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    Black Girl Burnout

    Black Girl Burnout is a podcast about burnout, ambition, care, and what it actually takes to build a life that feels good to live—not just impressive from the outside. 

    Hosted by Kelley Bonner, the show explores how burnout takes hold, why ambition doesn’t need to be abandoned but redesigned, and how joy, rest, and gentleness can coexist with meaningful work and forward movement.

    Through reflection, practical insight, and carefully chosen conversations, Black Girl Burnout offers both grounding and direction, helping listeners feel seen and take action toward lives that are sustainable, intentional, and their own.

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    Healing is a Story Away: How Bibliotherapy Can Help You Reclaim Joy Jul 09, 2025
    Show notes

    In this powerful and tender episode of Black Girl Burnout, Kelley is joined by licensed clinical social worker and bibliotherapist Emely Rumble for a deeply affirming conversation about the healing power of stories. As part of our “Summer of Yes,” this episode explores what happens when we slow down, find ourselves in fiction, and use storytelling as a path to emotional integration and liberation.

    Kelley and Emely talk about the role of literature in Black healing, how stories help us reclaim fragmented parts of ourselves, and why culturally rooted narratives matter in the therapeutic process. This episode is your invitation to reflect on the books that shaped you, the characters who gave you language, and the stories that helped you survive. If you’ve ever felt healed by a page, this one’s for you.

    Key Takeaways

    Stories are mirrors and medicine. Literature offers language, validation, and emotional integration when we’re navigating trauma or transformation.

    Healing must be culturally grounded. For Black women, therapy and story must reflect our lived experiences—not just clinical frameworks.

    You don’t need to be a therapist to use stories to heal. From poetry to journaling, storytelling is a tool we all have access to.

    Reclaiming your narrative is radical healing. Naming your truth through story is a form of resistance and restoration.

    Episode Timestamps

    00:00 – Setting the Summer Tone

    Kelley opens the episode with reflections on the Summer of Yes—and why Emely’s work in bibliotherapy is the perfect fit for a season rooted in ease, healing, and affirmation.

    02:00 – What is Bibliotherapy?

    Emely defines bibliotherapy and explains how literature can support emotional healing, identity exploration, and personal growth.

    05:30 – Books as Emotional Companions

    A heartfelt discussion about how fiction and poetry can give us language, belonging, and connection—especially when we’ve never had the words ourselves.

    09:00 – Real-Life Impact: From Prison to Poetry

    Kelley shares her early experience introducing poetry in the prison system and the unexpected healing that followed.

    13:30 – Representation in Storytelling

    Emely and Kelley reflect on why representation in literature matters and how seeing ourselves in books shifts our inner narratives.

    17:15 – Fragmentation and Integration

    Emely explains how trauma fragments the self and how storytelling helps us piece ourselves back together.

    21:00 – Language as Liberation

    They explore how reading and storytelling give Black women a powerful framework for naming emotions, setting boundaries, and reclaiming joy.

    25:00 – Books That Healed Us

    Kelley and Emely share the characters and books that shaped them—and how those stories continue to guide their healing journeys.

    29:00 – Reflection + Closing

    The episode ends with a loving invitation for listeners to reflect on the books that helped them heal and how storytelling might be the next step on their path to wholeness.

    Support the Show

    Are you stepping into a “Summer of No”? Whether you're canceling plans for rest, setting fresh boundaries, or saying no to what drains you, you don’t owe anyone guilt. Take a moment this week to capture what freedom looks like for you. Snap a pic or video of your joy and tag us:

    📱 @blackgirlburnout

    📧 Subscribe to our newsletter: www.blackgirlburnout.com

    📺 Watch the episode on YouTube

    💌 Show some love—don’t let Kelley’s mama be the only one dropping hearts!

    Have a question for July's Q &A episode click here to submit your questions.

