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150. How to Take Control of Your Time: The Systems I Use to Actually Get Things Done (productivity and time management tips) Feb 25, 2026

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Time management is not about doing more in less time. It is about deciding what actually deserves your energy. In this episode, I walk through how I manage my time in a way that supports my life instead of overwhelming it. We talk about why poor time management is rarely a personal flaw, how urgency hijacks your day, and why prioritizing by impact changes everything. I share the exact systems I use to externalize tasks, plan my days and weeks, protect deep focus time, and balance work with health, relationships, and rest. This episode is for anyone who feels busy all the time but still feels like the most important things keep getting pushed to the edges of their life.

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💳 Tools + Cards I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://wealthlink.me/michela-sofi-hysa

AmEx Platinum: https://tinyurl.com/2rkrysw2

Bilt Rewards: https://tinyurl.com/4kd8s33a

Blue Cash Everyday: https://tinyurl.com/yrcbr2ac

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👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

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https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 – Why January–June is my focus season

03:05 – Why time management isn’t about doing more

06:10 – Time management as a systems problem

09:40 – Externalizing tasks to reduce mental load

13:30 – Digital vs physical planning and why both matter

17:10 – Urgency vs impact and how urgency hijacks your day

21:30 – Choosing impact tasks before the day starts

25:15 – How I structure my week and daily themes

30:40 – Focus blocks, maintenance work, and realistic planning

36:50 – Yearly themes and using them as a decision filter

149. The Year of the Fire Horse: Using the Lunar Calendar to Reset With Intention Feb 18, 2026

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We’ve reached the part of the year where January motivation fades. Luckily, we get another reset! In this episode, I’m breaking down the Lunar New Year, the symbolism of the Fire Horse, and what this year represents energetically. We talk about movement versus direction, independence versus emotional avoidance, and how to build disciplined momentum instead of chaotic hustle. If last year was about shedding (Year of the Snake), this year is about strength. I’m sharing how I’m personally approaching it - physically, emotionally, and creatively - along with a mini “Horse Year Audit” you can use to recalibrate your own life

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💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 RENT VS. BUY CALCULATOR

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator

💳 Tools + Cards I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://wealthlink.me/michela-sofi-hysa

AmEx Platinum: https://tinyurl.com/2rkrysw2

Bilt Rewards: https://tinyurl.com/4kd8s33a

Blue Cash Everyday: https://tinyurl.com/yrcbr2ac

All Other Resources:

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📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa

💸 My ShopMy:

https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 – Why Lunar New Year Feels Like the “Real” Reset

02:00 – What Chinese New Year Actually Is

05:00 – Zodiac Animals, Elements & the Fire Horse

09:00 – Reflecting on the Year of the Snake

11:00 – What Horse Energy Represents

15:00 – The Shadow Side: Burnout, Pride & Emotional Avoidance

20:00 – How I’m Personally Approaching the Year of the Horse

25:00 – Emotional Regulation as Refined Power

29:00 – Things to Do (and Avoid) During Lunar New Year

32:00 – The Horse Year Audit & Closing Reflection

148. How to Enter Your ~Discipline Era~ and Start Respecting Your Time to Change Your Life Feb 11, 2026

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Get the Productivity Planner: https://breakyourbudget.com/productivity-planner

People tell me all the time that I’m “the most disciplined person they know” - and they always want to know how I stay organized, productive, and focused without burning out. In this episode, I want to clear something up: most people aren’t lazy. They’re burnt out, overstimulated, emotionally dysregulated, and trying to rely on motivation instead of systems. We’re reframing discipline as self-respect in action. I walk through why laziness is usually a misdiagnosis, how overstimulation and decision fatigue kill follow-through, and the exact skills that helped me move from “lazy-adjacent” to consistent, focused, and disciplined. If you want 2026 to be the year you actually follow through on your goals - without hating your life - this episode is for you.

