Child of the Redwoods: Podcast

This is No Happy Meal: Why Montessori Is So Much More Than a Boxed Curriculum Jun 13, 2025

Montessori is not something you unwrap and serve. And most definitely doesn't include a plastic toy. So if you’ve tried it and felt like it didn’t “work", well -- friends -- you’re not alone—and the problem isn’t you or your child.

In this episode, we're sharing what actually makes Montessori work and why treating it like a boxed curriculum leads so many parents to confusion, frustration, and self-doubt.

Because Montessori isn’t fast food. It’s home cooking. And YOU are the chef.

Following the Child Doesn’t Mean Doing Nothing: The Montessori Power Hour Jun 06, 2025

Montessori is about following the child... right? Then why do so many of us feel completely lost when we try? In this episode, we're unpacking one of the biggest misconceptions in Montessori homeschooling: the idea that “following the child” means stepping back entirely. We get it! You’re trying so hard to respect your child’s independence and let them lead—but instead of feeling confident, you’re wondering if you’re doing enough. Or anything at all. Here’s the truth no one talks about enough: Montessori isn’t passive. It’s deeply intentional. Following the child doesn’t mean letting go of structure—it means creating it with purpose.

The #1 Skill That Will Make or Break Your Montessori Homeschool May 23, 2025

You can have all the Montessori knowledge. The shelf. The printables. The golden beads. But if you skip this one skill? Your homeschool won’t thrive.

In this episode, Aubrey and David reveal the most essential—and most overlooked—skill in Montessori homeschooling: observation. Not lesson planning. Not curriculum shopping. Observation.You’ll learn why focusing on how to teach matters more than what to teach. When you observe first and teach second, your homeschool shifts from chaos to clarity. You stop second-guessing. Your child feels seen. And every lesson lands exactly when they’re ready for it.

This is part 3 in our series on The Montessori Homeschool Blueprint.

Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Doing Montessori At Home May 15, 2025

Have you ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” with Montessori - buying the materials, setting up the shelves, giving lessons - yet it still doesn’t seem to work?

In this episode of Montessori Power Hour, Aubrey and David reveal the number one reason parents get stuck when trying Montessori at home. Spoiler: It’s not about your effort. It’s about missing the method!

Plus, we celebrate Earth Day with Mr. Bunny, sharing fun, Montessori-aligned nature activities your child will love.

Is My Child Ready for Montessori? Mar 22, 2024

As Montessorians, we believe the method has value for humans at every stage of life, starting at the earliest moments and continuing on until our final days. However, there are definitely periods when we are showing signs of readiness for something new. What are those signs? How do we know when our toddlers are ready to begin their journey with the Primary materials? Join Aubrey and David on YouTube as they explore this (very frequently asked) topic!

To learn more about our work, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Supporting Your Child's Sensitivity to Order Mar 15, 2024

Something strange happens in the Primary years that doesn't happen to us as adults, and it has to do with order. No, this is not the same thing as tidiness, so step aside Marie Kondo, although we share your love of containers for things that spark joy! Understanding the child's sensitivity to order is key, so join us for an episode all about how to engage your Primary child. Plus, we'll be featuring our stegosaurus plates activity from our Constellation theme Dinosaur!

To learn more about our work, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Heart Art: A Geometry Lesson Mar 08, 2024

In this episode, Aubrey and David talk about ways to make your Valentine's Day celebrations a little more Montessori. They also teach a simple -- yet enormously satisfying -- work that you can quickly pull out for your kids. It lends itself to Montessori scissor precision practice + geometrical explorations, and...the results are always amazing! Say hello to concentric hearts!

For more Montessori magic, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

A Rainbow of Hands On Activities Mar 02, 2024

Little brains learn MORE when little fingers are involved! Join us Live as we talk about hands-on learning that is inherent in Montessori. We'll discuss the 10 core subject areas that are featured in all of our programs, and we have an Awesome Lesson for you! We're going to give you a sneak peek into our latest theme Pigment and show you how a simple prism in your window can be a HUGE opportunity for learning.

For more about our work, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Who Am I? Using Mysteries as Teaching Tools Feb 16, 2024

Nothing invites a child to a lesson like a good old fashioned MYSTERY. In Montessori, this is actually a key teaching tool, and hands-down one of our favorites! Join us for a Live chat on YouTube (or watch the replay!) as we talk about how to incorporate more 🕵️ skills into your homeschool.

Find the Arachnid Mysteries right here in our theme WEB: https://childoftheredwoodsmembers.com/product/web-theme/ Learn more at ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Learn more at https://www.ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Snow Day Academics Feb 09, 2024

In this episode, Aubrey and David talk about how to beat the winter blues with some fun, seasonally-inspired lessons.

For more Montessori magic, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Let's Read The Secret of Childhood (Part 2) Jan 05, 2024

Join Aubrey and David as they discuss one of Maria Montessori's greatest works -- The Secret of Childhood! This is part 2 of 4 and covers chapters 8 to 17.

To learn more about our work, visit us online at www.ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Let's Read The Secret of Childhood (Part 1) Dec 22, 2023

Join Aubrey and David as they discuss one of Maria Montessori's greatest works -- The Secret of Childhood! This is part 1 of 4.

To learn more about our work, visit us online at www.ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Awesome Lessons: Sew Awesome Dec 15, 2023

In the modern world, most of us don't darn our socks because buying new ones is affordable - and because it seems daunting. But taking the time to teach your child basic sewing skills may have you rethinking your willingness to fix fabric rather than replace it by punching the buy button. With confident skills, your child will find sewing pleasant and extremely purposeful. And you only need a few materials to make it happen.

Join us for an awesome lesson on sewing. We'll be making a craft your child can gift to others or (if you celebrate) hang on their Christmas tree in the upcoming season.

Suggested follow-ups to this activity include the FOLK and CRAFT themes: https://childoftheredwoodsmembers.com/product-category/thematic-packs/

Learn more at https://www.ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Awesome Lessons: Magnetic vs NonMagnetic Dec 09, 2023

Wanna see a magic trick? Like a real deal one that can't be explained away? Get a magnet and join us on YouTube for a free Awesome Lesson! We'll show you how to teach this simple yet inherently mysterious concept.

More experiments with magnets can be found in the Constellation theme Magnetic: https://childoftheredwoodsmembers.com/product/magnetic-theme/

Learn more about our work at ChildoftheRedwoods.com

A (Not So) Spooky Montessori Dec 01, 2023

In this special Spooky Season episode, Aubrey and David talk about how to help Littles navigate a creepy crawly holiday and why less is almost always more.

Visit www.childoftheredwoods.com for free and low cost Montessori resources for your home.

Awesome Lessons: Timeline of Life Nov 17, 2023

Have you ever wondered what happens in Montessori Elementary schools? It's a lot of TIMELINE work. Today we are discussing a most awesome lesson that is a central part of our 1st-3rd grade Montessori curriculum: the Timeline of Life. There is an effective way to teach it and a not-so-effective way to teach it. We will show you how to give this lesson in a way that your child really, really gets the concept!

To learn more about our work, visit www.childoftheredwods.com

Awesome Lessons: Odd and Even Nov 10, 2023

One can be fun, but two is me & you! Teaching your child the difference between odd and even is a game you can play over and over in different ways. In this video, Aubrey and David discuss the classic Odd and Even lesson and a few fun variations.

Learn more about our work at www.childoftheredwoods.com

Awesome Lessons: Scissor Cutting Nov 03, 2023

In every child’s life, there comes a point at which they want to learn to…use scissors! While these common artistic tools may seem daunting, Aubrey and David are here to help you with a clear and concise sequence for all your scissor-skill needs! After this, your child should be ready to cut pretty much anything!

Find out more at https://www.childoftheredwoods.com

Awesome Lessons: Vowel Tree Oct 27, 2023

one of the most essential skills: blending consonants and vowels together to make words. Join Aubrey and David to learn how!

For more tips and lessons, check out our website: https://www.childoftheredwoods.com where you can get your very own Vowel Tree in our Shop: https://childoftheredwoodsmembers.com/product/vowel-tree/

Awesome Lessons: Land, Water and Air Oct 20, 2023

Land and water and air...it's the stuff our planet Earth is made of! This very popular lesson is simple and sometimes overlooked. Yet it is SO IMPORTANT because we are teaching a lot of concepts that build your child's core knowledge base for future connections across the curriculum. Come learn why - and how to give this awesome lesson to maximum effect.

Join Aubrey and David in a conversation about Land, Water, and Air!

Awesome Lessons: Alphabet Roll Oct 13, 2023

Now I know my ABC's...won't you please play a GAME with me? Singing the alphabet song, cute as it is, does not teach your child how to read. What does? Matching the initial sound of a word to the letter it is represented by!

The Alphabet Roll is a fun, intuitive way for your child to practice their sounds. Plus, it's a sequencing activity, which is great for cognitive development! Join us on YouTube to learn how to give this AWESOME reading lesson to your child at home. ...And now your child REALLY knows their ABC's! 🙌

And hey... do you want Authentic Montessori in your family’s life? Take our free quiz to find out which Child of the Redwoods program is right for you: https://www.childoftheredwoods.com/decide

Awesome Lessons: Gluing Oct 06, 2023

Don't get stuck! Join Aubrey and David as they discuss one of their favorite Montessori lessons -- How to Glue! They talk about how to give the lesson, what materials you'll need, and why it's so awesome! As always, remember to monitor your Littles when doing lessons that involve small objects, like the glue containers referenced in the Live.

To learn more about Child of the Redwoods, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Awesome Lessons: Living and Non-Living Sep 29, 2023

Living! Nonliving! Seems pretty simple, right? In actuality, this is the first concept covered in a traditional biology class, and it's not so straightforward! Come join Aubrey & David in a lively discussion as we show you how to give this classic, AWESOME Montessori lesson to your child.

