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Divorcing Matters for Divorce Support Jan 24, 2013

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The exploration of divorce through self awareness and social understanding in a positive, unique forum inspiring change.

In this episode of Divorce Source Radio from The Family Support Expo in Toronto, Steve introduces listeners to a new online resource called Divorcing Matters. (www.DivorcingMatters.com) Discover how to develop your core elements of emotional intelligence – self-awareness, self-management, social-awareness, relationship management, resilience and responsible decision making. Learn to positively take control of your emotions and your personal relationships.

This website is based on the theory of Emotional Intelligence. In essence, recognizing your emotions, understanding what they are telling you, and what they mean to you. Understanding why you feel as you do and knowing how to manage those thoughts and feelings allows you to be more in control of your life. Emotional intelligence also involves your perception of others: when you understand how others feel, you can manage your relationships more effectively.

Dr. Catherine Chiappetta and Lorraine Campanile are our guests and walk us through their online resource. For more information, visit: www.DivorcingMatters.com.

Child Support - What No One Really Tells You Jan 23, 2013

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Child support payments can be a source of concern, conflict, frustration, and confusion for many. On this episode of The Smart Divorce with Deborah Moskovitch, our guest is lawyer Mike Marra. Mike helps us to understand what parents really need to think about where child support is concerned. Mr. Marra is a skilled lawyer family law lawyer with expertise in the areas of spousal support, complex financial situations, fraudulent spouses, trust claims, unfair agreements, protection of children's rights, estate litigation, high conflict custody and access situations and mediation methods. He also worked for many years as legal counsel for the Family Responsibility Office, which enforces child and domestic support orders and collects support payments for families in Ontario, Canada.Mr. Marra debunks the myths and misperceptions of child support. And he shares with us information on his solution for managing child expenses in a non invasive way, eliminating conflict, while obtaining full financial disclosure in a non threatening, cost effective manner through a new support tool - Support Information Exchange, available across North America. To understand how these goals are met in reasonable manner we explore:

Protecting yourself from retroactive child support claims
Ensure that your right to obtain a percentage share of children’s special expenses is not lost
How to save legal fees and court costs on child support
And many other suggestions about the difficult conversation people rarely want to have about child support

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The Legal Process of Divorce Part 1 - Selecting an Attorney Jan 22, 2013

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In this episode of "Ask Henry" with family law attorney, Henry Gornbein, we begin a series that will walk you through the process of divorce.

Being well prepared and knowledgeable is key to a successful divorce. This episode educates you and provides options for a more peaceful divorce. Whether contemplating divorce or just beginning the process, Henry walks you through the process of selecting an attorney that's right for your case, including questions to ask the attorney, what to expect during the process, and how to best prepare for the consultation.

There are many myths regarding filing for divorce. Some say that you should seek a law firm that only represents men or women as a means of achieving a better outcome. Others say it's important who files for divorce first. Henry addresses these questions and breaks down fact from fiction.

If you would like to as Henry a question, send an email to DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com and we'll answer it in an upcoming show or via email. Visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com for more programs on the legal and emotional side of divorce, and visit our Facebook page at: www.Facebook.com/DivorceSourceRadio.

After Love Ends, Will You Date Again? Jan 18, 2013

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This episode of Single Again! Now What? with Joanie, Lesley & Steve, begins with a discussion about the movie Blue Valentine. Steve saw the movie on Netflix and recommends all of our listeners watch it and provide their feedback. (Note that there are adult scenes in the movie.) The film depicts a married couple shifting back and forth in time between their courtship and the dissolution of their marriage several years later.

The trio discuss how a once loving marriage can go south and explores ways to keep the love alive. One way to keep the sex in a long term relationship was discovered by author, Carolyn Evans, and the subject of her new book, Forty Beads - The Simple Sexy Secret for Transforming Your Marriage. Could something as simple as a bowl of beads help keep the sex in a relationship? You might be surprised.

Finally, we welcome our guest, Betty Russell, a Dating Expert and a Board Certified Life Coach. Betty provides tips for dating after divorce and we discuss when the right time to begin would be. If you're new to the single life and preparing to date, you've found the right show. For more on Betty, visit: www.FreeToLove.com.

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Break-Ups, Dating and The Power of Food Jan 10, 2013

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Welcome to another jam-packed episode of Single Again! Now What? with Joanie Winberg, Lesley Hatfield and Steve Peck!

Today's show begins with a listener email regarding his appreciation for our shows, and is what drives us to stay on-the-air. You're always welcome to join our Single Again! Now what? community at www.Facebook.com/SingleAgainNowWhat, and feel free to drop us a line anytime at DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com.

Steve continues his rant about couples breaking up too fast and not trying hard enough to stay together. If you've been following our show, you know that Steve recently went on his first eHarmony date last week, and for the first time since the date, speaks with her "live" on the air.

