Bound By Art: A Tattoo Artist&#8217;s Survival Guide

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From People Pleaser to Powerful Leader: My Business Wake-Up with Missi Blue | Ep. 36 Jun 25, 2025

"I know it's hard to work for me. And that's on purpose. I'm trying to weed out those ones that aren't on the same path as the rest of us." -Missi Blue

Running a tattoo shop taught me one of the hardest lessons of my career: you can't be everyone's friend and still be an effective leader. For years, I desperately wanted to be the "cool boss" – the one everyone loved, the complete opposite of those shop owners I'd seen get demonized by their staff. I bent over backwards to be agreeable, let things slide, and made financial decisions based on emotions rather than business sense. The result? I nearly lost control of my own business and found myself in situations that compromised everything I'd worked to build. Today I'm sharing the raw truth about what it really takes to lead a creative team, why having high standards isn't mean, and how I learned to stop people-pleasing my way into business problems.

What you will learn in this episode:

Why trying to be the "cool boss" can actually harm your business and the people you're trying to protect
How people-pleasing tendencies can lead to financial mistakes and blurred professional boundaries
The importance of establishing clear non-negotiables and minimum requirements from day one
Why you can't expect to be seen as both a friend and a boss, and how to navigate that dynamic
How to recognize when you're letting others pull your business off track and what to do about it
The difference between being flexible with your plans and compromising your core values
Why having high expectations and pushing for growth actually creates better work environments
How to use your values as a North Star for making difficult business decisions

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Daily Choices That Define Your Tattoo Career with Missi Blue | Ep. 35 Jun 18, 2025

"Trust is hard earned and easily lost. One dishonest move, lying, ghosting, breaking a promise, stealing - that can shatter years and years of credibility."

When I think about what separates successful tattoo artists from those who struggle, it's rarely about technical skill alone. It's about integrity - that quiet consistency between who you say you are and how you actually show up, especially when no one's watching. Whether you're a new artist building your reputation or a shop owner managing a team, integrity isn't just some feel-good concept. It's your business foundation, your personal safety net, and honestly, it's what determines whether clients become lifelong advocates or cautionary tales shared in Facebook community groups.

What you will learn in this episode:

The real definition of integrity and why it goes far beyond just telling the truth
How the "shopping cart test" reveals your true character and what it means for your business
Why small daily choices (like texting back when you say you will) matter more than grand gestures
How integrity builds unshakeable self-respect and clarifies your decision-making process
The devastating impact of Facebook community pages on local business reputations
Why word-of-mouth referrals depend entirely on your perceived trustworthiness
How one mistake can unravel years of credibility in the tattoo industry
Practical ways to practice integrity in small moments that prepare you for bigger decisions

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The Negative Self-Talk Killing Your Tattoo Career (And How to Stop It) with Missi Blue | Ep. 34 Jun 11, 2025

"Why waste your time proving over and over again how great you are when you could be getting better?"

Here's the hard truth that no one wants to talk about: most of us are walking around with a voice in our head that's absolutely brutal. If we heard someone talking to our best friend the way we talk to ourselves, we'd be ready to fight. But somehow, we've normalized this internal beatdown that happens daily. As tattoo artists, and entrepreneurs, our mindset isn't just about feeling good—it directly impacts our technical skills, client relationships, and business growth. I've been there, stuck in cycles of self-doubt and perfectionism that nearly made me quit this podcast entirely. But here's what I've learned about rewiring those destructive thought patterns and why it might be the most important skill you develop as an artist. Whether you're just starting out, or you've been in the game for years, these mindset shifts can completely transform how you show up in your career.

Ready to stop letting your inner critic run the show? Start with this week's homework challenge—catch one negative thought each day and rewrite it. Your future self (and your art) will thank you. Remember, you can't control the thoughts that pop into your head, but you absolutely can control how you react to them. Now get out there and show up for yourself the way you'd show up for your best friend.

What you will learn in this episode:

How 80% of our internal dialogue is negative and why this repetitive thinking keeps us stuck in limiting patterns that affect our artistic growth
The difference between growth mindset and fixed mindset, and why believing your skills are unchangeable will keep you proving yourself instead of improving yourself
Why surrounding yourself with people who challenge you is more valuable than those who just hype you up, and how to identify which type of people you currently have in your circle
The destructive nature of all-or-nothing thinking and how perfectionism disguised as motivation actually leads to burnout and stagnation
Practical strategies to reframe "I can't do this" to "I can't do this yet" and why this simple shift opens up possibilities for skill development
How to catch and redirect negative thoughts before they become limiting beliefs that dictate your actions and career trajectory
Why showing up consistently matters more than showing up intensely, and how to build resilience through progress over perfection
The homework challenge: how to identify and rewrite one recurring negative thought each day to start changing your mental patterns

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Productive vs Busy: Time Management Secrets for Tattoo Artists with Missi Blue | Ep. 33 Jun 04, 2025

"Being busy is not the same as being productive, and I had to learn that the hard way."

