcast production frequency. Kimi suggested that he work to get ahead on his evergreen content that can be scheduled and posted in future months which would free up some mental capacity to record episodes related to current events as needed. She also pointed out that this would be another good opportunity for a virtual assistant, helping out with scheduling episodes, posting episodes, and scheduling podcast guests. It could also help to build up his personal brand through live videos on social media which would increase his face time with his podcast audience. Tyran will come back on the show early next year to report back on his results! Topics Covered in this Episode: •Resolutions to Results •Goal activation •Taking action •Accountability •Setting milestones Connect with Tyran: https://www.lifebehindthebeard.co/ https://www.instagram.com/lifebehindthebeard https://www.instagram.com/lifebehindthebeard101 https://beardtalkwithavet.com/
EAP 146: Know Your Weaknesses, Play to Your Strengths by Kimi Walker
During the next few episodes of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi will be walking through her Resolutions to Results framework with one of her podcast mentees and former guests on the show, Tyran Cosby. Tyran is the co-founder of the Life Behind the Beard line of beard oil and personal grooming products and the host of the Beard Talk with a Vet podcast. On this episode, Kimi talks with Tyran about Step One of the framework and helps him drill down on his vision and goals. Tyran says that after 20 years in active duty, the most important thing to him is being able to spend time with his family to make up for lost time, and that he also enjoys cooking and acting as well as pushing himself outside of his comfort zone by doing his podcast. These elements make up the vision planning aspect of the framework by helping him define what he wants to see in his life. When it comes to goal clarity, Tyran has 3 main goals for the next 90 days: to podcast more, to increase sales, and to introduce a new product into the Life Behind the Beard inventory. Meanwhile, his personality often leads him to spending a lot of his time helping people, researching and learning on topics he is curious about, and being very involved in the lives of his kids. Kimi asked Tyran to pinpoint his motivations for each goal. The reason why he wants to podcast more is because he feels that he has a message to share to veterans and members of the military because he has been there and now he wants to provide what he can as an outreach. He wants to increase the sales of Life Behind the Beard so they will have the capital they need to expand their product offerings as well as their marketing efforts. And Tyran wants to add a new product to their inventory before the holidays because he genuinely believes that their products help people enhance their lives. Come back next week for the continuation of this conversation, focusing on Step Two of the Resolutions to Results framework! Topics Covered in this Episode: •Resolutions to Results •Vision planning •Goal clarity •Finding your “why” Connect with Tyran: https://www.lifebehindthebeard.co/ https://www.instagram.com/lifebehindthebeard__/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/lifebehindthebeard101/?hl=en https://beardtalkwithavet.podbean.com/
Welcome to the second half of Kimi’s conversation with Angel Marchese, recent law school graduate. Angel talks about the ways that her support system provided her with the time and space she needed in order to complete her undergraduate degree as well as law school. She explains that mom guilt is a very real thing and the pressures of being a mother while working and/or pursuing a degree could affect your mental health if you let them. Bucking societal norms can be uncomfortable, but this can be a crucial part of the process of reaching your goals. Angel had to make many adjustments to her life and that of her family in order for her to become an attorney, from quitting her job to asking her mom to move to Oklahoma to help with childcare to talking with her kids (ages 13 and 4 at the time) about why she wasn’t going to be around as much. Along the way, she has realized the importance of being surrounded by like-minded people who will hold her accountable, push her forward, and reduce her chances of burnout. Her next career goal is to join the Department of the Army as a civilian attorney with the goal of helping people. She also plans to offer pro bono work to veterans, minorities, and those who have been wrongfully convicted, continuing her work with the Innocence Project. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Accomplishing goals •Having a support system •Making adjustments to reach goals •Setting new goals Connect with Angel: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angel-lawrence-marchese-4b9453182/
EAP 143: Moving Past Comfort and Breaking Glass Ceilings by Kimi Walker
Procrastination is the topic of this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast. Especially for high-achievers, procrastination can either be a healthy thing or a barrier that keeps us from achieving our goals. Kimi breaks down the good, the bad, and the ugly of procrastination during this episode and provides listeners with some suggestions for moving forward in situations where we are prone to procrastinate. The Good: •Procrastination could allow more time for thought, giving you some time and space to process things before having to act •Procrastination also allows for prioritization, letting you focus on the first things first and getting to everything else in the right time •It may reduce your impulsivity or tendency to make bad rushed decisions •If you are a person that works best under pressure, procrastination could be the tool you need to achieve your best work The Bad: •If you are not a person that works best under pressure, procrastinating could lead to worse performance •Procrastination could cause you to lose some of the freshness and familiarity you had with the topic at first •When you procrastinate, you are reducing the time you have to complete the task, and you could run out of adequate time, perhaps causing you to have to go back and redo something to get it right •It could become frustrating for yourself or others if you continually put off a task that others are expecting from you The Ugly: •Procrastination could cause or worsen mental health issues such as anxiety and depression, reducing your overall wellbeing •It could lower your self-esteem or your belief that you can complete the task •You could start using your lower self-esteem as an excuse, creating a procrastination cycle •Worst of all, procrastination could cause you to start projects that you never finish because you are so overwhelmed by the tasks you have piled up In conclusion, while procrastination can be beneficial in some situations, habitual procrastination can lead to overwhelm and a snowballing of uncompleted tasks or goals. Know yourself and take the time you need while working towards your goals, but ask for help or accountability if you need an extra push. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Achieving your goals •Procrastination •Avoiding habitual procrastination •When procrastination can be helpful
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi discusses her 3 recommended ways for making the most of the final quarter of 2020. It seems like everything is different in 2020, so it is important to plan and prepare for the next 3 months so they don’t slip away. 1.Allow for extra time – Include a buffer in your schedule surrounding certain activities that might take longer than normal such as traveling, going to doctors appointments, working with technology issues, or shopping. 2.Plan for holidays early – Talk to your family and loved ones sooner rather than later about what the holidays might look like this year. Will there need to be adjustments made to your usual traditions? Will you need to make new traditions this year? Will you need to stay local or are you going to travel? Do your best to keep everyone safe and be respectful, especially around those who might be high-risk. 3.Remember your primary goals – Keep a flexible mind as we have all had to do in 2020 but remain focused on your goals that you set for yourself, especially if the end is in sight. Live each day with intention and purpose, perhaps by setting micro-goals for yourself every day or every week to help keep you on track for your bigger goal. While we all have high hopes that 2021 won’t be as unprecedented as 2020, that doesn’t mean that we should wish the next 3 months away. You can still accomplish a lot while accommodating for the current environment.
