Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman

Latest Episodes:

New Future of Dating & The Hottest Date Mar 02, 2021

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Jonathon Aslay, America's leading midlife dating coach, and Francesca Hogi, love and life coach for people who happen to be single, return to co-host this very special 350th episode of Dates & Mates. Damona, Jonathon, and Francesca present the facts about the current state of dating and spell out what it means for the future of love. They cover headlines together: What Japan's new 'Minister of Loneliness' can for you and OkCupid reveals the hottest day for dating in the UK this year. They also answer listener questions: Does "in sickness and in health" apply to COVID exposure and how to date without the dating apps right now.

Find Francesca on Instagram @DearFranny

Find Jonathon's podcast, "What Would Love Do?" at jonathonaslay.com

More links and resources from them at datesandmates.com

TextNow.com/GOYN

Dates & Mates is sponsored by TextNow. The app solves many major challenges D's clients face in dating today:

You can keep your main number private You can separate your personal and dating contacts Plus, It’s easy to use and FREE.

We are proud to collaborate with an app that empowers modern daters to feel safe and secure. If you want more information, check out Damona's video on when & how to give out your number: textnow.com/goyn

damonahoffman.com/okcupid

OkCupid is FAMOUS for matching people on what MATTERS MOST to them, from food to the type of relationship they want...to politics. They ask you really thoughtful and provoking questions to get to the heart of who you are and what type of person you’re looking for.

Are you missing out? Download OkCupid today!

What is the best dating app for you? Take Damona's quiz! quiz.damonahoffman.com

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Attachment Styles & Getting Fauci-ed Feb 23, 2021

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Jennifer Lehr, therapist and Attachment Theory expert, explains attachment styles and how your history can impact your current relationships. Damona covers headlines: is financial misalignment a deal-breaker and are you getting fauci-ed? Damona answers listener questions: what to do if your partner's love language makes you feel awkward and how do you stop the texting trap dead in its tracks?

Check out Jennifer Lehr's upcoming project, WeConcile, and her relationship quiz: www.jenniferlehrmft.com

TextNow.com/GOYN

Dates & Mates is presented by TextNow. The app solves many major challenges D's clients face in dating today:

You can keep your main number private You can separate your personal and dating contacts Plus, It’s easy to use and FREE.

We are proud to collaborate with an app that empowers modern daters to feel safe and secure. If you want more information, check out Damona's video on when & how to give out your number: textnow.com/goyn

Sponsors:

damonahoffman.com/okcupid

Are you missing out? Download OkCupid today!

Patreon.com/datesandmates

Are you a fan of the show and want access to Damona's Weekly Facebook Live Q&A? Join Damona's Patreon FWBs - Friends with Benefits - at patreon.com/datesandmates

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Great Expectations & #FreeBritney Feb 16, 2021

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Dr. Gary Lewandowski, psychology professor and author of "Stronger Than You Think: The 10 Blindspots That Undermine Your Relationship", joins Damona to talk about big expectations in new relationships and the tiny pet peeves you want to change about your partner. Headlines for the week: the most popular relationship questions your state is googling and why Britney's super hot 27-year-old bf is the best kind of boyfriend. Plus in Dear Damona, D answers listener questions: What's up with the guys on Whatsapp and how to avoid the time-wasters in dating as a single mom.

Don't forget your copy of Dr. Gary's book "Stronger Thank You Think": damonahoffman.com/contentclub

TextNow.com/GOYN

Dates & Mates is presented by TextNow. The app solves many major challenges D's clients face in dating today:

You can keep your main number private You can separate your personal and dating contacts Plus, It’s easy to use and FREE.

Sponsors:

damonahoffman.com/okcupid

Are you missing out? Download OkCupid today!

Patreon.com/datesandmates

Are you a fan of the show and want access to Damona's Weekly Facebook Live Q&A? Join Damona's Patreon FWBs - Friends with Benefits - at patreon.com/datesandmates

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Virtual Valentines & Be My Galentine Feb 09, 2021

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David Tutera, celebrity wedding planner, TV personality, and lifestyle influencer, joins Damona to talk about the current state of Valentine's celebrations and what couples in love need to know about the future of weddings. Damona covers headlines: what we can learn from celebrity couples therapy experiences and why the 13th of February is just as important as Valentine's Day. Damona answers listener questions: When to share important info about your identity to your matches and how to date if you're married to your job (yes it's possible!)

You can find more of David at davidtutera.com or on IG @davidtutera!

SPONSORS:

TextNow.com/GOYN

Dates & Mates is sponsored by TextNow. The app solves many major challenges D's clients face in dating today:

You can keep your main number private
You can separate your personal and dating contacts
Plus, It’s easy to use and FREE.

Download OkCupid today!

OkCupid is FAMOUS for matching people on what MATTERS MOST to them, from food to the type of relationship they want...to politics. They ask you really thoughtful and provoking questions to get to the heart of who you are and what type of person you’re looking for.

Are you missing out? Download OkCupid today!

Letsroam.com/datesandmates

You need an ADVENTURE - a socially distanced one. Get Damona's new scavanger hunt with Let's Roam at letsroam.com/datesandmates

Patreon.com/datesandmates

Are you a fan of the show and want access to Damona's Weekly Facebook Live Q&A? Join Damona's Patreon FWBs - Friends with Benefits!!! - at patreon.com/datesandmates

EVENTS:

Dating for vegetarians, flexitarians, the veggie curious with OkCupid & Sweet Earth

imaveggielover.com

Valentine's Day cooking, comedy, & love lessons with actress Mayim Bialik and comedian

Pamela Rae Schuller damonahoffman.com/cookingwithm

A Lesson on How To Ace Your Virtual Date with Washington Post Date Lab Team damonahoffman.com/washpost

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Make Your Move & Bridgerton Babes Feb 02, 2021

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Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics and Make Your Move, joins Damona to talk about the science of why women are in charge of the dating scene today. Instead of the headlines, Damona brings back On Screen Romance with conversation with Joy C. Mitchell, writer on the hit Netflix series Bridgerton. Dear Damona questions: are common interests really important in a relationship and why your hopeless romanticism might be killing your relationships.