    Stay In Touch

    If you’re looking for more ways to connect with the Black Girl Burnout community, we’ve got you covered:

    • Join our Substack family! Think of it as a modern-day online magazine (Tumblr-coded for the millennial hearts). We share weekly reflections, tips, tools, and deeper insights into each podcast episode—plus personal notes from Kelley’s life.
    • Become a paid Substack subscriber for just $8/month (about the cost of a fancy latte) and access exclusive content like digital tools, apps, and free resources that are valued far beyond that.

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    The Power of No: How to Reclaim Your Summer, Your Energy, and Your Peace Jul 02, 2025
    Show notes

    In this energizing episode of Black Girl Burnout, host Kelley invites us into July with a powerful reminder: true freedom often begins with one simple word, no. As we continue embracing our "Summer of Yes," Kelley gets honest about what it really takes to say yes to joy, ease, and delight. Sometimes, that means first saying no to exhaustion, overcommitment, and emotional labor that’s not yours to carry. This episode sets the tone for a month of liberation by exploring boundaries as a daily freedom practice and encouraging listeners to opt into rest without guilt. If you’ve been feeling burnt out from being the go-to person or struggling to say no without guilt, this episode is your permission slip.

    Key Takeaways

    • Freedom requires boundaries. Saying "no" is not about rejection—it's redirection toward peace and personal capacity.
    • Performative ‘yes’ leads to burnout. If your yesses are rooted in obligation instead of joy, it’s time to reevaluate.
    • Permission to stop performing. You don’t have to do the most to prove your worth—freedom is choosing rest over performance.

    Episode Timestamps

    00:00 – Setting the Tone for July

    Kelley introduces the theme “Freedom Looks Like This” and previews upcoming guests and topics.

    03:00 – Why “No” Matters More Than Ever

    Kelley reframes saying no as a form of freedom and empowerment rather than rejection.

    05:00 – Honoring Capacity

    She challenges listeners to reflect on how often they override their emotional and physical limits out of obligation.

    07:00 – The Weight We Carry

    A discussion on the invisible labor Black women often bear and how it keeps us from freedom.

    10:00 – From Performer to Twirler

    Kelley shares a beautiful metaphor between performers and twirlers—those choosing rest, beauty, and softness.

    13:00 – The Cost of Saying Yes

    A reflective moment about how past people-pleasing and overextension came at a high emotional cost.

    15:00 – Emotional Permission Slip

    Kelley offers a loving call to opt out of guilt and into peace, giving listeners full permission to reclaim their energy.

    Support the Show

    Are you stepping into a “Summer of No”? Whether you're canceling plans for rest, setting fresh boundaries, or saying no to what drains you, you don’t owe anyone guilt. Take a moment this week to capture what freedom looks like for you. Snap a pic or video of your joy and tag us:

    📱 @blackgirlburnout

    📧 Subscribe to our newsletter: www.blackgirlburnout.com

    📺 Watch the episode on YouTube

    💌 Show some love—don’t let Kelley’s mama be the only one dropping hearts!

    Have a question for July's Q &A episode click here to submit your questions.

    Stay In Touch

    If you’re looking for more ways to connect with the Black Girl Burnout community, we’ve got you covered:

    • Join our Substack family! Think of it as a modern-day online magazine (Tumblr-coded for the millennial hearts). We share weekly reflections, tips, tools, and deeper insights into each podcast episode—plus personal notes from Kelley’s life.
    • Become a paid Substack subscriber for just $8/month (about the cost of a fancy latte) and access exclusive content like digital tools, apps, and free resources that are valued far beyond that.

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    Opt Into the Power of Play: Active Rest for a Joyful, Resilient Life Jun 25, 2025
    Show notes

    On this episode of Black Girl Burnout, Kelley explores the transformative power of play and how Black women can reclaim joy and resilience through active rest. In a world that constantly demands output and performance, Kelley breaks down why play isn’t just a luxury—it’s a necessity. She dives into the science of joy, the healing impact of non-productive rest, and the cultural pressure that often robs Black women of their right to be playful. With heartfelt honesty and practical insights, this episode is a powerful reminder that silliness, spontaneity, and delight are not just allowed, they’re essential for thriving.