It is officially fall (or autumn), and on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast Kimi discusses using this change of seasons as an opportunity to make some mental shifts and recalibrate before the final quarter of the year. During this time of year, it is easy to get lost in the hustle and forget to enjoy this season, but it is important to regroup, especially after everything that has happened during 2020. Here are a few ways that Kimi suggests you take advantage of this time: 1.Redecorating – Take out your fall decorations that signify the change of seasons and make you feel festive. If you haven’t already, you could also shift your space around to accommodate for virtual working and learning, creating a space so you can feel prepared and confident when you need to use it. 2.Looking at your end-of-year goals – Evaluate which ones are still feasible and which ones may need to be postponed for now. You could also schedule a virtual hangout with some of your friends and/or accountability partners to discuss your goals and brainstorm new ones together. 3.Enjoying the outdoors – Go out and do all of the fall things: pumpkin patches, apple picking, hiking, etc. Enjoy the beauty around you and spend time with loved ones safely. 4.Focusing on your own world – There are so many stories in the news right now that could distract you from what is going on in your own world, so be mindful of your consumption and create healthy boundaries. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Seasons changing •Mental shifts •Start of fall/autumn •Recalibrating
EAP 139: How to Say "No" Without Saying "No" by Kimi Walker
EAP 138: Reasons Why You Can't Say "No" by Kimi Walker
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi talks about recognizing the difference between slow progress and no progress when it comes to long-term goals. It is easy to get discouraged when you are working towards a goal that is a long way off, especially when it may have been derailed by COVID-19, so Kimi offers these self-evaluation questions as a way of checking in with yourself on those goals: 1.Do you still have actionable steps that you’re taking? – Are those steps written down? Are they measurable? Do you have milestones set up? Even making slow progress should mean that you are consistently taking steps and checking in with yourself. 2.Are you still immersed or in touch with resources? – This could be your network, a mentor, or the community that is supporting you in this goal through motivation, enrichment, and/or accountability. It is important to know your achievement style as well as your procrastination style so you don’t get sidetracked. 3.Are you still revising your plan? – Chances are, if you are consistently working towards a goal, you will need to make adjustments. If you aren’t, you might be procrastination or your goal could be on pause, which is ok. Be intentional with your time and energy and be honest with yourself. Are you pivoting, pausing, or procrastinating? Topics Covered in this Episode: •COVID-19 •Long-term goals •Slow progress •Self-awareness Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
With everything going on in the world, many workforces still being remote, and most school systems being virtual, it is easy to just be in survival mode, getting everything done but not really being “there.” On this episode of the Early Accountability podcast, Kimi discusses this mental fog that many of us are feeling that could be affecting our productivity, physical health, mental health, and our interactions with those around us. Here are Kimi’s tips for having mental clarity: 1.Watch what you consume – It is tempting to just eat what is easiest or most comforting when everything else seems to be out of control, but it is important that you try to eat and drink more healthy foods during this time. 2.Watch the energy you expend – Do your best to integrate exercise into your day, or at the very least get outside for some fresh air and a change of scenery. 3.Take time to rest – Set aside at least 10 minutes a day where you are able to relax without any screens or expectations. Your brain needs down time to process everything that is going on, and a good way to accomplish this could be through meditation or guided relaxation using an app. 4.Know your stress triggers – These triggers consistently escalate your emotions and you likely can think of a couple off the top of your head. Do what you can to decrease or eliminate those triggers, perhaps trading them for moments of pause as mentioned above. You have the power to control how you react to these triggers; they do not have the power over you. Topics Covered in this Episode: •COVID-19 •New normal •Mental fog •Mental clarity Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
EAP 134: Lifelong Learning & Intellectual Wellness by Kimi Walker
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi is joined by Danielle Tucker, founder and owner of Professional Speaker Websites. Several years ago, Danielle and her husband sold everything they had and moved to South Africa to be digital nomads. She soon learned that it was difficult for her to gain credibility without being able to speak on stages and network in person, so she needed to develop a very professional website that would establish her as a thought leader. Before long, Danielle realized that there were others just like her who wanted to be thought leaders but were falling short because of their subpar websites, so she started a web design service with these potential clients in mind. Danielle points out that many people are thought leaders without realizing it because everyone who has a smart phone and social media has a stage and the ability to get their message out to people. Often, you are your biggest obstacle – either by doubting that people will want to hear what you have to say or by being too afraid to let your voice be heard. Danielle encourages you to feel the fear and do it anyway because you have something to say that others need to hear, and a luxury website is a key aspect of people being able to find you. Topics Covered in this Episode: •COVID-19 •New normal •Digital nomads •Leveraging your website •Sharing your unique message Connect with Danielle: https://professionalspeakerwebsites.com/ https://www.instagram.com/professionalspeakerwebsites/ About Danielle: Danielle Tucker is the founder of Professional Speaker Websites, a company that specializes in luxury websites for professional speakers and coaches who are READY to attract unlimited speaking opportunities. Through strategy, design, and messaging, Danielle empowers speakers with a website that not only looks good but also functions as a marketing machine to get you in-person and virtual speaking engagements. After you experience Danielle you will know why a luxury website is necessary if you want to be taken seriously as a speaker and leading expert in your industry! www.professionalspeakerwebsites.com
Our guest on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is Jonathan Bolton, a financial and investment advisor with Wilson Wealth. It is safe to say that the events of 2020 have come as a shock to everyone, and many people have found themselves falling on hard times due to the pandemic itself, job losses, unexpected expenses, and emotional stress. Jonathan is here to share with us some good ideas for reviewing, analyzing, and adjusting our finances to ensure that we are in a better spot financially if and when another pandemic-like event takes place. 1.Save and invest more – While many people say that an emergency fund of 3-6 months is sufficient, COVID-19 has proven that it is probably better to have a 12-month emergency fund. Jonathan recommends having 2 months of cash accessible in savings and 10 months in a brokerage account as an investment that is still pretty liquid. 2.Reevaluate your needs and wants – Take a hard look at your expenses and ask yourself if they are necessary or frivolous. If you are like the rest of America, your discretionary spending has likely gone down and your savings have likely gone up since COVID-19. 3.Being rich vs. being wealthy – To be rich is to have a significant income. To be wealthy is to have significant assets. It is fine to be rich, but it is better to be wealthy, to accumulate assets through real estate investing, owning a business, and investing in stock. 4.Labor is expensive – Businesses these days are especially conscious of their labor expenses. Use this knowledge to your advantage and negotiate equity in the company into your contract in order to protect yourself in the future. Topics Covered in this Episode: •COVID-19 •New normal •Creating habits •Finances •Pandemic-proof finances Connect with Jonathan: https://www.wilsonwealth.com/ https://www.instagram.com/jon_bolston/
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi discusses the importance of mental and cognitive flexibility as more and more of our plans for 2020 are sidelined due to COVID-19. Things are still changing so quickly, and plans that were set in stone last week have already disintegrated. So how do we maintain our sanity when we can’t make solid plans? 1.Give yourself extra time for thought and decisions – Practice mindfulness when you can but especially just allow yourself some quiet alone time during the day to process. 2.Be ok with not knowing or understanding – One of the most tangible examples of changing plans right now is the fall 2020 school calendar. While it is difficult for parents to not be able to make plans for their kids, there is only so much they can do. Expect the unexpected and be flexible as the authorities in your area make decisions. 3.Accept that you may have to change your mind – It is likely that your opinion on wearing masks or going out in public or sending kids back to school has changed over the past several months as more information has become available. That is alright, and it will likely continue to occur. Choose what is the best fit at the time and don’t feel judgment from those around you along the way. We are all in this together and we will all emerge from it together as well. Just do your best and be flexible. Topics Covered in this Episode: •COVID-19 •Mental flexibility •Expect the unexpected •Being prepared
During this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi is putting on her school psychologist hat and helping listeners understand how to navigate this upcoming school year with all of the adjustments that will have to be made due to COVID-19. We all got a dose of these changes during the last half of the spring 2020 semester, which could either be a good thing or a bad thing depending on how that trial run went for you. Perhaps you or your child struggled to connect to the online platform or perhaps it was a great season for you. Either way, there are a few things you can do right now to work towards your academic best this fall, whether your school will be in-person, all online, or a blend of both: 1.Keep the brain turning – While no one is expected to remember everything from the last school year under normal circumstances, it is expected that retention will be even lower this year. Do your best to work with your children consistently through the summer to maintain exposure to their subjects and refresh the material from last year. 2.Be prepared for multiple modalities – No one knows what this school year will look like, even though school districts are solidifying plans now. Understand that your teaching format could change throughout the year. 3.Look for resources for areas of deficit – There are lots of free or low-cost tutoring resources available if you find that you or your child needs extra help to understand the material being covered. Do your best to be comfortable with learning differently than normal, and supplement wherever you need to. 4.Plan for the upcoming year – Do your research now on the support that is available from your school and any additional support you may need, and stay updated on the plans of your school regarding teaching format. This school year will not be easy, but we are all doing the best we can and you can prepare now for success in the fall. Topics Covered in this Episode: •COVID-19 •Back to school •Changes to the school year •Being prepared Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
EAP 128: Reaching Your Summer Goals During COVID-19 by Kimi Walker
