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Divorcing A Narcissist: The Personality Disorders and Dysfunctional Dance Mar 20, 2020

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If you have lost yourself amidst your marriage with a narcissist, today's show will reveal and explain much about the insanity you have been living with. It is vital to understand the traits of the pathological narcissist and your role as a codependent in order to emotionally heal and change behaviors that have kept you stuck in your unhealthy marriage. Our guest, psychotherapist Ross Rosenberg, coined the name 'Self Love Deficit Disorder' to explain codependency. Ross has invested significant personal and professional attention on understanding codependency, healing himself and helping others heal from codependency or Self Love Deficit Disorder.

In our conversation Ross explains why codependents attract pathological narcissists into their lives, the dysfunctional dance that takes place throughout your relationship and what you need to address in order to heal from your 'self love deficit' so that you never attract a narcissist into your life again. Ross leaves you with a few powerful strategies to break the chains of engagement with the narcissist and encourages you that when you do this powerful work, you are not just recovered, but cured for good!

Ross is the founder of www.selfloverecovery.com and author of "The Human Magnet Syndrome". You can find him on Youtube sharing valuable wisdom around this topic.

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Divorcing A Narcissist Mar 05, 2020

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High conflict personalities drive high conflict divorces. If you have been married to and are divorcing this type of personality, today's show helps you to understand the traits common to this personality type. You will begin to understand your spouse's inability to manage his/her emotions, their black and white thinking, extreme behaviors and tendency to blame are common to his/her personality and not about you. Our guest expert, Virginia Gilbert is a family and marriage therapist. She also sheds light on your part in the unhealthy dance of high conflict divorce. Most partners of high conflict personalities are caregivers or codependents, an equally unhealthy role in the relationship dynamic. We discuss the tendency of the codependent to want to change the HCP, keep the peace, be triggered and reactive and take the HCP's behavior personally. Virginia speaks to the trauma of being married to such a personality and the impact it has on your nervous system and therefore your behavior. Learning to trust yourself, put your needs first and heal your broken sense of self are a few of the topics covered in today's conversation. The good news is your high conflict divorce can be a catalyst to focus on yourself, develop healthy perspectives and behaviors, heal and become empowered and renewed.

Fearful to Fabulous Jan 25, 2020

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Join Steve and Toni in this week's episode of Being Single Live from the "D" as they discover what it takes to develop confidence and work your way from Fearful to Fabulous with Author, Confidence Coach and Divorce Recovery expert Fiona Eckersley.

On this episode of Being Single:

Confidence Coach Fiona Eckersley discusses moving on from a surprise divorce and unlocking personal power
Discovering a new normal of personal choices
Creating new and positive self-talk
How trauma can lead to new perspectives and create new personal experiences
How gratitude can create daily satisfaction and positive thoughts

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Send Love-Not Judgment Jan 18, 2020

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Join Steve and Toni as they continue the journey of understanding and connection with Personal Development Coach and Author, Jonathon Aslay. On this episode of Being Single:

Mid-Life Dating and Relationship Coach Jonathon Aslay discusses self-love
Setting intention with online dating profiles
The inside scoop on what men really want
How women can take the lead when reaching out to men- Be "NICE"
Toni learns a lesson on judgment and expectations
How silently sending love creates better experiences

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Happy New Year 2020! Jan 01, 2020

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Toni and Steve are back with the 1st episode of 2020. Steve and Toni recently decided to start dating after years of knowing each other through hosting this show together.

This episode highlights Steve spending Christmas in Chicago and meeting Toni's family, and then traveling back to Detroit for New Years with Toni meeting Steve's family. Meeting the family of someone you just began dating can be quite interesting, to say the least.

Thanks for listening and being part of our Being Single family. We wish our listeners a healthy and happy New Year! (Follow us on Facebook at: www.Facebook.com/BeingSingleRadio or Instagram at: @BeingSingleRadio.)

Being Alone for The Holidays Dec 04, 2019

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The Anatomy of An Affair series with David Feder continues with Being Alone for The Holidays in Episode #7.

For many the significance of the Holiday Season is a combination of religious significance, gift-giving and reconnecting with friends and family. But after an affair, what once seemed easy is now more complicated. What is the right kind of gift to buy and what message do I want to give are now questions that need to be considered? While we once looked forward to spending time together this year we worry about how to manage the awkwardness that may exist.

And what about the kids, don't they deserve to have a good Holiday Season? This is the time of year when some anticipate the arrival of Santa Claus, they look forward to spending time with parents, extended family and friends and they wonder whether the gift they so desire will be waiting for them.

How you spend time is not an all or nothing proposition and it is often best to give each other permission to have some alone time apart from one another. Of course this requires trust that the partner who cheated is not going to use that their alone time to visit with their affair partner. If this is still a concern then spending time together may not be a good idea and you should reconsider whether spending any time together during the holiday season is a good idea.

David offers advise and hope in this episode or The Anatomy of An Affair. For more on David, visit: www.MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com. Make the best of your holidays. We wish you the best. For more programs on divorce and life after divorce, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

Co-Parenting Post Divorce With Rosalind Sedacca Nov 11, 2019

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Your Divorce Settlement has been negotiated and agreed upon. Now it is time to step off the divorce battlefield take off your 'coat of armor' and begin the task of coparenting post divorce. The good news is that much of the ongoing stress and tension around the negotiations quickly melts away which provides you with the opportunity to be fully present in attending to your children's needs. But old habits die hard...so today we are going to highlight some of the most important Coparenting Do's and Don'ts.

You and your ex were unable to cohabitate. You have differences that are so extensive that you were unable to mend your marriage. These differences will undoubltedly show up in how you each parent. The task and challenge in every situation is putting your children before your need to be right or better. Today's show intended to help you set yourself on the right path.

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A New Style for Men and How to Attract Women Nov 08, 2019

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As we continue our post divorce series, today is all about you guys! As you enter your new life chapter, we will guide you on how to refresh and reinvent yourself through style and image. Today's guest will share tips on how to become your most authentic, magnetic and powerful self. Grab a pen and begin to explore how to hone in on the deeper blocks keeping you from attracting your dream woman!

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How to Dress and Step Out in Style for Women Nov 06, 2019

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Your new life chapter provides an opportunity to reinvent yourself from the inside out. You have stepped off the 'battlefield of divorce' and now is your time! A time to refresh, renew and decide how you want to present yourself to the world. It helps to understand what looks best on your body type and how to go through your closet to get rid of those items that don't make you feel good about yourself. We look at the new you and how to dress to feel confident, empowered and sexy.

Today's guest is Diane Pollack is a fashion aficionado with over 20 years in the fashion industry and founder of Stylempower. Diane educates women to create outfits that make them feel empowered and that enable them to radiate confidence. Listen in as Diane walks us through her client process and shares fun and effective tips for sorting through your wardrobe and creating a look that fits the new you!

Getting Your Financial LIfe in Order Nov 04, 2019

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Once your divorce is final, you are so relieved for it to finally be over, that it is easy to miss the crucial steps that can only be taken after your divorce is final. This vital step allows you to secure and protect what you received in the settlement and sets you up for financial stability post divorce.

In today's show Aviva Pinto helps review everything from closing accounts shared with your ex to retitling your policies, investments and accounts to changing your beneficiaries, drafting a new Will and taking care of your estate planning. Regardless of the amount of money you are working with, the advice and guidance from today's guest will enable you to launch into your post divorce life with a sense of financial security and peace of mind.

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