Want more Montessori? Download our list of Montessori Essentials here: https://www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Episode Note: Unfortunately, YouTube Live crashed just before we wrapped the episode. You'll still get the full lesson, but things end rather suddenly.

Montessori Essentials:Globe Sep 22, 2023

You’ve got the whole world in your hands! Nothing brings to life the shape, size, and orientation of our planet quite like a physical globe. In this episode, Aubrey and David discuss what makes globes so essential, how Montessorians use them, and why digital versions just don’t cut it.

Globes are just one of Child of the Redwoods’ 21 essential Montessori materials. To download the full list, go to www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials.

Montessori Essentials: Geometry Sticks Sep 15, 2023

They’re colorful. They’re playful. They’re joyful. They’re… a geometry lesson?! It’s true! The study of Geometry in Montessori is as much about the art and beauty of shapes as it is the math, and nothing quite exemplifies that like the geometry sticks. Join Aubrey and David Live as they explore this often underappreciated but none the less amazing Montessori essential.

Geometry sticks are just one of our Montessori essentials. For a free printable version of the complete list, head over to www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials.

Montessori Had a Farm EIEIO Sep 08, 2023

Montessori had a....FARM?! Yes, she really did. She loved farms and all they had to offer children. She taught children the names of the animals, she encouraged children to work outside in the garden growing and harvesting food to eat, and she also used it - (I kid you not!) - for GRAMMAR lessons! Yup, a toy farm is a MONTESSORI ESSENTIAL. 😆 That's what we're talking about today in our Live on YouTube. Come join us!

For our entire list of 21 Essentials, head to www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Finding Your Calm Sep 01, 2023

Tantrums, bedtime power struggles, whining, frenetic hyperactivity! In our modern culture, we complain about parenting littles a LOT. And it's warranted! With all the unrealistic expectations we place on ourselves and our children? We are stressed -TF- out! No wonder we can't keep our cool. Fortunately, the Montessori method offers some blissful balms and soothing salves to ease you into a more peaceful way of life. Join Aubrey and David for a conversation about finding your calm...with Montessori as we spotlight Shweta, a member of our Montessori community.

Head over to childoftheredwoods.com/essentials to get our free downloadable copy of the 21 Montessori Essentials you should own.

Montessori Essentials: Nonfiction Books Aug 25, 2023

Books, books, books! You know your child needs them, but what kind is best? In this episode, David and Aubrey discuss why - and how - you should be using nonfiction books in your home with your children. In fact, nonfiction books are an essential material for a Montessori home!

Head over to childoftheredwoods.com/essentials to get our free downloadable copy of the 21 Montessori Essentials you should own.

Montessori Essentials: Small National Flags Aug 18, 2023

If we want to raise children who can one day not only understand the political conflicts between nations but also who can see both perspectives, we need to raise global citizens. In Montessori, we intentionally expose children to many cultures that are similar and different from theirs and infuse our lessons with positivity and compassion. One way we do this is by studying flags. In this episode, David and Aubrey explain why flags are included in our Montessori Essentials list and how to use them in your home.

Head over to www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials to get our free downloadable copy of the 21 Montessori Essentials you should own.

Family Vacation and Touring a Montessori School (Re-Release) Aug 11, 2023

In this episode, Aubrey and David talk about a recent family vacation that included a chance to tour a Montessori school. They also share tips for preparing little ones for a big trip.

For more Montessori and homeschooling guidance, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Understanding Unschooling with Valeria Aug 04, 2023

Is there such a thing as a Montessori...unschooler? You bet there is! In this episode, David and Aubrey give insights into why unschooling and Montessori are a great match for homeschooling and how you can get started with this approach in your own home.

Join Aubrey and David in a discussion about unschooling as they spotlight a member of their Montessori homeschooling community.

For more about Montessori and sign up for our free resources, please visit Child of the Redwoods at www.childoftheredwoods.com/free.

Montessori Essentials: Xylophone Jul 28, 2023

Every home needs a xylophone...or something like it! Teaching music to your child using the Montessori method can be intuitive, and you don't need to be a musician yourself to be successful. Join us as we deep-dive into the elusive Montessori Bells and make it much more accessible for modern families.

This is just one of our Montessori Essentials. Get our FREE list of 21 Essentials Montessori materials at www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Building A Solid Homeschooling Foundation Jul 21, 2023

Every home needs a foundation, and so does your homeSCHOOL. Our foundation is the Montessori method - but it's also embracing nature and our family's intentions. They all weave together to create the most beautiful beginning and reason for every lesson we teach our children. Join Aubrey and David in a conversation about how to create the best foundation for your child at home.

Learn more about our Primary and Lower Elementary courses at ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Presenting... The Pink Tower! (Re-Release) Jul 14, 2023

The pink tower is the first Montessori material that many parents invest in, and it remains the #1 symbol of Montessori education as a whole. But what is the best way to use it? Is it to be played with like any other set of blocks, or carefully carried and built in a specific manner?

Aubrey & David Hargis will discuss the benefits of this gorgeous Montessori material and give tips for presenting it to your child.

For more, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Teaching What's Necessary without Forcing Your Child (Re-Release) Jul 07, 2023

In this episode, Aubrey and David discuss how to teach what needs to be taught without forcing the child to learn what they’re not ready for. They also discuss the joy of ceramics for both kids and adults!

To learn more, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com

Montessori Essentials: The Colored Beads Jun 30, 2023

The colored beads are one of the most beloved materials in Montessori education, and they’re worth every bit of the praise. Join Aubrey and David as they explore the many, many, MANY wonderful qualities of the colored beads.

This is just one of our Montessori Essentials. Get our FREE list of 21 Essentials Montessori materials at www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Practical Life for the 21st Century featuring Kelly Alonz Jun 23, 2023

Maria Montessori developed her method for children with an emphasis on practical life activities before the invention of the television, and yet children are still called to the real, purposeful work that this subject area offers.

Modern parents, stressed by our fast-paced world and inundated with techy solutions for every possible problem typically look to children’s cartoons for support and entertainment. They bemoan how addictive screens are. However, practical life activities offer a nurturing and educational alternative to keeping little hands busy. Plus, they are addictive as well: in a good way!

Join Aubrey and David in a discussion about practical life in the modern age as they spotlight a member of their Montessori homeschooling community.

For more about Montessori and sign up for our free resources, please visit Child of the Redwoods at www.childoftheredwoods.com/free.

Montessori Essentials: The Skeleton In Your Closet: Montessori Bones Jun 16, 2023

It’s an investment most Montessori families have zero regret over: a skeleton model of the human body. Why? Because teaching your child the names of BONES is so much freaking fun! Join Aubrey and David as they talk about the unexpected delights of having a literal skeleton in your closet to bring out for Montessori anatomy lessons.

This is just one of our Montessori Essentials. Get our FREE list of 21 Essentials Montessori materials at www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Geometric Cabinet: A Box of Wonders Jun 09, 2023

Shapes are all around us, and when we look through our 2-D imaginary glasses… Your dining table is probably a square, rectangle, ellipse, or circle. Your bookshelf is probably a series of rectangles that makes a larger rectangle. Your windows could be rectangles made up of a bunch of squares. Your rug might be an ellipse. We could keep going on and on! By introducing the shapes in a geometric cabinet (one of our 21 Montessori Essentials!), your child could not only learn their shapes…they grow their brains!

Find the whole list here: www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Children are NOT Empty Vessels featuring Kayla Jun 02, 2023

Maria Montessori warned teachers and parents not to think of children as empty vessels to be filled or molded. No Indeed! Children are born with an incredible ability to self-educate and learn! The adult's responsibility is, instead, to create a supportive environment, observe their work, and let their insatiable curiosity lead the way. The principle is fundamental to Montessori's work, but even more than a century after she first formulated it, the idea remains as controversial as it is misunderstood. Join Aubrey and David as they talk about how to strike the balance between guidance and control.

For more about Montessori and sign up for our free resources, please visit Child of the Redwoods at www.childoftheredwoods.com/free.

Not Your Grandma’s Grammar: The Montessori Grammar Symbols May 26, 2023

If you were raised in a traditional school system, you probably remember grammar worksheets. Circle the verbs. Count the adjectives. Zzzzzzz….SNORE! In Montessori, we make Grammar come alive with silly pantomime games, cool metaphors, and the fabulous grammar symbols. Come learn a better way to teach grammar to kids at any age!

The grammar symbols are a Montessori essential in our book. Get the full list of essentials on our website at www.ChildoftheRedwoods.com/essentials

The Perfect Art Supplies May 05, 2023

A Montessori homeschool without a good art supply is really missing out on a lot of crafty fun! Not only can you DIY your own materials, art is a perfect pathway to a million practical life activities that strengthen your child’s fine motor skills.

Are you ready to fill the PERFECT art cabinet? Join us as we give tips and tricks for gathering the right art supplies for your Montessori homeschool. Art supplies are just one of our Montessori Essentials. Get our FREE list of 21 Essentials Montessori materials at www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Balancing Work and Homeschooling featuring Stacy Apr 28, 2023

Homeschooling can become a BIG part of your life, so how do people who are working part-time or even full-time manage to do both? In this episode, Aubrey and David talk about balancing work and homeschooling and explore how one of their members, Stacy, manages her own balancing act.

Want more Authentic Montessori in your family’s life? Take our free quiz to find out which Child of the Redwoods program is right for you: www.childoftheredwoods.com/decide

Montessori Essentials: Linear Calendars Let Us See Time! Apr 14, 2023

Linear calendars are a wonderful way of helping kids "see" how time passes. Unlike traditional calendars, which lay out the days in a grid, linear calendars let us STREEETCH the whole month out in a single row (aka, linearly). Just add events and, viola', Montessori Magic! Join Aubrey and David as they discuss linear calendars in all their timely glory.