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi talks about how the continuing COVID-19 quarantine as well as the recent public outcry about racial injustice in the U.S. and many people being without work has created a perfect storm necessitating a time of pausing to reflect, refresh, and restart. While most people are not able to travel to take traditional vacations, Kimi outlines a few specific things you can do to set yourself up for a “staycation” to accomplish just that. 1.Make time for it – Schedule a day or more for your staycation and stick to your commitment. If things come up, treat them as you would if you were truly out of town on vacation. 2.Find a format that works for you – If you are going to camp in your backyard, make sure you have all of your materials ahead of time. Arrange childcare if necessary to give you some focused time to recharge. If you had to cancel a trip this summer, create a theme night or event for yourself featuring the cuisine or activities you would have had on that trip. 3.Unplug – Know your boundaries. If you are not able to unplug 100%, do the best that you can to stay away from social media and the news during your staycation. 4.Come up with games and activities – There are so many things you can do with others and still be socially distant. Check out the links below for some ideas. 5.Stay the course – Stick to your plan and don’t come “back to reality” early. You need dedicated time to reflect, refresh, and then restart. Topics Covered in this Episode: •COVID-19 •Racial injustice •Staycation •Taking a break Some resources for social distancing games: http://realestate.boston.com/news/2020/04/14/neighborhood-games-social-distancing https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/money/quarantine-staycation/ https://www.today.com/shop/15-yard-games-enjoy-outside-while-social-distancing-t178918 Some activities for kids that promote social distancing: https://www.asphaltgreen.org/blog/rep-it-out-games-for-social-distancing https://www.strong4life.com/en/news/keep-kids-active-while-practicing-social-distancing Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/
Dominique Kennedy, a speech language pathologist and communication expert, joins us on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast. Dominique helps people with their communications differences and needs to strengthen the words they use in the world and strengthen their relationships. She has her own private practice where the assists people who want to increase their communication abilities and she also works with school-aged children to develop their communication skills and strengthen any areas of weakness. At some point in our lives, all of us come to a point where we need to have a difficult conversation with someone for some purpose. Dominique points out that the most effective method of approaching this conversation is to be open to what the other person has to say and to expect a positive result. Think through what you are going to say, how you are going to say it, what your body language will be like, and practice your delivery ahead of time to ensure that your message gets across. In this time of coronavirus, it is especially important to remain connected to those we care about, even if we cannot see them in person the same ways we are used to. Be intentional about how you are really doing and in communicating with children about what is going on and give them space to talk about how they are feeling. Listen to their thoughts and concerns and then use their remarks as a springboard for continuing the conversation. Regarding the other big conversation topic in America right now – racial injustice – Dominique emphasizes mindfulness and sensitivity when communicating with others. Of primary importance is being willing to listen, understand, and learn from those you come in contact with before trying to communicate your message. Being considerate, honoring one another, and respecting the differences among us as Americans is a crucial first step to any kind of ongoing communication and reconciliation. An interesting dynamic that Dominique has noticed is that many businesses are taking public stands against racism, but many of them stopping short of really taking any meaningful action to back up their statements. She recommends that you take a deeper look at what they are saying and what they are doing before continuing to support their businesses. Topics Covered in this Episode: •COVID-19 •Racism •Open communication •Relating with others Connect with Dominique: https://www.dominiquekennedy.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dom.knd/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=634870705 https://twitter.com/Dominiq64770318%20
EAP 125: The Fight Against Injustice and Inequality by Kimi Walker
Our special guest on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is Zana Williams. Zana joined Kimi to talk about what has gone on in her life in the past 2 years and the big milestone that she just achieved. When Zana was on the podcast in 2018, she talked about the journey that she had been on to get into law school in the midst of losing her grandmother and her father and she was beginning law school in San Diego. While she was there, she noticed that her mom’s health began declining, so she made the decision to move back home to Oklahoma City to finish school and take care of her mother. Her mother passed away in September of 2019, a few months before Zana was set to graduate law school. Recognizing the immense losses that she had experienced in the past several years, Zana put herself into counseling to help her work through the grief of losing both of her parents, and she had some self-realizations through the process. Zana had been taking care of others for so long that she had lost herself in her duties which caused her to lose touch with herself and her emotions. She was forced to face herself and to reflect on everything she had been through as well as everything she had accomplished. This is not an uncommon journey for caregivers, high-achievers, and leaders. Zana encapsulates her key takeaways from her self-awareness and self-care as: 1.Face yourself and be your own cheerleader 2.Be wholly present in the moment 3.But for a strong support system who showed up for her 4.Allow yourself to feel emotions Now, if you were to walk into Zana’s house, you would see her core values and purpose plastered across her walls. She has written out her goals, commitments, beliefs, and feelings as daily reminders of who she is and where she is going. She is a huge advocate for putting your goals out into the world and joining together with others who are seeking to live out their purposes to hold each other accountable and encourage one another. Zana’s parting thought is: It is ok to be a work in progress. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Early accountability •Law school •Overcoming hardships •Achieving your goals •Grief and loss Connect with Zana: https://www.facebook.com/zana.l.williams
This episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is the first of a two-part mini-series featuring Zana Williams, a returning guest on the podcast. Zana joined us back on episode 10 to discuss conquering law school in her father’s memory, and on the next episode of this series, we will be catching up with Zana to see what she has been up to the past 2+ years since her last visit. If you haven’t had a chance to listen to Zana’s original interview, you should definitely go check it out, but this episode serves as a summary. Zana knew by the time she was 12 years old without a shadow of a doubt that she wanted to be an attorney. She took a Mock Trial and Debate class in high school that further solidified this desire for her, and the rest is history…not quite. Right around the time Zana was studying for the LSAT, she lost her grandmother and her father and she was in 3 car accidents. She – understandably – didn’t get the score she had hoped for, so she received many denial letters from law schools. She didn’t let this get her down, however, and she refocused her efforts on retaking the test and she received several acceptances this time. In the midst of her educational and professional ups and downs, she was also dealing with her own personal ups and downs, which she has been able to frame with great perspective now. The eulogy that Zana gave at her father’s funeral prompted several of the attendees to tell her how impactful her words were and encourage her to use that clear gift of motivational speaking in a broader context. This was the springboard for Zana to pursue speaking opportunities to discuss grief, loss, and motivation after experiencing hardships. She credits God and her mom with providing her the strength, encouragement, and love she needed to press on despite her pain, and she now passes those gifts on to others. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Early accountability •Law school •Overcoming hardships •Achieving your goals •Grief and loss EAP Episode 10 - Conquering Law School in Her Father’s Memory: https://soundcloud.com/kimiwalker/eap10 EAP Episode 54: The Best of the Best: Favorite Guest Clips From the Past Year (1 Year Celebration Episode): https://soundcloud.com/kimiwalker/eap54
EAP 122: The Mental Toll of Perfectionism by Kimi Walker
This episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is geared towards high-achievers, leaders, and caretakers in the audience who tend to let their mental health needs go unnoticed. By nature, these people put the needs of others above their own and can often feel that their mental health does not matter. Quite the opposite is true, in fact, and it is important for high-achievers, leaders, and caretakers to recognize their signs or triggers of mental health issues and get the help they need. If you or someone you know falls into this category, here are some helpful steps to take: 1.Get in tune with your feelings – Give yourself the time and space to feel emotions. Once you have done this, you will have the clarity and ability to navigate next steps. 2.Find someone to talk to – This could be an individual therapist, a support group, a mastermind group, or just a friend or group of friends who are in similar life circumstances. 3.Practice mindfulness – Find an activity that helps you get grounded. Examples are: journaling, meditating, exercising, gardening, or anything that will allow you to get in touch with yourself and your higher power. 4.Allow yourself the opportunity to grow – Recognize that you are not where you want to be but accept that you are enough just as you are. Prioritize your mental health and you will open the door for continued growth. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Coronavirus •Mental Health •High achievers •Mental health matters Resources: https://mhanational.org/ Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/
EAP 120: Mindset Shifts: From Petty to Pandemic, Protect Your Energy by Kimi Walker
Our topic on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is mental health during this quarantine season. As you may know, May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and mental health is a key component to your whole-body wellness. In these difficult and different times, it is all the more important to be conscious of your mental health and reach out if you feel you need help. The Mental Health Association of America specifically recommends keeping these aspects of your life in mind this month: •Connecting with others •Creating healthy routines •Finding the positive after loss •Eliminating toxic influences •Owning your feelings •Supporting others Kimi specifically talks about connecting with and supporting others on this episode as we are all living through big adjustments to the norm. Everyone needs to have community and interaction with others, and even though those interactions might look different during this time, they are still just as important as ever. It is crucial to prioritize these conversations on whatever platform is available to you and keep in touch with others so you are able to pick right back up where you left off once we are able to meet up face-to-face again. Be open and honest with those around you about what you need and how you need to communicate right now. And don’t hesitate to reach out for additional help through the resources below. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Coronavirus •Mental Health •Self-Awareness •Quarantine Self-Care Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255) Free and confidential support for people in distress, 24/7. National Helpline 1-800-662-HELP (4357) Treatment referral and information, 24/7. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/index.shtml https://www.samhsa.gov https://www.mhanational.org/mental-health-month
