BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

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Latest Episodes:

Rejecting Perfection (...and the Tariffs) May 20, 2025

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This week your bffs talk about what they have learned from being in the Beyhive, the struggles that marginalized people have to ignore perfection and the impact it has on Black youth. We also talk about why Sofi has the WORST layout ever and why you too should be rejecting the tariffs.

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I Can't Charm a Robot! May 09, 2025

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This week your BFFs get into their tech bag and discuss how tech has changed their lives as they’ve grown up and the realness of Black Mirror (why it gotta be Black?!). We also discuss why we hate self check out.

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I Am Because We Are (Featuring Denali Joël) May 06, 2025

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This week the BFF's talk to the stylish and ever etherial Danali Joël about Black art, Black influence and why people need to keep their thoughts and opinions on religion to themselves. Amen?

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One, Four, ATE! (Featuring Star Amerasu) Apr 29, 2025

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This week your BFF's are joined by your favorite's fave Star Amerasu to talk being a digital girl in a digital world and why we all want to make space Gayle King & Katy Perry's permanent home.

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I Believe in Miracles! Apr 22, 2025

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This week your BFF's dive into a conversation about faith, spirituality, the easter bunny (we know we late) and yarmulkes. Grab you a cup of the blood of Christ before Joho drinks it all!

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She Done Already Done Had Herses! Apr 15, 2025

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This week, your BFF's talk Rupaul Drag Race Season 17, why drag is so important in this climate and who truly deserves to be in the top 4.

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And They Were Sisters Apr 08, 2025

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This week, Joho flips the script on Doctor Jon Paul, and puts them in the hot seat to talk alllll about their book, "Black, Fat, Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and Learning to Love Yourself." Also, Joho has some words for furniture makers!

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Joy Takes Time (Featuring Marie-Adélina AKA Loveable Trans Auntie) Mar 31, 2025

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This week your BFF's are joined by Marie-Adélina (Loveable Trans Auntie) to talk all things trans joy, visibility and why we need to uplift the trans community now more than ever. We also dabble into Jordan's Taco Bell obsession.

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Five G's Please! (Featuring Latrice Royale) Mar 25, 2025

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This week your BFF's are joined by the queen Goddess Latrice M*tha F*ckin' Royale - A house fave contestant of Rupaul's Drag Race and We're Here fame - to talk he legacy in drag, what it was like to be asked to write a foreword on a book and why the book is so important and needed now.

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Rewind: Dare to Be Outspoken Mar 18, 2025

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Originally released March 20, 2023.

This week we discuss what it means to be outspoken, how Jon loves a secret menu and why all debt should be forgiven.

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