Double Teamed with Cami and Niki

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Organic, Non GMO Triads from Erewhon Feb 24, 2022

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Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Jessica Esfandiary of the Open Late Podcast. What started as a fun night with her husband and a friend turned into a pleasurable threesome that opened their world. Eight years later, their non-monogamous partnership remains strong. Her secret? Allowing a fluid relationship where boundaries are dynamic and communication remains open. Our Patreon page is coming soon! Also, check out our Linktree page. Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 02:22 Why did you start a podcast? 08:47 The accidental threesome started it all 13:38 Not sticking to one non-monogamous structure 17:45 Learning and experiencing triad 31:06 Relationship agreements and boundaries 36:11 People think being non-monogamous is always sexual 39:27 Having kids but staying poly 50:24 Have you dated a lot of men? 58:50 Still staying open to possibilities Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Jessica Esfandiary on: Instagram Facebook LinkedIn Website Open Late the Podcast on YouTube | Instagram | Twitter

The Male Submissive Feb 10, 2022

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Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome the Male Submissive. Let’s take a peek into the daily life of a male sub where dressing up, pegging, and chastity help him find balance, self love, and pleasure. Coming from a small, rural town where kink wasn’t a common practice, his journey with D is both inspirational and heartwarming, as they came together to discover a space where the two of them could flourish. Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:47 How did you discover kink? 09:29 The struggle in adjusting to the kink dynamic 17:09 Abstinence for five days or more? 23:13 Meeting other male subs from the followers 25:44 Finding community support online 33:12 Pegging 40:45 Degradation versus Humiliation 44:32 Are you open to non-monogamy? 48:30 Becoming more open with the Dom/sub dynamic 53:58 Having a partner that embraces your choices 01:01:13 Getting caught up in how society wants to see us Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter

ED: Education on D*cks Jan 27, 2022

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Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Danica Mitchell, a LCSW and certified sex therapist, once again. This time, they talk about ED! Did you know that erectile dysfunction is often due to anxiety? But don’t freak out yet! You can still get a full hard on even when there’s tension and pressure, and lots of opportunity to make a come back ;) Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:29 How common is ED? 03:05 Getting past anxiety-caused dysfunction 13:24 Erectile dysfunction during a group play? 16:51 Other ways to keep yourself relaxed 22:07 Now, how do you make that erection last? 27:22 Premature ejaculation is just way too much excitement 32:46 Best practices that works 33:25 Could be an individual or couple sessions 39:25 Women like a lot more variety 44:02 Emotional intelligence, so sexy! 47:34 Deeply connected vulnerable sex with causal partners 55:08 Men are taught that sex should be easy 01:00:14 Resources for performance anxiety issues Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Danica Mitchell on: Psychology Today

Three Erogenous Zones To Try In 2022 Jan 20, 2022

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I know this sounds like a bad Cosmo article! Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki talk about exploring erogenous zones! Have you found the perfect spot to stimulate your partner? Do licking and biting excite you? Well, you have to explore these erogenous spots that will surely send you and your partner into an overdrive! For your next purchase at goodcleanlove.com use this discount code: DOUBLE20 for 20% off! Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:57 What’s up with you this year? 05:47 Ooh! Erogenous zones! 07:21 Zone 1: The ears 15:27 Zone 2: Feet and toes 22:41 Zone 3: The armpits 29:16 Other areas you can bite and tug Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter

Ahh Humiliation = Humiliating. Ok. Got It. Dec 02, 2021

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Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki touch base on the different types of kinks and fetishes. There’s objectification, degradation, humiliation, and wait… what? A pregnancy fetish? If you’re curious and want to know more, you know what to do. :) Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 02:34 You can have kinks and fetishes but not into BDSM 03:27 Objectification: arousal by being dehumanized 05:37 Degradation: degrading your partner’s ego 10:54 Humiliation: deconstruction of their image or perception 16:12 Praise vs worship kinks 23:33 Pregnancy fetish or breeding kink? 26:19 Take the BDSM test! 29:09 How about a primal kink? Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter

Its Okay to F*ck Up: Kitchen Table Polyamory Nov 18, 2021

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Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki have wrapped up the Convo series for now, but first let’s reflect on those guests and the many things we learned from them. Which one did you resonate with the most? Moving right along, let’s catch up with Niki’s V and discuss the issues and complications that may occur in a kitchen table dynamic, especially when there is a lack of clear communication. Sometimes, we fuck things up, and that is okay. For your next purchase at goodcleanlove.com use this discount code: DOUBLE20 for 20% off! Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 03:07 Still working it out with the assh*le relationship 10:05 The kitchen table polyamory dynamic 20:21 Codependent marriage doesn’t work in a polyamorous relationship 28:52 Have you watched the Girlfriend’s Guide to Divorce? 33:36 Have you been having sh*tty sex? Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter

Convo with a Lube Expert Ft. Wendy Strgar, Good Clean Love Oct 28, 2021

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Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Wendy Strgar, the founder and CEO of Good Clean Love - a brand that helps improve reproductive health and sexual pleasure since 2003. Starting in her kitchen back in 2003, Wendy founded Good Clean Love after hearing from many women about, and experiencing for herself, the painful side effects of using petrochemical-based hygiene and intimacy products. What can help you enjoy sex a lot more? Clitoral orgasms and the right products. Yes, work on that clit for maximum pleasure. This is what Wendy shares with us as she continuously enjoys sex with her husband of 40+ years. She also dives deep into the science behind the good and bad lubes, why some intercourse is painful, the best form of vaginal stimulation, and how one should practice sexual liberation. For your next purchase at goodcleanlove.com use this discount code: DOUBLE20 for 20% off! Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:05 The most common misconception about lube 06:40 Safety in sex 07:47 Sexual traumas can prevent you from lubricating 09:19 Getting BV from a single use of the wrong lube 13:22 What is a good lube formulation? 21:17 Ask yourself where the money is going 22:43 How it affects the vaginal biome 26:25 Some women suffer from vaginal discomfort daily 27:27 Look out for uncircumcised men 30:48 Go for a clitoral orgasm first 34:09 How do you wake up your arousal? 37:31 Sexual liberation is being responsible for your sexual desire 40:47 Are you losing the ability to have sex? 49:31 Love oils and aphrodisiac scents 56:06 The way we use sex on people 59:21 The Transcendent Sex by Jenny Wade Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Good Clean Love on: Website Facebook YouTube Pinterest Instagram You can find Wendy on: Website Twitter Facebook YouTube Instagram

Convo with a Relationship Anarchist Ft. Claire, Poly Pages Oct 21, 2021

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Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Claire Louise Travers, the person behind Poly Pages - an academic non-monogamous podcast and platform, focused on the texts which have shaped polyamorous community and culture. She identifies as a solo-polyamorous relationship anarchist and is living life by the value of ruthless honesty. If you’re a bookworm and into non-monogamy, then you’re in for a treat! Claire, being the academic researcher that she is, shares tons of book resources rich in insightful thoughts from authors who know the poly world. Of course, we begin with The Ethical Slut - a must read that is loaded with unconventional and witty comebacks on how non-monogamous relationships should and could work. We also talk about breakups, the relationship escalator, and queer + polyamory! Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 00:56 Check out Poly Pages podcast 02:47 Reading articles about non-monogamy from academic space 04:15 The Ethical Slut: the author’s view on sex and relationships 07:59 When you’re dating you’re constantly learning about yourself 08:45 The Polysecure book by Jessica Fern 14:38 Are you reading non-monogamous books with your partner? 20:14 The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet by Becky Chambers 21:17 Poly representations in reverse harem books 30:23 Book recommendations on non-monogamy 37:11 A narrow idea about what breakups look like for poly 44:20 Looking at friendships with a different lens 49:50 Kinky relationships are still a form of loving relationships 50:59 Sex doesn't have to be about one thing either 53:08 A lot of queer representation in polyamorous spaces 58:33 At my first sex party 01:01:20 Queer just means that you resist being civilized into a norm 01:06:50 Digital events for polyamorous and non-monogamous creators and followers Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Claire on: Instagram Poly Pages Poly Pages Podcast Polyamory Day 2021 Digital Showcase

Convo with an Owned Submissive Ft. Ms. Nighteyes Oct 14, 2021

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Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Ms. Nighteyes, The Funny Dom’s Owned sub. She is an Owned submissive and Switch who is fond of sharing funny and witty memes about polyamory, Dom/sub, and BDSM. Owned but not collared, let’s talk about it. We discuss 24/7 tasks, self care, slip-ups, the journey of being switchy, and more. We also get a look into how kinks are discovered, punishment, special toys, forming bonds through BDSM, flogging, and a side story about a little Shibari session. Let’s get kinky! Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:04 Getting interested in the Dom/subworld 04:20 Dom/sub interest came naturally 07:48 What tasks fulfills you? 08:26 Owned but not collared 11:17 When was your last vanilla sex? 13:27 Becoming open about being poly and linky 15:13 Slip ups 17:51 What does being called “Baby” make you feel? 23:58 Floggers just gives you a different sensation 25:19 Switch: more sub-leaning 29:01 Discovering the Switch energy 32:07 Slip ups between Dom/sub 35:07 Sub brats gets punished more 37:51 Playing with a cane 41:44 Using unconventional things as sex toys 44:29 Representation of BDSM in media 49:28 Clothing preferences in the Dom/sub space 53:06 Shibari session with your partner 57:54 Favorite form of after care Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Ms. Nighteyes on: Instagram

Convo with an Astrologer Ft. Kirah, TheStrology Oct 07, 2021

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Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Kirah (The Strology), the author of the Zodiac Signs: Pisces book. Besides being an astrologer, writer, educator, and creator, she is also passionate about intersectionality and inclusiveness within the field of astrology. What do the planets and stars have to say about our monogamous or non-monogamous tendencies? Does your birth chart reflect your relationship style and attractions? Even if you’re not super into astrology, Kirah walks us through the placements and simplifies it all for us, so we can use this tool to better understand ourselves and our partners. Listen in for more interesting revelations about what your sign means and which ones are more likely open to non-monogamous relationships. Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:45 How to apply astrology in your daily life? 03:42 Look for a good astrology chart 07:17 Signs that gravitates towards monogamy 09:06 The different houses of astrology 15:44 What is your love language? 17:04 Aspects of Pluto and non-monogamy 22:42 Aspects of Uranus tend to speak to non-monogamy 26:34 Pluto and Sagittarius are more open to non-monogamy 31:35 There has to be another way than unhappy marriages 33:14 Mutable signs: Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, and Pisces 36:50 When you have Aquarius, Capricorn or Saturn in the 7th house 40:10 Signs and how they are in relationships 48:17 Planets in the 7th house speak a lot about your partner 51:51 When his charts don’t match with yours 56:28 Can one person be both a source of stability and excitement? 58:31 Venus retrogrades every eight years 01:00:32 A bad day is probably a Mercury retrograde Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Kirah on: Instagram Twitter Facebook The Strology Show Podcast

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