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REWIND: Dating as a Spiritual Practice Aug 03, 2023

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When someone tells me that they’re a woman of faith, I can normally tell the level of her faith by the health of her love life.

You can go to church regularly, pray, consistently read your bible and serve in ministry…

BUT the truth of your spiritual walk is always revealed by the life you live daily…and that includes your love life.

Listen in today to find out how to use dating as a spiritual practice to deepen your relationship with The Most High and ultimately with yourself.

You can grow an abundantly love life by growing your faith with practical spirituality.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:

🔥 The real reason why dating is so draining and disappointing to you.

🔥 Practical examples of how to date with more depth and meaning.

🔥 Why being obsessed with the future is a slap in the face to God.

🔥 How being more like God improves the quality of your love life and the men you date.

🔥The spiritual benefits of building community with the opposite sex

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Curating Delicious Dating Experiences with Intention and Agency with Nadine Dillon Jul 27, 2023

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If it’s been months or years, and you’re still not making progress in your love life…

Or not even having fun and enjoying the process..

I can almost promise you that there's a lack of responsibility in the mix.

Meaning, you have not yet taken 100% ownership of your romantic actions and choices.

Every kind of success in your life relies on your ability to make decisions, take action on them and hold yourself accountable through the process.

Your love life success is no different…

Nadine is an incredible example of what’s possible when you finally take true ownership for your love life (even after years of avoiding responsibility)

Join me for today’s episode as Nadine (Cuff-link from September 2022 Cohort) shares how she carefully curated her delicious love life that supports her desires by being intentional, developing agency and doing the self-work.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

🔥 How Nadine intentionally designed a delicious love life that centers her and her desires…after 10 years of being ghosted, overlooked and underappreciated.

🔥 The transformation Nadine went through to go from voluntarily friend-zoning herself…to being pursued by fine ass, high-quality men.

🔥 The power of responsibility and how it leads to enjoying better dating experiences, attracting the men you want and having your desires fulfilled.

🔥 The sneaky ways self-abandonment can destroy your love life and how Nadine developed the audacity to put herself first while dating.

🔥 How dating as a spiritual practice leads you to deeper connection to yourself and with the men you’re dating.

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Why Dating Multiple Men Isn't Working For You Jun 15, 2023

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I love talking about how fun and fruitful it is to date multiple men at a time…

…and I love teaching high-achieving women of faith how to do it…and do it well.

But every time I publicly talk about it…theres always women blurting out:

“Omg that sounds exhausting”

“I could never do that”

“That doesn’t work for me”

In today’s episode, I’m breaking down exactly why dating multiple men is a struggle for most women of faith and what it looks like to have a rotation of men and have a love life that serves you at the highest level.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

🔥The “quiet as it’s kept” reason why many men try to shame you for dating multiple men.

🔥The truth of why dating multiple men sounds and feels draining and exhausting

🔥Simple (and sneaky) ways women of faith regularly overinvest in the men they’re dating

🔥One question to ask yourself to discover if you’re “doing to much” when dating men

🔥How to dramatically improve the level of effort men make in pursuing you.

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EP #7: Five Questions To Ask Yourself To Avoid Overinvesting In A Man

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Dating Victoriously Over Obstacles and Excuses With Victoria Cloud Part 2 Jun 01, 2023

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Everyone wants to have a thriving love life…

BUT not everyone is committed to having it.

That’s because creating a delicious dating life filled with fine ass quality men doesn’t just happen.

It takes WORK. It takes letting go of all your excuses for why you can’t do it..

…AND it takes for you to create daily opportunities to navigate your dating obstacles.

Just ask Victoria

A single mother of two kids (under 2)

With a Full-time job.

As a Full-time student (with an additional internship)

And Business owner

She had all the excuses in the world…

…until she decided to let them all go to follow her desire for a thriving love life.

Join me for today’s episode as Victoria (Cuff-link from February Cohort 2023 Cohort) tells all about how she dropped all her excuses to go from a disappointing love life to dating deliciously with multiple high quality men who show up for her AND her kids.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

👉🏾 How Victoria created an fun, exciting and playful love life after struggling with insecurities, limited beliefs, and past trauma.

