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Overcoming Domestic Violence: Moving Out and Moving On Dec 02, 2011

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Our guest, Sharon Zarozny of Brilliant Exits (http://www. brilliantexits.com/) shares her personal story of overcoming the trauma she experienced as a victim of Domestic Violence and abuse. Domestic Violence can happen to anyone, and Sharon was hard pressed to believe that this was happening to her. Fact was, as an educated woman who'd traded in a successful career to be a stay at home mom, there was no way she and her daughters were the "victims" of that ugly phrase "domestic violence." Sharon’s family had the trappings of a privileged life thanks to her husband’s thriving surgical practice. He was a brilliant Ivy League grad. It just didn't add up.

If you can identify, get a copy of Susan Weitzman's book Not To People Like Us: Hidden Abuse in Upscale Marriages or check out nottopeoplelikeus.com. Knowing you are not alone is so crucial to getting out. In your world that swirls with "unreals” and craziness, you'll find this book/site a gift of validation. You'll know you are not crazy.

Also visit The Weitzman Center and download the free Care Kit provided. It too will help you understand and safely plan for when you are ready to get out. And plan you must. When you leave a high earning, narcissistic professional you can be in for quite a rough ride through the legal system. Often the upscale abuser has the means, power and leverage to hire a legal dream team and use the courts to further the abuse.

Detroit Divorce Expo Dec 01, 2011

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On this episode of The Pecking Order, with Divorce Source Radio founder, Steve Peck, we discuss the forthcoming Detroit Divorce Expo that will be held on March 24 - 25 2012 at the Suburban Collection Showcase in Novi, Michigan.

Event senior produce, Joost Allard, joins Steve to discuss the two day event which is designed to provide help and support for those contemplating or going through divorce. The two-day event features keynote speakers addressing the legal, emotional and financial needs one faces as they navigate their divorce.

If you or someone you know is in the process of divorce, this is a Must Attend event. For more information, visit: www.TheDivorceExpo.com.

Holiday Survival Guide for Moms Nov 30, 2011

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In this holiday edition of Divorce Source Radio, divorce coach Jeanie Rule, of www.SoloMama.com, presents The Holiday Survival Guide for Divorcing or Divorced Moms.

The holidays can be a stressful time for anyone, but for a mother going through a divorce, this season can be even more challenging. Beyond financial issues, many moms face the isolation of being left out of events they used to attend, as well as facing their ex at social or school events.

Jeanie speaks of the need to be as prepared as possible for the holidays, both from a legal custody point of view and preparing for circumstances you may encounter with friends, family, and co-workers during the holiday season.

Jeanie teaches us how we can create new holiday traditions for our children and helps us understand the true meaning of the holiday season: spending time with family and friends and sharing love. The first holiday season apart from your family is always the toughest, but we learn that, in time, things will get better, and, if handled correctly, the way we go through the trials of this season can be something our kids will come to admire.

How Children Get Wounded During Divorce Nov 28, 2011

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In this powerful episode of The Intelligent Divorce with Mark Banshick, M.D., we discuss how children can become wounded during a divorce. Our guest is Ditta M. Oliker, Ph.D., author of Hide & Seek: Reclaiming Childhood’s Lost Potential.

After the personal tragedy of losing one of her sons, Ditta began to develop her ideas about psychological survival and the lasting effects of the experiences and hidden messages of childhood. She continued to develop these themes after beginning her practice and incorporated them into her concept of survival systems.

Ditta draws a parallel between the death of a loved one to divorce, which is the death of a marriage and the death of a family as it existed, and explains why how we deal with the loss makes a huge difference for all involved, especially the children.

In the program we learn:

How children become wounded during divorce and how the wounds can carry over into their adult relationships
How some children take on the role of caretaker to a parent or sibling and how harmful that can be
How children adapt to the demands of their situation
And you'll hear the original version of the fairy tale, Snow White, and see how it captures the conflict of childhood.

Divorce Detox Nov 24, 2011

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In this episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck, we talk with the founders of Divorce Detox.

Divorce Detox™ provides symptom relief and relationship closure, while addressing the underlying pain and heartache of divorce, to insure long lasting divorce recovery.

Allison Pescosolido, M.A. and Andra Brosh, Ph.D. are experts in Divorce Recovery and starting over. They co-founded Divorce Detox, a full service center to transform the lives of individuals transitioning through divorce. With advanced degrees in the field of Psychology, and as certified Grief Recovery Specialists by The Grief Recovery Institute, Andra and Allison are pro-actively challenging and changing the stigma of divorce on a national level. These dynamic women are dedicated to utilizing divorce as an opportunity for personal growth and a new life. The Divorce Detox™ proprietary programs transcend more traditional forms of treatment for divorce by providing the necessary tools, support and guidance for efficient, long lasting results.

