Dear Young Married Couple

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The GOOD GIRL'S Guide to Great SEX w/ Sheila Wray Gregoire, MA - Author and Speaker Nov 17, 2020

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“My biggest piece of advice for the wedding night: Don’t aim for intercourse, aim for arousal.⁠ ♥️⁠ Christian women experience sexual pain at twice the rate of the general population… so this is OUR problem. I think a large part of that is due to the rushing for intercourse on the wedding night, even if she’s been looking forward to sex her whole life.⁠ ♥️⁠ The reason we tell dating couples to avoid lying down on a couch together and making out is because once you start in that progression, it can be hard to stop. The couples that avoid those things when they’re dating often end up completely skipping steps on their wedding night. They’re thinking, 'Now we can have sex, so why would you do all those middle things?'⁠ ♥️⁠ That’s why I ask couples to ask themselves why it is that those middle things are arousing? Why is making out while your hands wander arousing?⁠ It’s often because you’re not aiming for anything — you’re just enjoying each other. You’re taking a really long time and you’re RELAXED together.⁠ ♥️⁠ What happens for many couples on their wedding night is that they feel like they have to have sex… so they take off their clothes and try intercourse. In the surveys that we did, a lot of women said that they were not aroused the first time they had sex and that’s a problem…⁠ ♥️⁠ Instead of aiming for intercourse on your wedding night, aim for arousal so you can stay relaxed together. I know it’s really difficult because you’ve been looking forward to this your whole life, but just trust me on this one.” — Sheila Wray Gregoire, MA⁠ ♥️⁠ Listen in to hear the much-needed conversation we have with award-winning author/public speaker, Sheila Wray Gregoire.⁠ Sheila recommended: The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex by Sheila Wray Gregoire 31 Days to Great Sex by Sheila Wray Gregoire The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire The Orgasm Course Boost Your Libido Course You can reach Sheila at: www.tolovehonorandvacuum.com sheila@sheilawraygregoire.com Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Join us for the next Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!

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No FRIENDS? Listen to this ASK Episode w/ A+K Nov 10, 2020

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We all need connection and we aren't designed to get that solely from our spouse, hence the reason we got asked this question. ♥️⁠ In this episode, we share some easy-to-learn tips for gaining friends and keeping them. ♥️⁠ Here's the link to How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. ♥️⁠ Are you enjoying these mini ASK episodes with your voices recorded in them?⁠ You can record your own question for our next episode here. ♥️⁠ Connect with us on IG/FB: @dearyoungmarriedcouple www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com ♥️⁠ Join us for the next Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!

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ASK A+K: "What if your spouse wasn't taught to show EMPATHY?" Nov 03, 2020

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In today's episode, we featured another question from YOU! "How can a spouse learn to be more empathetic when they were not shown empathy growing up?" We have three answers for you, so listen in on this quick 10-minute episode! :) Are you enjoying these mini ASK episodes with your voices recorded in them?⁠ You can record your own question for our next episode here: Connect with us on IG/FB: @dearyoungmarriedcouple www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Join us for the next Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!

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How to OUTGROW PORN w/ Drew Boa, MA, Author and Coach Oct 27, 2020

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"My generation was raised by pornography. When it comes to learning sexuality, porn was our parent. Porn was our substitute girlfriend. Porn was our Sex Ed teacher. More importantly, it became our pacifier.⁠" - Drew Boa, MA Drew Boa is passionate about helping men become porn-free before marriage and he runs the "Husband Material" programs (links below). In today's episode, he shares a method to help you get to the bottom of a pornography addiction. To download a FREE PDF of the FLOSS method discussed in the episode today, go here. Drew recommended: Redeemed Sexuality by Drew Boa (book for small groups) Unwanted by Jay Stringer Unwanted Workbook by Jay Stringer and Drew Boa HusbandMaterialMen.com (FB Group) Husband Material Academy (Coaching Program) Husband Material Podcast You can reach Drew Boa at: Text: (805) 881-3673 E-mail: drew@husbandmaterial.com Website: www.husbandmaterial.com IG: @husbandmaterialmen Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Join us for the next Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!

