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New Year New Thought New You Jan 01, 2022

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It said that our cells replace themselves every seven years. So why, when we get a scar, does it not go away in seven years? Well, the truth is that actually not all cells change in seven years, that there's the average cell changes in seven years, everything's different red blood cells have a lifespan of say something like 70 to 120 days. Intestinal cells turnover like every 10 years, skeletal muscle cells around 15 years, skin cells, sometimes as fast as 14 days, it varies a lot. You know, people have asked, you know, if, if the cells turn over every seven years, does that mean I'm completely new in seven years? So this is a question we have to ask ourselves because as we come into this new year, is there a new you? So in this I know one thing for sure, as a spiritual being, I am not my body. So if my body, even if it is new in seven years, let's just pretend that all of them did change in seven years. What would be new? The truth is that time is simply a measurement of consciousness, directing energy upon universal law manifestation manifesting in the 3d realm, right? So

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I'm not new. There may be something new out here called the body called the year, called all the construct of this. But the truth is the truth of who I am is ageless is untouchable. You are the observer. You are pure potential. You are consciousness, you are divine.

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So the truth is the new year is really about a new thought, which means a new you, because as the observer, what do we do right? As the observer, you're able to change your perception. You're able to change the meaning that you put around things you're able, you're able to change how you, what you energize and what you choose to create. Right? The truth is that everything out here is the same. Nothing changes in the physical realm. There's just new equations to solve everything that we're seen in the world. Everything that we're seeing in the world is cycles. We are seeing it over and over again. We learn this in Exodus, in the Bible that Israelite enslaved, and then being led by Moses to freedom, the cycles of the, of the financial markets, the cycles of the astrological cycles, everything is cycles. Everything is, is the equations, the mathematical equations of this binary system, call it the matrix if you want. But the stories always go the same. It's the hero's journey, right? And here we are, nothing's really new. The cells turn. But so what really happens? Let's take a look back at that scar. So if the cells replace themselves, you know, on an average of seven years, why does a scar not always go away?

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And so there's a very important part of this equation, which is the perfection of everything that's created. There's an intelligence that lives and breathes in each one of our cells. It's called universal law. And it will create exponentially for our survival because that's what it does. The truth is that there is only life. The truth is you are immortal. You are not just this one body. You are the, that you've been expressed through all the DNA of all time, that this new year is nothing really new. The only thing new about it is that part of you that is that observer. That is the divine. That is that part of you that actually can create something new, a totally new mathematical equation with all the hands that you've been dealt. Robert COER talks about this life principle of supply and demand. He says, yes, if you, you know, take up some exercise, like lifting weights, that within days you'll begin to have callouses on your hands to meet your needs. This is a law of supply and demand, right? If we demand it, it will rise for us to survive perfectly Christian mur states that the observer is the observed and therein lies sanity. The whole, and with that, holy is love. The truth is that the 3d realm is something for us to create and that we'll survive. Regardless. The cycles will go on the new DNA and all of it going into the new lives will always be there. That there's only life.

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But the truth is that what can change in this new year is you that part of you, that is the creator, that part of you, that is the observer, that part of you, that can have a new identity. And so I want you to invite you to look at this last year. You know, what meaning did you put around it? Were you the victim of stuff? Did you make things wrong? Were you feeling like you were stuck in patterns or overwhelmed, or maybe even hopeless? Cause if you wanna restore the sanity and that holy love within, we have to get back to that freedom within that is beyond the world out here.

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We know that in Matthews 6 33, the famous, famous, famous saying, but seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all things will be added. I changed it of course too, but seek first the kingdom of God and her righteousness and all things will be added. So as we go into this new year, I know for sure the only thing that I am committed to manifesting, the only thing that is a new year's resolution, the only thing that I choose to embody in this new year is to seek first the queen within to seek first her righteousness, to get my mind right, to get my thinking right, to get my new thoughts in order knowing that I'm not of this world, I am the creator. I am the spiritual being that is co-creating as the one, as the oneness, as the unity Renee Decart said, I think therefore I am.

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And so we have to really break down, you know, what new thought do you want for this year? We recognize that identity creates thoughts. The thoughts create the feelings, the feelings create the emotions and the emotions create the circumstances of your life. So what are you thinking? What meaning are you putting on everything out there and where are you gonna direct your energy for 2022? Because what I know for sure is there is only pure potential on you. I was on a bike ride earlier and I was out, it was so gorgeous. I'd been on a bike ride for a couple hours and it began to get dark. And I was on this intercoastal pathway on the, on, on Palm beach, just stunning, stunning bike path. And it was looking out, the sun had kind of gone down. It was past sunset almost. And it was this light from the city and everything was glimmering on the water.

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And there was pink, still afar from the leftover sunset. And I had in my headphones and I was listening to mantras, Kini mantras, and the mantra came on a call. And if you know that mantra, it's a, it's a mantra to release spirit. It's used primarily when people are transitioning from their body into release and no freedom for that spirit. And when the SA song came on and I was intentional about new year's Eve immediately, what came up was to release my soul from 2021 to release it from all stories, all limitations, anything has gone on because 2021 was a beautiful year, a blessed year and also challenging year. And we recognize that you can't have one without the other that we have to stop only focusing on that. There should only be positive. That's not what we teach. We teach that we transmute all energy into using it for the highest good.

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And part of that is embracing the dark, embracing the challenging times to be able to birth our truth and use it to propel us even further. Right? So this year was 2021 was a beautiful miraculous year and a challenging year. You can't have one without the other. And in training, you know, hundreds of women and thousands of women across the globe in different communities, it's incredibly fulfilling to watch people transform literally physically, mentally, spiritually in their business, everything monetizing, finally, all that. And then also dealing with, you know, managing a bunch of people. And so I recognize that this year as I go into this, as I was riding my bike down and I'm listening to a call and my, my tears of joy start, you know, rolling down my eyes and I just am so grateful to release, to know that I'm able to do that with a blink of consciousness that I can choose to free myself, that I am, that, that, that person in prison, that those Israelites that are in chains of slaves.

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I am that I am, I also am the, I am that can free myself instantaneously. And in this new year, what I declare for myself is to only seek the kingdom within, to know that as I do that, all things shall be added. I recognize in the year, as I reflect back, I sort of began to reflect back. And I go, when my spiritual practice was stronger and deeper, my sleep was deeper. My stress was less when my spiritual practice was not as strong, I didn't sleep as well, and I would stress more. And so I know that our immune systems matter, everything matters. Everything comes down to that piece within that, knowing that queen within. And so I just say right here, right now, may there be a new year, a new thought and a new you by the power of your mind. I know right now that there's only pure potential, that as you open up your mind to all possibilities, allow yourself to receive everything at the core is the infinite consciousness, the connection between your individual consciousness and your cosmic consciousness, that there is an unveiling, divine source, all energy, all pure potential until it is observed.

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And it's only you that get to observe it. You get to put the meaning on it. You get to polarize it. You get to do that into the human experience. Your beliefs set the limit of the demonstration of principle. Never forget it. I know right now that the principle itself has no limit that you are the only thing that can limit yourself this year. And it, the law, the abundance, the truth of life is ready to fulfill every last drop. It is infinite. And your ability only comes down to one thing, your ability to have abundance, your ability at prosperity, your ability to have love your ability to thrive in 2022 is only up to your receptivity of the truth of who you are. May you receive yourself, may you receive the glory that you are, may you receive the receptivity of love and laughter and joy and prosperity and abundance and the sadness to transmute all of that all at once.

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I know if you are feeling stuck, if you are scared to go into this next year, if you're like, oh my gosh, by I know right now, right here, that this is the desire. The desire is the fulfilling. The desire is that cut, that comes into a scar that is only perfect because you are perfect. You are divine. And in no matter what circumstance you've had, no matter what traumas you've had, no matter what suffering you've had, no matter what card of deck of cards you've been ha your, your hand of cards you've been dealt. I know right now that that's perfect, that you always will survive that you not only survive what you thrive, because this is your birthright. And so I just say yes to 2022, may we ha

Lineage Trauma - Healing the trauma during the holidays Dec 19, 2021

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52 Universal Law Series

12 E4 Trauma Method Series

12 Truth Triangle Coaching Series

6 Relationship Breakthrough Series

40 Spiritual Awakening

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Today? I'm gonna get super vulnerable about my lineage trauma. And as we go into the holidays, I recognize that it can be beautiful, beautiful season, and it can also be one of the hardest seasons for people. No matter if you have family around or you are alone during the holidays, or you love your family, or you feel like you get triggered every time you're around your family. I think it's a really important conversation to have as we go into this beautiful and intense season so that we can really truly see through the triggers. See through the upsets in the family, see through the distance, see through the heartache, see through all the grieving, see through all of that so that we can stand in the light of love and really know the truth of who we are and see through the veils and the walls of our family, through the triggers, through all the upsets, through all that, so that we can hold miracles, miracles, miracles.

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Welcome to Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe that somebody has a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So I'm Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity, founder of new thought global and society. I am an international bestselling author winner of the 2020 Walden wisdom award with Oprah Winfrey. Great Braden and Michael Bernard Beckwith. And most importantly, I'm a mother, I'm a friend and I'm somebody who is deeply, deeply passionate about you ending your suffering and really, truly living your best life in total freedom. And as I well up in tears right now, I have mixed feelings of joy and also feeling the suffering that is out there in the collective, and that still lives in my family. And so I am here to serve and to really bring the wisdom of the universe, bring my heart and really lay it out on the line today.