👉🏾 Why Victoria was doing everything “right” while dating…but still having a dating experience that felt really wrong.

👉🏾 How being the “nice girl” destroyed Victoria’s love life and how she revived it by putting herself first.

👉🏾 What happened when Victoria gained the courage to ask men for what she desired and required them to show up for her.

👉🏾 The powerful way Victoria released her excuses, committed to her dating journey and transformed her love life from the inside out

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EP #49 Fear, Perfectionism, and Hiding From The Work

Ep #50 Dating Victory Over Obstacles and Excuses With Victoria Cloud Part 1

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Dating Victoriously Over Obstacles and Excuses With Victoria Cloud Part 1 May 25, 2023

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“I’m doing everything right…but dating is still going horribly wrong.”

A lot of High-achieving Women of Faith feel this way.

They've always been the perfect girlfriend.

They’ve always gone out of their way to show up for the men they’re dating.

They even overinvest their time and energy just to prove how committed they are to growing the connection.

But it still isn’t enough because the men never really matched their energy.

Men don’t show up for them…they don’t add much value to their lives and they don’t pursue them for the commitment these women desire.

Why are good women dealing with so many bad dating experiences??

In this week’s episode, join me in an intimate C2C coaching call with Victoria Cloud (Cuff-link from February Cohort 2023 Cohort) as she reveals her fears, insecurities and struggles around creating a successful love life.

Through this coaching session, I’ll be pulling back the curtain to show you in real time why so many women have a disappointing love life and practical ways to shift into dating that fulfills your desires.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

👉🏾 The truth behind you doing everything “right” …and why dating still feels very wrong.

👉🏾 Why you keep hearing that you’re “wife material”...but no one is trying to make you a wife.

👉🏾 Why nice girls finish last while dating and what you can do about it as a “nice girl”.

👉🏾 The truth of why men aren’t showing up for you and adding value to your life.

👉🏾 The problem with self-abandonment and why the men you desire may not desire you back.

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EP #49 Fear, Perfectionism, and Hiding From The Work

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When You Don't Have Time to Date May 18, 2023

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“I don’t have time to date”

It’s one of the biggest lies High-Achieving Women of Faith tell themselves when their love lives are dry or non-existent.

They have no idea it’s a lie tho…

They really believe that because they are busy professionals, entrepreneurs, or high-ranking officials in their companies (who sometimes happen to also be single mothers)...

…that it also means they don’t have the time to make their love lives a priority.

“Busyness” isn’t the issue… something more sneaky…and more sinister is at play behind the scenes.

In this week’s episode, feel free to drop in to learn why you have more than enough time to date (no matter how busy you are) and the overlooked (yet powerful) ways to immediately create more time for romance, love and dating.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

👉🏾 The real reason most women blame their non-existent love lives on not having enough “time”.

👉🏾 How being a “good girl” drains your time and energy away from being able to create the time to have the love life you desire

👉🏾Sneaky ways High-Achieving Women of Faith are losing hours of time every week (when they could’ve been dating).

👉🏾 The power of vulnerability and how my clients use it to create more time and space in their lives to date.

👉🏾Behind the scenes look at how my busy clients went from “no time to date” to accepting regular dates from quality men.

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Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men

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Fake Spirituality and the Delusion of "Soul Ties" May 11, 2023

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The concept of “Soul ties” is one of the biggest lies ever told to women of faith.

This lie caused us to have a lot of fear.

We learned to fear sex instead of having responsibility around it..

…AND fear our own emotions instead of developing the skill of properly processing

In today’s episode, I’m helping you to drop the fear you may have been conditioned to have so you can have more freedom in your mind, body and soul (no ties lol).

Listen in as I carefully explain why the “soul tie” teaching is false and unspiritual and what it looks like to live your life as a spiritual being.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

👉🏾 The delusion of “soul ties” and a spiritual and logical break-down of why they don’t exist.