Linear calendars are just one of our essential Montessori materials. Want a list of all? Download your own FREE copy at https://www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Montessori Essentials: The Power of Plants Apr 07, 2023

From the humblest of materials can come the greatest of lessons. Case in point – the houseplant! There are more incredible Montessori lessons centered around a single plant than you can shake a stick at. Join David and Aubrey as they run down the many, many reasons why plants have rooted themselves in their Montessori Essentials list.

Want a copy of our entire 21 essential Montessori materials? Download your own FREE copy of our full list of Montessori Essentials at https://www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

All Weather Play Mar 31, 2023

Rain or shine. Wind or snow. There's always a way to play! Join Aubrey and David as they discuss ways to make sure your little ones get their daily dose of exercise, gross motor skill, and fun no matter the season. They'll also share a peek into the daily life of an amazing Montessori family!

Want Authentic Montessori in your family’s life? Take our free quiz to find out which Child of the Redwoods program is right for you: www.childoftheredwoods.com/decide

Montessori Essentials: Moveable Alphabet Mar 24, 2023

Teach your child to WRITE before they learn to READ. Here's how. Everyone wants to teach their child to read. Literacy is a crucial life skill! But how? ...in 100 easy lessons? ...with baby flashcards? ...apps or an online subscription?

Don't buy the hype. Maria Montessori discovered a learning-to-read strategy that works for just about every child in just about every language, and it involves a simple, easily DIY-able material: the moveable alphabet. But first, you need to understand that before we can teach reading, we must first teach WRITING. On YouTube Live today, David and I will discuss how to use a movable alphabet (one of our 21 Essential Materials) and how to easily incorporate one into your daily life. Everyone is welcome!

The Moveable Alphabet is just one of the 21 essential Montessori materials we love. Download your own FREE copy of our full list of Montessori Essentials at https://www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Montessori Essentials: Behold! The Mighty Scrubber! Mar 17, 2023

Not every Montessori material calls to every child. This is one reason why there are so many materials in a classroom. Every child gets to choose the work that makes their heart sing. But as a homeschool mama and a classroom teacher, there is one material that is almost sure to be a huge winner at some point in a child's life: the humble (and mighty!) scrubber.

Scrubbers are just one of the 21 essential Montessori materials we love. Download your own FREE copy of our full list of Montessori Essentials at https://www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Getting the Most Out of Your Montessori Materials with Meaghan Mar 10, 2023

Sometimes materials sit on the shelves for a while, and while initially interesting, they can start feeling stale. What’s a Montessori parent to do?! Aubrey & David will illuminate this common issue while sharing a snapshot into the daily life of a Montessori family.

Get our list of 21 Essential Montessori materials here: www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

Take our quiz to find out which Child of the Redwoods program is right for you: www.childoftheredwoods.com/decide

Geometric Solids: Playing with Shapes Is Fun! Mar 03, 2023

The geometric solids are a Montessori Essential in our book! They not only give children a concrete impression of 3D shapes, they open up the door to understanding their world in a new way! Everyone is welcome - this is a free 30 minute event, so invite your friends!

Geometric solids are just one of the 21 essential Montessori materials we love. Download your own FREE copy of our full list of Montessori Essentials at https://www.childoftheredwoods.com/essentials

No Shelves? No Problem! with Adri Feb 24, 2023

We've all seen those perfect Montessori shelves on social media, but do you really need them to "do Montessori"? Spoiler Alert -- You Don't! Join Aubrey and David as they discuss strategies for shelving solutions for EVERY BUDGET! They'll also highlight a real-life Montessori parent and Child of the Redwoods alum Adriana!

To learn more about our work and get our free resources, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

These Montessori Beads are Golden Treasures Feb 17, 2023

Golden beads are a staple for Montessori families! They’re easily DIY-able, and easy to grab when you do addition, subtraction, multiplication, or division with your child. They are truly treasures, and Aubrey and David can’t wait to talk about why they are a Montessori Essential.

To learn more about our work and get our free resources, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Hands-On Learning is Montessori Learning Feb 10, 2023

Playdough, homemade salt dough, or anything else moldable lets your kids create their own topographical maps and explore how these features appear on the earth. There are so many ways we can use a moldable medium to teach physical science! In this episode, Aubrey and David discuss why this childhood staple is actually a brilliant material.

To learn more about our work and get our free resources, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Gathering the Tools to Navigate the World of Parenting with Gina Jan 21, 2023

How do you become a more conscious, respectful, and peaceful parent? It doesn't "just happen"! You need a good set of tools, friends. Sometimes you need a phillips head screwdriver, and sometimes you need a flat head. It's the same with parenting. One singular approach will NOT fit all situations. Aubrey and David discuss the tools they used to navigate the world of parenting together and highlight a real-life Montessori parent and alum of Primary: Gina!

Sandpaper Letters Make Teaching Reading Easier Jan 14, 2023

The sandpaper letters Maria Montessori used in her early classrooms offered children a way to make learning to read and write with a tactile experience.

Science backs this! Hands-on-learning is an essential component of early childhood education, and you can use this technique at home to teach your own child to read - with or without a real set of sandpaper letters!

Learn more at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Perfectly Practical: Why a Pitcher is a Montessori Staple Jan 10, 2023

It’s simple. It’s probably already in your home. And it’s a Montessori classic! It’s the humble pitcher. Aubrey and David Hargis talk about how to use it, what kinds are best, and why kids love using them so darn much!

For more, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com

What If My Partner Hasn’t Totally Bought In with Caitlin Dec 23, 2022

The Montessori lifestyle is amazing, but adopting it can be a stretch for some. What happens when not everyone in the house is equally onboard? How do you help convince your partner to give it a chance? What principles are okay to compromise on and which are absolutes?

In this episode, Aubrey and David discuss this often asked question. Big thanks to Child of the Redwoods member Caitlin for sharing her story and questions.

Fear of Spooky Things Nov 12, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David discuss ways to help your kids handle scary things.

For more Montessori and parenting guidance, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Does Playing with Your Kids Make Them More Obedient? Oct 26, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David discuss a recent article about how playing with your kids for five minutes a day can result in better behavior. They explore what the article gets right -- and wrong.

For more Montessori and parenting guidance, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

A Three Day Lesson Schedule with Leticia Oct 20, 2022

Meet Leticia, a homeschooling mom of 2 from Virginia, United States. She’s an alumna of both Homeschool of the Redwoods Primary.

To learn more, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Becoming a Homeschooler with Gloria Oct 04, 2022

In this episode, we meet Gloria, a mom of two from South Carolina. We explore her journey from classroom teacher to homeschooler, her discovery of the magic of Montessori, and getting everyone in the home involved.

For more, join us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Helping Kids Develop Strong Social Skills Sep 27, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David discuss how to help kids build healthy social skills and what Montessori can teach us about the work.

For more Montessori and homeschooling guidance, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Embracing Imperfection with Libby Sep 21, 2022

In this episode, we meet Libby, a homeschooling mom of one from Michigan, USA. They talk about Libby's journey with Montessori, embracing imperfection, and why patience is a virtue. For more, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Helping Kids Develop a Growth Mindset and Embrace Mistakes Sep 13, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David discuss how to help kids handle adversity, embrace mistakes, and develop a growth mindset!

For more Montessori and homeschooling guidance, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

It’s a Montessori Life with Rachel Sep 06, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey meets Rachel, a Montessori parent of two from Seattle, USA. They talk about Rachel's journey to Montessori, the importance of respecting children, and why the second plane shouldn't sound scary.

For more, visit us at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Knowing When Your Child's Ready for More Aug 30, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David talk about how to know when your child is ready for more - more lessons! More academics! More from YOU! They also discuss ways to celebrate the start of a new (home)school year.

For more Montessori and homeschooling guidance, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Appreciating Neurodivergence with Chris Aug 09, 2022

In this episode, we meet Chris, a Montessori parent of one from Colorado, USA. Chris talks about her Montessori journey and the experiences of using the Montessori method with a neurodivergent child.

For more about Montessori, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

How Early Is too Early for Academics? Aug 02, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David talk about academic expectations for kids - what's appropriate and for what ages? They also discuss their steps for preparing for the upcoming school year.

For more tips and strategies, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Preparation for Life with Tansy Jul 26, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey meets Tansy, a Montessori parent of two from Seoul, South Korea.

Practice for the Teacher Jul 19, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey discusses strategies homeschool parents can use when trying to master new Montessori lessons and materials. She also explores the meaning behind "education is a journey we take with our children."

For more from Child of the Redwoods, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Motivating Reluctant Learners With Lauren Jul 12, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey interviews Lauren, a Montessori parent of 3 from Toronto, Canada. They explore how to address child motivation in a Montessori way and why knowing the Montessori fundamentals is so beneficial to homeschooling parents.

Please join us at www.childoftheredwoods.com for more!

What Are the Planes of Development? Jul 05, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David discuss the amazing planes of development - what they are, what they mean, and what they look like in children. They also discuss why it's vital that adults challenge their often low expectations about what children can tackle.

For more tips and strategies, visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com

Camping with Young Children Jun 28, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey shares tips and ideas for camping with young children.

For more parenting and homeschooling tips, please visit us online at www.childoftheredwoods.com.

The Child is the Teacher Book Study, Part 5 Jun 21, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David finish their discussion of Cristina de Stefano new Maria Montessori biography, The Child is the Teacher.

This episode is a rebroadcast of the June 16 YouTube Live. Aubrey and David go live on YouTube every other Thursday at noon Pacific. To join in live or watch the replays, head over to the Child of the Redwoods YouTube channel.