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So I have a, I don't wanna say I have a different family, cuz I don't think there's a normal family out there. I have come from a family that on my mother's side, my grandmother was given up. Uh, she was given up for adoption when she was a little girl because her mother I believe was, um, was very young when she got pregnant. And so my grandmother on my mother's side, uh, was not exactly the nicest person. She was a very cold woman, very mad and angry at the world. And I remember going there as a little girl and my mom didn't want to go. We, the longest we ever went to her parents' house was one day. That was it. And it was very uncomfortable. And I remember my mom being very upset a lot and we would usually leave kind of, um, she, my mom would be kind of upset or pissed off or whatever it was and never understood as a little girl what was going on.

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And, and I just remember my mom herself, she was really pretty much emotionally unavailable growing up. I love my mom and I'm good with my mom, but my mom's really never been available. She would be kind of, you know, drinking or with the next relationship or whatever it was to kind of numb her feelings. Like so many of us have done in our lifetime and she really just wasn't there. She wasn't emotionally there. Um, I remember being in junior high and she started drinking a lot and she'd be at the bar majority of the time and there wasn't food in the house. And I was really just didn't understand. I didn't understand, um, what it was like to really truly feel like I was loved. And I think through that process, I, I built up a lot of walls, of course, in my lifetime before doing my trauma work.

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And before finding all this work, my father's side of the family was, um, was different. And yet the same, my grandmother on his side was actually one of the most loving women and really was a pivotal, uh, point in my life and person in my life to teach me love and, and, and really a level of love that I had never experienced my father, however, was really trying to find himself. He had his own traumas from kind of the abuse of his father and, um, and different stuff that had happened in his life. My father ended up, um, divorcing my mother and going off and having another family. And you know, of course I had abandonment issues from that and blah, blah, blah. Right? So you're hearing a lot of stuff. And the reason why I'm sharing all this is because I know that majority of you guys out there, especially if you're, you know, have had a spiritual calling, especially if you're listening to this right now, I know that you have trauma lineage trauma.

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And, um, whether it be from, you know, stuff going on from your, your mother's side or your father's side or both sides, and maybe you are totally disconnected from your family, or maybe you are with your family, but you have failed expectations or you get triggered. The point is that this is the deal. None of us are going to be okay on our deathbed. If we're not connected and loving with our family, it is a soul assignment. Yes. We get to pick our soul family in this lifetime, our friends and, and our community, but our family is a soul assignment. And I know as I look at my mother and my father, that they're the perfection of who they are. And so I'm gonna tell you today, a few things that have happened in my life and my heart to be able to truly love them.

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And I'm gonna cry right now because I love you, mom and dad, I know you're probably not listening to this, but you need to know that. I love you. I understand the pain that you've gone through. I understand the divided perspective that's happened within your consciousness through your own trauma, and I'm gonna get really vulnerable right now. I spoke with my mom this morning at 7:00 AM her time, and she was bawling. Her and my sister had gotten into an upset yesterday and my mom was gonna be going over there for the holidays. And my sister kind of had a few things she had to do during the time she was over there. And my mom took it as it. She doesn't love her. And she decided that she canceled her whole trip to go see my, my sister and my sister, both of us have gotten into my sister's a cognitive therapist and has diving deep into this work.

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And I think the blessing of where we've come from is that we it's demanded us to do our inner work. It's demanded us to dive deep into, um, our healing work and discovering what's really, truly going on. And my mother was drunk this morning on the phone, whether it be because she drank so much last night, that she's so hungover, but she literally was, you tell, was slurring her words. And, and I just held her in my heart. I held her in my heart. And I think that oftentimes with family, we think, well, they did this. They, you know, X, Y, and Z, whatever circumstances going on, you know, that we try and make the circumstance wrong or what they did wrong or whatever. But the truth is that what's really going on is people are sad because they're not fully connected and it's just gonna project out.

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We know that no matter what my sister said or didn't say to my mom, my mom probably would find a reason to, to have her trigger come up in her command that her trigger is I'm not wanted and I'm not lovable like so many of ours. Right. And we'll find the case. We're like, um, we're literally like lawyers in the courtroom finding proof for our case. And our case is I'm not a enough, I'm not lovable. You know, one likes me, whatever it is that divided perspective, something's wrong with me. I don't wanna live, you know, whatever the, whatever the command is that has come in through the traumas of this lifetime and in the lineage.

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And as I hold my mother in my heart, you know, some things are out of our control. Yes, we have. Um, my mom has gone through some trauma work. Not very, not very much, you know, a lot of people will say, okay, I'm finally ready to change. And they do two sessions. And they think that, you know, it worked or didn't work. It's a commitment, you know, going in and doing your deep work. We, we have lifetimes of, of work and it takes some time to really, truly get in there and do the work. My mom has actually come a long way. This is very unusual what's going on. But what I know for sure is the perfection of it. And we have to know that, but the perfection of it is that sometimes we make, you know, strides ahead and then we fall down again and then we make bigger strides and we may fall down again.

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And I know in my heart, my mind right now, the perfection of where my mother is, because I know that she has a choice, just like all of us in this lifetime, we're either gonna do our work and break our, our lineage trauma or we're not. And man, it sucks when people don't, but we also have to know the perfection of that. Sometimes people aren't meant to do their true work in this lifetime. And sometimes the next, you know, breakdown demands us to say, I have to change me. And so speaking with my mom this morning, even though she was intoxicated, even though she was in a real upset, she also said a couple things. She said, I'm so alone. What do I need to change? What can I do to change myself? And that's the first time I've ever heard her say that?

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What do I need to do to change myself, to change my life? That's the very first time she said that. And I don't know if she's gonna remember that when she's not intoxicated, but what I know in my heart is that nothing's gonna change until we change ourselves and we can't change our family. But what we can do is we can stand for truth. We can stand for the healing. We can stand with open hearts and tough love sometimes. And I know the same for my son and for all the lineage to come in my family.

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I love my son. I love my sister. I love my father. I love my mother. I love my, my half brothers and sisters. I love my sister, my half sister. I've never met. I have a half sister. I've never met that half brothers and sisters don't even know about. I don't think, but what I know is that the more vulnerable I get, the more transparent I get, the more real and raw I get. The more I get to experience love and d

2022 Quantum Leap Dec 12, 2021

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52 Universal Law Series

12 E4 Trauma Method Series

12 Truth Triangle Coaching Series

6 Relationship Breakthrough Series

40 Spiritual Awakening

12 Metaphysical Bible Series

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Are you ready to have a quantum leap in the year 2022? If you are committed to having the most powerful year of your life, then this podcast is for you. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast who come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So welcome you guys. This is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity, founder of new thought global and society, and the winner of the 2020 Walden wisdom award with Oprah Winfrey. And I'm the creator of E four trauma method. Uh, and most importantly, I'm somebody that absolutely loves and is completely passionate to helping develop world renowned spiritual leaders. So let's do this thing. We are just on the cusp of the new year.

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You guys, I am super excited and man, 2021 has been an intense year for me. I'm not gonna lie. It's been a lot of growth. Um, it's been, it's had a lot of, um, ups and downs just because of all the transition of, of the energies, the birthing, the birthing pains of everything going through the spiritual awakening around the world. And for me personally, in business, we've had a lot of growth, a lot of having to build a team and it's been exciting and challenging year at the same time. And I am so incredibly excited for 2022. First of all, 22 is like my, my favorite number. Um, it is a quantum year. It's a quantum number. It's a quantum year and we're gonna break on down right now. What is it gonna truly take for you to have a quantum leap the quantum year?

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Because the truth is this universal law teaches us that we live in a relative universe and that we there's one source and there's one power. And that is the truth of who you are. That creative factor. You are a creator. You are the, I am the full potential, but in this, we recognize that you can either have 22 the year 2022, be a year of spiraling up into the quantum field of, of really being able to be somebody that is the highest version of yourself, or it's gonna be a spiraling quantum year into the, to the abyss, into addiction, stuck patterns, dysfunction, and, and all that. Because the truth is that you're either going one way or the other Einstein said, life is like a bicycle. You're either, you know, puddling moving forward and creating or you're falling off. And that is what we teach in universal law.

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The truth is you're a divine, spiritual being with the power to create exponentially. And so we're gonna break on down. What is it gonna take for you to have a quantum leap in 2022? Because my invitation is for you to come work with me for the year for you to join our community for you to invest in, in your consciousness for you to truly commit to yourself, to having a quantum leap in your personal and professional life. We teach full embodiment. We're not one of those groups. That's like, you know, let me get you to seven figures in, in six weeks and then shoot you out the back end. And then you gotta pay some more for some other course, right? We're a full embodiment community. We, I want you guys to know that what's different about us. Like what is different about new thought global in society?

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One, I just wanna say that we are steeped in a, in a lineage. We have a lineage and we teach, we teach metaphysics. We teach universal law. We teach subconscious reprogramming. Of course we teach E four trauma method. We teach past life regressions and we teach truly the new thought ancient wisdom. So it's not some woo woo thing of some concept of, you know, some coach. And trust me, I love all the coaches out there. And I think all, all growth is good growth. Okay. But what's different about us is we have very specific teachings. We're in alignment with something, you know, at a minimum of 1500 spiritual centers around the world that teach metaphysics and, and our lineage of, um, everything from agape to, you know, unity around the world. We teach, uh, philosophy science and religion. We teach the full spectrum of it because we know that we have to understand all of it to truly become world renowned spiritual leaders.

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Okay. So, um, so quantum leap, first of all, I just wanna say from a science perspective that a quantum leap is a discontinuous transition between quantum states. What this means is that electron in one energy level and an Adam jumps instantaneously into another energy level emitting or absorbing energy as it does. So there's no in betweens, that's the point of a quantum leap. You can't have one foot in and one foot out, okay, that's called hell. I like to call it that like I'm committed, but I'm not committed. I remember being relationships and being like, I'm in it, but I'm not in it. It's like, hell, okay. It's like being, having dreams where you're in it and not in it. It's like I really wanna become a sick figure coach, but I really wanna hang out and just like, just scroll through Instagram and get jealous of other people that is called hell.