As tattoo artists, we wear busyness like a badge of honor, but what if all that hustle is actually holding us back? I've been there – running around, checking boxes, feeling like I'm crushing it because my schedule is packed. But here's the reality check I needed: being busy doesn't equal being productive, and it definitely doesn't guarantee success.

It’s time to get real about the difference between spinning your wheels and actually moving forward. Whether you're a new artist trying to build your clientele, an experienced professional feeling overwhelmed, or a shop owner juggling a million responsibilities, this conversation is for you. I'm sharing the exact strategies that helped me take back control of my time and start focusing on what actually matters.

What You Will Learn in This Episode:

The "Gold Star Trap" - Why chasing validation through busyness keeps you stuck and how to redirect that energy toward meaningful results
Time Audit Fundamentals - A simple system to track where your time actually goes (spoiler: it's probably not where you think) and identify time-wasting activities
The Pizza Hut Principle - Real-world examples of how "busy work" can actually set you back and why motion doesn't always equal progress
Pareto's 80-20 Rule Applied - How to identify the 20% of activities that generate 80% of your results and focus your energy there
Priority Decision Framework - Three key questions to ask yourself when deciding what deserves your time: Is it urgent? Is it important? Is it significant?
Task Expansion Theory - Why projects always seem to take exactly as much time as you give them and how to use this to your advantage
The Parent Productivity Hack - How having constraints actually makes you more efficient and focused (even if you don't have kids)
Building Your Results Roadmap - A visual exercise to connect your biggest wins with the specific activities that got you there

Ready to stop being busy and start being productive? The first step is awareness. Grab that Goal Getter Workbook, do a time audit this week, and see where your energy is really going. Your future self will thank you for taking control today. Remember – it's not about doing more, it's about doing what matters. Now stop making excuses and go make it happen.

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Mental Toughness Secrets Every Tattoo Artist Needs to Know with Crush Captain and Missi Blue | Ep. 32 May 28, 2025

This episode takes you behind the scenes of what it really takes to build a successful tattoo career beyond just technical skill. Crush Captain gets brutally honest about his transformation from someone who was "tired of being a piece of shit" to an internationally recognized artist who commands stages at major conferences. His story isn't about overnight success or natural talent—it's about the deliberate, uncomfortable work of rebuilding yourself from the ground up.

We dive into the hard truths about mental toughness that most artists avoid discussing. From walking 9-14 miles daily through Florida heat while smoking cigars and listening to self-development content, to failing 75 Hard multiple times before finally conquering it, Crush reveals the messy reality of personal transformation. This conversation will challenge everything you think you know about stress, discipline, and what it actually takes to separate yourself from the average artist in this industry.

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No More DM Chaos: My One-Day Booking System with Missi Blue | Ep. 31 May 21, 2025

After 21 years in the industry, I've learned the hard way that an overwhelmed booking system leads to missed clients, double-bookings, and constant interruptions to your personal life. This episode breaks down the exact system I've refined over the years that allows me to handle all my bookings in a single day rather than spreading the stress across weeks or months.

My system isn't just about organization—it's about creating the right client experience while protecting your time and energy. Whether you're drowning in messages or just starting to get busy, implementing these strategies now will help you avoid the booking nightmares I experienced and focus on what you actually love—creating amazing tattoos.

What you will learn in this episode:

How to transform a chaotic booking process into a streamlined system that saves time and attracts your ideal clients
Why implementing a specific booking day creates scarcity and excitement, turning your availability into an event
The step-by-step process to set up a request form that gathers exactly what you need without endless back-and-forth messaging
How to organize and prioritize booking requests to curate a schedule filled with projects that excite you
Why templates and shortcuts are game-changers that ensure consistency and set clear expectations for clients
The power of clear communication throughout your booking process to reduce questions and prevent confusion
How to effectively handle both accepted requests and polite rejections to maintain your professional reputation

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Say What You Want or Get What You’re Given with Missi Blue | Ep. 30 May 14, 2025

Today's episode is all about finding your voice and having the courage to use it—even when conventional wisdom tells you to stay quiet. When you start clearly communicating who you are, what you stand for, and what you love creating, something magical happens. The right people find you. The wrong ones politely step away. Your schedule fills with projects that energize rather than drain you. And you create an environment where everyone—from clients to your team—knows exactly what to expect.

What you’ll learn:

Why being vocal about your preferences (like art styles, scheduling, or pricing) actually attracts your ideal clients rather than pushing business away
How speaking up about your expertise creates unexpected opportunities, from guest spots to teaching positions
The importance of confidently communicating your pricing without questioning your own worth
How clear boundaries create the perfect filter that naturally weeds out clients and colleagues who aren't the right fit
Why building a team or friend circle based on shared values requires being explicit about those values first
The business impact of creating an environment where everyone understands expectations and standards
How to hire slowly but fire quickly to maintain the integrity of your shop culture

Remember: Your unique voice is your greatest asset. Use it. Be clear about what makes you different. Speak up about what you love and what you don't. The success of your business depends not on pleasing everyone, but on finding and serving those who truly value what only you can offer.

