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49 | Adding Action to Being a Moment Maker Dad (Patei Iyegha) Dec 23, 2018

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Competitive obstacle racer, trauma surgeon and father of seven Patei Iyegha joins dadAWESOME to discus 5 ways to put this Moment Maker Dads theme into action. In case you missed the first Patei Iyegha interview on Episode 25, here's the link: https://dadawesome.org/25-patei-iyegha/ FIVE WAYS TO TAKE ACTION: 1. Power of Words- what words are we speaking over our kids? The words we speak are foundational for moments to be made. Action speaks louder than words... ACTION >>ask your wife or a close Christian friend about your words... Do they hear you speaking words of life? 2. Slow Down - experience moments from my Heavenly Father. Creativity flows in moments with time and space and simplicity… ACTION >>take a 20-min walk in silence... Ask God to bring to mind ways you can make fatherhood adjustments. Ask for God to whisper areas to add intentionality. 3. Technology- does my phone and tv and other screens help spark creativity and problem solving and dreaming?What toys and activities will inspire creativity?Do the games, screens and toys lead towards conclusions? Or towards endless possibilities? ACTION >>check your screen time statistics on your phone. 2-hours per day over 18 years is 13,000 hours of extra time with your kids. 4. Sticky Moments - mystery waffles, fried egg Fridays... Family Bible Story Time... Polar Express Christmas Light Adventure. How can I add more regular family moments that my kids will look forward to?Engaging the 5 senses with these moments. ACTION >>create one simple moment for your kids this week 5. Family Values Audit - Family Values - two truth tellers for my values = Time and Money…My calendar reveals my priorities.Look at your finances and where you invest your time and it will reveal what matters most in your lifeWhat words or phrases are central to my family? What do I value?What is my compass? ACTION >>Look back at your calendar for the past 2-weeks. Look at your budget and pray about the % of that time and money that is focussed on you and your needs and your families needs vs. serving others and giving to others. Bonus Step = Read The Power Of Moments (by Chip and Dan Heath) or listen to this podcast about the book by Craig Groeschel

048 | Never Say No Book Discussion (Ross Manders) Dec 16, 2018

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Part 3 of the Moment Maker Dads month features a book conversation with Ross Manders...

"Never Say No" takes you on a personal journey to learn first-hand how Mark & Jan Foreman raised Jon and Tim of Switchfoot. They share practical advice for instilling wonder in a media-saturated culture, cultivating specific gifts, and balancing structure with individual choice. Our purpose as parents is the same as our child's: to live creatively beyond ourselves, bringing the love, beauty and nature of God to this world. Let the adventure begin.

We are to raise kids with a dream and help them follow and chase after that dream
Fostering an environment of courage and pushing our kids forward
How much of my time is spent being intentional with my family?
Their playbook for family values: Responsibility, persistence, resilience, patience, well rounded
Technology is threatening childhood
Toys - how do we encourage our kids to play creatively
Be in closer contact to people who are hurting
Raising up kids that stand out and are different and are agents of change
"The calling for all children is to invade the sometimes scary world with the love, truth and goodness of the God that made us"
Who do our kids see that we are? If our kids see that we care, they will grow hearts that care.
As parents get to pass the torch of our faith'
If our faith is mechanical, then our kids will think of faith in the same bucket as topics in school that they're forced to memorize
Sticky practices - rhythms of connection moments - mystery waffles or Fried Egg Fridays
Making the Bible come alive with a creative interactive piece
Use all 5 senses to help the Bible come alive - this will help them remember it\
We become like the people we surround ourselves with
I want to help my kids experience an awesome God and let them know that their Heavenly Father delights in them

About Ross Manders:

Ross and his wife Emily moved from Minnesota to Philadelphia, PA to plant Restoration Church five years ago. They have four amazing kids. Ross' goal is to help as many people as possible know God and love God and in that become more fully human.