Confidence with Season Jun 14, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey interviews Season, a Montessori parent of three living in the San Francisco Bay Area. They explore how applying the Montessori method as a parent at home is different than in a classroom. Aubrey also discusses parental confidence.

You can read more about Season at our website: www.ChildoftheRedwoods.com

The Child is the Teacher Book Study, Part 4 Jun 07, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David continue their discussion of Cristina de Stefano new Maria Montessori biography, The Child is the Teacher. They also discuss how homeschool families can balance between freedom and academic expectations.

This episode is a rebroadcast of the June 2 YouTube Live. Aubrey and David go live on YouTube every other Thursday at noon Pacific. To join in live or watch the replays, head over to the Child of the Redwoods YouTube channel.

Quality Time with Jaki May 31, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey interviews Jaki, a Montessori parent living in Indiana, USA. They dig into how to handle parental guilty about not spending enough time with our children and how to sprinkle in lessons when you feel like it’s hard to get everything in. We’ll also talk about what Montessori is like in Middle School and High School.

You can read more about Jaki at our website: www.ChildoftheRedwoods.com

The Child is the Teacher Book Study, Part 3 May 24, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David continue their discussion of Cristina de Stefano new Maria Montessori biography, The Child is the Teacher. They also discuss why it’s a mistake to think of Practical Life as a subject only for little ones.

This episode is a rebroadcast of the May 19 YouTube Live. Aubrey and David go live on YouTube every other Thursday at noon Pacific. To join in live or watch the replays, head over to the Child of the Redwoods YouTube channel.

Shared Passions with Laura May 17, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey interviews Laura, a Montessori parent living in Chicago, USA. They discuss what it's like to be a family using part-time school/part-time homeschooling approach and how the merger of their and their partner's interests influences the kind of work their child is often engaged in.

You can read more about Laura at our website: www.ChildoftheRedwoods.com

The Child is the Teacher Book Study, Part 2 May 10, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David continue their discussion of Cristina de Stefano new Maria Montessori biography, The Child is the Teacher. They also discuss the power of modeling with your children.

This episode is a rebroadcast of the May 5 Youtube Live. Aubrey and David go live on YouTube every other Thursday at noon Pacific. To join in live or watch the replays, head over to the Child of the Redwoods YouTube channel.

The Montessori Magic is You with Jerrica May 03, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey interviews Jer, a homeschooling mom of 2 from British Columbia, Canada. Aubrey explores Jer's life and routine as a parent and the magical everyday experiences Montessori invites.

The Child is the Teacher Book Study, Part 1 Apr 26, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey and David discuss the first part of Cristina de Stefano's excellent new biography of Maria Montessori, The Child is the Teacher. They also talk about a great new addition to their homeschooling - a miniature map cabinet - and how to use it with kids of all ages.

This episode is a rebroadcast of the April 19 Youtube Live. Aubrey and David go live on YouTube every other Thursday at noon Pacific. To join in live or watch the replays, head over to the Child of the Redwoods YouTube channel.

The Importance of Movement with Alex Apr 19, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey interviews Alex, a stay at home mom of a toddler and a preschooler living in Texas. Alex's background in psychology and a passion for learning gives her a unique perspective on - and admiration for - Montessori.

You can read more about Alex at our website: www.ChildoftheRedwoods.com

The End of Life is a Curious Thing Apr 12, 2022

In this audio-only replay from the April 7 episode of Child of the Redwoods: Live, Aubrey and David talk about letting their youngest child go to sleep away camp and how doing brave things - both for the child and parent - is important. They then talk about how to discuss the end of life with children of various ages.

Child of the Redwoods: Live is a biweekly show hosted through YouTube where Aubrey and David discuss homeschooling, Montessori, and parenthood. You can watch the replays or join live on the Child of the Redwoods YouTube channel.

A Smooth Weekly Rhythm with Emma Apr 05, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey talks about one of the joys of spring - new butterflies!. She then interviews Emma, mum, wife, teacher and home educator from the UK. You can read more from Anna on our website - www.childoftheredwoods.com.

We Should Talk about Bruno... and Montessori Mar 29, 2022

In this audio-only replay from the March 24 episode of Child of the Redwoods: Live, Aubrey and David talk about their new favorite family film, Encanto, and what each of the characters shows us about childhood. They also discuss the power of spring cleaning and a child's pride of ownership

Child of the Redwoods: Live is a biweekly show hosted through YouTube where Aubrey and David discuss homeschooling, Montessori, and parenthood. You can watch the replays or join live on the Child of the Redwoods YouTube channel.

Montessori Opened My Eyes with Joanna Mar 22, 2022

In this episode, Aubrey opens with a discussion of the spring equinox's special place in Montessori education. She then interviews long-time Montessori homeschooler Joanna, who shares many wonderful insights. You can read more from Joanna on our website - www.childoftheredwoods.com.

Is Montessori Elitist - LIVE Replay Mar 14, 2022

In this audio-only replay from the March 10 episode of Child of the Redwoods: Live, Aubrey and David discuss a recent article in the New Yorker about Montessori's relationship with the wealthy and powerful. They also discuss the importance of routine and self care.

Child of the Redwoods: Live is a biweekly show hosted through YouTube where Aubrey and David discuss homeschooling, Montessori, and parenthood. You can watch the replays or join live on the Child of the Redwoods YouTube channel.

The Importance of Rest Mar 08, 2022

Sometimes, you just need to disconnect for a while. Taking time to rest and recharge is vital... and completely acceptable! In this episode, Aubrey talks about the podcast hiatus and how self-care should not be ignored.

Teachable Moments with David Hargis Sep 07, 2021

Today we're talking about the new lower elementary program, why subjects are like a painter's palette, and how to capitalize on those special teachable moments with your child. Visit ChildoftheRedwoods.com to learn more.

Bathroom Schoolin' Aug 31, 2021

Any room can be a place for learning - even the bathroom. In this episode, we're explore what bathroom learning looks like for toddlers, preschoolers, and elementary aged kids.

Can We Stay In Bed All Day? Aug 24, 2021

Today we're talking about how the bedroom became one of the most unexpected places in our house to Montessori homeschool.

Your Montessori Living Room Aug 17, 2021

Today, we're talking about the quintessential Montessori playroom, which if you have been anywhere near social media, you may already have an image in your head of what it is “supposed to” look like, but today we are getting raw and real. We're talking to you about my own experiences, shifting from thinking of myself as just a stay-at-home mom into thinking of myself as a home educator of my children, and what I did to my own house to change it up and prepare it for that experience.

The Iconic Dining Room Table Aug 10, 2021

We’re continuing our mini-series focused on your Montessori prepared home. In this episode, we’re exploring the concept of the the dining table as a classroom.

Your Kitchen Is a Classroom! Aug 03, 2021

In this episode, we’re kicking off a mini-series focused on your Montessori prepared home. We're going room by room starting this week with the kitchen.
Find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Your Own Little Schoolhouse Jul 27, 2021

Have you ever looked at a picture of a little one-room schoolhouse and sighed with dreamy faux nostalgia at the sheer adorableness? Samesies! In this episode, we learn from the metaphor of such an intimate learning environment from the perspective of Montessori homeschooling.
Find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Too Young for School? Jul 20, 2021

In this episode, we're talking about whether your child is too young for school, or if it's exactly the right time for school.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Five Ways to Make Kid Outings Easier Jun 08, 2021

Getting out with the kids can be exhausting. In this episode, we'll discuss five strategies for making things a bit smoother.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Silly & Singing with a Homeschooled Kid Jun 01, 2021

This episode is a little bit special! Thanks to a listener request, I interviewed my almost 11 year old youngest on the podcast today. In this episode, we talk about homeschooling + there’s potty humor + it’s like a little peek into our super silly, singing lives.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Surviving Meltdowns May 25, 2021

Tantrums are nothing to be afraid of, and they have a pretty simple solution. Stay calm and compassionate, The caveat is if they receive a lot of positive feedback, it can encourage the child to tantrum more. In this episode, we’re exploring how to find the right balance.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Nature Journaling May 11, 2021

A nature journal is a simple but wonderful learning experience that's as great for traditional classrooms as it is for homeschoolers. Nature journals help children keep track of what they observe in nature and get more in tune with their learning as they explore the great outdoors. Let's explore how to bring these amazing tools to life for you family!

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

The Good Kind of Busy Work May 04, 2021

One of the reasons our family decided to homeschool was because there is just a lot of busy work in traditional schooling. We knew homeschooling would be a chance for us all to LIVE and learn together — practically, purposefully, and skipping all that busy work. In this episode, we're talking about busy work - what it is, how to identify it, and why you don't want it in your homeschool.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Teaching Life Cycles Apr 27, 2021

Children are FASCINATED by the life cycles of other creatures. When does something become alive? What about something living that isn't living now... what is it? These probing thoughts enter the child’s mind as they transition from the period of the unconscious absorbent mind to a consciously absorbent mind around age 3. In this week's episode, we'll talk about how to guide our little ones through this sensitive period.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

How to Handle Hitting Apr 20, 2021

Maria Montessori felt like all children's vices could be cured by work. That said, Maria was definitely talking about neurotypical children. There are children who walk to the beat of a different drum. As parents, it can be difficult because we want our children to be themselves and ALSO to feel comfortable in conjunction with greater society. In this episode, we're going to explore how to find the balance in difficult situations.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Pets For Practical Life Apr 13, 2021

Rover, come on over! You can teach your child practical life skills, responsibility, and biology all with your pet. And if you live in a no-pets-allowed rental situation like I do, don't worry - I promise you're not left out of these Montessori lessons.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

The Young Entrepreneur Apr 05, 2021

As homeschoolers, we can nurture our children's creativity and divergent thinking in the way that schools find often find difficult to do. Hold onto your seats because I'm about to tell you a story about how flies became the inspiration for my children's first business venture.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Poetry Teatime Isn't Just a Charlotte Mason Thing Mar 30, 2021

Tea parties + literature have always been a staple in our homeschool, but it wasn't until years later that I learned it was popular in the Charlotte Mason community of homeschoolers. As a Montessorian, I can tell you: this is a good ritual to add to your rhythm and routine no matter what core philosophy you follow!

