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To Anyone Going Through a Break Up | BEYOND I DO PODCAST | S1E14 Jan 07, 2024

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BEYOND I DO, EPISODE FOURTEEN! Listen in as we tackle the often heart-wrenching journey of navigating breakups, a topic inspired by your questions. We get candid about the healthiest ways to deal with the end of a relationship, from setting essential boundaries to considering the potential of rekindling old flames. This episode isn't just about endings, but also about the growth and revelations that come from these transformative experiences.

Moving on, we explore the tricky terrain of relationship expectations and self-worth. The societal pressures to date someone who ticks all the 'ideal' boxes can be overwhelming, as Ashlee knows all too well. We delve into her personal anecdotes about how these unrealistic standards influenced her dating life and led to a profound reevaluation of what she truly seeks in a partner.

Lastly, we address insecurities and boundaries within relationships, sharing a raw and personal account of the challenges of dating as a pastor and the deep insecurities that followed a significant breakup.

Join us for a heart-to-heart on the many facets of love, identity, and partnership, with stories that affirm the unexpected blessings that await when we build relationships on a solid foundation.As always, don't forget to share your comments with us! --

Did you hear the news? We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett.

How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido

LA Dodger Controversy, Faith, and Leadership | BTL Podcast | S2E10 Jan 07, 2024

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Welcome to another compelling episode of Beyond the Letter. Join us as we sit down with Sean Fenner, a die-hard fourth-generation Dodgers fan from Long Beach, Samuel Rodriguez and Pastor Will Chung. Will Chung is the Lead Pastor of Beloved Church in Buena Park, CA and Samuel Rodriguez has led and trained hundreds of Youth via the organization Circuit Riders who also resides here in California.

We delve into the meaty topic of recent controversies involving the Dodgers, their decision to have trans nuns at their opening ceremony, and the subsequent return of their Christian Day. We pull apart these events, the backlash they received, and what it signifies about faith in the public sphere. This episode isn't just about baseball, though. We dig deeper into societal issues, particularly pertaining to how Christians can engage with these controversies while holding true to their beliefs. We recount our experiences with brands like Disney and Starbucks, and how we tread the delicate balance between our convictions and everyday life. We highlight the importance of open dialogue with family, especially around topics like the LGBTQ+ community. We also examine the pressure to succeed early on, the perils of social media, and the need to prioritize God's anointing over fame. Finally, we delve into leadership, humility, and the significance of empowering others.This conversation will surely leave you deep in thought and introspection. Don't forget to share your thoughts with us! -- Connect with Pastor Will Chung https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/?igshid=Y2I2MzMwZWM3ZA%3D%3D -- Connect with Pastor Sean Fenner https://www.instagram.com/seananthonyfenner?igshid=MTNiYzNiMzkwZA%3D%3D -- Connect with Samuel Rodriguez https://www.instagram.com/samuelmrod?igshid=MTNiYzNiMzkwZA%3D%3D -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @chelsiebaham https://www.instagram.com/chelsiebaham/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/

As a Christian, should we listen to secular music? | S2E9 Jan 07, 2024

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Ever wonder what goes on behind the scenes in creating an innovative stage and film experience? This episode will guide you through the creative process that went into birthing "Inside the Manger", a fresh take on the Christmas story going LIVE at Abundant Living Family Church, December 24th and 25th. Join us as we navigate the fascinating intersections of theology and filmmaking. Our conversation reveals how the synergy between Cory's filmmaking expertise and Pastor Adam's theological insights resulted in a deeply meaningful and accurate portrayal of iconic biblical events. We also dive into the evolution of worship music, its influences, the blending of secular tunes by Christian artists, and the challenges they face in the music industry. As we move forward, we reflect on the impact of parenting styles on children's exposure to different cultures and beliefs. We share personal stories and insights about the need for balance between protecting our children and allowing them room to explore. This episode is packed with enlightening discussions, personal revelations, and a unique look into the complexities of creative storytelling. Join us for this riveting journey! Don't forget to leave a comment or review! -- INSIDE THE MANGER (Trailer) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74MBgvxX7LY -- INSIDE THE MANGER (Showtimes) 1. SATURDAY, DECEMBER 23rd, 2023 ALFC RANCHO ONLY: 6:00PM 10900 Civic Center Drive Rancho Cucamonga, 91730 2. SUNDAY, DECEMBER 24th, 2023 ALFC RANCHO: 9:00AM +11:00M +1:00PM 10900 Civic Center Drive Rancho Cucamonga, 91730 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 24th, 2023 ALFC POMONA: 9:00AM + 11:00AM 490 E La Verne Ave, Pomona, CA 91767 -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4OvpFp9OB9_DgVdVVbXhFg Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyond.theletter/ Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/discover/beyond-the-letter -- Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below! We have a LIVE Q&A night in two locations: ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA - Rancho Campus (10900 Civic Center Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91730) Every 1st Wednesday of the month at 7:00PM - Pomona Campus (490 E. La Verne Ave. Pomona, CA 91767) Every 2nd Wednesday of the month at 7:00PM -- Get to know the team: @amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/ @verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/ @chelsiebaham https://www.instagram.com/chelsiebaham/ @nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/ @alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/

