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207 Hitting the Road Jun 22, 2021

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This week Jessamyn, all of her personalities and Ashe are inviting in (1:15) an appreciation for the creative team around them and the openness that allows for many new truths!

Amongst those truths has come the revelation that these co-hosts are setting out on a looonggg road trip. In What’s New In Paradise (9:59) they discuss potential routes and guidance needed from you! Got any camper tips? Restaurant go-tos? Weed advice? Head to the contact sheet at dearjessamyn.com to reach out.

We’ll end on a note from the lunar eclipse in Sagittarius and bracing for Mercury in Gemini and in Retrograde.

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize

Fruit Snack does our music.

Receive 15% your next purchase from Sweet Vibes with offer code LOVEYOURSELF.

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Additional music this week by Godmode and MU.

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.

No one should be in jail for weed.

Bye

206 What's New In Paradise? Jun 15, 2021

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Jessamyn and Ashe are bringing in a new segment to discuss some new developments in their living situation - What’s New in Paradise?

Circling to Sex and the Titty, the co-hosts are asked, “Can We Have it All??” and the Astro-Thought of the week reflects on spiritual awakenings of Jupiter in Pisces.

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There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media
Janie Leopard does our episode art

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize

Fruit Snack does our music.

Receive 20% your next purchase from Manscaped with offer code jessamyn.

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU.

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.
Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.

No one should be in jail for weed.

Bye

205 Emotional Prudence Jun 08, 2021

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Jessamyn and Ashe continue last week’s conversation, discussing the balance needed for work, love and art.

As Charlotte wonders “WHERE IS HE??” Carrie asks our hosts, “Did you ever think that we’re the white knights? And that we have to save ourselves?” They probably don’t answer with what Charlotte wanted to hear, but that’s pretty expected.

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize

Fruit Snack does our music.

Receive 15% your next purchase from Sweet Vibes with offer code loveyourself.

Receive 20% your next purchase from Manscaped with offer code jessamyn.

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU.

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.

No one should be in jail for weed.

Bye

204 Breaking it Down Jun 01, 2021

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We’re keeping it real and breaking [it] down. Jessamyn and ashe review an unpublished recording while answering Carrie’s question, “Were we in fact dating the same person over and over again?” and their own questions about selling a product versus authentic art.

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art
Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize

Fruit Snack does our music.

Receive 15% your next purchase from Sweet Vibes with offer code loveyourself.

Receive 20% your next purchase from Manscaped with offer code jessamyn.

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU.

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.

No one should be in jail for weed.

Bye

203 Balance is Not Stillness May 25, 2021

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Can we just say something right off the bat? This episode is pretty fricken fantastic. Our co-hosts ashe and Jessamyn are inviting in (2:28) the t͓̽r͓̽e͓̽m͓̽b͓̽l͓̽e͓̽s͓̽ of balance on the seesaw of life and the complexity that goes with all of it.

Carrie asks about social and romantic caste systems and our Deary Queery inquires on cannabis use on Jessamyn’s public platforms.

We mention Underbelly Yoga, We Go High North Carolina and the April 17th Yoga on High event.

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize

Fruit Snack does our music.

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU.

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.

No one should be in jail for weed.

Bye

202 Hell Yeah, It’s Better To Be Alone May 18, 2021

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This week, Jessamyn and Ashe start this off by (2:24) inviting patience and sleep, and discuss the importance of rest amongst the chaos of passion projects.

In Sex and the Titty, we grabbed a question of Carrie’s from season 2, episode 4 of Sex and the City (8:28); “Has fear of being alone suddenly raised the bar on faking? Are we faking more than orgasms? Is it better to be faking it than to be alone?” By the title of this episode, you can probably tell where this conversation is going.

To wrap it all up, the Astro-thought of the week (23:38) is filled with waning Aries energy. As Jessamyn says: “letting the fire burn and letting shit be hot and letting it be hard. And letting things be confusing and dark and everything all at the same time.”:

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize

Fruit Snack does our music.

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU.

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.

No one should be in jail for weed.

Bye

201 'Twas Aries Season May 11, 2021

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Dear Jessamyn is back with a second season! Join Jessamyn Stanley and Ashe Danger Phoenix as they change up the format; bringing you more profanity, sex, talk, weed smoking, and a bunch of other shit that's just not for everybody.