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Episode 11 - 8 Reasons You Won't ACHIEVE Your Goals Again This Year with Missi Blue

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Stop Lying to Yourself About Growth with Missi Blue | Ep. 29 May 07, 2025

Goal Getter Worksheet - Free download to help you brainstorm and structure your goals

"I was super busy all the time. But was I being productive? Absolutely not. I was just kind of running in circles, feeling confused and messy." - Missi

Accountability meetings completely transformed how I approach my business. Before implementing regular check-ins, I felt perpetually stuck—busy but not productive, knowing what I wanted but never getting closer to it. Once I started having structured weekly accountability sessions, I finally developed clarity about my direction and broke down my big goals into manageable steps.

What's particularly powerful about these meetings is how they force you to confront your progress (or lack thereof). When I look back and see I didn't gain any followers because I posted once instead of my goal of five times, I can't blame the algorithm—I wasn't even in it. Or realizing my client loyalty program took eight months longer than planned because I kept putting off finishing the logo. Without accountability, these patterns continue unchecked.

Whether you find an accountability buddy (preferably someone at a similar business stage who will call you on your BS) or create structured check-ins with your team, this practice will help you stay focused on what truly matters. Some weeks you won't get everything done—life happens—but the consistent check-ins allow you to course-correct rather than abandon your goals entirely.

What you will learn in this episode:

Why accountability is the single most transformative practice you can implement in your tattoo business
The signs that indicate you need more accountability in your professional life
How to shift from a reactive mindset (disaster, panic, recover) to a proactive approach
Why having clear direction is essential before you can build genuine motivation
Practical strategies for setting up effective accountability meetings and finding the right accountability partner
How embracing feedback—even when it hurts—is crucial for artistic and business growth
The importance of recognizing when you've taken detours from your intended goals

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HERE'S How to Find Your Ideal Client with Missi Blue | Ep. 28 Apr 30, 2025

In this episode, we're diving deep into one of the most crucial aspects of building a sustainable tattoo career - finding and attracting your ideal clients. After 20 years in the industry and owning Bluebird Tattoo, I've learned that working with the right clients isn't just about making better art - it's about creating a career that energizes rather than drains you. I'm sharing my tried-and-true strategies that helped me build a thriving business doing work I love with clients who value what I bring to the table.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

How to clearly define and visualize your ideal client (beyond just their tattoo preferences)
Why becoming the right artist for your ideal client matters more than trying to please everyone
The importance of authentic branding and when it's okay to say no to projects
Strategic ways to curate your portfolio to attract the right clients
How to maintain professionalism while still being authentically yourself

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Ideal Client Worksheet: https://boundbyart.com/idealclient

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instagram.com/bluebirdtattoostudio: http://instagram.com/bluebirdtattoostudio

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What Finally Made My Business Work with Missi Blue | Ep. 27 Apr 23, 2025

Ready to stop spinning your wheels and start making real progress? My productivity masterclass reveals the exact system I used to transform from overwhelm to control in my tattoo business. Get my battle-tested strategies for eliminating time-wasters, conquering your most daunting tasks, and creating a thriving business that actually supports your dream life—straight from someone who's walked the path and learned the hard way.

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MOMENTUM over PERFECTION. Every Time. with Missi Blue | Ep. 26 Apr 16, 2025

We've all faced those moments where everything falls apart despite our best preparations. Today, I'm sharing my personal experience with a failed management hire that cost me a year of progress, and the lessons that transformed how I handle setbacks in my business. Whether you're dealing with staffing challenges, client issues, or creative blocks, this episode offers practical strategies to help you maintain momentum when you'd rather just lick your wounds.

What you will learn in this episode:

Why waiting to recover after a setback often prolongs your suffering and derails your progress
How to use the "roller derby technique" of using failure's momentum to carry you back to standing
The importance of detaching emotionally from business failures to see opportunities clearly
Specific steps for analyzing what went wrong without getting stuck in self-blame
How to recognize and address red flags in the hiring process that I initially ignored
Why immediate execution after failure is critical, even when it's the last thing you want to do
Practical strategies for maintaining systems and momentum when disappointment hits

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Why You’re Not Getting Better No Matter How Much You Learn with Missi Blue | Ep. 25 Apr 09, 2025

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Consuming knowledge without applying it is something we've all been guilty of. I'm embarrassed to admit I watched the same seminar seven times before I actually implemented what I learned! In today's episode, I'm sharing how I broke that cycle and created a system that helps me transform seminars and courses from passive consumption into real skill development. If you're tired of collecting information without seeing real results, this episode will give you the practical tools to change that pattern.

What you will learn in this episode:

Why most artists retain only 45% of information from lectures, compared to 85% when applying knowledge through hands-on practice
How to organize your notes effectively to identify your most important takeaways
A strategic method for prioritizing what to implement first based on impact and urgency
My three-tier implementation strategy: what to do this month, this week, and right now
How to create personal checklists that reinforce new skills until they become second nature
The power of scheduled self-critique sessions to track your progress
Why mastering one skill at a time leads to better results than trying to change everything at once

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Tattoo Conventions Will Break You: Recovery Strategies No One Talks About with Missi Blue | Ep. 24 Apr 02, 2025

Today we're getting real about something that's been kicking my butt lately: post-convention recovery. After crashing hard following the Baltimore Convention and then pushing through a charity flash day before I was fully recovered, I finally recognized the pattern that's been draining my energy and affecting my work. In this episode, I'm breaking down what I've learned about planning for recovery time, listening to your body's signals, and creating sustainable work practices that won't leave you constantly running on empty.