Sexual struggles in marriage, intimacy, infidelity, and accountability | BEYOND I DO PODCAST | S1E16 Jan 04, 2024

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BEYOND I DO, EPISODE 16! Have you ever eavesdropped on a heart-to-heart where the wisdom shared was so profound, you wished you could bottle it up? Pastor Aaron and his wife Erica join us for an intimate session where the secret ingredients of a resilient marriage are not just discussed, but served up with a side of humor and humanity. From Aaron's enlightening 'Daily Drip' podcast discussions to Erica's lively recounting of her multi-pronged career path, the duo along with your hosts, Adam and Ashlee, set the table for a feast of insights on the intertwining paths of faith and partnership. Marriages, like gardens, require nurturing through seasons of both sunshine and storm. We confront the emotional whirlwinds that often uproot relationships and delve into the importance of community and faith as both a balm and a beacon. The process of forgiveness is dissected like a rare specimen—revealing its transformative potential and the tough choices that may accompany it, from the heart-wrenching decisions about reconciliation to finding the strength to prioritize personal growth. By the episode's end, we're not just observers but active participants in a masterclass on love and commitment. This discussion reminds us that the journey of marriage is one of continuous learning, laughing, and, above all, listening—both to our partners and to the wisdom that lies within each shared experience. As always, don't forget to share your comments with us! -- Did you hear the news? We've entered into an exciting new partnership with renowned jeweler Erin Barnett in Los Angeles. This partnership perfectly aligns with our love for relationships and jewelry. Whether you're looking for a special gift, an engagement ring, or a wedding band, Erin has you covered. And as part of the Beyond I Do community, you get exclusive discounts and the opportunity for a private showroom experience. It's time to celebrate your love with exquisite jewelry from our partner, Erin Barnett. How to get the exclusive discount? SEND HIM A DM and tell him you are part of the BEYOND I DO family or mention Adam Mesa. https://www.instagram.com/by.barnett/?hl=en https://bybarnett.com -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- Connect with Pastor Aaron and Erica Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/?img_index=1 Erica Levy https://www.instagram.com/erica.levy_np/ Daily Drip IG: https://www.instagram.com/dailydrip.faith/ Daily Drip Youtube Channel: https://youtube.com/@DailyDripPodcast?si=1t3Seiz3ihcWRR0O Proverbs: 31 Daily Drips of Wisdom Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BW2KJN4G?ref_=cm_sw_r_ud_dp_Q13FB4JSBE538GQ73P9M -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== https://instagram.com/ashleemesa?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA== -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido

Single and Dating in 2023, Dating Apps, First Dates || BEYOND I DO || S1E13 Dec 14, 2023

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BEYOND I DO, EPISODE THIRTEEN! Feeling overwhelmed or confused by the modern dating world as a Christian? Well, you're not alone.

We've got Eric Bradley and Ali Elliott joining us for an authentic and light-hearted journey through today's dating scene. We laugh, we share, and we tackle everything from dating insecurities to setting boundaries, all while navigating this complex scene with faith as our compass.

Imagine a room where you can find humor and wisdom in abundance. As Eric and Ali share their anecdotes, we see the ups and downs of dating, the complexities of expressing oneself on dating apps, and the humor in our own insecurities. We explore crucial topics like the balance between masculine and feminine energy, the importance of clear communication, and the role of assertiveness in dating. But that's not all. Ali sheds light on the pressures of being a single woman in her 30s and the importance of not compromising on one's standards in the quest for love.

As we navigate through the world of dating and relationships, we discuss the many challenges we face, from the friend zone to the ticking biological clock.

Our hope is that you find comfort, encouragement, and maybe even a few laughs as we journey together through the highs and lows of Christian dating.