Creating a Personal Retreat at Home for Self Discovery and Growth Nov 22, 2011

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In the final episode of our ten-part series of Sex after Divorce - Reconnecting with Our Sexual Selves, Juliana Neiman talks about creating your own personal retreat at home as a means of self discovery and growth.

Not everyone can afford or needs to go away to a personal retreat to work through their issues after divorce. Juliana shows us how to get the most out of being alone at home and spending time reflecting on what has and hasn't served us in past and offers insight into making healthy choices that will lead to fulfilling future relationships.

Topics in the program include:

Learning the ten emotional and sexual basics in a relationship
Defining what intimacy really is
Discovering your realistic expectations for a new relationship
Learning to deal with your daily stressors
Dealing with anger and disappointment
And much more.

Visitation Issues During the Holidays & Annulments Nov 21, 2011

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In this Episode of "Ask Henry" with Attorney, Henry Gornbein, Henry answers questions related to visitation issues with your children during the holidays and what annulments are and how they work.

The Holidays can be an especially difficult time when you are divorcing, especially the first year. Henry discusses options of sharing time with your children. It's always best if you can come up with a shared holiday plan with your ex because if you can't, the judge will be forced to do so. If you can't come to an amicable agreement, Henry offers advice on how to approach your attorney as a means of bargaining for fair rights for equal parenting time. Divorce Source Radio would advise you consider the best interest of your children first.

The second question deals with Annulments. What are they? Is there a difference between a legal annulment and a religious annulment? Does an annulment free you of paying spousal support and how easy is it to get one?

If you would like to ask Henry a question for an upcoming show, send your question to DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com or phone your question into our Voicemail Listener Line at (248) 686-2256 and we will try to answer it in an upcoming show.

Questions about Mediation & Child Custody Nov 17, 2011

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In this epidose of "Ask Henry", attorney Henry Gornbein answers questions regarding mediation and child custody.

Questions asked include:

What are some key issues in mediation that someone should be concerned about?
What should the role of an attorney be in mediation?
What are some key steps to consider in preparing for a custody battle?

If you would like to ask Henry a question for an upcoming show, email us at DivorceSourceRaadio@gmail.com of phone your question in to our Voicemail Listener Line at (248) 686-2256.

Finding a Problem Solving Lawyer, Not a Conflict Creator Nov 14, 2011

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Our guest, Mark Baer (http://www.markbaeresq.com/) is a family law attorney, mediator, and collaborative law practitioner in Pasadena, California and has been practicing for twenty years. He received a great deal of media attention regarding his opinions that the family law system in the United States destroys families and his views on better and more constructive ways of handling such matters. His articles have appeared in Forbes, The Los Angeles Daily Journal and Valley Lawyer Magazine. Columnists from the Pasadena Star-News, the Los Angeles, Times and other newspapers use Mark as a resource for their columns.

Problem solving is a hallmark of a good lawyer. We explore this outlook and learn what you need to consider when looking for a lawyer. To learn more, Mark has written the must read article Things to Consider in Order to Select an Attorney Who is a Problem Solver and Not a Conflict Creator (http://www.markbaeresq.com/Pasadena-Family-Law-Blog/2011/September/Things-to-Consider-in-Order-to-Select-an-Attorne2.aspx)

Topics in this program include:

What is a problem solving lawyer
What is a problem creator lawyer
Finding your problem-solving lawyer
How to look for a mediator that’s right for you
Problems with lawyers and the legal system

Dealing with The Stress of Divorce Nov 11, 2011

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In this episode of The Intelligent Divorce with Mark Banschick, M.D., we discuss dealing with stress during divorce and our guest is Joanie Winberg of www.FreshStartAfterDivorce.com.

During your divorce, have you ever felt "Stuck in the muck" and not sure how to move your life forward or the stress of your "inner voice" working overtime with doubt or the feeling of lack of self-confidence to make decisions? If so, you're not alone. Joanie helps us understand how to deal with and gain control over the stress and anxiety we may be feeling during this very difficult time in our lives.

Topics in the program include:

Learn how much of our stress is self inflicted
How to quiet our anxious mind
The difference between internal and external stress
The difference between real and imaginary stress
Stress reduction techniques
And much more.

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