    Key Takeaways

    • Active rest—joyful, non-productive activities—can boost creativity, reduce stress, and improve emotional resilience.
    • Black women are uniquely in need of play due to chronic stress and societal expectations to perform strength and competence.
    • Incorporating even five minutes of play into your day can help you reclaim joy, connection, and mental clarity.

    Episode Timestamps

    1:00 — What is active rest and why does it matter?

    Kelley introduces the concept of play as a form of rest and outlines how it differs from traditional ideas of productivity.

    4:00 — The science behind joyful living

    Research shows that play lowers cortisol, raises endorphins, and supports cognitive flexibility—vital tools for navigating life’s stressors.

    10:30 — How play creates emotional resets and connection

    Play not only improves your mood but also enhances your relationships by making you more open and connected to others.

    15:00 — Micro-moments of play that actually work

    Kelley shares her go-to ideas for quick, joyful play: spontaneous dance breaks, coloring, stretching, and more.

    23:00 — The courage to be silly and soft

    By saying yes to small acts of joy, we challenge the narrative that Black women must always be strong. Play is a revolutionary act of healing.

    SUPPORT THE SHOW

    Are you creating your Summer of Yes?

    Whether it’s sleeping in, brunching solo, or finally saying no to that thing, you deserve joy without permission or guilt.

    ✨ Snap a pic or video of how you're saying YES to joy, rest, and ease

    ✨ Tag @blackgirlburnout

    ✨ Use the hashtag #SummerOfYes

    📩 Subscribe to the newsletter: blackgirlburnout.com

    📱 Follow on socials: IG + TikTok: @blackgirlburnout

    🎥 Watch the episode on YouTube and show some love. Don’t let Kelley’s mama be the only one dropping hearts!

    Have a question for July's Q &A episode click here to submit your questions.

    STAY IN TOUCH

    If you’re looking for more ways to connect with the Black Girl Burnout community, we’ve got you covered:

    • Join our Substack family! Think of it as a modern-day online magazine (Tumblr-coded for the millennial hearts). We share weekly reflections, tips, tools, and deeper insights into each podcast episode—plus personal notes from Kelley’s life.
    • Become a paid Substack subscriber for just $8/month (about the cost of a fancy latte) and access exclusive content like digital tools, apps, and free resources that are valued far beyond that.
    • Work with Kelley directly: If you’re in New York State, Kelley is also accepting short-term therapy clients with select insurance and private pay options. Sessions are designed to be focused and transformational within 90 days. Book a Consultation.



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    Opt Into Everyday Joy: The Antidote to Grief No One Talks About Jun 18, 2025
    Show notes

    In this heartfelt and healing episode of Black Girl Burnout, Kelley explores the radical power of joy in the midst of grief, burnout, and emotional overwhelm. Drawing from personal reflections and powerful psychological insights, she introduces the concept of micro-joys—small, intentional moments of delight that can help rewire our emotional landscape and bring peace, even on the hardest days. Listeners are invited to shift their perspective, claim joy as a birthright, and participate in a 7-day challenge to notice and name one micro-joy each day.

    KEY TAKEAWAYS

    • Joy is not a luxury—it’s a healing tool. Even in sorrow, we can access delight in small, meaningful ways.
    • Micro-joys are your emotional reset button. A good song, a bite of fruit, a moment of sunlight can restore more than you think.
    • Choosing joy daily helps us reclaim power. It reminds us that we’re still here, still worthy, and still allowed to feel good.

    EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

    • 00:00 – Welcome & Intention Setting
    • Kelley shares the emotional backdrop for this episode and why joy matters, especially now.
    • 03:30 – What Is a Micro-Joy?
    • Defining micro-joys and why they’re essential tools for emotional resilience.
    • 09:10 – Personal Stories of Everyday Joy
    • Kelley shares real-life examples of delight that brought light into dark moments.
    • 15:00 – The “One Delight a Day” Challenge
    • Introducing a 7-day challenge to help you practice intentional joy daily.
    • 21:20 – Final Reflection & Journal Prompts
    • Questions to deepen your connection to joy and anchor it in your routine.