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Okay. A quantum leap is where you fully release anything that is not that identity and that consciousness anymore. A quantum leap me leap means that you fully go into that new consciousness. There's no dangling lines left in that old world. There's a full release. There's a full quantum leap, a full jump into consciousness. And we recognize that it's all consciousness that it's all within. Everything on the external world is a vibrational match and the mental equivalent of what's happening within. So in order to have a quantum leap, there has to be a quantum commitment to that consciousness, a decision, a powerful decision in mind to embody a new consciousness. That doesn't mean that you need to know how that's called outlining. We give that up. It doesn't mean that there's well, I'll do that when it's like a linear thinking of like, you know, I'll, you know, I'm gonna do that course.

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And you know, I need more money before I do that. Or, you know, I just can't decide. I took some other courses and it didn't quite work out. There's no considerations, there's no evaluations. Quantum me leap means that you fully embody and commit to a new consciousness. That's a quantum leap. There may be some things leading up to that decision. We go through that through programs, being able to truly release, say your trauma through E four trauma, or, you know, releasing your lineage, ties to your ancestors, releasing all those things. There may be, those are the hows that we do in the processes. Okay. But the point and the truth of the matter is that quantum leaps happen in an instant quantum leaves happen the moment, as we say, in, in the self development world and transformation, the program starts the minute that you sign up.

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And the reason why is because it's actually the decision of the commitment that sets the polarity and the entire thing into effect. You are such a profound, spiritual, uh, crater, that the moment you even consider something, let alone the moment that you decide something, that's when it all happens, that is the quantum leap. And so just, you know, going through this and for 2022, what does this look like? What does this look like to truly take a quantum leap? Because I'm doing it as well. You guys, you know, I look out there. If you see me on social media, I may look like a lone Wolf. I'm alone a lot, but it's not the truth. I have a huge community. We have hundreds of girls in the community. I teach thousands of people across the globe. We have a big team. I've got, you know, we've got, uh, we've got practitioners, a lot of practitioners that I train and develop.

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And they all work with the community and teach and do sole circle calls and things like that as well. I have copywriters marketers, you know, my right hand gals. We have enrollment coach. Now we have, we have, um, people that do accounting. I'm online and with community all the time. And yes, we come together and it's been one of the hardest things about the lockdown in LA was that I wasn't physically around people. And for me, the quantum leap, part of that is, is getting back to the heart, getting back to the heart, moving beyond what the world has told us no longer looking to other people on social media, whatever to think, oh my gosh, well, they're doing that. Therefore I should, whatever, no longer looking to certain funnels and going, well, this is how they launch. This is how I should launch. No, it doesn't look like any of that.

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In fact, a quantum leap, you have no effing idea what it looks like. So I can sit here and say, what a quantum look leap looks like is it's gonna look like this, this and this for 22. And I'm gonna have all these specific goals. That's not what we teach. What we teach is we teach to have two feet firmly on the ground with specific goals. And we also teach to have our consciousness in the ethereal realm, in the ethereal realm, calling in miracles, calling in way beyond anything. We can even even imagine for ourselves with the Mindy mind. And so in this, I know like what's different, what's different. And why I ask and invite you to work with me for 2022 to come into an incredible community, steeped in truth is because I love you because I know for decades, I searched and I searched and I see it with women that come in, they're like, oh my gosh, I'm so enlightened.

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And yet they can't be in the same room with their mother. Oh my gosh, I've done all my trauma. But they get triggered by like the littlest thing. Right? And then a few months into the program, they're like, oh my gosh, I thought I had done the program. And I thought I'd done my trauma until I actually did E four trauma. Oh my gosh. I thought I was so spiritual, but I hadn't actually dealt with my DNA and dealt with the body and dealt with all that stuff. Oh my gosh, I see women and few men come in. They actually they're actually physically transform. They don't even look like the same human being, their essence. Isn't the same, their relationships. Isn't the same. Their businesses begin to thrive. They begin to become somebody who's able. And then once they're able, then they become masters. They become practitioners.

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Commitment doesn't have excuses Nov 28, 2021

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Live from Florida, not from Los Angeles. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe and know that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So for the very first time, I'm actually recording video along with the podcast. So if you're on YouTube or you're watching this video somewhere, I apologize for the big microphone in front of my mouth, but for the podcast, it's really important that we actually put the pod, the microphone straight up to my mouth. Usually there's another, um, you know, thing on top of the microphone. So when it's far away, you can hear me if I'm just doing a video without the microphone in front of me, but for the podcast's sake, we wanna make sure that we have the best sound we can.

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So I'm very excited, uh, to say that I am officially in Florida, I will be going back and forth to Los Angeles. Um, I actually will be in Los Angeles next week. I'll be back and forth by coastal, for sure. So I do still feel like Los Angeles is my home as well, along with Florida. And I am in west Palm beach right now, but it may be Miami. We're just feeling into it over here. But what I feel for sure is that our community will be global because it is global. We, I most likely will be, you know, in London, New York, Miami, and Los Angeles, because those are kind of the hubs of the world. So today, today I wanna break on down some spiritually based coaching. So in the group the other day, one of the gals, we have like little pods that I train and develop all the spiritual entrepreneurs in.

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And whenever they have questions about business stuff, they will either bring it to, uh, the group coaching, which is, um, you know, weekly, uh, call or they put it in the pod. And one of the gals asked, she said, what should I do? One of her clients actually was moving as well. And she asked if she could put her, her coaching program on hold for a couple months while she got settled in to her new place and, and her entire life. And she asked, what should I do? Meanwhile, some of the other, you know, other coaches in there chime in and stuff. And, um, so we wanna give feedback all around from different perspectives and stuff. And one of the gals said, yeah, I mean, I would just be kind of like soft on her, no big deal. You know, it can be stressful moving, blah, blah, blah.

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And my response was absolutely not. And there's a reason for this. There's a reason why when a client shows up and they sign up and they invest in themselves, they commit to their dreams. And the truth is that commitment is a commitment, commitment. Doesn't look like, and doesn't have contingencies upon it in life. In fact, life is going to life and we recognize that there's a reason why someone, we have our clients sign a contract and why we have to show up. Imagine as the coach that you said, you know what, I'm moving right now, you guys. And so I'm just gonna kind of put off all of our group coaching calls for a couple weeks, couple months while I get settled in, um, you know, I hope that's okay with everybody, right? It wouldn't work. You'd have lawsuits all over the place. People would want their money back, right?

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It wouldn't work. So it's a simpatico relationship. This thing called a coach and a client. We are one in the same. And we're reflection of how we show up for one another, which brings me to, for sure, I think my favorite quote, all times, which is until one is committed, there is hesitancy the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness concerning all acts of initiative and creation. There is one elementary truth. The ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans. That the moment one definitely commits oneself. Then Providence moves two, all sorts of things occur to help. One that would never otherwise have occurred. This was GDA and I've heard different people say it came from William H. Murray and GDA. And so I actually believe it is from William H. Murray, but GDA is the one who would always use it. So for many years, people thought it was GDA, but regardless of who it is, there's one divine mind.

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So it doesn't matter all creation, it's all of our creation. So it doesn't even matter. So back to this issue. So somebody, uh, you know, in the coaching industry, it depends, you may have a, a 5% rescind rate. Maybe people stop making their payments, or maybe they choose to, you know, not be happy with the program or whatever it is. We are very lucky. We only have about one out of a hundred people that we feel really, we just don't vibe with everyone else. We have a really great relationship with, but it does happen. People will make excuses because this is what they do. It's the ego, it's the mini me trying to stay small. And the truth is that when you're committed commitment, doesn't have contingencies. So for example, I watched a lot of my friends that are committed to health and working out over the pandemic, the gyms were closed.

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There was all kinds of excuses to sit around and eat extra food and hang out and not move the body. And my friends that were committed to working out, found a way to work out. They'd work out in their house. They'd go out into the park. They'd do whatever it is that they needed to do. They would find a way because they are committed and commitment. Doesn't have contingencies, right? Commitment is commitment. You're either committed or you're not committed. So one of the biggest disservices you can do for your clients is say to, to let them off the hook, basically there's a commitment level on both sides from the, the client and the coach. And then it takes two, two minds to override the subconscious mind. We do this also in deep processes like trauma work. It's actually the intentions of two minds that come together that will override whatever is the programming.

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Whatever is a limited belief as well. So it's important as a coach for us to, to get committed to our clients, being committed. And it's important to have contracts in place it's important when you're onboarding your clients to have them realize how important, how they show up to their coaching program is how they show up to life. Do they come up with excuses? Do they not see things through? Do they make people wrong? Do they make the program wrong? Because if they're doing it one area, they're probably doing it in all areas. So my advice for this client is for you to have a really heart to heart conversation with your client. That doesn't mean you don't have compassion or empathy for what they're going through, but you come back to why commitment, why being their coach is actually helping them by helping them get committed and seeing through things, even when it's hard.

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Okay. I've been teaching even in say our community for three years solid. Okay. I, I taught for decades before that with one-on-ones and in different processes, but in new thought global and society in the actual coaching I have taught for almost three years consistently, I have had to reschedule one meeting over three years and I train and develop like three cor four courses, um, throughout the week, every week. Right? So yes. I mean, there's been times when it's been hard. Yes. There's been whatever, but that's called commitment and you just show up and you do it. And so part of the development with our clients is they want to monetize their spiritual gifts, or they wanna do whatever it is in their growth. Maybe it's being stable in their relationship, or maybe it's being stable in their health practices. Maybe it's being stable. And in being in doing a spiritual practice, the point is, is that life rewards and as a reflection, right?

