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Getting The Right Financial Support For Your Child With Special Needs Jan 16, 2018

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This week, Stacy and matrimonial attorney, Randi Karmel, dive into the importance of preparing a divorce settlement that incorporates planning for your special needs child's financial future. Randi shares words of wisdom, pulling from her extensive experience, to ensure you are supporting your child, regardless of potential disagreements in parental decisions.

In this episode, Stacy and Randi focus on cases where divorcing parents must work collaboratively to do what's in the best interest of the child and find a middle ground, financially. You will gain insight on:

Dealing with contradicting opinions for your child's treatment (05:10)
What expenses need to be planned for (09:46)
How to financially care for your adult children with special needs (14:59)
Who becomes the trustee during a transition (18:18) (20:20)

Randi Karmel | W: www.randikarmel.com P: 212-755-0224 E: Upon request

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com

New New Year's Resolution: Find the perfect divorce support team Jan 02, 2018

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Stacy is joined by Publisher and Editor in Chief of The New York Amsterdam News, Elinor Tatum. Elinor is a single mom to her 7 year old daughter, and has been divorced for 5 years, and in this episode, she talks about the importance of taking care of yourself and building your support team for life. There may be weeks where you need 24/7 support, and it is important to recognize how much stress you, personally, can take on, and who you should go to for the advice you need, whether it be your attorney, financial advisor, mental health professional, or friend.

Elinor and Stacy specifically touch on the following topics:

Who does the most supportive team consist of (7:19)
Finding the perfect attorney/ financial advisor/ mental health professional (9:50)(12:36)(13:25)
How to not break the bank on legal costs (16:47)
What to do when the relationship with your attorney isn't working (28:14)
Top consideration for your mental health during the divorce process (33:04)

Elinor Tatum | W: www.amsterdamnews.com E:elinor.tatum@amsterdamnews.com

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com

Negotiating a Financial Divorce Settlement: Understanding Your Assets and Making Wise Choices Dec 18, 2017

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As you enter divorce negotiations it is imperative that you have a good handle on your financial picture and the value each asset represents. The fear and uncertainty of what your financial reality will be post-divorce plagues everyone.

Getting educated and enlisting professionals to support you in negotiating a win-win settlement is vital. Today's guest Jaime Goodman a CDFA (Certified Divorce Financial Analysts) shares the importance of managing your expectations, understanding the values of your assets and the tax implications inherent in each. Grab and pen and paper and listen in.

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How Divorced Parents Can Avoid Getting on Santa's 'Naughty' List Dec 12, 2017

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Do you hate your ex-spouse more than you love your child? For this holiday episode, Stacy is joined by Shari Bornstein, Director of Parent Services at FamilyKind, to discuss how to put bitterness aside and prioritize your children when celebrating the holidays.

In this episode, you will gain insight on:

How to prevent and prepare for possible conflict during the upcoming holidays (12:19)
Finding middle ground when it comes to differing parenting styles (15:01)
Scheduling your holiday sharing plan (15:47)
Parenting techniques, such as the pizza delivery technique, and using buzzwords to avoid bitterness and conflict in front of the kids (17:46)
How parents can avoid being "naughty" by coordinating traditions and not "out-gifting" each other (23:46)
Tips on how to make the holidays less stressful for your children (30:22)

Holidays can be a stressful time for many, especially for divorced families whose children split their time between parents. FamilyKind is non-profit organization located in New York City that provides education and support services to families experiencing divorce and separation. If you have any questions or queries, you can contact Shari or visit the Family Kind website.

Shari Bornstein | W: www.familykind.org P: 860-302-2631 E: sbornstein@familykind.org

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com

Negotiating Your Worth and Staying Financially Savvy in Your Marriage with Dr. Patty Ann Tublin Nov 28, 2017

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Stacy is joined by internationally recognized communications and relationship expert, Dr. Patty Ann Tublin, as she shares her passion for ending the gender pay gap and her research on why women become unaware of their financial situation once they get married. In this episode, Stacy and Patty Ann focus on the importance of fighting for your worth in the workplace, emphasize the need for a change in women's mindsets about money, and demonstrate ways to not drop your financial IQ as soon as he puts a ring on it. You will gain insight on:

ü How to advocate for yourself and get what you deserve (11:36)

ü Why educated women become financially illiterate when they get married (16:53)

ü How the impact of women's lack of financial control affects them in divorce (20:21)

ü Financial advice for women going through transition (22:32)

Dr. Patty Ann | W: www.relationshiptoolbox.com P: 877-456-7230 E: dr.pattyann@gmail.com

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com

From a Dark Marriage to a Bright Future with Kim Mishkin Nov 14, 2017

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Now happily remarried with a three-year-old son, Kim Mishkin joins Stacy to share her powerful story about how she transitioned from an abusive marriage and built the strength to fight for her worth. In this episode, Kim and Stacy acknowledge the importance of telling your story, giving yourself time to grow on your own, and finding the balance of the key players needed to help you through your transition.