    SUPPORT THE SHOW

    Are you creating your Summer of Yes?

    Whether it’s sleeping in, brunching solo, or finally saying no to that thing, you deserve joy without permission or guilt.

    ✨ Snap a pic or video of how you're saying YES to joy, rest, and ease

    ✨ Tag @blackgirlburnout

    ✨ Use the hashtag #SummerOfYes

    📩 Subscribe to the newsletter: blackgirlburnout.com

    📱 Follow on socials: IG + TikTok: @blackgirlburnout

    🎥 Watch the episode on YouTube and show some love. Don’t let Kelley’s mama be the only one dropping hearts!

    Have a question for July's Q &A episode click here to submit your questions.

    STAY IN TOUCH

    If you’re looking for more ways to connect with the Black Girl Burnout community, we’ve got you covered:

    • Join our Substack family! Think of it as a modern-day online magazine (Tumblr-coded for the millennial hearts). We share weekly reflections, tips, tools, and deeper insights into each podcast episode—plus personal notes from Kelley’s life.
    • Become a paid Substack subscriber for just $8/month (about the cost of a fancy latte) and access exclusive content like digital tools, apps, and free resources that are valued far beyond that.
    • Work with Kelley directly: If you’re in New York State, Kelley is also accepting short-term therapy clients with select insurance and private pay options. Sessions are designed to be focused and transformational within 90 days. Book a Consultation.

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    Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    Pack Light, Choose Joy: The Travel Reset We All Deserve Jun 11, 2025
    Show notes

    In this uplifting and informative episode of Black Girl Burnout, host Kelley sits down with Kisha, a seasoned traveler and founder of Travel Niche Kisha, who has explored over 70 countries. Together, they discuss how travel can be a radical act of self-care, joy, and rest for Black women.

    Whether you're hopping on a plane or dreaming from your living room, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on how travel—both near and far—can reset your spirit. They discuss everything from budget-friendly luxury to embracing rest over hustle while exploring new places.

    This conversation is part of our Summer of YES series—an invitation to say YES to joy, rest, and meaningful experiences

    Key Takeaways & Timestamps:

    [04:00] Travel as Self-Care for Black Women

    While working in social work, Kisha shares how travel became her antidote to burnout. Travel isn’t just about escape—it’s a form of healing and restoration, especially for Black women who carry so much weight.

    [10:00] “Chase the Deal, Not the Destination”

    Kisha reveals her game-changing travel hack: prioritize deals over dream destinations. She breaks down how she’s visited places like Curaçao and Peru for under $300, proving that luxury and joy don’t have to break the bank.

    [18:00] Rest as a Travel Intention, Not an Afterthought

    Kelley and Kisha discuss the trap of over-scheduling trips and offer tips on curating restful, joy-filled itineraries. From scheduling downtime to savoring slow mornings, they invite listeners to plan for peace, not pressure.

    [27:00] Romanticize Your Travel Experience—Big or Small

    You can still embrace a travel mindset even if you're not getting on a plane this summer. Keisha explains how to bring vacation energy into your everyday life with intention, local adventures, and a spirit of curiosity.

    Support This Show

    Are you creating your Summer of Yes?

    Whether it’s sleeping in, brunching solo, or finally saying no to that thing, you deserve joy without permission or guilt.

    ✨ Snap a pic or video of how you're saying YES to joy, rest, and ease

    ✨ Tag @blackgirlburnout

    ✨ Use the hashtag #SummerOfYes

    📩 Subscribe to the newsletter: blackgirlburnout.com

    📱 Follow on socials: IG + TikTok: @blackgirlburnout

    🎥 Watch the episode on YouTube and show some love. Don’t let Kelley’s mama be the only one dropping hearts!