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BREAK YOUR BUDGET RESOURCES:

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https://breakyourbudget.com/personal-finance-dashboard

💸 Basic Budgeting Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/basic-budgeting-template

💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 RENT VS. BUY CALCULATOR

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator

💳 Tools + Cards I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://wealthlink.me/michela-sofi-hysa

AmEx Platinum: https://tinyurl.com/mpf7u7uy

Bilt Rewards: https://tinyurl.com/4kd8s33a

Blue Cash Everyday: https://tinyurl.com/yrcbr2ac

All Other Resources:

https://breakyourbudget.com/links

👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/

📲 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa

💸 My ShopMy:

https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 – Why people think I’m disciplined (and why “lazy” is usually the wrong label)

03:20 – Why most people aren’t lazy - they’re burnt out and overstimulated

07:10 – Discipline vs productivity (and why discipline matters more)

10:45 – Why discipline is self-respect in action

14:30 – Why motivation fails and systems actually work

18:40 – Lowering activation energy so habits feel easier

23:10 – Non-negotiable minimums that build consistency

27:30 – Rules vs moods: removing negotiation from your life

31:50 – Overstimulation, focus, and respecting your nervous system

38:10 – Productivity that actually moves your life forward

147. February Monthly Curriculum: How I am Becoming Smarter and More Interesting (+ Key Framework) Feb 04, 2026

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One of my goals for 2026 is to learn something new every single month — without feeling overwhelmed, scattered, or like I’m trying to do everything at once. In this episode, I’m introducing my monthly curriculum framework: a repeatable structure I’m using to stay engaged with my life, learn new things, spend less time doom scrolling, and actually make progress on the hobbies and interests I care about. I walk through the full framework step by step, explain why I’m doing this, and then share my February monthly curriculum - including what I’m reading, learning, practicing, and prioritizing this month. If you’ve ever felt like you have too many interests and not enough time, or you want more intention and structure in your free time without turning life into another to-do list, this episode is for you.

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BREAK YOUR BUDGET RESOURCES:

💸 Personal Finance Dashboard:

https://breakyourbudget.com/personal-finance-dashboard

💸 Basic Budgeting Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/basic-budgeting-template

💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 RENT VS. BUY CALCULATOR

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator

💳 Tools + Cards I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://wealthlink.me/michela-sofi-hysa

AmEx Platinum: https://tinyurl.com/2rkrysw2

Bilt Rewards: https://tinyurl.com/4kd8s33a

Blue Cash Everyday: https://tinyurl.com/yrcbr2ac

All Other Resources:

https://breakyourbudget.com/links

👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/

📲 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa

💸 My ShopMy:

https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca

00:00 – Why I want to learn something new every month

03:10 – What a “monthly curriculum” actually is

06:00 – Why having too many interests can feel overwhelming

09:40 – The full monthly curriculum framework overview

12:00 – Setting a monthly theme, vision, and inspiration

14:45 – Choosing a nonfiction topic or book to study

17:45 – Focusing on one skill, hobby, or practice

20:15 – Domestic and daily upgrades that make life easier

22:40 – Staying culturally engaged without scrolling

25:10 – Solo dates, accountability, and my February curriculum

146. How to Stop Feeling Overwhelmed by Everyday Life | Manage "Life Admin" & Reduce the Mental Load Jan 28, 2026

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Being an adult is so hard because of the constant, low-level decisions that never stop - the scheduling, the errands, the emails, the meals, the maintenance, and the mental load that quietly piles up in the background of daily life. In this episode, I’m breaking down the systems and skills that have made my adult life feel calmer, more predictable, and more manageable. Instead of relying on motivation or discipline, these are practical frameworks I use to reduce decision fatigue, lower stress, and support my nervous system through everyday life. We talk about scheduling in a way that actually works, why maintenance prevents burnout, how to manage life admin without overwhelm, why feeding yourself consistently matters more than you think, and how self-regulation ties everything together. This episode is about building a life that feels lighter - not by doing more, but by creating systems that support you when things get busy.

