Date with Cents

If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating

….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you.

You’re the woman who is always making time

You’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support,

You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going.

You’re the woman who is always there to make men feel good about themselves.

Join me in this episode to hear the difference between “putting in too much effort” and putting in the right kind of effort for delicious dating results.

Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world…

…AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

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DWC REWIND: Launching Your H.O.E. Phase Apr 30, 2026

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Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY.

All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend.

And then you get big mad when you realized you invested months…sometimes years into a man who wasn’t worth all that effort

There’s no wonder why you’re always so drained and disappointed with men

Listen closely to this episode as I help you uncover your power to choose the right man for you, instead of settling for being chosen.

Be prepared to reclaim your time!

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:

My signature model for a premium dating experience for high-achieving women of faith.

What it means to be a good H.O.E and how it puts you in a position of power.

7 Practical guidelines that will help you vet men before you go exclusive with them.

A unique approach to rotational dating that will lead you to date better men and have better dating experiences.

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DWC REWIND: How To Show Up As A Quality Woman Who Attracts Quality Men Apr 23, 2026

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“There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.”

That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work.

The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women

AND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men.

Why?

Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desire

And that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together.

It’s deeper than being educated, financially stable and knowing how to cook and clean.

Listen to this episode as I share with you the REAL work that quality women are doing daily that allows them to attract, meet and connect with an abundance of quality men.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:

What it really means to “work on yourself” while dating.

The difference between a decent woman and a quality woman

A quality woman’s biggest super power that helps her navigate dating.

The high-quality characteristics that attract high-quality men

Why it’s important to embrace “messiness” on your dating journey

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DWC REWIND: Why You Keep Choosing The Wrong Man (And Why It’s Exhausting You) Apr 16, 2026

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You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone.

Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you butterflies instead of who's actually right for you.

I'm breaking down exactly what to do when you have real options so you stop making decisions from panic and start choosing the man who actually fits your life.

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DWC REWIND: How To Drop "Good Girl" Habits To Date Deliciously Apr 09, 2026

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Last week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones…

…and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship.

This week, we're going step by step on how you can break those habits for good, so you can start dating quality men who truly appreciate you for who you are.

If you’re a Woman of Faith struggling with “Good girl” syndrome, tune into this episode for a masterclass on how to shed those limiting behaviors and attract the kind of relationship you deserve.

Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to drop the “good girl” act to attract quality men who appreciate the woman you really are, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:

@torahcents

@curved2cuffed

DWC REWIND: What If You Try—And Love Still Doesn’t Happen? Apr 02, 2026

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That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love.

If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're not protecting yourself…you're guaranteeing nothing changes.

In this episode, I break down why this fear exists, what it's actually costing you, and how to start collecting evidence that love is possible for you exactly as you are right now.

I'll share actionable steps to move past this fear and build momentum in your love life, whether or not you ever work with me.

If you're ready to stop dating like you're trying not to get hurt and start showing up fully for love, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.

Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:

@torahcents

@curved2cuffed

DWC REWIND: When Dating Him Feels Like a Crack Addiction Mar 26, 2026

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Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him.

We wanna hear from him daily

We wanna see him all the time.

And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away.

Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction.

Like crack, this man stimulates us and even though he is the source of a lot of problems in our life…we still strongly desire him.

In this episode, I take time to coach a Queen who is addicted to dating a man who is tall, dark and dysfunctional…and we explore why this is a thing for her and what exactly she should do about it.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

The lies we tell ourselves when we are addicted to men who are not good for us.

The root causes of our addictions and why we stay stuck in the cycle.

How feeling chemistry with a man can also be a sign of dysfunctional addiction.

Why it’s not always easy for us to be interested in other men who are able to offer us healthy forms of companionship.

The truth about why we love to be controlled and dominated and why we confuse it with “Alpha” energy.

How I lost my voice in my own marriage due to my own relationship addictions

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BOOK: Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change

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DWC REWIND: The Mis-Education of the Good Girl Mar 19, 2026

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We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before.

We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports.

We can even go to war if we want to.

And even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage…

…that keeps us from TRULY being who we want to be and DOING what we want to do.

And this directly impacts our ability to have deep, authentic dating experiences and abundant, expansive love lives.

In today’s episode, I expose how Women of Faith have allowed the “Good Girl Complex” to keep them small in their love lives. We are trading our personal freedom to be slaves to our comfort zone and for people pleasing and male approval. And it’s destroying the way we live and love because of fear and shame.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

What it means to “fall in love” and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating.

How Caresha (Young Miami) chose her own romantic path, but is still triggered by it.

The real reason why “good girls” police other women’s life choices concerning her body, sex and dating practices.

The truth of how following male relationship gurus really condition you to stay under male domination and control.

Why men will praise you for being “wife material”, but never try to make you their wife.

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DWC REWIND: Delusions & Difficulties Around Attracting Quality Men Mar 12, 2026

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Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men.

Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summa the ladies don’t really have much evidence to support their beliefs.

They’re truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality men.

Maybe it is…maybe it isn’t.

In today’s episode, we’re gonna have a conversation about your ability to attract quality men. Together we’re gonna uncover whether you have a real issue attracting them or if it’s simply a delusion.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

The real reason why you believe you aren’t able to attract high-quality men

The truth bomb I drop that is confusing at first, but provides true clarity on why you may or may have not been able to attract quality men.

The bare bones explanation of what a quality man is and the traits they usually possess.

Several professional “diagnoses” that may be contributing to why you find it hard to meet, attract and build romantic relationships with quality men

Examples of practical actions my clients have taken (and you can too) to expand their capacity to attract quality men almost immediately

FEATURED ON THE SHOW

Date With Cents Episode #2: What is a Quality Man

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DWC REWIND: Becoming The "Sun" In Your Love Life Solar System Mar 05, 2026

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