Stay ConnectedWelcome to Bobo’s Void: The podcast for people who are too smart to be happy and too tired to pretend otherwise.
We talk love, relationships, philosophy, capitalism, and why everything feels off.
New episodes drop weekly. Teasers on Spotify. Full unfiltered chaos lives on Patreon.
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Today we have two dilemmas: a man who loves his girlfriend so deeply and so genuinely that he cannot stop cheating on her. and a woman who feels absolutely nothing for her man — and yet shows up in the most loving ways every single day anyway.
we asked who the better partner is. the answer will bother you.
Bobo also gave the women listening a masterclass in how to be less of a clown. you're welcome.
featuring bell hooks, antisocial personality disorder, the inflation of male attention, and the uncomfortable conclusion that we are all much closer to sociopaths than we'd like to believe.
let us know ur thoughts down below - would you (or have you) ever dated a sociopath?
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okay so your 20s are for making mistakes and your 30s are for finally understanding them. In this episode, we break down the real curriculum of adulthood: failed timelines, collapsing friendships, capitalism, confusion, fuckboys and the shocking discovery that stability, is in fact, hot.
think of this as a practical guide to surviving the two hardest decades of your life, for people who were promised "finding yourself" but mostly found stress lol.
let us know in the comment section below how you are surviving these times!
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in this episode, Bobo finally admits that she does, in fact, have adhd. we talk about what adhd actually is (not just “getting bored easily”), the three types, how it shows up in daily life (especially if you’re the inattentive type like me) and how it plays out in relationships.
but most importantly, we unpack the pressing question: does adhd make you a bad partner?
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romantic love? made up. monogamy? propaganda. childhood innocence? invented by rich people with too much free time.
see, you think you're sad because you're broken, but maybe you're just trapped inside a bunch of fake stories that were made up thousands of years ago.
in this episode, we pull apart the myths we live inside and ask the poignant question: who wrote these scripts and why are we allowing them to ruin our lives? let's unravel.
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this week, we talk about why friendships get messy so quickly - and why you’re no longer (and could never possibly still be) friends with your high school bestie. we get into the politics of hotness and the myth of the equal friendship. plus: why friend groups are basically just soft dictatorships dressed up as sisterhoods.
i also ask the question: what actually is a good friend? (and how do you know when you’ve become the villain in your own group chat?)
let us know your thoughts down below!
here's the viral clip referred to in the video: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKdg6tmsI91/?igsh=NnZuc3FqMjhkZXMw
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This week we ask the unthinkable: what if rich kids have it worse? We explore why happiness might actually belong to the broke, the middle class, and anyone still naïve enough to hope.
Trump’s tariffs tanked the economy. AI is coming for your job. Capitalism is coughing blood. So we did the only logical thing: gave up and started painting.
In this episode, we talk about surrender, art, tariffs, religion and the weird mental clarity that comes when you stop trying to win a game designed to kill you.
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This week we're talking about clutter (aka all the stuff in your house). The process of decluttering my house has led me down a spiral of unpacking my attachments to my past and the ways that material possessions have me by the throat.
We talking about hyper-consumerism, minimalism and the normalization of hoarding. do u reaaalllyyyy need all the stuff that you own?
let us know if you're doing this week's homework assignment, and as usual, let us know your thoughts down below!
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Would you still crave romantic love if no one had ever told you it existed? This week we’re talking about love, money, and mimetic desire.
This week, we spiral about mimetic desire, dating in the age of capitalism, and the question on everyone’s mind: are you in love - or just getting tricked (or tricking)?
Also: Trickin’. Is it emotional labor, or just modern romance? Let's discuss
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