What you will learn in this episode:

Why planning for recovery after events is just as important as planning for the events themselves
How to identify your personal recovery needs and create space for them in your schedule
The serious consequences of pushing through burnout instead of addressing it head-on
Practical strategies for scheduling lighter workloads after high-intensity events
Why rescheduling clients when necessary is actually good business practice
How to stop catastrophizing minor setbacks and maintain perspective during stressful situations
The importance of adjusting your schedule to match your energy levels, not your ego

Resources Mentioned:

75 Hard Challenge - The mental toughness program mentioned in the episode
Baltimore Tattoo Convention - The convention referenced in the episode
Meditation Apps for Beginners - Resources for those interested in exploring meditation
Professional Burnout in Healthcare Workers - Research on burnout and recovery
Bluebird Tattoo Studio's Charity Flash Event - Follow for updates on future charity events

Your artistic journey doesn't have to be a constant battle against burnout. By recognizing your limits and honoring your need for recovery, you're not only taking care of yourself but investing in the longevity of your career. This week, I challenge you to look at your upcoming schedule and block off intentional recovery time after your next big event. Your future self will thank you, and your work will reflect the difference. Remember, sustainable success isn't about how hard you can push—it's about how wisely you can pace yourself for the long haul.

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What Tattoo Shops Actually Look For Before Taking On Apprentices with Missi Blue | Ep. 23 Mar 26, 2025

The journey to becoming a tattoo artist isn't what most people imagine. After countless messages asking for apprenticeships, I'm pulling back the curtain on what it truly takes to break into this industry. This isn't about gatekeeping—it's about ensuring you're getting in for the right reasons and with the right mindset. An apprenticeship isn't just learning a skill; it's committing to a lifestyle where the lines between work and personal life blur. You need to be obsessed with tattooing, willing to put in endless hours developing your craft, and ready to overcome the challenges that come with creative on-demand work. For those truly passionate about this path, I'm sharing the strategies that actually work and the mindset shifts needed to make potential mentors invest in your future.

What you will learn in this episode:

Why having tattoos and understanding the industry is essential before seeking an apprenticeship
The importance of developing traditional art skills on paper rather than relying on digital work
How to build meaningful relationships with potential mentors through authentic connection
Why being a "people person" (even if you're naturally introverted) is non-negotiable in tattooing
The real commitment level required and why passion must exceed the desire for a "cool job"
Practical ways to demonstrate your value to a shop before asking for apprenticeship
How to create a portfolio that actually impresses established artists
Why appreciation and gratitude for your mentor's investment is crucial to your success

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Ep. 17 Is It Time To Hire An Assistant?

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Tattoo Shop Hiring Nightmares (And How to Avoid Them) with Missi Blue | Ep. 22 Mar 19, 2025

Hiring an assistant transformed my business—and my life—but the process wasn't without its challenges. After experiencing first-hand how the right help can pull you from drowning to breathing again, I'm sharing the exact process I use to find assistants who complement my strengths rather than mirror them. From creating job descriptions that attract organized minds (and scare away the wrong candidates) to conducting interviews that reveal true character, I'll walk you through every step. And yes, I'll even share the embarrassing story of how getting help led to a three-day panic attack because I finally had room to breathe!

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What you will learn in this episode:

How to create a job description that attracts the right candidates and weeds out those just looking to "hang out" in a tattoo shop
Why you need to define your values and non-negotiables before starting the interview process
Red flags to watch for in applications and interviews (like using "U" instead of "you" in professional communication)
The importance of conducting two interviews to verify consistency in responses
Why hiring someone who compliments your weaknesses rather than mirrors your strengths is crucial
How to identify when you're making a "panic hire" and why these rarely work out
The unexpected adjustment period that can happen when you finally get the help you need

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Episode #1 The Perfect Client DOES Exist

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Guest Spot Survival Guide: What Every Tattoo Artist Needs to Know with Missi Blue | Ep. 21 Mar 12, 2025

Guest spotting can be rewarding but also intimidating if you're unprepared. I'm pulling back the curtain on both sides of the experience - what you need to know as a traveling artist and what shop owners should consider when hosting guests. From essential pre-trip questions to bringing your portfolio (seriously, why don't artists do this?), I share the communication strategies that make or break these opportunities. After hosting countless artists at Bluebird Tattoo and guest spotting around the country myself, I've seen it all - the good, the awkward, and the unprofessional. This episode gives you the honest advice you need to build meaningful connections that can transform your career in the tattoo industry.