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For BUSY Couples: How to Avoid BURNOUT w/ Pastor Yuri and Dr. Cami Sangueza Oct 20, 2020

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To all of the busy couples in our tribe: this one is for you! Pastor Yuri Sangueza and Dr. Cami Allard Sangueza, a Pastor-Psychologist couple in Norway, join us in a discussion about avoiding burnout in your marriage and it's chalk-full of excellent tips. We cover: Symptoms of Burnout Identity in Ministry Asking for Help Sleep Hygiene Practical Tips for Self-Care Yuri and Cami recommended: Journaling Grit by Angela Duckworth The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurst You can reach Yuri and Cami at: camiallard1@gmail.com IG: @casnlaci + @ysnlaci Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Join us for the next Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!

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ASK A+K: How OFTEN should a married couple have SEX? Oct 14, 2020

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This is a multifaceted question (and a question that we receive a lot here at DYMC), but we cover what the answer to this question ultimately comes down to in today’s ASK episode on the #DYMCpodcast.⁠ Are you enjoying these mini ASK episodes with your voices recorded in them?⁠ You can record your own question for our next episode here: Connect with us on IG/FB: @dearyoungmarriedcouple www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. If you're a married couple, here's a shameless plug for the SEXPECTATIONS Deck - 52 cards of questions designed with you in mind - grab it here.

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ASK A+K: Premarital Sexual BOUNDARIES for Christian Couples Oct 13, 2020

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"In the premarital stage, what are some good boundaries to have sexually?" When we get this question, we like to use a model called "The Dating Ladder" to answer it. We got the idea from our friends over at Moral Revolution (they dubbed it "The Intimacy Ladder" and we expound upon it in today's episode on the #DYMCpodcast).⁠ This question was asked from the SpeakPipe (where your recorded voice is actually in the episode). Record YOUR question for our next ask episode here on SpeakPipe. Connect with us on IG/FB: @dearyoungmarriedcouple www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. If you're a dating/engaged couple, here's a shameless plug for the REALIZATIONS deck - 52 cards of questions designed with you in mind - grab it here.

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ASK A+K: How do you know you've put God SECOND to your spouse? Oct 12, 2020

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One of you asked this question on our SpeakPipe, and we thought it was important to clarify a better question to ask. Listen in to hear the better question and let us know your thoughts by commenting below. Record YOUR question for our next ask episode here on SpeakPipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/dearyoungmarriedcouple Connect with us on IG/FB: @dearyoungmarriedcouple www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com

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The Sexual STANDOFF w/ Dr. Morgan Cutlip Oct 06, 2020

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"Don’t wait to give until you get... It goes both ways: don’t wait to have sex with your partner until they’re doing all the things outside the bedroom. On the other hand, don’t wait to do things outside the bedroom until you’re getting the sex you want inside the bedroom.⁠⁠ It’s important for couples to work on meeting these needs so that they can move TOWARD each other." - Dr. Morgan Cutlip Today's episode covers the not-so-talked about dynamics of your sexual relationship. Tune in to hear our interview with Dr. Morgan Cutlip, relationship expert and course creator. Dr. Morgan Cutlip recommended: For Women Only: Sex and Marriage Online Courses: online.mylovethinks.com You can reach Dr. Morgan Cutlip at: Website: https://www.mylovethinks.com IG: @mylovethinks Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Join us for the next Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!

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Sexual AROUSAL and PAIN Disorders: Problems and Solutions from Medical Professionals w/ Kim Mathis, CNP Sep 29, 2020

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"I worked with women when they’d come in for their annuals and I'd ask them, 'How is it going with your sex life?' Sometimes, they would tense up and wouldn't want to talk about it. Then, I started thinking to myself, 'Wow! Sexual dysfunction is far larger of a problem than I realized when I was in school.'" - Kimberly Mathis Listen in to what the medical professionals have to say about sexual arousal and pain disorders in today's episode of the DYMC Podcast. Kimberly and Meredith recommended: ISSWSH articles Etiology of Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder and Implications for Treatment: Four Case Scenarios by Brooke M. Faught, DNP, WHNP-BC, NCMP, IF, and Susan Kellogg-Spadt, PhD, CRNP, IF, FCST UpToDate (access to medical professionals) Contact Info: Kimberly Mathis, WHNP-BC, RNC-OB, MSN Women’s Health Nurse Practitioner (Urogynecology and Reproductive/Infertility Specialist) E-mail: kimberly.b.mathis@gmail.com Meredith McWhirter, MSN, RNC-OB, APRN, NP-C Family Nurse Practitioner (Urology Specialist) E-mail: meredith.mcwhirter@gmail.com Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Join us for the next Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month!

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