Disability After Dark

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Episode 09 - Accessing Anal Oct 01, 2016

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In this episode, entitled "Accessing Anal", I talk about how inaccessible anal sex has seemed to me as a Person with Disabilities, but that I've always wanted to try it, but felt that I simply couldn't. I talk about issues like cleanliness, pain, spasticity, and advocate that we should have more information around anal sex and disability. I also maybe refer to myself as a human dildo. Enjoy!

Episode 08 - Why We Need to Talk About Disability, Sexuality and Depression Sep 30, 2016

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In this episode, we go deep into how sex and disability, and all the issues that surround that, can lead to a type of sexual depression and anger connected to disability. I explain what that felt like for me as a Queer Cripple, and advocate for space to be made where the sexually active disabled person, can share their experiences.

Episode 07 - Hurt Me, Please: Pain, Pleasure and PwD Sep 23, 2016

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In this episode, I talk about another myth around sex and disability. The "oooooh, we can't have sex because I'll hurt you" myth. We go deep into why people are so afraid to 'hurt' disabled people, and how this affects their views on sex and disability. I also share that some of us might like pain, and discuss why this is the case.

Episode 06 - “My Boyfriend Must Be Able-Bodied”: Sexuality, Disability and Ableism Sep 17, 2016

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In this episode, I discuss how ableism has affected me as a Queer man doing the work of disability and looking for lust, love and all that jazz. I talk about recently when I admitted that one of my preferences was able-bodiedness, and how I had never really considered a disabled partner or lover as a desired option.

Episode 05 - Gimps On Grindr Sep 15, 2016

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In this episode, I talk about my experience as a disabled man in the digital dating realm. I share things guys have said to me online on apps like Grindr, and underscore how that made me feel. I also discuss why having disability in my online profiles is important, and how it has helped my own my Queer Cripple identity.

Episode 04 - Coming Out to Care Sep 13, 2016

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In this episode, we explore what it feels like to talk about sex/sexuality with your Personal Care Attendant, and what that means for a disabled person.

Episode 03 - Wheelchairs, Slings & Other Things: Can my Mobility Device Be Sexy? Sep 09, 2016

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In this episode of "Disability After Dark", I consider whether or not the devices that disabled people use everyday (wheelchairs, slings and other things) can be considered sexy. I explore some of the "improper" ways :) they can be used.

Episode 02 - “Do You Have a Sex Drive?” Sep 08, 2016

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In this podcast, I explore the commonly held belief that disabled people don't have sex drives. We explore what sex means to disabled people, and briefly discuss that sometimes sex and disability is so much deeper than even we realize

Episode 01 - Introducing Disability After Dark. Sep 07, 2016

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In this VERY FIRST EPISODE of Disability After Dark, I introduce you to myself, Andrew Gurza and share with you who I am, and why I think sexuality and disability is so important.

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