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Eat a Montessori Lesson Mar 23, 2021

Botany is something you can study at your kitchen table OR in a garden outdoors. Getting kids involved in knowing where their food comes from by engaging the senses is a Montessori lesson every family can easily teach. Here's how.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Please Don't Make Your Child Share Mar 16, 2021

Sharing is caring, the popular phrase goes. Unfortunately, when it comes to children, this couldn't be further from the truth. If you want your child to learn how to share, spontaneously and from the heart, start with teaching them how to respect their own interests and desires.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Yes, Your Child Needs to Learn How to Sew Mar 09, 2021

Someday your child is going to get a hole in a sock. Then, his eyes will get bright and those happy, rosy cheeks will appear. "I know what to do," he'll say with enthusiasm, "Just let me get the needle and some thread!"

Teaching your child to sew is really not so hard, so don't be intimidated. It's also a skill that has long-lasting educational benefits. In Montessori, sewing is part of our practical life curriculum. Let's talk about how to get started.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

How We Taught Our Kids to Hike Mar 02, 2021

It becomes clearer every day the responsibility we have to be stewards of the earth; and clearer still that we have a responsibility to teach our children to love and care for the earth, as well. In this episode, we’re discussing how we can foster that lifelong love of the earth.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

I Can Get Dressed Myself! Feb 23, 2021

When WILL my child dress themselves, and how do I teach them? This is a question that you may ponder to yourself OFTEN, especially if you are in a place with wintery weather, where packing on all those layers can feel like an olympic sport!

The truth of the matter is, with lots of patience and PLENTY of opportunity for observation and exploration, children will learn to dress all on their own...exactly when they are ready.

Let's talk about how to help your child learn how to fully get dressed on their own.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Your Child Is Not Listening and Neither Are You Feb 16, 2021

We raise these precious babies who are dependent upon us for everything, and hang on our every word. Then, one day their willpower and desire appear in full force--and either they are DIRECTLY ignoring what you say, or unintentionally.

Either way, having conversations with them and moving through the day can feel impossible. So, what do you do when children just won’t listen? Let’s talk about what that phrase really means, about what the root cause of the behavior could really be, and about how you can support them...and yourself.

You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

Love,
Aubrey

Sourdough: A Lesson in Patience! Feb 09, 2021

BREAD. Many people find the notion of making their own intimidating: the time, the mess, the rise! What if I told you that making bread is actually just a bit of child’s play and a lot of patience?
Homemade bread is an important part of our family rhythm and ritual, and it has been since my children were little--and while it may not become so integral in your days, it is certainly an experiment worth undertaking with your child!
Take a deep breath and dive with me into the fun chemistry and artistry that is baking sourdough bread.

Show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Play and Learn: The Intersection of Montessori and Gameschooling Feb 02, 2021

People tell me all the time: “Aubrey, my child only wants to play!” There is so much room for play in Montessori—in fact, Maria said “Play is the work of the child.” Did you know that there is ALSO an entire learning methodology that utilizes that drive to play to support a child’s education? Whether you’re reinforcing math skills, encouraging a reluctant reader to practice, or working on skills of cooperation and competition, Gameschooling likely has something to offer your homeschool.
Show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Solid, Liquid, & Gas: An Experiment for Every Age and Stage Jan 26, 2021

Our topic for today is a classic Montessori science experiment: solid, liquid, and gas. Discovering the states of matter is something every child can do with a supervising adult. Here's some Montesssori inspiration for you, homeschoolers!
Show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

The Child Who Won't Apologize Jan 19, 2021

What DO you do with the child who does exactly what you told them not to and refuses to appear apologetic?
How do you deal with their pursed lips, hands-on-hips, or outright giggles? Do your as your ears steam? Do you want to scream?
Let's get you a plan of action, mama! Find the show notes to this episode at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Paper Snowflake Cutting for Curious Children Jan 12, 2021

Today I am highlighting an activity you can do at home any time of year but particularly when the air is chilly and your minds are dreaming of freshly fallen snow: cutting snowflakes!
Let's learn some cool facts about snowflakes you can teach your kids and deep dive into the art and history of "kirigami".
Show notes can be found at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

It's Safe to Change Your Homeschool Routine Jan 05, 2021

Are you still looking for that perfect Montessori homeschool routine? Me, too - and I've been doing this for 13 years! Good thing I don't believe in "perfect"....but I can tell you that changing up your routine now and then is good for you AND your children.

Show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com!
If you need help thinking about your routine and curriculum areas, I have a homeschooler planner that you can download for free.
Love,
Aubrey

Gratitude for 2020 + an Invitation Dec 08, 2020

2020 gave us all quite a ride, but if you're listening YOU'RE STILL HERE! We are still on an official podcast break through the end of the year, but I have a holiday gift for you inside this episode. Go here to get it: www.childoftheredwoods.com/bedtime
I also spend some time finding gratitude for 2020 and celebrate my strengths - and as you listen, I hope you are inspired to do this as well.
Love,
Aubrey

M is for Montessori Nov 03, 2020

Today, I’m sharing an acrostic poem with you all about Montessori. An acrostic poem is a classic poetry style which you MAY remember from your own elementary days! To make an acrostic poem, you take a word, and then assign a word to each of its letters. Let's have some Montessori fun!
Show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

The Greatest Montessori Lessons in the World Oct 20, 2020

Where did we come from? What's the universe made of? Why does the capital letter A look like a triangle? Who invented numbers?
The Montessori elementary curriculum is absolutely incredible. Once you hear about these great lessons, I bet you'll want to know more.

Show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com as usual!
Love,
Aubrey

A Funky Word, Explained: Normalization Oct 13, 2020

This Montessori term trips up even the most experienced guide because there is SO MUCH to unpack. What does normalization feel like in the Montessori classroom? Why did Maria keep pressing us on the importance of this normalization thing? And ugh - the word itself is so weird. How does one make a child NORMAL ANYWAY?
Sit down. It's time for us to have a chat.
Show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.çom
Love,
Aubrey

Transitioning Into the Second Plane (Elementary) Oct 06, 2020

If Montessori is not brand new to you, you might be wondering: could my child be entering the second plane a little early and be ready for the elementary curriculum?
In this episode, we dive into some key characteristics of that second plane child. Once you know the signs, this transition is unmistakable!
Find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Is it Montessori or Just A Bunch of Monte-nonsense? Sep 29, 2020

Is it Montessori? Or is it a lot of Monte-nonsense?! After studying the Montessori materials, both originally-created AND traditional, for decades, I'm giving you my top tips for identifying the products that are not true to the Montessori method.
From concrete materials to printables, get ready for some red flags! Show notes are at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

How Talking Animals in Stories Benefit Us and Our Children Sep 22, 2020

Montessorians, take note. I feel very strongly about this, and you might not like hearing it, but I'm going to say it anyway.
Waiting until the second plane to introduce talking animals and other aspects of anthropomorphism is 𝘵𝘰𝘰 𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘦. In this episode, I am making the case that excluding our youngest children from our deepest, most meaningful traditions is at best a privileged point of view and at worst - fails to provide a rich part of the environment that stokes fire in every human soul and leaves long-lasting emotional impressions that are needed later on in adult life.
Find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

The Montessori Printable: Friend or Foe for Homeschoolers? Sep 15, 2020

if I had a dime for every time a mom wrote me and said she was feeling overwhelmed by all the cutting and laminating - or that she was feeling resentful that her children only did such & such parts cards one time, well...you get the point.

The thing is, there are certain children who cannot get enough pictures to classify and moms who really, really love their laminators, but it's not necessarily a must in Montessori.

In this episode, we're talking about what the most common Montessori printables include and some tips for using them (or skipping them) in your Montessori homeschool.
You can find the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Deconstructing the Destructive Child Sep 08, 2020

Does your child tear paper? Peel covers off or even entire pages out of books? Kick the wall so hard the drywall crumbles? Throw a dish across the room?
I've seen all of this, and it doesn't scare me. It means the child is having some pretty intense emotions and developmental urges. In this episode, we get right into the thick of it from the Montessori perspective!
Show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

A Mealtime With Kids That Doesn't Make You Want to Cry Sep 01, 2020

Do you dread mealtimes with your children? Don't feel badly! Children are just learning socially appropriate behavior, and until they are are all grown up, they may be prone to poking each other, spitting, spilling liquids, flinging food onto the floor, giggling excesssively, or even bickering at the dinner table. Thank goodness the Montessori method is here to help! Show notes w/tips are on my website at ChildoftheRedwoods.com Love, Aubrey

Wait...Is Homeschooling Even Legal? - with Caitlyn Obolsky Aug 25, 2020

If you're new to homeschooling or considering it for your child's future, you might be wondering about the legal aspects. Is it legal in your country? What would you do if someone questioned you about it or tried to report you?
My friend Caitlyn Obolsky is a lawyer and homeschooling advocate, and she is here to tell her own "deciding to homeschool" story and give us a little legal insight.

My Toddler Just Isn't Into Montessori Aug 18, 2020

Toddlers are fun, mischievous little creatures! They have an agenda all their own. When we try to intervene, they don't always go along with it!