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So whatever we're showing up, it's going to show the mental equivalent. If you want clients that are willing to pay high ticket pricing, then you need to be willing to pay high ticket pricing. If you want clients that are very decisive, then you need to be decisive. If you want clients who are committed, no matter what, then you need to be committed no matter what, this is universal law, and this is the truth. So today I give advice for anybody. That's having clients that want to make excuses to not show up in commitment. Commitment is what life reflects the universe just says, yes. And if we're getting mixed messages, it's because we're giving out mixed messages. So commitment is a yes, that's what it is. And it's a yes with no contingencies and commitment is our greatest power because it is basically a decision in mind that directs energy and reflects back exponentially with total certainty, total clarity, total precision.

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And so as we go through this today, I'm doing a short podcast today. As I like little chunks, you can take a little walk, get a little inspiration, a little motivation and move on with your day. So may you know the truth and may you find your deepest, deepest passions and be committed to that? If it's not a hell, yes, it's a hell. No. As we say, and at the same time saying yes to everything discovering what your true passions are. So on this note, I just say yes to this yes. To you. Yes. To this day. Also a reminder, we do have a five day challenge coming up. So if you're ready to say yes to monetizing, it's a five day challenge to monetize as a spiritual entrepreneur. So whether you are desiring to bring your spiritual gifts to the world, if you have no idea what you wanna do, it's a great way.

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I'm gonna walk you through exactly how to get clear of your mission and message, how to price your products, how to master sales, how to master social media and how to 10 extra soul based business, even if you don't even have anything yet, or whether you're already a seven figure, coach, it doesn't matter if you have a product or a service it's gonna teach you front to back, how to monetize. Okay. You guys have a beautiful day and may you live your truth. And if you're listening to this podcast, or if you're on YouTube or whatever you're doing, please share it like it. And comment. It's really important for us to support the people that we love. And I love you too. Okay. Have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth? Thank you for tuning

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Into the doctor, Aaron podcast. If you've had a spiritual calling or desire to get certified as a spiritual coach or world renowned spiritual leader, go to new, do global.com. If you receive value from the show, I would love it. If you share it with a friend and give it a five star review. Also we have spiritual practitioners that are trained to deliver the E four trauma method and assist you in birthing your truth. So let's be friends on social media. Again, my handle is Dr. aaron.tv across all social media, have a beautiful day. And may you live your truth?

You are not alone Nov 21, 2021

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12 E4 Trauma Method Series

12 Truth Triangle Coaching Series

6 Relationship Breakthrough Series

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This is

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First live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea, coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Do you feel alone? Do you feel like no matter what you do, whether you're in a relationship, not in relationship, your career's going well, you have a community. You don't have a community. You live in a certain city. You don't live in a certain city that no matter what is going on, there's a common theme, which is loneliness. Well today's podcast. We're gonna break on down. Why a majority of human beings feel alone on this planet. So welcome to Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We truly know and believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So let's do this thing. I'm Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity trained, developing world, renowned spiritual leaders, teaching everything from subconscious reprogramming, the famous E four trauma method and helping people birth their truth.

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We develop spiritual coaches, uh, spiritual practitioners and yes, ministers teachers and doctors of divinity. So let's break this one down. If you're new to this podcast. Welcome, we do have a lot of series on this podcast. You can go back and you can break on down money, breakthrough there's things on E four trauma method. You can find the entire truth triangle, all kinds of series on this podcast. I've chosen to do a solo podcast for quite some time now, and it's been an incredible journey shortly. I am going to begin to do coaching and interviews and all kinds of new dynamics. I've really enjoyed doing a solo podcast because after doing good morning LA land and interviewing 3,600 people, I wanted to just come on and bring my heart here. And it's time that we're gonna be going past the solo podcast. And so I wanna hear more about what you want to hear about who you want me to interview and what coaching you want me to break on down.

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So let's do this today, though. The topic and title of today's podcast is you are not alone. So stats show that majority of human beings feel alone, three outta five, consider themselves to feel lonely majority of the time throughout their lives in America and across the board. I think this is a common collective consciousness. So we're gonna break this on down today in that I wanna talk about how being alone is part of the spiritual awakening process, how to use loneliness to launch you beyond your DNA and how to thrive alone. Even during the holidays. No matter when you're listening to this there's holidays across all the year. And it's important to know that loneliness is one of the greatest gifts, because it is a call for a deeper, deeper relationship with th myself. So I wanna talk about this because as you guys know, I just moved and I, I am over in west Palm beach, Florida, and it, it feels like I've moved to a completely different country from Los Angeles.

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It is a very big move for me. And I found myself, um, having moments, like, I'd say 2% of the day where I'm like, oh my gosh, what have I done? Like I've left, you know, the thousands of relationships that I have the, uh, grounding in California, where I was born and raised. And it's been an interesting thing. And then 98% of the time I have been in total bliss and really loving this move. It's only been a week. So I wanna talk to you a little bit about loneliness because loneliness was an ongoing theme of my life. For many, many years. I would find myself being lonely, even at a party. I'd find myself being lonely when I was in a relationship, or even when I was married, I found myself feeling lonely and it is an epidemic. And in fact, now Harvard studies show that since the pandemic that 51% of even say, I, I believe it's young mothers feel extremely lonely, so there's different levels and gradients of feeling lonely, right?

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You can feel lonely on occasion. You can feel lonely, whatever, and then you can feel alone and, and really have it be a major issue in your life. So no matter where you are on the spectrum, whether you kind of deal with it here and there, or whether it's an ongoing theme of your life or whether it is becoming an issue and, and really having you spiral down today's podcast is gonna break on down what is loneliness and what's really going on from a soul perspective and what we can do about it. Okay. So again, being lonely, I remember in high school, I remember it was a Friday night and I didn't have plans. And I remember thinking my life has ended. I have no social life. Something's wrong with me. And I felt completely alone because I hadn't figured out how to be my own best friend and how to be with my own essence.

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Right. We also have loneliness. Uh, you know, I was out with some friends last night and we're talking about the holidays and they're like, are you gonna see your family for the holidays? I said, well, my family's a little bit different. I would say maybe once every three years we spend the holidays together. Once every three years, maybe I may even be completely alone for the holidays. And one outta three years, maybe I might be, you know, with friends for the holidays. So it kind of varies a lot over the course of my life. So I wanna break on down what to do during the holidays, whether it's July 4th, whether it's Christmas, where it's new, year's what do you do if you're alone, right? And then also wanna break down, um, how to go past your DNA, how to thrive pastor DNA. Because part of it is, is being alone is actually part of the process.

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And we recognize this even from, uh, some of the great, the great, great Henry David Thoreau, who actually went into the, the woods for two years, two months and two days, and how the awakening that happened and the transcendence that happened out of that. So let's break this on down. So here I am, I'm in a new city, a new state in which feels like a completely different country. And so I've spent a bit of time alone this week. I've been at the beach early about sunrise. I get up and I go down to the ocean and it's very dynamic here. The weather is incredibly gorgeous. There's wind and there's rain. And then there's sun and there's clouds. And there's actually rainbows. There's incredible. It's so mystical here. And I've had a lot of time to reflect on the feeling of loneliness. What is that what's really going on?

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And in new thought wisdom and in new thought global and, and society, we teach oneness. That's our primary principle, right? So it's the unification of self with all of life. And anytime we are feeling lonely, it's because we are not in that essence, that true essence of who we are, the divinity, the truth is that you are not alone. It's impossible to be alone. Yes, it can be physically. You can look to the world and we call that the sin. If you place the energy out into the world, then you will feel alone. You can feel alone. Even if you're in a crowded room of people. The truth is when we tap into that source within then we are in that oneness. We are we're with all relationship, cuz all of life is a relationship. Whether it be our relationship to, to our family that may not even be physically with us, whether it be a relationship with our higher self, with all of people, with the sand that's beneath our feet, that we're, we're constantly in a relationship with all of life.

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And so that's the truth. So how is being alone part of the spiritual process? Well, I wanna refer to a, uh, really great documentary. I watched years ago, it, it was called deep water and it was a, a documentary about a true story. In 1968, they had, um, there was like a, uh, a race and what happened was pretty much wealthy. Men came together and decided they were going to sail across around the world in a yacht. Right? So each man, these wealthy men were basically gonna get media. If you will, to see who could actually complete the race and who could do it the fastest. And it's a true story about one of the gentlemen that entered the race with somebody who was not an avid sailor, he did not really know how to do it. And he really did it more from what the documentary shows is kind of out of his ego.

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He wanted to prove that he could sail around the world. He also wanted to win the, the pot, which was a lot of money. And, um, it was a lot of ego going into it. And there was, they began to showcase these different men that were going in this race around the world. And it was profound because what happened was obviously back then, they didn't have all the documentation like they do today, but they had letters and things that the men wrote out at sea. And the gist of it is that when you're alone, you are faced, you're faced with your demons. You're faced with, with everything good and bad within you. And what happened is the men began to get stripped away of their identity, the stripped away of their material, you know, identity and their friends and their family and their status. And all they were left with was themselves, themselves with nature themselves, to face their own insecurities, their fears, their darkest of darkest within themselves.

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And what was profound about it was one, the gentleman, Donald a Crowhurst I believe was his name. Um, I believe that he either, I mean, you could say he died at sea. You could also say he committed suicide because it really is a choice of, you know, to go out there and subconsciously know that you're not prepared for something. Right. And I believe that he, um, I believe that he transitioned at sea and what happened for the other men was profound because there was one gentleman and I'm not sure if this is a hundred percent correct. It's been some years since I watched this, but the gentleman that actually won the race, he won the race, he had made it the fastest. And he, he actually, what he did was he actually gave away the pot, the winning the winning amount to the second guy, because I think that he, something like he was struggling financial or something like that.