047 | Moment Maker Dads Part 2 (Carlos Whittaker) Dec 09, 2018

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This second part of the Moment Maker Dads conversation with Carlos Whittaker explores waking ourselves up to living our life rather than letting life live you.

To disturb and disrupt will be the place we are most awakened
Why don't we disturb and disrupt ourselves on purpose so that we can continue to grow and mature.
In order to show our kids wonder, we must go backwards and slow things down.
The power of a "Pause" - what am I not noticing around me?
Look at the life of Jesus - how was he a moment maker?
Jesus created moments for people on purpose
In order to create moments for other people, we must first receive moments from God
Pause, slow down and rest to lower the volume of life
How many stories (the amount of data) am I listening to in the first 5-minutes of my day?
Massively limit screen time (It's always easier to add more then to take it away)
SPIES acronym:
- Socially
- Physically
- Intellectually
- Emotionally
- Spiritually
Showing our kids more what it looks like to be like Jesus

https://carloswhittaker.com/

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More about Carlos Whittaker: Carlos Whittaker is a People's Choice Award winner, a former recording artist signed to a major label, a social media maven, and currently spends the majority of his time writing books and speaking on stages around the world. It really began when the Whittaker's found their family in America's spotlight with appearances on shows like CBS Early Morning, The Today Show and more when their viral video "Single Ladies Devastation" went viral. But for Carlos, his wife Heather and their three children, this viral moment was just a snapshot of the bigger picture.

046 | Moment Maker Dads Part 1 (Carlos Whittaker) Dec 02, 2018

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Carlos Whittaker joins dadAWESOME for a 2-part interview to kick off the Moment Maker Dads theme for the month of December. This vulnerable conversation explores the power of words, living as a Great Commission reflecting family, the powerful example of his father and finding freedom through identifying lies hidden deep in our hearts.

Praying for a double portion of God's wisdom
Steeping our decisions in prayer
Staying true to who your children are
Breaking agreements with the enemy
The power of words
Jesus never prayed the problem. He Always prayed the promise.
The natural shifts of parenting seasons
Living as a great commission reflecting family
If we only look for Jesus in the serious then we're going to miss half of him
Medicating behaviors vs. core lies that we're believing as fathers
Stop trying to inspire your way out of sin. The only way to find freedom from these behaviors is to get to the root lie in your heart.

https://carloswhittaker.com/

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Kill The Spider

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Podcast Recommendation: Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Interview with Carlos Whittaker

CNLP 161: CARLOS WHITTAKER ON PORN, LOSING HIS FAMILY, HIDDEN SIN AND THE BATTLE BACK

045 | Moving Past Good Intentions to Intentional Living (Drew Shepp) Nov 24, 2018

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Drew Shepp joins dadAWESOME to discuss 10 action steps to move past good intentions to intentional living. This is part 4 of the November 2018 4-part Inside-Out Dad Life series.

"Good intentions will never take you anywhere you want to go. Only intentional living will get you the things you want in life." -John C. Maxwell

Ten Intentional Ways to Step Into This Inside-Out Dad Life:

Brotherhood: Do I have men in my life who I've given permission to challenge me and speak into my deeper issues?
- Here's a PDF called "Church In SPACE" from Pastor Peter Haas on tips on finding brotherhood.
Create Space To Listen and Reflect: Prayer retreat, life planning, slowing down to listen for God's voice.
- MN Multiple Day Retreat Center: Pacem In Terris
- MN Daytime Prayer House: The Blessing House
Self-Awareness - how are you wired? How do you best get recharged? Take a personality test. Know yourself.
Professional Christian Counseling
Deeper Learning on the topic of "Freedom & Forgiveness"
- Freedom Course (Church of the Highlands)
- Kill The Spider (Carlos Whittaker)
- Prayer Resolution (Immerse)
Deeper Learning on the topic of "Soul Care and Resting in God"
- Leading On Empty Refilling Your Tank and Renewing Your Passion Paperback (Wayne Cordeiro)
- "Our soul is like an inner stream of water, which gives strength, direction, and harmony to every other element of our life. When that stream is as it should be, we are constantly refreshed and exuberant in all we do because our soul itself is deeply rooted in the vastness of God and His kingdom." Dallas Willard
Deeper Learning on the topic of the "Father's Love"
- Spiritual Slavery to Sonship (Jack Frost)
Pray and Reflect on the topic of Counterfeit Affections:

- Passions
- Possessions
- Position
- Performance
- People
- Places
- Power

9. Seeking Forgiveness - Who have you closed off your heart to? Who do you need to seek forgiveness from?

10. Thankfulness Experiment - remove social media for 40 days and replace that time with writing 1 thank you letter every day for the 40-days.

The Power of Moments: Why Certain Experiences Have Extraordinary Impact (Chip and Dan Heath)

044 | Book Discussion: "Spiritual Slavery to Sonship" (Tyler Sevlie) Nov 18, 2018

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Tyler Sevlie joins dadAWESOME to discuss the monthly Inside-Out Dad Life theme through the book "Spiritual Slavery to Sonship".

Find Security, Freedom, and Acceptance by Resting in the Father's Love People are always looking for identity and acceptance. Sadly, the search often leads to wrong places, wrong people, and wrong messages about who they are. These restless journeys ultimately lead us to feeling frustrated, unloved, and unseen. The truth is you are already loved and accepted by your Heavenly Father! Transition from living in Spiritual Slavery to Sonship, as you:

experience Father God's love like never before—it stops being theology and becomes transformational encounter.
learn how to walk in peace, security, and rest—no matter what circumstances are against you.
break free from always feeling guilty, shameful, and condemned.
enjoy your spiritual inheritance as you walk in your true identity.

Drawing from Jack Frost's adventures as a seafaring boat captain and his everyday experiences with church and family, you will quickly find yourself in this story. Get ready to learn practical truths on how to root out lies about your identity and start living as a beloved child of God!

The Seven Counterfeit Affections:

Passions
Possessions
Position
Performance
People
Places
Power

Purchase Book: Original Version published in 2006 or the Expanded Edition published in 2016

Listen to the audiobook on Audible

Outline of the book from Tyler Sevlie: Chapter quotes and notes

Article: Slavery to Sonship >> Exposing the Roots of the Spiritual Orphan (Jack and Trisha Frost)

Article: From Slavery To Sonship Part 2 (Jack and Trisha Frost)

Appendix 1: Chart outlining HEART OF AN ORPHAN & HEART OF SONSHIP

043 | Inside-Out Dad Life Week 2 (Matt Keller) Nov 11, 2018

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Join Matt Keller for Part 2 as he dives deeper into Inside-Out Dad Life and inspires us to lead and parent from a full and vibrant heart.

Are there past pains or labels that you find yourself carrying into your parenting?
What excuses are disqualifying your ability to lead your family?
What are you afraid of and how close are you to burnout?

In this interview:

Tilling the soil of your heart
Your parenting comes where you came from
Words create worlds
Counselors are not for crazy people
Being alert to your excuses
Being the dad YOUR specific kids need

Questions for Time Alone With God:

What am I afraid of?
How Close am I to burnout?
Where do I feel like I'm winning?
Where do I feel like I'm struggling?
Where do I feel like I'm out of balance?
Am I over hobbying?
Am I under hobbying?
Am I under resting?
How Am I doing with my Sabbath Day?
How is my marriage?
How's my relationship with God?
How Am I doing at sitting in my Heavenly Fathers lap and just receiving from Him?

Books Mentioned:

Leading on Empty: Refilling Your Tank and Renewing Your Passion (Wayne Cordeiro)

God of the Underdogs: When the Odds Are Against You, God Is For You (Matt Keller)

The Key To Everything: Unlocking the Life You Dream of Living (Matt Keller)

Matt Keller is a people builder at his core. With more than twenty years in the people business, he is an authority on what it takes to build great teams and a great organization. Matt Keller is a Pastor, Author, Speaker and Leadership Coach. His insight on organizational and personal leadership helps businesses, nonprofits, and churches take their organizations to the next level.