Thus, we have a common conundrum. How does one get a toddler to do Montessori activities? And if not those, what should a toddler be doing all day?
Show notes available at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Love the Child You Have Aug 11, 2020

If only our sunny-faced toddlers could stay that way! Unfortunately, all children grow up, and some go through emotional rollercoasters that can really take us aback.
In this episode, a mama asks what to do with her unhappy 4 year old, who seems to have changed personalities recently, and we strategize.
Love,
Aubrey

Your Homeschooling Pod is Waiting for You Jul 28, 2020

Podding up with other homeschoolers isn't just a way to survive a pandemic while giving your children a solid education; it's the way homeschooling works effectively for many parents around the world.
In this episode, I'll share my own experiences with pods, or "co-ops" as we homeschoolers call them, and give you some starter points for forming your own.
Download my Brand New Homeschooler's Magical Adventure guide for an introduction to homeschooling at ChildoftheRedwoods.com in the show notes of this episode.
Love,
Aubrey

Of Course Children Can Learn to Put Their Toys Away Jul 21, 2020

Children are messy. Getting them to clean up can be a headache! But guess what? Your little children CAN learn to put away their toys, tidy up around the house, and do household chores. And you don't even have to sing a cheesy clean up song to get them to do it.
Come join me in a chat about the Montessori way to clean up.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. This episode comes with a free checklist of No Cost Ways to Make Your Home More Child-Centered. Download it in the show notes of this episode at ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Making Sure Your Homeschooled Child Doesn't Fall Behind Jul 14, 2020

One of the great challenges of homeschooling is assuaging the worry that your child might fall behind their grade-level peers.

I get it! After 10 years of official homeschooling, I can tell you that this general fear is not just put upon you by your own fretting mind: it's a societal problem. We need to rethink the entire purpose of an education.
I'll help you calm those fears down right now.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. Go to ChildoftheRedwoods.com to view the show notes and get a copy of my Brand New Homeschooler's guide.

Drowning in Guilt Over Giving One Child More Attention Jul 07, 2020

Do you feel like you give one child more attention over another? It feels awful, right? And yet sometimes simply because of the age and stage of your child, it is the instinctual way you parent.

Many Montessori mamas feel guilty for playing with the preschooler while the baby lays nearby on the floor or nursing the baby for house while the preschooler waits. Tips & healthy advice awaits you in this episode.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. Find the show notes right here at Child of the Redwoods.com

Getting Family On Board With Montessori and Gentle Parenting Jun 30, 2020

Do you feel like you are walking the Montessori journey alone? Are your family members still advocating for traditional parenting methods like spanking, time-out, bribing, or threatening? Are you looking for ways to help them learn about Montessori and gentle parenting?
In this episode, we dive into what it really takes to get family members on board with Montessori!
For a free Mini-Dictionary of Montessori terms to share with your family, visit the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Trusting The Child, Even When They Throw the Dishes Jun 23, 2020

Crash! There goes another plate, shattered on the floor. Whoever said Montessori children could handle glass must not have seen a real toddler!
In this episode, we take the story of the "throwing everything" toddler and break it down. This is not a plastic-versus glass story. It's a story about how to follow your gut instincts and trust the child.
Tips for throwing toddlers can be found in the show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

What It Really Means When Your Child Interrupts You Jun 16, 2020

When you're trying to have an adult conversation for longer than 30 seconds or concentrate on a project, it can get pretty frustrating to have a little person constantly interrupting you.

In this episode, we dive into the reasons why the interruptions are happening and also give some strategies to help manage them. (Hint: it's all about the Montessori grace and courtesy lessons!)
If you're a 101 member, there is some extra info in here about my decision to archive the group as well.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. Connect with me anytime at ChildoftheRedwoods.com or on IG @childoftheredwoods

How to Talk to Your Child About Terrible Things Jun 09, 2020

This episode is specifically for the parent who is worried about telling her young child that there are terrible things in the world.
Murder, cancer, natural disasters, racism, and other topics are mentioned, along with an approach to understanding how to approach these topics with confidence through developmental stages.
White & privileged parents will be comforted by this gentle nudge. Specific resources to help parents learn more about about an Anti-Bias / Anti-Racist educational approach will be mentioned in the show notes.
Love,
Aubrey

Squirrel! Your Toddler's Short Attention Span May 19, 2020

One minute your child is playing with a toy. The next, he’s off into the kitchen for a snack! Toys forgotten, he runs outside to chase the butterflies in your backyard.
It’s not you — your toddler really does have a short attention span. And it’s not all bad. Let’s uncover some of the possible biological reasons why your toddler is behaving so erratically and contemplate how the Montessori method can help your child learn to focus.
We talk about praise in this episode! You'll find a free list of alternatives to "good job" on the Child of the Redwoods website in the show notes.
Love,
Aubrey

Step Up Your Montessori Design Skills May 12, 2020

How does a Montessori guide create a work for a child? Actually, there's a lot more to it than putting items on a tray and popping it on a shelf!
Here are some tips to help you step up your design skills and entice your children to enjoy their prepared environment.
This episode comes with a free printable infographic to help you remember these tips when cultivating your spaces at home, and you can find it RIGHT HERE at ChildoftheRedwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Hit Rewind for a Clearer Perspective on Your Motherhood May 05, 2020

Feeling overwhelmed? Out of control? Disorganized? Can't get the kids to settle down at bedtime either? I am giving a parenting tip today that has been instrumental in my own motherhood: hitting rewind.
Because it's FUN (and useful!), this podcast comes with an inspirational poster to stick on your fridge paste into your journal, or hang on your wall RIGHT HERE at Child of the Redwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Montessori 101: Start Here Apr 28, 2020

New to Montessori or want to help a friend learn about Montessori? Welcome to an amazing way of life. Here are my tips for learning about Montessori without getting completely overwhelmed.
This episode comes with a free mini-dictionary of popular Montessori terms: Learn How to Talk Like a Montessori Parent.

You can download it at ChildoftheRedwoods.com in the show notes of this episode.
Love,
Aubrey

Teach Creativity with Minimalism & Montessori Apr 21, 2020

Minimalism can be a beautiful fit for a Montessori lifestyle! Join me and reject the snobby, elitist versions of each; embrace a more practical and self-compassionate way.
The benefits are immense: your children will learn creativity, generosity, and responsibility as you incorporate the best of both lifestyles.
Read the show notes and download your free checklist A Montessori Look at Minimalism RIGHT HERE at Child of the Redwoods.com
Love,
Aubrey

Your Child's Aggressive Behavior During a Tantrum Isn't Your Fault -- And It's Fixable Apr 14, 2020

Of course it's not your fault! There are so many factors that come into play when children behave in challenging ways. But that doesn't mean you don't need to sit back while your child behaves aggressively. The hitting, kicking, and biting needs to stop. Here are some strategies that align with positive, gentle discipline to help guide you.
Join Find the Calm for a free, 5 day action plan.
Love,
Aubrey

P.S. You can find the show notes to this podcast at Child of the Redwoods - right here.

Getting Your Child's Screen Time Under Control Apr 07, 2020

We're here today to talk about something that strikes a deep and unresolved fear into the heart of many a Montessori parent: screen time. How much screen time is "too much" is something only you as a parent can decide. What I am delving into today is what to do when you decide it really is too much. Let's get that screen time usage under control!
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can get the show notes to this podcast and connect with me at www.childoftheredwoods.com

Boredom Busters for Stay-at-home Parents Mar 31, 2020

Here's something we don't talk about enough in Montessori: parenting children can be magical, but staying home to play with your children can also be...kinda boring...like when your child wants you to engage in pretend play all the time.
In this episode we dive into what it means to be bored in the first place and offer some strategies to help you through these tough times.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You'll find everything you need with this episode RIGHT HERE at Child of the Redwoods.com

How Our Family is Homeschooling During the Pandemic Mar 24, 2020

Homeschooling in normal times: AWESOME. Homeschooling during a pandemic: NOT SO AWESOME.

Millions of families around the world have suddenly found themselves at home with their children full time (while working!). I don't have all the answers to how to do it right, but as a working, full-time homeschooler, I want to tell you about how our family is handling this.

Maybe it will be interesting and helpful to you. Or maybe it will just be nice to hear that you're not alone out there. We'll get through this together!

This podcast comes with a free download: The Brand New Homeschooler's Magical Adventure. You can download that PDF guide right here at ChildoftheRedwoods.com in the show notes of this podcast.

The Montessori Handwashing Lesson Is Exactly What The World Needs Right Now Mar 10, 2020

We’ve supercharged our handwashing routine.

And I think that when it’s a cold and flu season, everyone should learn the Montessori way to wash your hands. It’s the BEST way to beat viruses.
In fact, it's just exactly what the whole world needs right now.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find the show notes plus a free lesson plan that goes along with this podcast at ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Montessori is NOT Just for Rich People! Mar 03, 2020

Did you know -- Montessori is for REGULAR people! NOT just rich people!
Oh, yes...it's true that many affluent parents have fallen in love with the Montessori method. It's so "haute" right now that sometimes it makes me want to throw up. These are strong words because my feelings are strong.
Because friends--Maria did not create a fancy pants method of education. She studied CHILDREN. And her very first school, the Casa dei Bambini, was created especially for children whose parents were struggling financially.
So please do us all a favor and don't believe the hype about the expensive stuff! In this episode, I share with you my thoughts on making no-cost Montessori magic at home and celebrate the Montessori public schools I've seen in action.
This episode comes with a free No Cost Montessori Checklist.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything related to this podcast RIGHT HERE at ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Essential Montessori Materials for Homeschoolers (That Aren't Printables!) Feb 25, 2020

Wanna Montessori at home for ages 2.5-6? Wanna learn what to invest in or DIY first? This experienced Montessori homeschooler is going to lay out an easy starter plan for you!
Get your Montessori ON, as I list out at least 2 favorite materials per category (Sensorial, Practical Life, Language, Math, and Cultural) and explain why you're going to want to purchase or DIY them for your home.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this podcast at ChildoftheRedwoods.com - RIGHT HERE.
P.P.S. This episode comes with a free checklist that you can download RIGHT HERE.

