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Protect Your Energy: Avoid the Unhappy & Unlucky May 21, 2024

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It's time to do some summer cleaning and dump those energy vampires you've been keeping around!!

In this eye-opening episode of Benson Bookclub on Almost Adulting, we dive deep into Law 10 from Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power": "Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky."

Discover why the company you keep can make or break your life and success. I'll share not only the wisdom from the book but I also unpack the psychology behind this law and give you actionable tips to start TODAY to detox your social circle and elevate your life. Lastly, I share my personal insights on the importance of energy swaps - hint: who you allow inside of you DOES in fact leave a mark, and how to keep your vibe high.

Tune in and learn how to surround yourself with positivity, protect your energy, and attract success today.

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Love After Loss: A Journey of Hope and Healing May 16, 2024

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Anna hathaway who?!? Nicholas galitzine who!?!? This TRUE STORY that I share today is about to become your new 'The Idea of You' favourite love story. It will have you in tears before you finish listening.

Join me in this heart-wrenching yet hopeful episode as we dive into the powerful TRUE STORY of a man who loses the love of his life in a tragic car accident. Battling the depths of depression and contemplating ending his own life, he is pulled back by the desperate plea of his young niece. Struggling to find purpose, he bravely shares his journey online, leading to an unexpected connection with a woman who has experienced similar grief. Through their shared pain, they discover a second chance at love. Anna Hathaway who??! Nicholas

In this episode, I also share a touching "Letter from Heaven," offering comfort and closure to anyone who has lost a loved one and yearns for one last goodbye.

And don’t miss out on "Benson Knows Best," where I tackle your burning questions with my signature blend of wit and wisdom. Today’s question: How long should you wait for someone who’s not ready for a relationship? How to tell if he's your twin flame? and more!

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Your Happiness Is a Problem May 14, 2024

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On today's episode, Join your Russian big sis, Violetta as she unravels the tale of Buddha’s enlightenment and Disappointment Panda's brutal truths. She then explores if happiness is an algorithm we can crack or if we’re just wired to be a bit miserable.

Why do we suffer? Is pain necessary for survival? Are we all just masochists in denial? and why blaming others is the perfect cop-out!! Violetta then delves into how dissatisfaction is baked into our DNA and why the greatest truths in life are the hardest to swallow. From the brain’s take on physical vs. psychological pain to how solving problems (yes, even the crappy ones) is the secret sauce to true happiness, your big sis has got you covered.

Buckle up, because this episode is all about why your happiness is indeed a problem and what you can do about it.

Credits: Big shoutout to Mark Manson for his brilliant insights from “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck.”

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The Reason He's Not Choosing You May 09, 2024

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Babes, stop trying to CHANGE HIM, did he poopy his pants??!? Girl chill.

Dive into this explosive solo episode where Violetta unravels the secrets of dating with 7 Game-Changing Dating Tips that will Transform Your Love Life forever!!

Learn why men pull away, how to spot early dating red flags, why he won't commit, and the real reasons he’s not choosing you. Violetta share personal stories of her recent dating experience, including why she cried at Stagecoach, and insights on how to tell where your relationship is really going... Plus, get the scoop on the type of girl you need to stop being to find serious love.

Don’t miss out—this is the game-changing advice you've been searching for!

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BEST Advice You'll Ever Hear May 08, 2024

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Privet zychiky and welcome to a brand new PREMIUM episode on Wednesdays!

Today Violetta shares some life changing advice that will get you thinking and touch your beautiful heart and mind. From a letter to your younger self to boundaries to dating advice.

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Stagecoach Confessions: Stars, Drama, and Lana Del Ray May 07, 2024

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Get ready to saddle up for an unforgettable adventure as your Russian big sis, Violetta, takes you through her first-ever Stagecoach experience on Almost Adulting! In this wild and insightful episode, Violetta shares:

The Patron house Crew included: Violetta, Kat stickler, Jason tartick, Kelsey Anderson and Joey graziadei from the bachelor, Georgia v, Erin falter, Nick dio, Nick norcia, Polly B and Alex Hall from Selling OC, and last but not least Lana Del Ray and Nikki Lane.

Meeting Music Icons: Hanging out with Lana Del Rey, Nikki Lane, Leon Bridges, J-Kwon

Unplanned Drama: Encountering a friend’s ex-fiancé and his new girlfriend, Bachelor drama with a side of bad first impression with the Selling OC girlies and how they made up. plus a blast-from-the-past hookup story involving a side of Gravy.

Awkward Encounters: Running into a friend’s ex-fiancé and his new girlfriend PLUS The man that ghosted her ends up performing at their house.

Favorite Moments: a blast-from-the-past hookup story involving a side of Gravy and meeting her new favourite person.

From celebrity run-ins to juicy house drama, Violetta brings you along for every twist and turn, complete with her signature tough love and wit. Tune in for an entertaining and heartfelt look at the festival, complete with all the lessons learned and laughs shared. Don't miss out on this ride—listen now for all the juicy details and unforgettable moments!