👉🏾 The truth about emotional attachment and how women of faith often confuse it for “soul ties”

👉🏾How purity culture and “good girl” indoctrination is keeping us separate for God.

👉🏾 How every part of our life is spiritual and how to seize the opportunity to practice your spirituality.

👉🏾How your beliefs are holding you hostage and preventing you from living and loving your best life.

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Fear, Perfectionism, and Hiding From The Work May 04, 2023

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I know a lot of high-achieving women of faith who want to attract better men and have better dating experiences.

I also know that many of these women will struggle because they are slaves to their own perfectionism.

They don’t wanna make mistakes

They don’t wanna be judged

They don’t wanna feel pain

So they hide, downplay their desires and continue suffering in the same cycles they’ve been stuck in year after year.

In today’s episode, for the first time ever, I’m dropping a behind the scenes taste of a private coaching call with my C2C clients. Listen to me rant as I help them shift their minds, overcome their self-sabotage and take real action towards the love life they wanna have.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

👉🏾 How perfectionism is doing you a disservice in your love life and killing your progress.

👉🏾 Several ways we “Hide” from men and the love life we truly desire.

👉🏾 How building a thriving business is similar to building a thriving love life.

👉🏾 Small ways you may be abandoning yourself while dating and seeking love.

👉🏾 The truth about why you aren’t “where you should be” in your love life.

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Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men

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@torahcents

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Doing the Work & Dating Deliciously (After Depression) with Cindy Naughton Apr 27, 2023

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“Why is dating at this age so complicated? Nothing in life is more stressful than dating after 35”

This was a post I read from a fed up woman in my social media feed recently.

Thing is…tons of women feel just like her.

Dating isn’t wasn’t stressing them out tho.

They’re stressed out because they haven’t accepted that creating a fun, fruitful and fulfilling dating life actually takes WORK.

And most people simply don’t want to do the WORK to have it.

Cindy is an amazing example of what it looks like to DO the work to have a deliciously dating life and enjoy yummy high-quality men in the process.

Join me for today’s episode as Cindy (Cuff-link from February 2023 Cohort) shares how she did the work to go from stressed out and depressed about her love life…to feeling more youthful, energetic, relaxed and connected to herself (as well as more connected to men she’s dating)

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

🔥 How Cindy created a delicious dating life at the age of 48 (after years of low self-worth and stress around relationships)

🔥 Why Cindy believed it was unrealistic to have an abundant love life and the steps she took to finally make it a reality for herself.

🔥 How Cindy overcame self-sabotage, self-consciousness and victimhood in order to have the desires of her heart when it came to friends, family and fine ass men.

🔥 Behind the scenes of how Cindy pushed past doubt and her fears to finally turn her dating dreams into a reality

🔥 How Dating as a Spiritual Practice allowed Cindy to shift her entire experience from feeling abandoned and overlooked…to being desired and adored.

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Join my next Free Masterclass: 3 Secrets of Attracting Multiple High-Quality Men

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@torahcents

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Creating Conversations That Inspire Commitment Apr 20, 2023

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I get a lot of complaints from women who struggle talking to men they’re dating.

Their text and phone convos are either super boring…OR they fizzle out way too fast.

They think they need to DO more things to fix it…like learn a new set of questions to spice things up..

OR talk more on the phone so that the connection stays strong.

You don’t have to DO more or talk more to have the types of conversations you desire…

…you simply need to BE different while having these conversations.

In today’s episode, I’m gonna share how to BE a woman who creates fun, enjoyable, and deep conversations with men…that lead to more intimacy, trust…and commitment.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: .

👉🏾 How inauthenticity is killing your conversations and connections with men.

👉🏾 The biggest mistakes women make during conversations with men that lead to them fizzling out fast.

👉🏾 The truth about “being intentional” and how you’re actually being aggressive and scary

👉🏾Why it’s super important to know the “Why” behind the words you say with men

👉🏾Practical ways to build trust, intimacy and rapport with your conversations with men

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