Nose Picking, Window Licking, and Other Gross Stuff Kids Do Feb 18, 2020

Kids do gross things, right? You know what I'm talking about. Nose picking, window licking, dirt eating, poop smearing...that kind of stuff we just wish we could forget EVER HAPPENED but in reality, it is happening to every parent you've ever met.
Is there a Montessori solution to these yucky issues?
You bet there is! Dive in as we talk about some of my favorites (least favorites?) because I'm giggling like crazy but I'm digging into not only why it happens but WHAT you can do about it from the Montessori perspective.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find all of the show notes to this podcast at ChildoftheRedwoods.com -- or click RIGHT HERE.

You Are 100 Percent Capable of Educating Your Own Child Feb 11, 2020

Of COURSE you are capable! But if you're feeling the doubts, you can do something about it. Let me show you how.
Education is a journey we take with our children; that's my motto!
This is how I put it into practice as a homeschooler: by re-evaluating my beliefs around my abilities. If self doubt creeps in for you, too, I have some tips for you!
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need for this podcast at ChildoftheRedwoods.com - or just go RIGHT HERE.

Choosing That Perfect Montessori School Feb 04, 2020

You're ready to investigate what Montessori program will be the best one for your family, but it all feels so stressful.
Should you homeschool instead? Or is there a perfect Montessori school out there for your child?
Whether you're touring private Montessori schools, applying to public Montessori charters, or wondering how to make your own homeschool "classroom" more aligned with the method, these tips are for you!
Dive in as I outline 5 core values that REAL DEAL Montessori environments will have -- so you can determine which ones are duds and which ones are likely to be excellent choices.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this podcast RIGHT HERE at ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Bet You Didn't Know You Were a Homeschooler Jan 28, 2020

Don't feel like homeschooling is for you? Hey, you know what's right for your family...but put your skepticism aside and hang with me for a minute. Let's chat.
When we clearly define what a quality education for human children encompasses, our understanding of what "school" is actually for begins to shift.
Suddenly, the hours between 7am and 3pm seem like only part of the equation.
In this episode, I explore the concept of school from my background as a Montessori guide, public school teacher, and parent.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this podcast RIGHT HERE at ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Homeschooling is the Perfect Kind of Montessori Magic Jan 21, 2020

Maria Montessori knew a LOT about education, but unfortunately, she wasn't sure that parents were willing and able to do what it takes to offer their children a prepared environment that fosters independence and resilience.
Well, guess what, Maria. We ARE! Using Montessori methods at home with our own chilldren is not only possible -- it's downright *magical*.
In this episode, we are honing in on how homeschooling is unquestionably different in approach from being in a classroom but offers unique benefits that modern homeschoolers are well aware of.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this episode at Child of the Redwoods.com (go right here for the show notes).

A Magical Childhood Jan 14, 2020

"You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means." - The Princess Bride
It's true: there are many meanings to the word "magical" and when combined with "childhood", I see a lot of parents misinterpreting this common phrase.
Take a deep Montessori dive with me into the real magic that exists inside our little ones and how we can best tap into those innate abilities.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this podcast, including show notes on the Child of the Redwoods website - or just click RIGHT HERE.

Becoming a Montessori Mama (with Nicole Kavanaugh) Jan 07, 2020

Becoming a Montessori mama requires a true inner transformation.
When you first discover the magic of Montessori, you might want to jump right to the end -- being able to implement all of the techniques immediately. Children grow up too quickly, don't they? We wish! It's a journey, friends.
In this episode, my good friend Nicole Kavanaugh from The Kavanaugh Report and I share our Montessori journeys with a special focus on baby spaces.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need from this episode RIGHT HERE on ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

No, Mama, You Didn't Ruin Your Child Dec 17, 2019

Are you a parent who recently discovered Montessori? Maybe you have been amazed by this child-centered philosophy, but somehow you suspect you have already fallen short because you didn't know you were supposed to be doing all of these things with your child.
Does the "sensitive period" strike fear in your heart? Are you worried that it's too late? You've already mucked it up for your child?
In this episode, we are diving deep into the woes of parental guilt. We'll talk about what it really means to follow the child's sensitive periods, and how to step back to look at the whole child with a renewed perspective.
Because Mama -- you can't ruin a human being! Not even close.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything related to this podcast at ChildoftheRedwoods.com.

5 Tips for Enjoying the Magic of Christmas — Montessori Style! Dec 10, 2019

It’s a magical time of year. You’re putting up a Christmas tree, stringing lights, and dancing to Jingle Bells.
Your little one is looking up at you with a bit of a twinkle in his eye and also some trepidation.
Who is this Santa guy anyway, and is he a friend of the family or creepy foe?
Spoiler alert just in case you have little ears listening with you - I am a huge proponent about telling children the TRUTH…in all cases.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this podcast on ChildoftheRedwoods.com

Master the Art of Gratitude and You’ll Change Your Life Forever Nov 26, 2019

Have you heard of the lifechanging magic of gratitude? It’s been “trending” online for a while now, so I’m assuming you have.
But…are you sure you’re doing it right?
When reflecting on my family’s tradition of being “thankful” at our Thanksgiving meal, I realized why answering this question round-robin wasn’t bringing me a true sense of gratitude.
Ditch the whining and join me in an exploration of what it means to be truly grateful in the little hardships and inconveniences of a regular day.
Learn how it can improve your quality of life and set your child up with a solid set of skills that will last a lifetime.
Today’s podcast is focused exclusively on gratitude, and that is some powerful Montessori magic in itself.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this podcast, including comprehensive show notes and extra links to resources RIGHT HERE.

This Little Montessori Child Wants To Pretend Play All Day Nov 19, 2019

Here’s some for you, bunny. Now hedgehog wants some more! Some for me, too. And you, too, Mommy!
Because pretend play, imaginative play, and fantasy play is SO hotly debated in the Montessori community, I get TONS of questions about it.
Parents want to know — if a Montessori education emphasizes the real world, is there room for playing pretend? Or is that a waste of my child’s time?
Today I am answering two questions about pretend play, and if you’ve been wondering, I hope you’ll find some answers for yourself in there, too!
Join me in a discussion about child development as we explore the benefits of pretend play and what to do when our children want to play with cars or dolls all day.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need for this podcast, including some pretty detailed show notes and links to resources RIGHT HERE.

Wildfires of the Heart Nov 12, 2019

There will be times when everything you do makes your child happy. Where laughter and loving snuggles seem to go on forever.
And there will be times when the opposite is true.
When every moment you thought was destined for joy ends in tears, whining, tantrums, and anger.
Just like the wildfire that burns acres and acres in nature, there are wildfires of the heart that spark without warning and cause you to stop everything until it’s all back to normal.
Join me in a discussion about wildfires, soul fevers, and what to do when absolutely nothing makes your child happy.
Our deep dive for today is an exploration of 3 part cards: specifically Parts of a Tree. I hope you leave inspired to help your child connect more deeply with her own emotional state and also make emotional connections with nature.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this podcast RIGHT HERE, including show notes.

Lonely Parenting Nov 05, 2019

I know some independent, confident women who need, in fact even crave a lot of space away from their partners.

I’m not one of them.
An intensely private introvert with few close IRL girlfriends, I picked a soulmate and can’t ever get enough time with him.
So when he started traveling for work, often out of the country for a week or more at a time while I stayed at home alone with two young children, my world started falling apart.
This is a story about anxiety, loneliness, and realizing that the journey toward independence and self-compassion never really ends.
Montessori is not just a method of education for children. It’s a way of life - and sometimes quite a long and arduous journey for us as adults.
Our deep dive for today is a sensorial and botany lesson: exploring leaves. Go gather a few and have a listen!
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need for this podcast, including show notes RIGHT HERE.

A Typical Day When Homeschooling My Little Children Oct 29, 2019

I loved being a Stay-At-Home mom so much I didn’t want it to end! Eventually, I realized that it didn’t have to. I was fully capable of giving my children what they needed outside of a school system.
These days, I teach other parents how to educate their little ones at home with the Montessori method. Every semester I start a new session of Homeschool of the Redwoods I am asked by so many, “What was your rhythm and routine like when you were homeschooling your (preschool-aged) children? Can you tell us about a typical day?”
So in this episode, I do a deep dive and tell you what it was really like.
I kept things simple.
I focused on nature.
I relaxed and went with the flow.
And this, I think more than anything else, is what made the whole experience so beautiful for us as a family.
I want this for you, too!
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need for this episode, including the show notes RIGHT HERE on my website Child of the Redwoods.

Homeschooling Siblings Oct 22, 2019

Two is company; three’s a crowd. Not so with homeschooling! Even one extra child in your home can make things feel overwhelming and uncertain when you are taking on the responsibility of providing an education at home.
They grab each other’s toys. They vie for your attention. They refuse to share and hit each other and say mean things.
How can you possibly help them get any work done?!
In this episode, I share some tips and tricks for helping your children learn and grow together with a little more peace, love, admiration, and respect. I talk about my own experiences and tell you what I’ve learned from some other fantastic homeschooling parents.
Our Montessori magic is grace and courtesy - a few lessons you’re going to want to give your homeschooled children: walking around a rug and not interrupting!
Love,
Aubrey

P.S. You can find everything you need for this podcast, including show notes at ChildoftheRedwoods.com -- click RIGHT HERE.