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Is It Love or OCD? With Dr. Patrick McGrath May 02, 2024

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Unraveling Relationship OCD: A Deeper Look with Dr. Patrick McGrath

Is it just a quirk or could it be Relationship OCD? This misunderstood form of OCD often masquerades as simple jealousy or relationship ups and downs, but there's much more beneath the surface. In this compelling episode, we dive into the intricacies of Relationship OCD, exploring:

What exactly is Relationship OCD, and how does it differ from other types?
The fine line between normal jealousy and this form of OCD.
The impact of social media on our relationship insecurities.
Early dating behaviors: Understanding ghosting through the lens of OCD.
Strategies to support a partner dealing with OCD.
Navigating the complexities of OCD when re-entering the dating scene.
The effectiveness of Exposure and Response Therapy and its timeline for results.

Join us as Dr. Patrick B. McGrath, a leading expert in OCD treatment and author, shares his profound insights. Whether you're struggling with OCD, supporting someone who is, or simply fascinated by human psychology, this episode offers valuable understanding and practical advice. Learn to distinguish between love and obsession, and discover approaches that respect cultural sensitivities towards therapy.

Don't miss out on these essential insights that could redefine how you view relationships and mental health. For more on information, visit https://www.nocd.com/ .

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9 Types of Codependency With Mark Groves Apr 30, 2024

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Hey Besties! Today, we're diving into the full length of the second half of Violetta’s eye-opening interview with Mark Groves. Get ready for more insights and surprises!

Are you more invested in your partner's life than your own Netflix queue? Do you find yourself constantly adjusting your mood thermostat based on someone else’s emotional weather? Buckle up as Violetta and Mark dissect what it means to be codependent, from obsessing over how others perceive us online to partnering up with someone who wouldn't cheer if you won the lottery. They will uncover the roots of codependency, explore the masquerade ball of personality masks—from the Perfectionist to the Damsel in Distress—and discuss why your life’s quality is basically the guest list of your personal relationship party. Tune in, and get entangled in the hilarious truths behind our relational binds!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:38 Is codependency a common challenge in many relationships?
05:15 We are overly invested in the outcomes of other people
09:38 How to identify codependency
11:55 We aren’t built to handle people’s perception of us online
15:56 Being in a relationship with a person who doesn’t celebrate you
22:35 What is the root cause of codependency?
28:03 The Perfectionist mask
32:09 The Savior mask
33:59 The Performer mask
36:32 The Playboy/Playgirl mask
38:52 The Good Guy/Good Girl mask
41:31 The Damsel in Distress mask
44:54 The Spiritual mask
47:11 The quality of your life is determined by the quality of your relationships
51:21 Where can you find Mark?

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Get Your Ex Back With Dating Expert Adrienne Everheart Apr 25, 2024

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Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes Adrienne Everheart, a certified dating and relationship coach & feminine energy therapist who specializes in connecting women to their authentic self and creating the loving relationship they desire.

In this sizzling session, Adrienne reveals the mystique of feminine allure and provides insightful strategies designed to empower women, whether they are healing from past heartaches or aiming to rekindle an old flame. Her advice is not just about attracting a partner—it's about igniting a deeper passion within yourself and radiating confidence. Whether you're mending a broken heart or setting the stage to lure back an ex with newfound allure, Adrienne equips you with the tools to confidently navigate the complexities of love and relationships. Join Violet and Adrienne for a transformative experience that will leave you inspired, informed, and invigorated to pursue your romantic endeavors with zest and wisdom.

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Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

01:49 How do I get my ex back?

02:27 Biggest misconception about dating today

05:44 Let the other person miss you

07:10 The 4 irresistible qualities men crave

15:05 What is love-starved?

19:06 Words that men love to hear

25:26 When should you say ‘Thank you’

29:23 The ‘easy to be around energy’

33:22 What does it mean to tap into your feminine energy

36:07 Women get preferences confused by boundaries

39:56 How do you express your expectation on the first date

44:00 The difference between soft and dark feminine energy

46:17 What does it mean to be in your dark feminine energy?

48:32 Is your soft feminine energy intimidating men?

49:42 Tap into your masculine energy

51:08 Then there is a third energy - neutral

55:05 How to drive men using your goddess feminine energy?

58:35 Healing from a breakup

01:02:12 You’re attracted to what you already have

01:05:45 How do you make him miss you after a breakup?

01:08:25 How do you get him back?

01:12:59 The ABCs to get him back

01:15:28 Putting your inner boy to work

01:17:37 A real story about a long distance relationship that worked long-term

01:21:14 How to get a man to chase you like he used to

01:27:23 “I am irresistible to men”

01:30:54 Show that you’re bored

01:32:52 How to make him keep loving you

01:34:52 How to protect your heart and not fall too fast

01:36:58 How do you love yourself?

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My Therapist Once Told Me... Apr 24, 2024

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On today's episode I discuss, Stagecoach, OCD, and my favourite quotes from my therapist! I also give you some advice, my favourite Kdrama's and my experience with finally getting back on dating apps!

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