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What you will learn in this episode:

Key questions to ask before accepting a guest spot (shop supplies, location details, shop reputation, and client preferences)
How to effectively promote yourself in a new city through targeted ads, local social media groups, and hashtags
Essential items to bring with you, including your portfolio, business cards, and merch to maximize opportunities
Professional etiquette tips for creating great first impressions and building relationships with shop owners
Communication strategies before, during, and after your guest spot to ensure success and future invitations
Best practices for shop owners hosting guest artists, from proper preparation to creating a welcoming environment
How to turn a work trip into a valuable learning experience by engaging with resident artists

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What To Do When You Are Feeling Uninspired with Missi Blue | Ep. 20 Mar 05, 2025

In this episode, I explore the all-too-familiar terrain of creative blocks and artistic burnout. As tattoo artists and creators, we've all experienced that moment when inspiration seems to vanish completely—when our artistic well runs dry despite deadlines looming. I share my personal journey through these challenges and offer practical strategies that have helped me reconnect with my creative spirit time and again.

What you will learn in this episode:

How to recognize the telltale signs of an artistic slump before it leads to burnout
Why reconnecting with your childhood creative habits can reignite your artistic passion
Practical ways to step outside your comfort zone to find fresh inspiration
The importance of disconnecting from social media and industry influences
How changing your environment and daily routines can spark new creative energy
Why embracing imperfection and creating without purpose can restore joy to your process
Strategies for developing your own personalized inspiration toolkit

Remember, creative blocks are just part of the cycle—they always end. Instead of fighting against them, use these moments as signals to reset and refocus. What are your most reliable methods for breaking through creative blocks? Share them with us on Instagram @boundbyart or email us at hello@boundbyart.com!

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When to Bend: Finding Balance Between Boundaries and Business with Missi Blue | Ep. 19 Feb 26, 2025

Let’s talk about boundaries. Join me as I explore the tricky balance between setting boundaries as a tattoo artist and knowing when to bend them. As business owners, we're taught to be crystal clear about what we do and don't do - but what happens when our schedule isn't full? I share my own recent experience with breaking one of my hard and fast rules and how I've been inconsistent with enforcing cancellation policies with certain clients. This honest conversation dives into why we sometimes compromise our boundaries, how to do it strategically, and when flexibility might actually create opportunities rather than problems.

What you will learn in this episode:

Why rigid specialization works when you're busy but might need flexibility during slow seasons
How to turn "exception" appointments into opportunities for future work aligned with your style
The importance of setting clear expectations with clients when you bend your own rules
Strategies for dealing with chronic reschedulers (especially fellow business owners)
How breaking boundaries occasionally doesn't mean abandoning them completely
When to recognize your blind spots in enforcing policies with certain clients
Ways to adapt your schedule to accommodate valuable clients with unpredictable availability

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The Art of Shop Culture with Missi Blue & Gabe Burgos | Ep. 18 Feb 19, 2025

I'm beyond excited to bring you this conversation with my tattoo shop bestie and incredible black and gray artist, Gabe Burgos. What started as a guest spot at Bluebird Tattoo turned into an amazing friendship built on our shared sobriety, brutal honesty about shop ownership, and drive to constantly push ourselves outside our comfort zones.

Gabe went from working in factories to running his own successful shop, Burgos Inc., in just seven years. But this episode isn't just about his journey - it's about having the courage to bet on yourself, even when it feels terrifying. We dive deep into what it really takes to level up in this industry, from surrounding yourself with artists who are better than you to making the tough decisions that protect your shop's culture.

Burgos Ink Tattoo Shop

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What you'll learn in this episode:

How Gabe left his full-time factory job to pursue tattooing while supporting three kids and a stay-at-home wife
Why being the "weakest link" at his black and gray shop helped him level up his skills dramatically
The importance of guest spots and getting outside your shop to avoid plateauing
How to maintain shop culture by turning "maybe" hires into hard "no's" if they're not a "fuck yeah"
Why having your "back against the wall" can be the motivation you need to succeed
The reality of opening a shop with minimal savings and making it work anyway
How to balance being the "cool boss" with maintaining clear expectations and boundaries

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Is It Time to Hire an Assistant with Missi Blue| Ep. 17 Feb 12, 2025

"Sometimes your big ideas require a special skill that you don't currently possess and you'd have to learn this new skill. The thought of learning a new skill brings us right back to stress mode. And because when the fuck would you even have time to study and learn this?"

I've learned firsthand the challenges of being a solo entrepreneur. After years of doing everything myself and experiencing multiple burnouts, I discovered that asking for help isn't just okay – it's essential for both your business and your wellbeing. In this episode, I'm sharing my journey and the exact steps I took to recognize when I needed help, what kind of support to look for, and how to make it work financially.