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How to Be Organized Article: https://annanewton.substack.com/p/how-to-be-organised-in-2026

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💸 Personal Finance Dashboard:

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💸 Basic Budgeting Template:

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💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 RENT VS. BUY CALCULATOR

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator

💳 Tools + Cards I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://wealthlink.me/michela-sofi-hysa

AmEx Platinum: https://tinyurl.com/mpf7u7uy

Bilt Rewards: https://tinyurl.com/4kd8s33a

Blue Cash Everyday: https://tinyurl.com/yrcbr2ac

All Other Resources:

https://breakyourbudget.com/links

👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/

📲 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa

💸 My ShopMy:

https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 – Why adulthood feels overwhelming in the small moments

03:10 – The hidden mental load no one teaches you to manage

06:05 – Why willpower fails and systems actually work

09:10 – Scheduling as a tool for mental relief, not control

13:40 – How weekly planning reduces daily overwhelm

18:05 – Why maintenance prevents burnout before it starts

23:10 – Managing life admin so it stops hanging over you

28:30 – Feeding yourself without stress as an adult skill

33:45 – Self-regulation and reducing constant overstimulation

38:10 – Building a calmer, more manageable adult life

145. Why and How I Am Becoming More Analog to Regulate My Nervous System Jan 21, 2026

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As I think about 2026, I’ve realized that for the first time ever, I’m not craving more ambition, more structure, or more systems. I’m craving less, and I want to create more peace and calm in my daily life. In this episode, I’m sharing why regulating my nervous system has become one of my biggest personal goals this year, and how I’m intentionally becoming more analog to support that. We talk about overstimulation, doom scrolling, decision fatigue, and how constant input has quietly become normalized in our lives. I walk through the practical shifts I’m making - from using paper instead of apps, reading physical books, sitting in silence, reducing phone time, and creating calmer mornings and evenings - along with the mental patterns I’m unlearning around productivity, stimulation, and burnout. This is a grounded, honest conversation about slowing down, reducing noise, and creating space to actually feel calm again.

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BREAK YOUR BUDGET RESOURCES:

💸 Personal Finance Dashboard:

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💸 Basic Budgeting Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/basic-budgeting-template

💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 NEW RENT VS. BUY CALCULATOR

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator

💳 Tools + Cards I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://wealthlink.me/michela-sofi-hysa

AmEx Platinum: https://tinyurl.com/mpf7u7uy

Bilt Rewards: https://tinyurl.com/4kd8s33a

Blue Cash Everyday: https://tinyurl.com/yrcbr2ac

All Other Resources:

https://breakyourbudget.com/links

👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/

📲 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa

💸 My ShopMy:

https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca

TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Why I’m craving less, not more, in 2026

2:10 – Becoming more analog and why nervous system regulation matters

4:00 – Doom scrolling, stimulation, and why silence feels uncomfortable

6:30 – Living alone, constant input, and mental exhaustion

9:00 – Choosing physical cues over digital ones

11:00 – Using paper, notebooks, and writing things out

13:30 – Capturing less and letting moments exist

16:00 – Reading physical books and learning with intention

18:00 – Sitting in silence, sauna time, and walks without headphones

21:00 – Calmer mornings, evenings, and reducing decision fatigue

144. The January Wellness Protocol I Use to Set the Tone for the Entire Year Jan 14, 2026

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January is the one month of the year where I intentionally slow down, simplify, and refocus on my health and wellness without turning it into a rigid challenge or restrictive reset that I can't stick to. In this episode, I walk you through my full January wellness protocol - a flexible, realistic framework I use to rebuild momentum after the holidays, regulate my nervous system, and reset my habits in a way that actually sticks. Instead of forcing myself into things like 75 Hard or Whole30, I focus on daily non-negotiables and weekly add-ons that reduce decision fatigue and support my energy, digestion, sleep, and routines. I break down my daily wellness anchors, my weekly focus habits, how I think about discipline versus forcing, and why January is the easiest month of the year to build sustainable momentum. This episode is meant to feel grounding, practical, and adaptable - whether you’re listening in January or any time you need a gentle reset.