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And or he gave it away to the family. I think he gave it away. The family that suffere

Am I addicted to my relationship? Nov 14, 2021

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52 Universal Law Series

12 E4 Trauma Method Series

12 Truth Triangle Coaching Series

6 Relationship Breakthrough Series

40 Spiritual Awakening

12 Metaphysical Bible Series

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This is first live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea, coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth? Are you addicted to love, or do you wonder if one of your friends is addicted to love? What is love addiction and how do you know, how do you know what is happening in your life and in your love or in your non love life? If you are interested in discovering what love addiction is an are you addicted? You wanna listen to this podcast, welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe and know that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world.

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So I am a doctor of divinity. Why we consider ourselves doctors is because we truly heal to revealing truth. And I absolutely know what it is like to be in the suffering and in the dysfunction and in the addiction of love. So today I wanna just answer that one question. Am I addicted to love? I'll never forget the day. I asked myself that question. I was in a tumultuous relationship and I remember focusing on him over and over and over again, thinking if he changed, if he healed, if he did all of his work, then everything would be good and I'll never forget it. I was, um, I was in a codependency meeting. It was a 12 step meeting and I was talking to a friend in there and I think he asked me something like, how are you? What's going on? And I began to rattle off all the things that was happening with, uh, with the man. I was in a relationship. He did this. He said that, oh my gosh, can you believe it? And I'll never forget. He looked at me and he said, what are you gonna start focusing on him? What are you gonna stop focusing on him? And why don't you start focusing on yourself?

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Bam, shut the whole entire stop me in my tracks. It was like a, it was like a screeching halt in a race car, making skid marks across the racetrack. What? Me? No, even though I was even in codependency meeting, I still was there to try and think that I would change myself to fix him. You know, that's how sick I was. So today you may be asking yourself, am I addicted to love? And as you guys know, I work with soul-based entrepreneurs, spiritual coaches. And so you may be asking why are talking about love addiction, right? The point is this, is that what I have found with working and developing thousands of people across the globe is that until they deal with their relationship issues, they do not have true, um, true success in, in their personal professional life. And, um, I'm also here, as you guys know, to say that the concept of relationship in our culture is something that is very limited.

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And I have met people that are not in relationship that can be the most healthy, thriving human beings. Um, and I've met people who are in marriages that could also be the most miserable people I've ever met and vice versa. I've met people in loving relationships, completely thriving, and I've met single people, completely miserable. So I do not believe in a title or a relationship status to be somebody that is healthy in relationship. I truly believe that the ultimate relationship is with your higher self it's with divine it's with that aspect of yourself. And I was actually on a conversation in a meeting the other day with someone who said, they'd actually had a, a marriage with themselves. They actually had a ceremony marrying themselves as their partner in this life. And being able to fully be expressed and be in relationship, but being fully complete as themselves.

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And I'm not here to say that's good or bad, or, you know, we should be, you know, let go of gender and become X, whatever. I don't, I don't have an opinion. I think that each person has a freedom of choice to decide what works for them in relationship and whatever it is for them to fully, um, be in self love and fully at peace and fully in expression and connection at the same time. So why do we care about answering the question? Am I addicted to my relationship? Am I addicted to love? Am I codependent? What's going on? How do I figure this out? So one, some of the signs, I'll just say that after I'll work with a CEO or a single mother or whatever it may be. And what I find is that, um, the people who are addicted to love generally are it's impacting their life.

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It's impacting their life in whether they are being a roller coaster with their emotions. So they're not being able to focus on the present moment, wherever they are. So addiction tends to have people basically, um, be thinking about the past or be thinking about the future. Is it gonna happen? Is it not gonna happen? Right? Or they're not present right here. And I remember specifically, so some of the signs that I went through were this, I remember, um, like looking at my phone a lot. Has he texted, has he not texted? What did he say in that text? What is he doing? And I'd be like, almost compulsively wondering where is he at? What's he doing? You know, is he lying? Is he telling me the truth, all the stuff. And, um, some of the signs, I just remember being, um, I would, I would, we'd get to, as we call it the vicious cycle or the merry-go-round.

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And there was times when I would basically get so, uh, entangled with him and enmeshed with him that I would lose track of all my other friends and family. I literally would like almost morph into a different universe, almost like a heroin addict. When they take drugs, they become euphoric. They kind of let go of everything. Oh, food, money, family, friends, none of that matters only this, this, um, you know, substance over here, this love addiction over here. And then the merry-go-round would complete it cycle. And then we would break up or have some dysfunctional thing. And then I would slam back into reality, just like the heroin addict that just can't get the next hit. Right. It's like withdrawals and feel like crap. And all of a sudden you're like, oh my gosh, I, you know, I need friends and family and I need to make money and I need all these things.

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Right? So some of the ways you can tell if you are addicted to love is because you're having a negative, negative impacting your life, you know, straight up. Okay. It also can be where, um, to go further with it, because I've gone to the opposite side where, what we call it is being an anorexic and love addiction. Okay. So you'll see this, um, even with, you know, entrepreneurs and impacts people I work with, um, and it's impacted myself where, when you deny yourself of love and connection and you just go, well, I'm just gonna not have any dysfunction whatsoever. I'm not gonna even date at all. And therefore, what happens is your soul slowly dies. It's like literally the anorexic that stops eating and you, you know, the life starts getting sucked outta them. They start turning pale and they have no nutrition and they're alive, but barely.

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So it's the same with that going to that spectrum. And are you addicted to your relationship or addicted to not having a relationship, right? Is it negatively impacting your life? And what happens is, uh, what happens with working, say with someone who's trying to sustain a multiple six figure company or something, and they're denying themselves of love and connection and expression, they put into box. It has to be a certain way. They're not good enough. And they just keep pushing people away, keep pushing away. They're basically, you know, total anorexic in it. And, um, what happens is the soul begins to die. I know it, well, I I've done it, you know? And, um, and you begin to basically just your, your whole mojo, if you will, your whole thing begins to go down, right? Your, your entire zest for life begins to go down.

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If you don't have some love and expression, it doesn't have to be in the construct of say a relationship. It doesn't have to be, but you need to be around relationship. Whether it be friends, whether it be, um, you know, loved ones, whether it be whatever you begin to just die a little bit. So how do you know, you know, and answer the question, am I addicted to my relationship? Well, addiction is really easy to define, and it is, is it negatively impacting your life? You know, there's a spectrum of addiction. You can be an addiction where things are beginning to become negatively impacted. And there, then there's a little bit further, right? Where it's like, um, yeah, this isn't working like truly, and truly, you're either getting so upset in your relationships that you can't focus or get anything complete, you know, or it's just beginning to you're dying just because you're denying yourself of everything. Right? So roomy has a quote, the famous roomy. He says your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.

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I think that so often in our lives, we seek somebody to fulfill us, to complete us as Jerry McGuire. You know, the famous saying in, um, Jerry McGuire, you complete me. And in meta, in mind, science and mind, we teach that if you place your power outside of yourself, you will be disempowered. It's that simple. It's 1 0 1 of metaphysics. The moment that you place your power outside yourself, or put your relationship as your higher power, or put a substance or put your career, or put your status or put your age, or put your body or put anything outside of yourself, you actually will become disempowered. That is the power of consciousness. So the goal in all of life and in love and in relationship, whether it be with your friends or your family, or your peers, or, um, a intimate relationship or a sexual relationship or a dating relationship or a marriage or whatever, because all of life is a relationship.

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The goal is to have love, connection, and expression. Everyone. I don't care who you are, everybody. Every soul that is, that is the glue of unity. That is the glue of oneness. That is what we teach. That is our primary principle in new thought global and in the new thought movement. So are you addicted to love? Addicted to love is basically a tug of war. I want it. I don't want it. I gotta have it. I can't have it. I love you. I wanna break up. Oh my gosh. I wanna seek my per person and then finding everything wrong with them. A girlfriend, me sent a really funny meme the other day. It was like two pictures next to each other. And on one side, the woman's like, I really wanna find my person. And then on the other, uh, side, the picture she's sitting across from this guy a

Creating a New Chapter of Your Life Nov 07, 2021

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52 Universal Law Series

12 E4 Trauma Method Series

12 Truth Triangle Coaching Series

6 Relationship Breakthrough Series

40 Spiritual Awakening

12 Metaphysical Bible Series

Grab your FREE gifts and Universal Law Oracle Cards:

https://www.spiritualawakeningcards.com/oracle-cards-order-now

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Hi there today. I wanna get a little bit intimate with you. I wanna open up my heart and share a little bit of what's going on in my life. So the beginning of this podcast, I usually say live from Los Angeles. We come together each day to another truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. And today, maybe one of the last podcasts that I say, those exact words, because I'm moving. I am officially moving to west Palm beach in Florida, and I am in the middle of a move. So today I'm gonna break on down some of the parts of life where it's time to have a new chapter. It's time to let go of a new environment or something. It could be your career. It could be your relationship. It could be energetic ties to something there's always a rebirth. And today I wanna talk to you about the move, which really is a rebirth and putting yourself in an environment where you truly thrive.

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So let's break this sun down, live from Los Angeles. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gifted message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So this is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity teaching metaphysic of mind and, uh, reprogram the subconscious mind E four trauma method and all the great things to develop world renowned spiritual leaders. So, yep. I am moving it's official. And I wanna share my journey with you because, um, it's so it's so clear that the decision of mind is what the universe really is just responding to. It just is saying yes, all the universe does is say yes. And I have to just share that the last year has been, it's been, you know, interesting. Let's just put it that way.