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What You'll Learn in This Episode:

How to identify the clear warning signs that you're heading toward burnout and need support in your business
The importance of conducting a time audit and how to use it to make strategic decisions about delegation
Practical strategies for automating repetitive tasks and creating systems before hiring help
How to calculate your true hourly rate and determine which tasks are worth delegating
Why investing time in training someone now can lead to significant time savings in the future
Simple ways to start delegating with small, one-time projects before committing to regular help
The real cost of trying to do everything yourself and how it affects your creativity, relationships, and health

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Peace Over Productivity with Missi Blue | Ep. 16 Feb 05, 2025

"The only thing that's stopping me is me. I am perpetually just getting in my own fucking way. Everything I'm currently struggling with, I brought on myself. I literally make my own schedule." - Missi Blue

A chance encounter with a free-spirited client at my shop, Bluebird Tattoo Studio, sparked something in me. Here was someone who had created the exact life I dreamed of when I first opened my shop - the freedom to run, to travel, to breathe. Walking through the crisp morning air for the first time in years, I realized how far I'd drifted from that vision. Five years after opening during COVID, I'm still operating in survival mode when I should be celebrating how far I've come. This conversation dives deep into what happens when we forget our 'why' and how to find our way back to it.

What you will learn in this episode:

The unexpected way survival mode becomes your comfort zone, even when you're no longer surviving
How a simple morning walk can become a powerful tool for mental clarity and strategic thinking
Why reaching our goals often leads to moving the goalposts instead of celebrating our wins
The surprising story of how a 14-year-old's anger management drawing predicted my future
What happens when we start believing freedom is meant for everyone else but us
The critical difference between building mode and survival mode in business
How to recognize when you're the one standing in your own way

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Finding Strength in the ADHD Struggle with Missi Blue | Ep. 15 Jan 29, 2025

As someone who spent most of my life undiagnosed with ADHD, I'm passionate about sharing how what many see as limitations can actually be superpowers when you learn to work with them, not against them. In this deeply personal episode, I open up about my own journey of late diagnosis, sobriety, and building Bluebird Tattoo - and how my ADHD traits actually helped me succeed. Whether you have ADHD or face other challenges, this episode is about finding your own path and turning your perceived weaknesses into strengths.

What you will learn in this episode:

The five gifts of ADHD according to "The Gift of Adult ADD" and how traits like emotional sensitivity and creativity can become entrepreneurial advantages
Why being "nature smart" and having the ability to see the big picture can help ground you as a business owner and artist
How hyper-focus, when channeled properly, can become an unstoppable force for achieving your goals
The unexpected superpower of impulsivity - how having "zero regard for consequences" enabled bold business moves
My personal journey through sobriety, building a business, and discovering that struggling through challenges undiagnosed made me stronger
Why your diagnosis (ADHD or otherwise) should inform your path but never limit your potential
The importance of finding your own systems and methods rather than forcing yourself to fit conventional approaches

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Stop Making Excuses and GET Started with Missi Blue | Ep. 14 Jan 22, 2025

"The things you want are just on the other side of the work, and the work can't start until you take the first step." - Missi

When I opened Bluebird Tattoo Studio, all I had were fold-up tables and bare walls. Today, I want to talk about those mental barriers we set up for ourselves - you know, the ones that keep us stuck in place. I've learned that embracing the messy, imperfect beginnings isn't just okay – it's exactly where the magic starts. Let's cut through those excuses and get real about what's actually holding you back from taking that first step.

What you will learn in this episode:

Why waiting to "be ready" is the biggest lie we tell ourselves and how to push past it
The real reason failure isn't your enemy - it's actually your best teacher
Why looking at someone else's highlight reel is killing your momentum before you even start
How starting "ugly" saved my business and why it might save yours too
The way I redefined success for myself and how you can tune out the noise to find your own path
Why celebrating small wins (like a wobbly baby taking their first steps) changes everything
How to recognize that your "not enough" today would have blown your mind five years ago

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From Burnout to Balance: Evolving as an Artist with Missi Blue and Casey Hart | Ep. 13 Jan 15, 2025

"Trust your gut and trust your experience. After a decade of experience, the body knows what to do for a lot of it. You just have to listen a little better." - Casey Hart

In this powerful episode, I sat down with Casey Hart, owner of Foxwood Tattoo Collective and an innovative force in the tattoo industry. Casey opens up about her journey from traditional tattooing to incorporating spiritual healing into her practice, showing how intuition and authenticity can transform both art and business. With 13 years of experience, she shares invaluable insights about creating boundaries, finding work-life balance, and the importance of trusting your gut in both tattooing and business.

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What You Will Learn in This Episode:

How combining Reiki healing and sound therapy with tattooing creates a unique, personalized experience for clients
Why setting boundaries and prioritizing personal time is crucial for sustainable success in the tattoo industry
The importance of trusting your intuition and how it can improve both your artwork and client relationships
How mentorship and investing in personal growth can accelerate your professional development
The power of authenticity and vulnerability in building a strong personal brand and client connection
Strategies for avoiding burnout while maintaining creativity and productivity
The future of tattooing and why human connection will become even more valuable

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Episode #1: The Perfect Client DOES Exist

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Turning Your Followers Into Paying Clients with Missi Blue | Ep. 12 Jan 08, 2025

"Business cards are not expensive, guys. I will die on this hill. Even though people might lose them or find you online, having a business card is still so important - it's your first impression and your walking billboard." - Missi Blue

In this episode, we're diving deep into the art of turning your social media following into actual paying clients. As tattoo artists, we often focus on growing our following, but the real challenge lies in converting those followers into clients who trust us with their skin. I'll share my tried-and-true strategies for building genuine connections and creating meaningful engagement that leads to bookings.