Join us for a conversation that is as entertaining as it is enlightening. As always, leave a comment, review and share your thoughts with us! How have your first dates been lately? What is it like dating in 2023 for you? -- BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo -- Connect with Ali Elliott https://www.instagram.com/alifrom_cali/ -- Connect with Eric Bradley https://www.instagram.com/ericbradley_/ -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa ⁠https://www.instagram.com/amesa/⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/⁠ -- Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.ido Tik Tok @beyond.ido

Parenting: Nurturing Individuality with Biblical Principles || BEYOND I DO || S1E12 Dec 10, 2023

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BEYOND I DO, EPISODE TWELVE!

How can we use biblical principles to guide our children without crushing their individuality? We sit down with Steve and Dolores Ibarra, who've mastered the art of raising kids in a faith-filled environment - their children, Sabrina and Gabriel, are passionately involved in the church and have been since their early days. In our candid conversation, the Ibarra's share their unique parenting style, highlighting the significance of community, accountability, and fostering a love for youth service.

We'll share how the Ibarra's balanced discipline and freedom, taking an active role in their children's lives without being overbearing. We talk about the influence of mission trips on youth development and look at how to effectively guide and nurture young minds. So whether you're a new parent, an experienced one, or just curious about the crossroads of faith and parenting, tune in for an enlightening conversation.

Tune in to gain valuable insights and inspiration for your own parenting journey.

As always, leave a comment, review and share your thoughts with us!
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BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE
https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do
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Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!
https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo
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Connect with Steve and Dolores
https://www.instagram.com/smybarra4/

https://www.instagram.com/_dolo_inez/
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Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa
https://www.instagram.com/amesa/
https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/

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Don't forget to stay connected with us:
Instagram @beyond.ido
Tik Tok @beyond.ido

Christian Nightclub. Good or bad? || S2E8 Dec 04, 2023

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Have you ever pondered the role of Christian nightclubs in forming a vibrant community? We sat down with our brother Will Chung, a church planter, Sanaz Mesa, Abundant Women's Director, and Jermain Baker, Creative Director to probe this question and more.
We weigh the potential benefits and drawbacks, and discuss how important it is to have a strategy for those who are attracted to this unique form of socializing.
Our chat then pivots to the challenges that young adults face in finding a church that resonates with them. Will shared his experiences in connecting with millennials and Gen Z through modern platforms such as Discord chats and dance workshops.
Finally, we ignite a conversation around the vision for a Christian club in Los Angeles, launching on New Year’s Eve. We connect with two individuals who share their divine inspiration behind the club, their visions and dreams about the space, and how they're dealing with the criticism they've faced.
This stimulating dialogue will assuredly stimulate, challenge, and uplift you in your spiritual journey.
Thank you for spending time with us! We hope you'll leave a review or comment so we can read about your personal experiences and perspective on the topics we discussed.
Let us know below if you'll be going out there on December 31st for New Years Eve!
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Christian Nightclub Event in LA - New Years Eve, December 31st
Video:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzutKGLrXE9/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Registration: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeV1FMED6m3eczM1NiOS0xIvllpFPPAEm_4PESoKTmGDVdzUQ/viewform
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Connect with Pastor Will Chung
https://www.instagram.com/willkchung/?igshid=Y2I2MzMwZWM3ZA%3D%3D
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Connect with Sanaz Mesa
https://www.instagram.com/sanazmesa/
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Don't forget to stay connected with us:
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Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below!
We have a LIVE Q&A night in two locations: ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA

Rancho Campus (10900 Civic Center Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91730) Every 1st Wednesday of the month at 7:00PM
Pomona Campus (490 E. La Verne Ave. Pomona, CA 91767) Every 2nd Wednesday of the month at 7:00PM

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Get to know some of the team:
@amesa https://www.instagram.com/amesa/
@verlonbakerofficial https://www.instagram.com/verlonbakerofficial/
@chelsiebaham https://www.instagram.com/chelsiebaham/
@nancysnavas https://www.instagram.com/nancysnavas/
@alizee.kayy https://www.instagram.com/alizee.kayy/

From the Streets of South Central LA to the Missionary Field || S2E7 Nov 27, 2023