The hosts share their set intentions for the week and how rituals ground their self-care practices as content creators and entrepreneurs.

In a new segment called Sex and the Titty, Jessamyn and Ashe pontificate on the merits of sex work and if there is indeed a line between ‘professional girlfriend and just girlfriend,’ as inquired by the curious Carrie Bradshaw.

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee Roberts and is joining us for the first time this episode!!!

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media.

Janie Leopard does our episode art

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize

Fruit Snack does our music. Additional music and effects by Patrick Patrikios and SefChol

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.

No one should be in jail for weed.

Bye

110 Do Your Parents Know You're Poly? Oct 15, 2020

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Every Queer has a coming-out story worth telling.
In this episode, Jessamyn and Ashe tell thiers, and uncover how some pieces of their identities came to be, in the context of two very different southern families.

Ashe tells all about moving in with Jessamyn and her metamour and how that process has quickly escalated into someone's butch housewife HGTV show fantasy. AKA- Jessamyn accuses Ashe of having knack for making a house a home.

We both give us the deets on Jessamyn’s scooter accident last summer, and weigh in on interracial relationships, racism in healthcare, and why visibility is essential for the safety of polyamorous families like ours.

Janie Ledford is to blame for our fabulous episode art. Find her kicking her feet up over at janieledford.com. We hope our theme song got you groovin’! You can thank Fruit Snack for that, they’ve got plenty of other tunes at fruitsnack.bandcamp.com.

Are you following us on Instagram? We’d love to have you be a part of our little community <3 Chaz VanHoose keeps us afloat over there! We are forever grateful to Anna Rooney and her dedication to making space and getting shit DONE!

Take the Cannabis Census over at We Go High and sign up for a free trial of The Underbelly!

No one should be in jail for weed.

DROP PAGE.

xoxo, Jessamyn & Ashe

109 You Can Love Yourself Oct 02, 2020

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the Trevor Project does a really great job defining it.

This week’s XL episode picks up where we left off on Tuesday exploring how asexuality and polyamory, can work together to make a happy union. That's assuming you're dating someone who is not Asexual and assuming you're only dating one person in your romantic relationship. Polyamory, pretty much just asks for radical honesty and if you can pull that, odds are you'll hurt a couple of people a little less over the years. Can't count on much more.
What teen movie features the opening number of today's episode??? Tell us what you think @dearjessamyn on IG.

Janie Leopard designs our episode art, she hangs out over at janieledford.com. We love her, like a lot.

Fruit Snack is the sweetest little queer band behind our theme song, they’ve got lots of other tunes over yonder on Bandcamp.

Sending another little love note over to Anna Rooney & Chaz VanHoose, office mom & social media queen, respectively.

Check out the cannabis census at We Go High!

#NoOneShouldBeInJailForWeed

Drop page.

xoxo, Jessamyn & Ashe

108 Sometimes Poly, Always Poly Sep 19, 2020

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In this episode, we expound on Tuesday’s episode, but in case you missed here’s the tl;dr: our question-asker is curious about the polyamorous life but is hesitant when it comes to times when we’re a little needier of a partner’s attention- think job changes, babies, moving- all the big stuff. So the question is born: how does one do “sometimes poly”?

It takes a whole lotta communication, respect, & boundary setting- plus the understanding that once you open pandora’s box, it’s gonna be really f*cking hard to close.

We also get into identities, open relationships versus polyamory, hierarchical polyamory, and

showing up to everyone equally. There’s a whole lotta yummy yum in this one, don’t miss it!!

Did we mention The Underbelly Yoga? What about the 14-day FREE trial?! What are you waiting for???

Our theme song is all thanks to Fruit Snack! Imagine if your favorite band made your very own theme song! How did we get so LUCKY?!

Speaking of lucky, Janie Leopard!!!!!! Aside from being a digital cowgirl over at Wrangler, she makes our episode art!!! Life’s amazing when you let it be.

Special thanks to Anna Rooney, resident office mom & queen of getting shit done. And Chaz VanHoose! You can thank her for the IG playground called @dearjessamyn.

As always, #NoOneShouldBeInJailForWeed, shoutout to We Go High.

Drop page.

xoxo, Jessamyn & Ashe

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