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi is joined by Justin Ochoa, co-owner of Pace Fitness Academy in Indianapolis. Justin was an athlete in high school who discovered his love for coaching during college. A short time later, he was diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder which triggered him to start learning about nutrition, strength, and conditioning. This eventually led to him and his business partner, Eric Allen, opening Pace Fitness Academy to coach and train athletes and anyone else who is looking for a top-notch training experience. With gyms across the country being closed, Pace has shifted a lot of their services online, from online training sessions for their paying clients to free resources available to anyone on their website. Justin has noticed that the main challenges for people during this time of coronavirus quarantine are the lack of structure and lack of motivation. Because our routines have been thrown off and we are not able to leave our houses, people are struggling to set aside the time to consistently work out. Justin recommends that you (1) start where you are, (2) use what you have, and (3) do what you can. Your workouts will not look the same as “normal” right now, but that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t exist at all. He emphasizes the importance of mindset in setting consistent habits and accomplishing goals, reaching deep within yourself to retrieve the motivation to accomplish more than expected. If you are looking for online resources, workout plans, or some extra accountability during this time or in the future, reach out to Justin and Eric at Pace Fitness Academy to see if they might be a good fit for you. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Coronavirus •Staying fit •Challenges of working out at home •Strength and conditioning Links: https://www.pacefitnessacademy.com/covid19/ Connect with Justin: https://www.pacefitnessacademy.com/ https://www.facebook.com/pacefitacademy/ https://instagram.com/pacefitacademy https://twitter.com/pacefitacademy https://www.instagram.com/justinochoa317/ https://twitter.com/justinochoa317 https://www.instagram.com/iamerickallen/ https://twitter.com/iamerickallen CHECK OUT Justing training Kimi: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LV33QLcw_10&t=34s
Our guest on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is Robert Barnes, a U.S. Air Force veteran of 22 years who has become passionate about helping people understand their taxes. Robert joined the Air Force 5 days after his 17th birthday, a new high school graduate who was looking for his place in this world, and he served in Germany and Hawaii for most of his career. Toward the end of his time in the military, he started to wonder why he was having to pay taxes even though he was on the government’s payroll. He breezed through his associate’s and bachelor’s degrees before completed a degree in graduate school as well. At the time of his graduation from his master’s degree, he was asked to begin teaching a personal finance course and he found his new life focus. By simply breaking down the tax code and explaining it to his students and others who asked for his advice, he slowly built up a client base of 300-400 individuals whom he was helping with the completion of their taxes in a consulting capacity. In this time of the worldwide coronavirus pandemic, Robert encourages people to stay away from the rumors being spread by the media and by word of mouth and instead rely on reputable news sources. He also emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in the personal finance process, pointing out that many people don’t realize which programs they might be eligible for and potentially missing out on tax breaks and refunds. Robert talks about the $2 trillion U.S. economic stimulus package, describing the framework of the big business, small business, and family grants and forgivable loans that are being offered. Small business owners should stay informed on the CARES Act and the Payroll Protection grant and recent changes that have been announced. He talks in more detail about these programs on his YouTube channel. He also recommends that every American call the U.S. Treasury Offset Department at 1-800-304-3107 to be made aware of any potential offsets from other departments that could reduce their tax refunds. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Coronavirus •Understanding the government stimulus •CARES Act and Payroll Protection for small businesses •Self-awareness Connect with Robert: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5BjnVD76XPFAA8TNxNDD-g Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi talks about strategies for springing into action during this time of quarantine. Just because you are stuck at home doesn’t mean you can’t be productive and make good progress on your goals. 1.Use what you have – You already have everything you need to get started, so don’t let your circumstances stop you. Improvise, be resourceful, get creative, and don’t worry about what you don’t have. 2.Start, begin, do – Don’t overthink or over-plan what you want to do. You have the time and resources you need right now, so don’t wait more than a few days before just doing what you want to do. 3.Stop comparing and build a community instead – Rather than looking around at what others are doing during this time and getting into a toxic cycle of comparison with them, appreciate and draw inspiration from them. There are so many free resources out there right now that typically cost hundreds of dollars, so take advantage of them and learn something new. Once you overcome the strongholds in your own mind, you will be on the road to accomplishing your goals and connecting with others who can help you along the way. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Keeping calm during uncertain times •Coronavirus •Springing into action •Setting and reaching goals Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://www.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi gets real about what our lives look like during this time of social distancing and self-quarantining and encourages us to evaluate what we are working towards. Being stuck inside the house all day, it is easy to just eat whatever you want to, watch whatever you want to, and ignore whatever you want to. It is easy to learn how to waste time, essentially. But what is the main excuse that you always give for not starting or doing certain things or setting certain goals? That you don’t have enough time. While it is inconvenient and unsettling to only be able to leave your house for “essentials”, just think of all the extra time you have right now. Take advantage of this opportunity (that is hopefully once-in-a-lifetime) to start something new, learn something new, set a new goal for yourself and implement the plan you need to follow, connect with those friends you haven’t talked to in a while, and focus on your self-care. You will not regret jumpstarting your productivity during this time, and choosing a “quarantine project” will likely help you focus more on the things you can control and less on the fear-mongering going on in the news and all around you. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Keeping calm during uncertain times •Coronavirus •New normal •Setting and reaching goals Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
As the coronavirus continues to spread in the US and more and more people find themselves affected by the pandemic in one way or another, Kimi also continues her Early Accountability podcast episodes to encourage listeners on the subject. Even since last week’s episode there have been many changes in the situation in the US and around the world, and we want to express our sincerest appreciation and sympathy to the “essential” workers and to anyone who has had a loved one sickened by the virus. This is uncharted territory for all of us and now is the time to band together and help those around us while staying at home to prevent the spread. This week’s practical tips are: 1.Get grounded – Make a point to be mindful every day. Think about where you are, where you have come from, and where you are going. 2.Create a schedule – Whether you are at home alone, with your roommate or spouse, or with your whole family, it is important to keep the day as structured as possible. This will help you stay productive while also making sure that you set aside time for yourself. 3.Reflect on changes that you could make – Write down a list of your goals or tasks you want to complete and then chart out the path to get there. That might mean making financial decisions, letting go of some things, joining support or accountability groups, signing up for e-learning opportunities, planning for future projects, teaching others online, or many other things. 4.Stay informed but don’t overconsume – Be intentional about reading the news every day or every other day from a few reputable news sources, but don’t read so much that you get overwhelmed. Give yourself space to process the news and how it affects you, which probably means not scrolling through social media too much. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Keeping calm during uncertain times •Coronavirus •Fighting fear with facts •Mindfulness and staying grounded •Navigating the unexpected Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
Thanks for tuning in to the next episode of the Early Accountability Podcast! On this episode, Kimi continues the conversation we began last week by providing more practical tips for handling the uncertain times in our world right now, particularly regarding COVID-19. Perhaps you have even experienced drastic changes in your lifestyle, school, or work schedule just since last week because of how quickly the virus is evolving and spreading across the U.S. and the world. It is understandable that this turbulence could lead to anxiety, fear, and stress, but there are some simple ways to keep your head above water. 1.Don’t believe everything you hear – Monitor your consumption of television and social media during these times and try to find the balance of staying informed without getting overwhelmed. Read articles written by reputable sources rather than relying on what your friends are saying they have heard. 2.Social support doesn’t mean social isolation – Even in this time of social distancing and self-quarantine, we have so many technological tools at our fingertips that it is easier than ever to keep in touch with others. In fact, you likely find yourself with more time available to reach out and have those conversations, so be intentional about connecting with loved ones. 3.Take advantage of telehealth services and mental health hotlines – Just because you can’t physically go to your health provider’s office does not mean that you can’t get help for physical or mental health issues. Contact your doctor’s office to see what kind of telehealth services they provide and do not hesitate to reach out via mental health hotlines if you find yourself struggling with anxiety, depression, or excessive stress in the midst of this coronavirus crisis. We have provided specific resources below. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Keeping calm during uncertain times •Coronavirus •Fighting fear with facts •Mindfulness and staying grounded Links: •If you're going through some tough or confusing times, reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline '1-800-273-TALK (8255)' •Lifeline Crisis Chat http://www.contact-usa.org/chat.html •In the US text 741741 to speak with a Crisis Counselor at Crisis Text Line https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in •IMAlive crisis support chat https://www.imalive.org Relevant Agencies: •National Institute on Mental Health (NIMH): https://www.nimh.nih.gov/index.shtml •Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC): https://www.cdc.gov •Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMSHA): https://www.samhsa.gov •National Alliance on Mental Health (NAMI) https://www.nami.org Relevant Articles: •NIMH article on Coping With Coronavirus: Managing Stress, Fear, and Anxiety: https://www.nimh.nih.gov/about/director/messages/2020/coping-with-coronavirus-managing-stress-fear-and-anxiety.shtml •The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has a webpage with information on dealing with fear, anxiety, and stress brought on by the coronavirus pandemic. •CDC information on Coping with a Disaster or Traumatic Event https://emergency.cdc.gov/coping/index.asp •NAMI Coronavirus Information and resources https://www.nami.org/getattachment/Press-Media/Press-Releases/2020/COVID-19-and-Mental-Illness-NAMI-Releases-Importan/COVID-19-Updated-Guide-1.pdf?lang=en-US Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi talks with listeners about 4 simple ways to keep calm during the coronavirus chaos. There is a lot of fear at this time of uncertainty in the wake of a global pandemic that is continuing to spread, but you do not have to let that fear overwhelm you. 1.Focus on what you can control – Practice mindfulness and be aware of yourself and others. Try to stay grounded and concentrate on the power you have in your world rather than getting thrown off by the lack of work, school, and childcare routines. 2.Practice self-care – As much as possible, commit to getting plenty of sleep, exercising, and sticking to a healthy diet. 3.Watch what you are consuming – If you find that the news is making you anxious, limit your time spent watching it. Consider whether the conversations you are having with other people are necessary and helpful or if you should shift what you are talking about. Do your best not to dwell or focus too much on what is going on while still being informed. 4.Remember that better days are coming – Remind yourself that this crisis will pass in time. Getting worked up about what is going on does not help you remain calm. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Keeping calm during uncertain times •Coronavirus •Fighting fear with facts •Mindfulness and staying grounded Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
The topic of this episode the Early Accountability Podcast is International Women’s Day. Kimi discusses what it looks like to capture the essence of the day and confront the biases that exist in our own minds and in the world at large. While we should be challenging stereotypes and celebrating the achievements of women every day, this day is a great opportunity to pause and have discussions with those around us about the fair and unfair perceptions of women. Kimi recommends these four specific actions surrounding International Women’s Day: 1.Learn – Educate yourself and become more aware of gender issues and inequalities. Read books, visit museums, attend events, and have tough conversations with your kids to engage them in the narrative as well. 2.Discuss – Talking about the disparities you are seeing such as discrimination, the gender pay gap, and the injustice of harassment and assaults occurring to women is the best way to grow. 3.Be open to change – Recognize that the thoughts and paradigms you grew up with might not be the best ones for you to hold on to moving forward. It is ok to graduate from what your parents, educational institutions, and other leaders taught you before you experienced what you have of the world now. 4.Promote and support – Ask how you can support women in business, listen to podcasts that are having this conversation, attend events that are championing women’s rights, or start a conversation with your organizational leadership about pay disparities. Engage yourself in the process and make it your aim to make a difference! Topics Covered in this Episode: •International Women’s Day •Challenging stereotypes •Broadening perceptions •Fighting through biases Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
Our returning guest on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is Tyran Cosby, USMC veteran, husband, father, co-founder of Life Behind the Beard, and host of the new podcast Beard Talk with a Veteran. After retiring from the Marines at age 38, Tyran had some decisions to make about what he wanted to do with the rest of his life. Many of his buddies immediately transitioned into new careers, but Tyran knew that he wanted to take some time for himself to pursue some of the dreams he had put on hold while he was in active duty. He graduated from culinary school and started an acting career before joining forces with one of his military brothers to start Life Behind the Beard. His advice to others going through big life transitions is to accept that you will not be the same as you were before, that you will need to sit down and re-learn who you are and what matters to you. Tyran didn’t know anything about anxiety or depression until he realized that he was going through them, so he had to take a step back and redefine who he was going to be in life. Tyran was repeatedly told that he should start a podcast to talk about his life experiences, so he finally joined Kimi’s cohort of new podcasters to get his feet on the ground and get his message out there. He talks about the realities of relationships, marriage, parenting, how to handle trials and tribulations, and finding beauty in the struggles of life. He especially wants to break down stigmas and talk with his audience about how to function in society. For anyone considering launching something new, Tyran recommends that you start with researching as much as you can about that idea, either through online research or by asking someone who has followed a similar path. Everyone has something to say, and Tyran wants to be an example of someone who is using his voice well. Be sure to tune into his podcast, Beard Talk with a Veteran wherever you listen to podcasts! Topics Covered in this Episode: •Launching something new •The goals of Tyran’s podcast •How Tyran got to where he is now •Breaking down stigmas Connect with Tyran: http://beardtalkwithavet.podbean.com/ https://www.lifebehindthebeard.co/ Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker
Welcome to the next episode of the Early Accountability Podcast! On this episode, Kimi talks about the best ways to capitalize on free time, whether expected or unexpected, and optimize your productivity. Whether a meeting gets cancelled or you are given an extra day (Leap Day) or you have blocked out some time for yourself, there are ways to make the most of that time and not just waste it binging a show or scrolling through social media. The best way to guarantee that this free time will be productive is to make a list of things that are not time-sensitive but that you want to prioritize. If you want to take an online course, clean out your shed, take up a hobby, connect with an old friend, or check out that new museum or restaurant in your area, you are more likely to do so if you have written it down on your list. Perhaps these are things you have been putting off “until the right time” but the right time never comes because you aren’t in a mindset of looking for productive things to do when you are given an extra 20 minutes, hour, or day. You will likely find that inserting these tasks and activities into your schedule will add balance to your life and give you just enough of a break from the mundane to spark your creativity and get you excited about your goals. Your challenge after listening to this episode is to make a list of 20 things to do in 2020 when you have extra time. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Being wise with your time •Planning for success •What to do with extra time •Leap Day Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
In the spirit of Valentine’s Day and the season of love, Kimi gives a bit of a different take on love during this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast. While we are very focused on loving others and being loved by others this time of year, February is also a good opportunity to pause and prioritize loving yourself. Take a beat and ask yourself if you are living the life you love or if you have just been going through the motions. Are you living in alignment with your passions? Or do you find yourself constantly in anguish and drained from your daily life? Are there tweaks you can make to improve your physical and emotional health, your finances, your career, and your relationships? You can’t give what you don’t have, so take some time for yourself and evaluate the direction of your life. This does not have to be a heavy undertaking, but you will likely find after just a few minutes of allowing yourself to think and dream that there are one or two obvious things that aren’t working for you. It may be time to let those things go, soaking in the lessons learned during this chapter before turning the page to begin a new one. You can do things that excite and energize you, either as hobbies or as a career. If you need some help figuring out how to get to that place, reach out to your friends, family, and mentors for their input about what those things might be and what route you should take to get there. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Self-love •Living in alignment with your passions •Prioritizing yourself •Being in touch with community Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi checks in with two of her podcast mentees, Maurice L. Wilson and Justice Wali, to discuss their recent podcast launches. As with many things in life, there is quite a process involved in making a dream into reality, so Kimi has been working with these guys and Tyran Cosby on planning and implementing their podcasts for several months before they were ready to start putting content out to the world. Maurice applies his engineering background to financial problem-solving, breaking down the complex wealth equations that currently exist and simplifying wealth-building so everyone can understand it and start doing it for themselves. He believes that everyone should be equipped with the tools to build wealth and enjoy their lives during their “prime years” rather than spending 30-40 years saving for retirement and then being too worn out once retirement comes to actually enjoy it. When it comes to working on his podcast, Maurice’s biggest hurdle was his confidence in himself, knowing that he had something worth saying and overcoming the barrier of feeling like he was talking to himself when recording episodes. Justice launched his podcast as an extension of his coaching business, aiming to help cultures understand one another better and focus on the similarities between them rather than the differences. Justice has committed his life to coaching others to be intentional with their words and actions while avoiding some of the pitfalls that tripped him up in his earlier years. Justice has found that the hardest part about podcasting is prioritizing it and being committed. Working with Kimi and the other guys in this podcasting “cohort” has provided a great level of accountability for him and he has solidified within himself the idea of being true to himself regardless of what others think. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Paying it forward •Launching a podcast •Starting something new •Being consistent Connect with Maurice L. Wilson: http://thewealthequation.podbean.com/ https://www.wilsonwealth.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thewealthequation/ Connect with Justice Wali: http://urbancoach101.podbean.com/ https://www.instagram.com/justice__wali/ https://www.facebook.com/ForJusticewali/ https://twitter.com/jwali_wali?lang=en https://justicewali.com Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
This episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is a continuation of the 2nd Anniversary celebration. During this episode, Kimi talks about the journey that led her to start her podcast in 2018, starting with a project through her Mastermind group at the time. She was challenged by this group and her mentor Amanda Miller Littlejohn to pursue starting a podcast, and while it has not always been an easy endeavor, two years after that first episode was launched, Kimi is so grateful for that early encouragement and accountability that brought the podcast to light. This journey has solidified in Kimi the desire to pay it forward and pass along whatever knowledge and wisdom she can to others who want to use podcasting as their platform to deliver their message. She has seen time and time again the positive impact that pouring into others can have in all aspects of life, and podcasting is no different. Kimi has talked with many of her previous guests about launching podcasts and her conversations with 3 of those previous guests specifically have led to the creation and launch of their own podcasts in the past few weeks. Rather than just encouraging them to start their own shows, Kimi felt that it was important to step in and lead by example, coaching them in the industry and helping them abandon excuses, jumpstart motivation, and ignite their results. On this episode, Kimi plays clips from the episodes on which these particular guests appeared as well as clips from their new podcast episodes, so be sure to listen in and subscribe to their podcasts as well! Maurice was a guest on EAP episode 21. You can check out his new podcast here: •Wealth Equation: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-wealth-equation/id1492810571 Justice Wali joined Kimi on episode 24 of the podcast. His new show can be found here: •Civilizing the Savage: https://urbancoach101.podbean.com Tyran appeared on Early Accountability Podcast episode 87, and you can listen to his podcast here: •Beard Talk with a Vet: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beard-talk-with-a-vet/id1492726787 Topics Covered in this Episode: •Launching a podcast •Paying it forward •Listening to the feedback of others •Being committed to your goals Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/
Welcome to the 2-year anniversary episode of the Early Accountability Podcast! Whether you have been listening since the beginning or you just discovered the show, thank you so much for your support and for being here with us! We have had so many great guests over the past 2 years and we look forward to what this next year will bring for the podcast. At this natural time of reflection, Kimi wants to share with listeners the big 4 things that she has learned during the past year of the podcast. She did the same last year at this time, so be sure to check out Episode 53 if you want to hear her insights from Year 1. 1.Sometimes, you will get hurt – It could be acquaintances or even the people who you trust the most, but there will be times when people hurt you. This doesn’t mean you should walk around skeptical of everyone around you or expecting them to do hurtful things, but it is healthy to recognize that it could happen. In this case, do your best to accept the pain and push past it with grace and dignity. You can’t choose how people will treat you, but you can choose how you respond. 2.It’s ok to stand alone – While the first year of the Early Accountability Podcast was mainly filled with guest interviews, this year Kimi really stepped out of her comfort zone and found her voice through solo episodes. In doing this, she feels better equipped to interview guests on the show as well as bring her own message to the podcast on episodes with no guest. This was a great opportunity for Kimi to believe in herself and manifest the greatness within. 3.Consistency is king – While content might get your foot in the door, consistency is what will build an audience. Many people jump into new endeavors like podcasting just to lose steam and eventually give up. This does not have to be the way it goes. Focus on your messaging and getting it out there consistently, removing any excuses by not giving yourself the choice of not putting yourself out there. Consistent actions lead to consistent results, and that is what we all want, right? 4.Pay it forward – Kimi has learned that a great way to further ignite her passion for the show is to sow into others who are also interested in podcasting. She has been coaching 3 of her former podcast guests through the process of launching their own podcasts, which will be introduced on the show next week. She feels a sense of responsibility to pass along what she has learned, which is a great model for many of life’s opportunities. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Reflecting on the past 2 years •Lessons learned •Consistency •Sow into others •Keep moving despite obstacles Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi talks about the importance of having resolutions or goals year-round, not just in January of every year. By the middle of January, it is likely that many people have abandoned their New Year’s Resolutions, often because the lifestyle change required was too significant or abrupt. Making a resolution or goal just for the sake of saying you have one but without any plan for how to carry it out and keep with it is defeating the purpose. Even well-meaning people can be unsuccessful with their goals because of the overwhelming thought of the task in front of them. The best way to get past this obstacle is to be realistic and break the goal down into smaller goals on which you can microfocus until you reach each milestone. January can be a great time of year to reflect back on the ups and downs of the previous year and look forward to what you want to accomplish in the new year. It is a natural time of refreshment and renewal, but there can be other times throughout the year that can accomplish this purpose just as well. Take some time to split your year up into quarters, seasons, months, and even weeks, creating smaller goals over those time periods that will put you on track to reaching your bigger goal at a later date. This can also help to reduce overwhelm because it allows you to evaluate all of your different roles in life and create progress milestones for each one. The best way to stick with a goal is to have a plan and to write that plan down. Then you should either hold yourself accountable to your plan or you should get plugged into an accountability or mentorship group that will help you stay on track! Topics Covered in this Episode: •Keeping momentum for your goals •Having goals year-round •Microfocusing on goals •Being intentional Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi discusses ways to maintain your momentum in working towards your goals, even when you hit unexpected roadblocks along the way. It is often tempting to abandon your goals when you face pitfalls or disappointments, but you don’t have to – here are 3 things to keep in mind to keep your goals on track: 1.Expect adversity – Accept that negative things are going to happen sometimes, and these things are necessary for learning and growth. Struggles build character and strengthen your resolve on your journey to achieving your goals. 2.Find your tribe – Surround yourself with a few people who understand what you are going through and give you their perspectives to help you make better choices. Often, these people have similar goals to you or they have previously walked the road you are currently walking, giving them the needed experience to mentor, coach, or encourage you. 3.Understand your triggers – Rather than being disheartened when you hit a snag or when something happens that changes your trajectory, pay attention to how you react in these times and try to make adjustments. Empower yourself to push forward and make the necessary changes, picking yourself back up and not giving up on your goals. These things can help you be prepared to power forward when something unexpected happens and stay on track with the goals you have set for yourself. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Keeping momentum for your goals •Pushing through adversity •Sustaining your goals •Action paradigm •New year’s resolutions
Our topic on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is how to approach new goals that you make for yourself in this new year. There could be any number of reasons why people fail to keep their new years resolutions, as Kimi has discussed on previous episodes of the podcast, but rather than focusing on avoiding those “mistakes”, try to focus on these key aspects of effective goals. 1.The Right Pace – Don’t feel the pressure to commit to a lofty goal in January just because other people are talking about their resolutions. It is not reasonable to expect yourself to lose 15 pounds in a month and still maintain all of your other life commitments. If you have a goal for this year, sit down and consider what milestones you will need to reach weekly or monthly to get there. 2.Sustainable – It may very well be possible for you to lose 15 pounds in a month by working out 2 hours per day and eating only vegetables and raw fruits for the entire month, but your body cannot possibly sustain this kind of discipline indefinitely. Try to find a healthy balance between your current lifestyle and what you need to do to accomplish your goal. 3.Realistic – If you have not gone for a run in the past year, it is not likely that you will be able to run a marathon in 6 months in under 3 hours. While it is great to set big goals for yourself to work towards, you are not doing yourself any favors by choosing unrealistic goals and then going through the disappointment of not achieving them. If you want to be able to run a marathon, start with a 5k first. 4.Thoughtful – Set aside time for meditation, reflection, and recharging. Rest is so important for performance and for getting grounded and gaining the necessary clarity to move forward. If you keep pushing yourself to work harder and achieve more without intentionality, you are forcing yourself towards burnout rather than productivity. Topics Covered in this Episode: •New year •Resolutions •Incorporating goals into your life •Fresh start •Setting yourself up for success Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
EAP 101: Meditate, Initiate, and Create - Manifest Your Dreams in 2020 by Kimi Walker
As you prepare for the new year to begin and you feel the inevitable pressure to come up with some new year’s resolutions, consider taking your resolutions in a different direction. This episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is all about living intentionally and choosing the activities or experiences you pursue. In fact, Kimi encourages you to prioritize activities or experiences that fall into these categories: 1.Something that makes you feel productive – This is not busy work, but rather a choice to streamline the way you do things. This could mean outsourcing, delegating, eliminating, brainstorming, planning, time blocking, or anything else that will help you get more done in a simpler manner. 2.Something that makes you feel at peace – Oftentimes, when we have just done something that makes us feel productive, we have a sense of relief that can make us feel at peace. But being productive is not always a prerequisite for peace. You can find peace in moments of rest and reflection, doing something that makes the rest of the world fade away if even for a few minutes. This could be going to a Bible study, meditating, exercising, meeting with your accountability group, or just unplugging. 3.Something that you are passionate about – Find something that makes you feel fulfilled and aligned with your purpose. This is likely something that you tangibly enjoy and would do for free – even if you are getting paid to do it. 4.Something that makes you feel scared or uneasy – As we often talk about on the show, doing things that make you feel uncomfortable is essential to your growth, so unless you want to remain exactly as you are from now on, you should commit to doing something that will challenge you. 5.Something that makes you feel encouraged – Get plugged into a group of people who encourage you to be content with what you have, to work hard for what you want, and to be grateful in all circumstances. This kind of accountability and support will help you overcome difficulties and appreciate the joy and goodness that are available to you. As you think through these activities, know that some things can fall into multiple categories, so it is not important to check off each box like just another to-do list, but the goal is to prioritize what is important and what will help you grow in the new year. Topics Covered in this Episode: •New Year’s Resolutions •Starting 2020 with a new perspective •Prioritizing what is important •Choosing what you pursue Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi talks about turning 2019’s setbacks into a success strategy for 2020. Looking back at what happened in 2019 and thinking about the progress you made – or didn’t make – towards your goals is only half of the process. Here are the 5 ways that Kimi recommends you move forward in 2020: 1.State your setbacks – Be honest and transparent with yourself about what got in your way this year, but don’t dwell on these setbacks. Claim the goals you had set for the year but didn’t quite reach because it is important to keep these in mind as you plan for next year. 2.See the value in the experience – Reflect and really try to glean everything you can from the lessons you learned through the ups and downs of 2019. Be thankful for the things that happened and analyze the reasons why, allowing yourself to let certain things go. 3.Step out of your comfort zone – As was discussed in the previous episode of the podcast, it is likely that some of your unmet goals were the result of avoiding change. Next year, be prepared to do things differently and take steps towards where you want to be, even if they are micro-steps. 