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Brace yourself as we venture into a captivating conversation with Pastor La Crease Coleman, a first time guest to the podcast, but long time friend.
Pastor La Crease shares her personal life-changing story, growing up as a young woman from South Central LA who pivoted her life after a brush with death, her calling to become a missionary, and the undeniable impact of prayer on life choices.
We take a spiritual detour, comparing miraculous healings in different countries, and pondering on post-Christian society's influence and rationality. We also harbor discussions on spiritual oppression, possession, deliverance and their link to counseling, emphasizing the importance of discernment.
As we conclude this enlightening discussion, we reflect on spiritual awareness, its connection to the gospel, and its profound effects on issues such as addiction.
Thank you for spending time with us! We hope you'll leave a review or comment so we can read about your personal experiences and perspective on the topics we discussed.
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Connect with:
Pastor La Crease Coleman https://www.instagram.com/lacreasecoleman/
Pastor Aaron Levy https://www.instagram.com/_aaronlevy/?img_index=1
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Have a question? Submit it TODAY, by clicking the link below!
We have a LIVE Q&A night in two locations: ***SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE: https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondtheLetterQA

Rancho Campus (10900 Civic Center Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91730) Every 1st Wednesday of the month at 7:00PM
Pomona Campus (490 E. La Verne Ave. Pomona, CA 91767) Every 2nd Wednesday of the month at 7:00PM

Why Does Legal Marriage Matter || BEYOND I DO || S1E10 Nov 23, 2023

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BEYOND I DO, EPISODE TEN!
If you're new here: Welcome to BEYOND I DO podcast! We're happy you're here!
We are a branch of BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST. Our heart on Beyond I Do is to provide tools and resources to help you thrive in your marriage and relationships. Throughout these bite size episodes we'll answer Q&A's, have guests, and you'll hear Adam and Ashlee share their experience and expertise on what it takes to have Godly, healthy, and thriving connections.
Thank you for joining us on this journey and we look forward to the growth that's to come in your relationships!
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EPISODE 10:
Are you ready to challenge common misconceptions around marriage and relationships? Ready to talk about the challenges that opposite-sex friendships can impose on a romantic relationship? As well as discuss cohabitation and having children outside of wedlock?
We can't stress enough the blessings of adhering to God's models for relationships. We also unpack the subjects of submission and respect within marriage, focusing on mutual understanding and love. You'll hear our stories and gain insights on the fruit of commitment, the power of selflessness, and the beauty of godly relationships.
We hope that our episode offers you valuable insights into the complexities of relationships and inspires you to strive for a fulfilling, blessed union by following God's guidance.
Don't forget to leave a review and comment! We appreciate reading your own experience and thoughts.
If you have any additional questions about relationships, be sure to submit them below.
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If you have any additional questions about blended families or relationships in general, be sure to submit them below.
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Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!
https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo
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Connect with Adam Mesa
https://www.instagram.com/amesa/
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Connect with Ashlee Mesa
https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/
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Don't forget to stay connected with us:
Instagram @beyond.ido
Tik Tok @beyond.ido

Tips for a Healthy Sex Life in Marriage || BEYOND I DO || S1E9 Nov 16, 2023

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BEYOND I DO, EPISODE NINE!
If you're new here: Welcome to BEYOND I DO podcast! We're happy you're here!
We are a branch of BEYOND THE LETTER PODCAST. Our heart on Beyond I Do is to provide tools and resources to help you thrive in your marriage and relationships. Throughout these bite size episodes we'll answer Q&A's, have guests, and you'll hear Adam and Ashlee share their experience and expertise on what it takes to have Godly, healthy, and thriving connections.
Thank you for joining us on this journey and we look forward to the growth that's to come in your relationships!
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EPISODE 9:
Have you or someone you know ever experienced a sexless marriage? Ever wondered how to navigate the fiery pathways of intimacy in your marriage successfully?
We're ripping the band-aid off this often-taboo topic. Plenty of couples grapple with the question of who should initiate sex and how.
The key takeaway: Communication is paramount. Adam and Ashlee share their own experiences dealing with a sexless marriage, the temptations that could arise from it, and the real-life discipline that it requires to maintain your marriage. In the concluding parts of this episode, we reveal our secrets to a healthy and rhythmic sex life, the effects of denying your partner sex, and the importance of prioritizing intimacy in marriage. We also offer valuable advice on communication in relationships and discuss why it's important to have open and honest conversations without resorting to ultimatums.
Our goal is to help you understand that strong communication is the key to a successful relationship. We hope this episode leaves you with a renewed perspective on intimacy and communication in your marriage.
Don't forget to leave a review and comment! We appreciate reading your own experience and thoughts.
If you have any additional questions about relationships, be sure to submit them below.
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If you have any additional questions about blended families or relationships in general, be sure to submit them below.
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Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!
https://alfc.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo
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Connect with Adam Mesa
https://www.instagram.com/amesa/
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Connect with Ashlee Mesa
https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/
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Don't forget to stay connected with us:
Instagram @beyond.ido
Tik Tok @beyond.ido

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