Stay ConnectedThe award-winning But What Do I Know?™ Podcast is your weekly fix for honest conversations, lived experiences, and growth in real time.
Hosted by Chidinma A, each episode explores the moments, questions, and transitions in life that make us stop and think: “Damn… but what do I know?”
Through reflective conversations with guests and personal solo episodes, this podcast explores themes of relationships, wellness, money and ambition, as well as becoming with honesty, curiosity, and care.
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Sometimes we lose pieces of ourselves in relationships, while trying to belong, or simply while becoming who we think we're supposed to be.
This week, Chidinma is joined by Nigerian-American attorney and author Kehinde Winful for a conversation inspired by her debut novel, Flooding the River. Through the story of Lolah, a young woman navigating love, identity and a return to Nigeria, they explore what it means to come home, both to a place and to yourself.
They also get into the complicated relationship members of the African diaspora can have with home, who gets to claim an African identity, what our romantic relationships can reveal about who we're becoming, and how easy it can be to lose your own voice while trying to be loved or chosen.
This week’s conversation is one that touches on love, diaspora, identity, home and learning to trust yourself again.
Be well and stay curious!
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Kehinde’s Book: Flooding The River
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Episode Credits:
Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike
Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen
Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello
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What comes after deciding the work you’re doing no longer aligns with what you value?
In the first It’s Your Turn episode, a BWDIK listener shares her decision to leave corporate America and begin building a marketing agency of her own. Host, Chidinma reflects on the difficulty of building something new, why knowing you made the right decision doesn’t necessarily make the climb any easier, and the different versions of freedom and alignment we’re all searching for in the way we work.
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Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello
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Disappointment is inevitable, but what happens when you get tired of constantly having to adjust, pivot and make a new plan?
In this solo episode, Host Chidinma gets candid about recent disappointments. From moments where it was difficult to show up fully to challenges behind the scenes of the podcast. The episode ends with three reflections helping her move through this current season.
Because you can't insulate yourself from disappointment, but you can cushion it.
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Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike
Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen
Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello
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Can we question the beliefs we inherited without rejecting everything we've ever known?
This week, author and spiritual practitioner Juju Bae joins Host Chidinma on to discuss The Book of Juju and what it means to approach faith, ancestry, and spirituality with curiosity rather than certainty.
Together, they explore Juju's journey to Ifá, reconnecting with African spiritual traditions, common misconceptions about Ifá, Hoodoo and Vodou, and why so many people are quietly re-examining the beliefs they inherited.
More than a conversation about religion, this is a conversation about identity, curiosity, and having the permission to ask difficult questions.
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Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello
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Can romance really be easy?
This week on the podcast, bestselling romance author Danielle Allen joins host Chidinma to discuss Big Girl Blitz, the final book in the Curve series. Together, they explore what makes a romance story feel believable, why healthy love can be just as convincing as complicated or toxic love, and how Danielle creates the unforgettable characters - Aaliyah, Nina and Jaz - that bookstagram has come to love.
Hopefully, the conversation doesn’t spoil the book for you (if it does, please forgive) but this episode also explores themes of grief, confidence and emotional healing.. OH and some good SMUT so please listen with your headphones and be prepared to blush a few times (lol).
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Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen
Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello
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Some of the most important life lessons in your late twenties are often learned when life doesn't go according to plan.
In this solo episode of But What Do I Know? host Chidinma A reflects on the 9 biggest lessons she learned at 29. A year that included home ownership that didn't go as planned, a layoff, and unexpected disappointments.
From letting go of certain expectations and making peace with job uncertainty to redefining success and learning to trust herself more deeply, this conversation is a reflection on growing through unexpected change and finding meaning in seasons that ask for more (A LOT more).
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Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike
Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen
Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello
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For the first episode of this new season, host Chidinma A is joined by Dr. Cassandre Dunbar for a conversation that feels like an embrace.
With everything happening globally, from ongoing conflicts to economic uncertainty, it can feel like there’s always something to process, even whether you are directly or indirectly impacted.
In this conversation, they explore what it means to exist in a constant state of awareness, and how the ongoing exposure to heavy news and stress can begin to show up in the body. From increased cortisol levels to dysregulated stress responses and long-term health impacts, Dr. Cassandre breaks down how this may be processed in the body.
Together, they reflect on what it means to carry so much, often without realizing it, and how to begin checking in with the body more intentionally.
The conversation closes with a thoughtful look at how to stay informed and empathetic, while also protecting mental and physical well-being.
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Episode Credits:
Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike
Audio and Video Editor: Aleks van der Westhuizen
Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello
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It has really been a while...Welcome BACK and grab your headphones because But What Do I Know?™ is now your weekly fix for honest conversations, lived experiences, and growth in real time.
Through reflective conversations with guests and personal solo episodes, Host, Chidinma A will explore themes of relationships, wellness, money and ambition - especially in relation to this very podcast, as well as becoming with honesty, curiosity, and care.
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Episode Credits:
Executive Producer: Chidinma Azubuike
Audio Editor: Ryan Clarke
Podcast Theme Music: Hamid Bello
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While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know?
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Okay It's REALLY feeling like us season (word to Issa Rae) because after reaching our 100,000 download milestone, it was just announced that the podcast is a Silver Award Winner for shows within the Education category of the 2023 Signal Podcast Awards!
For The Clue In Segment, Chid discusses the importance of language used to discuss the resurgence of the Israel - Palestine Conflict as well as an upcoming event for creators, talent, entrepreneurs and small businesses in the City of Toronto.
It''s a Vibe Check Episode and so the Podcaster and Host of the "A Shot Of Melanin" Podcast, Michelle Dennis joins Chid to talk about the movie adaptation of The Perfect Find. From Age gaps to relationships with employees, the two are getting into it all. Enjoy listening!
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Insta: @ashotofmelanin
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Intro/Outro Song:
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Transition Songs:
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While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know?
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Whew, Fall is really really here and this is just the right episode for your cozy evening in!
For the Clue In Segment, Chid discusses an upcoming IG live discussion on the Podcast Instagram page that you wont want to miss, shares an upcoming small business event taking place in Toronto and gets into Tem's new single "Me & U" as the song of the week.
For the Main Segment, Chid is joined by Social Worker and Educator, Cristal Hines and the two get into all things, love and balancing companionship with a career while referencing bell hook's book "All About Love".
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Connect with the "But What Do I Know?" Podcast:
Insta: @BWDIKPodcast
Podcast Community: In The Know Community
You can watch our main segments on youtube! Subscribe and watch this episode at the "But What Do I Know Podcast Youtube Channel"
Podcast Sponsor: Use the link to receive 10% of your first month with BetterHelp therapy sessions: https://betterhelp.com/BWDIK
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Connect with Cristal:
Insta: @courtesyofcristal
Website: https://www.cristalhines.ca/home
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Episode Credits:
Intro/Outro Song:
Remsen- BWDIK Podcast Theme Song
Insta: @itsremsen
Transition Songs:
Take Care - Julian Avila
http://SoundCloud.com/julian_avila
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