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What You Will Learn in This Episode:

How to identify and connect with your ideal clients through strategic social media engagement and authentic interactions
Practical tips for using polls, questions, and comments to create meaningful conversations with potential clients
The power of geo-targeting and hashtag strategies to find clients within your service area
Why Facebook communities are still valuable for building client relationships and establishing expertise
Tips for introverted artists to build confidence in client interactions while staying true to themselves
The importance of genuine engagement and relationship-building over quick sales tactics
Effective strategies for in-person networking and promoting yourself naturally in everyday situations

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8 Reasons You Won't ACHIEVE Your Goals Again This Year with Missi Blue | EP 11 Jan 01, 2025

"In order to reach your goals, you have to become the person who already has them. Stop asking what you want to do and start asking who you need to be." - Missi Blue

Today, we're diving deep into why New Year's resolutions often fail and what you can actually do about it. After years of setting goals, breaking promises to myself, and finally finding what works, I'm sharing the real, unfiltered truth about transformation. Whether you're trying to grow your business, improve your art, or make personal changes, this episode will give you actionable steps to make lasting change happen.

Goal Getter worksheet

What You Will Learn in This Episode:

Why broken self-trust is the hidden barrier keeping you from reaching your goals (and how to rebuild it)
The crucial difference between setting goals and creating intentions, and why this shift in language matters
How to develop real discipline through small, consistent actions rather than relying on motivation
The power of identity-based habits and why becoming the person who "does" is more important than the goal itself
Why accountability systems are essential and how to choose the right accountability partners
The truth about creating sustainable routines and how to make them stick
How to identify and change the daily decisions that shape your success

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Turning Mom Guilt into Growth: An Artist's Journey with Missi Blue | Ep. 10 Dec 25, 2024

"I want them to see that my success is a direct result of not giving up, putting in everything I have and am into my dream and working towards my goal. I want them to go after big dreams and know how to reach their goals." - Missi Blue

Let's get real - in this episode, I'm sharing all the ways I've both failed and succeeded at being a mom while building my tattoo career. From hiding my art from my kids (huge mistake) to finally learning how to create meaningful moments with them, I'm opening up about the messy reality of raising teenagers while running Bluebird Tattoo. If you're struggling with mom guilt or trying to balance your creative career with family life, this one's for you.

What you will learn in this episode:

How protecting your artistic space can inadvertently create barriers with your children, and ways to mindfully include them in your creative process
The unexpected benefits of letting your children witness your struggles, failures, and how you overcome them
Why creating intentional routines and traditions (like Monday night cooking sessions) can build lasting connections, even with limited time
The delicate balance between guiding your children and allowing them to discover their own creative paths
How teaching independence and resilience can prepare children for success, even when it feels counterintuitive
Why showing vulnerability and real emotions to your children can help them develop better communication skills
The importance of making time for one-on-one connections with each child, even when schedules are hectic

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9 Ways to Get More Done in Your Day with Missi Blue | Ep. 9 Dec 18, 2024

"Anyone who says they're good at multitasking is full of shit. You're not. I'm sorry. No one is. You might think you are, but if you really sat down and analyze the amount of time it takes you to do things when you are constantly switching between tasks, you would see that you waste a lot of time in your day."

Let's get real - we all have those days where we're running around like crazy but somehow getting nothing done. Trust me, I get it. I literally procrastinated recording this episode until two days before the deadline (hello, self-awareness!). But over the years, I've developed some game-changing strategies that have helped me take control of my time and actually move the needle in my business. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how to get more done without losing your sanity in the process.

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What you'll learn in this episode:

Why getting ready the night before is crucial for productivity (and how treating each day like the first day of school can transform your workflow)
The truth about prioritizing tasks and why your to-do list might be sabotaging your progress
How to use "batching" to maximize your creative energy and get more done in less time
A simple but powerful way to break your day into manageable chunks that keep you focused
Why multitasking is killing your productivity (and what to do instead)
The importance of setting boundaries with your phone, social media, and yes - even your family
How time auditing can reveal where you're actually spending your hours (warning: prepare to be shocked)

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Episode 3: Be Your Own Hero

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Energy Vampire with Missi Blue | Ep. 8 Dec 11, 2024

"Whatever you're looking for, you're sure to find it. So find the good things in situations and the people around you in life in general." - Missi Blue

In this episode of the Bound by Art podcast, I dive deep into a topic that affects every tattoo artist: managing the energy in your space. As someone who's spent countless hours in close proximity with clients, I've learned that understanding and managing the energy dynamics in your studio isn't just about comfort – it's essential for your mental health and the success of your business. Whether you're dealing with energy-draining clients or trying to create a more positive atmosphere in your shop, this episode provides practical strategies based on real experiences at Bluebird Tattoo.