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💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 NEW RENT VS. BUY CALCULATOR

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator

💳 Tools + Cards I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://wealthlink.me/michela-sofi-hysa

AmEx Platinum: https://tinyurl.com/mpf7u7uy

Bilt Rewards: https://tinyurl.com/4kd8s33a

Blue Cash Everyday: https://tinyurl.com/yrcbr2ac

All Other Resources:

https://breakyourbudget.com/links

👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/

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💸 My ShopMy:

https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca

0:00 – Why I don’t do New Year’s resolutions and how I use January instead

2:00 – Why January is the easiest month to build momentum

3:30 – What I actually mean by a “wellness protocol”

5:30 – Discipline vs forcing yourself into restrictive challenges

7:00 – The structure: daily anchors vs weekly focus habits

8:30 – My morning wellness lineup and digestion routine

10:30 – Skincare, body care, and slowing down in winter

12:30 – Fiber, movement minimums, and realistic fitness expectations

14:00 – Sleep hygiene, phone boundaries, and winding down

16:30 – Weekly add-ons: sauna, face masks, juicing, and organizing

143. Why I Don’t Believe in New Year’s Resolutions + My Gentle Reset and Reflection for 2026 Jan 07, 2026

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The start of a new year comes with a lot of pressure - to rebrand, overhaul your life, and fix everything all at once. In this episode, I’m sharing why I don’t believe in New Year’s resolutions, why I think they fail most people, and how I approach resetting in a way that actually lasts.

We walk through a real reflection on 2025: what changed my life, what habits worked, what didn’t, and where I got in my own way. Then I share how I’m setting themes (not resolutions) for 2026 across money, wellness, routines, home, and career - plus the systems I’m putting in place to support them.

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💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 NEW RENT VS. BUY CALCULATOR

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator

💳 Tools + Cards I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://wealthlink.me/michela-sofi-hysa

AmEx Platinum: https://tinyurl.com/mpf7u7uy

Bilt Rewards: https://tinyurl.com/4kd8s33a

Blue Cash Everyday: https://tinyurl.com/yrcbr2ac

All Other Resources:

https://breakyourbudget.com/links

👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/

📲 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa

💸 My ShopMy:

https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 — Intro: why I hate the pressure of New Year rebrands

02:00 — Why New Year’s resolutions don’t work (and abandonment day)

04:00 — No-buy years vs. no-buy January (and why extremes fail)

06:00 — How I think about change: slow, intentional, lifestyle-based

08:00 — Reflecting on 2025: what changed my life

12:00 — Habits that worked: phone boundaries, sleep, cleanliness

15:00 — What didn’t work: cooking ruts, hermit mode, adjustment periods

19:00 — Setting themes for 2026 instead of resolutions

23:00 — Who I want to be by the end of 2026

30:00 — January rituals, documentaries, and closing reflections

142. 2026 State of the Union: Habits, Routines, & Mindsets I’m Leaving Behind & What I’m Focusing On Dec 31, 2025

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In this annual State of the Union episode, I’m sharing what’s officially in and out for me in 2026 - from habits and routines to mindset shifts, consumption patterns, and how I want my life to feel going into the new year. We talk about de-centering excessive scrolling, refining consumption, prioritizing sleep and mental health, and leaning harder into hobbies, creativity, and long-form content. I also share the wellness routines, lifestyle shifts, and creators that are inspiring me right now as I move into a slower, more intentional season.

This episode is less about resolutions and more about direction — what I’m choosing to give energy to, and what I’m consciously letting go of.

