Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

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In Case You Missed Me Apr 23, 2024

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Hey Besties! This episode is all about the highs, the lows, and the hilariously unexpected. Violet opens up about feeling a bit down and explores why sometimes, despite everything, it just seems like things won't get better. She discusses the simple joys of being happy and the importance of being present in those moments. But it’s not all about the downs; there’s an up when she talks about getting sponsored to go to Stagecoach—and yes, she’s going solo! Tune in for an episode filled with humor, vulnerability, and the kind of honest chat you’d only share with your closest friends!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:20 Maybe I was feeling a little low
05:12 The most basic necessities we often forget
06:45 Why it feels like it will never get better
09:02 When I’m happy, I just take it in
11:49 I took edibles before watching Dune
16:43 I saw a Reddit post about me not going to Coachella
23:24 Getting sponsored to attend Stagecoach
29:07 I’m going to Stagecoach by myself!

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It's Okay to Not Be Okay Apr 18, 2024

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Hey Besties! Today, let's try something a little different. Violetta challenges AI to give intriguing insights it might offer on our everyday dilemmas. From practical tips on mustering the courage to reach out and effective breathing exercises to manage anxiety to quick mood-boosting activities, discovering happiness, and the best life advice ChatGPT can offer. Whether you're searching for a laugh, a cry, or a moment of inspiration, this episode promises to be as enlightening as it is entertaining.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:19 Do you believe in God?
03:32 Why am I crying for no reason?
04:19 Getting advice from ChatGPT
09:18 How do you get the courage to ask for help?
12:13 Good breathing exercises when you’re anxious
18:09 Quick and simple activities to improve your mood
23:22 What do you do when you’re feeling down?
26:07 What to do when you feel stuck and exhausted
28:05 The best advice about life
30:52 How important is human connection?
33:32 Best advice about finding happiness

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How To Win An Argument Apr 16, 2024

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Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can lead to more meaningful victories and why saying less can actually get you more. Whether you're going through tricky social situations or just trying to get ahead in life, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you master the art of keeping it cool and collected. Tune in for less talk, more action!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:44 Win through your actions, not through arguments
14:42 Always say less than necessary

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Law of Attraction: Make Him YOURS Apr 11, 2024

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Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch.

GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pedestal, and now you don’t understand why you got dumped…well, maybe that IS the problem – you’re too nice! In this episode, Violetta teaches you how to stop being too available and how to become the b*tch that men will go crazy for. So get ready to be the main event and how you can make men work so hard for that front seat!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
04:01 What is a nice girl?
06:22 What is a b*tch?
07:13 Why do men prefer b*tches?
08:30 Become a prize
10:02 Men always want what they can’t have
13:53 Conditions to set when dating
15:51 The Madonna-Wh*re Complex
17:02 The difference between a nice girl, a woman who acts like a b*tch, and an actual b*tch
21:40 Men are scared to lose control and their freedom
23:21 Men want to feel that you chose to be with them

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20 Signs You're Doing Better Than You Think Apr 09, 2024

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Hey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let’s take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I don't know what I’m doing with my life"? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into 20 signs that you're actually doing better than you think. We'll explore what it truly means to lead a good life, challenging societal metrics and embracing the idea that a great life is made up of a series of small, meaningful moments.

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Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

01:28 “I don’t know what I’m doing with my life.”

04:32 20 signs you’re doing better that you think you are

11:32 How do we measure a good life?

17:14 A great life a series of small moments put together

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How to Handle Conflict Apr 07, 2024

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Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse from Saturay's premium podcast episode where we discuss how to handle conflict, especially for people who struggle with it. Hope you enjoy!

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Law of Attraction: Attract SUCCESS Apr 04, 2024

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Hey Besties! Today, we discuss the PSYCHOLOGY, the SCIENCE, and the SPIRITUALITY behind Success along with a few calls to actions to make it happen for you!!

Let’s listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the paradox between failure and success, all with a dash of Violetta's flair. Discover actionable tips to halt self-sabotage and uncover traits common among successful people. We'll explore the synergy of passion and perseverance, why willpower isn't your only ally, the transformation from a fixed to a growth mindset, and how to ignite your motivation for success. Plus, don't miss our top tips for attracting success in your life!

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Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

02:00 What does success mean to you?

03:28 The failure and success paradox

07:53 Tips to stop self sabotaging

10:14 Quantum physics

15:57 What do most successful people have in common?

20:16 Passion and perseverance

24:20 Don’t rely too much on willpower

28:08 Switching from fixed mindset to a growth mindset

30:30 Tips to get motivated to become successful

32:56 Top tips to attract success

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P DIDDY & RAYA - Violetta's Diary Apr 03, 2024

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Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts or CONFESSIONS with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

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Get People to Like You Instantly Apr 02, 2024

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Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment.

Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on winning people over instantly, incredible stories of people who mastered the art of being likable, and how to arm yourself with six foolproof strategies to make a lasting impression and cultivate meaningful connections.

What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:26 How to make people like you instantly?
07:36 The story of Hall Caine
11:37 “This is our dream house.”
14:56 The judge who loves dogs
16:29 Famous people still crave a little recognition
22:33 Six ways to make people like you

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The Psychology of Self-Sabotage – Why Do We Do It? Mar 28, 2024

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Hey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to boost your spirits. It's all about flipping the script, surrounding yourself with positive vibes, and quitting the blame game. Get ready to transform your perspective and sprinkle some fab into your life!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:20 Why do we self sabotage?
04:02 How to stop this cycle of self defeat?
07:05 Sometimes, failure is good
11:39 When we sink into negative thinking our brain seeks to confirm it
14:23 How do you stay motivated during hard times?
19:48 How to change your perspective
24:20 18 quick advice to cheer you up
28:18 Surround yourself with positivity
31:08 We often blame our circumstances

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