BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

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Imma Do The Best I Can with What I GOT! Sep 29, 2026

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This week, your BFF’s talk about the things no one told them about adulting and where they currently are in life. They pose a question that many of us are still trying to figure out, W.T.F. and W.T.A.F.?

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The Revolution Will Be Hilarious (Featuring Nori Reed) Sep 22, 2026

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This week, your BFF's sit down with the hilarious and real comedian Nori Reed to discuss how and why comedy needs to address social truths in this moment and why there needs to be more representation for ugly people. We also look at the complexities of what's happening around the event folks can't stop talking about and why KFC is better than Popeyes.

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Thank You, Next! (Featuring Amber Cooper) Sep 15, 2026

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This week your BFF's sit down with Amber Cooper from the Match Group to discuss the one thing that has everyone stressed more than gas prices: DATING + RELATIONSHIPS. We also ask a very important question that so many of us wonder in every relationship we have - is every connection meant for us to learn something? We also discuss why the BLK app is where it's at!

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The Body is a Sacred Text (Featuring Rev Don Abram) Sep 08, 2026

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This week your BFF's are joined by Rev. Don Abram to reflect on navigating both the beauty (and the harm) of the Black Church. We dive into what it means to reconstruct faith beyond toxic theology and how (and why) being in community with other Black queer people should be viewed as a sacred space.

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Someone Close The Pearly Gates! Sep 01, 2026

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This week, your BFF’s process out loud what it’s been like to lose so many greats all at one time. We also talk about the ways they encouraged us and what type of legacy we want to leave behind when it’s our time to go to glory. 🙏🏾

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Rewind: Millennial Meltdown (Featuring Chris Rodgers) Aug 25, 2026

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This week your besties look back to when we were joined by the Kang of digital content - the one who keeps the content live, loud and in color, Chris Rodgers. On the show this week: a discussion about why we are sick and tired of being sick and tired as millennials. Chris also gives PayPal the stern talking too they deserve.

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Jingle All the Way (Featuring Romeo Bingham) Aug 18, 2026

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This week, the BFF's welcome viral creator Romeo Bingham to talk about the joy, labor, and pressure behind being an “overnight” moment. From the Dr Pepper jingle going national to the conditional care and scrutiny Black trans femmes face online, this we get into visibility, viral fame, pop culture, and the chaos unfolding everywhere else.

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I Am the Owner of This House! Aug 11, 2026

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This week the BFF's are doing a full episode of Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam. We talk about the things we love, the things people do that bring us joy, the things we can't STAND and the things we hope to never see or experience again. It's our house and we live here!

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The Re-Introduction of Me (Featuring Emma “Dilemma” Belizario) Aug 04, 2026

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This week we are joined by our favorite Goddess on the court, Emma "Dilemma" Belizario as we unpack the myths and misinformation shaping the conversation around trans athletes in sports. In our convo we move beyond headlines to explore what’s truly at stake for trans girls and women, why these narratives persist, and what trans athletes are actually asking for when they step onto the court. It’s a necessary conversation about equity, dignity, and why we need to protect all trans people's right to play.

We want to hear from you! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com.

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It's MY Meat! (Featuring Dominique Morgan) Jul 28, 2026

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This week on the show, we welcome back to the show our good Judy Dominque Morgan to talk hyper visibility and the ways it impacts Black trans people. We also discuss the ways we get used by our peers for clicks and how (and why) we are lost without a coin, NIECE!

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