In this episode you will gain insight on:

ü Having the courage to come forward about being abused (3:40)

ü How to have 'the conversation' about moving forward (6:52)

ü Helpful support networks and resources (8:02, 14:48)

ü The healing process and how to find happiness again (18:54 )

Kim is also a co-founder of Support and Solutions (SAS) for Women. SAS provides divorce support and coaching for women who are considering, in the process of, or recovering from divorce. Since 2012, they have helped women come to terms with questions such as how to prepare for divorce in practical and emotional ways, what are the effects of divorce on children, and how to deal with life after divorce. Their mission is to provide women comprehensive support as they navigate and grow from the process of change and major-life challenges.

Kimberly Mishkin | W: www.sasforwomen.com P: 646-438-5163 E: kmishkinnyc@gmail.com

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: stacy@francisfinancial.com

Surviving the Holidays - Revisited Nov 08, 2017

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Happy Holidays from Divorce Source Radio. So what's to be happy about you ask. I know things may be very rough for you right now, but I want you to understand I have been there and gotten beyond that.

I'm re-airing this show I did going on five years ago when I went through my own divorce. It was all happening during the holidays and I reached out to psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg to help others like me cope with our first holiday alone. This has been one of the most listened to programs on Divorce Source Radio and is my gift to you. I hope this program, Divorce During The Holidays helps you. – Steve Peck, Founder & Host, Divorce Source Radio.

The holidays can be a challenging time for families going through divorce. We have these images of perfect family holidays, yet your own family is coping with a situation that is anything but perfect. In this program, psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, provides advice to help get you through the holidays.

This Program Covers:

Dealing with ALL Holidays including: Christmas, Hanukkah , Easter, Birthdays, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, Graduations
How to deal with your feelings and emotions during this trying time
Understanding issues your children may be dealing with during the Holiday season
Dividing parenting time between you and your ex
Tips for Holiday parties and gatherings to ease the stress
Is it proper to begin dating around the Holidays

For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

Divorce & Death: Make Sure Your Ex Doesn't Inherit Your Assets Oct 31, 2017

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Boo! This Halloween, what is more spooky than having your ex inherit all of your money if you die? Alison Besunder, expert in trust and estate planning, elder law, estate litigation, commercial litigation and intellectual property law, joins Stacy to discuss the importance of an estate plan, particularly when going through a transition, such as divorce.

In this episode, Alison and Stacy highlight the first and most important steps that you should take to help you take the least financially-draining path during this time. Alison reveals the shocking consequences of lacking an estate plan, and how that can impact the most important people in your life. They answer questions that could save yourself from the devastating possibilities of life without a will, such as:

Why do you need an estate plan when you get married vs. getting divorced? (12:13)
What happens if your spouse dies during your divorce and there is no will? (15:59)
Can your ex-spouse still make the medical decisions for you after divorce? (20:50)

Alison Besunder | W: http://www.besunderlaw.com P: (212) 584-1139 E: alison@besunderlaw.com

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com

Be a Change Superhero, with Jenny Douglas Oct 17, 2017

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This week, Stacy is joined by Grief & Gratitude workshop creator, Jenny Douglas. Jenny focuses on the importance of curiosity, patience, and standing with a community after divorce. She shares the grieving techniques which helped her find the best version of herself, during her own divorce, and move forward. And she shares this with the women in her workshops, as well.

In this episode, you will gain insight on:

· How to feel gratitude about your marriage regardless of the heartbreak

· How to gain emotional stability during a big change in your life

· The importance of not having to rely on your partner for finances

Jenny has achieved an incredible amount since her divorce and inspires others with the unique and stimulating activities in her workshop. To attend a Grief & Gratitude workshop, visit the website provided below.

Jenny Douglas | W: www.thebrooklyncottage.org E: jennydouglas@me.com

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com

Who can you turn to? Elise Pettus helps you build your professional and social support team Oct 04, 2017

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This week, Stacy is joined by Elise Pettus. Divorced mom and founder of UNtied, Elise created an online network to connect fellow divorced women and help them re-discover their confidence, post-divorce. In this episode, you will gain insight on:

ü Conquering the process of divorce and coming out the other side "financially ever after"

ü Pre-divorce tips and help with the grieving process

ü Building a team, including an attorney, specific to your needs

Elise emphasizes that women need both professional and social support during this transition. She recommends that women not look at their split as a tragedy, but rather as a challenging and meaningful opportunity to create a new chapter.

Elise Pettus | W: www.untied.net P: (917) 797-6465 E: elise.pettus@gmail.com

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: Stacy@francisfinancial.com

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