Destroy The Hairdresser

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Generational Wealth, But Make It EQ Apr 17, 2025

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“I finally made money… now I’m scared to spend it.” Welcome to the emotional rollercoaster of financial growth. This week on Destroy The Hairdresser, Cyd and David tackle the deep money trauma hairdressers carry—and how it shows up in business through hoarding, guilt, emotional discounting, and self-sabotage.From the fear of being perceived as greedy to the chaos of financial illiteracy, they’re breaking down why creatives struggle with wealth and what to do when success makes you spiral. Bonus? A real-life hairpocalypse hits mid-recording. Don’t worry, everyone survived. 💸💣

Love Bombs, Buy-Ins, and Burnout Apr 10, 2025

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Is it leadership or is it a cult?Salon owners keep asking how to get their team to care without sounding like they’re recruiting for a high-control group, and we have thoughts. In this episode, Cyd and David unpack salon “buy-in” culture, the toxic love-bombing that happens in hiring, and why your team doesn’t need to care about the business the way you do.From dramatic walkouts to petty rumors and salon trauma, we’re spilling the tea on what NOT to do when leading a team—and how to turn your salon from a dictatorship into a damn good place to work. 💣🖤

You can be rich, kind and cunty Apr 03, 2025

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Cyd’s back on Threads and back on her bullshit (the good kind). In this episode, she and David talk about how social media became a space for truth bombs during maternity leave, the unexpected power of Threads, and why everyhairdresser needs a place to say what they really think. Then they dive into a Hairdresser Hotline question about time-based pricing, why your clients don’t get to run your business, and why you can absolutely be rich, kind, and cunty.

From IVF to IDGAF Apr 01, 2025

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Trigger warning: discussion of child loss and medical complications. Cyd returns to the mic with a powerful and personal episode revealing the secret she's been keeping: she had a baby—again! In this raw and emotional conversation, Cyd opens up about navigating IVF, experiencing a devastating pregnancy loss, and the toll social media took on her mental and physical health. She and David dive deep into how trauma, parenthood, and boundaries have radically shifted Cyd’s approach to business, social media, and self-protection. This episode is a wake-up call for business owners about sustainability, survival, and shutting out the noise.

Your Booking System is Holding You Back (And We Can Prove It) With Special guest Lori Obiedzinski Mar 20, 2025

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In this episode of Destroy The Hairdresser, David sits down with Lori Obiedzinski from Aura Salonware to discuss how technology is transforming the salon industry. They dive into how Aura is disrupting outdated salon management systems, making it easier for stylists and owners to streamline their businesses. They talk about station sharing, AI in salon software, and why commission salons aren’t dead—they just need a better model. Plus, Lori shares how Aura is built for flexibility, adapting to the way salons evolve, and how partnering with DTH has shaped their development. If you're tired of clunky booking systems and old-school thinking, this episode is for you.

Licensed but Clueless: Why Beauty School is Failing Hairdressers With guest host Kris Centino Mar 13, 2025

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In this episode of Destroy The Hairdresser, David and Kris dive deep into the broken system of cosmetology licensing, the flaws in beauty school education, and how the industry needs radical change. They break down why licensing doesn’t guarantee skill, why schools aren’t preparing hairstylists for real-life salon work, and how artistry should take center stage over outdated systems. They also touch on the power of community, the importance of critical thinking in business, and why salon owners need to break out of the past to truly succeed. If you’ve ever questioned why the industry operates the way it does, this episode is for you.

Fear, Growth & Gratuity-Free: How Megan Harvey Transformed Her Career Mar 06, 2025

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In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, David Bosscher sits down with Megan Harvey, a longtime hairdresser who transformed her career through Destroy The Hairdresser coaching. Megan shares her journey of overcoming imposter syndrome, shifting to hourly pricing, and going gratuity-free—plus the huge mindset shifts that came with it. She dives into how coaching helped her build confidence, launch her own education program, and, most recently, take over a salon.If you’ve ever doubted whether it’s too late to reinvent your career, Megan’s story will prove otherwise.

How Natalie Kalae Scaled Her Business with the DTH Blueprint Feb 27, 2025

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In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, David Bosscher interviews longtime coaching client and salon owner Natalie Kalae. Natalie shares her journey from working in structured corporate salons to taking the leap into entrepreneurship with the guidance of DTH coaching. She discusses the challenges of moving to New York City, starting her own salon suite, and scaling her business into a micro-salon model. Natalie highlights how coaching transformed her mindset, pushed her to take risks, and set her up for success with time-based pricing, gratuity-free services, and conscious leadership.Through candid reflections, Natalie offers insights into building a sustainable, client-focused salon model, hiring employees in unconventional spaces, and navigating fear and reactivity to achieve growth.

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Going Viral, Getting Canceled, and the Social Media Circus with guest host Bek Sanders Feb 20, 2025

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In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, David sits down with Coach Bek Sanders to unpack their wild ride through social media—from viral TikToks and trend predictions to internet backlash and the misunderstood nature of Destroy the Hairdresser. They dive into the emotional rollercoaster of managing online reactions, the fear of being misunderstood, and the freedom that comes with letting go of public perception. Plus, Bek shares her astrological insights into 2025, what planetary shifts mean for business owners, and why Jupiter and Mars are setting the stage for major industry changes. Whether you're a social media junkie, an astrology enthusiast, or just trying to survive the algorithm, this episode is packed with humor, insight, and a little bit of cult energy.

Does Your Team Actually Like You, or Are They Just Pretending? with guest host Jennessa Couture Feb 13, 2025

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In this episode of Destroy the Hairdresser, David is joined by Coach Jennessa Couture, who dives into the complexities of leading a salon team and running a business with confidence. From addressing team resistance and the constant need for feedback to balancing authority and approachability, they explore the challenges salon owners face when trying to be liked versus being effective leaders. With real-world anecdotes, practical advice, and a touch of humor, this episode empowers salon owners to embrace their role as leaders and make decisions that benefit their business.

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