Go Ahead and Wear Your Baby: It’s Perfectly Montessori! Oct 15, 2019

Sometimes we Montessorians get so excited about paving the way for the child's independence that we forget that one of the MAJOR paths toward this end already exists in the child's natural initial dependence on us.
Any time we encounter tools for baby care, including jumpers, walkers, and exersaucers, we look upon them with skepticism - for anything we put a child "into" must be an aid to development and not a hindrance!
But babywearing, bringing heartbeats together, allowing social interaction to emerge on baby's terms, and facilitating easier breastfeeding, should be well loved and fully appreciated in the Montessori community —hands down!
In this episode, I share with you my own love affair with the wrap, mei tai, and ring sling, and I urge all the babywearing parents out there to proclaim these benefits everywhere and be proud of it; Maria Montessori herself was a fan!
Our Montessori magic is a baby game you can play with your baby or toddler and two rattles.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything related to this podcast episode RIGHT HERE.

Working and Homeschooling...At the Same Time?! Oct 08, 2019

So you want to homeschool. And you need to bring in an income. And you have BIG DREAMS for your career.
Is it possible to do it all? Can you actually successfully homeschool your child and work at the same time?
The days of the self-sacrificing housewife-slash-homeschooler with only a vested interest in the future of her offspring are gone, my friend. Today’s homeschooling parents are often highly educated and motivated.
Plus, with the robots presumably taking over the menial tasks of the world, don’t you think it’s time we adult humans reconsidered the meaning of the word “work”?

In this episode, I share my own experiences as a working, homeschooling mama with many, many passions in work, life, and school.
The Montessori Magic for today is a SECRET. Listen to find out.

And remember: education is a journey we take with our children! And it’s worth it!
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this podcast, including the show notes, at ChildoftheRedwoods.com - just CLICK HERE.

Noisy, Plastic Toys from Grandparents Oct 01, 2019

It is a universally accepted fact that children learn through play.
In Montessori, we know that the type of play also makes a big difference. Therefore, it makes perfect sense for modern parennts to be a little particular about which toys serve to help nurture the whole child, and which don’t measure up.
But this episode isn’t about what toys are best for children!
Nope….we’re troubleshooting what to do with all the toys that you receive from loving friends and relatives (for example, your child’s grandparents).
Some of those toys you may authentically appreciate and want to keep.
Others may conflict with the educational experience you are doing your best to provide to your child at home.
As parents, we not only serve the children in our home but all of the people who orbit them and lavish love upon them. We want to handle this sensitive issue with grace and courtesy, kindness and and consideration. But how?
In this episode, I read a letter from a mama who acknowledges that her mother-in-law’s “love language” is gift-giving, and the toys are not exactly the kind she would have chosen for her child.
Dive in as I offer some tips for managing the unwanted toy overload while maintaining gratitude as the center of the grandparent-parent-child relationship.
The Montessori Magic for today is an exploration into the sound cylinders, a sensorial activity.

And remember: just like tea, your parenting efforts need time to brew.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this podcast, including show notes RIGHT HERE.

Mommy Do It! Sep 24, 2019

The development of perseverance as a life-long skill starts when children are very, very little. By offering opportunities for independence and assistance only when necessary, we guide our children along this path.
Child development, however, is never a linear process. Sometimes our children go through phases where they are begging for our assistance when we know that they are perfectly capable of doing the activity themselves.
What is a Montessori parent to do when there are multiple cries of “Mommy do it!” or “But I can’t….”?
In this episode, I read a letter from a mama who is worried that her previous use of praise, such as “Good job” and interrupting her child too often during work has led her child into feelings of incompetence.
Dive in as I offer some insight on typical child behavior at different stages of life and tips for effective parenting.
The Montessori Magic for today is an exploration into the classic dressing frames, a practical life activity.
Come join me as we find the calm and help our children learn and grow.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need related to this podcast RIGHT HERE.

Your Child Is Crying About Everything. Now What? Sep 17, 2019

We expect our babies to cry, but when our toddlers or older children learn how to talk, we assume those days are over.
Not so, dear parent.
In fact, while it feels completely unreasonable and frustrating to you, your child might be crying for a variety of reasons that are completely valid for someone so young.
In this episode, I read a letter from a mama whose 3 year old seems to cry all the time! The morning routine is especially stressful and includes tantrums and whiny crying.
She’s tried everything she can think of to get him to stop crying, but he continues to be upset over every little thing and now…she’s worried. Is this normal behavior? Should she consult a pediatrician?
Dive in as I offer some real-deal gentle, compassionate parenting strategies that help children with those big emotions, especially when they are sensitive little beings by nature.
The Montessori Magic for today is a debate: real dough vs. playdough! Which one will win?
Come join me as we find the calm and help our children learn and grow.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything you need, including all the show notes & links for this podcast RIGHT HERE.

How to Give Your Toddler a Montessori Lesson Sep 10, 2019

Montessori "lessons" look shockingly different for toddlers than they do for preschool-aged children. There is no need to make things complicated. In fact, the more complicated and rigid your lesson, the more likely your toddler is to run away, shout "No!", make a huge mess, or to just outright do the opposite of what you had intended for her to do!
When working with little toddlers, it pays to understand their developmental stage.
In this episode, I read a letter from a frustrated and bewildered mama and offer some parenting tips to help you gain a more realistic expectation of the abilities of these indepependent, capable, and incredibly different little beings.
The Montessori Magic I bring you today comes from Maria herself, a reading from The Absorbent Mind. She has such a sweet story to share about a walking toddler!
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything related to this episode RIGHT HERE.

Should You Cuddle the "Naughty" Child? Sep 03, 2019

When your child asks for a hug after behaving badly, you may feel like you are rewarding his negative attention-seeking behavior! No one wants that! But is it truly a reward? Or should you give in to the request for a cuddle?
This situation can cause many parents to feel conflicting emotions, just like this mama did in her letter to me.
We're going to take a little deep dive into the negative attention-seeking toddlers and preschoolers engage in all-too-often, and I'll give you some strategies for helping your child learn to communicate with you in more positive ways.
As always, I'll throw in some Montessori magic for good measure. The lesson this week is a secret recipe for enticing children toward water pouring work. All you need is a beet.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find everything related to this podcast, including the show notes, RIGHT HERE.

Stress-busting Tips for Tired, Cranky Parents Aug 27, 2019

Nurturing your relationship is essential for a happy, healthy life together, but when parenting a baby or toddler, sometimes it just feels too hard to send your partner or spouse a lot of extra love and attention.
You end up bickering over things that really don’t matter. It might even be hard to remember the days when you fell in love and hoped for a baby. Maybe you feel sick at heart and nostalgic for the old days.
Or maybe you just feel irritated at your partner’s attempts at intimacy while you’re trying to “do it all” as a mom of young children when there’s always a dirty diaper to change or a meal to make or a skinned knee begging for a band-aid.
There is no instant fix for saving a marriage, of course. Developing healthy relationships takes a lot of love, effort and consistency.
I’m going to share with you a letter from a mama who is struggling with adapting to a recent move with twin toddlers and a stressed-out partner. She asks me if taking up walks in nature as a family has a healing effect, a counter to the stress. YES, IT DOES. I’ll tell you why.
I’ll also throw in a bit of Montessori magic for good measure! Our topic for today is Walking on the Line.
Come join me as we find the calm and connect more deeply with our loved ones
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find the notes and links for this podcast RIGHT HERE.

Our Decision to Homeschool (with David Hargis) Aug 20, 2019

Is homeschooling an ideal option? As a former public and Montessori private school teacher, I didn't think so. Neither did my husband David. Both of us came from teacher-centric families in support of the public school system.
But then we had children, debated about whether to send them to preschool, and finally just jumped into homeschooling and haven't looked back.
Now, with two elementary aged boys, we're going full steam ahead year by year.
I want to introduce you to the love of my life and homeschool partner, my husband David.
This is our homeschool story.
Love,
Aubrey
P.S. You can find the show notes to this podcast RIGHT HERE.

Loving Your Child's Sparkly Personality Aug 13, 2019

Some children seem to just be born with a bigger personality. You know the type. Often, they’ve got older, more reserved siblings.
This is the child who can tantrum the loudest, needs to be first in line, always wants to win every game, lies unapologetically, and walks into the middle of the room with such contagious enthusiasm you just can’t help but be captivated by her.
You just gotta love this spirited little diva with your whole heart, as exhausting as she is.
We’re going to dig deep into how to understand and soothe her competitive nature while admiring all that she is meant to be when she grows up.
Homeschooolers, stick around because today’s Montessori inspiration is the plant polishing work, a lesson you can do at home with your toddler or preschooler.
I know, I know, you’re thinking….”why would I want to polish a plant?” But trust me, you do!
Love,
Aubrey
You can find the notes & resources mentioned in this podcast RIGHT HERE.

Help, my kid is a whiner! - EP1 Aug 01, 2019

But whyyyyyy do they whine?! And what do we dooooooo?!
When children whine, it can make any reasonable parent feel irritated, and I promise you I have been there, done that, and learned lots. As we dive in to this topic, I want to share a letter with you from a loving, empathetic mama who could use a wee bit of help in this parenting department.
There really is a key to stopping the whining long term: take the time to interpret your child's behavior and then respond to it without encouraging more of it.
I'll go into what not to do and then give you several discipline strategies that are both gentle and effective.
The next time your child whines about something, you'll have a solid plan. I'll leave you with some inspiration to try out a sand tray with your child, a lesson you can do at home with your toddler or preschooler.
Come join me as we follow the child and find the calm.
Love,
Aubrey

P.S. You can find the show notes to this podcast, including all resources mentioned RIGHT HERE.

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