🎧 Topics include:

👉🏻 My 2026 “outs” (habits, patterns, and energy drains)

👉🏻 My 2026 “ins” (routines, hobbies, wellness, and creativity)

👉🏻 De-centering scrolling, drinking, and over-committing

👉🏻 Sleep hygiene, mental health, and early mornings

👉🏻 Analog hobbies, classes, and learning for joy

👉🏻 Creators I’ve been loving lately (on IG/TT)

@glowwithella , @thewellnessprocesspod , @beccahimsworth , @gabrielleaihara , @kayliestewart, @plantbasedbaby

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💸 Personal Finance Dashboard:

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💸 Basic Budgeting Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/basic-budgeting-template

💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 NEW RENT VS. BUY CALCULATOR

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator

💳 Tools + Cards I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://wealthlink.me/michela-sofi-hysa

AmEx Platinum: https://tinyurl.com/mpf7u7uy

Bilt Rewards: https://tinyurl.com/4kd8s33a

Blue Cash Everyday: https://tinyurl.com/yrcbr2ac

All Other Resources:

https://breakyourbudget.com/links

👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/

📲 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa

💸 My ShopMy:

https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca

TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Welcome + 2026 State of the Union overview

2:30 – Gratitude, podcast growth, and leaning into long-form content

5:15 – OUT: Excessive scrolling and low-value TikTok consumption

8:45 – OUT: Drinking culture, over-committing, and overworking

12:30 – OUT: Overconsumption and low-quality spending habits

16:00 – OUT: Anxiety patterns, late nights, and decentering dating

20:30 – IN: Elevated casual living and daily luxuries

23:45 – IN: Tea rituals, bricking my phone, and analog hobbies

27:15 – IN: Early mornings, reading, sauna, and wellness routines

30:00 – Creators I’ve been loving + closing thoughts for 2026

141. What I Actually Spent My Money on in 2025 & My Consumption Rules for 2026 Dec 24, 2025

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We're walking through my favorite purchases from 2025 - both items and experiences - and reflecting on what they reveal about my consumption habits, priorities, and values. We talk through everything from wardrobe upgrades and wellness investments to the things that didn’t stand out as much as I expected (and why that matters). I also share how I’m approaching a January no-buy, the spending rules I’m carrying into 2026, and how I’m shifting from constant curation toward intentional refinement.

🎧 Topics include:

👉🏻 My favorite purchases and experiences from 2025

👉🏻 Why most purchases fade into the background faster than we expect

👉🏻 Buy less, buy better - what worked and what didn’t

👉🏻 January no-buy intentions

👉🏻 Consumption rules for clothes, beauty, and home in 2026

Subscribe to Beyond Your Budget:

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BREAK YOUR BUDGET RESOURCES:

💸 Personal Finance Dashboard:

https://breakyourbudget.com/personal-finance-dashboard

💸 Basic Budgeting Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/basic-budgeting-template

💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 NEW RENT VS. BUY CALCULATOR

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator

💳 Tools + Cards I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://wealthlink.me/michela-sofi-hysa

AmEx Platinum: https://tinyurl.com/mpf7u7uy

Bilt Rewards: https://tinyurl.com/4kd8s33a

Blue Cash Everyday: https://tinyurl.com/yrcbr2ac

All Other Resources:

https://breakyourbudget.com/links

👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakyourbudget/

📲 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa

💸 My ShopMy:

https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca

TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 – Welcome to Don’t Depend On Daddy + what this episode covers

3:00 – Why my favorite purchases didn’t immediately stand out

6:45 – What my long-term “favorite purchases” reveal about consumerism

10:15 – January no-buy + why I’m focusing on refinement in 2026

14:00 – Favorite purchase: The Brick and breaking phone habits

18:30 – Favorite wardrobe investment: a long-term everyday bag

24:45 – Winter upgrades: coats, cold weather, and buying the right gear

30:30 – Experiences worth the money: Pilates and tennis lessons

36:15 – Kitchen + wellness favorites (knives, Oura Ring, skincare standouts)

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