4.Select your alternatives – Take some time to define what exactly is going to be different, whether it means modifying or intensifying your process, streamlining, or outsourcing. Recognize that the way you have been doing things hasn’t been getting you the results you want, and you do not have to do it all alone. Coaches and accountability groups are a great resource as well. 5.Set small goals – If you have a big goal, it can be intimidating to wake up every morning thinking about how big the goal really is. It is much easier to break down the goal into smaller, shorter-term goals that are much more attainable from day-to-day and week-to-week. Setting smaller goals helps keep your motivation up and makes it easier to be consistent in your pursuit of the small and big goals. Celebrating these smaller milestones along the way builds your momentum on the way to achieving your big goal. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Taking action on lessons learned •Stepping out of your comfort zone •Setting smaller goals to gradually work towards a bigger goal •Deciding how things will be different from now on Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
This is one of the last episodes of the Early Accountability Podcast for 2019, so Kimi wanted to take this opportunity to talk about looking back on this past year, assessing your progress towards your goals, and applying the lessons learned to planning for 2020. From New Year’s Resolutions to short- or long-term goals over this past year, it is likely that you experienced some disappointments due to goals that were not met. Here are Kimi’s top three most likely reasons why you didn’t reach your goals: 1.You didn’t want to be uncomfortable – There is no denying that change is difficult, challenging, and uncomfortable. It is far easier to just keep things as they are and not go through the hassle of adjusting the way you do or approach things in order to make improvements. But in order to grow, you will have to think and act differently. In 2020, keep in mind that it takes 21 days to build a new habit, and encourage yourself that you can be uncomfortable for 21 days if it means that you get to reach the new personal or professional goal that you have been striving for. 2.You lack consistency – Since it takes 21 days to start a new habit – or stop and old one – this takes a time commitment that sometimes means sacrificing the comforts and pleasures of your old life. But if you stick with your goal every day, you will see the results in the end. Stick with the daily grind and persevere even when you don’t feel like it. 3.You don’t want to be held accountable – It is one thing to tell someone about a new goal that you have. It is another thing to have them check in on you to see how you are progressing towards your goal. That type of vulnerability is difficult sometimes, but accountability is a key aspect of learning and growing, taking steps towards those goals you have always made for yourself but never actually believed you could achieve. A great way to start participating in accountability is to set up tracking systems for your milestones and invite an accountability partner or group to help you stay on track. When you feel discouraged, take a look back at your tracking system to see how far you have come and reach out to the people in your life who can affirm your progress. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Reflecting on 2019 •Planning for 2020 •Reasons why you didn’t reach your goals •Applying lessons learned Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker https://www.youtube.com/user/KimiFitWell
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi discusses one final “holiday hack”: how to handle the holidays when they are not a happy time for you. Kimi became keenly aware of the difficult emotions that some people face during this time of year when she was working with sexual abuse survivors who explained that often times going home to visit family means having to face their abusers. If you have experienced a trauma like sexual abuse, lost a loved one, gone through the ending of a relationship or life situation, had unmet expectations, or had financial struggles that have made the holidays an unhappy time, there are ways that you can try to work through these difficulties and enjoy the holidays more than you thought possible. 1.Be ok with your process – Don’t expect more of yourself than is feasible right now. Accept how you are feeling and where you are in your process, recognizing that everyone’s process looks different. 2.Seek professional help – Whether you currently see a therapist for your struggles or not, the holidays may be a great time to consider talking with someone, especially if you recognize that you might be triggered during this time of year. If you are not comfortable with a one-on-one setting, look for support groups in your community or church that could meet your needs. 3.Take care of yourself – As simple as it sounds, getting enough sleep, eating healthy, setting up an exercise routine, and being aware of the things that might trip you up can make all the difference in how you handle the holidays. 4.Resist the urge to overcommit – Be realistic with your time and capacity in order to keep your mental clarity. Don’t make promises that you can’t keep and avoid becoming involved in a lot of things just to avoid your feelings. 5.Try something different – If your family traditions are not beneficial for you right now, start a new tradition or go on a new adventure. People may be disappointed at first, but they will understand that you are doing what is best for you. If you are going to be spending time with someone who is struggling this holiday season, focus on respecting their space while supporting them. Ask them how they are really doing and let them know you are there for them without being pushy. In short: be the friend they need right now. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Handling the holidays when they are not a happy time •Being sensitive of others who may be struggling •Doing what is best for you •Facing loss during the holidays Connect with Kimi: http://www.kimiwalker.com/ https://web.facebook.com/kimiwalker https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimiwalker
As the end of the year and the biggest spending season of the year approaches, Kimi provides Early Accountability podcast listeners with four tips for financial wellness. From managing spending to cultivating financial security to pay off debts to focusing on savings, there are many aspects to financial wellbeing that we often don’t want to think about, but could be very helpful for us to keep in mind: 1.Create a budget – Have a number in mind for how much you will spend on all of your gifts total, and stick to that number. 2.Make a list and check it twice – Write down every person that you want to buy a gift for and what you want to get for them, then review your list and ask yourself these questions: “Do they really need this?”, “Do these gifts have purpose?”, and “Am I just buying this because of the deal?” 3.Be intentional – Avoid “shiny object syndrome” by sticking to your list and budget, not being swayed by the flashy “deals” that are put in front of you. Have enough resolve and focus to pass by this year’s “hot toy” and buy the thing that you know that person would like most. 4.Prioritize experiences over tangible gifts – The spirit of the season is to spend time with those you love and express your appreciation for them. People will remember the time you spent with them and the experiences you shared much longer than they will remember what you ate or what you gave them, so extend this concept to your gift-giving as well. Look into purchasing loved ones memberships to museums, tickets to a show, opportunities for learning, or a meal out with you, or even make them something sentimental like a photo album that would be more significant than anything you could find at the store. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Financial wellness •Cultivating financial security and freedom •Managing spending and savings •Financial aspects of your entire wellbeing
EAP 95: Holiday Hacks - How to Stay Holistically Healthy by Kimi Walker
The topic of this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is how to deal with difficult family members and friends during your interactions around the holidays. We all have that person who pushes our buttons that we dread seeing at family gatherings or parties, but Kimi has some ideas about how to make the interaction a little less stressful: 1.Remember that you have control over where you allow someone to take you – You can choose not to get worked up or ask that leading question that you know will lead to a place you don’t want to go. You are in charge of your mental state, attitude, and actions, not the other person. 2.Have realistic expectations – It is unlikely that your cousin has changed drastically since last year, so they will probably still get on your nerves. Recognize that and be prepared to be offended or bothered by what they say or do. 3.Avoid potentially upsetting conversation topics – You know what topics are going to fire that person up, so if they start to steer the conversation in that direction, try a conversation diverter to swiftly move away to something less divisive. 4.Watch your alcohol consumption – While you can’t control how much other people drink, you can control how much you do, and it is likely that if you use good discernment and balance, things won’t get blown out of proportion. 5.Be grateful – Realize that other people would love to have family members or friends to disagree with. Just be grateful for the fact that you have people you care about – and fight with. You could take this gratefulness a step further by volunteering or donating to worthy causes this season. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Dealing with difficult people •Handling conversations •Relationships with family members •Knowing where to draw boundaries
Welcome to Part 2 of the Early Accountability podcast discussion of knowing how to end a chapter. With just two months left in this year – and this decade! – it can be tempting to skip ahead and start planning how to begin the new year, but an effective beginning comes only after an effective ending. You can’t commit to new endeavors and goals if you haven’t wrapped up the old ones, and perhaps it would be helpful for us to look at this process through the lens of an author. 1.“Break chapters when your story requires a shift. Changes of place, changes of time and changes of point of view are all excellent places for chapter breaks. Sometimes, our stories necessitate them.” (The Writer’s Digest) – Most people recognize when it is time for a change in their lives: a change of pace, a change of scenery, a change of location, etc. Take a look at what you need to do in your life to close the current chapter and make that change to a new start. 2.“Offer Wisdom: wisdom is a crucial ingredient in all great books; wisdom can be a fantastic way to end a chapter.” (The John Fox) – Often, looking back at the lessons you have learned during this chapter can give you the perspective that you need to understand that you are ready to move on. 3.“Use your chapter endings to look back and to look forward. No, not every problem is resolved, but there will be some closure. Not every chapter will have the same degree of closure as surrounding chapters.” (The Editor’s Blog) – Especially with relationships, it can be difficult to accept that there might not always be closure and you will have to move forward anyway. The Sankofa bird demonstrates the importance of looking back at the knowledge previously learned while still moving forward and applying those lessons to new experiences. 4.“Create an Arrival: Chapters don't have to end at the conclusion of a scene. They can end at the beginning of the next scene. It’s paradoxical, but your endings should be beginnings.” (The John Fox) – Endings are really new beginnings if you embrace the gaps and overlaps in between. A great example of this is graduations being called “commencements”, indicating that the completion of that degree is really the beginning of your next chapter. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Ending a chapter •The art of detachment •Wrapping up and letting go •Being confident in your endings Links: https://thejohnfox.com/2018/07/12-ways-to-end-a-chapter https://www.writersdigest.com/writing-articles/by-writing-goal/complete-first-draft/3-ways-to-know-when-to-end-your-chapters https://theeditorsblog.net/2012/04/11/dual-duties-of-chapter-endings