What you will learn in this episode:

The clear distinction between energy vampires and energy amplifiers, and how to identify them in your professional and personal life
Practical strategies for managing challenging client interactions without compromising your professional relationships
How to set effective time boundaries while maintaining positive client relationships
The importance of self-awareness in preventing yourself from becoming an energy vampire
Techniques for steering conversations in a positive direction during long tattoo sessions
The role of compassion in handling clients who may be struggling with personal challenges
Specific methods for protecting your energy while maintaining professionalism in your practice

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Get my FREE survival guide here

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Surviving the Slow Season with Missi Blue | Ep. 7 Dec 04, 2024

"Winners are made in the off season. While everyone else is taking a break, we're working our asses off - and when the next season starts, we hit the ground running." - Missi Blue

Hey everyone, Missi here! In today's episode, we're diving deep into a reality every tattoo artist faces - the slow season. But here's the thing: instead of seeing it as a setback, I'm showing you how to use this time to level up your game. From creating additional income streams and building better systems to networking and improving your craft, we're covering everything you need to know to turn the slow season into your secret weapon for success. Plus, I'm sharing my personal experiences and strategies that have helped me navigate these quieter times while setting myself up for an even stronger comeback.

What you will learn in this episode:

Strategic financial planning for unpredictable income cycles and handling slow seasons
How to develop profitable side hustles that complement your tattoo business
Creating systems and routines to streamline your business operations
Making the most of downtime through skill development and networking
Building community presence and visibility during slower months
Effective social media strategies for maintaining engagement during slow periods
Planning and goal-setting techniques for sustainable business growth

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Find Your Unique Style Worksheet

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Find Your Unique Style with Missi Blue| Ep. 6 Nov 27, 2024

"My entire career was manifested out of trying to prove someone wrong. I'm just fueled by spite." - Missi Blue

Welcome back to the Bound by Art podcast! In this episode, I'm opening up about my wild 20-year ride in tattooing - from my early days as a stubborn apprentice to finding my groove as a pet portrait specialist. You'll hear how spite and determination (plus some Christmas ornaments!) led me to discover my true artistic voice. I share the raw truth about working with dickheads who toughened me up, why specializing doesn't mean selling out, and how being unapologetically yourself attracts the right clients. Plus, I break down my journey from barely making it during slow seasons to building a thriving specialized career that lights me up every day.

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What You'll Learn in This Episode:

The real story behind my failed apprenticeship and how starting over shaped my career
How painting pet ornaments during slow season evolved into my signature style
Why specializing makes you more appealing to your ideal clients
The importance of proving yourself before niching down
How being transparent about trying new things keeps clients excited
Why analyzing your childhood influences can unlock your authentic style
The power of intentional growth vs. letting success "just happen"

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How to Say NO to a Client with Missi Blue | Ep. 5 Nov 19, 2024

I've learned that setting clear boundaries isn't just about protecting yourself—it's about elevating your entire practice. In this episode, I'm sharing the exact strategies I use to maintain professional relationships, handle difficult situations, and create a healthier work environment. Whether you're struggling with boundary-pushing clients or just want to strengthen your studio policies, this episode will give you the tools you need to take control of your practice.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

How to identify red flags in potential clients before booking them
The exact language to use when breaking up with problem clients
Why friends and family need the same boundaries as other clients
The importance of documenting all client interactions and agreements
How to maintain professionalism while being firm and direct
Practical strategies for handling boundary violations
The consequences of avoiding difficult conversations

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How to Attract More Clients with Missi Blue | Ep. 4 Nov 13, 2024

In this episode of the Bound By Art podcast, I'm diving deep into something that transformed my tattoo business - creating meaningful connections with clients that turn them into loyal supporters. As artists, we often focus on bringing in new clients, but the real magic happens when we give our existing clients an experience they can't help but talk about. I'm sharing my tried-and-true methods for building genuine relationships and creating moments that matter, all while staying true to who you are as an artist.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

Why focusing on current clients is more valuable than constantly chasing new ones
The memory technique that helps you genuinely remember your clients (and never have those awkward "is this your first tattoo?" moments again)
How to create meaningful conversations that go beyond small talk
Practical ways to make clients feel comfortable and reduce anxiety during their session
Simple but impactful gestures that show appreciation and build lasting connections

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Be Your Own Hero with Missi Blue | Ep. 3 Nov 05, 2024

Today, we're diving deep into what it truly means to take control of your own success. From my personal struggles getting back to the gym to navigating a tattoo business during COVID, I'm sharing how I learned to stop waiting for someone else to save me and started being my own hero. Whether you're dealing with a slow season in your tattoo career or facing personal challenges, this episode is all about turning those "someone should" moments into "I will" actions.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

Why waiting for external motivation rarely leads to lasting change
How to shift from blame-shifting to taking responsibility for your success
The importance of building internal motivation versus relying on others
Practical strategies for pushing through when no one's coming to save you
Real-world examples of turning challenges into opportunities for growth
Why slow seasons are actually perfect opportunities for leveling up
The power of asking "What more could I be doing?" instead of making excuses

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