    STAY IN TOUCH

    If you’re looking for more ways to connect with the Black Girl Burnout community, we’ve got you covered:

    • Join our Substack family! Think of it as a modern-day online magazine (Tumblr-coded for the millennial hearts). We share weekly reflections, tips, tools, and deeper insights into each podcast episode—plus personal notes from Kelley’s life.
    • Become a paid Substack subscriber for just $8/month (about the cost of a fancy latte) and access exclusive content like digital tools, apps, and free resources that are valued far beyond that.
    • Work with Kelley directly: If you’re in New York State, Kelley is also accepting short-term therapy clients with select insurance and private pay options. Sessions are designed to be focused and transformational within 90 days. Book a Consultation.

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    The Summer of Yes: Reclaiming Rest, Joy, and Radical Ease Jun 04, 2025
    Show notes

    This week on the Black Girl Burnout podcast, Kelley kicks off June with a powerful declaration: this is the Summer of Yes. In this deeply affirming episode, she explores what it means to embrace radical rest, joy, and ease, especially for Black women who are often taught that they must hustle to be worthy. As she reflects on grief and healing, Kelley also reminds listeners that joy is not the absence of struggle, but the resistance to it. This episode is both a soft invitation and a bold call to action: to reclaim summer not as a season of over-productivity, but as a sacred space to say YES to softness, delight, boundaries, and fun.

    What You’ll Learn

    • How to shift from survival mode into intentional joy.
    • Why rest is not optional—it’s essential.
    • Ways to say "yes" to joy and "no" to energy drainers.
    • The radical act of celebrating yourself without guilt or apology.

    Key Takeaways & Timestamps:

    [04:00] Say YES to Radical Rest: Instead of hustling through summer, Kelley challenges listeners to redefine rest as a revolutionary act—and make space for true rejuvenation in everyday moments.

    [07:03] Joy Is Resistance: Kelley reframes joy as an act of defiance in a world that conditions Black women to glorify struggle. She invites us to consider how delight can coexist with grief.

    [08:11] Boundaries Are Beautiful: Whether it’s people, places, or obligations, Kelley emphasizes the power of saying no to what drains you—and yes to what restores you.

    [10:55] Design Your Summer With Intention: Listeners are guided to reclaim their time, whether that’s through slower mornings, sacred Sundays, or committing to just one restful ritual each week.

    Support This Show

    Are you creating your Summer of Yes?

    Whether it’s sleeping in, brunching solo, or finally saying no to that thing—you deserve joy without permission or guilt.

    ✨ Snap a pic or video of how you're saying YES to joy, rest, and ease

    ✨ Tag @blackgirlburnout

    ✨ Use the hashtag #SummerOfYes

    📩 Subscribe to the newsletter: blackgirlburnout.com

    📱 Follow on socials: IG + TikTok: @blackgirlburnout

    🎥 Watch the episode on YouTube and show some love. Don’t let Kelley’s mama be the only one dropping hearts!

    STAY IN TOUCH

    If you’re looking for more ways to connect with the Black Girl Burnout community, we’ve got you covered:

    • Join our Substack family! Think of it as a modern-day online magazine (Tumblr-coded for the millennial hearts). We share weekly reflections, tips, tools, and deeper insights into each podcast episode—plus personal notes from Kelley’s life.
    • Become a paid Substack subscriber for just $8/month (about the cost of a fancy latte) and access exclusive content like digital tools, apps, and free resources that are valued far beyond that.
    • Work with Kelley directly: If you’re in New York State, Kelley is also accepting short-term therapy clients with select insurance and private pay options. Sessions are designed to be focused and transformational within 90 days. Book a Consultation.

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    Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    You’re Not Broken, You’re Grieving: How to Name, Feel, and Grow Through It May 28, 2025
    Show notes

    What if the exhaustion you’re carrying… is actually grief? In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Kelley Bonner opens up about the layered, often invisible nature of grief—and how it has quietly shaped her healing. From the loss of her father to unexpected feelings around legacy, motherhood, and slowing down, this episode is a compassionate invitation to feel what’s real, honor what’s hard, and still choose expansion. Grief doesn’t have to shrink you. It can soften you, grow you, and gently guide you into a more grounded version of yourself.