Worship Song: Here As In Heaven (Max Nygren & Nick Foulks)

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042 | Inside-Out Dad Life Week 1 (Matt Keller) Nov 04, 2018

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What relationships are you fostering around your family?

Do other men have enough access to your parenting to encourage or challenge you?

What prayers are you constantly praying over your kids?

Join Matt Keller as he inspires dads to lead and parent from a full and vibrant heart.

In this interview:

Leading from a full heart
Examined experience is the best teacher
Who you do life with shapes who you become
Parenting out of past pain
Winning the first hour
The 0-6, 6-12, and 12-18 parenting zones

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041 | Forty Weeks of AWESOMENESS (part 2) Oct 28, 2018

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We're on our second week (here's the link for week 1) of looking back over the past 40 weeks of dadAWESOME. We'll once again highlight six short clips from the fathers that we interviewed. These are the 12 takeaways for this second round of Forty Weeks Of AWESOMENESS:

Challenging Our Kids To Do Hard Things (025 Patei Iyegha)
Loving People Through Action as a Family (025 Patei Iyegha)
In Life People Are Leaders and Followers… Becoming A Leader Gives You a Greater Place of Influence (023 Tim Burt)
I'm Not Going to be a Dad That Raises my Kids Between the Commercials (023 Tim Burt)
We Are Called to be Faithful, Not Successful (focus on character, not outward appearance) (030 Dave Adamson)
Unplug from Technology and Connect as a Family (030 Dave Adamson)
When you're Faithful, it Trickles Down to Your Grandkids and You Grandkids Grandkids (024 Shane Long)
Tell You Kids Stories that Inspire Courage, Strength and Faith In God (You have Something Better than a 300 foot Robot… you have a Heavenly Father who Created you and Loves You) (024 Shane Long)
You're Safe with Me. You're Loved no Matter What. You're Called and Capable. You're Responsible. (028 Jim Jackson)
My Surrender & The Peace of God that Transcends Understanding are Very Closely Connected (028 Jim Jackson)
Honoring is Not for Your Dad, It's For You. You Reap What You Sow. (022 Peter Haas)
Seeing our Kids Become Fully Alive to the Call of God on their Life. (022 Peter Haas)

040: Forty Weeks of AWESOMENESS (part 1) Oct 21, 2018

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This week we're looking back over the past 40 weeks of dadAWESOME and highlighting six short clips from the fathers that we interviewed. These are the 12 takeaways for this first edition of Forty Weeks Of AWESOMENESS.

1) The Powerful Voice Of Dad - Speaking Truth, Identity and Value (014 Nick Foulks)

2) Your Kids Real Father Is God - You Are Entrusted To Raise Therm For A Season (014 Nick Foulks)

3) What's Your Kids Job? (014 Nick Foulks) * My Job Is To Protect * My Job Is To Be Kind * My Job Is To Tell The Truth * My Job Is To Listen And Obey The First Time 4) Courageous Love - Let's Be The Fuel Pumps That Fill Others With Love (013 Ross Manders) 5) Never Give Up // Cheer For Each Other // Stay In The Fight (016 Danny Gutierrez) 6) Stay Amazed - with your wife, your kids, your church, you life (019 John Burns) 7) There Are Some "Only You" Roles. Only You Can Be There Daddy. Only You Can Be Her Husband (019 John Burns)

8) Get A Calendar And Put The Most Important Things On It - (and the most important things have NAMES) (019 John Burns)

9) Repeat After Me Truth Statements Of Identity (020 Mario Gonzalez-Mitchell)

10) Instilling Thankfulness Right Before Bedtime With Your Kids (020 Mario Gonzalez-Mitchell) 11) Seeing His Dad Reading His Bible & Praying Early In The Morning (021 Nate Gustafson) 12) Ask More Questions // Help Your Kids Discover Wisdom // Label The Behavior and Not the Child (021 Nate Gustafson)

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