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Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show!

Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: “Sucka Free Love – How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged”, “24 Types of Suckas to Avoid” and “The Black Church…Where Women Pray and Men Prey!” Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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Ms. HeartBeat Leaving BlogTalkRadio Oct 17, 2016

Since 2008 Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper) has been providing outstanding, and hilariously funny insights and commentary on romantic and familial relationships. After careful consideration, the show on BlogTalk will be discontinued, and all future ramblings posted as videos on YouTube or video conferences/webinars which will be posted on SurvivingDating.Com.
Ms. HeartBeat has been busy this summer and falll, and has now produced more than 100 videos with extremely valuable information for single women. Recent titles include:
Instant Attraction - The Dangers of the Man with "The Magic Stick"When Women Find Out Motherhood Ain't All That!top Wasting Your Time Seeking Unconditional LoveNarcissistic Men and Codependent WomenBooty Calls, Friends With Benefits and Single WomenSometimes Abortion Really is the Best OptionDating Single Parents With Bad Ass ChildrenWhen You Date a Jailbird
Please come on by and get your regular dose of Ms. HeartBeat!

Manipulative Things Black Men Do to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops! Aug 19, 2016

In this exciting 25 video series, veteran advice columnist and dating expert Deborrah Cooper (Ms HeartBeat) breaks down dozens of manipulative social policies and mind games used by black males to get emotional and mental control of black women and girls.
Taking single female listeners by the hand, Deborrah leads them through the minefield of the sinister, manipulative, and controlling behaviors of men. From flat out lying to using prisoner of war type mind control techniques, any single woman who is not aware of the games being played to attack her self-esteem, self worth and mental state with the goal of getting the upper hand will be a sitting duck.
These guys are NOT PLAYING WITH YOU. As you go out into the world you must know how to protect yourself from those who seek to harm you and develop the skills to easily differentiate the controlling knuckleheads from the truly decent men.
This index will be updated as more videos are added. The goal is to complete the Manipulatively Things series with 25 hard hitting and extremely informative videos which break down the games single men play with women.
Full index to videos by title: http://wp.me/p4bZNe-CC
Go directly to my page on YouTube
http://www.youtube.com/debsterism
Send me an email with topic suggestions for future video shows to survivingdating@gmail.com

The Mammy and The Mule and The Good Black Woman Who Gives Her All to Black Men Jul 19, 2016

Throughout the black community one will find "the good black woman" who feels the need to give her all and be an all-around giver and supporter of the black men she dates or wants to date. She believes that by proving herself to be "a good black woman" she will get treated better, not cheated on during the dating phase, loved unconditionally, wifed up, and adored forever by these men.
You'll find them by the hundreds on internet forums and social media sites, responding with pride to memes created opportunistic manipulative guys that attempt to brainwash women into serving and doing for them. She is the type that will comment that she "would spoil my king" and "prove I'm wife material" and "give him sex to keep him at home" and things of that nature.
By the time she wakes up from that delusional stupidity and reflects on how many times she's been sidelined for women who are lower in stature and accomplishment with a much poorer attitude, she's likely to be in her 40s angrily wondering why she is without the family and husband she craved when she "did everything right." "These men don't want a GOOD BLACK WOMAN" they exclaim in dismay.
Well, duh.
I'll tell you the reasons you need to stop being black men's Mammy and Mule or striving to be perceived as "a good black woman" on Monday, July 18, 2016 startiing at 6:30 pm PST/9:30 pm EST.

Single Black Women Audition to be a Wife While Single Black Men Don't Do Squat Jun 15, 2016

Throughout our lives, women are directed and instructed on how they "need" to be, dress, talk, walk and look to "keep a man" with the hope of keeping him around satisfied and happy enough to propose marriage. Girls learn how to dress sexy (but not too much), raise a famiily, keep a home, prepare tasty meals - all with the goal of securing a husband to take care of.
But when do black men get socialized to take care of women and prove themselves to be husband-worthy? What demands do black women make, what things are black boys and young men taught they need to do and be in order to attract a quality wife? Why are demands placed on women to trot out their "wife" skills on demand, but black men don't even want to pay for a dinner date?
The double standard is obvious, and we're going to discuss the finer nuances of it...something I think most women have never even considered. Join me at 7:00 pm PST for a short but powerful discussion here on BlogTalkRadio Network at www.blogtalkradio.com/askheartbeat.

Relationship Baggage From the Male and Female Perspective with Quinton Morgan Apr 09, 2016

Baggage is the term used to describe the emotional and mental "junk" from the past that we carry around with us every day. From old childhood hurts like bullying, rejection, and fears of abandonment to the crushing blows of physical, emotional or verbal abuses - everyone has wounds that they drag with them from relatoinship to relationship. How can you identify the attitudes and behaviors and often unrealistic expectations you developed in the past which negatively impact your current day success in life and love?
Join us for a chat with our special guest Quinton Morgan on Friday April 8th at 7:00 PM PST. Quinton is the author of two widely acclaimed works on baggage, separated by gender to show the differences in how the sexes experience emotional turmoil and what they do with those feelings.
Log onto www.blogtalkradio.com/askheartbeat to hear the show over your computer, tablet or phone or to chat. If you want to participate in the discussion, call 516-418-5650 during the live broadcast.

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