    What You’ll Learn

    • How grief shows up beyond death—through broken dreams, career changes, and shifting identities
    • Why slowing down can be a sacred and necessary act of healing
    • How to listen to your body’s cues during a season of loss
    • Gentle tools to transform grief into personal growth

    Key Takeaways & Timestamps:

    [00:03:00] – Naming the Hidden Grief Beneath Burnout

    Kelley reframes anxiety, anger, and burnout as signs of unacknowledged grief.

    [00:10:35] – Grief Will Slow You Down (And That’s a Gift)

    Kelley shares how loss forced her into stillness, softness, and deeper presence.

    [00:14:49] – Grief Expands More Than Pain

    Unexpected emotions can rise—career regret, lost dreams, and shifting identity.

    [00:22:15] – Three Invitations for Healing Through Grief

    In the final section, Kelley shares three powerful practices to process grief: (1) honor the pause, (2) let your body lead, and (3) allow buried feelings to surface gently. Each tip is an invitation to let grief expand—not harden—your heart.

    Be part of our upcoming Q&A Episode:

    Got a question you’ve been holding onto? Ask me anything, life, healing, boundaries, burnout.

    Click to fill out our google form or DM @blackgirlburnout to be part of our upcoming Q&A episode.


    Support This Show

    If this episode held space for your grief, send it to someone who’s grieving too. Share it in a group chat, post a moment that resonated, or tag @blackgirlburnout on social. We’re not just sharing stories—we’re building a sanctuary. One rooted in healing, softness, and radical self-compassion.

    Remember: You’re not broken—just breaking open. Let grief grow you.

    📩 Subscribe to the newsletter: blackgirlburnout.com

    📱 Follow on socials: IG + TikTok: @blackgirlburnout

    🎥 Watch the episode on YouTube and show some love. Don’t let Kelley’s mama be the only one dropping hearts!

    STAY IN TOUCH

    If you’re looking for more ways to connect with the Black Girl Burnout community, we’ve got you covered:

    • Join our Substack family! Think of it as a modern-day online magazine (Tumblr-coded for the millennial hearts). We share weekly reflections, tips, tools, and deeper insights into each podcast episode—plus personal notes from Kelley’s life.
    • Become a paid Substack subscriber for just $8/month (about the cost of a fancy latte) and access exclusive content like digital tools, apps, and free resources that are valued far beyond that.
    • Work with Kelley directly:
    • If you’re in New York State, Kelley is also accepting short-term therapy clients with select insurance and private pay options. Sessions are designed to be focused and transformational within 90 days. Join the waitlist now.

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    Root Before You Rise: The Expansion You Don't See May 21, 2025
    Show notes

    In this heartfelt episode, Kelley invites us to redefine expansion. What if the quiet seasons in your life—the ones that feel like stillness or even failure—are actually seasons of rooting? Drawing wisdom from nature, Kelley shares that true bloom only comes when the roots are strong. With personal reflections, cultural critique, and deeply practical insights, this episode explores how Black women can opt out of performative growth and instead root into authenticity, softness, and sustainable joy.

    What You’ll Learn

    • Why rooting is essential before blooming—and how it can be a form of powerful expansion
    • How to recognize when you’re asking the wrong questions and reframe them for deeper alignment
    • Three practical ways to build roots in your daily life: community, movement, and money
    • Why performative success (aesthetic, financial, social) often leads to burnout
    • How Kelley is embodying rooted expansion in her own life and creative work

    Key Takeaways and Timestamps

    [00:00:22 – 00:02:09] Rooting is unseen but essential — Just like in nature, real growth happens beneath the surface. True expansion starts with internal clarity, not constant visibility.

    [00:05:00 – 00:09:00] Ask deeper questions — Instead of chasing aesthetics or metrics, ask what your soul is truly craving: peace, visibility, joy, or ease.