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That's one way of the spiritual people saying that's FD up instead. We just say that's interesting. Right? So when the pandemic happened, began to get locked down and everything, whatever that was a year and a half, two years ago, I actually pivoted in within three rests because I had been through 2008 and 2008 was a really intense time for, for my generation. Anyway, I had a lot of friends that lost everything to their name. A lot of them came in, lived on my sofa in the interim of, uh, of trying to figure out their lives. And I remember waiting, I remember waiting, I remember watching TV in the news and getting a lot of fear based, um, parts of my body and, and mind and spirit and all the above. And so when the lockdown came about, the pandemic came about, I had learned that lesson and the greatest lesson I think I learned out of of 2008, was to not wait that to pivot and create and always know that in that there's all innovation.

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And so when the lockdown began this time around, I innovated super quick, our, our community and our company and everything, we pivoted fast and we served and we served and we thrived like we did really well. Um, through the entire time we have been thriving, we have been growing, we have been scaling. We're doing really well as a company. And I really felt honored to be there as a pillar of strength for my community and for all the people out there during this, you know, during the lockdown. So the first year of the lockdown, you know, kind of, uh, went by in certain areas of the world were not locked down a lot. And others like Australia were really locked down in Los Angeles. We were pretty locked down. And what happens is just like, you know, there's that visual and that metaphor of the elephant that has a big chain on it when it's little and it can't get away.

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So it learns to stay within a few feet of, of the steak, if you will. And then as there's this other picture of this elephant that now is this ginormous elephant. And it has like a teeny, teeny little chain on it to a little chair in the middle and it could actually just walk off. But the elephant doesn't know because we are habitual beans. We are energetic beans. We create and we create, and then we experience being the effect of what we create. It's not the truth we can always recreate and we can always create from nothing that's the truth, but we have to have a consciousness that's strong enough if you will, to remember that and to, to do something about it, if you will. So the second year of, of the lockdown, um, I started noticing myself that I began to isolate a little bit more and more still being, you know, we have an amazing community online and I have some really dear friends in Los Angeles that I would go and walks with and hang out with.

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But I began to notice that my environment, uh, my, my body, my soul was speaking to me really saying, it's time to leave here. You know? And, and I was listening and I knew it was time. And spirit also was saying, get prepared. So I was focusing a lot on the mission and business and everything else. And, but I knew, I knew it was a matter of time. And so the last year I've been searching and searching and searching really inside and without to, you know, what is the next chapter? What does it look like? You know, does it look like me moving to diff different home in Los Angeles? Does it look like me moving to orange county? Does it look like me going up to Santa Barbara? Does it look like me leaving the country? Does it look like me going to Florida?

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Does it look like me going to Texas? Does it look like Dallas? Does it look like everything? And I began to inquire and, and feel into it within my soul. And the reason why I'm telling you is because we all have to make decisions. Some decisions are easier than others, and some take a lot of strength and courage and, and have, you know, big cause and effect on 'em. So I would, would pray and meditate on it. And what would happen was I began to feel and know that maybe it wasn't one location, because I was, when I would go into prayer and meditation, I would have the feeling of tropics. I would also feel the love still for Beverly Hills in that lifestyle of a Beverly Hills of, you know, just beautiful things and material world and, and abundance of wealth, and then the material world.

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And I would also feel like a Santa Barbara, a grounded in part of Santa Barbara, where I grew up very, um, you know, there's a, there's parts of Santa Barbara that are very yuppy. Of course, there's parts of Santa Barbara that are very grounded in with mother, um, the Oak trees and the, the, the ground there is very grounded in. So I kept searching. I kept searching. And one day I stumbled upon west Palm beach, Florida. I had known about Miami. I'd known about a couple things, but I had never, I never heard of it. Honestly, I had never knew about it. And the moment I saw online, I kind of gased like, whoa, like, wow, I kind of had a, I had a knowing straight away. I saw the pictures and that's how it works. You know, intuitively it's like, there's an alignment. Okay.

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And it kind of sparks. And I began to research a little bit more and, and I started really having this love for west Palm beach, Florida. So what did I do? I booked a flight. It was only whatever, a couple year, couple years, a couple weeks ago or something. It feels like a couple years ago. Um, and I went out with the intention of one thing and one thing only, and I went out to, to no, cuz my soul speaks to me clearly it's either a hell yes or a hell. No. So I jumped on the plane and I, my flight arrived in, I think it was like seven 30 or something like that. And I got a good hotel and stuff, but I wanna kind of cruise around. I thought, well, I could at least cruise around for a little bit at night and just see the area first.

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And then I'll explore more in the middle and in the morning. So I drove it. First thing, I just drove out to Palm beach and naturally it led me to this incredible vision of this big building out there, which is called the breakers hotel. And it's like a mini castle. It's like huge. And so I drove up and I thought, well, there's this gate here. And they probably only let people in that are staying there. And they said, no, come on in. You know, so I drove up, I walked in and immediately was like, wow, this is really beautiful. And I just wanted to see the ocean. So I walked through the halls down the hall and all of a sudden I walked through the door to go out to the ocean. And when I opened the door, it was like this warm tropical breeze hit me at a soul level.

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And it was the day after the full moon. So it was essentially a full moon and it was one of the most beautiful, full moons I'd ever seen in my entire life. There was these clouds going by it and it was the most mystical looking thing I'd ever seen in my entire life. And I knew in that moment I was home. I'm gonna cry right now because I knew it was the next chapter for me to have. And no, I didn't know one person in, in west Palm beach, Florida and my son is, you know, in Scottsdale and my family's all over on the west coast and I have thousands and thousands of friends along the west coast, but I knew I, it, something like, oh, okay, here we go. You know, it's like a divine assignment. And, and so I'm telling you this for you because for me, the divine assignment is this, my number one priority in my life is my mission.

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I, this is why I'm here. I'm here to bring truth and you know, really bring universal law and understanding the energetic ties that we create to our and ourselves here in this lifetime. And every time I pray, every time I ask for one thing and one thing only, and it is to be used for the highest good. And so I always ask, what is the, you know, the one thing for me to do for the mission and every time I've been going into prayer for the last year, my true self, my higher self says, you know, is rejuvenation. You need to get tapped into mother nature and you need to be really in that flow of that bliss of that high frequency, where your body feels good. Your mind feels good. You're warm with nature. You have a balance through this whole thing. And, and so for me, it was a divine calling.

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It's a divine calling for me to go

#1 Top Transformation & Breakthrough Hack Oct 31, 2021

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Okay. You ready for it? I'm going to give you the secret of the secret, the key, the actual one thing that has people transform. So whether you're looking to have a huge breakthrough in an area of your life, you want a major transformation, or whether you're somebody that really desires to become somebody that can give somebody a great transformation, take them through great transformation. You definitely wanna listen to this podcast. So welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We truly know that when somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So as a doctor divinity, somebody who has, you know, held many, many transformational events around, um, Los Angeles area, for sure. And, uh, different parts of the world, I have touched and moved and transformed.

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Thousands of people touching hundreds of thousands of people online. And I'm gonna break it on down for you. Okay. It comes down to one thing. And one thing only when somebody comes, they wanna break through, they wanna break through whether they're dealing with, you know, relationship issues. Maybe they're trying to find the one or their in a relationship that they just want them to change or whatever. It may be relationship things, whether it be their, their mother is bothering them or their child is going through addiction or whatever it is. Okay. So that's one of the areas of life. They want transformation in. The second area of life. People always want transformation in is money, honey, money and career. If I just make money, then everything will work out. If I can just get out of this job that I hate, then it'll work out.

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If I can, you know, just make money and finally do what I wanna do or, um, whatever it may be in career. If I can just scale a little bit more, if I can just become a seven figure, whatever, if I can just build my team, if I can just money in career. Okay. A second area of life, people want transformation and third area of life. They want transformation and is health and vitality. I don't feel good. Something's wrong with me constantly not feeling well if I just lose that 10 pounds. Oh my gosh. Um, you know, if I just look better, you know, whatever, it may be, their, their health and vitality. It's something that people spend, how many dollars on, you know, the next supplement, the next, this, the next treatment, the next, whatever. I have people that in LA my gosh, they spend so much money on trying to get their energy high and their vitality high.

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Right? And then finally, the other people really want transformation in the fourth way. Cuz we teach four legs of life that we're getting transformation in. The fourth is their self-expression. If I just know what my purpose is, then everything's gonna work out. I wanna breakthrough. I wanna know what my divine calling is. I wanna know what my mission is. This the breakthrough, right? So today I'm gonna break on down what it is. The one thing, okay. It comes always comes down to only one thing in transformation. How you get there can be multiple ways could be through trauma work can be through, you know, a harsh conversation can be through a meditation, can be through me, speaking on stage and having people see a new perspective and bingo pop, you know, we call it popping. We call it when people have a big transformation, we call 'em popping because they literally pop out of their old PI paradigm and transform their entire perspective.

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Change in an instant. Their entire world will never look the same, who doesn't love a good transformation. I love a good transformation. I remember years ago going to, you know, landmark forum and different breakthrough things in seminars and reading books and having, you know, breakthrough after breakthrough transformation, after transformation, I remember going into meditation and every time I'd come out, it was like, whoa, a whole new perspective on something going into trauma. We're going into past life regressions going to all this going to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And the point is there's only one thing. The transformation comes down to transformation comes down to no longer placing your power out in the world.

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It truly is the divine awakening. The divine awakening of the oneness, recognizing that all of life is just the projection and reflection of your own beliefs and identity. So that's the hack. The hack is to have a transformation for yourself, for your client is somehow there has to be that paradigm shift to recognize that life is not doing to you. You can never be the victim of life. That life is growing you and showing you your own belief system and how it's projecting out into the circumstances, your relationship into your health and into your purpose of your life. So how the F do you do it?

