Disability After Dark

Latest Episodes:

Episode 121 - "Would You Shove This in My Mouth?" Jan 15, 2019

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In this episode, I take a look at typical first date foods, and consider how accessible or inaccessible they might be if you had to be fed by a partner. I explain why asking the question "Would you shove this in my mouth?" is both playful and important. I also give tips to non-disabled partners on how to help your disabled lover eat and more. Enjoy!

PATREON CONVO W/ CHARLIE GARNER Jan 12, 2019

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As a special treat, I have decided to release the Patreon Bonus Chat with Charlie Garner from Episode 120. We talk about hospitals, doctors, medications, orgasms, disability and so, so much more. If you pledge $1 a month or more to www.patreon.com/cripplecontent you get these bonuses first! Hope you enjoy!

Episode 120 - I'm Allergic To Sperm w/ guest Charlie Garner Jan 08, 2019

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In this interview, I sit down with a DisabilityAfterDark fan turned guest from the UK, who wrote into me telling me how important the show is to her, and then proceeded to tell me of her deathly allergy to sperm, and how that affects her sex life. I knew I wanted her on the show. We talk about her sperm allergy and how that has affected her, IBS, fibromyalgia, sexual trauma and a whole lot more. This is a really important episode. Enjoy! Also, if you sign up for the Patreon, there is a bonus interview with Charlie at www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

You can follow Charlie on Twitter at @CGarner21 and you can book her for photography gigs in the UK at https://www.facebook.com/amethystphotographs/

You can follow me, Andrew Gurza at @andrewgurza on Twitter or the show at @disaftdarkpod

E-mail the show with questions, shout outs, minisodes and more at disabilityafterdark@gmail.com

Episode 119 - "Coming Out As a Chronic Pain Babe" - An Interview w/ SEIC Host Cameron Glover Jan 01, 2019

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In this episode, I sit down with Cameron Glover, host of a new podcast Sex Ed in Color, as she comes out to us as a QPOC living with chronic pain. I heard of her work when she shouted out this podcast on Twitter. I started following her, listening to her show, and I fell in love with her work immediately. We have such a great chat about disability, sexuality, chronic pain, POC, I come out as femme in this episode maybe, and so much more!! Enjoy! Follow Cameron's work at www.cameronglover.com. Follow Cameron's Twitter @BlkGirlManifest. Download her podcast Sex Ed in Color .

Support Disability After Dark by supporting the Patreon (if you can), for $1 a month or more, you get a shout out on air, episode access early... www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

BONUS CRIPPLE CONTENT - WHEN I WAS A DISABLED KID - EPISODE 02 Dec 29, 2018

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Surprise! In this Bonus Episode of "When I Was A Disabled Kid", I sit down with writer Wendy Lu to talk about her experiences as a disabled kid with a trach; what it was like having a nurse with you 24/7, trying to make friends and be independent and so, so much more about her disabled childhood. You can follow all of Wendy's work on Twitter at @wendyluwrites . You can also follow my work at @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod.

You can support the show by pledging $1 a month or more by heading over to www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

Enjoy!

Episode 118 - "There's a Gaping Hole" - An Interview w/ Ryan O'Connell Dec 25, 2018

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In this episode, I sit down with author, producer and soon to be TV personality, Ryan O'Connell. We talk about his experience of Cerebral Palsy and gay identity, and trying to bring that into the public sphere with his up and coming TV show, "Special". We also chat about wanting boys to ask us out on weekend dates as disabled guys, disability activism and queerness, his experience of sex work and so much more.

You can follow Ryan's work by following him on Twitter at @ryanoconn

Remember you can support DisabilityAfterDark by following @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod on Twitter.

And throw a dollar or two our way to get access to episodes early and bonus episodes. Patreon.com/cripplecontent

Episode 117 - Guys I F*cked - Raj Dec 21, 2018

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This episode I sit down with my friend, sex worker and porn star, Raj. We have a chat about what it was like for him to have sex with a disabled lover - me. We talk about our experiences having sex together, and I ask him what that must have felt like for him; was he nervous? Was he scared he'd hurt me because I was disabled? Am I a good disabled lover? All this and more will be revealed in this episode. Enjoy!!!! You can contact Raj on Twitter at @iamrajxxx

Remember you can support DisabilityAfterDark by following @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod on Twitter.

And throw a dollar or two our way to get access to episodes early and bonus episodes. Patreon.com/cripplecontent

Episode 116 - That Time I Worked With Sex Workers Dec 14, 2018

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In this episode, I come out about my experiences working with sex workers as a queer disabled man. I share why I made the decision, some good and not-so-good experiences working with sex workers when disabled, and I offer tips and tricks to disabled clients on how to make the sessions about your agency and your pleasure. I share how sex work helped me gain self-confidence as a disabled man and so much more... Like what it was like telling my Mom. Enjoy!

Remember you can support DisabilityAfterDark by following @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod on Twitter.

And throw a dollar or two our way to get access to episodes early and bonus episodes. Patreon.com/cripplecontent

BONUS CRIPPLE CONTENT - When I Was A Disabled Kid - Episode 01 Dec 11, 2018

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I wanted to do something special today. You may have heard on the show that I'd be releasing When I Was A Disabled Ki episodes exclusively on Patreon. BUT - I wanted to gift you with the first episode of When I Was A Disabled Kid - as a thank you for supporting the show DisabilityAfterDark and Cripple Content Creations. This first episode is with my friend; author, disabled activist Carrie Wade. We talk about her childhood growing up with Cerebral Palsy, no snow, coming out as Queer and Disabled and so many more things that make her who she is. You can follow her work on twitter at @wadeatheory

You can also support cripple content and shows like this, by pledging $1 a month to www.patreon.com/cripplecontent

You can follow me on Twitter at @andrewgurza

Enjoy!!!!

Episode 115 - An Interview w/ Disabled, Queer and Sexy AF Artist, Robert Andy Coombs Dec 07, 2018

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In this episode, I talk with disabled, queer photographer, Robert Andy Coombs. We talk about how he became disabled and how he felt about that, his amazing photography work centering disabled, male sexuality and why he is a badass in the bedroom. This one is funny, raw, sexy, and I definitely spent half the episode flirting with Robert! Enjoy. Links to all of Robert's work can be found at his website: www.robertandycoombs.com.

Remember you can support DisabilityAfterDark by following @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod on Twitter.

And throw a dollar or two our way to get access to episodes early and bonus episodes. Patreon.com/cripplecontent