And finally, the trio introduce their guest, the co-author of The Mystic Cookbook, Meadow Linn. This book will open your eyes to the remarkable link between nourishment and spiritual awakening. You’ll also discover how to increase the vibration of the food you eat to heighten conscious awareness and create feasts to activate abundance, success, and love . . . and much more!

For more info on The Mystic Cookbook, visit: http://themysticcookbook.com

Steve's First Date, New Years, & The Child Centered Divorce Jan 04, 2013

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Happy New Year from Joanie, Lesley & Steve!

This episode begins with a discussion of New Year's resolutions and how some people deal with holidays being alone.Lesley was in Ohio for the holidays and take us on a guided tour of her holiday season with her son, including a possible concussion from a sledding incident.

The Single Again saga continues for Steve as he prepares for his first eHarmony date ever this weekend. Steve also had a breakthrough with his ex wife who he hasn't spoken with for four years and the two have agreed to meet and see if they can begin communicating again.

And finally, Joanie brings us Rosalind Sedacca of www.ChildCenteredDivorce.com to help us understand the importance of parenting after divorce for the sake of our children.Have a healthy & happy New Year!

What is Alternative Dispute Resolution? Jan 03, 2013

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People who need family lawyers are different from people who need other types of lawyers. If you are going through a separation or divorce, or if you need help with child custody or access, child or spousal support, or a children’s aid society issue, your case is about your life.The lawyer you choose, and how the separation agreement is settled will also determine how amicable or adversarial the divorce process is, once again impacting your life. In this episode of The Smart Divorce with Deborah Moskovitch, family law lawyer, John Schuman helps us understand the differences between all of the Alternative Dispute Resolutions to consider when coming to a separation agreement. We discuss the importance of staying out of court, but also when it might the only option. John has litigated before every level of court in Ontario, so readily understands the outcomes – not only from a decision perspective, but the impact on emotions as well. For more on John Schuman, visit: http://www.devrylaw.ca/ and read Nobody Asks Where I Want to Live at: http://www.devrylaw.ca/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/ConsenttoTreatmentandParenting.pdf.Don’t forget, Like us on our Facebook pages, The Smart Divorce and Divorce Source Radio. Join the community!

Hope Springs - Can You Keep Your Relationship Alive? Dec 28, 2012

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Happy New Year from Single Again! Now What?! Lesley is in Ohio for Christmas break with her son and Joanie and Steve are holding court in this episode.

As Steve continues his path of being recently single, he finds himself asking many questions, such as, Why do relationships break up so quickly? Why don't we try harder to honor our vows and Why do we seem to live in a throw away society when it comes to the ones we once loved?

Steve references the movie he recently saw titled "Hope Springs". The movie tells the story of a middle-aged couple attending an intense, week-long counseling session to work on their relationship after thirty years of marriage. Communication is the key to staying in healthy relationship, and Steve wonders how we can believe what any wife, husband or lover says when months or years later, they seem to forget their vows.

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What You Need to Know About Real Estate During Divorce Dec 21, 2012

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Many people transitioning through a divorce want to distance themselves from the other party as quickly as possible and this can result in poor, and ultimately expensive, mistakes. Prematurely paying off joint credit cards, selling personal property, and buying or selling real estate are some examples that require extreme caution prior to the final settlement.

Buying a new home is a common first step to cleanse a person of the divorce experience. They want to leave the marital home and strike out on their own, make a fresh start and solidify their independence. What better way to express their new situation than to create an oasis in the form of a new home.

Divorce Real Estate Specialist, Joan Rogliano joins us to discuss the up and downside of real estate during divorce. Divorce Consultant, Deborah Moskovitch joins the show as well adding her expert opinion. If you are going through the process of divorce and own real estate, this is a "must hear" show.

For more on Joan Rogliano, visit: www.RoglianoRealEstateGroup.com and www.wildflowerwomensfoundation.org.

The Single Life, Dating after Divorce Dec 21, 2012

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Joanie Lesley & Steve are back with their final show before Christmas and the conversation picks up where it left off last week, with being single again and the journey of on-line dating.

Steve shares his experience with someone he has recently met on eHarmony and Joanie shares her personal experiences with the dating site as well. Both of the girls are providing advice to Steve on what to look for and watch out for during this adventure.

Tis the season to be sick, and Lesley and Steve share their germ phobia and love for Pruell. Lesley has some funny stories of how her son cleans up after school and her plans to visit family in Ohio.

From all of us at Single Again! Now What? and Divorce Source Radio, we wish you a happy and healthy holiday season. While Lesley is in Ohio next week, Joanie and Steve will be back on the air with another pre new year and end of the world show.

Be sure to check out our Facebook page for more information on our show and hosts at www.Facebook.com/SingleAgainNowWhat.