    [00:20:00 – 00:28:00] Live, don’t perform — Whether it’s friendships, fitness, or finances, choose presence over perfection and connection over curation.

    [00:18:37 – 00:37:18] Hold contradictions with grace — You can love who you are and still want more. Expansion doesn't have to cost your well-being.

    Support the Show

    If this episode touched something in you, share it with a friend, text it to a sister, or post a screenshot to social and tag @blackgirlburnout. We’re not just building a podcast—we’re creating a movement. One rooted in peace, softness, and collective bloom.

    You don’t need to perform your way into bloom. You only need to root.

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    STAY IN TOUCH

    If you’re looking for more ways to connect with the Black Girl Burnout community, we’ve got you covered:

    • Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @blackgirlburnout — Each platform offers something different, so come vibe with us where it feels right for you.
    • Join our Substack family! Think of it as a modern-day online magazine (Tumblr-coded for the millennial hearts). We share weekly reflections, tips, tools, and deeper insights into each podcast episode—plus personal notes from Kelley’s life.
    • Become a paid Substack subscriber for just $8/month (about the cost of a fancy latte) and access exclusive content like digital tools, apps, and free resources that are valued far beyond that.
    • Work with Kelley directly:
    • Book a 90-minute Clarity Catalyst Coaching Session — a deep-dive roadmap session to bring clarity and strategy to your next life move (not therapy, just powerful support).
    • If you’re in New York State, Kelley is also accepting short-term therapy clients with select insurance and private pay options. Sessions are designed to be focused and transformational within 90 days. Join the waitlist now.

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    Soft is the New Rich; Choosing Ease Over Exhaustion May 14, 2025
    Show notes

    In this soul-centered solo episode, Kelley Bonner returns to the mic with a personal and powerful reflection on the radical value of softness. She shares why she's shifting the podcast to a weekly cadence and how this decision reflects a deeper commitment to her values of rest, sustainability, and truth. As we move through seasons of blooming and expansion, Kelley invites you to reject hustle culture and embrace a new form of wealth—ease, softness, and alignment. Because softness isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom. And it might just be the richest thing you own.

    What You’ll Learn:

    • Why “soft is the new rich” is more than a mantra—it’s a movement
    • How Kelley is aligning her life and work with values of sustainability
    • The role of nervous system regulation in Black women’s wellness
    • Why expansion often means doing less, not more
    • A call to embrace your voice and show up unapologetically


    Key Takeaways & Timestamps:

    [00:01:00] – Softness Is the Currency of the Future

    Kelley introduces the theme of the episode—why softness is the “new rich”—and how it connects to nervous system regulation, healing, and sustainability for Black women.

    [00:11:00] – Softness Cannot Be Bought

    She unpacks how the aesthetics of success—money, body goals, relationships—are not what create real softness. Instead, she encourages listeners to reject performative growth and anchor into internal healing.

    [00:13:00] – The True Definition of Wealth

    Kelley redefines richness as being able to sit in your home and feel peace. She encourages listeners to set boundaries, name their preferences, and hold space for emotional safety.

    [00:24:45] – Three Ways to Build a Soft Life

    She shares three actionable tips:

    1. Romance the ordinary
    2. Protect your peace
    3. Walk your talk—live soft without performative pressure

    [00:35:00] – Reclaim Rest as Pleasure & Presence

    Kelley wraps with a powerful call to reject exhaustion and show up in softness—even if imperfectly. She names softness as sustainability, not weakness.


    Support the Show:

    If this podcast speaks to you, consider sharing it with a friend, leaving a 5-star review, or shouting us out on social media. Help amplify the message that Black women deserve softness, rest, and radical joy.

    Softness is your inheritance. Rest is your rebellion. And joy? That’s your revolution.

    DM us on Instagram and let us know—what are you choosing to take off your plate this season?


