Stay ConnectedZak Rosen, Elizabeth Newcamp, and Lucy Lopez share triumphs and fails and offer advice on parenting kids from toddler to teens.
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On this week’s bonus episode: Elizabeth and Jamilah discuss creating distraction-free study spaces at home, whether kids are finishing their homework or attending class online. But, with many parents also working from home, space is in demand. How can parents maximize their space by rethinking their home’s function?
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On this week’s episode: Dan, Jamilah, and Elizabeth debate how to deal with a calorie-counting grandmother whose obsession with body image may rub off on her grandkids. They also answer a question from a mom looking for tips for how to better handle her young child’s anxiety.
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Recommendations:
Elizabeth recommends spending time watching animals on Explore.org.
Jamilah recommends Okocat Unscented Natural Wood Clumping Cat Litter.
Dan recommends Go With the Flow by Lily Williams and Karen Schneemann.
Additional Recommendations:
Mom and Dad are Fighting: What to Expect When You’re Unexpectedly the First Lady
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On this week’s bonus episode: Elizabeth and Jamilah are joined by Slate Writer Ruth Graham to discuss whether or not parents should hold their kindergarten-aged children back a year. For some kids, kindergarten is their first introduction to a classroom setting. Is it worth waiting until in-person classes are safe? Or should kindergarteners start getting used to virtual learning?
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On this week’s episode: Jamilah, Dan, and Elizabeth debate the pros and cons of learning pods and homeschooling for the upcoming school year. Why are people doing it? Who does it benefit? Who does it harm? Then, for parents who have decided to homeschool their own children due to health concerns, Elizabeth talks homeschooling 101 with two homeschool extraordinaires: Monica Olivera of MommyMaestra and Latonya Moore of Joy in the Ordinary.
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Recommendations:
Dan recommends the board game Betrayal At House On The Hill.
Elizabeth recommends a kid-friendly meditation device called Zenimal.
Jamilah recommends The Kids Are Asleep. Stream the hilarious Slate Live show via Slate’s Facebook or YouTube on Thursdays at 10:00 p.m. ET / 7:00 p.m. PT.
Additional Recommendations:
The Latest in School Segregation: Private Pandemic ‘Pods’by Clara Totenberg Green.
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Dan answer a question from a boss who is trying to figure out how her company can support employees who are caring for kids. They also talk with Slate’s Rachelle Hampton about student loan debt. She has some advice for parents sending their kids to college about deciding when and if debt is worth it.
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Recommendations:
Dan recommends pickleball, small tennis or enormous human sized ping pong. But whichever way you look at it, pickleball is a great sports equalizer and a lot of fun.
Jamilah recommends A Kids Book About Divorce by Ashley Simpo.
Elizabeth recommends Rocket to the Moon!: Big Ideas That Changed the Worldby Don Brown and Junior Ranger NASA badges.
Additional Recommendations:
Debt Nation by Rachelle Hampton.
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On this week’s episode: Dan is joined by four of Slate’s Ask a Teacher columnists to candidly discuss back to school plans. Brandon Hersey, Cassy Sarnell, Matthew Dicks, and Amy Scott outline their district’s plans and debate if current guidance, or lack of guidance, is enough to keep students and staff safe. If the school opts for a version of in-person classes, can teachers keep everyone safe? What will happen if, or when, a student or teacher gets sick? Will online education be effective, especially for students whose parents are working or don’t have the proper resources to attend online classes?
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Recommendations:
Dan recommends a classic southern dessert: Banana Pudding.
Catch Jamilah’s new Slate Live show: The Kids Are Asleep. Catch the first show on Thursday July 16 at 7:00 p.m. PST. Stream it on Slate’s Facebook page or YouTube channel.
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Thank you to Brandon Hersey, Cassy Sarnell, Matthew Dicks, and Amy Scott for their insight.
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On this week’s episode: Jamilah, Dan, and Elizabeth weigh in with their best tactics to locate a young child in an emergency. They also answer a question from a mom who really wants to give her young daughter a sibling but is debating if the extra chaos is worth it.
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Recommendations:
Dan recommends Doodleville by Chad Sell.
Elizabeth recommends DIY tie-dye masks.
Jamilah recommends You Were Born For This: Astrology for Radical Self-Acceptance by Chani Nicholas.
Additional Recommendations and Resources:
Jamilah’s new Slate Live show: The Kids Are Asleep. Catch the first show on Thursday July 16 at 7:00 p.m. PST. Stream it on Slate’s Facebook page or YouTube channel.
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Dan answer a question about a 3-year-old who forces himself to pee immediately after drinking water. We also have a follow-up question from a parent whose child recently came out to her as trans. Slate’s Evan Urquhart joins the hosts to help advise the parent on how to best support her son.
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Recommendations:
Dan recommends Perfect Tunes by Emily Gould.
Jamilah recommends Women, Race, & Class by Angela Y. Davis.
Elizabeth recommends the game Tiny Polka Dot.
Additional Recommendations and Resources:
Catch “Living Single But With Barbies” on Jamilah’s Instagram.
Get your kids hooked on Oliver’s favorite math game, Prodigy.
“My Parents Still Struggle to Know Me After I Transitioned Late” by Evan Urquhart.
Check out PFLAG, which is a great organization for LGBTQ+ people, their families and allies.
Watch Disclosure. The documentary is currently available on Netflix.
Read Hurricane Child and Felix Ever After by Kacen Callender.
Watch ContraPoints YouTube videos with your (probably older) kids as a way to prompt conversations about trans issues. Here are two to start with: "Transtrenders” and Gender Critical.
Get creative outside with Buggy and Buddy free, printable scavenger hunts, Youth Squad badges, and Tinkergarten® activities.
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On this week’s episode: Dan, Jamilah, and Elizabeth answer a question from a parent wondering if it’s okay to benefit from the grandparent babysitting service when the other grandkids are left out. They also answer a question from a soon-to-be step-aunt who wants to make a good first impression on the pre-teen.
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Recommendations:
Dan recommends The Sunday Read: ‘Facing the Wind’ by Carvell Wallace.
Elizabeth recommends constructing outdoor toy car ramps using deck railing.
Jamilah recommends The DB Method, if you are looking to maximize your gluteus maximus.
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Rebecca are joined by Trina Greene Brown, the founder of Parenting for Liberation, to answer questions about race and police violence. The first question is from a parent puzzling over an appropriate age to introduce her kid to privilege and institutionalized racism. The second question is from a mom whose young son enjoys interacting with the police. Is there a good way to explain police violence to a toddler?
We have a very special Slate Plus segment this week. Jamilah is joined by Dr. Kira Banks to answer a listener question about colorism and complexion bias. Slate Plus members get a bonus segment on MADAF each week, and no ads. Sign up now to listen and support our work.
Recommendations:
Rebecca recommends laughing at really, really bad TV shows like Strange Evidence, Catfish, and Ancient Aliens.
Elizabeth recommends two podcasts. For kids: So Get Me podcast by the Alphabet Rockers. For adults: The Black History Bootcamp by GirlTrek.
Jamilah recommends the McBride Sisters Wine.
Other Recommendations and Resources:
Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria? by Dr. Beverly Daniel Tatum
The Color Complex: The Politics of Skin Color in a New Millennium by Kathy Russell, Midge Wilson and Ronald Hall.
A History of Policing, an online class by Freedom Lifted for young people.
The “American Police” episode of NPR’s Throughline podcast.
Rebecca Lavoie’s instagram post of Henry’s protest sign.
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