Get Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women are in Charge on Amazon! https://amzn.to/3cylqkQ

Find more from Joy on instagram @joyineurope

Dates & Mates is sponsored by TextNow. The app solves many major challenges D's clients face in dating today: You can keep your main number private, You can separate your personal and dating contacts, Plus, It’s easy to use and FREE. We are proud to collaborate with an app that empowers modern daters to feel safe and secure. If you want more information, check out Damona's video on when & how to give out your number: textnow.com/goyn

OkCupid expects 25 million new matches to be made this January - a big increase from last year⁠. Are you missing out? Download OkCupid today!

Get Better Help: real therapy, convenient and affordable. Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. BetterHelp.com/datesandmates

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Sober Curious Dating & Match Secrets Jan 26, 2021

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Rachel De Alto, Chief Dating Expert at Match, joins Damona to examine the relationships between social anxiety, alcohol, and dating. Damona covers headlines: stay away from creeps like Armie Hammer and join in on two big dating app trends this season. In Dear Damona, she answers listener questions: how to filter matches who don't want a long-term relationship and can you still be excited about dating in your 60s?

Enter to win your own Virtual Date Kit to ensure their first dates go off without a hitch. The kit includes the new O’Doul’s cans, custom woven socks, a candle, dating convo cards, a smartphone stand and selfie light to set the vibes and ensure they’re camera ready. https://bit.ly/3sX77Mp

Dates & Mates is sponsored by TextNow. The app solves many major challenges D's clients face in dating today:

You can keep your main number private
You can separate your personal and dating contacts
Plus, It’s easy to use and FREE.

OkCupid expects 25 million new matches to be made this January - a big increase from last year⁠. Are you missing out? Download OkCupid today!

Try Magic Spoon: Take $5 off your first order of the healthy cereal that's too good to be true - Magicspoon.com/dates

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Zodiac Signs & Fake Breakups Jan 19, 2021

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Carol Allen, astrologer of Love is In The Stars, returns to Dates & Mates to explain exactly how the stars impact your compatibility beyond just your zodiac sign. Damona covers headlines in the Dating Dish: Why is Lori Harvey getting so much hate over her new relationship with Michael B. Jordan and how to get a celebrity to breakup with your partner. Plus Damona answers listener questions such as how to deal with racism from your dates and can you keep up the chemistry if you can't meet a match online anytime soon.

Get your Personal Success Calendar from Carol at damonahoffman.com/mycalendar!

OkCupid expects 25 million new matches to be made this January - a big increase from last year⁠. Are you missing out? Download OkCupid today!

Get Better Help: real therapy, convenient and affordable. Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. BetterHelp.com/datesandmates

Get The Dating Secret - Registration is open through January 20th at thedatingsecret.com

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Getting Ghosted & Date Health Jan 12, 2021

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Dr. James Simmons of Ask the NP joins Damona to talk about how to stay healthy dating in the time of Covid, ways to reduce your risk of Super Gonorrhea, and de-stigmatizing mental health. Damona covers headlines: Behind the scenes advice on Drew Barrymore getting ghosted and 21 ways to get your flirt on in 2021. Then in Dear Damona she covers listener questions: Has everyone forgotten how to communicate these days and should you give him a third chance if he's cancelled twice before?

Follow James at AsktheNP

Ok Cupid expects 25 million new matches to be made this January - a big increase from last year⁠. Are you missing out? Download OkCupid today!

Try Magic Spoon: Take $5 off your first order of the healthy cereal that's too good to be true - Magicspoon.com/dates

Get The Dating Secret - Registration is open through January 20th at thedatingsecret.com

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Breakups & Peak Dating Season Jan 05, 2021

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Mark Groves of Create The Love and The Mark Groves Podcast joins Damona to talk about new beginnings and how to ditch dating rock bottom. Damona covers headlines: Is Ariana really tying the knot this time and do dating apps really want you to find love? 'Dear Damona' segment is back by popular demand: What to do with all these breadcrumb-y dudes and surely there are better pickup lines than "hey"?

Find The Mark Groves Podcast on all your favorite podcast platforms and make sure to follow him on IG @createthelove

Ok Cupid expects 25 million new matches to be made this January - a big increase from last year⁠. Are you missing out? Download OkCupid today!

Get Better Help: Affordable, private online counseling. Anytime, anywhere. Start today and enjoy 10% off your first month - BetterHelp.com/datesandmates

Get The Dating Secret - Damona's live group coaching January Program. Early bird pricing closes in a few days: thedatingsecret.com

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Bonus: New Year, New You Dec 28, 2020

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Damona gives a lesson in vision boarding and goal setting so you can attract the love you want in the new year. New episodes dropping on TUESDAYS beginning January 5th, 2021.

Get Damona's secret to dating in the new normal. Go to thedatingsecret.com to learn more.

Ready to go deeper in love? Access to Damona's Patreon "Friends with Benefits" live streams starts at just $5 a month! Plus, you get access to a community of daters just like you AND you get to help support the show and keep us running for 8 more seasons. Patreon.com/datesandmates

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