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    💬 STAY IN TOUCH

    If you’re looking for more ways to connect with the Black Girl Burnout community, we’ve got you covered:

    • Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @blackgirlburnout — Each platform offers something different, so come vibe with us where it feels right for you.
    • Join our Substack family! Think of it as a modern-day online magazine (Tumblr-coded for the millennial hearts). We share weekly reflections, tips, tools, and deeper insights into each podcast episode—plus personal notes from Kelley’s life.
    • Become a paid Substack subscriber for just $8/month (about the cost of a fancy latte) and access exclusive content like digital tools, apps, and free resources that are valued far beyond that.
    • Work with Kelley directly:
    • Book a 90-minute Clarity Catalyst Coaching Session — a deep-dive roadmap session to bring clarity and strategy to your next life move (not therapy, just powerful support).
    • If you’re in New York State, Kelley is also accepting short-term therapy clients with select insurance and private pay options. Sessions are designed to be focused and transformational within 90 days. Join the waitlist now.

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    Burn The Bucket List: Redefining Success on your Own Terms with Daria Burke May 07, 2025
    Show notes

    In this powerful episode, Kelley is joined by Daria Burke for a truth-filled, liberating conversation about breaking up with performative ambition and reclaiming what success feels like, rather than how it looks. Together, they explore how Black women can move beyond hustle culture, make room for joy, and embrace post-traumatic growth. This episode invites you to stop waiting for “later” and start living on your own terms now.


    What You’ll Learn:

    • Why it’s time to stop mistaking ambition for identity
    • The quiet danger of "performing wellness"
    • How to move from self-improvement to self-examination
    • The signs and power of post-traumatic growth
    • Why tending to your joy isn’t optional — it’s essential


    Key Takeaways & Timestamps:

    [06:10] – From Self-Improvement to Self-Examination

    Daria explains why self-improvement can become another form of hustle—and how self-examination invites softness, clarity, and truth.

    [14:50] – Burn the Bucket List

    This is the moment that names the episode: a rallying cry to abandon achievement checklists and start asking, “Does this feel good?”

    [21:00] – There Is No Later

    A mic-drop reminder that deferring joy is a trap. The life you want isn’t down the road—it’s in your daily decisions now.

    [25:00] – The Power of Post-Traumatic Growth

    Daria introduces PTG and unpacks how growth after hardship is not only possible but already happening for many Black women.

    [33:00] – Joy Is Not a Luxury, It’s Medicine

    A bold truth: chronic stress is harming us. Prioritizing joy, rest, and pleasure is not selfish—it’s survival.

    🔗 Connect with Daria Burke:

    • Instagram: @dariaburke
    • dariaburke.com
    • LinkedIn newsletter: The Power of Possibility
    • Buy her debut memoir, "Of My Own Making."


    CHECK OUT OUR PARTNERS:

    • Happy Mammoth and use my code BGB for a great deal: www.happymammoth.com
    • Revolve and use code BGB for a great deal: https://www.revolve.com/bgb

    

    💬 STAY IN TOUCH

    If you’re looking for more ways to connect with the Black Girl Burnout community, we’ve got you covered:

    • Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @blackgirlburnout — Each platform offers something different, so come vibe with us where it feels right for you.
    • Join our Substack family! Think of it as a modern-day online magazine (Tumblr-coded for the millennial hearts). We share weekly reflections, tips, tools, and deeper insights into each podcast episode—plus personal notes from Kelley’s life.
    • Become a paid Substack subscriber for just $8/month (about the cost of a fancy latte) and access exclusive content like digital tools, apps, and free resources that are valued far beyond that.
    • Work with Kelley directly:
    • Book a 90-minute Clarity Catalyst Coaching Session — a deep-dive roadmap session to bring clarity and strategy to your next life move (not therapy, just powerful support).
    • If you’re in New York State, Kelley is also accepting short-term therapy clients with select insurance and private pay options. Sessions are designed to be focused and transformational within 90 days. Join the waitlist now.


    What are you ready to burn from your bucket list? DM us on IG @blackgirlburnout or share your thoughts in the comments.


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