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How To Savagely Vet A Man In 30 Days (Before You Get Attached) Feb 26, 2026

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You've convinced yourself it's bad luck, that there are no good men in your city, that maybe you're just not the kind of woman men commit to.

But you don't have bad luck—you have untrained discernment.

In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework to savagely vet a man in 30 days before you get attached.

You'll discover the four things to evaluate instead of your feelings , why smart women still end up with men who fail all four, and the next layer most people miss—the 3 I's that separate a man who behaves well from a man who's actually right for you.

Ready to stop wasting six months on men who showed you everything in week two?

The doors are open to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1ST

Inside C2C, I help you build a rotation of 2-3 commitment ready men in 90 days…who will pursue you for marriage.

The program includes 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more.

The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Get your coins ready because we’ve got work to do.

ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1ST

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Forgotten Birthdays, Broken Promises, and Valentine's Day Lies - What To Do When A Man Disappoints You Feb 19, 2026

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In this episode, I'm breaking down the W.O.R.D. Method

…a four-step framework for when men break their word so you stop spiraling, over-explaining, or blaming yourself.

You'll discover why security doesn't come from men keeping their word (it comes from how fast you respond when they don't), the Good Girl Reflex that makes you audit yourself instead of his behavior, and the difference between a man who's trying and a man who's performing trying to run out the clock.

Ready to stop being broken by broken promises?

The doors are open to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1ST

Inside C2C, I help you build a rotation of 2-3 commitment ready men in 90 days…who will pursue you for marriage.

The program includes 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more.

The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Get your coins ready because we’ve got work to do.

ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1ST

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:

@torahcents

@curved2cuffed

My 10 Dating Rules for Recovering "Good Girls" Who Want Marriage in 2026 Feb 12, 2026

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Any woman can get married—that's not hard to do.

The problem is the kind of marriages we walk into. Too many good girls are getting chosen because we're "wife material," which really means agreeable, low maintenance, and easy to keep. Then we end up crying on TikTok about husbands who forget our birthdays for 10 years straight or refuse to buy us carrot cake because they don't like it.

In this episode, I'm breaking down my 10 dating rules for recovering good girls who want marriage this year…not just any marriage, but one where you're pursued, honored, respected, served, and supported long after the wedding.

You'll discover why men can't repeat the same mistake twice in the first 30 days, what to do when a man cancels 20 minutes before a date, and the one question to ask before going exclusive that most women skip entirely.

Ready to stop being easy to keep and start being impossible to replace?

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.

Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:

@torahcents

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How to Meet 50 Men Per Month So You Can Meet Your Future Husband By Summer with Kimberly E. Feb 05, 2026

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Earlier this week, I made a post about meeting 50 men per month if I wanted to go from no dates to engaged by the end of the year—and the girls lost their minds.

"Where are we supposed to get 50 men?"

"I can barely talk to two men!"

"This seems counterproductive!" So I brought on my friend Kimberly, a dating coach and matchmaker in Atlanta who helps women land high-earning, high-caliber men.

In this episode, we're breaking down why 50 men is actually nothing when you understand dating like a funnel, where these men actually spend their time (hint: not at speed dating events), and why most of you have filled your calendar with responsibilities that don't have to be there.

You'll discover what matchmakers know about men in their 50s vs. women in their 50s, why focusing on a man's looks keeps you jumping through hoops for attention, and the exact events you should be attending instead of your girls trip to Jamaica.

Ready to stop wasting your youth on men who aren't giving you what you need?

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.

Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:

@torahcents

@curved2cuffed

How To Have 2-3 Men Emotionally and Financially Investing In You In 90 Days Jan 29, 2026

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We've been told that at a certain age, especially as Black women, our options dry up. That if you're divorced, over 35, a single mom, or plus-sized, you should just take what you can get. But I'm 38, divorced, and I only date men who invest in me—emotionally AND financially.

In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what shifted for me to get here. You'll discover why trying to prove you're "not a gold digger" attracts the bottom of the barrel, what happens when you start asking for everything (even when you can afford it yourself), and why the men who tell you "men won't do that" are just telling you what they won't do.

Ready to stop playing small and start receiving what you actually want?

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.

Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:

@torahcents

@curved2cuffed

Delicious Dating Q&A Part 4 Jan 22, 2026

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You got more questions, I have more answers.

Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to know when a man has earned exclusivity (spoiler: it's not about how many dates you've been on) to why you keep attracting the same type of men over and over again. You'll hear what to do when you live somewhere with limited dating options, how to meet men at the gym without forcing conversation, and when to cut off a man the second you see misalignment.

Ready to stop hoping things work out and start being strategic about your love life? Listen now for answers to the questions keeping you stuck.

If you’re ready to build your 2026 Roster this year

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.

Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:

@torahcents

@curved2cuffed

How To Go From No Dates To A Wedding Date In A Year Jan 15, 2026

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It's January and you've probably already had the thought: "I want this to be the year I get engaged" Maybe you said that last year too….and the year before that. Every December you look back and nothing really changed. You went on a few dates, maybe talked to a few guys, maybe had something that felt like it was going somewhere and then it just... didn't.

In this episode, I'm giving you the complete 6-step plan to go from where you are right now to engaged by the end of the year. You'll discover why what you've been doing isn't working (hint: it's not bad luck or "the men in your city"), the one skill you need to focus on that's actually holding you back, and how to date multiple quality men without getting attached while letting the right one prove himself over time.

Ready to stop hoping things will magically work out and start following an actual plan? Listen now to get your 6-step roadmap.

Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.

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My Personal Dating Strategy for 2026 Jan 08, 2026

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Most women are out here dating without any kind of plan….just swiping and hoping something works out, going on dates and hoping he's the one. But hope is not a strategy. Hope is how you end up years into this with nothing to show for it.

In this episode, I'm breaking down my complete dating strategy for 2026—and it's totally different from last year. You'll discover what I'm letting go of (including dating for physical attraction and feeling sorry for men), the three skills I'm sharpening at a higher level, and why working with a former sugar baby as my mentor is going to make me a better coach for you.

Work with me to stop dating without direction and start getting the results you actually want.

Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.

Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:

@torahcents

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DWC REWIND: How I Fall In Love Without Getting Attached Dec 18, 2025

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Most dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved.

But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it without getting attached.

In this episode, I share the mindset shifts and simple steps I follow to stay grounded and true to myself when I meet a new man I’m excited about.

Tune in to find out how I experience love in a way that’s both passionate and secure, letting me connect without losing myself.

Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to experience love in a way that’s open, exciting, and free from unhealthy attachment.

Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.

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From Church Girl to Dream Girl with Juliet R. Dec 11, 2025

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My client Dr. Juliet went from dating men who couldn't afford to send her an Uber to having wealthy men send her gifts just for rescheduling a date.

In two months, she went from less than one date per week to 22 video calls in November alone with high-caliber men begging for exclusivity after the first date.

In this episode, Dr. Juliet breaks down what actually shifted that took her from "the unlucky girl who never gets that kind of guy" to having multiple accomplished men competing for her attention.

After listening, you'll understand why performing for men keeps quality guys away while being present makes them obsessed, how celebrating canceled dates creates more abundance than spiraling ever will, and what it actually takes to go from church girl to dream girl.

Work with me to stop being the girl next door who he friendzones and become his dream girl

Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.

Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:

@torahcents

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