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Obviously trauma work is the number one way that I've had people have their big epiphanies, the big transformation, and the reason why is this? There is a moment in the E four trauma method. There's a moment when I take a client into a, to a trauma, whether it be in this lifetime or a past lifetime in their epidemics of their lineage, when they recognize that during that moment, whether it be they were being raped, whether that was a breakup, whether it was, they got a phone call that was traumatizing, whether they in a car accident, whether they were, um, diagnosed with cancer, whether they were X, Y, and Z, whatever the trauma is, there is a moment. There's a moment when they decided something that was limited. A limited belief, we call it commands something that had them divided, divided in their perspective, divided in who they were as a spiritual being divided. Meaning I'm not enough meaning something's wrong with me, meaning whatever. And in that moment, in that trauma, in that E four method session, there is a moment. There's a moment when they realized that they created their own suffering, they created their own limitations.

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They commanded something into their own subconscious mind that was in plain out like puppet strings in their life. They realized that they're the creator. And so what is transformation it's really beyond the form. Breakthroughs and transformations means going beyond the form, a meta metamorphosis, a breakthrough, a quantum leap, whatever you wanna call it, it comes down to one thing. And one thing only, it comes down to no longer placing your power out in the world and recognizing the truth of who you are. You are a divine, all powerful, infinite, spiritual being. And I'm here to say that I went through many different programs for transformation. Some were, some were great, but they didn't get down to the real stuff. They said surface. They had me, you know, there was transformation on, um, different perspectives of life. But I truly believe until the transformation actually gets down into spirituality, gets down into the metaphysics, get down to understanding the power of the mind. And that's why I am forever, totally loyal to S's mind, to science and mind understanding our spiritual nature to spirituality, to the new thought movement. I am so committed to this work because I've been through every transformational program. And until I understood the power of mind and that I'm a spiritual being the transformations didn't last.

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It's great. It's great to go to a seminar and transform and see things in a new perspective and get all motivated. And then you go home and then you're like, huh? Why do I feel like crap again? Why do I feel like I'm not powerful? What's going on? Right? Cause we haven't gotten to the core. We haven't gotten to the core principles that are the principles of true freedom. Transformation comes down to one thing. And one thing only it's recognizing the truth of who you are. You are a divine creator, you are source and all of life is just a mirror for you to wake up for you to experience the depths of consciousness, the depths of your soul and form everything. Everyone is the projection of what's happening in mind. That is true transformation. So if you're somebody that wants a profound transformation, a life changing transformation, or if you're somebody who truly desires to be able to be somebody that's able to help someone else transform, help bring clients and create programs and do all the work you've got to master this one principle, you've got to master it. So how do you do it? You do it through deep trauma, work through E four trauma method to have those epiphanies, to truly neutralize all, all the BS of being the effect of whatever happened in life trauma. Isn't what happened to you. Trauma is what happens within you. It's the meaning that you put on it. And therefore all trauma is created from myself.

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All trauma is created from myself. And so in that I know, I know that you are capable of all the greatest trans women. Imagine yourself. Imagine yourself as somebody who absolutely is untouchable, who absolutely knows they can create anything with whatever life throws at them. I know for certain that this is the truth and the truth shall set you free. And so in this, if you wanna be the a world renowned someone who can completely transform lives, I promise you I'm your gal. I promise you. We have the greatest teachings. It's not just my teachings. Okay? We come from a lineage, a lineage of new thought movement, a lineage of science of mine, a lineage of uni, a a lineage of, of spirituality of core work, everything from trauma, work, everything from spiritual mind, treatment, everything from, from understanding and being able to transform your life with lasting results.

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I see people, I watch people completely transform in front of my eyes, from their physicality, to their relationships, to their businesses, to their health, to their relationship, with themselves, to being able to make an impact and a legacy in this life. And I'm just here to say it is your time. It's been a hell of a ride the last couple years for all of us. It's no joke what's going on out there in the world. And here, I'm here to say that if you don't commit to your own transformation, it's gonna be a really, really tough ride. I don't know how people do it without fully knowing who the fuck they are. That's what I know. I know that you deserve to know who you are for you to fully be the empowered person that y

Call-in Show: Relationship Goals Oct 17, 2021

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Live from Los Angeles. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly know that when somebody awakens a gift and message, bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. So this is Dr. Aaron, Dr. Divinity, teaching training, developing spiritual entrepreneurs and spiritual leaders. We train and develop spiritual coaches. We turn develop spiritual practitioners, ministers, and yes, doctors of divinity. So let's do this thing today. We're actually going to be answering questions. This is very fun. We're actually gonna be doing a call and show. And right now we don't have the capability to actually have people call in, but we've been taking, uh, different questions from people, everyone from DMing to call in. We also have like a Google number where people will text in and call in as well. So it's super exciting.

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It's a new series that we're be doing and we'll see how, how it's received and kind of play around with it and have a really good time. So I'm super excited because everything I'm going to be responding two ways with these questions. One is from a universal law perspective, metaphysics of mine perspective, and of course, trauma trauma perspective, all truth perspective. Okay. The other way I'm gonna be answering the questions is actually from a human perspective, from my own personal opinion, with my own stories and things going into it as well. Okay. So if you're somebody that would like to have a question answered, we will be doing anonymously. So you can send in your questions and you can put your name in. We won't, we won't put your name regardless. Okay. Because we want to have a safe place for people to really inquire into conscious conversations.

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And, you know, unfortunately, unfortunately a lot of the questions we get are around relationships and we recognize that all of life is a relationship, but of course, you know, there's different dynamics of life. We teach this four areas of life, everything from relationships and love, career and money and health and vitality and creative expression. We recognize that all of life is a relationship, but a lot of the questions we get are around relationships. And I think the reason why we get this is because the core kind of foundational work of spirituality and awakening is, is no longer handing your power over to anything in this world. And a lot of us care a lot about relationships and therefore our codependency and our kind of, uh, non mastery in spirituality shines a lot through in our relationships. In fact, we found about nine outta 10. People that come into our community are dealing with some level of codependency and that goes across for all stats.

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And so a lot of these questions, all of us can relate to because if you're a human being, you probably are dealing with some level of codependency. So today we're gonna be breaking on down some different, uh, questions regarding relationships in particular. So it doesn't matter if you're dealing, whether you are single, whether you're dating, whether you are married, the, the universal laws, the trauma work, everything, the subconscious work, everything applies to everyone. And we know from stats in, in, uh, different psychology things that just because somebody's married or not, does not necessarily mean that they are more happy or less happy. We also recognize the power of relationship, uh, through the Harvard study. That was, um, a very long study that basically showed that true. Happiness does break down to deep relationships. So again, I completely believe in love and connection. And I also recognize the complete delusion that a lot of people have that they think that a relationship is going to complete them until we are complete ourselves.

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We'll never fully be complete in any relationship. So let's break this on down. So the very first question is here it is. Let's see. Dear Dr. Aaron, I'm writing for you, your input. I'm in a marriage where my husband, isn't interested in doing his inner trauma work. He doesn't seem to care and I don't know how to get him to change. What should I do? Should I just accept him or demand him to do his work? Hmm, great, great story. Uh, great question. So I'll never forget. In 1999, I went to landmark forum. I'm sure, probably a lot of you guys went to landmark forum. It was one of the, you know, so many programs I went through over, you know, 25 years of being developed in spiritual work. And I remember in 1999, I went through landmark form. And what happened is when I came out of landmark forum, what they, they teach you lost these distinctions.

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And one of the distinctions that I learned was what was called a racket, meaning that people have things that they do in life, thinking that they're gonna get what they want at a life. For example, a racket might be that, um, somebody needs basically it's where you're making someone wrong. So a racket would be, for example, someone who's married that is wanting their husband to change and wanting them to do their inner work basically. So they don't have to actually do their own inner work because it's like a decoy, right? So the point is, is that when I came at a landmark forum, what happened was I used all of the distinctions in my quote unquote transformational work to actually just have, um, all the distinctions. I need to point my finger at other people of what they were doing in life. And we'll find this a lot in our spiritual development.

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There's kind of a place where as spirituality will be used for actually more divisiveness, which is the complete misuse of it, the, the use of spiritual awakening and becoming a spiritual leader and doing your own inner work and your own trauma work and your own awakening is to actually really point the finger and take full responsibility for our own lives. And that is the unification of it for us to become responsible and become the first cause of our life. And to truly be, be somebody who's a change that we wanna see in the world when we point the finger and hope that somebody else does their inner work, it's completely a misuse of the energy. In fact, it actually hurts it because what we resist persists. So this person that's writing in or wrote him, basically, if you're wanting your husband to change for him to do his inner work for him to do his trauma work for him to do his awakening work, it's actually in the resistance of what is that actually will most likely turn him off to doing his inner work.

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So you wanna be super cautious around us. In fact, we all have had those friends that begin to awaken and begin to think they're better than because they're doing their spiritual work. So for me, I learned the hard way I got outta landmark. I started pointing the finger at everybody else and sure enough, the relationship I was in, um, I found everything wrong with him and not really using it to do my own transformational, work on myself and use it as spiritual distinctions and transformational distinctions to embody we teach embodiment. Okay. So this is from a universal law perspective, is that what resist persists? And that also universal law is perfect. We have perfect God, perfect man. Perfect being right. So perfect divine, perfect woman, perfect bean mean that we only know perfection and we have to recognize that our partners or our friends or whomever it is that has not done their inner work.