EAP 92: Learning to Let Go - How to End a Chapter by Kimi Walker
With the holidays approaching, many people feel like they can’t set or accomplish new goals because there is too much going on. These feelings usually manifest as excuses, such as these common ones: 1.“I would _____ if I only had more time.” – Everyone is given the same 24 hours every day, so chances are if you feel like you don’t have enough time to get everything done that you are overcommitted or you aren’t managing your time well. There is always something that needs to get done, so be intentional about prioritizing activities based on their urgency and importance. 2.“I have so much going on with _____.” – During the first few weeks and months of a new job or after the birth of a child, it is normal to feel overwhelmed and struggle somewhat to keep up with other aspects of life or commitments. There should come a time, however, when you have established a “new normal” that is pretty stable and you can find a rhythm for productivity, learning how to live this multi-dimensional life by creating more space for yourself in the mornings or at night. 3.“Next year, I will ______.” – You have more than enough time left in 2019 to start something new this year. Don’t discount November and December just because you might have obligations or commitments related to the holidays. This is especially a good time to launch a new business because people are looking to spend money on gifts. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Excuses to avoid •Taking responsibility •Being effective and efficient with your time •Living a multi-dimensional life
This episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is focused on how to finish out 2019 strong and transition well into 2020. With the holidays coming up, the next few months can slip away without you having a chance to take stock of where you are and where you want to be, to take this opportunity to pause and take these 6 steps: 1.Get clear – Write down 3 goals or accomplishments you want to complete in the new year. Focus intently on the top 3 priorities so you won’t get distracted by having too many goals. 2.Make space for yourself – Spend some time removing clutter from your living and working spaces, providing you with true spaces of rest and productivity and opening up more mental space for future opportunities. Think about your holiday traditions and evaluate whether you need to continue doing those things or make some adjustments. 3.Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want and need – Be honest with your loved ones if you need their assistance or resources for anything going on in your life. It can be a stressful season with the expectation of giving many gifts, so reach out if you’re going through some tough times. 4.Reconnect with others – Make time to spend quality time with your loved ones without distractions. Embrace that time and don’t give into the guilt of not being productive because your relationships are just as important as your work. 5.Take some things off your plate – Look at everything you have going on in your life right now and all of your commitments to determine if there is anything that you can let go of. Set yourself up in the new year to have plenty of space for your new goals and priorities by closing the chapters of your life that need to be closed. 6.Spend some time in reflection – Be aware of all the good that is around you and express that gratitude. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Transitioning well into the new year •Finishing this year strong •Gaining clarity •Evaluating your priorities •Reflection and gratitude
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, Kimi gets a bit more personal on the topic of stepping out on faith, describing a journey she has been going through for the past several months. It became clear to Kimi earlier this year that she needed to adjust how she works and what that could practically look like. While there are plenty of times for community and collaboration in making big and small decisions, she felt that this journey was meant to be taken alone. By taking the time to process internally what she has been thinking and feeling about the future of her work, she has been able to get grounded, evaluate what has and hasn’t worked in the past, and grow personally. This process of self-discovery and self-affirmation has brought her to a great place where she feels confident with her decisions about the future rather than potentially being swayed by the opinions of others if she had shared her plans sooner. Seeking out counsel from trusted advisors before making a move certainly has its place, but sometimes it is best to come to your own conclusions and make a mental shift in silence before making your questions or plans public. When the time comes to talk about what you are doing, the people who care about you will support you. You know what you need right now, so trust yourself enough to take control of your own future and reach those goals. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Stepping out on faith •Navigating changes and transitions •Moving in silence •When to do things on your own •Mental shifts
The topic of this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is stepping out on faith. Whether you are religious or not, you have likely encountered a time in your life when you could choose to stay where you are or step out in faith that something bigger is ahead. By choosing to get out of your comfort zone and entrust the results to a higher power, you have to potential to achieve great goals. Here are a few of Kimi’s tips for stepping out on faith: 1.Learn to face fear – While you might still have questions and insecurities about the end result, facing your fears will build character and open up your potential for achieving great things. 2.Acknowledge unsettling feelings – Starting something new or committing to stop a habit is uncomfortable, and admitting that to yourself will make it seem less scary or unnatural. 3.Trust that there is good out there – Perhaps you have asked yourself “Is this really all there is?” The answer is no, there are bigger and better things in store for those who step out on faith. 4.Remember that you deserve good – Sure, you believe that other people deserve for good things to happen to them, but what about you? It is ok to be discontent with your current circumstances and want better things to happen. Believe that you deserve good and affirm those beliefs often. 5.Know that there will be challenges – Nothing good comes easily, so expect challenges and don’t be discouraged. 6.Affirm that you are equipped to handle those challenges – Recognize that all of your previous challenges have prepared you for the ones ahead, so accept them when they come and be confident that you can overcome. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Stepping out on faith •Accepting challenges •Achieving your goals •Reaching for more •Trusting the process
Our guest on this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast is Tyran Cosby, a veteran, chef, actor, and business owner. Tyran retired from the United States Marine Corps after 20 years of service and then pursued his next dream of learning how to cook by graduating from culinary school. He became a sous chef for David Rose and traveled quite a bit with him while also pursuing his acting career. In early 2019, Tyran partnered up with one of his Marine Corps brothers to start a lifestyle brand called Life Behind the Beard. Life Behind the Beard sells grooming products, apparel, and cigars and they plan to offer more apparel products and perhaps a wine label in the future. In addition to providing high-quality products to their clients, the goal of the company is to give back, especially to young kids and veterans in the community. Tyran experienced his fair share of challenges while serving in the military, particularly struggling with being away from his wife and children for such long periods of time. For several years, he felt like an “Internet dad” who only ever talked to his family over Skype, but he has found great freedom to spend as much time with his family as possible in his retirement. He encourages men of color to step up and not be a stereotype, learning leadership and discipline and not having a chip on your shoulder. Men of color have overcome a lot in the past several hundred years, but you can choose to rise above and have a positive impact. He also encourages those who want to support and understand men of color to give them a chance and don’t generalize or assume how they will act. Tyran’s mantra is “there is no better occupation than helping someone who can’t help themselves.” Topics Covered in this Episode: •Pursuing your dreams even after retirement •Entrepreneurship •Stigmas and misconceptions about men of color •Collaboration rather than competition Connect with Tyran: https://www.lifebehindthebeard.co/ https://www.instagram.com/lifebehindthebeard101/ https://www.facebook.com/lifebehindthebeard101/
On this episode of the Early Accountability Podcast, our guest is Swiss, a woman who has experienced her fair share of trauma and loss and has chosen to commit to picking herself back up. Swiss grew up in Switzerland and in an effort to run away from childhood trauma and feelings of abandonment, she moved to the U.S. when she was 16. As it turns out, running away from your problems and unhealed wounds doesn’t make them go away, and Swiss felt the impacts of them into adulthood. A few years ago, she was in a relationship with a man with whom she had been friends for several years before they started dating. She was putting everything into that relationship, and even though other people told her that she was losing herself in someone else who didn’t feel as strongly about her, she continued on with the same fervor. Abruptly and unexpectedly, he passed away. Since Swiss had put so much of herself into that relationship, she really struggled to make sense of it all, feeling numb at first, then disoriented, then depressed and lost in the world. She turned back to God and sought His help during this time of grief, but she realized that she needed more help. She had been so ashamed at the thought of needing to go to therapy because she didn’t want people to think that she was crazy, but she found that her friends were actually very supportive of her going to therapy. Her therapist helped her figure out that there were so many unresolved feelings lingering from her childhood and from the unexpected death of another friend many years before, and she began working through those difficult feelings of abandonment. Through therapy, Swiss has learned that it is ok to be in the lowest valley for a time, but you cannot let yourself stay there. She was also encouraged by reading about Biblical characters who struggled with deep agony and the feeling of failure but did not give up or lose sight of their ultimate purpose. She wants everyone to know that you will get stronger, even if it takes time, that there is a plan and a purpose for your life, and that you should not be ashamed of your struggles. Topics Covered in this Episode: •Childhood trauma •Getting the help you need •Not being ashamed of who you are •Don’t give up Connect with Swiss: https://www.facebook.com/findyourself01
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