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We have to recognize that they learn it differently than us. In fact, if people want them to change, they're actually less likely to change. So that's the spiritual and metaphysical truth of that. So my suggestion for you, this woman that, uh, wrote in is for you to focus on yourself, to really hold faith and faith is where we know and hold pure potential. So the practice would be for you to do your own inner work for you to focus on your own trauma, work for you, to focus on all that, not make him wrong and also hold faith, knowing that he's going to, as you shift, he automatically is going to shift. In fact, we don't need to do have anyone do work around us when we truly do our work, then we actually impact and meta physically change every single person around us. Okay.

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So that's from a truth perspective. Now me as a human being side girl, I understand, I know what it's like to be around. Not only just in a relationship, but have, you know, a parent or a friend or somebody that is not doing their inner work and you want to slap them, you know what I mean? You're like, oh, why? You know? And, um, and it is, we have to know that this is our guru, that, that these people are our, that is the universe testing us to know if we are actually practicing what we preach. So anytime I start pointing the finger, I recognize I have three fingers pointing back at myself and it's time for me to grow up and be an embodiment and be a master of the work that we teach. So I am holding you in my heart. And I know that this is a tough one, not always easy, but I know that you would not be going through this.

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If you were not ready to master totally unconditionally loving your husband and holding him in your heart as a perfection and the divine that he is, and always coming back to the breath and always coming back to your spiritual practice. Okay. All right. I love that question. Such a good question. I think that we all deal with that, especially when we're going through our spiritual awakening, for sure. Okay. Next question is, hi, Dr. Aaron, first of all, I want to thank you for all you are doing. You have helped me in so much to become more confident and believe in myself on my way O on my awakening journey. At the moment I listen to your podcast daily and also reading your 40 days awake new book. It helped me so much to grow. Okay? So, but I've struggled lately in the last days, maybe, you know, where I should start to change.

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I'm in a really healthy and loving relationship for one year now, but my ex-boyfriend, which whom I had a really dysfunctional relationship is a very good friend of my current boyfriend. And then last months we all hung out more, which is more difficult for me than I thought. I realized that I will always have love for him. But as you also said, with your past dys

The Truth About Narcissism and Codependency Relationships Oct 10, 2021

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12 E4 Trauma Method Series

12 Truth Triangle Coaching Series

6 Relationship Breakthrough Series

40 Spiritual Awakening

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If you're somebody who has been dating or is in a relationship with the narcissist, or maybe you're with somebody who just seems really self-centered or maybe you are in a relationship that has ups and downs, you're on a roller coaster breaking up, getting back together, or maybe you're just in a marriage, even that where you just feel like you're not getting your needs met, that you are with somebody that you think if they just changed, then everything would be better. Then you want to listen to this podcast. I'm going to tell you today, what you truly don't want to hear. I'm gonna break it on down because guess what? I was in the relationship as well. I was codependent for years and years in and out of relationship, up and down, hoping and wishing and trying to change the other person, getting so obsessed with what it means to be with a narcissist and thinking something's wrong with them.

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Let me fix and change them until one day, the truth set me free. So you want to listen to this podcast. This is the Dr. Aaron show. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly know the truth that when somebody awakens you have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. This is Dr. Aaron, Dr. O divinity training and developing spiritual coaches, spiritual practitioners, spiritual ministers teachers, and yes, doctors of divinity. So let's do this thing. You guys let's do this thing. So as many of you guys know I am a recovered codependent. I was in multiple dysfunctional relationships growing up with a mother that was also in dysfunctional relationships and a father as well. Both of them were totally codependent and, um, ended up getting into an abusive.

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My first abusive relationship was in high school of all things. And, um, it was mentally abusive and actually got physically abusive. I ended up marrying somebody that I really had no business mirror and I didn't know myself. And, um, I thought something was wrong with him. I thought he was a narcissist and, um, so on and so forth, the story goes from there. And as you guys know, it ended up with my low was being engaged with a famous rockstar. That was what maybe a psychologist would say, a narcissist, a bipolar, uh, a borderline personality and so on and so forth. But I believe this, I believe that if you're listening to this podcast, if you are in a codependent relationship, a dysfunctional relationship, or even with a narcissist, that is because you truly desire to be a leader. And so, first of all, I wanna acknowledge you.

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I wanna acknowledge you that you would not be going through what you're going through. If you weren't ready to master it, you would not even be given this masterclass called a narcissist. If you were not ready to master it and understand it. And I remember years back when I was, had been doing so much spiritual work and I was like, how could I be doing this much work for this many years and still into dysfunctional relationship? And it dawned on me because when we decide that we want to become masters, we have to go through that master class. Right? So today I'm going to break on down the truth of narcissism, the truth of narcissism. And co-dependency because it's like a coin. Okay. And on one side of the coin, there's narcissism and on the other side of the coin is co-dependency. You can't have one without the other.

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It's impossible. So really I'm gonna break this down from a metaphysical standpoint. Okay. Because a lot of psychology these days has actually been kind of, um, it's been, um, it's been disorganized in that a lot of psychology looks at the behavior. Like they call it psychology behavior. Right? And they're looking at actually the effect they're looking at what people are doing with their behaviors. And in a true psychology is the study to soul, which we do in new thought global. And we do from a metaphysical standpoint is we actually look at what's happening from a soul perspective instead. Okay. So the reason why I'm doing this podcast is because I've had a couple, um, get togethers with girlfriends, highly evolved women. Okay. These are not dummies. These are not victims of the world. And I've had a couple meals and, and get togethers with very evolved girlfriends with them, basically being in completely dysfunctional relationships.

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We're talking them, talking about their narcissist partner and them kind of knowing they're like, I know it's me. I know what I know. It's like, I don't believe myself, but they're still focusing on the narcissist. Okay. So this is a total pattern that whether you see it in yourself, whether you see it in your girlfriend or a guy friend or whatever it is that this is the pattern, okay. You sit down to lunch or dinner with your girlfriend and they begin to tell you how awful their partner is. Oh, well, he did this. Oh, well, he's addicted to porn or, oh, he, um, got really mad and was yelling at me for hours. Oh, he is selfish. And does X, Y, and Z. Okay. Their entire conversation is focused on the narcissist. Okay. Because that's what a narcissist does. A narcissist basically is self absorbs needs, attentions and admiration.

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Obviously always gas lights and makes you the problem and, and points a finger at you. And then they slam you down. They wanna make belittle you as much as possible. So that you begin to question your own. Like you begin to question yourself and that you actually begin to feel like you need them because the same person that puts you down, if they give you admiration, then it begins to have like this psychological hold, right. They lack empathy. They're in troubled relationships. And they are, they basically are always needing to create drama to create the need because they're actually very insecure. Narcissists are extraordinarily insecure. In fact, they have no true identity based in divine, based in source. And so they get their identity from being needed out in the world. So they will cause a lot of discord, a lot of dysfunction just to get the attention.

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So the opposite of that is the codependent. And the codependent basically will constantly be focusing on the, the narcissist or the dysfunctional per whatever they wanna call it. The person that is the problem of the relationship when actually it's equal and opposite because the codependent, instead of them focusing on themselves, it's actually cuz they have such low self worth and such low self value that they don't believe they're worthy of a, a relationship that is, that is peaceful. They don't believe they're worthy of having, you know, somebody that is they're equal. They don't believe they're worthy of, of having a loving kindness relationship. They're constantly feeling like they're not enough. And it's such a subconscious program that they think that it actually has nothing to do with themselves. There's a great concept. Guy. Richie, I think had a done multiple movies and you may know him or not.

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He was used to be married to Madonna. And there's this one, this one film that's about these mobsters. And they're all kind of like, you know, killing each other and they're doing insanity things. And guy Richie has this, this quote in this movie where he talks about basically one day you realize that the only con is yourself. And I'm speaking to the codependent right now because you're conning yourself. You're lying to yourself. You're deflecting. Just like you say, the narcissist is deflecting. You are deflecting. The narcissist is your way of deflecting to yourself of you not realizing that you are actually the problem. The narcissist is just gonna do the narcissist. You are the problem. You're the problem in that you are hurting yourself by staying in it. You're the one who's deflecting and, and not showing up for your friends and your family. You're the one that's not taking care of yourself.

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You're the one that's doing self abuse and self sabotage by staying in the relationship with the narcissist. And I say this because I love you. I'm speaking to my friends right now. I'm speaking to my friends right now. I'm speaking to my clients right now. I'm speaking to the people that I sit across the table from even two to this day that I see them ruining their lives by the relationships they're keeping themselves in. And I'm gonna say that for our culture, we have a codependent culture. And the truth is that codependency is the core of all spiritual discord because what true codependency is, it's placing the power outside of self. So whether you are codependent in your relationship with your narcissist boyfriend or husband, or whether you are codependent of looking to social media for all the stuff going on in the world and making yourself upset about what's going on in the world, it comes back to that.

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The moment that we place our power out in the world is the moment that we become disempowered. And so for everybody that is dealing with codependency, because what actually happened and why we've created daily recovery calls in our community, radical recovery recovery, based in metaphysic science of mind, based in truth, understanding that what you believe and your soul in your subconscious mind is going to out picture. And whether it may be calling in the narcissist or calling in the bipolar partner or the dysfunctional relationship that nine outta 10 people have come into our community, don't even know what codependency is. And they realize, oh my gosh, this has doesn't have to do with my, you know, partner that's crazy or they're mean, or they yell or they're abusive or they're a narcissist or they this, or they that, or they, whatever that they realize that they can no longer be a victim.

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They can no longer be the effect of that anymore. When they realize and wake up to the truth, may we know the truth and may the truth set us free, right? The famous saying it is done onto you, as you believe these are famous, famous truths, quotes and truths and biblical and all the above. Because what I know for sure is that truth is truth. And if the truth of narcissism is that codependency and narcissism is one and the same, our culture from a lot of the times, the women's aspect of our culture will make the

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